My Narc came home and told me he did not want me or my daughter anymore. He wanted to come and go as he pleased. I took my ring off and set his a$$ free. Once I mentioned we couldn’t be friends anymore he became angry. He couldn’t handle me because I held him accountable and I made him stand on his word. I wish I knew about narcissistic behavior 12 yrs ago because it would’ve saved me a lot of heartache and pain😔
I relate to your Heartbreaking share, it's been 12 years for me as well, he left May 2023 to go live with his mistress coworker. He tried the whole "let's be friends shit" I turned that down! 10 months later, the divorce still isn't finalized. These Narcissist are cowards 😈
Awesome you had the fortitude!! I too wish I knew about narcissistic behaviors when I first got married. My husband love bombed me for 5 year (engaged after 3) He totally slipped his mask within 2 months of getting married. Unfortunately because of my commitment to my vows I assumed it was just stress or a test of the for better or for worse. If I knew this I would have packed and put my stuff in storage ir sold most of my belongings, slept on my mom's couch and made arrangements to move away.
My husband always threatened divorce at any little disagreement. He tried to reconcile, but I had no desire. 2 years later his wish has been granted! I congratulated him. He now sees he spoke it all into existence. I am rid of the burden of upholding vows with him. I believe blessings will flow now that we are no longer legally obligated to each other. & yes, I have a child support order. Like you said, karma is coming. And he had the nerve to be a fake Bible thumper & announcing how he is a chosen one. Very much delusional, hiding behind the Bible
Thank you for your honesty! My husband surprised me by announcing it to the kids after threatening me several times with divorce when he couldn’t get his way. I filed and now he won’t leave or corporate with the divorce proceedings. He acts like nothing is happening and we’re one big happy family , until he gets something else from the courts that reminds him that I haven’t changed my mind. It’s frustrating and weird, but I’m not backing down.
I finally divorced my husband after 20 years. I hate that I waited that long but I had no idea he was a narcissist, never used the term until ppl started calling President Trump one so I began to look into it. I realized that my ex had those same characteristics. He's a covert narc so he had the Dr. Jekyll Mr Hyde syndrome. I should have left 15 years ago but I'm Free now! Me and my 3 adult children are in therapy and going contact is best.
Was in EXACTLY SAME SITUATION, Was married to a narcissist for 28yrs and didn't know about NPD it's my doctor said at the time that he wasn't able to love ANYONE and advised me to NOT to go back after he was caught out in one of his affairs, now divorced and live and could write a book on NPD, they don't change they get worse with age, God bless you and your family.
Oh my goodness I used to call my husband Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde too. We got married I'm 2002 and I had never heard about Narcs. He love bombed me for 5 years until after the wedding. I could have saved myself and my kids much heartache had I known this.
My situation is I’m divorcing the Narc. And when the paperwork is signed it’s a celebration for me because I was at my lowest place married to him. I’m his 4th wife, he’s used to it. It’s a game to him, me divorcing him made him angry because I come to find out he was planning to leave me when he got a new supply. I prayed so much for answers and got them last year. It validated that I wasn’t crazy or overthinking things. Great live Leon.
@@leonrwalkerjr it took something Serious to happen for me to leave and finally file. I mentioned divorced throughout the marriage but I just couldn’t detach myself from him. Then he kept mentioning a baby and we had a child (anchoring), the stringing me along, not knowing behind my back there were women. Also, using my PTSD as the blame for our failed marriage. 6 months we were down the isle. I never move fast. He’s already started dating #5 and the process isn’t even over. It’s a pattern. The poking and lying, making me feel like it was all my fault even when he was inappropriate with women. Even with evidence. We appreciate those of you that take accountability, are aware, and provide knowledge. At times I questioned everything. Separated I still have days I question things. I became mean and that’s not like me, my mom was the first to notice the difference in me when she visited. Thanks CMC, NCC here.
