Flying Solo: Embracing A New Life After Losing My Husband | Sandra Hart

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  • Flying solo and rediscovering the new me. My journey of acceptance, empowerment, and living fully as a single woman after the loss of your husband.
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  • @manuelawiederkehr9167
    @manuelawiederkehr9167 3 місяці тому +101

    Dear Sandra, I'm single for 22 yrs. I raised my daughter alone after her dad changed his mind. Now I'm 58 and looking after mysel well and try to looking into my future. Big hug from Switzerland. ❤ Manuela

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +6

      A great big hug right back to you and your beautiful country.

  • @barbaradieckmann9020
    @barbaradieckmann9020 3 місяці тому +78

    Flying solo as well as my husband passed away almost four years ago. I’m enjoying very much my freedom to do as I please and even crawl back into bed after breakfast because it’s hot out and I don’t feel like starting my day so early. Enjoyed your vlog this morning as I’m getting ready for a lunch date with my neighbor who just moved here from CA. She has been single for over 30 years. BTW, I’m going to be 80 in a few months. Will celebrate with all there is….

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +4

      Happy early birthday to you, Barbara! I know it has its perks.

  • @MaryJoKalbfleisch
    @MaryJoKalbfleisch 3 місяці тому +60

    Sandra, l lost my husband of 54 years about the same time your husband died. November 22, 2022. I am the caregiver for our grandson who lived with us since 2012. He has autism. He is 30. I am 77 now. I cry everyday but l am thankful for 11:30 this privilege. Anxiety. Yes. My husband and l had vacationed in S Beach in our 50s. Wonderful memories. Pray for me

    • @wendyronalds9948
      @wendyronalds9948 3 місяці тому +2

      ❤❤❤🎉

    • @freemanmt
      @freemanmt 3 місяці тому +2

      Watch Barbera O'Neal testimony.
      A lady from Australia.
      Blessings.

    • @nourabouamer896
      @nourabouamer896 28 днів тому

      اختي ماري لا تقلقي ولا تحزني رحم الله زوجك وحفظك الله اتمنى لك طول العمر دوام الصحة اكتب لك من المغرب أنا لا اتقن الانجليزيه جيدا لكني فهمت تعليقك.
      كل التقدير لك وحفظ الله حفيدك.

  • @TP-fq8wd
    @TP-fq8wd 3 місяці тому +37

    Nothing in life is accidental. I agree but will add. Nothing is forever, so live your life with love so as not to have regrets. 💛✨️

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +3

      How true that is!! It’s something we all should think about.

  • @marysmyth8288
    @marysmyth8288 2 місяці тому +4

    Dear Sandra,
    I married my teenage sweetheart
    we had 51yrs together when my husband died 2016
    we were from the Suburbs of Belfast
    we had 5 children by the time I was 39yrs old
    can you believe me when I tell you
    my children when young
    watched your television series *Romper Room
    so Miss Sandra I have loved following your life on utube
    i have been with you all the way.
    now I am 81yrs old ,
    live alone with my eldest married son only
    10mins walk , we had emigrated to Canada in 1982
    my married dauhgter lives 30mins drive on hwy
    I do drive my Yellow Honda Fit which I name Buttercup
    i passed my driving test when I was 30yrs of age,
    This now
    my testimony of following you down the years ,
    brings so much joy .
    you are truly amazing , and yes we are so blessed ❤🙏
    Mary Canada 🇨🇦

  • @sarahm3614
    @sarahm3614 3 місяці тому +24

    I'm totally alone and I've never been more content. It took a few years to get here after two bad marriages.

  • @janicew6222
    @janicew6222 3 місяці тому +34

    I've been flying solo for 4 years. I am 71 and I'm living with and taking care of my 83 year old flying solo sister. I'm where I need to be and I find joy each day. Life is Beautiful. Love your channel.

  • @royewith8925
    @royewith8925 3 місяці тому +20

    I do love you Sandra Hart. You are such a lovely person. I think of my mother when I watch you. I’m 81 years old and still miss her so much. I have been single 40 years. I have lost my parents, all of my siblings. I had 4 children and just lost my son. That was the hardest. Thank you for today’s video. Stay well. I am a woman. Sometimes my name confuses people. ❤️🥰🥰❤️

    • @donnacain9692
      @donnacain9692 3 місяці тому

      🙏💐

    • @LaurenceGherari
      @LaurenceGherari 3 місяці тому +1

      Dear Madam, sorry for your loss. I pray for your and may your son rest in peace.

