Men Can Do It, But Women CAN'T? Is That TRUE? w/ Feminine Lifestyle Strategist
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- Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
- Part 3 of a 6 part series w/ feminine lifestyle strategist @aprilmasontv as we delve into the ongoing battle both men and women face as we strive to peacefully and lovingly coexist!
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"You will always know the character of a leader by their followers." 💯
Yes! "The energy of your followers tells me EVERYTHING I need to know about you."
Deep
That's a lie. If you stop and think you will understand
@@alvinabbam1333 if you know anything about life and character, then you know that this is a VERY accurate statement. Why did you take it personal, is the question????
Alot of women have dated low earning men and have gotten burned and are looking to experience someone who is not a burden to their life
Ladies equate the earning power of a man with his character. You can be burnt by a high earning man. In any case how do you know that this low earning man will not rise up and make it big.
Huh...you sound silly
@@brodeythedisciplinebarber1117 don't respond to my posts thanks
@@datingdiaries1681 you don't own UA-cam crazy Woman
We need more boundaries not men with more money
Feminine Energy is so therapeutic.
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Yes indeed.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
And Attractive!!!!
Amen!
His daughter speaking: I never wanted to be equal to a man ... only equal pay. That's it :)
I guess
Omg April! I was raised to never carry myself where two men could share a conversation of having had me in the same manner. To this day, that's still how I roll out...
Great motto to live by. I like it!🙂
Exactly. This is my movement as well. Having men talk about having had you to your significant other is very embarrassing for you as well as him. I do not want that.
Those Out of town trips huh. 👀👀👀 gotta watch you I see
Also lucky u if you are truly able to live that...life can choose other wise without u being a hussy...I once dated men in two separate continents....fast fwd 15yrs down the line..my 1ex man ended playing rugby on the same team same country with my other ex...WHO WLD HV THUNK IT! 😂😂😂😂😂we are not in as much control as we wld like to think we are...
When nobody can get u they do start lying. They threaten ur reputation to control ur sexuality. I'm getting a bit if I want one
I am loving these interview segments with Ms. April. 👏🏾👏🏾💖
Me too!
Yesss
Me too...I'm learning so much
Yesss!!!
"I know how to choose my battles."
THE KEY to life, right there.
OMG April when i first met my husband we were discussing Christmas and how he didn't like the holiday. He explained that his mother only put up a tree with no presents under it. He mentioned that he knew Santa wasn't real was because he didn't receive the hot wheels race track. Our first Christmas together I bought him that hot wheel set. I was operating out of pure love. He told me she never gave him birthday parties growing up and at 21 he had never has a party, so I reached out to his friends and planned him a surprise party. I had no idea what I was actually doing but ok
Ms. April made me holler so many times with the insight she was dropping… I have never had a female figure in my life talk to me and teach me how to live in my soft feminine energy… as a latina i was taught to be strong and independent and take charge but also be a ride or die even if it kills me… I went against the grain as I decided to leave my marriage bc I was losing myself by giving everything of me to him… Ms. April’s videos have taught me so much… I no longer wish to attract the broken men and wounded men in my life… I’m tired of being the healer to everyone else except myself… so I have turned the focus on healing myself ❤
This conversation is dope AF🔥 It's the Princess story for me
Ms.April has truly gotten me all the way together. My body feels tense and uncomfortable from the truth she’s speaking. I agreed with her beforehand on a lot but some of these topics shined light in a dark place. It’s truly time to prioritize my healing.
This is an interview for our culture! Salute to you both, this is AMAZING 💯
D*** Discipline is very important 💯💯👏🏾
She just answered the question for both, old wounds, negative words spoken over your life as a child, etc. Then these individuals become parents and the cycle continues. It's not about being more feminine or telling him to man up it's about healing damaged souls. When you point one finger at someone three point back at you. When are we as a people going to come together and stop blaming one another.