Yes he showed up at my place after we separated hounding me about how I need to be the one to file for divorce because he refuses to do it because it wasn’t his idea, wasn’t what he wanted. But he didn’t mind keeping me up all night telling me how much he doesn’t want to be with me and how much no other man will want me and in the same breathe hounding me and being jealous of other men that he supposedly caught checking me out. Then accusing me of being pregnant by someone else while we’re still married but separated (wasn’t even pregnant or seeing anyone). Him accusing me means he probably got somebody pregnant. Then had a fit and freaked out when I actually filed for divorce and asked me why I was coming to him with all this negativity. Just all over the place.
He asked for a divorce, when I figured him out he’s a covert narc, so I gradually emotionally detached him, now he wants me back. The moment he asked for a divorce, he yelled like you just did in the video. Thank you very much for explaining how they think. It’s very helpful.
This was so good, I had to listen twice! He said he didn't want to be married anymore, never said divorce, but I knew he was a liar and unfaithful in our short marriage. I left and then he wouldn't file for divorce! I had to do it all myself and then I went no contact. I will never be treated so badly ever again in my life. I did nothing but care and love and be loyal and faithful. He wanted to be in the streets at 50 years old, hang out with drunks and act like a teenager. Next! This was really insightful. Thank you for this message. This made me emotional Leon!
Wow, Kim. Thank you for watching. I know exactly what you are saying and what you went through. I took my wife through the same thing. Your story is deep!!! The streets is nowhere to be, when you have a family. I chose wrong as well😢
@@leonrwalkerjr Leon- thanks so much! Your videos are so inspiring. It’s really hurtful, but we do move on because like you said we have those genuine qualities about us that makes us strong and my faith has helped me so much in the process. Do you think he will regret it one day looking back?
Leon, thank you! Not only was my ex-husband for the streets, and the women he brought a baby into the marriage, and wanted the divorce immediately! I did not find out about the baby through him! His girlfriend called me and told me about the baby and the baby mama! That’s correct the girlfriend and baby mama were two different females! I found out about the baby after the divorce! Our divorce was final in August his child was born in October! Your videos do help tremendously, thank you!
Thank you my ex husband left me for his girlfriend. Yes my ex husband family had the same cheating and lying ways. It definitely seems like he is having fun with girlfriend.
I am working towards NOT ‘being there’ anymore. My heart and soul have already checked out….just working towards my physical body joining them. Narcissists shouldn’t take good people for granted….assuming that they ‘will always be there’. We all have a limit. I’ve hit mine. Life is too short, and I am physically reaching my years. Time for me to have some ‘quality’ of life before I die. I have wasted too much time, and life, on people whose only joy in life is too cause me misery. What a miserable excuse for a human. I wasn’t aware of all of this ‘narcissist’ stuff just a few short years ago. I was always guilted into forgiving….turning the other cheek….and all of that. These things were twisted in their favor, and used against me. No more. I can forgive, but I NEED to get away! I need to see if there are any real, kind humans left out there….or does everyone have an agenda, an angle?
Thank you. I know people don’t play about this stuff and they want the deep truth, especially woman since there are more men than women that are narcissistic. I appreciate that 🙏🏾💯🙌🏾❤️
The dysfunctional behaviour is embedded in these people.,,, Thank you for your honesty. Much appreciated. But we know … deep down we know that’s why we All leave eventually. Thank God . 🙏🏿
A man who always thinks he’s 18. Don’t want to grow up. And don’t want the responsibility. Likes the dating part, likes the sex. But never commit…..always on the go, places to places. Person to person. Sometimes always in Dept cause they want to pretend to be who they are not.Sad.
Leon, why do they say they want a divorce and when you comply, go no contact and serve them divorce papers, the narcissist wont sign the papers. He just keeps calling me and my family yet I refuse to talk or allow him access to the children.
My stbxh narc filed for divorce on our 9 year wedding anniversary date, 12/30/22. I caught him, on 12/12/22, cheating for the 4th time, while going through marriage counseling (we started marriage counseling after the 3rd time I caught him cheating). He retained a lawyer on 12/14/22. He said,"Since you said you were going to file for divorce, I got an attorney and filed."🤷♀️🤦♀️
This situation is so damn sad and to see that he's now using our older Son to get back at Me is... OMG! I can't find the words, the pay back or whatever it is, is NOT coming fast enough! Why do we have to continue dealing with this inhumane being!? He wasn't only sleeping around with Women, he was sleeping with men too... I'm so over this twisted mind manipulating game!!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!