    • @artspark7697
      @artspark7697 3 місяці тому +1

      God bless you. It's really strange that the couples or at least the wives don't keep in touch. I hope you keep meeting some new single friends.

  • @JackiePeters-j3k
    @JackiePeters-j3k 3 місяці тому +6

    Living single after ex hubby decided he no longer wanted to be married after 32 years together. Thankfully I had worked most of my life (between raising children) so have enough financial security to not panic about paying my bills. Everyday is a new adventure, we just need to roll with the waves and enjoy the ride. Yahoo!

  • @cathyboyd3737
    @cathyboyd3737 3 місяці тому +20

    Flying solo my husband passed away 5 yrs ago. Thank you for saying it's okay to be solo. Life is still a treasure i'm grateful for the memories of the past. The family that me and my husband created. ❤Love is still in my heart. "Solo"

  • @a.l.s.i.4601
    @a.l.s.i.4601 3 місяці тому +7

    Thank you for your words. I am learning how to live solo, as a widow. My husband died last week. We were 39 years together.

  • @cynthiaperdue1543
    @cynthiaperdue1543 3 місяці тому +17

    Thank you, Madame for a beautiful and candid conversation today -- beginning with those adorable turtles making their way to the sea to the emotions and love you shared with us for your beloved husband. I think that all of your neighbors sharing their memories and times with your husband are like waves in the ocean: he is with you always and his spirit shines through the impact he made with those in your community. Wishing you a peaceful and happy week - you are a joy! 🐢✈❤🙏

  • @cindykane6227
    @cindykane6227 3 місяці тому +29

    Sandra, I am not solo, but I feel alone, after losing my mom. She has been gone 2yrs. now. She was my mom, best friend, my therapist, the one person I trusted, she was my sunshine❤ Enjoy your videos.😊

    • @vickywright4623
      @vickywright4623 3 місяці тому +6

      I lost my mom two years ago and also feel so lost sometimes without her. I miss her😢

    • @cindykane6227
      @cindykane6227 3 місяці тому +1

      Vicky, sorry for your loss😔

    • @60greyhairandsparkles21
      @60greyhairandsparkles21 3 місяці тому +1

      So sorry for your loss 💐

    • @suzanne296
      @suzanne296 3 місяці тому +1

      My mom will be gone 9 years. She was my hero. I'm not grief sticken for long time. But miss her and when I'm troubled I ask what would mom do?

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 3 місяці тому +1

      I lost my mother two months ago and its been nothing but a nightmare with my siblings. I wouldn't wish it on anyone.

  • @lilliancarcia2248
    @lilliancarcia2248 3 місяці тому +25

    Dear Sandra, I love your new haircut😊

    • @carmenthompson9803
      @carmenthompson9803 3 місяці тому +2

      I enjoy listening to your messages I've never been married I'm a single parent my children are grown my daughter took care of me going cancer God has been with me healed of cancer I thank him every day

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing and continued wellness

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому

      Thank you. It’s more manageable.😍

  • @PT-tw6kg
    @PT-tw6kg 3 місяці тому +27

    Love your haircut. ❤❤❤❤❤❤ God's creations. Ditto, I lost myself in my marriage when my husband passed. I had a very difficult time, and I never realized all he had done for me. In a way, it was bad I had to relearn who I am. It's 5 years and still at times I doubt myself. Thank you for this message.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +1

      I think we all go through that. Thanks for sharing.

    • @PT-tw6kg
      @PT-tw6kg 3 місяці тому

      ​@@lifewithsandrahartNo thank you.

  • @JudithSchoner
    @JudithSchoner 3 місяці тому +14

    One beautiful thing in the morning when I wake up, is my lovely dog, whi loves me ❤.

  • @teresaf221
    @teresaf221 3 місяці тому +3

    I had a wonderful husband that passed 2 yrs ago and I’m feeling very good in my solo life. We did live a blended life and it was very good! However I now do the things I put aside and now I can thrive with new things. I just did a big trip with a roommate and it’s amazing how it’s not the same as a husband! I could do as I wanted, she could go her way, she took the stairs everywhere I took the elevator if I wanted! Never would have been that way as a couple! Freedom to dream and make the best life for you!

