The Inseparable Link Between Legacy & Your Partner
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- Опубліковано 28 жов 2021
- This is the final chapter of our convo with feminine lifestyle strategist April Mason. It's a sobering conversation but an extremely necessary one.
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Poverty mindset makes us stay in toxic relationships. We have been convinced by society that there are “no more people” left to select from. The mindset is rooted in lack.
I'm so glad she corrected him on it's not about changing the race of the woman, it's about getting a different class of woman ❤️💜🤗🙏
"Choosing women who have NOTHING to lose but will help you lose EVERYTHING" 💣💥💥💥💥
Yes, this is real and it happens quite often.
That was powerful.
My ex wife summed up in one sentence
That hit me harder than anything else she said.
@@CarmenCarino89
*BIG time.* 💯🎯
Great job, KD. Gave her the floor for over 2 hours. You handled this interview masterfully. And her perspective was golden.
Golden!
Let a woman talk long enough and she will show herself always ? Keep ya eyes open young padawan
@@terryharris2805 Sure. What did she show you?
Biggest fraud to women......she will make money while women stay single and die alone with their cats and dogs 🤭😂🤣
Who and what we need for successful Marriages is the Holy Spirit!
When God orchestrates and regulates the two people in the marriage, they grow individually and have compassion on one another.
We don't need game, we need God!
Amen.
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That part
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High earning does not equal high value. Again. High earning does not equal high value. It's many high earning men who are not high value.
Right, come to the MDV. High earners, empty inside. YOU have hundreds of high earners with no personal value.
@@tiag298 a drug dealer is high earning as many of them earn 6figures. I wouldn't say they are high earning. Rappers are high earning but I wouldn't say they are high value
The pookie and rayray aren't high value either.
Exactly
The character of the person is what's important. The entire interview was still based around how much either had. This is the ingredients of what a man would day. How can a man provide and protect if she doesn't need him? He doesn't have to make lots of money to do that if that's the character of the man. How many women do you know had a high value father? Not in his pockets but character. This lady is still broken and delusional. Single women still keep other single women single. If you got everything for yourself, and he has everything for himself what is the point of the two getting together? To live off of him, and keep your money to do whatever he won't do for you because you won't let him lead? Get outta here!! She said it herself that's his house car etc . I got my own, I don't need him. Made men don't want made women! She's around those that are high earners and possibly immature. But if he is a high earner, has good character (my meaning of high value) he already hasa wife and family! There is no legacy without the family. The gifts she claims they offer isn't because they want dinner.. that's a treat for a snack! Lol That game works for the immature guy, and a immature, desperate woman, but the one with character might every now and then test the waters.. but in the end he goes home to his family while she goes to bed alone. Buy a dog and do whatever... RIP KS. Ladies don't judge a man by what he drives or wears look at his character. Some of the best ones might be swinging on the back of a garage truck, or delivering your feminine hygiene products to your local CVS or grocer. Just sayn!
My hair started growing back, almost have a little six pack and skin was so much more clear now that I've removed myself from a toxic situation an started working on who I really am and what I really wanted for me and not just focusing on children and him. I just Love this episode with April Mason
❤ Facts 💯
Keep up the good work Sis 👏🏾 🙌🏾 👍🏾 👌🏾 💪🏾 😉
I love the question "would you choose them again and if you had yourself together, would you choose them."
Two very simple questions that speaks volumes!🗣
ALOT of folks’ responses are going to be HELL NO I WOULD NOT DO IT AGAIN!
A woman that wants for nothing gets everything emotional. Etc Quality time is important because this is the way you learn one another's likes & dislikes. Everyone can't go where you are going. Some people grow together & others grow apart. SunShine 🌞 Loved these conversations
Women still assume the man they WANT will come to THEM on THEIR TERMS!! A man who is on high level got their by NOT DEALING WITH EVERYONE, he's set apart! He may know ALOT of people but in HIS CIRCLE are a few, if YOU ASSOCIATE WITH EVERYONE you are already going against what got HIM to the TOP!!
* a lot
A lot of times women become over weight because we put ourselves last and focus on our families. And it takes time for us to realize it.
Focusing on family also means taking care of your diet & health, because they want you to be healthy
Many women don't understand this
@@journee8724 Had you not wrote what you did I never would have commented but that statement is also a great deflection of responsibility. It sounds nice but we all are responsible for our own actions.
That's not true at all. Most of these overweight sisters are single and never had children. That's shifting blame
@@journee8724 it’s not taught. That’s why.