Lots of Jewels. I’m watching because of April Mason but I’m subscribing to this channel so I can hear the host growl.
LOL, I be growling??
@@KDBowe Oh my yes. And it’s so masculine. Makes my feminine energy surrender.
@@audrasewell ..lol ... I thought I was the only one who felt this too... I need a cold shower after watching this show... lol
LOL!!!
@@audrasewell 🤣🤣🤣🤣
It was so many gems dropped in this segment. Especially that body count talk. I find it strange that the men with daughters especially those guys who were sleeping with any and everything in their past, want to live such a double standard when they ironically don’t want those little boys around their daughters. Highly hypocritical.
Yeah that's crazy. I was always told God gives those Guys Girls because of how they were with Girls so they can see how it feels. Karma.
2 to 3 outta every 10 dudes sleep with 7 to 8 outta every 10 women. Most women have the same taste in men so alot of you will share a man. Its a small percent of men that get multiple women. So those men are kind of like prizes to women since they are most women's type.
Where as just about any woman can rack up a football team worth of dudes in 2 weeks. Kind of making her used up 🐱 rather than a prize.
@@deebrown7915 well Put Fam.
So, if I love getting stupid drunk, I have to *WANT* my son to be an alcoholic? If I love racing cars on the expressway, it’s hypocritical for me to want my children to stay safe & far away from that type of foolishness? I went to a ton of strip clubs when I was younger guess I should be okay with my daughter being a stripper, huh?
Y’all come up with anything to fight this very specific double standard; all ‘cuz you wanna live hot girl summers ‘til you’re 40🤣
@@denisjohnson8198 even 50. Social Media got old B🦇ts carrying on like they're 25.🤣🤣🤣Nowadays the older one's are worst than the younger one's. Ask Jada Entanglement Pinkett.🤣🤣🤣
Most of my friends who are married who talk about how their husbands have a little boy in them...This conversation is so crazy...wow
I agree, must men/husband do have the little boy in them….
The Double Standard is the same as saying "men get to live and enjoy their lives, while women are supposed to suffer theirs". A women should be allowed to do whatever is BEST for her without being JUDGED. When it comes to constantly needing a Dude to VALIDATE you, then women need to put themselves into some serious THERAPY, COUNSELLING and find a CO-DEPENDENCY SUPPORT Group. Women who need this or feel they can't be happy or fulfilled unless they have a man are women who DON'T know their VALUE and that is very, very SAD.
I don't think that's what it means. Woman can do as they please just as men can but it will always be consequences. Just both parties need to be able to live with their choices.
We're all being judged it's up to you to care or not
Me too, I'm an Empath, a healer, sometimes it feels likes a blessing and a curse. Sometimes i feel it's not my journey to be in a relationship but it is in my destiny to see people and help heal the hurt in them. It can be taught as far as adding to the nature, God given gift God gave us, that's when we combine the psychology part with the spiritual call!
I have learnt that the real relationship is with self first and everything else will fall in place...
I've always took pride in walking in a room with men and no one has had me.. I've always thought that way. I love the attention and I knew if I gave it up that would go away.. and my birthday is June 23 we have the same sign. ❤️
Love all the episodes with April, she always gives or confirms great advice or information and she understands energy from her own experience! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
This segment is so good it’s like a baby drinking milk from her mother 😂😂 we want all the nutrients
In the first few minutes, she pretty much gave Black men permission to continue their chauvenist. Y'all are sad.
Why would any female want to be equal to any man. Let's be who we are and who we were meant to be.
Which is *women*
Ms. April, the character of a healthy leader (worth following) is evidenced by the character of his followers! Additionally, it’s impossible to follow a parked car. I briefly dated a guy, passionate about his tech profession. Sadly though, he he had no friends. He’d forgotten to include balance in his life alongside being a successful entrepreneur. He wasn’t ‘t able to sustain an healthy relationship. After six months, it was necessary to ‘retreat’ when my ‘mothering’ qualities became more prominent. The Princess is my lovable position.