  • @Meri_-
    @Meri_- 25 днів тому

    Dear Sandra Sending you so much love. You have profoundly impacted my life, I am 24 now and am grappling with the grief of losing my dog. She was a constant source of comfort during my most challenging times, guiding me through mental struggles. Despite her passing from sepsis at just 5.8 years old, I find myself blaming myself every day for her loss.
    Society often doesn't understand that pets can mean as much to us as humans do. This lack of understanding makes my grief feel even heavier. But what I know is she was lucky to have me and I was lucky to have her

  • @earthdogpj1
    @earthdogpj1 3 місяці тому +8

    Your husband was an engaging communicator, so obvious from your videos of you and him on your roof top garden. It doesn’t surprise me he had a lot of transitory friends all over Miami. I think we all want to belong to a couple as security, we adapt, compromise, and lose a bit of our independence for the joys of couple-hood, but Arthur respected your drive to build a UA-cam channel and to keep productive and healthy. That was so obvious in one of your last videos with him. I think having a strong sense of purpose serves us well in the senior years, whether solo and together. It is certainly an anchor if we wind up solo. Fantastic message Sandra! You are blessed to have your daughter helping you too

  • @cindymilner570
    @cindymilner570 3 місяці тому +19

    Thank you, Sandra, for your words of wisdom. Your new haircut is very becoming.❤

  • @sueprice4082
    @sueprice4082 3 місяці тому +3

    You are so right Sandra. I was with my husband for 48 years and I now realise that my mindset was that if he was happy then so was I. Hence, I allowed him to make most of the decisions as did many women of our generation. Now to find my old self - the one I left behind in 1975. Sending love from UK, Sue ❤

    • @nourabouamer896
      @nourabouamer896 28 днів тому

      قرأت تعليقك وقلت لابد أن اكتب لك اختي أنا من المغرب واغلب النساء العربيات يعشن ماقلتي الزوج هو الدي يتخد القرارات والمرأة غالبا ما تصبح عجوزا رغم صغر سنها بسبب تسلط الازواج ليس الكل لكن اكتر من خمسين في المئة لازلنا نعيش سنوات 1950 .
      ليس كل الرجال لكن الاغلب وهدا حال اغلب النساء خصوصا الغير العاملات

  • @bakokat6982
    @bakokat6982 2 місяці тому

    Sandra, thank you for this message, I lost my hubby of 57 years a month ago, we married when I was nineteen, he was 27. I hope I can adapt and learn to live alone. It seems too hard, too late, but you show me it’s not.
    Thank you for this lesson, you are still teaching us how to learn. I remember you on tv, my little brother and I watched your show. Bless you for your kind and encouraging message.

  • @tkyle
    @tkyle 3 місяці тому +17

    I love sea turtles! Such a beautiful intro.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому

      We are very protective of our sea turtles nest here. We even volunteer to help when they are leaving the nests. Unfortunately, out of a 1,000 eggs only a few survive predators in the water.

  • @lekpuangtong6678
    @lekpuangtong6678 3 місяці тому +21

    Love you and miss you,Sandra.
    I am flying solo, too!

  • @annettecinquemanifalbo17
    @annettecinquemanifalbo17 3 місяці тому +11

    Hi Sandra, thank you for this inspiring message to us today! I've been flying solo for over 30 years, and now I'm making plans to go to Italy in the future and I'm applying for my dual citizenship as we speak. I'll be flying solo to my ancestors home towns (communities) of Sicily, and I already have the nay Sayers asking, "aren't you scared to go by yourself?!" I'm like heck no, I do everything by myself, and have grown accustomed to living my life this way. When I see how my gf live and are married, so many of them complain all the time about growing old with their spouses! They are always having to ask permission just go out for dinner and drinks! Or they are like well can my hubby come along? I love my life and I'm not looking for a man to complete me or give me anything. I have everything I need or want. I just had my right knee replaced and will have the other one replaced on July 22. My sister called yesterday and exclaimed "you're already walking down to barn and taking care of the horses and doing all the chores?" She couldn't believe it! I am 5 weeks post op. I'm doing great and getting ready for my trip to Costa Royal Mujeres next mother's Day with my daughter son-in-law and his mother who is also named Annette! We are going to have a blast! I'll be running on the beach this time next year and riding my horses again and going out to the senior citizens dance halls two stepping up a storm! 🐴 🍻 🤠 Ciao and keep on trucking Sandra, I have 3 dogs 5 cats 4 ducks and 2 horses!! They keep me young!

