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  • Опубліковано 26 гру 2024

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  • @willwilson5251
    @willwilson5251 8 років тому +25

    “Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour
    True friends are like stars, you don't always see them but they are always there.”

  • @vanessanair6691
    @vanessanair6691 8 років тому +14

    Love this. "Actions scream, words whisper"

    • @Riyakaur.x
      @Riyakaur.x 4 роки тому +1

      vanessa nair that’s the type of mindset we all need to have

  • @hollowskido
    @hollowskido 8 років тому +10

    So much learning and positivity today between Humble and Lilly. :)

    • @hollowskido
      @hollowskido 8 років тому +5

      I consider sharing an experience, along with tips on how to deal with the same, positive. Maybe just my perspective. But to each their own. :) Have a good day regardless.

  • @JuliaRachel_2022
    @JuliaRachel_2022 8 років тому +9

    So true!!! I have burned a couple of times by fake friends! Thanks

  • @livviliebel2599
    @livviliebel2599 8 років тому +3

    "People are in your life for either a minute, a season or a lifetime."

  • @adrianherrera1165
    @adrianherrera1165 8 років тому +6

    Wow, like damn! This is really insightful, turning something negative and turning it positive. My hat goes off to you Humble. You're one of my content creators.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому +3

      +Adrain Herrera thanks man =)

    • @shivannirambaran5272
      @shivannirambaran5272 8 років тому

      Ikr, humble makes the best videos. He is one of the first UA-camrs I subscribed to because he does videos like this. Also, he always supports iisuperwomanii no matter what. He is just an awesome person.

    • @adrianherrera1165
      @adrianherrera1165 8 років тому

      +Shivanni Rambaran indeed! He makes me step back and rethink my situations.

    • @shivannirambaran5272
      @shivannirambaran5272 8 років тому

      +Adrain Herrera I wish I had a friend like him

    • @adrianherrera1165
      @adrianherrera1165 8 років тому

      Shivanni Rambaran right?! Well goodnight sir! :)

  • @beedlesmama
    @beedlesmama 8 років тому

    I'm now over 40...during my 20s a sixty+ year old woman told me "people will tell you everything you need to know abt themselves in the first 3 times you meet them...YOU just need to know what to hear"... truth!!!

  • @JackalKing49
    @JackalKing49 8 років тому +2

    I had these three friends, they talked shit behind my back, they would always argue with everything I said, they were in general very toxic to my life. Then one day out of nowhere they disowned me. I should have disowned them after the shit talking, but I didn't do anything about it.

  • @MelisaKabatas
    @MelisaKabatas 8 років тому +2

    Humble, I couldn't agree more. It's so important to look at fake friends as teachers and move on. Great video! xo

  • @inidaonedance
    @inidaonedance 8 років тому +8

    NEEDED THIS

  • @airavatara
    @airavatara 8 років тому +1

    I don't think I've ever had fake friends-at least at the time they were my friends-rather I've just had trouble making friends in general. Very insightful video! :)

  • @h.4207
    @h.4207 8 років тому

    I've had people make friends with me only because I was useful to them. It didn't hurt because I was never close to them, but it did make me feel naïve once I realized it. Of course, they ceased communications quite swiftly once I stopped handing out favours so willingly. Being used doesn't bug me; humanity exists for the good and benefit of each other. What bugs me is people pretending like they're my friends. That fake friendship sets a false environment of trust and comfort.

  • @morgankrieger4720
    @morgankrieger4720 8 років тому +3

    I have to many fake friends its hard to actually be happy because everyone is so fake and not trust worthy

    • @smokescreen1163
      @smokescreen1163 8 років тому

      same,:-(

    • @morgankrieger4720
      @morgankrieger4720 8 років тому

      Ya it kinda sucks iron hide​ but I guess you just have to look past it and find the good people in the world

    • @jojos9451
      @jojos9451 8 років тому

      +morgan krieger you got that right!

  • @enmg7124
    @enmg7124 8 років тому +1

    I had a friend that betrayed me, we ended our friendship without saying a word, then a couple week later she calling me a fake friend on twitter and facebook.