A man with ‘discipline’ (dd) vs a ‘terrorist’ (dt) is extremely attractive to me. This, together with character traits I appreciate in a man, can create an essence of seductiveness, a sacredness.
Wasn’t seeking this channel, nevertheless, am grateful and thankful to have stayed. Learned much from both perspectives.
Whew! Kevin Samuels need to watch this episode 😆
I am sure Kevin would agree with most (not everything) of the things she said. But he doesn't need to get involved. Leave that man alone ahahah.. he has nothing to do with this interview. He is doing a good job in his own way.
@@alvinabbam1333 lol 😂 you defending yo daddy lol dam you almost bit her head off
@@FleurRebelle ahahaha 😂😂 we all have daddy issues don't we? Have a nice day beautiful 😘
I take pride in it too April !! Nobody can say they been with me in a room!
These psudeo-alpha male wannabes who quite literally hate women won’t be able to use their cruel tricks on you
Wow! This explains so much of what my life has been my whole life as I also SEE the truth and have received so much hate because of it...thank you!
Another great interview April Mason. High Earners work longggg hours!!
That is so true! Men want to be seen....Many men's love language is Words of Affirmation.
I don't know if I have laughed so hard right n my life as when you said pause Ninja!!! Lol! Listening to you talk is just so great calming and entertaining. Keep up the good vibes brotha
This deserves way more views. Absolute gems.
All of this is pure gold. So much wisdom and experience in the room with you both. This needs to be required viewing... love the content
Energy is everything. Thank you for this series. I am new to each of you. This is amazing 👏🏾
Yes, Yes , Yes on the Queen vs Princess analogy 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Love these shows and the subject matters! Ms. April is teaching and im here to learn
Such a great interview ❤ Thank you. I am watching all Interviews twice 😊
I am loving 🥰 this conversation. April mason is a Gem 💎!
I love her so much, I signed up to her universe. Thanks for having me. I look forward to learning.
I truly enjoyed the conversation with April Mason.
Thank you for joining me tonight! If you find the video helpful, please subscribe & turn on bell notifications. That way you will know when I release quality content like this. Thank you fam! BTW I'm on IG & Twitter @kdbowe
Question...there are only 5 videos. I was under the impression that this was 6 parts verses 5...
@@kimberlyjordan4470 It was initially going to be 6 parts, but we were able to complete everything in 5
The followers thing sounds good but for men we have different levels of what we do just like gang banging some do it a little bit an some do it to the fullest an men really don't follow anybody most of us are lone wolf that all traveling the some way if ssome meat falls on the ground we would kill. Each other. For. It
Arent you based in ATL? I’d be interested in a panel if you ever open your show to such. Its a lot of women out here with April’s views, but no one showcases this. 🙋🏽♀️
Amazing insights into the mind of the male overachiever. I agree that it a good feeling to know that no one has been there though many have tried!
Heyy mr.KD just wanted to say heyyy 👋🏾 to my birthday twin!❤😂 I knew I liked you for a reason found your show looking for April glad God brought me here this video was very informative keep doing what you’re doing!! You are doing the Lord’s work God bless you 🙏🏾
Rebecca Lynne Pope stated she stopped matchmaking because of women's expectations!
Yea that speaks volumes. And honestly that is the ONLY thing I agree with Kevin Samuels about when it relates to women
Whew this was good!
Yess!!! Subscribed!!!!!
Ms April so wise thank you for this great content Mr KD Bowe.
Loved the interview. With that said ThePoorMansPodcast sent me here.
I truly understand what April said
I am new to your page, but I love the interviews and segments with Ms. April
So glad I found this! New Subbie!!
yo... 10/10. I can't even write a comment because every SECOND on this video is a gem when she starts talking. WATCH THIS
I don’t have time to heal the little boy! It’s one thing to give compliments and encouragement. Let’s face it we all have our confidence knocked down sometimes. But I’m not going to stroke a male’s ego just so he can feel like a man.