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +2

      Good for you!!! You sound like my daughter Alison and her horse farm and foster dogs! She is divorced and happy as a clam! Think young and you will be young!! Never stop moving and keep your body moving!

    • @nourabouamer896
      @nourabouamer896 28 днів тому

      حفظك الله ورعاك أختي إن شاءالله طول العمر والصحة لاتنسي أن تشكري الله على نعمة الصحة والسعادة بالتوفيق

  • @helencantimagine
    @helencantimagine 3 місяці тому

    Thank you, Ms. Sandra, for expressing in beautiful words what I feel and think. I've been solo for 17 years. My husband died at 49, and I was 52. My children were 8, 14, and 23 at the time. I realized at the time that all decisions moving forward would be mine. It can be daunting initially, but you grow stronger each day. By the way, I love your scarf; it's beautiful.

  • @lindabuono7893
    @lindabuono7893 3 місяці тому +18

    My husband of 46 years passed away 3 years ago. The couple's we were friends with don't keep in touch any more.
    I have been fortunate to have single friends and have made new friends through church.
    Have faith, stay strong and healthy. Enjoy life. Live, laugh and love.

  • @LSTEdD1
    @LSTEdD1 3 місяці тому +12

    Sandra, your videos are all great, but this one is extra special! ☀️Yes, the remembrances are with us in head and heart! (Did you read about the 101 year old who just got her degree? And, on Sunday Morning program 94 year old June Squibb will star as the lead in the movie Thelma!) ☀️👏

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому +1

      Wow!! We should all be so lucky! Thanks so much for sharing🍀

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 2 місяці тому

    My mum said: "You have such a positive outlook on life." I liked the sea turtle explanation and was a marvellous discovery for you to be aware of Arthur's popularity at a time when you needed a surprise. ❤

  • @missjoycefox1947
    @missjoycefox1947 3 місяці тому +11

    We are preparing to die as soon as we are born.
    PURPOSE DRIVEN LIFE,
    Pastor Rick Warren
    I truly believe this statement. Having been widowed twice i came to realize my life was just different NOT over.
    “Party of one…”
    🤗👍🙋‍♀️☕️❤️🙏🇺🇸

  • @silentwanderer2020
    @silentwanderer2020 3 місяці тому +11

    You are a beautiful woman with a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing. From NH

  • @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870
    @naturalwellnesswithgomolem6870 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this, im 37 flying solo raising my 4kids, this is a very important reminder

  • @mariacaballero3765
    @mariacaballero3765 3 місяці тому +7

    Dear Sandra. I’m glad I found your channel few months ago. Always looking forward to seeing your content. I’m 55 years old. Divorced 4 years ago. You are so wise and positive. I’m learning about myself. How to be better now. Thank you for your positive thoughts. Blessings to you.

  • @celiavasquez895
    @celiavasquez895 2 місяці тому

    Thank you, Sandra, for your words of wisdom, courage and perseverance. You are a blessing to me, now that I, also am a widow. Trying to fly solo, with my husband in my mind and thoughts. May our husband be with our Heavenly Father. Love u

  • @bethlondner5049
    @bethlondner5049 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this encouraging, kind ,loving, intimate and wise video. I feel uplifted in my solo flight and grateful to be alive,

  • @ladyw605
    @ladyw605 3 місяці тому +1

    Sandra, so many people need to hear your messages. Especially today’s message. You are absolutely correct when you say that Arthur cultivated friendships everywhere he went. Arthur certainly made a brilliant impact on me. I can absolutely understand how much you miss him-more than words could ever express!!!!! How could you not miss such a wonderful human being!!!!! I would suggest, that in the backside of your mind, you knew that one day you would be alone without Arthur; however, he made your life so wonderful, that you didn’t have time to worry about the future because you were very happy and busy living in the moment. How blessed you are to have had Arthur in your life for so long. I am so thankful that you were able to share him with us as well. There are just no words to adequately express how much I appreciate your efforts toward creating this wonderful UA-cam channel. You have changed my life in ways that I haven’t even realized yet. Your positive attitude is absolutely contagious; and, I look forward to all of your uplifting messages!!! Again, thank you so much for everything you do. Sending love and big hugs always.

