3 Things To Remember If You're Thinking About Suicide

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  • Опубліковано 25 гру 2024

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  • @karinaochoa2658
    @karinaochoa2658 9 років тому +37

    The hardest part of it all is feeling like no one understands

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +27

      +Karina Ochoa if no one understood, then this video wouldn't exist luv

    • @priscillamcclure4992
      @priscillamcclure4992 6 років тому

      I believe they do. Of course they say you will be ok but really no one knows your thoughts, memories that you can't change. I go day to day. Sad but my cat i rescued is like my shadow and keeps me focused. She seems to read me and its weird but she keeps me going

  • @laurapeterson5158
    @laurapeterson5158 9 років тому +10

    Still deep in my depression but the clouds of suicidal thoughts have finally passed - thanks for reminding me that it's not a failing to have been feeling this way for so long. We're fighting for our lives, after all.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +5

      +Laura Peterson Thank you for sharing that Laura.. time does help, finding the right people will also helps.. keep fighting the good fight =)

  • @JessaJay
    @JessaJay 9 років тому +64

    You could not have picked a better day to upload this video

    • @prillad.3063
      @prillad.3063 9 років тому +1

      True!!

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +9

      +JessaJay =)

    • @JessaJay
      @JessaJay 9 років тому +4

      Humble The Poet Oh my gosh!! Thank you for responding :) That just made my day! You are really sweet!!

  • @llunakittie
    @llunakittie 9 років тому +31

    I sat here for a good 20 minutes trying to figure out what i wanted to say....how to share my story....I can't find the words. All i can say is thank you, Humble. This video couldn't have come at a better time.

    • @dhruvchandarana699
      @dhruvchandarana699 9 років тому +3

      I did sit around here for a while too..thinking the exact same thing. Good to know there's other people going through similar shit.

    • @nesibini8744
      @nesibini8744 9 років тому +1

      same 😌

  • @blackcobra689
    @blackcobra689 8 років тому +16

    I feel like ending my life, I'm just not happy. It's funny how people say, "suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem", but having depression, for thirty years, doesn't seem temporary.

    • @aenoyt39
      @aenoyt39 7 років тому +1

      I feel the same as you, been depressed for over 30 years

    • @leedasdear9691
      @leedasdear9691 7 років тому +1

      It is because u tell your self that there is no way out u should always think about the most possible positive thoughts , u just keep telling your self I am okay I am not depressed then your (I think it's called the inner mind?) Will turn your positive thoughts into reality.

    • @priscillamcclure4992
      @priscillamcclure4992 6 років тому

      I really relate to you. I feel same but go on for my kids and g.kids but wish so bad i could go back and do something

    • @gtsmart5752
      @gtsmart5752 3 роки тому

      can you tell me if you are ok? someone cares for you ;)

  • @akwaabab8504
    @akwaabab8504 8 років тому +7

    just so you know, not only young people watch your videos. i am 50 and i got a lot from this. older folks can learn from younger folks too. thanks.

  • @humblethepoet
    @humblethepoet  9 років тому +43

    Thanks For watching, please share you're thoughts & reply to the thoughts of others, let's build a community here =)
    you can download my book in audio form at unlearnaudio.com =)

    • @kristianaldrin
      @kristianaldrin 9 років тому

      Thank you! Your videos have helped me especially this video... 😀

    • @harsharanrai5299
      @harsharanrai5299 9 років тому

      U post the most touching videos xx I love u humble 💝 from Harsharan rai x

    • @harsharanrai5299
      @harsharanrai5299 9 років тому

      +Harsharan Rai +Humble The Poet

    • @MrHws5mp
      @MrHws5mp 9 років тому

      +Humble The Poet Awesome special effects Humble.. ;-)

    • @JasonYeomans1
      @JasonYeomans1 9 років тому

      Well said Sir! :) Are you and Superwoman brother and sister?

  • @rebekah2295
    @rebekah2295 9 років тому +14

    A lot of people needed this video Humble. You're great. Thank you.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      +Becker Smikle thanks for watching Becker

  • @de5072
    @de5072 9 років тому +8

    today is my two year mark of life since my suicide attempt. this video came out at the right time. my life feels as if it is falling apart again. but this video is very helpful. thank you Humble!

