How To Change From Masculine to Feminine Energy @aprilmasontv
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- Опубліковано 26 лип 2024
- In part 4 of our convo, learn how to transition from masculine to feminine energy with tips from April Mason on the KD Bowe Show! Tune in for valuable insights on balancing your energy and embracing your feminine side.
#feminine #feminineenergy #softlife
Being catered to by men is such a nice feeling🥰
Isn’t it girlll
The craziest part is we WANT to do it for a soft, feminine woman. That strong independent don't need no man BS is to a woman's detriment. Be a Queen, Kings will fight to protect you. Being a bytch will leave you vulnerable so you HAVE TO fight for yourself. Much luv
@@inevitableevolution1 I guess that makes sense. I like to think other peoples character doesn’t have anything to do with mine, though. I know that I’m feminine because my privileges allow me to be. But Femininity is a luxury and not everyone can afford it.
@@evaphillips2102 everyman may not be able to afford it for relationship but if that feminine energy & manorism is your default, even men who don't want to get in your pants will go out of their way to make sure your good...... Like men should, like our parents & elders taught us guys to do. Don't turn it on & off. If you meet a man who's disrespectful or unappreciative, you can tell them you thats not acceptable but ignoring them hurts more than anything you could say. You can't hurt a pig throwing mud at them plus they love it when you take off your crown and play their mud games. It makes you look bad.
Absolutely!!!
She needs to emphasize this type of patience and understanding is for emotionally available and husband material men, not F boys.
Facts!!! I have tried this with a immature guy and would always run from issues so didn’t want to go out to eat to avoid. Not knowing I wanted to just balance things out. SMH
Bc w/the wrong type of man this will sound like game.
@@snooty4180 yes
Well aint that obvious.. of course this is for a real man and not a fboy. It's up to the woman to determine what type of man she is dealing. Then you move accordingly.
She's talking about adult men...for one if you shouldn't even waste no more than a month or two with a guy that dont communicate no way...we as women see the red flags but truly ignore them..then boom 5 years later we saying what we put up with...you made that choice you decide what man you gone deal and not deal with.
“She was just a feminine woman that chose the wrong man” this line has shifted my ENTIRE being! I became hard because i thought my mum was passive. Wow 🙆🏾♀️ thank God for you!❤️
🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃🥃
Same here
Yes!!!
I thought it was just me, my mom made me boss up from young. Cause she was overly passive. She always said she wanted 6 sons smh that cuts like a knife. I’m her only daughter. I’m working on me now.
That’s real
I can listen to this woman all day. I love seeing black women talking about femininity and healing. Being nice to men
I love chivalry. I let men help me even when I don’t need it and I always make sure to say THANK YOU!! Men are so used to women being rude when they help and it’s very unbecoming ladies. Say a little thank you and it’ll get you a long way.
True! I do the same and always say thank you as well as speaking kindly to them.
That is so sweet of you 🧸
..sis a simple “thank you” can LITERALLY make a man’s day. Black women have NO IDEA the power they wield by simply being feminine and cooperative.
@@faybury4428 That is so rare these days. Good for you 1
You can’t undo decades of rudeness
My heart bleeds for so many women. Alot of our anger is FROM HURT. I PRAY THAT WE HEAL
Traumatized from Childhood ABUSE!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
I see April Mason, I click 😊 AND have a pen ✍🏾 and paper 📝 nearby to take notes! 😁👍🏾
same...notebook is full!
@@QueenpreneurRachel Same!!!
ABSOLUTELY!!
Yes, yes,
Yes mam front and center
What she said about thinking you are completely healed until you are dating is the absolute truth. From 2016-2020 I went 4 years of no dating, and during that time I was healing, learning myself, and had written a few books, and I thought I had it all together. It wasn’t until I started dating that I realized I had some things that I still needed to heal from. And as she said, the person could be a good person, and STILL trigger you. The reality is that you won’t know until you are IN IT
Yeeeesssss! So true!
When the rubber meets the road........