  • @Justme-ok3bf
    @Justme-ok3bf 8 років тому

    I have a few friends who are in the public eye but I go out of my way to never ever ask any favors or things like that. And I will never betray their trust either. I don't want to take advantage of people or ride their coat tails! I am all about conversation of course and asking for advice should be possible. But I have had my share of fake friends, those who never have time for you and only know you when they need you. To that I say so long, goodbye! Rather have no friends than fake friends! Great video!

  • @tismeNax
    @tismeNax 8 років тому

    I just yesterday got rid of someone I consider a fake friend but who'd probably say I'm the fake one and that's okay. She was one of those who in all our time together she'd complain nonstop about every small thing and she'd also only ever talk about herself- If I tried to talk to her because things got too much, it'd always turn back to her so yeah it sucks because I don't really have very many people but you've really got to filter through people properly and surround yourself with good vibes and genuine people.

  • @aditidas2044
    @aditidas2044 8 років тому

    As soon as u said fake friends are teachers I literally clapped. Fake friends suck and I've had heaps. Now I've learnt how to step back from these people. Thanks for the video:)

  • @pammyjoanmichaelrichard9176
    @pammyjoanmichaelrichard9176 8 років тому

    humble...Thank you for sharing that post. U r right. Fake friends will always exist, no matter how nice and kind we are to them. The important part is that we ourselves not imitate in their fairness but we show our side of goodness, no matter how bad they are. I've gone through that phase too, so I understand how to deal with people of such category. Peace!

  • @BIackCrow995
    @BIackCrow995 8 років тому

    I've dealt with "friends" that promised me the stars,and then the time came and when I needed someone just to be there and understand me they just couldn't and they were so good in making me think that it was my fault, and for quite some time i trusted them. I've given them so much opportunities,and then i realised that it wasn't me that had problems it was them, and yeah it messed me a lot but thanks for a video really,cause it would have sure helped me back then and i hope it will help someone who is dealing with that now. Good luck :)

  • @nunayoochun0
    @nunayoochun0 8 років тому

    Granted I was very unlikable in the past, I've had many people who thought of me as an option and are often not fully admitting that they were my friends. Yeah I was a lot of things but I was never fake. Because I hate how it feels like to not trust your own friends. Your video spoke to me a lot. Especially when you said it made you feel reluctant to make new friends because so did I. But all those experiences made me really strong. So strong I no longer feel obligated to stay in a toxic friendship like that.

  • @karinaespino6340
    @karinaespino6340 8 років тому

    this has helped me very much seeing as this week I have learned that who I thought was my bestfriend for 4 years is a fake friend. thank you to Humble for being so amazing

  • @monikaperolic8484
    @monikaperolic8484 8 років тому +3

    you are so incredibly smart and wise. l love your videos because you keep it real and every time l learn something new

  • @eternalearth88
    @eternalearth88 8 років тому

    Dear Humble, I wanted to say thank you. This video. Your words. Really resonated with me. 2015 I started work and being in the real world instead of school and all the people I called my friends left. :( It's only recently I started to feel like I could give things a shot again with other people. *hugs* Thank you for being exactly who you are Humble. Sincerely, Taking it slow

  • @shelav3707
    @shelav3707 8 років тому

    'actions scream, words whisper' perfect!

  • @Giacintha
    @Giacintha 8 років тому

    Thank you so much for this - I needed this today - I've been immune to fake friends as I never really went too deep with folks whose actions didn't align with their words and I think I had a huge dose of being lucky but that luck ran out recently and burned me so badly that your insightful words were necessary to redress my upset about a 'so-called' friend cutting me off abruptly with no response to my messages and no explanation of whether I did something wrong. Such a-holery could have started to eat away at my normally strong resolve but your words have helped me to deal with the hurt in a pragmatic way. Cheers for that seriously - life really is too short to waste on people who are not worth the effort and there will be others who actually are worth it - reason, season, lifetime 👍🏾✌🏾

  • @NicolettaA26
    @NicolettaA26 8 років тому

    You truly learn who your real friends are, when you're going through a rough patch in your life. The real ones will stay, whilst the others will back away.

  • @cyn1c4lpho3nix
    @cyn1c4lpho3nix 8 років тому +1

    ive absolutely had a fake friend before. we were "friends" for so long that i continued to give her the benefit of the doubt when she would do fucked up shit. but the final straw was her not showing up to my father's funeral. i never thought of her or referred to her as a friend from that day fwd....