  • @theelocutioner3355
    @theelocutioner3355 8 років тому +2

    I've had problems with depression for my entire life and I spent a lot of time thinking that there just must be something wrong with me, because even when things started to look up, I still felt that depression hiding in the background. Recently things got so bad that my husband insisted that I spend a short time in the hospital so I could get the help I needed. Turned out, after 25 years of living with it, I have clinical depression and in my case it's a chemical problem that has to be treated with medicine. I was never doing something wrong to make myself feel that way, I didn't mess up or ruin my life, I just needed a little bit of medicine to make my body work the way it was intended to!
    Please please don't be afraid to ask for help! And if someone asks YOU for help, please don't write them off. If you can't help them, like Humble said, help them help themselves by helping them find someone who is able to help. Don't spend half your life telling yourself you won't get better like I did until I finally got help!

  • @manpreet.b
    @manpreet.b 9 років тому

    "When people are in trouble, they need your support.. not your opinion." Ily Humble! Thank you. Needed this.

  • @Coopdizzle
    @Coopdizzle 9 років тому +18

    In 2004 I went through a bad place. I was going through a divorce, lost 2 grandparents, and my dad passed. I tried a couple of times to OD on sleeping pills only to wake up the next day in anger. A few years later I started to come out of it I met my husband and had 2 beautiful boys. Now I'm fighting for my life and trying to live through terminal cancer. My how the tides have turned. Would I wish that I had died then? Before I had a family. No. I do hate the fact that this will kill me and 3 people will be left behind. At least I know what real love is like now. The last 8 years have been amazing, except the cancer.

    • @chromaphoenix3248
      @chromaphoenix3248 9 років тому +7

      God can do miracles. I am praying for you!

    • @jasminerose2101
      @jasminerose2101 9 років тому +4

      +Coopdizzle You will get through this!!! We are always here if u need us!!

    • @nesibini8744
      @nesibini8744 9 років тому +1

      Stay strong 💘

    • @robertfaro9756
      @robertfaro9756 8 років тому +1

      sorry to hear this stay strong, much love

    • @mcpartridgeboy
      @mcpartridgeboy 7 років тому

      your lucky if you werre a man, you can forget about divorce because youd never bve with anyone, ever ! not even a date ! people who complain about having love and losing it drives me mad, because your already hit the jackpot being a woman and being guaranteed to have love and sex and support, im a man, i have nothing, i will never have anything, ill live alone forever and die alone in utter misery !

  • @gabriellageralyn
    @gabriellageralyn 9 років тому +10

    I love you so much. I don't have suicidal thoughts but I know this is a video that can change many people's lives. You're amazing.

    • @sapun6801
      @sapun6801 9 років тому +1

      +Gabriella S I watched it to help my friend :)

    • @mitchlorenz4715
      @mitchlorenz4715 7 років тому

      you guys are the friends more people need

  • @luciafuenmayor2376
    @luciafuenmayor2376 9 років тому +3

    One thing that gives me hope is that one day I will figure out how to throw away all the pain and I will lern how to be happy, with or without other people's help.
    We can start to see depression and suicidal thoughts as a challenge we have to sort in order to find out who we really are and how happy we can spend our time on earth.

  • @patriciaarbuckle131
    @patriciaarbuckle131 9 років тому +1

    Thank you Humble, I've been in a very dark place on more than one occasion and the struggle has sometimes felt too much to bear. I made a conscious decision to be open about my anxiety and depression as we can only challenge negative attitudes by confronting them head on. My dark times have taught me who my true friends are and I've learned that if someone chooses to judge or avoid me because of my illness that it says something more negative about them than it does about me. I wish there were more like you in this world.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      +Patricia Arbuckle judging by the thousands of people who watch the video.. there are plenty of people like me, including you =)

    • @patriciaarbuckle131
      @patriciaarbuckle131 9 років тому

      :D

  • @DianaHernandez-oe1ld
    @DianaHernandez-oe1ld 9 років тому +1

    I was once in a very dark place of my own and I found happiness and clarity through you and Lilly. Watching your videos and Lilly's especially helped me soo soo much. Now I'm in a much better place. Thank you. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO.

  • @azizkhambati1619
    @azizkhambati1619 9 років тому +1

    I was just going through comments.. and I realised that with your efforts you have helped so many people. And I really felt happy about it SIR.. Thank you humble.