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She preaching!!! “I have nothing to prove, I stay at the spa” THAT PART ! 🗣
😍💅🥂
Feminine women with class are the most powerful women on the planet they can move mountains. This is why established well off men go after them often. They can be in their 20s or 60s classy feminine women have power and access to wealth.
Because usually they're wise🙌🏼❤️
Always
That we are💕💕
I love this ! Black woman are the most independent and non feminine races due to our own community rules. Its time to change this & im here for it ❤.
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Hmmmm those “rules” you know those rules are not rooted in our community but rather planted in our communities 🥺. Not the same…
I don’t need my husband i want him and i was taught to always be ready to be on my own but allow myself the joy of not being alone.
Community rules? Or derelict men?
@@mzhappyfree7688 U don’t need him? 😅dam
Lets be honest black women are raised to be independent women, not wives. That stems from rules that we abide by from generation to generation. The "you dont need a man" rule as you mentioned.
At the age of 7 I was molested and this hardened my heart towards men the older I got.
I suffered from major trust issues and anger towards men, and always had my guard up. So hard.
Now that God allowed me to heal from those traumas, I’m learning to claim back my feminine energy and to walk as the woman God called me to be.
This video really helped me. Thank you! #Godbless ✨
Praise God! May His will be done in you and the work He started within you be made conmplete! #GODSPEED
I’m so sorry this happened to you babe. I hope you heal
AM Rise, I am so sorry for your experience has a young girl. I am praying for your ongoing strength.
God heals and rebuilds any one don’t embrace the wrong thing
To God be the glory, this was my story as well
THIS is the video I have been needing. A woman holding women accountable, BUT also showing us how to change. Explaining how the hard exterior was created, but also letting us know we have to be vulnerable and do the work to let our true selves out. And just as important look for the right person to protect the true version of us. Great video!!!!
" "GODLY" man and a "church" man are NOT the same thing!"- 🔥💯🎯
Yes!!! My feminine energy works daily. Men do feel it and they are proud to cater and be gentlemen.
bingo fam, there is nothing more attractive than a feminine woman. It draws men of value to you like a magnet. Sis April was spitting hot fire. I have no problems opening a car door for my lady or holing a door open for her if we enter a building, but a lot of women nowadays seem to not appreciate that.
TRUE femininity is BEAUTIFUL & POWERFUL. It demands respect and attention. MOST MEN are naturally drawn to it.
This woman dropped so many gems 💎, I landed on this channel by accident but this was probably one of the best 35 mins ever 😆. Great video 🙏🏽
@Nursing With Key I totally agree. Powerful video!
I landed here by accident as well lol but I'm glad I did
About to tune in
Me too
Yeah, she's pretty dope. I just found this channel a few days ago. Great topics with an adult perspective.
This is my FIRST time hearing of April Mason. Sis is soooo on point. Now I'm hungry for me. I'm about to DEVOUR EVERYTHING April Mason. 😍❤
Same!!!
Same!!! Truly happy to reaffirm this knowledge! It gives me confidence that I am doing the right things in my feminine walk. I will be following her from now on!!! 💝💝
She said I had to change my appetite that I was programmed to have, so I can identify the man/men who will cover and protect the real soft woman that I am!
One purpose of a Rib (Woman) is to protect a Man's heart and his other vital organs.
Great video.
Wow April can have all my money lol, and if I didn't have any she would inspire me to go out and get some
I love that.
Same with the men..no model
Lol…Love the honesty!
Lol
P-R-E-A-C-H!!!!!!!!! AMEEEEEEEEN !!!!!!
I JUST HAD this conversation... Im on my own journey back to my natural divine femininity. I didn't REALIZE how MASCULINE I was... I had to allow the HOLY SPIRIT to come in and TEACH-COACH/RETRAIN me on who, how, and why to show up in the world... the most VALUABLE/POWERFUL thing we have as WOMEN is our FEMININITY...the PROBLEM is OUR DEFINITION OF FEMININITY!!! the definition we tell OURSELVES oftentimes isn't correct... femininity BEGINS on the INSIDE and progresses in reflection on the outside... it doesnt start and STOP on the outside...this was sooo good to me today!!! Thank yall for loving us enough to invest your precious time being part of the solution as we move forward in healing our community... we value and appreciate your contributions...🙏🏽❤
Me tooo sis
Social conditioning. They are trying to condition women to be masculine.