@@journee8724 yesssss. Because baby if I don't love myself I'm no good to my husband and children
The part where she says would a man still be with her if he had it together, was so real.
I wish April Mason would do a program for women that's in college or teen girls. If she hasn't already done it or thought about it
Honestly most of those women is going to go right out there why because they think their vaginas to end all the beer. Because you look on Instagram and social media in general you see entitled women who have been proven anything they're done anything people validate their position. But because of us as men put these women on pattern.
@@thazonemannreallifevolgs7155 hey I agree. I always say if women didn't have these high paying jobs and such of a desire to compete with their own men and look down on them. We wouldn't have such of a problem creating families and wealth.
@@robherringjr5018 I work with a bunch of whyte women and they are not something I aspire to be; and some of the women in my family aren’t example worthy. However my daddy taught me to provide for myself (alway have my own)
@@robherringjr5018 A women does not have to lower herself to a man not be career driven etc. it is not a women’s fault men that a man it is on the man to build himself financially and emotionally.
@@cynthiamitchell5748 I don't know what you said in that message.
Really admire her. I love her mindset. Through her interview, I recognized how far I’ve come on loving me. And that I made the right decision to embrace my
femininity and not using a person based on circumstances
The whole not needing you, but wanting you is real. Men are slowly realizing providing and sex isn't enough for us, we have to actually like you and A LOT of men aren't likeable.
You done said a whole word, Sis!!!!!
Vice versa. City girls are jezebels tbh.
@@theadvancedforce1017 👍🏾
It's a man's world. No man needs a woman, ask a hobo. Women have to be likeable to men not the other way around. Just because you don't like him doesn't mean he won't meet a woman who loves him as he is. Then you'll be alone and bitter calling her a pick me.
@@rah_fox420 How's that working out for men🤔 If what you say is true why are YOU all even on sm watching these type of videos/posts if it's working out so well for ya!?!? Women have always seeked guidance why the major shift for ya'll if it's a man's world.
That oxygen/hydrogen analogy says it all! 100/100 not 50/50 for the sake of our divine purpose/ goal/mission as a married couple. No competition, only compatibility.
Submitting to that hydrogen man as an oxygen woman is easy/effortless, it’s energetically favorable because he will stabilize us into water.
The scientist in me loves this!! ❤️
That is nice!!!
I'm loving this interview! But y'all do realize Jeezy has children already? Jeezy has 3 chidren and a legacy. He is 47 and she is 42. Jennie Mai is adaptable. She has had girlfriends, boyfriends and husbands. Adaptability is a wonderful trait. But yes, Jeannie Mai does like to run her mouth. She trashed her ex- husband on many occasions right on 'The Real' after they divorced. People's core personality, who they are at heart, does not change a lot. I wish Jeezy and Jeannie the best life has to offer! But if they ever divorce, she will likely trash talk him too.
Yes bad example
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You are absolutely right about that!!! I agree, that a person's TRUE character and personality NEVER really changes.
This chick just pandering!
Agreed. Also, I saw an interview with Jeannie and Mario Lopez (most recent). She said she wants to raise the most gender fluid child. If her son wants to put make up on, she’ll support. Jeezy doesn’t strike me as having a gender fluid parenting style. I wish them them the best, but that did make me go “hmm.”
@@SymonnePat Jeezy is that dude that will conform to whatever standard the woman sets as long as he thinks she is "that girl". Jeezy is a high Earning man not a high Value. There is a huge difference. Most of these guys try to fit into the mold of what that girl thinks because they think she knows what is proper, correct and best. In other words, they don't care as long as they can keep her;😂
It amazes how many relationship experts are still seeking successful relationships for themselves. Love the gems April is spitting but the advice about building her world and another person building theirs and they walk into each other's world is precisely where catastrophy strikes. It’s OK, advised and applauded for you to seek love WHERE YOU ARE. Some partners find shelter mates and nurse them back to love and life, some are great with helping you live in your untapped potential, others are excellent at loving you as you are and growing together with you.
Thr aim isn't to build together it should be to grow together. Building something anyone with skills can help do that. Growing together requires specificity, commitment and turbulence (groeing pains). But the end result is always worth it.
She spoke pure gospel. I've been there. Thank God for Growth
Yessssss if he don’t have his stuff together don’t build ish with him. I’ll amplify all day!! Potential is OUT THE DOOR 🚪. Yessssss
Mannnn I love this woman!!! Thank youuuu
Sister! I married the same as you. He never chose to wake up into good potential. He despised me and sabotaged efforts and then hated me for leaving. Then I despised him for not choosing.
I forgave myself for holding him to a standard he never chose for himself and to holding on to a man that never was.