  • @stephlee8928
    @stephlee8928 9 років тому +1

    Thank you so much for this video humble, I would like to share my story in order to help people, 8 years ago when I was 17(I'm 25 now) my dad commited suicide, he thought this was his only option to stop the pain he was in little did he know he would pass that pain on to his 3 kids, my sister and i now suffer from depression but we got help so we didn't continue to pass on the pain of losing someone you love, we have days where we are just to sad to do much but we are still here, and I want to make my life about helping people like us because everyone deserves to live happy. Sending all my love your way for making this video you are amazing 💛
    Also I want to thank you and Lilly, you two have gotten me through some pretty bad days because you are both funny and amazing so a massive thank you to you both for just being yourselves :-) xx

  • @alecgroves6262
    @alecgroves6262 8 років тому +1

    I am currently suffering from suicidal thoughts. I am struggling to find self worth and it is taking a massive toll. I don't want to be alive because i don't want to die. I think of my life as a segment of reality created by the universe in which i have no control of what is or isn't and i will feel this way forever. Some people really can't escape their turmoil. I hate this... I want to seek help. I will talk to someone... Thank you for making this video...

  • @megannicole1773
    @megannicole1773 7 років тому

    My family is screwed up just as much as my life . I can't even spend the time to watch this thank you very much.

  • @shy4229
    @shy4229 9 років тому +1

    How can someone dislike this!? Love ya humble!

  • @jennifermeyer5287
    @jennifermeyer5287 9 років тому +1

    Good explaination, Humble. I would add that it helps to think of depression as no different than any other illness. You shouldn't try to beat cancer by toughing it out; you shouldn't try to beat depression by toughing it out, either.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      +Jennifer Meyer that's a super dope point =)

  • @guneetgrewal9738
    @guneetgrewal9738 9 років тому +1

    WE LOVE YOU HUMBLE THE POET and tell Lilly to update her vlogs

  • @bitchlasanga9618
    @bitchlasanga9618 9 років тому +2

    Suicidal thoughts are the worst... You're constantly thinking that you're completely alone, no one cares and you feel as if you tell someone they will think that you're just attention seeking. I've personally tried to attempt suicide countless times, self harmed all over my body: burns, cuts ect. It feels that no one cares and I've tried talking to many people but I've just lost hope.

    • @itscooliknowrytyeah4675
      @itscooliknowrytyeah4675 9 років тому

      don't lose it man.Life is so precious .Even if its sadness or happiness live another day to experience the life as it is, take care.

    • @bitchlasanga9618
      @bitchlasanga9618 9 років тому

      +Itscooliknowryt? Yeah! Thanks man I'll try my hardest

    • @mggreen1072
      @mggreen1072 8 років тому

      Bro. I know how ya feel but dont give up

  • @user-ji7mb9gn8u
    @user-ji7mb9gn8u 9 років тому +1

    Great video Humble! Thanks for always delivering quality videos.

  • @annaboyd7204
    @annaboyd7204 9 років тому +1

    Thank you humble! I have never acted on suicidal thoughts but I know this will help so many people. Love you! 😍😍❤️❤️

  • @thecaiannepagan
    @thecaiannepagan 8 років тому

    I've actually struggled with self harming and at first it was really hard to stop but I've worked on staying clean because cutting doesn't make doesn't help it makes my depression worse. but even though its a daily struggle i learned that I'm worth more than harming myself. this video inspired me so much thank you and sometimes i feel alone and no will understand but looking at this i realized I'm not alone in what i go through so thank you💪

  • @BangPowBoomKids
    @BangPowBoomKids 9 років тому

    It's pretty sad it took me this video to find my center, but I appreciate your words man. Thanks for sharing this video with us.

  • @anoshezulfiqarhussain3672
    @anoshezulfiqarhussain3672 9 років тому +5

    This video is so freaking amazing. I needed this humble

  • @MileyLoverIv19
    @MileyLoverIv19 9 років тому +1

    Such an important message! I absolutely love how every video of yours helps people better themselves.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      +Ивона Лаушевиќ Thanks for watching, I appreciate the kind comments =)

  • @beverlyaboateng
    @beverlyaboateng 9 років тому

    I'm so happy that it hasn't even been a day yet and this video has already helped so many people :)

  • @regs128
    @regs128 9 років тому

    So, I feel like a lot of young adults go through this. I am one of them. My father's father committed suicide before I was even a concept. My dad was about to graduate highschool when it happened and so, that's why I call him my grandfather. Depression runs on both sides of my family and I, unfortunately, inherited the trait. For the past few years I have struggling with suicidal thoughts and have no idea where to begin to talk to my parents. It took me three years just to admit to a close friend what was going on. The truth is, we don't need to be in a bad situation to be depressed. We don't have to be stressed out to have anxiety. And sometimes just allowing ourselves to feel these things is the most important thing to do.