  • @BellaRaniUK
    @BellaRaniUK 8 років тому

    This is awesome! So true!! Actions scream, words whisper. Love it.

  • @Kalonjee1
    @Kalonjee1 8 років тому

    Real talk! Everyone's talk the talk, Gotta walk the walk! Keep it comin bruh

  • @bhumikarao8069
    @bhumikarao8069 8 років тому

    " For many angels you meet, there'll always be one devil in disguise"
    "Actions SCREAM, words WHISPER "
    Love this vdo Humble! Big fan :)

  • @DMDave86
    @DMDave86 8 років тому

    You have pretty good timing on the release of your videos, bearded friend-I can think of many times in the past two years where you roll out with a video that addresses something I'm struggling with at that exact time, and tonight is no exception. Thanks for the words of wisdom, and the music. :)

  • @AS-bm3sg
    @AS-bm3sg 8 років тому

    Lol you know they're fake when they gossip and talk but then want you for your talents.. Great vid!

  • @NiharikaSantani
    @NiharikaSantani 8 років тому

    Actions scream, words whisper! Wow
    This is so going on my soft board!!

  • @unsafestimboard
    @unsafestimboard 8 років тому +1

    This really opened my mind
    Didn't realize I needed this till now

  • @UndercoverMuffinz
    @UndercoverMuffinz 8 років тому

    Everyone should have someone like you in their life, Humble :(

  • @jasminegillooly1853
    @jasminegillooly1853 8 років тому

    humble this is exactly what I needed today it made me remember all the fake friends I used to have and reminded me to appreciate my true few:)

  • @reeseloughran5407
    @reeseloughran5407 8 років тому

    I've had a lot of fake friends and this definitely helps a lot. Thanks!

  • @stephlee8928
    @stephlee8928 8 років тому

    Great video humble, I too learnt this lesson the hard way, but I'm lucky enough to have met a couple of really awesome friends through the Internet, good friends are so hard to find but when you find them it's so worth it

  • @darkninja310
    @darkninja310 8 років тому

    You and Lilly are successful to give everyone a hope about themselves! You guys seriously make others feel good about themselves!

  • @barnumingrid8739
    @barnumingrid8739 8 років тому

    i love the part when you said,you can be someone else fake friend. nobody is perfect

  • @imjustalex6931
    @imjustalex6931 8 років тому +1

    Humble, I really enjoyed this video! This was really informative! I've learned alot from you!

  • @XsyntrikNomad
    @XsyntrikNomad 8 років тому

    I love your videos Humble. You're a pretty enlightened guy. **HUGS**

  • @simranmann
    @simranmann 8 років тому

    Lilly is so lucky to have friend like you who's so wise and funny ;)

  • @krystalw2001
    @krystalw2001 8 років тому

    Yasss! That's how I've always determined my real friends from my fake friends, I watch how they act towards me. I've been friend's with this girl for 21 years now and I keep trying to give her the benefit of the doubt but her actions have been so shady these past few years that the only thing holding us together is my goddaughter. I love my goddaughter so much but her mom and I are too old for this. She's about to be 32 and I'm 29 and I just feel like I don't have time for messy, lying friends. I caught her talking about me when she thought she hung up the phone and she had the audacity to tell me it was her sister, like I don't know her voice and like he sister knew my business without her telling her. This was the second time she's done this and lied about it. The first time she did it she thought I couldn't hear her on the phone when she was in her stoop.

  • @SimranKaur-xy7sr
    @SimranKaur-xy7sr 8 років тому

    Please come to London and do some sort of meet and greet! I LOVE listening to you talk! Literally whenever you talk, I'm just like YYAAAAAAS - PREEEAAACCCHHHHH HUMBLE!

  • @knitting68
    @knitting68 8 років тому

    in my case it's a fake husband, I should had seen it coming. You my handsome friend @humblethepoet are right, I need to learn and not give up. I will not fall, but stand up stronger and more determined to find those close friends.

  • @musiclovaa
    @musiclovaa 8 років тому

    I'm so glad i got rid of some fake friends i had! I've learned from that experience.