He underestimated me. After 8 months, and once I "gently" started bringing questions, I got an answer. "You are too intense". HA HA HA But he still stayed. I thought for sure he would leave. I was not being mean but it had been long enough and so I started asked questions and wanting to "know more" about him, his life, ect. After all it was him who said "communication is so important".
Wow, Leon this is what I’m going through right now. 11 years married with 3 children. I decided to pull my energy away but it can be a bit challenging for me
I simply love your videos and your honesty!❤ Recently discovered you on youtube, as I am going through my divorce with my narcisist, and i think your videos are the most insightful when it comes to NPD. My soon ex-husband didn't ask for the divorce verbally, but instead he did it through his horrible behaviour, having a double life for the last 2 years, and not having a tiny bit of remorse about it! Every time we were having a confrontation because i caught him lying, he would say something like "I don't know how to handle this marriage, i feel like i need to be lonely, to fix myself!" Playing also the victim, because he was going to therapy...When he was actually telling me "i want out, so i can be with the other one, which probably doesn't ask for too much anyway so i can still have my freedom!"🙄
Mine didn’t ask for a divorce- he abandoned his family and moved states with his mistress and kids. He divorced me without my knowing- he is such a coward. I wish him well- life goes on.
So sorry. At one time I was so messed up in the head from all the abuse I thought the same thing. One day I woke up and realized there was no particular reason for me to keep putting up with that. He wasn’t even the bread winner. So I wasn’t financially reliant on him. In the end I was because I stopped working during the pandemic and of course the abuse got worse but I picked right back up and found another job even better than I had before. Pray about it for real because I did and the way things worked out seamlessly and at the perfect time I know it had to be God. You can do it too.
I keep replaying this. I’m having a hard time right now my husband discarded me and my baby - he’s 8 months old right now. My husband cheated on me with his ex who is a stripper, took everything, left us with nothing and is back with his baby mamas living with her in a house that was for our family. This video really really has helped me and is helping me thank you for your channel.
Woooow!!! That’s deep!! Just saw this comment come in and i had to respond. Darn, I know that’s hurtful!!! I can tell you now have strength to take it in and handle it❤️🙏🏾💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m going through this exact thing right now with my spouse.after 20 years of marriage,he decided he want a divorce when he’s the one who has wronged me..cheated,lied,in the streets,manipulated everything..and I held him accountable and he didn’t like that or want a God fearing woman
Exactly like that thought process confounds me!???? They don’t want us, treat us like trash yet somehow we will still want to be with them??? The mental gymnastics you have to have to think this way…..
He wrote out a divorce decree and wanted me to sign it...of course leaving me nothing...I laughed at him and walked away. Finally escaping and separated as I know he never really loved me and I will never trust him again. Now that I'm gone he will not loose me from the marriage..stalking and continually tryin to get back into my life??? I'm just done...and there isn't anything that's going to change that.
You truly are amazing for what you’re doing even down to how you present the videos and small things like “I” statements.. as someone who struggles to move on without closer these videos make me feel like I’m receiving an actual apology or explanation from my previous abuser. In a weird mental way it’s comforting and freeing. Thank you for counseling both the narc and the victim!
Thank you so much you have helped me so much with all of this !! An I’m glad GOD step in a changed you and you have healed your wounds that is what we all need to do first.. I had to dig really deep and not even know that I had childhood wounds so 🙏
He filed for divorce and then would not comply with what was required. Still stalking and coming around after 5 years. It was final nov 22. I guess he though I was going to argue but I contested due to his cheating with plenty of receipts. He agreed to everything for the sake of going to trial. Why is he still coming around I don’t know.
Same thing I'm going through, he filed 10 months ago but he's not doing the necessary paperwork yet hes been shacked up with his bimbo coworker the entire time
He always threatens divorce, to leave to go, eventually one day I just packed up all my stuff and he wanted to discard so he throws all my stuff at the doorway! Pathetic malignant narcissist it’s a disgrace! He claimed son taxes and then decided he not gunna show up for him and or pay his school tuition.