You still need your guard up. Can't tell you how many good, educated, feminine, soft, dedicated, loyal, kind, generous women were STILL crapped on by men who were so-called "good ones." Always keep your guard up over your money, health, peace of mind, and children. ALWAYS.
I love it when she mentioned she don't ask questions...she create experiences.
being vulnerable opens up so many doors in the relationship. 😍
Living legend, The Ms. April Mason!💕 I absolutely adore my mentor & revere her wisdom. I’m so grateful for her!
I couldn’t receive her years ago but now I understand her journey and wisdom
It’s his deep voice for me lol his “hmmm” is epic ..
And love April, always on point 💜
She's talking about conversing with an adult. Too often we as women aren't met with another adult (maturity) to problem solve with. Too many men just grew old but didn't necessarily grow up in a manner where they learn to do healthy relationships. I need to learn how to navigate the old boys period.
Its immaturity across the board...many never look in the mirror
@Journey B. You should watch this video again then visit Kevin Samuels channel after. Enjoy your evening.
Very true...I would say look at whether he is proactive, takes responsibility for his actions, and has some type of accountability or mentorship.
Women mature much faster than men so this will always be a problem for us until they get it together
I mean, but you do choose the “other person” that you deal with so even that is well within your control correct?
Come on, April!!! Honestly, I feel like the reason why some women don’t understand/agree where you’re coming from is because you’re speaking grown women language. And that makes a difference.
I’m 25 years old and I resonate with every single thing she said, including her experiences. Somehow I’ve been teaching this to my 32 year old friend and she thinks “I know it all” when the truth is a lot of women do need healing and learning to be their feminine self.
“If you want a man to lead, you gat to put yourself in a position for him to to so”!
Humility... the word
This only works with the right masculine man. With the wrong man it'll set you up for manipulation and abuse
This is code! Y'all are a reminder that not all of our people are broken. The internet wins again and we love seeing melanin opening up wounds and treating them properly! This episode was lit 🔥
Boiling yourself down to skin color is weird
I don’t ask questions. I create experiences, that’s how I learn who you are. Mind blown.
Miss Mason, I'm here to learn! I come in the feminine energy!
I was just praying to God just now that I want to learn to talk to the King in my husband! I really want this!
❤️❤️❤️🙏
I prayed the serenity prayer today about a man I know I have to let go. This pops up in my feed. It validates the shift I'm pushing for. Wooooow. The crying at night is so true. Straight insomnia for a week at a time. Smh. Thank you 💚
Whew his voice, omg. That low growl, Jesus!! I don’t know how this was recommended, but I’m glad. I love her knowledge and I like how she is explaining things.
I am in my natural state when I am in service of my woman.
I saw the same thing as April did in her household in terms my dad not fully respecting my mum. For many years I thought she was being “weak” and then realised it’s strength! When April said “she was a feminine woman to the wrong man” I felt that on many levels❤️❤️❤️
That part about seeing the little boy, not the man, is on point. 99.9% of the time, our adult emotional issues are from childhood experiences. If you go to therapy and have a good therapist first thing they do is go into your childhood. It unveils a lot!
I love when I'm out, and men open my door for me or run to beat me to the door to open it for me. I say thank you every time! Its rare men don't open my door for me. I've opened doors for women out of courtesy, and 99.9% of them never say thank you. A thank you goes such a long way for anybody but goes further with men they love being appreciated. So I say thank you for everything. It cost nothing to say thank you.
Never heard a man growl until listening to this 😁. I just discovered April last year, she reminds me of the actress Tasha Smith
Yes he did growl
Yes but with a feminine bent wrist
She’s powerful and beautiful. I will seek out more of what she has to say. She made perfect points and her past makes her points valid
she is spitting hot fire!