  • @VikzGie23
    @VikzGie23 8 років тому +1

    Interesting perspective...enjoyable video as usual. Positivity is powerful.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому +1

      +Victoria G thanks for watching =)

  • @HarleenGilldontbeahater
    @HarleenGilldontbeahater 8 років тому

    Humble, I just started watching you. The inspiration and motivation you gave me cannot be put into words. Thank you 💞.

  • @maitepoto
    @maitepoto 8 років тому +2

    I feel like all of my friends are fake friends...

  • @sonyanair775
    @sonyanair775 8 років тому

    I feel like you were speaking to me. Thank you for your wise words!

  • @teresar.7086
    @teresar.7086 8 років тому

    you blow my mind humble :)
    I didn't have many negative experiences lately, but you made me think if I ever behaved like a fake friend..

  • @Bite_sized_happiness
    @Bite_sized_happiness 8 років тому

    I can't guess if a person is good or fake !!! I always bump into the wrong one ... now I don't even try ... I'm just into my own shield ...

  • @belovedgabriela
    @belovedgabriela 8 років тому

    Yass Highlight of my day! i love your videos so much Humble! Sooo inspiring & I just love your way of thinking , such an open mind! Also all your videos have helped me overcome many of my obstacles ! ❤❤❤ Can't wait to see what more great things will come for you !! You will always have my 110% Support! 🙌🙆

  • @beedlesmama
    @beedlesmama 8 років тому

    much love!! teachers and students all of us!!!

  • @lusciouslylaxx3241
    @lusciouslylaxx3241 8 років тому

    Thanks for making this video!😁
    Really needed to hear this today.. I love how u look at situations like this and try to find something good from them

  • @medha6735
    @medha6735 8 років тому

    When humble posts a video that's coincidentally related to something you're going through…
    -Thanks
    Humble

  • @SeanApplePie
    @SeanApplePie 8 років тому

    fake and friends won't get so well in one sentence. same as fake love, that aint love so it were no friends. so they can't break your hart. keep up the good humble

  • @LettishaLSxD
    @LettishaLSxD 8 років тому

    It's all in the little things x)
    HUMBLE, I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!
    I feel the positivity through the earphones. XD

  • @nandnitalreja
    @nandnitalreja 8 років тому +1

    Thanks humble needed this so much cause I m going through something

  • @MercuryWolff
    @MercuryWolff 8 років тому

    The internet is a great place to meet people like me! Yes you said it! I'm new to your channel and so I'll keep telling you (&Lilly) how grateful i am for you both, your videos remind me what it looks/feels like to be alive and has encouraged me to put myself out there more. After all, i need more real friends and the internet is a great place to find some! it really is! Blessingsss wahe guru (my Faith is all-inclusive, i chant satnam wahe guru while honoring other Truths that ring similar & true)

  • @chellewalker4257
    @chellewalker4257 8 років тому

    Thank you very much for your message!!! you are a wonderful, humble man!!!
    when are you going to come to Montana 😄

  • @deborahkrupalini4348
    @deborahkrupalini4348 8 років тому

    @humblethepoet, I cannot agree more on the point that you made about Actions are loud and words are like whispers...so damn true!!!

  • @indie5794
    @indie5794 8 років тому +1

    Thank you, this video meant a lot ✨

  • @shrutipremkumar
    @shrutipremkumar 8 років тому

    congratzzz on the verification humble!!! #proud

  • @vidyayalla6857
    @vidyayalla6857 8 років тому

    Yeah I have been burned a lot of times and it just seems futile sometimes to go out and make new friends. But I recently decided to let go of them. They are not affected by their actions at all its only me who is hurting.

  • @mlshahid63
    @mlshahid63 8 років тому

    My best frnz ( or at least dats wat I thought) betrayed me real hard... it was really difficult for me to trust anyone... but from past 2 years i have made a whole group of best frnz.. they are the best thing dat ever happened to me... I will never stop making new frnz... each frnd is a lesson..

  • @jah22x
    @jah22x 8 років тому

    ah wonderfully said!! love your insight Humble!

  • @speechy_keen4878
    @speechy_keen4878 8 років тому

    I love the term "handsome friends: :-) now added to my vernacular.