We aren’t married he was my bf and treated me like he didn’t care didn’t want me or to care for our daughter now he’s being the victim acting like I pushed me away and hurt my own feelings after being ignored isolated from his friends cheated on etc like boy bye go talk to them enablers I’m done leave me alone
l wish l knew these things, back in the days. Question: l heard you say a person needs therapy, but is this personality, like a drug addicts addiction? l hope you are truly delivered from "narcissim". Congratulations😊
Yea well my husband doesn’t want a divorce. He wants to keep me stuck. Our relationship is built on hurting each other . He goes off then I go off. It’s back and forth. It’s a waste of time.
I’m an empath but seek narc women for the cheap easy access. There’s really nothing in it to be accountable to females when you’re built for many sesually (had to purposefully spell that wrong or the communists won’t let me post)
He told me I was “too game conscious” meaning I knew the game too well. He would ask “how did you always know” and I replied “God”.
Amen!
Oh shit lol
Well no guy wants to be monogamous if women want to be I have no issue with it but why insist on imposing that on someone else
The SHUTDOWN with those words, wow!!
Spot on! Mine broke down the day our divorce was final. I couldn’t feel sorry for him. He kept mentioning divorce so I put it in motion.
My Narc came home and told me he did not want me or my daughter anymore. He wanted to come and go as he pleased. I took my ring off and set his a$$ free. Once I mentioned we couldn’t be friends anymore he became angry. He couldn’t handle me because I held him accountable and I made him stand on his word. I wish I knew about narcissistic behavior 12 yrs ago because it would’ve saved me a lot of heartache and pain😔
You are so strong! He was trying to keep access to you and make you the side chick.
Facts
I relate to your Heartbreaking share, it's been 12 years for me as well, he left May 2023 to go live with his mistress coworker. He tried the whole "let's be friends shit" I turned that down! 10 months later, the divorce still isn't finalized. These Narcissist are cowards 😈
Awesome you had the fortitude!! I too wish I knew about narcissistic behaviors when I first got married. My husband love bombed me for 5 year (engaged after 3) He totally slipped his mask within 2 months of getting married. Unfortunately because of my commitment to my vows I assumed it was just stress or a test of the for better or for worse. If I knew this I would have packed and put my stuff in storage ir sold most of my belongings, slept on my mom's couch and made arrangements to move away.
My husband always threatened divorce at any little disagreement. He tried to reconcile, but I had no desire. 2 years later his wish has been granted! I congratulated him. He now sees he spoke it all into existence. I am rid of the burden of upholding vows with him. I believe blessings will flow now that we are no longer legally obligated to each other. & yes, I have a child support order. Like you said, karma is coming. And he had the nerve to be a fake Bible thumper & announcing how he is a chosen one. Very much delusional, hiding behind the Bible
Thank you for your honesty! My husband surprised me by announcing it to the kids after threatening me several times with divorce when he couldn’t get his way. I filed and now he won’t leave or corporate with the divorce proceedings. He acts like nothing is happening and we’re one big happy family , until he gets something else from the courts that reminds him that I haven’t changed my mind. It’s frustrating and weird, but I’m not backing down.
He’s really afraid now and will start acting out. Keep your strength and just be careful.
I will. Thank you.
🙏🏾🙏🏾
I finally divorced my husband after 20 years. I hate that I waited that long but I had no idea he was a narcissist, never used the term until ppl started calling President Trump one so I began to look into it. I realized that my ex had those same characteristics. He's a covert narc so he had the Dr. Jekyll Mr Hyde syndrome. I should have left 15 years ago but I'm Free now! Me and my 3 adult children are in therapy and going contact is best.
Was in EXACTLY SAME SITUATION, Was married to a narcissist for 28yrs and didn't know about NPD it's my doctor said at the time that he wasn't able to love ANYONE and advised me to NOT to go back after he was caught out in one of his affairs, now divorced and live and could write a book on NPD, they don't change they get worse with age, God bless you and your family.
