lol so true. i have a friend thats a girl i knw for a long time and i just started liking her. for dudes i think that is always a possibility for a deeper emotion to arise.
yeah you're just having a friendship but when you ask a girl out and she rejects you, if you decide to continue being her friend now you're in friendzone... i was once friendzoned by a chinese girl i liked and i didnt allow her to friendzone me so i blocked her and i hope she reads it lol because i do that to every girl that rejects me.. i have no room for a friendzone
I drove a married women home from a cocktail party years ago and we texted many times and then she wanted to have dinner with me. But her behaivor was more like a girlfriend towards me. She denied it and said thats her quirky personality. RIGHT Then when I cut it off she stalked me for like 3 years not understanding why I stopped talking to her. Women live by different rules of what is friendship.
It wasn't so many years ago, that I knew actually Nothing about a so called "friend zone". I never even thought that there ever was such a thing, so I continued on be a friend to my female friend's, i later found out that they are okay about it, just being a so called friend!
I think it takes adult-like communication and being yourself, but you have to put it all out there, up-front and right-out on the table in the beginning. Either you'll grow, or you'll just come to know. However, why do i keep getting tossed by women refusing to be my "friend first"? It's a dating relationship or nothing, even while I've clearly expressed NOT wanting a sexual grant, just the START RIGHT of being simple "Friends First" that's all. It's an issue of taking ya time, especially these days (Ya feel me?)
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
guys and girls can be friends,,, It's not impossible... You saw in the video, that some people said that they have a best friend from the opposite gender that they're NOT attracted to, the person is just their friend or best friend. It's annoying how people take such beautiful friendships for granted
These are all college kids. maybe its possible for men and women to be just platonic friends when people get older or in midlife. Ive had alot of male platonic friends and currently have had one for over 10 years plus. And why shouldnt it be possible if 2 people do not find each other physically attractive to be friends?
It's true if there not that attractive, but if he's attractive it can happen in 99%, it's very sad and arrogant and narcissistic of most women to say no but not surprised😔 and now days it's hard to find the truth in women no balance just confusion sad reality of world nothing changed just a vicious cycle 📚😏
Spot on, as I wouldn't be friends with any female without that basic $€×ual attraction! It's a different story for females, as they love men completely differently, so can have hoards of homies hanging out in their friend zone!
No they can’t because if I’m sexually or romantically interested in someone why would I just be her friend if I’m sexually attracted to her ppl only friend zone ppl their not physically attracted to
To answer this question you would need to set up a deffinition of what "just friends" is. Having sex, sexual contact, intimate contact (holding hand, hug, ect.), attraction, whether they want to be with you in a serious dating/marriage kind of way, whether they would have sex with you, etc. I would say that 99% of the time atleast one of the people is attracted to the other and would possibly consider atleast having some sort of sexual contact with them, but the other elements may not be there.
People are so ridiculous to think that friends can't find each other attractive. Grow the hell up. Notice how it's mostly men saying they can't. Maybe this is related to how they often don't learn to have intimacy with other men, unlike women. Not sure.
Your story has less to do with him being friends and more to do with you trying to play games. Even if he would never do anything with her that doesn't mean he would openly admit to something like that. Particuliarly if he thinks it might make you mad or atleast ask questions, which it did.
because they were both atracted to somebody else, that´s why it worked, also, they were KIDS when they met, and by book 3-4 when they get to puberty, hermione likes ron, and harry likes cho, but then harry goes with gina, there were never space for harry-hermione ships, only in our hearts hahaha
This is depressing, I lost all my guy friends and none of them were attracted to me but i was attracted to one and I ruined a good thing. I don't think women and men can stay friends without any physical or romantic attraction developing. Pretty much the reason why men and women will never understand each other 😅🥲
In my opinion YES if they are like 70-90 Years old :D
Guys and girls can be friends if they're in a group.. if they get closer than that one of em develops feelings overtime
Excellent point.
Does that mic even work?
1:50 I agree with Tarrantino
Omg for real 😂😂
lol so true. i have a friend thats a girl i knw for a long time and i just started liking her. for dudes i think that is always a possibility for a deeper emotion to arise.
The friend zone is like purgatory. I'd rather go to hell tbh.
yeah you're just having a friendship but when you ask a girl out and she rejects you, if you decide to continue being her friend now you're in friendzone... i was once friendzoned by a chinese girl i liked and i didnt allow her to friendzone me so i blocked her and i hope she reads it lol because i do that to every girl that rejects me.. i have no room for a friendzone
Men need to grow a pair and ditch the girl if they get friend zoned. No woman is worth that misery.
@@LPFSuleyman You don’t deserve friends
@@rc59191 You don’t deserve friends either
Notice that all women say "yes." Guys say otherwise.
I drove a married women home from a cocktail party years ago and we texted many times and then she wanted to have dinner with me. But her behaivor was more like a girlfriend towards me. She denied it and said thats her quirky personality. RIGHT Then when I cut it off she stalked me for like 3 years not understanding why I stopped talking to her. Women live by different rules of what is friendship.