  • @adrianadelgado3804
    @adrianadelgado3804 Місяць тому

    Dear Sandra, thank you for sharing your wisdom and speaking the truth with your open heart on a topic that is not always easy to talk.

  • @cindyweeks
    @cindyweeks 3 місяці тому +2

    I have to say I’ve been married 3 times divorced, widowed and currently married and I’ve always been alone in a sense everything is on my to do my husband had strokes and his mind is not as sharp as it once was I raised my older son and my younger one separately 19 yrs between them alone it never was easy but I have to say I like doing things alone and I miss my alone time now that my husband is home now I feel confined and some what trapped even. Enjoy the things you love to do alone because it is ok to grieve the loss but continue to enjoy life as always thank you for this wonderful video ❤

  • @lornettepatrick2978
    @lornettepatrick2978 3 місяці тому +2

    Sandra, your words are so reassuring. I am flying solo since my husband passed away 10 years ago. I will continue to enjoy life and give thanks for the lovely times we had together. Many Blessings ❤

  • @charlottebloebaum5719
    @charlottebloebaum5719 3 місяці тому +3

    I am 81 lost John 2 years ago July 27 after 58 years together. Your videos help so much thank you ❤❤

  • @kindred1113
    @kindred1113 3 місяці тому +4

    I have learned that we are here to serve because by doing that we get so much satisfaction, and you will get back what you put out. Arthur is always with you in spirit. I love your hair style like that. It looks so becoming on you.....stay healthy and beautiful..................much love.....ILY...................MINDY

  • @angeldawson
    @angeldawson 2 місяці тому

    Sandra, if I could send a hug and a kiss to my gran, I would, but instead I will send them to you for your wisdom which is so appreciated 😘🤗💖🌺

  • @diarich9123
    @diarich9123 Місяць тому

    Sending hugs. I haven’t seen your videos in a year or so, but always enjoyed them.

  • @Joy80JJ
    @Joy80JJ 3 місяці тому +3

    Your words are a beautiful inspiration to me as my husband is 10 years older than me. I also never thought of him being gone...until now..as his sister my age 69 just had 2 strokes. Life is so precious. Thank you Sandra for making me think about flying solo...

  • @darlenewoods5726
    @darlenewoods5726 3 місяці тому +3

    I've been flying solo for more than 30 years - actually spent a lot of my marriage solo, so being alone was a relief in many ways. I know what it is to be alone, but not lonely. I've learned to set boundaries and take care of myself. My children are all doing exceptionally well, and I have recaptured some of the dreams that I had to give up along the way. But enough about me! Your hair is absolutely gorgeous today! I always look forward to your videos. Thank you for sharing!

  • @teresabarry9817
    @teresabarry9817 3 місяці тому +6

    Thank you for your words of wisdom, Sandra. ❤

  • @Anita-rq9ev
    @Anita-rq9ev 3 місяці тому +7

    Lovely to watch another video full of your wisdom. You are beautiful and sweet inside and out. You are an inspiration. I wish you many happy and healthy years to come❤.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому

      You are so very kind and the same right back to you

    • @Anita-rq9ev
      @Anita-rq9ev 3 місяці тому

      @@lifewithsandrahart 🙏

  • @Joan-COYI
    @Joan-COYI 3 місяці тому +1

    Arthur was so fortunate that he had you and in later life you respected and accommodated his wishes during the pandemic. You were a wonderful partner and now you are on a solo flight, a different path and you are an inspiration.

  • @debgilbert3206
    @debgilbert3206 3 місяці тому +2

    The topics you share always seem to appear at the right time. Just the other night I was fretting about the day I may be without my husband. I thought once he is gone, then all the dreams we had for the future will be over. Also, he takes care of all the finances and the caring of our home. I was thinking that I would have to give it all up because I will not be strong enough to take care of business. As usual, you have made me feel more hopeful. I am putting this video in my Sandra's Advice file. ❤

  • @connieparry2272
    @connieparry2272 3 місяці тому +4

    Enjoyed your video today. I believe a happy life is about your attitude towards it!