Oh my goodness I used to call my husband Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde too. We got married I'm 2002 and I had never heard about Narcs. He love bombed me for 5 years until after the wedding. I could have saved myself and my kids much heartache had I known this.
My situation is I’m divorcing the Narc. And when the paperwork is signed it’s a celebration for me because I was at my lowest place married to him. I’m his 4th wife, he’s used to it. It’s a game to him, me divorcing him made him angry because I come to find out he was planning to leave me when he got a new supply. I prayed so much for answers and got them last year. It validated that I wasn’t crazy or overthinking things. Great live Leon.
Wow! You got ahead of the game🙏🏾🙏🏾💯💯
@@leonrwalkerjr it took something Serious to happen for me to leave and finally file. I mentioned divorced throughout the marriage but I just couldn’t detach myself from him. Then he kept mentioning a baby and we had a child (anchoring), the stringing me along, not knowing behind my back there were women. Also, using my PTSD as the blame for our failed marriage. 6 months we were down the isle. I never move fast. He’s already started dating #5 and the process isn’t even over. It’s a pattern. The poking and lying, making me feel like it was all my fault even when he was inappropriate with women. Even with evidence. We appreciate those of you that take accountability, are aware, and provide knowledge. At times I questioned everything. Separated I still have days I question things. I became mean and that’s not like me, my mom was the first to notice the difference in me when she visited. Thanks CMC, NCC here.
@@cola_314 and I understand all of that. You’re good now!!
Yes he showed up at my place after we separated hounding me about how I need to be the one to file for divorce because he refuses to do it because it wasn’t his idea, wasn’t what he wanted. But he didn’t mind keeping me up all night telling me how much he doesn’t want to be with me and how much no other man will want me and in the same breathe hounding me and being jealous of other men that he supposedly caught checking me out. Then accusing me of being pregnant by someone else while we’re still married but separated (wasn’t even pregnant or seeing anyone). Him accusing me means he probably got somebody pregnant. Then had a fit and freaked out when I actually filed for divorce and asked me why I was coming to him with all this negativity. Just all over the place.
He asked for a divorce, when I figured him out he’s a covert narc, so I gradually emotionally detached him, now he wants me back. The moment he asked for a divorce, he yelled like you just did in the video. Thank you very much for explaining how they think. It’s very helpful.
Wow!! You’re welcome. This was who I was and what I did, then got scared!!!
Girl run for ur life I'm serious
@@shirleydaniels9310 we’re separated and I will divorce him ASAP.
This was so good, I had to listen twice! He said he didn't want to be married anymore, never said divorce, but I knew he was a liar and unfaithful in our short marriage. I left and then he wouldn't file for divorce! I had to do it all myself and then I went no contact. I will never be treated so badly ever again in my life. I did nothing but care and love and be loyal and faithful. He wanted to be in the streets at 50 years old, hang out with drunks and act like a teenager. Next! This was really insightful. Thank you for this message. This made me emotional Leon!
Wow, Kim. Thank you for watching. I know exactly what you are saying and what you went through. I took my wife through the same thing. Your story is deep!!! The streets is nowhere to be, when you have a family. I chose wrong as well😢
Isn’t it sad. Mine is 59 and the same way. He’ll never change. The streets can have his ass. I’m happy you got out.
Same thing with my husband My husband is a Narcissist Jezebel spirit to.
@@leonrwalkerjr Leon- thanks so much! Your videos are so inspiring. It’s really hurtful, but we do move on because like you said we have those genuine qualities about us that makes us strong and my faith has helped me so much in the process. Do you think he will regret it one day looking back?
@@kimberlyfloyd1009 A big YES he will! It is called KARMA! Wishing you all the best darling. God bless you🤲
Leon, thank you! Not only was my ex-husband for the streets, and the women he brought a baby into the marriage, and wanted the divorce immediately! I did not find out about the baby through him! His girlfriend called me and told me about the baby and the baby mama! That’s correct the girlfriend and baby mama were two different females! I found out about the baby after the divorce! Our divorce was final in August his child was born in October! Your videos do help tremendously, thank you!