  • @selena9747
    @selena9747 9 років тому +2

    This is my first video I'm watching from you. I can not believe i haven't watched your videos before. I needed this. I subscribed not because you're Lillys friend, not because you are famous, and not because I love your beard (Although i really like it) I subscribed because this video helped me. It was my hope to get help and not give up. Thank you truly

  • @ellagreenwald3035
    @ellagreenwald3035 9 років тому

    Thanks for fighting the good fight Humble. We all kind of needed this.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      +Ella Greenwald thanks for watching Ella

  • @nehajha8578
    @nehajha8578 9 років тому

    Thanks so much for making this video I have been struggling with depression and suicidal thoughts/attempts for 3 years and this video really inspired me. :D

  • @SCHEY101
    @SCHEY101 6 років тому

    Looked this up thinking I want to know more about people feeling this way but soon realized it's me feeling like this.

  • @DMDave86
    @DMDave86 9 років тому +1

    Thank you for all of your amazing videos; you have become a regular part of my week, and you mumbly bearded voice speaks some really inspiring truths.

  • @DepthInfinite
    @DepthInfinite 9 років тому +1

    It's been a bit since I've struggled with stuff like this but this is the kind of thing that I needed to hear, even now so thank you so much for sharing this 💚 you made so many points that are so valid and sooooo important and you didn't have to go ridiculously in depth to make your point! Your power with words is amazing! Thank you again ☺️💚

  • @KatherineGreyhunter
    @KatherineGreyhunter 9 років тому +1

    I've experienced many bad thoughts, but once I've heard such a statement: "When you're falling off a bridge, you find out you could solve any of your problems, except one - you ARE already falling off a bridge". Guys, those of you with suicidal thoughts, just remember this statement. It helped me a lot in bad times. Take care and stay safe.

  • @Lazybrowndog
    @Lazybrowndog 7 років тому

    I've tried to take my life at 15 when I was being abused by my dad, when I was 27 out of desperation, 35 when I felt worthless, and soon in the future if my wife is taken by cancer.

  • @ellamore6426
    @ellamore6426 9 років тому

    yes I have very dark thoughts these days, thank you for making this video you made me feel a little better today and that doesn't happen a lot of the time

  • @iramani8150
    @iramani8150 9 років тому

    This has opened eyes for many people and I'm glad you can help them people, you truly are a good person and I would always come to your videos or your book for advice in anything

  • @IqraArshadBeauty
    @IqraArshadBeauty 9 років тому

    I've never been through this myself but thank you for this video because it taught me how to help people I know who might be going through this.

  • @LunaStargoddess
    @LunaStargoddess 9 років тому

    It is true that to ask for help IS being strong, the Ego - your false self thinks you are in competition with everyone and you are all alone and if you ask for help you will be seen as weak. I lost my brother suicide - I understand. Please seek help if you are in pain, it really is worth it, Life as challenging as it can be ♥

  • @AGoddessJourney
    @AGoddessJourney 9 років тому +2

    Wow humble this is on point and perf timing.
    Also I haven't attempted but my only problem is I feel like I am overreacting whenever suicidal thoughts come over my mind.

  • @irenelazcano1728
    @irenelazcano1728 9 років тому +1

    Humble I just want to say thank you for make this i felt way 13 years ago after have my daughter but with right help and lots of pray I made throw my darkest hour min so aging Humble thank you for makeing this video much love

  • @xxShadraxx
    @xxShadraxx 9 років тому +1

    Thanks for posting this as I feel like shit right now and can't sleep at all... I can't calm myself down but this video has helped...

  • @briannagordon6140
    @briannagordon6140 9 років тому

    Great video humble!! I know people are looking for videos like this!! Continue to do what you do!

  • @baileyharvey865
    @baileyharvey865 9 років тому

    this means so much to be because I was this way for like 3 years I'm not anymore but thank you for making this for people like the way I was

  • @MrHws5mp
    @MrHws5mp 9 років тому

    I got bullied senseless at school and got to the point of looking out of high windows and trying to find reasons not to jump. Sometimes I was there for quite a while... I was lucky: at the lowest point, something "snapped" inside me and the pain of other people's judgements flipped over into the joy of not giving a damn about them.