That's ok... April already spoke about you.
@@mkb5984 I don’t know how she spoke about specifically since she doesn’t know me.😀
My God man that's good🔥
here from the poor mans podcast... amazing interview thank you
Great content. I respect you both so much. Keep being great
Nothing but truth!!
This is so good of a conversation
I do little things to keep interest alive. Tiny seductive moves keep him thinking about you. I’ve done this for 37 years in my relationship and yes, I’m spoiled because of it. I spoil him too.
Could it be, what was done to men and women has to be reversed? Women hurt by men need to be counselled and or healed by men. Men hurt by women need to be counselled by women
No… Men need to listen to men and so do women. Many women validate feelings instead of what’s right. Men are supposed to guide you in the right direction to do what’s right not what feels good.
@@deaundrecummings3469 I am speaking not only from experience but also from research of what toxic masculinity does to men and women and their ability to lead as men. Just as it is not healthy nor productive for a leader to lead from a place of hurt. They shouldn't lead from a place of confusion of what a man is and their role as men. Everyone has emotions/ feelings. There is nothing wrong with having feelings, it called emotional intelligence. There are studies that show men leaders who possess emotional intelligence are the best leaders. It not all the bronze. Your are a huMAN. Furthermore, I am speaking about healing not leading. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I appreciate it. If you support the boy/ girl you will not have to heal the man/ woman. Thanks again!
Gemini is a masculine energy sign like me I am an Aries we can present logic + also connect to our heart's desires water sign moons or risings have that feminine balance...being a diplomat for both sides...
First time watching this channel. KD's voice is sooooo sick. He has that Morgan Freeman god voice.
I just love your voice 💎🔮
I will share this info with many of my friends
You better talk that talk, Ms.Richmond California.
Yes a man with control and discipline.
As soon as she said June 26th, I was hype because my birthday is the day before! but when she said Gemini, she confused me & stole my thunder😂
This was NICE 😊
I identify with Miss April. I am a Gemini and Gemini is yang and yin which is a feminine and masculine energy and far more intuitive than people know. I’m the same way when it comes to people in general which is why I chose to become a nurse and now choosing to help people in other ways.
Thank you
I am learning so much...I love these conversations.
Yes putting counts on women I thought this along time ago its a double standard
Sun Capricorn, moon Leo, Rising Aries , Venus in Sag. Lots of Scorpio and Cap in other planets
We have the same sun and moon, my rising is libra and Aquarius in Venus
Thank you sister say it
Great show new subbie @KD 🗣️AprilMason🌹🕊️🦋 💯🕊️🥂
That’s true the character of a leader is based on their followers
Ouuu I’m learning 📝📝📝
Ooooweee mailing the "intimates" tho!!
You were born with it!
I don’t think sideral and tropical based astrology operate in isolation from each other. I think they can be complimentary. April may be a sun sign Cancer but she is close enough to Gemini to be influenced by it. Also, her ability to pick flowers to go Hollywood in her words I think is more of a Piscean trait because Pisces is more dualistic than Gemini and they deal with the illusion of glamour (Film industry: Hollywood) and Pisces is very very feminine. Also duality can be expressed through aspect placement in a natal or progressed chart than just planetary signs. I understand that April gravitates more to sidereal and that’s fine but the reference point for sidereal, Vedic or tropical is the same universe so all those systems are correct.
I follow April in FB she is wonderful in her craft.
I love how you broke this down
Amazing 🥰🥰🙌🏿🥰
That "Voltron" point he made was powerful. As a Believer I think that is one of the enemies' strongest weapons against the black family. It leads men away from reality. I think its fed by regular media and social media. How can women compete with the media? It like you have to sit there and watch them drift away because they are being led away and seduced by their sexual urges and not their intellect and spirit. ijs
Yep….I hear cancer traits too: empath , healer, gets satisfaction out of retreating into simple places, authentically goes Hollywood when necessary
How do people define high earning? Asking because I hear this a lot
Can we just be both. Is the word play necessary, queen 👑 or princess 👸🏾 let’s just treat each accordingly. I’m a libra ♎️ all day no Virgo over here.