Thank you my ex husband left me for his girlfriend. Yes my ex husband family had the same cheating and lying ways. It definitely seems like he is having fun with girlfriend.
Yep, like groomed by everyone. The fun won’t last though
The longer your videos the better Leon! we appreciate all that you share, it helps us learn more about the disorder and what we are dealing with!
Thank you for that. I appreciate your words. That really helps me out. I got you 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Agree I love a long message 🙌🏻🙏🏻
Kids see and hear everything
I am working towards NOT ‘being there’ anymore. My heart and soul have already checked out….just working towards my physical body joining them.
Narcissists shouldn’t take good people for granted….assuming that they ‘will always be there’. We all have a limit. I’ve hit mine.
Life is too short, and I am physically reaching my years. Time for me to have some ‘quality’ of life before I die. I have wasted too much time, and life, on people whose only joy in life is too cause me misery. What a miserable excuse for a human.
I wasn’t aware of all of this ‘narcissist’ stuff just a few short years ago. I was always guilted into forgiving….turning the other cheek….and all of that. These things were twisted in their favor, and used against me. No more. I can forgive, but I NEED to get away!
I need to see if there are any real, kind humans left out there….or does everyone have an agenda, an angle?
Leon I love how you always keep it real! You do not sugarcoat
Thank you. I know people don’t play about this stuff and they want the deep truth, especially woman since there are more men than women that are narcissistic. I appreciate that 🙏🏾💯🙌🏾❤️
The dysfunctional behaviour is embedded in these people.,,, Thank you for your honesty. Much appreciated. But we know … deep down we know that’s why we All leave eventually. Thank God . 🙏🏿
Thank God I’m Free!!!! THANK YOU GOD!!🙏🏿Everyday I Thank you God!! 🙏🏿. I owe so much to God. In Jesus I trust 🙏🏿Amen..
Thank you for sharing and the generational pass down. His mother told me his father did the same things to her.
Wow!!!! You’re welcome. Yep, it is real!!!!
A man who always thinks he’s 18. Don’t want to grow up. And don’t want the responsibility. Likes the dating part, likes the sex. But never commit…..always on the go, places to places. Person to person. Sometimes always in Dept cause they want to pretend to be who they are not.Sad.
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This is one of your best videos speaks to my 30 year marriage
Thank you. I appreciate that
Leon, why do they say they want a divorce and when you comply, go no contact and serve them divorce papers, the narcissist wont sign the papers. He just keeps calling me and my family yet I refuse to talk or allow him access to the children.
They never think you have the power to just do it!!!!!
This was literally my dad when he left and divorced my mom.
Thank you so much. Many have endured abuse & it's good to understand the other side of it.
Much Appreciation 💞
You’re welcome. I agree with you too
My stbxh narc filed for divorce on our 9 year wedding anniversary date, 12/30/22. I caught him, on 12/12/22, cheating for the 4th time, while going through marriage counseling (we started marriage counseling after the 3rd time I caught him cheating). He retained a lawyer on 12/14/22. He said,"Since you said you were going to file for divorce, I got an attorney and filed."🤷♀️🤦♀️
Not surprised, sadly!!!! He had to win by any means necessary
This situation is so damn sad and to see that he's now using our older Son to get back at Me is... OMG! I can't find the words, the pay back or whatever it is, is NOT coming fast enough! Why do we have to continue dealing with this inhumane being!? He wasn't only sleeping around with Women, he was sleeping with men too... I'm so over this twisted mind manipulating game!!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!!
Mines too
I feel you my looser was sleeping with both to.he though I was dumb and didn't no a women always no.thank God for putting this in my spirit ❤❤❤😊👐🙌🏽👏🙏🏼
He underestimated me. After 8 months, and once I "gently" started bringing questions, I got an answer. "You are too intense". HA HA HA But he still stayed. I thought for sure he would leave. I was not being mean but it had been long enough and so I started asked questions and wanting to "know more" about him, his life, ect. After all it was him who said "communication is so important".
Wow and once you communicated-he wasn’t ready. Sounds like how I was.