I love that mindset that I don’t need nothing from a man and I just want to find out who you are at your core and I want you to know who I am at my core, beautifully said April.
When she said “But they’re not mine” whewwwwww I had to take a second to process!! TEACH US APRIL❤🫡👌🏾❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 that’s a baddd chick!!
I never understood why women would say they wanted a Boaz 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ people hear things and repeat them not knowing what they're really asking for.
It is a problem and unwise to want something that you know nothing about its back behind the scenes info. 💯 go check things out ask relevant questions get some facts
And yet they are not preparing themselves to be a helpmeet to a boaz
This lady has a lot of wisdom. Do the work to change.
Real men choose who they need and play with what they want!
These videos with April are absolutely amazing! She's full of wisdom!
A word to the wise ain't necessary, it's the stupid ones who need advice. She is simply learning from her bad choices.
I love how both of you make Bible references to illustrate the characteristics of men and women.
I love listening to her talk about this topic I wish I had more female role models in my life to help me with this type of stuff . 💯
I recommend finding community in your church or school. Also, pray and seek God for like-minded women for your life.
A woman that wants for nothing gets e everything. That hit!!
You might see in him what he doesn’t see in himself … FACTS 1 of the many things I learned from my last relationship.. We cannot go off of someone’s one . I saw all of his greatness but he could not see it in himself . One of the quickest ways to outgrow a relationship. It’s extremely important that we commit to individuals who are equally yoked in every facet .
I was listening to the interview. But I understand the assignment when he came up with the H2O analogy!! Who lord help me find my true self. This was 👍
Speak the truth! ’m no longer doing, only being.
I literally an enjoying this segment so much. I never knew about this show before but I've already subscribed! I love this conversation learning so much from the amazing April Mason and Mr. KD
Yesssssss ,so many jewels Shared
Me too. I love the content
This really opened a door in my mind. Like I couldn’t figure out why I was stuck and this dialogue, dropping of gems just created a shift. Thank you & thank you Miss April.
Excellent interview! Grown folk conversation.
WHAT A POSITIVE POINT SHE MADE.
It's hard to take a person seriously when they don't take themselves seriously
I love April perspective on things, shes so classy, informative and make learning about self fun and necessary. For so long Ive hid behind kids and relationships but now I matter and going after my happiness is everything to me now❤
So looking forward in needing nothing and gets everything
April Mason is to be HIGHLY COMMENDED!❤👑👏🏽She is A STELLAR STRONG WOMAN; who has Thoroughly been a Positive Contributor to the lives of MANY people. Thanks A Million!
KD - that triggering comment was spot on .. although ms explained it was not about race ... The fact you recognised that ... 👏🏿
Omg...Im approaching an empty nest and going through the phase where my kids need me less. On the days when its just me, I'm scrambling trying to find something to keep me busy because I was so used to my life evolving around children.
I went thru the same thing for years. Trust me when I say it’s better on the other side of the empty nest. Just don’t accept a man child to replace your children.
Start traveling or pick up other hobbies. You got this.
you got this. start by remembering favorite things you loved as a kid but have put away. start there. let your intuition guide you. Best of luck!
His voice oh my💃🏾
Brother I see the investment you’ve made on this show,I’m praying for you!! Keep being consistent and you’ll be BIG soon!!
This was soooooo good. Thank you!
You choose women that has nothing to loose and you loose everything . This is a master piece. I stumbled into this , I never knew KD Bose had a show . This April Mason woman spoke from her heart and what she went through .So amazing , she is a well of wisdom , class and grace . Some deep stuff and analysts here . Much needed at this time . 😠😠😠😠
Wow. Everything I spoke with my sis about today! Right on time💫
Watching it again, and will watch it over again.
👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾 So many gems in this conversation. Subscribed
This is excellent. I've been here done this. 100% Love..love it. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So smart. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and insights.
Taking notes to complete my own previous notes. Great interview!
GOD GOT YOU SPEAKING TO US!! YOU ARE A VERY WISE WOMAN!!!! YES !THERE IS A CHOICE!! A REAL MAN WANT A REAL WOMAN! TRY GOING AFTER THE ONE THAT WANTS YOU INSTEAD OF THE ONE YOU THINK YOU WANT! THE GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHERSIDE, JUST TAKE TIME OUT TO NOURISH, CHERISH, AND YOUR LOVE WILL GROW !❤ THANK Y'ALL❤🙏
Thank you! This interview has helped me so much.
