Thank you for your insight. You described the history of the relationship between my husband and I. Leading and wearing the pants so to speek was a huge burden for me as a woman. I feel so relieved that I have learned that I should not be expected to lead! Phew.
I straight up asked if we were going to meet up or send messages back and forth until the end of time and he gave a value, «Yeah, Maybe this weekend, Im just going with the flow» i blocked immidiatly. Done
Made the mistake of being in an 8 yr relationship with a go with the flow man. I broke up with him last December, and I'm trying to heal myself from all this.
I straight up asked if we were going to meet up or send messages back and forth until the end of time and he gave a vague, «Yeah, Maybe this weekend, Im just going with the flow» i blocked immidiatly. Done
If you say you want to "go with the flow" or "see where it goes", I just assume you don't know where you're going or what you want, so why would I want to involve myself in that confusion?
That’s masculine energy. Not man. As in lots of women are the ones with the masculine energy that lead that need to lead are made to lead built to lead. Lots of men have the go with the flow energy which is the feminine energy. They need to be led need to be allowed to just be they are good at keeping the fort down. Does not have to be a woman to do that. They are men just fine, but with more of the feminine energy (or what we in society have chosen to call the feminine energy. In fact it is just a type of energy that’s it). To expect all men to be a certain way or all women to be a certain way and all relationships to be a certain way IS the mistake. The right way is, KNOW YOUR OWN ENERGY. And then express that. The complimentary energy will automatically get attracted to you at that point.
Years of therapy in 3 minutes thank you 😢
The amount of anger I have for allowing myself to be with such a man… Never again!
Love give yourself grace. It is a learning process ✨️
@@liftedenergy3693 Thank you so much for your kind comment! Truly needed that. Blessings to you!
@Joy_M507 you're welcome. It is not easy, but it is worth it. You deserve to forgive yourself.
Well-said!!
I have learned my lesson on "going with the flow".
Thank you for your insight. You described the history of the relationship between my husband and I. Leading and wearing the pants so to speek was a huge burden for me as a woman. I feel so relieved that I have learned that I should not be expected to lead! Phew.
I straight up asked if we were going to meet up or send messages back and forth until the end of time and he gave a value, «Yeah, Maybe this weekend, Im just going with the flow» i blocked immidiatly. Done
I hear no lies. Thank you sir! 😊
Thank you for this
Truer words have not been spoken!
Made the mistake of being in an 8 yr relationship with a go with the flow man. I broke up with him last December, and I'm trying to heal myself from all this.
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I straight up asked if we were going to meet up or send messages back and forth until the end of time and he gave a vague, «Yeah, Maybe this weekend, Im just going with the flow» i blocked immidiatly. Done
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If you say you want to "go with the flow" or "see where it goes", I just assume you don't know where you're going or what you want, so why would I want to involve myself in that confusion?
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Does this apply with just friendships aswel?
So he is low value man ?
That’s masculine energy. Not man.
As in lots of women are the ones with the masculine energy that lead that need to lead are made to lead built to lead.
Lots of men have the go with the flow energy which is the feminine energy. They need to be led need to be allowed to just be they are good at keeping the fort down. Does not have to be a woman to do that. They are men just fine, but with more of the feminine energy (or what we in society have chosen to call the feminine energy. In fact it is just a type of energy that’s it).
To expect all men to be a certain way or all women to be a certain way and all relationships to be a certain way IS the mistake.
The right way is, KNOW YOUR OWN ENERGY. And then express that. The complimentary energy will automatically get attracted to you at that point.