Wow, Leon this is what I’m going through right now. 11 years married with 3 children. I decided to pull my energy away but it can be a bit challenging for me
i told my ex before i discarded, you aint a 9-5 guy, you still for the streets, he went to prison shortly after ...for murder
I simply love your videos and your honesty!❤ Recently discovered you on youtube, as I am going through my divorce with my narcisist, and i think your videos are the most insightful when it comes to NPD.
My soon ex-husband didn't ask for the divorce verbally, but instead he did it through his horrible behaviour, having a double life for the last 2 years, and not having a tiny bit of remorse about it! Every time we were having a confrontation because i caught him lying, he would say something like "I don't know how to handle this marriage, i feel like i need to be lonely, to fix myself!" Playing also the victim, because he was going to therapy...When he was actually telling me "i want out, so i can be with the other one, which probably doesn't ask for too much anyway so i can still have my freedom!"🙄
Well done Leon. Very honest and sincere explanation. And no holding back. And lots of details. Very empowering. Again well done Leon. Thank you.
Thank you. I know this was a long one, but I had lots to say. I appreciate you🙏🏾🙌🏾
Mine didn’t ask for a divorce- he abandoned his family and moved states with his mistress and kids. He divorced me without my knowing- he is such a coward. I wish him well- life goes on.
I pray for a way out!! But I can’t do it. I need God or the Devil to make them walk away from me. Please pray for me. Thank you.
You can and will do it. Prayers for sure
So sorry. At one time I was so messed up in the head from all the abuse I thought the same thing. One day I woke up and realized there was no particular reason for me to keep putting up with that. He wasn’t even the bread winner. So I wasn’t financially reliant on him. In the end I was because I stopped working during the pandemic and of course the abuse got worse but I picked right back up and found another job even better than I had before. Pray about it for real because I did and the way things worked out seamlessly and at the perfect time I know it had to be God. You can do it too.
I keep replaying this. I’m having a hard time right now my husband discarded me and my baby - he’s 8 months old right now. My husband cheated on me with his ex who is a stripper, took everything, left us with nothing and is back with his baby mamas living with her in a house that was for our family. This video really really has helped me and is helping me thank you for your channel.
Woooow!!! That’s deep!! Just saw this comment come in and i had to respond. Darn, I know that’s hurtful!!! I can tell you now have strength to take it in and handle it❤️🙏🏾💯💯💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
@Shantellee Aponte, I feel your pain 💯 %...praying for you and your precious baby. ❤🌹🙏🏿
On the other side of this is peace. It feels good. Don’t give up. Keep going for you and your child. God sees you and he will take care of you.
Understanding is the best thing in the world....thank you Leon.
Two Hundred YEARS
I’m going through this exact thing right now with my spouse.after 20 years of marriage,he decided he want a divorce when he’s the one who has wronged me..cheated,lied,in the streets,manipulated everything..and I held him accountable and he didn’t like that or want a God fearing woman
Thanks for being honest 🙏🏽 your self awareness is 💯👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 keep up the good work!!
Thank you. I appreciate that
“You’re going to take us back”. Yikes swing and a miss, nice try narcissist ex 🤣
Exactly like that thought process confounds me!???? They don’t want us, treat us like trash yet somehow we will still want to be with them??? The mental gymnastics you have to have to think this way…..
Please keep sharing this information. Life changing
I love it when you do longer videos!! I wish you could speak on these things longer! Thank you!
A long video is great when you jump right into it and "say something!" You're the greatest when it comes to delivery! You're #1 Leon❗👍🏾 💥💯
I LOVE your honesty. It is SO eye opening!!! Thank you so much.
Leon you told the 💯 truth on this! 💯💯💯💯💯! ❤👏🏽
Yessssssssssssssss this how they do it 😢😢😢 many hearts got broken 😞 BUT I CAN SAY Awesome 👏 work
He wrote out a divorce decree and wanted me to sign it...of course leaving me nothing...I laughed at him and walked away. Finally escaping and separated as I know he never really loved me and I will never trust him again. Now that I'm gone he will not loose me from the marriage..stalking and continually tryin to get back into my life??? I'm just done...and there isn't anything that's going to change that.