  • @karamiddleton6321
    @karamiddleton6321 8 років тому

    I FRIKING LOVE THIS! YES!! This is seriously truuuuuth!

  • @alexandrajaderamsaroop2213
    @alexandrajaderamsaroop2213 8 років тому

    I love this! So true though!! Kudos again babe 💞

  • @louiseshekells168
    @louiseshekells168 8 років тому

    shit, i'm right now having problems with fake friends and this made me forget about it and looking forward to forget and think about myself more than the others

  • @orangehoodie3
    @orangehoodie3 8 років тому +1

    I needed to hear this today.

  • @nereipollock3533
    @nereipollock3533 8 років тому

    So true ...
    Sad but true
    A lot of people only wants and needs something from one people get use to using people and it's like what the hell.... Maybe this will help some people who are fake

  • @Amyjhopes
    @Amyjhopes 8 років тому

    you made me cry Humble. it is just what i need to hear. 👍❤👍

  • @hushlings8239
    @hushlings8239 8 років тому +1

    Your videos always bring a smile to my face. My cranium is better off for having subscribed to you, my friend. :)

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому

      +Jess Kearns knowing that you watched, brings a smile to mine as well =)

  • @Ryanrobida7469
    @Ryanrobida7469 8 років тому

    I really needed that. Thanks Humble!

  • @jazzk3164
    @jazzk3164 8 років тому

    So inspiring, great video 😊 keep doing what you do it's amazing

  • @parneetb8317
    @parneetb8317 8 років тому

    this is so inspirational i love this guy sm

  • @earthkat
    @earthkat 8 років тому

    I found out about how many real friends I did have when I became ill. It was a shock and hard to deal with everything else that was going on. Conversely I have made really good friends from the internet since then. Some I still have to meet. I know they are there when I need them and they know I'm there for them when they need me.

    • @naz-nazneen886
      @naz-nazneen886 8 років тому

      Hi, hope you're feeling better. Can I give you a different outlook? I have been working in the medical field for 26 yrs. I noticed some people are "natural caregivers" & others become uncomfortable when someone becomes sick or injured & shy away. It's kind of like those people who laugh at someone getting hurt-not because they actually think it's funny, but out of nervousness. I wish you well & it's awesome you are meeting new friends. Take care😊

    • @earthkat
      @earthkat 8 років тому

      +Nazneen Thank you for posting this. Yes I think that is very probable for quite a lot of them it was about 15 years ago and they were in their late teens/early 20s. I have good days and bad days thanks. I hope you are good too and thank you for all your work in the medical profession.

  • @ShreyasSreedhar2
    @ShreyasSreedhar2 8 років тому

    You deserve more than the subscribers you currently have. This video was too great.

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому

      +Shreyas I'll continue to get more subscribers as y'all spread the word... slowly but surely =)

    • @ShreyasSreedhar2
      @ShreyasSreedhar2 8 років тому

      +Humble The Poet Yep. 😊

  • @harataharry2967
    @harataharry2967 8 років тому +2

    So many people say im fake but its just that i really just don't care,others feelings over mine

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому

      +harata waarakeats don't worry what they say then

    • @harataharry2967
      @harataharry2967 8 років тому

      +Humble The Poet thanks i really do try 😊 your words really help,and i do thank you for that

  • @katmaxwell9410
    @katmaxwell9410 8 років тому

    Love you Humble even though you don't know me I feel like we are friends and I appreciate every video that you make 👍👍❤

  • @njkdgreat
    @njkdgreat 8 років тому

    I had alot of fake friends in my life cus I was too soft and more of a helping hand for everyone. And many of these 'fake' people came into my life and acted like they were my close friends, especially those times I didn't have much friends. So I spent alot of time with them because I didn't have anyone else. Then later, like everyone of them did, they looted money from me for their expense, made me involve in some of their troubles and they escaped, made fun of me in front of everyone so that they can shine, helped me alot in taking the wrong decisions, always.
    And you know what's the best part? I didn't do anything to get rid of them! Nope I didn't. Because I didn't have anyone else to hangout with, and mainly, I forgive them. I forgive everyone. I always felt everyone was using me because I forgave them in the end. I tried not to do that, but later ended up forgiving people.
    Then time flew by, I didn't put any effort to lose them. They just gave up, and left.
    And now currently, I'm having alot of temporary friends and I'm cool with it, because I'm watching @HumbleThePoet and I started learning to love myself, believe myself, and find happiness myself. Thank you brother. :)