I’m 24 and im married im learning to be feminine and its so hard bc i never had a mom or women role model to show me but I am making efforts hard as pill to swallow to be honest i was blessed. To be married and it has been very rocky but im my intuition is telling this is wat my spirit wants to be bc i had never had it and i felt I lost my self bc this part of me had not been discovered
I’ve been married for 20yrs and have never heard it explained this way. I have honestly learned some things
Whew! A lot of woman miss her point about chivalry. I been saying it for years. Also, it’s not about weakness, its about position and knowing how you fall in the hierarchy. I can go on for hours about this.
I love April. She doesn’t shame women into change. She inspires us. She makes it digestible and easy to see so that you can know how to work on your best self…it’s also not done in a male identified way. She makes sure you know your value while being able to tap into seeing and appreciating the value of great guys.
She really has game. The ladies would do well to listen.
I prayed for this alignment. I’m working on me. I have never heard of either of these 2, but I’m so grateful. I love his voice, and I just love her. She has a new follower I need to hear more🥰
I love kd Bowe's voice. April Mason is the real classic 🙌🏾
I can't believe I'm only now hearing of her! She seems awesome!!!
Same!
I absolutely love her perspective and how she overcame her challenges. I also teach femininity and to be honest ... as a Black woman, it's almost the pain that we experience that gives us the inspiration to help others. The teachers of others go through the most pain
Stopping by to say that this man's voice is ALL KINDS OF SEXY MASCULINE!!!! That was all.... carry on!!!
I am a reformed savage. I thank God for growth.
This!!!! Us women needed to hear this both those who need reassuring and those who need encouragement.
I so desire to tap into my feminine energy. This is new information and I’m in my 50’s
Yes they love calmness and tone they are really more sensitive than Women
Stumbled on this clip and fell in love with what this sister was sharing and instantly subscribed to you both.
📖Paul's 1st letter to the Corinthians:
But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. *The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.* For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. *Do not deprive one another,* except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, *so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.* ( 7:2-5 )
Thanks for telling him the truth. These men act like they don't see these things. I esp get annoyed with those who grew up without a father because the fathers were better off gone or didn't want to be there now act like women are just crazy to be crazy. Its generational trauma,help the community heal
April definitely has the blueprint. I'm all ears.❤
Wow I love this. My mom did both...she could take care of herself but stayed in her feminine self. So I learned from her. And for years I thought I was wrong for being like this, wanting the help of a husband, but it was always in my heart. Family members talking about me because I didn't want to be one saying I don't need a man. Thank you for this.
I don’t know why this video appeared in my feeds. The title alone was the reason to stop another video to what this video. God works wonders! Her maturity level and insight is information. Thank you for sharing. I’m on to the other video with April on your channel.
Same thing happened to me! He's so divine 🙌🏾
This was so gratifying to watch! It has helped me to identify why I have been such a masculine woman & what areas I still need to correct within. Choosing the RIGHT man once I have done all the work is a major key!!!! Whoa this was a message!!!! Thank you April!!!!!! 🙏🏽❤️
I enjoyed this. Never seen either of them but glad I was directed to seeing this. I was definitely a savage but now trying to get in to my feminine side. 28:00 ish…I felt that. Tired of needing to be in this masculine side. I totally can relate when it comes to healing. I’m doing that now. I wasn’t gentle with crushing. I’m doing better now that I’ve grown.
Our Mothers were abused that's why those marriages were hell
Most of our mothers gave as good as they got. Stop the phony victim nonsense about mothers being abused.
@@u.s.lawyer8542 look at the denial. Only black men justify the abuse of they own women
@@u.s.lawyer8542 Your username is U.S law but you clearly know nothing about the historical laws regarding women or abuse. Please do some research and stop spreading lies based on your jaded opinion.
@Creole Belle I’m on the same boat. How do I change this ?
I ain’t got nothing to prove, I stay at the spa!❤️✨💅🏾 Sis educate the girls. Wonderful segment!