Well why won’t my wife sign the paperwork? She refuses 🤦🏾♀️ even had her NS call me about it 🤷🏾♀️
You truly are amazing for what you’re doing even down to how you present the videos and small things like “I” statements.. as someone who struggles to move on without closer these videos make me feel like I’m receiving an actual apology or explanation from my previous abuser. In a weird mental way it’s comforting and freeing. Thank you for counseling both the narc and the victim!
Cuzz said he wanted to be for the streets 😂😂😂😂
Good message
Thank you so much you have helped me so much with all of this !! An I’m glad GOD step in a changed you and you have healed your wounds that is what we all need to do first.. I had to dig really deep and not even know that I had childhood wounds so 🙏
Well said … thank you
Thank you so much!!
This explains so much!!!
This is soooooo helpful 🤸♂️
Thank you 💕
Love 💖
You are the best! Thank you sooooooooo much! 💞🙏
I once again applaud you Mr. Leon He is wanting to Bland erbody but himself..
Thank you. Yep, I blamed everyone too
You bring me so much peace Leon. God bless you so much. ❤
@the variant thank you for sharing this with me.
THANKS ALWAYS LEON. YOUR INFORMATION IS WELL RECEIVED. 🌹
Awesome honesty
Loved your honesty Leon! And enjoyed a longer video too. ❤
You did a great job explaining i prayed they you get the total healing that you need.
Thank you for your time and wisdom. I understand now. I recently subscribe to your channel. Muchas gracias.
Thank you sir, your explanation is very helpfull!
thank you ♡
I'd like to believe the depticon
actually has feelings deep down
Thanks Leon
You’re welcome
😊Ty for potential for change!
That’s why the get so made when they can’t come back… 😞🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🙏🏽
Thank you
You’re welcome
He filed for divorce and then would not comply with what was required. Still stalking and coming around after 5 years. It was final nov 22. I guess he though I was going to argue but I contested due to his cheating with plenty of receipts. He agreed to everything for the sake of going to trial. Why is he still coming around I don’t know.
Same thing I'm going through, he filed 10 months ago but he's not doing the necessary paperwork yet hes been shacked up with his bimbo coworker the entire time
He always threatens divorce, to leave to go, eventually one day I just packed up all my stuff and he wanted to discard so he throws all my stuff at the doorway! Pathetic malignant narcissist it’s a disgrace! He claimed son taxes and then decided he not gunna show up for him and or pay his school tuition.
When you say they're not ready... Does that apply even if they're in a relationship before/throughout the divorce process?
Would a narcissist actually wait over a year after marriage to start the narcissism?? Or is this a phase? I’m so confused 😫
Hell mine threaten me with divorced for two months but never filed it. I ended up being the one to do it a year-and-a-half later
Leon what if we have kids with a narcissist,I can’t go no contact,can you advice me on that please
We aren’t married he was my bf and treated me like he didn’t care didn’t want me or to care for our daughter now he’s being the victim acting like I pushed me away and hurt my own feelings after being ignored isolated from his friends cheated on etc like boy bye go talk to them enablers I’m done leave me alone
l wish l knew these things, back in the days. Question: l heard you say a person needs therapy, but is this personality, like a drug addicts addiction? l hope you are truly delivered from "narcissim". Congratulations😊
Yea well my husband doesn’t want a divorce. He wants to keep me stuck. Our relationship is built on hurting each other . He goes off then I go off. It’s back and forth. It’s a waste of time.
YESSSSSS LORD BYE ✌️
Your videos have assisted me.
Do you now feel empathy?
This is a shame that all of this is true. 💔💔💔💔
In a nutshell! Lol
Why do they get married ?
They can't be alone.
But then he got married so someone else immediately after our divorce
Naked truth 😂😂😂😂
Not true you hurt because it's a game to you it's an acting game 💯
I’m an empath but seek narc women for the cheap easy access. There’s really nothing in it to be accountable to females when you’re built for many sesually (had to purposefully spell that wrong or the communists won’t let me post)