  • @CherishMyDaughter
    @CherishMyDaughter 8 років тому

    I really like the broken quote glasses. Keep those :-)

  • @lissetteg1770
    @lissetteg1770 8 років тому

    I have a friend who has been going down the wrong path, she accepted my help, however the day after, she pushed me away, she doesn't go to school and I can't help her anymore because she doesn't accept my advice I don't want to be seen as a fake friend so I'm her friend but we're not too close anymore, now I'm just trying to focus on my life if she wanted my help she would have done something to actually change her life

  • @TheLastxtear
    @TheLastxtear 8 років тому

    This is So true, Screw fake friends.

  • @AlZiaaa
    @AlZiaaa 8 років тому

    I really needed this video. Thanks Humble :)

  • @TheYosk17
    @TheYosk17 8 років тому +1

    Hello Humble. I really like your videos and I am glad you are acting as a mentor for your followers. I love it. Have you made a video on HOW TO TRUST YOURSELF? or possibly how to be more humble with your decision making. Trusting in the process. I am a mess and not good at answering simple questions like "Do you want to be Happy" . Personally I do not like to use the word Happy because it seems overused and vague. Could you make a video on how to help those with trusting themselves or steps to trust yourself? I'm scared of the future but glad I have you in it. #TeamHumble

    • @palaksharma1777
      @palaksharma1777 8 років тому

      I really appreciate what you said there. I'm not articulate enough to answer it and I don't have the answer to it but I just want to let you know that among a sea of comments yours spoke to me.

  • @reannpereira2784
    @reannpereira2784 8 років тому

    damn humble 🙇🙇 needed this reminder so bad 😍 thanku soo much 💁💙

  • @aleahbhairo6194
    @aleahbhairo6194 8 років тому +3

    I can't remember when last I watched one of your videos 😭😔 #exams . still can't watch it

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому +5

      +Melissa Bhairo thanks for picking back up =)

  • @MrAdvaniOfficial
    @MrAdvaniOfficial 8 років тому

    It's difficult to find real friends these days

  • @MicahAlexandriaReglos
    @MicahAlexandriaReglos 8 років тому +3

    I had to stop playing the game Stack just to watch your videos 😂 #Priorities. Btw, congratulations on being verified on Twitter! 😊

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому +2

      +Micah Alexandria Reglos thanks for watching... not sure how big of a deal being verified on twitter really is, but I guess it looks cool =)

    • @MicahAlexandriaReglos
      @MicahAlexandriaReglos 8 років тому

      +Humble The Poet Basically when you're verified you're basically famous😂 haha. It's like you're a public account on Twitter for a long time without changing it to a private account😊

  • @sullydabully7862
    @sullydabully7862 8 років тому

    Good one but one should forgive as well. Not bcuz of the other individual but bcuz of the self. It's very important to forgive so one can be in peace. Forgetting ain't easy as well, but how can 1 forget if they haven't forgive? That's the whole point of forgetting to not have any grudge in the heart. Having a clean heart is one who forgives but takes it brain with it. I like when u used the word teacher. Truly , a lesson. A lesson learned.

  • @sKitZoBonKa
    @sKitZoBonKa 8 років тому

    Like that relax dictionary reference on the top of the bed

  • @Jamielee_k2
    @Jamielee_k2 8 років тому

    Love the fact he made the video at Lilly house

  • @anad4820
    @anad4820 8 років тому

    I can relate and this video helped me let it go...thxs Humble

  • @vaness_uhhh
    @vaness_uhhh 8 років тому

    You're awesome Humble!!💖

    • @humblethepoet
      @humblethepoet  8 років тому

      +Nessa Jimenez you're just as awesome Nessa!

  • @MrZanuff79
    @MrZanuff79 8 років тому

    A very powerful video indeed!

  • @priyankapawar5978
    @priyankapawar5978 8 років тому

    that was some good advice!
    subscribed!