  • @CJay-q9f
    @CJay-q9f 3 місяці тому +2

    Sandra, you always make me think! Loses/Changes are inevitable and can be tough, even when we initiate them. One lesson I've learned from experience or by watching others is we can make them even tougher when we have placed more importance in, invested more energy on, defined ourselves by the other person or a relationship or a thing, etc. So that means I must be careful to remain true to myself throughout my life, so I'll be a joy to others and to myself along the way. Staying happy is easier than trying to becoming happy. Maintance is a lot easier than rebuiling, Both methods can work, but I'm all for taking the easy road. Have a great week, Lovely Sandra.

  • @cheleysmith8619
    @cheleysmith8619 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you so much for the beautiful message. I have been flying solo for about 10 years now. And it took that time for me to define myself and to know that solo is a wonderful way of life!❤

  • @goldie51944
    @goldie51944 2 місяці тому

    Hi Sandra I am definitely behind in watching and listening to your conversations. My daughter was visiting us for several days. I believe I mentioned before she teaches English in South Korea we had a wonderful visit. On the go constantly. Such a void when she is gone oh my goodness. She’s back in Korea now. Your flying solo conversation is so true. It’s amazing how I depend on my partner for so much like you were with Arthur You are so right when we lose a loved one especially a husband or a partner to move forward is important. Memories always live on I know at times it’s difficult bringing on sadness but we really are never alone as you well know. A great touching meaningful conversation. Now on to your most recent conversation. Then I will be caught up. You look lovely love your attractive scarf effect ❤

  • @barymaria6571
    @barymaria6571 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Sandra ! Each Day is an opportunity to see Beauty in our life. Just as Arthur had beauty along his walk ….. chats and conversations with those on his walks. You too have us in your walks Your journeys. I have this quote I love. ❤️ by Frank Kafka “ Anyone who keeps the ability to see Beauty never grows old “. And you Sandra is “ Besuty “ in all that you are. Your Heart ❤️ Beauty is everywhere. The baby sea turtles guided by the moon Light. …. Enjoy the Journey Ms Sandra. Beauty will keep Guiding you. God bless you 🌸🦋💜

  • @carolidzerda7177
    @carolidzerda7177 3 місяці тому

    Sandra, you are beautiful. Your hair is so pretty, it suits you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and encouragement ❤

  • @ValerieYenolevage-su7em
    @ValerieYenolevage-su7em 3 місяці тому +9

    Thanks, Sandra. Always look forward to your inspiring videos - ❤😊

  • @troll6250
    @troll6250 3 місяці тому +4

    Happy Sunday from Germany. Love your videos... And sometimes it is better to fly solo.

  • @128titanic
    @128titanic 3 місяці тому +6

    Hi, Sandra. Thank you for your video. Best wishes to you and Happy the week. ❤

  • @cindyhalpern3187
    @cindyhalpern3187 3 місяці тому +4

    My friends and relatives live out- of state. I flew to see my best friend and I will fly to see my daughter. I have a post relationship with my former boyfriend. I drive to see him sometimes. My grandchild visited me on my birthday.
    But I am mostly alone, and it is hard. I am beginning to do slightly better. I have a cute apartment now. I upgraded from the one I lived in for 17 months.
    The key for me is making new goals after achieving the old ones. I am working on that. I am a work in progress.

  • @suerichardson8990
    @suerichardson8990 3 місяці тому +3

    Great message and beautiful haircut!! You are looking more lovely every video.

  • @justmaria5806
    @justmaria5806 3 місяці тому +1

    Miss Thing...... you never cease to amaze me. Look how much your channel means to so many out there. You were placed on this earth to make a difference, whether it was singly or with a partner. Guess what? You have and are continuing to enrich this crazy world around us. As they used to say back in the 70s and 80........ keep on "truckin" Girl!

  • @themurnane7
    @themurnane7 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you for always being so encouraging 💕

  • @bobbil8069
    @bobbil8069 3 місяці тому +1

    You are such an encourager, Sandra! Thank you!

  • @claudete1956
    @claudete1956 3 місяці тому +2

    You are an amazing person. I so needed to listen to that. Yesterday, I went to a party and it was a lot of fun until I realized I was the only one solo. At one point I felt so awkward, I left the party and cried. Well, today is a new day. We all have a purpose here and I am happy to follow my journey. Have a wonderful week, Sandra!