  • @MxEliasCrane
    @MxEliasCrane 9 років тому

    This video is amazing I've had suicidal thoughts in the past 1st time being Aug. 2010 right before my senior year of high school and most recently on the 5 year anniversary I also deal with depression and social anxiety so thank you Humble for posting this video

  • @Xx_Aracely_xX
    @Xx_Aracely_xX 9 років тому

    The book finally arrived today!!! Can't wait to start reading it!!!!! 😄💜

  • @Victoria-ex2eq
    @Victoria-ex2eq 9 років тому +1

    I needed this today thank you Humble.

  • @TheDesertRoseJournals
    @TheDesertRoseJournals 9 років тому

    Depression is a tough bitch that just refuses to leave us. Having attempted suicide twice and failing at it both times has made me feel proud and not regretful because I atleast gave myself the chance to make a wrong choice so I learn how wrong my choices could get.
    5 years back I sunk into depression after being cheated. I was agonized so much that I tried to end my life with pills. To get over things I tried everything - reading, music, videos, learning a new language, etc. but nothing helped. I realised my pain was just getting deeper the more I ignored it and tried new ways of mind diversion. It went till the extent I lost my mind and decided to end my life again. That night was my wake up time because I just couldn't get through the suicide attempt and bawled till I had no energy left.
    The next morning I woke up feeling lighter, and that was my wake up day. Because I realised I stopped myself from suicide by letting my emotions flow and crying my heart out rather than running away from my pain and going to the extent of suicide. From then I began spending more time with myself crying, talking, thinking, analysing, reflecting on my life. And then it was time I acted upon my life. I asked myself - was the person who cheated on me worth my suicide attempt, worth the hurt my parents would feel if my attempts to suicide succeeded, worth all the love I had which he took for granted? Everytime I got the answer no, and then I started feeling less pain and more gratitude.
    To anyone reading this and going through thoughts of suicide, DONT do it, atleast not today. Allow yourself to cry and figure out what went wrong rather than running away from it. pluck the courage and fight back till you get out of this pit called depression. Not for your family, not for your future and not for God. Just hang in there for your own self. Give yourself a chance, talk to yourself, reflect on what went wrong rather than regret on it. People wiol telk you to 'move on' because thats just the best advice they can give. But moving on doesnt help unless you make peace with yourself and accept your imprefect self to prefection. I hope my lessons help anyone out there - 1. nothing, absolutely nothing and noone in this world is worth giving up on life, no matter how hard troubles hit you. 2. reflect on your past and dont stick to it. relieve yourself from the past, dont relive it. just keep with you the lesson you earned from it 3. do what you love, focus on your talents and hobbies and anything that makes you be yourself 4. cut off from all those people who are ready to throw their opinions on you but fail to recognize when you truly need their help. trust me, all freinds are not true soul friends. 5. be yourself and love yourself.
    I did a video on my story, watch if you could understand anything I wrote here.
    Thanks +Humblethepoet for doing this video. A lot of people need it. Sorry for such a long comment, but its only because I decided to share my experience so I could help others, rather than keeping it to myself.

  • @sliceofsanya7451
    @sliceofsanya7451 9 років тому

    I couldn't have seen this at a better time. Thank you humble, I love your videos and the way you see the world :)

  • @veidastair3274
    @veidastair3274 9 років тому

    I used to have a very deep depression but I did get help and I'm even better now Yay!!!

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      +Bvb Foxx getting help is a big thing, glad you did Bvb

  • @aceris5874
    @aceris5874 7 років тому

    I’ve been trying so hard to avoid suicidal thoughts. I’ll go 6 months feeling like a rockstar (well, overall. Then every other day is pretty hard). Then I’ll have a plethora of months really struggling with depression. It’s gone on for so long and every time I think my depression is gone it comes back. But I feel so selfish, I talked about it a lot with my dad but eventually he started saying I was selfish for being so focused on myself. I try so so hard not to be focused on myself but it’s so hard... even to the point where I’ve gone vegan so I don’t inflict pain on animals. I’m just so sick of feeling better and then sinking again. I have no close friends I feel able to talk to anything bad about (we celebrate each other and have good happy convos but I can’t choke out anything bad without feeling self absorbed). I just want to talk without anyone judging me, and I want to not be depressed so I’m not self absorbed and unable to understand others sometimes. Ugghhh couldn’t I have just never been born?