Why did u stop talking to her?
are you being serious? She was already married!
It wasn't so many years ago, that I knew actually Nothing about a so called "friend zone". I never even thought that there ever was such a thing, so I continued on be a friend to my female friend's, i later found out that they are okay about it, just being a so called friend!
I think it takes adult-like communication and being yourself, but you have to put it all out there, up-front and right-out on the table in the beginning. Either you'll grow, or you'll just come to know. However, why do i keep getting tossed by women refusing to be my "friend first"? It's a dating relationship or nothing, even while I've clearly expressed NOT wanting a sexual grant, just the START RIGHT of being simple "Friends First" that's all. It's an issue of taking ya time, especially these days (Ya feel me?)
no fucking way its a lot of bullshit for a friendship😂😂😂
It takes two to be friends. So, If us guys say we can't be just friends then we're not gonna be just friends lol
I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death.
I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse. Also, you are more likely be much more closer to someone who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a romantic partner or spouse.
People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.
Nothing wrong with that except I want the romance without the sex stuff...
You are an excellent presenter and a funny guy!
All the girls said yes but most of the guys says no mnm wonder what guys b thnking
guys and girls can be friends,,, It's not impossible... You saw in the video, that some people said that they have a best friend from the opposite gender that they're NOT attracted to, the person is just their friend or best friend. It's annoying how people take such beautiful friendships for granted
You should totally do a channel a bit like Kassem G. where you interview people. I'd be happy to watch your videos!
2:06...what a nice guy!
"pretty much... it sucks" LMAO
These are all college kids. maybe its possible for men and women to be just platonic friends when people get older or in midlife.
Ive had alot of male platonic friends and currently have had one for over 10 years plus.
And why shouldnt it be possible if 2 people do not find each other physically attractive to be friends?
The nearly unanimous opinion of the guys here really surprises me.
Luke! I dig it. and i'm subscribing to you.
Ha 😂 Do guys CAN be friends with females.. AND STILL BE ATTRACTED TO THEM 😂😂😂
Man I needed this lol 😂
YES THEY CAN
the end he crys haha that was hilarious
I'm here AGAIN just to see the guy from 2:07 - 2:29. Somenoe know who is he? I want his number so badly xD xD xD
It's true if there not that attractive, but if he's attractive it can happen in 99%, it's very sad and arrogant and narcissistic of most women to say no but not surprised😔 and now days it's hard to find the truth in women no balance just confusion sad reality of world nothing changed just a vicious cycle 📚😏
Very ORIGIONAL idea ;)
What if I wanted to hear his story 2:00
and not yours 2:07
Spot on, as I wouldn't be friends with any female without that basic $€×ual attraction! It's a different story for females, as they love men completely differently, so can have hoards of homies hanging out in their friend zone!
They just fast forwarded the part of Logan paul
No they can’t because if I’m sexually or romantically interested in someone why would I just be her friend if I’m sexually attracted to her ppl only friend zone ppl their not physically attracted to
To answer this question you would need to set up a deffinition of what "just friends" is. Having sex, sexual contact, intimate contact (holding hand, hug, ect.), attraction, whether they want to be with you in a serious dating/marriage kind of way, whether they would have sex with you, etc. I would say that 99% of the time atleast one of the people is attracted to the other and would possibly consider atleast having some sort of sexual contact with them, but the other elements may not be there.
People are so ridiculous to think that friends can't find each other attractive. Grow the hell up.
Notice how it's mostly men saying they can't. Maybe this is related to how they often don't learn to have intimacy with other men, unlike women. Not sure.
Your story has less to do with him being friends and more to do with you trying to play games. Even if he would never do anything with her that doesn't mean he would openly admit to something like that. Particuliarly if he thinks it might make you mad or atleast ask questions, which it did.
I think guys and girls can be friends if the guy is gay. I have a couple great guy friends
Was that skater gay?
Did you find out?
I wonder.. where these people are now😅
hahahahaha
Men and women can be friends... Harry and Hermione are proof of that.
because they were both atracted to somebody else, that´s why it worked, also, they were KIDS when they met, and by book 3-4 when they get to puberty, hermione likes ron, and harry likes cho, but then harry goes with gina, there were never space for harry-hermione ships, only in our hearts hahaha
that's a movie dumb ass lmfao. that is not reality
Funny, because nothing was mentioned about sexuality in the whole video.
That's a lie. I'm friends with a guy and he likes a girl who likes him back, and i like someone else too, so we're just friends. I
These womuhns are so NIAVE
wait...why does having sex mean you're not friends? Why not?
well if you define friends as people who have sex, then i guess yeah they are
This is depressing, I lost all my guy friends and none of them were attracted to me but i was attracted to one and I ruined a good thing. I don't think women and men can stay friends without any physical or romantic attraction developing. Pretty much the reason why men and women will never understand each other 😅🥲