Is there a book available talking about the "boy" inside the man. This concept makes some things EXTREMELY clear from past relationships. I hope so
I love myself enough to know that I’m not wife material. I love myself enough to know that I can’t be a male’s healer, he has to figure it out on his own. Ladies to giving these males your energy .
April you confirmed what I said with the Bishop T.D Jake comment.
What she confirm girl?
@@highvibrationalwoman4435 she confirmed hurt people need to receive what psychologist called exposure therapy. It is my belief and practices that if a man received trauma from a women or man he needs to receive the healing support of a woman. However, women who are hurt by women or man can not receive counsel from women, nor can they counsel woman. Reason being they will project their own trauma or there will be some transference, countertransference or bias, especially in the melanin community.
You know the ROOT by the FRUIT!
I say that all the time! The Queen has to go to wore! But the Princess is taken care of, protected, rescued, and is allowed to be soft.
Here from @The Poor Mans Podcast Reacts
I have this gift too. Just not using it right. I don't know how to talk to a man in a relationship. I blame too much.
I wish I would have had better DD when I was younger as kd says 😅 cuz you feel those connections pull on you
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This woman done cracked the code....Minus the astrology rubbish...
Interesting….
Does anyone know if April has a UA-cam channel where she actively uploads content?
Yes. April mason is her channel. I’m a follower and it’s 🔥🔥
Sun Aquarius cancer moon and Aquarius Venus
KD fine 💖 it's the voice for me
As much as Mrs. April claims Gemini, being a healer and being able to feel energetically is Cancer traits. I can see Pisces too… speaking on stage and “Hollywood” aspect is giving Virgo vibes though.
She's a Cancer. It's all over her
@@karladizz right, she definitely has Cancer traits heavy, but she may be feeling her moon and rising aspects that make her feel duality
@@appetite4chic878 exactly
I have a Cancer rising in tropical but sidereal Gemini, they both make a lot of sense for me personally. I think every type of astrology has a lot of merit and I agree she truly does radiate cancerian energy, but if she relates to Gemini more what am I to tell her ya know. I'm think she may even have some Neptune placements because again I agree about the piscean energy.
Edit: Lmao I paused the video to type this, Pressed play and boom she says she has Pisces in her chart
Definitely Cancer ♋🧡
Men expectations are ridiculous too. Make it make sense
Stop
Really?
no its not...im not going list "good personality, honesty, etc etc" because people should have that or work on to have those qualities whether youre in a relationship or not..so these are other thing that people may not list
1. try to keep in somewhat decent shape (men are visual creatures)
2. we want peace in the home..minimum drama, dont be combative, dont have an bad attitude etc etc.. men have to go out and compete with other men in the workplace..the last thing we want when we come home from work is fighting with our woman
3. give us our space when we ask and/or need it like spending time with the boys etc etc
4. keep the sex life spicy
5. LOYALTY...will you stay with us when things go bad like if we're laid off or get hurt and can no longer work? will you stay with us when that rich handsome chad is trying to get with you? in the US, women initiate about 75% of ALL divorces
6. this is optional...but if you can cook then its a HUGE bonus, but since these days alot of women cant cook worth a damn so its not a deal breaker if you cant
thats it...if can keep up those first 5 then youve covered at least 80% to 90% of the hetero male population in terms of dating/marriage...and remember, a marriage/long term relationship IS NOT a 50/50 thing...its a 100/100 thing..both have to put in the work to make it work and last...if you want it to last are you really putting in the effort? are you open minded enough to try every avenue of options that can or may help your relationship? if not then you probably didnt want to be in that relationship that bad enough in the first place