  • @gloria6673
    @gloria6673 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh Sandra. You always seem to get me right when I’m feeling the lowest of the low. I am married….love my husband, but at 69, he is starting to have some neuro/memory issues. Two weeks ago, our dog, the joy of my heart, passed. I am unglued. No matter what I try, I am just tearful and sad. I am so grateful for the years we had together, but I feel an emptiness that I have never experienced before. I can’t seem to pull myself out. I have lost myself. I don’t recognize my husband as the man I married. I can only pray that I find my place in the world again. I am so glad you did ❤️.

    • @pamcornelius9122
      @pamcornelius9122 3 місяці тому +2

      Please make sure your husband is tested for a B-12 deficiency. Some prescription medications (such as Metformin) can block absorption of B-12. My husband had a severe B-12 deficiency which caused anemia, premature aging, dizziness and neurological issues. This deficiency doesn’t show up on routine blood tests, you have to request a specific test.

    • @gloria6673
      @gloria6673 3 місяці тому +1

      @@pamcornelius9122Thank you! I will!

    • @carolkilarsky8908
      @carolkilarsky8908 3 місяці тому +2

      You are in my prayers 🙏

    • @gloria6673
      @gloria6673 3 місяці тому

      @@carolkilarsky8908 ❤️🙏🏻

  • @melloo3782
    @melloo3782 3 місяці тому

    Dear Teacher Sandra,
    Love yr haircut.... So youthful n vibrant👍❤️ thk you for this talk on flying solo..... Ive been flying solo since 2012... Its been good overall.... Love that bit about continuing to grow..... Am doing that in as many areas as i can handle so as not to hv regrets.... God bless you for sharing yr wisdom💕🙏

  • @Fruity-Amy
    @Fruity-Amy 3 місяці тому

    I love that aquatic intro with the turtles 🌊 I am sorry for your loss and wish you the best ❤

  • @KRwind.
    @KRwind. 3 місяці тому +1

    You are beautiful! I lost my husband 2 1/2 years ago. I am rediscovering me.

  • @virleneprice9848
    @virleneprice9848 3 місяці тому

    You shared a beautiful and very important message. I'm not alone, my husband and I have shared 54years so far. But I have lost so many very close family members and special friends the last couple of years. We carry our memories and the love never dies. We move forward to honor our loved ones and to go on ourselves. Thanks for the wise words.

  • @lindastamp3448
    @lindastamp3448 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for this beautiful and moving reminder, Sandra ❤

  • @janetmoore1970
    @janetmoore1970 3 місяці тому

    Your hair looks so pretty in this video!

  • @aliciaarguelles9340
    @aliciaarguelles9340 3 місяці тому

    Flying Solo since losing both my mum and dad in a month’s time. They were my only family and although several years have gone by, I still feel very lost at times. Thank you dear Sandra for your precious words. Wished we would all live closer to each other to connect in real life instead of only over the internet. But soooo grateful of at least having this connection. It does help.. ❤️‍🩹 Love from across the Atlantic.

  • @tidbitsofmylife2367
    @tidbitsofmylife2367 3 місяці тому +3

    You are beautiful Sandra. Thank you for making a difference in my life. ❤marnie

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  3 місяці тому

      Morning, you and the rest of the community have helped me as well.

  • @PeachesSkinCare
    @PeachesSkinCare 3 місяці тому +13

    You are such a loving inspiration. What a blessing you are to so many 🙌🏻🧡🍑Lisa

  • @youdecide4709
    @youdecide4709 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you Sandra !

  • @jessiemacleod-p3j
    @jessiemacleod-p3j 3 місяці тому +1

    Love your hair cut..so good to see you. I must say I still miss my mom after all those years..many a day, I wish I could ask her opinion..advice, and laugh together. I understand your loss of your husband, I loved hearing how he was so good to all animals. No wonder people liked him. Love you..take care. See you in your next video. ❤

  • @iamsalma5645
    @iamsalma5645 3 місяці тому +9

    Lovely 💗🌸

  • @monarch7803
    @monarch7803 3 місяці тому +1

    Flying solo here in Miami Lakes (beautiful little town i. So. Fl), o appreciate your wise words as always Dear Sandra
    Much love ❤

  • @viviancampbell2106
    @viviancampbell2106 3 місяці тому +1

    Thanks so much for sharing with us Ms. Sandra. Blessings to you 🙏

  • @joycook1191
    @joycook1191 3 місяці тому +1

    Your haircut looks so good. Love your wonderful positive attitude. Its very uplifting. Have a blessed day. ❤😊

  • @shereecarey9781
    @shereecarey9781 3 місяці тому +3

    What a beautiful video today and I needed this today!