I celebrate the work of this sister and her content is nice. I will have to admit that the hurt and pain of past wounds is evident in her body language. As a person who continues to do the inner work, I recognize that she's definitely working on self.
🥰🥰🥰This is good. Thanks for having her on!
Wow KD this was sooooooo needed
KD! Y'ALL ARE EVERYTHING!AND THAT WATER, Y'ALL ARE!❤🙂
Love the end.. Quality time, consistency, loyalty..
A woman who wants you for nothing gets everything . Car , house do not move me . I cannot bond with you over gifts . I like the analogy with hydrogen and oxygen combination to form water …… legacy , vision abs destiny . I need to see who you are at ur core . Drop the mic . This is good stuff . Thank you April fir being a vessel because all you saying is inspiring . Holy Ghost take control !!
I so agree...I had just written the same thing about potential in an article...this was so much confirmation
Powerful video. Thank you to both of you❤
Thank you for this segment with April!!!
So true. Ladies don't pick up men with potential. They will not appreciate you. They will treat you as if you are intruding in their lazy space.
They wilk never live up to the potential you saw in them.
Love this video abd her real direct and wholeness truth about us all.
You CANNOT DEAL BEFORE YOU HEAL!
I talking with a guy yesterday about his healing need and carrying around baggage expecting another woman to just pick his bags up and carry them.
NO!
You have to do the necessary work in order for you to truly be HAPPY AND FULL-FILLED which bring more happier days for you.
He’s with a woman who he abd she is not on the same page.
I ask him why Is he there with her.
When you decide to change and get therapy you’ll see yourself years later looking back and so happy you made that change.
DONT SETTLE FOR ANYONE!
Settle on making the change for a GREATER YOU!
Whew! So much TRUTH within this!! Almost every line...yes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!! It so great to hear an intelligent woman who understands all of this!!
This was an amazing conversation!!!
This sooooooooo strong Fam!!!!!! Legacy and the Queen!!!!! Equals total life prosperity!!!!!
Good job KD and wonderful insight, April!
This was such an awesome conversation need more dialog like this keep it up
Thank you most high for allowing me to come cross this video. So many 💎 and clarity!!
I absolutely love this conversation and interview KD. You and April are the most realest people regarding to having mastering and showing how black families and relationships are suppose to exemplify love, respect, honor and having healthy communication. Keep these conversations coming! Peace and Blessings!💘💯
Girl you better preach!! “Leave her alone!!”
Brand new sub here. How have I never heard this beautiful lady speak until now?!?!? This is a real wake up call for me. Thank you all for this series and these conversations.
This was so, so, so GOOD!
OH, MY LORD!!! Did you say it loud. First time here and this is good. AMEN! Thank you!!
Preach! That so resonates with me about the experience of being an empty nester.
April Mason, you are my new amazing person to listen to! Thanks for reminding me of my greatness. X
Enjoying this conversation! It's juicy and thought-provoking!
Fire content! This convo never gets old and played out! Listen! I’m so here for this.
This is my first time listen to her, I enjoy this queen for real talking on her on studio radio and she telling the truth I been there done that, but I am glad I found her on Utube and she giving me good coaching about my self and 1000word paint a picture, God bless you sister on the radio I need to this knowledge of word
April the wisdom you released is RICH!
Sage advice Ms. April. This is the evolution of a woman,not a girl. I’m with you Queen.
This was incredible dialogue and I look forward to more insightful topics. Great job to you both!
She know what she’s talking about!!!!!! ❤️
Wow. What a wholesome interview. Enjoyed every minute.
Loved every drop of this conversation. ❤🔥
Wow I seem to attract men that I have to teach, build, and financially help them. This must change!!!
Ok. Thank you Al(gorithm) for this wonderful short. "A woman who wants for nothing gets everything".
Thank you so much for sharing 🥰🥰🥰🥰
That was a priceless conversation
Very good interview, I loved both perspectives
I'm listening my sister and I know you're speaking truth. I will apply. The one thing I done is not to sleep with them and I can clearly see who not for me, Now I need to understand who right for me. Thank you
She is speaking the truth 🗣️
I loveeeee these! I loveee APRIL 💜🤞🏾 I’m here to LIVE and SHARE EVERY SINGLE EPISODE!!
Brilliant
I love this i swear I am still learning
I have been loving this channel and it's content for the past few days! I am now a new subscriber and I will be tuning in regularly. Be blessed.
My first time here and did exactly the same- I am subscribed as well @B 3 😁
Love this woman! Love seeing black women who speak on femininity
I just subscribed to her channel and yours ..WOW!!! GEMS GEMS GEMS!! im sharing this video with my wife