  • @TessRandom
    @TessRandom 9 років тому

    I really needed this video. Thank you so much, Humble.
    Also, beard on point as always.

  • @pkaur2291
    @pkaur2291 9 років тому +7

    Hello Humble, my nephew is 8yrs old and he's being bullied in school about this hair since he's the only one wearing a "patka" in school and even cut his hair! I've had my family members who wear turbans talk to him about Sikh faith and religious importance of his hair. His Father, my brother-in- law, isn't helping by punishing him.... I'm trying to talk and coach him through this difficult time. If you've had this problem, how did you handle it? My nephew is very young therefore it's very important to make sure he has a high self-esteem and confidence otherwise the struggle will continue and he make feel lonely without sharing his feelings. What would you do in this situation? He's a strong kid but children are very rude and ignorant to believes and culture different from there own nowadays.....

  • @TheShreya02
    @TheShreya02 9 років тому

    I attempted suicide when I was 16 or 17. Hell that was a bad day, it was the last straw. Ran away from home to throw myself in front of a train. But I had the love n support of a few friends and my parents. Looking back, I regret having such scary thoughts and attempting to act upon them. Really glad those days are over.

  • @PakiAndProud4321
    @PakiAndProud4321 9 років тому

    It sucks cuz I've been diagnosed with SAD. Winter is coming, and my severe depression has already started since it's already getting cold. I hate the cold and the sadness it brings to me for no reasons.
    Aside from that, incidents that have happened to me in the past have caused me to go through the worst depression that I've ever experienced, gave me severe anxiety which I've learned to put under control, and insomnia, which I still suffer from for over two years.

    • @kristinj9635
      @kristinj9635 9 років тому

      +PakiAndProud Because you might be depending on endorphines produced by sun light aka UV light. Therefore, a UV-light or UV-lamp or sun studio might help to reduce the SAD! Good luck and think of summer!

    • @PakiAndProud4321
      @PakiAndProud4321 9 років тому

      Mia Miau That's half of it. It's a combinations of the lack of endorphins created by the UV light and the lack of Vitamin D that the sun creates. Don't get me wrong, I eat things that give Vitamin D, but I need to get it naturally as well since there's something about chemical imbalancement in my brain that is linked with Vitamin D deficiency.

  • @simonereeve5165
    @simonereeve5165 9 років тому

    Thank you Humble. Your wisdom is astounding x

  • @Mazumiinsh
    @Mazumiinsh 9 років тому

    Whenever people ask me for this kind of help, what I say is - wait. Wait another minute, hour, day, week, month. Just wait and you'll see, it gets better. Patience is what it's all about. I went through months of sadness and suicidal thoughts and know I am thankful to myself that I waited another day. That one morning that I will never forget changed my life forever. Without that one question I asked myself...I don't know where I'd be right now if I didn't ask it. And it was- If I keep existing, do I want my life to be like this? Sad, depressing and without smiles and laughs? When I understood that the answer is no, everything changed. And I started trying to get back up without anyone helping me because I thought I didn't have anyone. Today I'm proud of myself and I can say 'I did it'. What I want to wish y'all is I hope you'll find things you love doing and you'll surround yourself only with people who have positive energy cuz that's the key for not giving up. When you do what you love and love what you do you don't feel a need to give up. Stay strong my loves, I believe y'all can do it. Prove yourself that you're the best and miracles will happen. :) xo

  • @emmawallis7601
    @emmawallis7601 9 років тому

    this is an amazing video, thank you for speaking a truth that many people don't like to talk about

  • @alihamada4168
    @alihamada4168 9 років тому +1

    Humble you the bomb! Love you & your videos

  • @kumardarsh19
    @kumardarsh19 9 років тому

    Love all these insightful vids Humble! Waiting for your 2nd book! :)

  • @carriecook4370
    @carriecook4370 9 років тому

    hi, i have been there. It's very scary. after some therapy and medication i am doing great. it took me a long time to figure out what was wrong with me. in reality there was nothing "wrong" with me. please talk to someone if you are struggling with anything you feel is overwhelming. look in your local phone book for help lines if you don't feel comfortable talking to someone you know. help is out there. i have faith in you!!!!!

  • @samantharubio3625
    @samantharubio3625 9 років тому +2

    This is the most perfect day for you to post this ❤

    • @sapun6801
      @sapun6801 9 років тому

      +Samantha Rubio why?