  • @mebythesea5
    @mebythesea5 3 місяці тому

    Dear Sandra- Your loving wisdom has helped me get through some very rough times. Thank you so much. You have no idea what you do for people every single day! Sending love to you from Vancouver Island, BC 🇨🇦 Canada.

  • @reneeorgan9605
    @reneeorgan9605 3 місяці тому

    You are such a special lady, Sandra! Thank you for letting your beautiful light shine-always helping others. 🩷

  • @radhasure
    @radhasure 3 місяці тому +2

    Sandra you look lovely... Wishing you love and health from India... solo... is amazing.

  • @kriangkamolthomya7699
    @kriangkamolthomya7699 3 місяці тому +4

    Hi Sandra what a beautiful woman you are your conversation very useful for me

  • @Lilymoon1971
    @Lilymoon1971 3 місяці тому +2

    ❤❤❤ Love you Sandra...you always inspire me 😊

  • @plasek6309
    @plasek6309 3 місяці тому +1

    Sandra, thank you for these words of inspiration. It really hit home.

  • @MB-vu3ow
    @MB-vu3ow 3 місяці тому

    Dear Sandra, Is Miami Beach being spared the constant hateful protests and destructiveness and the huge immigrant influx? I am old and alone in NYC and have no sense of peace outside my four walls. Your talks bring me peace. Thank you. You are a beautiful soul.

  • @wendykornfein3337
    @wendykornfein3337 3 місяці тому

    You look wonderful! An important topic you share, that I can relate to, as I'm still in shock over my age..

  • @babciamira9556
    @babciamira9556 3 місяці тому

    You are so brave, Sandra 🌹

  • @geraldinehatcher
    @geraldinehatcher 3 місяці тому

    Good morning Sandra ☀️God bless ❤

  • @ninaeaston3083
    @ninaeaston3083 3 місяці тому

    I love your new haircut and thank you so much for this wisdom filled message. It is a heartfelt and very encouraging message. I have a friend who lost her husband 3 weeks ago and I will share this with her. It might be too soon for her to hear it but it's such a wonderful message and she can save it and listen to it later if she chooses. Have a great week, Sandra.❤

  • @allisonspeer649
    @allisonspeer649 3 місяці тому

    Well said Sandra. I've seen your videos with Arthur and I know you loved him, good times and maybe not so good sometimes, that's how marriage is for most of us. When we lose that person we have to take time to grieve but also we have to keep moving one foot in front of the other. Life goes on for us and we have to learn how to fly solo as you said. Great video dear lady.

  • @artspark7697
    @artspark7697 3 місяці тому

    And now you are impacting thousands of people. Thank you for your video. You are brave. I love your videos. They are helpful to me.

  • @naomiferreira8255
    @naomiferreira8255 3 місяці тому

    Nice to see you today Sandra. Everything you said is very true. I’m living my best life flying solo. Take care and be well. Sending hugs.

  • @patriciaredick9849
    @patriciaredick9849 3 місяці тому

    Thank you Sandra. I am a fairly recent widow, and really appreciate your insight. Greetings to you from your neighbor across the state in Babcock Ranch. ❤

  • @Annie-qu9ik
    @Annie-qu9ik 3 місяці тому

    Hi from Annie, you are looking lovely as always and like your hair cut looks nice and fresh. It is true you can be lonely in a crowed room. It is really nice when we met someone that is like a soul mate and we really click with that person we can be our true selves around them and not worry what they think and likewise. The loneliness almost seems to go away a bit when we are with a like mimed person.

  • @debbieblake6864
    @debbieblake6864 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you for a beautiful message from California

  • @Patrioticfreedom1776
    @Patrioticfreedom1776 3 місяці тому +1

    We start solo and end up solo...enjoy life while you can it goes by so fast...

  • @sandraannlongfield6046
    @sandraannlongfield6046 3 місяці тому

    ❤ Thankyou Sandra i needed to hear this today..godbless you x