Im glad she also adresses why women have become masculine, because of direct or indirect abuse by MEN, we didnt have a choice.
This touches me soo deeply!
I want to be this woman so much. I’m learning , I’m growing, baby steps and I’m her.❤
I love this woman! Some ppl are stating she is giving off male energy or whatever but she really isn’t. The issue is the culture we live in has changed so much that we can’t see it. Ms.AprilMason explained the timeline of generations and how they have changed perfectly. We’re a product of our environment, and our environment is not just the tangible but also the deeper things that define our situation (poverty, abuse, low resources, generational family problems, etc). At the end of the day, despite the religion, feminine and masculine are a thing for a specific reason. Men can’t fulfill what a woman’s role is in a relationship and woman can’t fulfill the role of a man (again, I say this from the perspective of a straight relationship) & that is why when these two beings come together there has to be an understanding. Nothing to do with one is better than the other but yes.. masculine and feminine energy are indeed different and each are built and set up differently physically, chemically, biologically, etc.
Wow sis wow!!!! This will save a lot of people’s relationships and marriages!!! Very informative!
I LOOOOOVE this. This is the most practical discussion on this subject I've ever heard. It's real. It's nuanced. And it takes EVERYTHING women are actually DEALING WITH into account. Fabulous 🌺🌺🌺
She is really knowledgeable about this subject. Women, listen to this woman!
April thank you so much finally a women that understands living in the divine feminine. I was hard now I'm soft. Went through me to get back to me. I upset that I missed your class but thankful that I found your message I needed this today
I love April Mason. She's truly a godsend.
It’s refreshing and hilarious that neither of them knew what a “pick me” was. 😂 So for the record.. A Good man is a “beta simp”, and a good woman is a “pick me-sha”. 🤔 Stay winning my people.. stay winning.
Thanks for this I'm learning to channel my energy...this is refreshing!
I stumbled on this video and I am grateful I did. This type of guidance is precious! Love it.
April Mason is powerhouse who is flipping the narrative of male/female dynamics. Thank you, thank you, thank you! The pitty party is officially over!!
I just Found this woman. And I really appreciate her and her support!
Omg, she just taught me some strategies. Thank you!
This is such an awesome conversation!! This is excellent. Thank y’all so much!
Greatly appreciated. Thank You so much I learned a lot.
April, thank you for explaining. This was great!!!
This video has made me feel so validated.
Thank you April and KD.
This was an amazing conversation.
I never knew I needed this. Thank you!
I’m so blessed to have stumbled upon this! You have a new follower Ms. April! You are a true 💎🙏🏽
Woooo this is some good stuff sis. It takes time for us strong women to receive the his but definitely good stuff. We haven’t learned that weak is OK
Preach!!! You are so on point!!! Thanks so much for sharing your experiences ❤😂
This was sooooo good!!!! Thank you for the transparency but also letting us know that anger and actions don't have to carry on forever and forever. So many jewels dropped in this interview.
I took notes and going apply this knowledge. Thankful for this platform.
Thank you for this, I needed these pointers for my journey.
This show is too funny and real! So glad I found it!
Holy crap!! This this this… omg. I was looking for something and you gave it to me! Thank you 🙏
This interview is so good! Thank you so much for making it happen! I’m learning a lot.
Queen April Mason, thank you for these pearls of wisdom!!!
I really enjoyed the thoughtfulness and balance from both of you in this discussion. Such good energy. Thanks for sharing this.
Hi KD, I felt compelled to Subscribe when you spoke so passionately about my country, my city of CAPE TOWN, South Africa. 😎🎶💃🙏😇🌞❤️ 🤗
PS... Ms April Mason rocks! 💃
Namaste 💯💃
I absolutely love her insight.
Ohh she's dropping 💎💎. Def taking notes!!
Shouts out watching from Capetown baby episode is fire 🔥 thanks much needed✨
Yasss! This was very helpful to me. I’ve been struggling with finding my feminine energy again. My hubby likes it but think I’m too emotional. Now it’s finding the balance to communicate.