    • @samantharubio3625
      @samantharubio3625 9 років тому

      Janja Kukec my uncle died

    • @sapun6801
      @sapun6801 9 років тому

      Aw. I'm sorry for your loss. I wish I could help you somehow. :(

    • @samantharubio3625
      @samantharubio3625 9 років тому

      +Janja Kukec Its fine, love. I'll be ok, its just heart breaking, ya know? But, life doesn't stop because someone's heart did, it slows down, but it doesn't stop. At least he's not in pain. Thank you for caring, though. People like you give me a little more hope in this world.

    • @sapun6801
      @sapun6801 9 років тому

      I know. I'm glad that I at least helped you with hope. I hope you get better.
      Life goes on, as they say and you will to, but that doesn't mean you'll forget him. You'll remember him, only those memories won't hit you as hard as you move on. And cherish moments you have with your family now. ☺

  • @robertg27
    @robertg27 8 років тому

    Lily could change my life. She's BEAUTIFUL!

  • @Banana333304
    @Banana333304 9 років тому +1

    I feel like this could definitely help someone thanks for this video humble! now if someone asks for help with their suicidal thoughts and stuff I'll say look I don't know how it feels but here *puts in video link* because I'm 100% sure this can help :) and thanks again humble have a nice day

  • @SwethaMuralidharanswetha_here
    @SwethaMuralidharanswetha_here 9 років тому

    thank you so much for uploading this video. your vidoes give me a postive approach to life. thank you !

  • @gooddayout
    @gooddayout 9 років тому

    Deep one humble. I've lost friends through suicide & the overwhelming similarity is that they never talked or opened up about their despairs to any one just shut up shop. So my only bit of advice through experience is just Talk to someone,anyone because it may help.

  • @deepsohni7469
    @deepsohni7469 9 років тому

    I have been on you tube forever and I have never liked a video or posted a comment ever but today I have specifically logged in to post and like this. It is a very important subject that people do not talk about in specifically indian families. One thing I would say is if you are from a conservative family please do not talk to any of your relatives even if you trust them completely. Please seek help from an outsider who will not judge you or laugh at you when you are seeking help..this is from personal experience.

  • @cozysalms
    @cozysalms 9 років тому +1

    humble, you're so amazing

  • @DJCrazyJimmy
    @DJCrazyJimmy 8 років тому

    hey man, your the coolest vloger I've ever seen on YT

  • @aichadembele9462
    @aichadembele9462 9 років тому

    When I was severely depressed one of my biggest problems was finding someone to talk to. Since my parents weren't understanding my problem I tried talking to my school counselor but my parents got upset with me because they thought that I was "exposing" them . I have attempted suicide at least twice and I have had a problem with cutting since eighth grade. I am not as depressed as I was back then but there are a lot of times where I have felt worthless and extremely lonely . I wish I could talk to people but I am always afraid of saying too much.

  • @idk5810
    @idk5810 9 років тому

    PREACH IT BRUDDAAA.... I simply cannot wait to see you in Trinidad 😭😭... #beardOnPoint

  • @marcelofelipe1156
    @marcelofelipe1156 9 років тому +2

    I wanted to for a long time now but I don't like pain so I don't.BUT I have a way on which it's very quick, but I've been signing out that I'm thinking wrong all the time.But after a lot of people knowing and them saying."u should do this, do that. Try to think happy things" "look at the good you got see wat is happy". It still in my head and I know why,in a way.The last thing that happened was My heart got broken... it was my fault see I use to drink allot and I get mad n aggressive towards any that talks wrong. But I never knew that I was the problem until late last year when I meet my soul mate! I FUCKED IT UP so bad that I been locked up. Twice! In one year. I had ending thoughts before we meet but now that we are not together (Loves me but scared of me) . 8th Oct 2015 at 2:14pm I had plans to end me! BUT a good Friend let me stay at there house and for the last two week's I've been here and today is the 9th Oct 2015. They say One day at a time. It's harder then it sounds! I haven't got my own house to rent and going to friends/family's houses is alright but it's not good to always depend on people. But by saying that it's not good to be alone.. well I like been alone cause I can be naked all day and just play games and watch TV.Still I do hope I make up my mind wether or not I do end it because it's driving me CRAZY. Look thanks for reading what I wanted to say sort of thing. Be honest I never written like this but I like your Video. You made me think better so thanks.

  • @Tippi08
    @Tippi08 9 років тому

    HUMBLE! LOVED this video. I talk about my suicide story on my channel with the hope of sharing how I overcame that struggle. I'm also Punjabi, Sikh and very much resonate with you, your heart and your message. Thank you for all the beautiful work that you do. Your heart is your brand. As is mine.

    • @Tippi08
      @Tippi08 8 років тому

      Thanks for the encouragement! Yes, we need to exercise our voice on those topics that tug at our hearts. Wish you the best as well my friend.

  • @aoifemunro5642
    @aoifemunro5642 9 років тому

    Humble, you make such informative and interesting content. This video really helped me, so thank you❤️

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому

      +Aoife Munro thanks for watching Aoife =)

  • @amyp4985
    @amyp4985 9 років тому

    Thanks for the video, Humble :)

  • @irenejung3476
    @irenejung3476 9 років тому

    This is perfect. Thank you!

  • @savi-anngranado4319
    @savi-anngranado4319 9 років тому

    Hi Humble :) hope you're doing well. You're awesome.. wise words as always. I can always look forward to an interesting video from you.

  • @priscillamcclure4992
    @priscillamcclure4992 6 років тому

    Had alot of tragic growing up did seek help at 20 the pro shrink i saw was a perv and ran out of his office. Iam now 62 and still have suicide thoughts and have attempted several times, since i was 12. I take Prozac but now for no reason it all hits me at once..things i couldn't change that i feel guilty about. I have 2 kids and 4 g.kids that i love so much yet i have thoughs let it go??!! Can't

  • @tyannafutch7
    @tyannafutch7 9 років тому

    Thank you very much for making this video and I'm glad I'm not the only

  • @elrevolorio
    @elrevolorio 9 років тому

    This video will help a lot of people.... thanks Humble :)

  • @4t34s3
    @4t34s3 7 років тому

    I needed this video today!

  • @sunainachohan5430
    @sunainachohan5430 9 років тому

    Life Saver! Thank You 🙏

  • @wesliwehmeier5234
    @wesliwehmeier5234 9 років тому +1

    thank you humble. I don't know how to talk about this with one of closest friends. I'm just not good at it I guess. I will share this with her. thanks again x

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  9 років тому +1

      +Wesli Wehmeier please do =)

    • @TessRandom
      @TessRandom 9 років тому

      +Wesli Wehmeier Wesli! Hope all goes well.

    • @wesliwehmeier5234
      @wesliwehmeier5234 9 років тому +1

      +Tess Random Hey! Awee thankx

    • @TessRandom
      @TessRandom 9 років тому

      Wesli Wehmeier Wesli watch my you now xD www.younow.com/tess_random/71169821/15298849/lsGIl3whki/b

  • @harethnasser9835
    @harethnasser9835 9 років тому

    Humble you are so handsome, you really inspire me in my life,thank you for being so amazing,meeting you has become my #1 thing on my bucket list.
    love from UAE

  • @FatimaAhmed-hd9nn
    @FatimaAhmed-hd9nn 9 років тому

    Thank you! I watched this at the right time :)

  • @UniqueHeartbeat93
    @UniqueHeartbeat93 9 років тому

    Thank you for this video.

  • @fern4520
    @fern4520 9 років тому

    Thanks I really needed this

  • @aleahbhairo6194
    @aleahbhairo6194 9 років тому +10

    Gonna keep watching this for future reference k

  • @malissam676
    @malissam676 9 років тому

    Great message. Just shared on Facebook. I think everyone can sympathize with the subject.

  • @pareshserai6483
    @pareshserai6483 9 років тому

    Hey!!! Thanks for this!!!!

  • @sayurnajb
    @sayurnajb 9 років тому

    Thank you for being so inspiring

  • @user-xk1uu2qg2f
    @user-xk1uu2qg2f 7 років тому

    Inspiring thanks for the Love.

  • @MsDjessa
    @MsDjessa 9 років тому +1

    I am not sure if this would be the right thing to say to someone contemplating suicide (even though it has worked for me) but it is a bit like the last point about permanent solution.
    The way I see it we always have a chance to take our own lives, at any given point. But after its done there are no other options. So even if life never gets better at least I stayed and took the chance it would.

  • @krystalw2001
    @krystalw2001 9 років тому +1

    Keep pushing, fight for your life! Always P.U.S.H. (Pray Until Something Happens)