Embracing Aging : Living A Life Of Freedom And No Regrets

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  • @marilynb8136
    @marilynb8136 7 місяців тому +103

    Hello Sandra. I am a 74 yr old retired nurse. My husband died 7 months ago and I'm reinventing myself. I have found love again and am in a new relationship, which I didn't expect. So the future looks very different. I'm happy to be older and wiser. Blessings dear lady...

    • @donnacain9692
      @donnacain9692 7 місяців тому +7

      Marilyn Blessings To You, Sorry For Your Loss Yes Life Goes On Blessings To Your New Relationship 🙏💐😊

    • @suzettecooper382
      @suzettecooper382 7 місяців тому +1

      Well done

    • @handmadelife5837
      @handmadelife5837 5 місяців тому

      Wow so inspiring to know you keep open to love. When we have a great love and they pass over, having the courage to continue with love is such a beautiful way to honour them. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤

  • @PeachesSkinCare
    @PeachesSkinCare 7 місяців тому +56

    At 58 I have raised two amazing children, now beautiful humans. I have been married almost 4 decades to my best friend and I have embraced this journey and my age and my grey hair crown. I have matured and grown and I am so proud of the woman I am.
    Sandra You help all of us realize how beautiful age is and how miraculous this journey and each chapter can be!
    I wish women especially, would stop worrying about their age, worrying about the wrinkle , the grey hair and just LIVE! We get one chance.🙌🏻🧡🍑

    • @artistcarolyngrace1711
      @artistcarolyngrace1711 7 місяців тому +2

      Amen!

    • @lilajtblue
      @lilajtblue 7 місяців тому +1

      I'm only concerned about the use of my hand, broken wrist December 28th 2023, surgery was preformed February 22nd 2024. I pray everyday for healing 🙏
      You are blessed to have a soulmate. My ex husband has mental illness and he succumbed me to almost being that way. 7yrs ago divorced. I'm 63, a great grandmother, yes, bc life in a household of addiction led 2 children to addiction, and me sadness.
      But listening to Sandra Hart ❤❤has brought me to a better understanding in my life. Live everyday like it's your last.

  • @tamiwilliams5903
    @tamiwilliams5903 7 місяців тому +21

    I guarantee you that your little puppy doesn’t look at how old you are!! He’s very grateful to have you and your daughter. God bless you Sandra.

  • @Mphscat
    @Mphscat 7 місяців тому +58

    A new pup gives your life more purpose!!! My cousin and his wife are 73 and have a year old pup. My cousin was just diagnosed with cancer and that dog is the main reason he gets up every day. I'm so thankful they have him to enrich their lives. Freedom years indeed as I just retired at 62 and LOVE IT. No alarm clock and rushing to work and having to work doubles often. Never again. I'm grateful I lived long enough to take my social security as I have friends that didn't get to do that. Please share Moo Shu with us all so we can enjoy him with you! Love from DFW 🥰❤

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 7 місяців тому +23

    Despite the trolls criticising you for having a dog, you're strong enough to take it (but you shouldn't have to!) I request more photos and videos of Mushu. My mum said: "Make the most of your life whatever your age. ❤"

  • @lorianne4608
    @lorianne4608 7 місяців тому +22

    I’ve been depressed for months + my Phoebe is the reason I get up. I’m working hard to get out of this black hole. I pray + journal. At 59 + divorced, I’m lonely to the bone. I didn’t have any children cos husband was 13 years older + had a son He quickly got a vasectomy. But I will find joy in these freedom years after 35 years as a paralegal

  • @michaelwarmington3033
    @michaelwarmington3033 7 місяців тому +18

    “ Retirement is not the end of the road. It is the Beginning of the open Highway. “ thanks Sandra, Love You ❤️💘💕

  • @livingoncoffee
    @livingoncoffee 7 місяців тому +14

    It happens to all of us staying with someone too long. Putting up with them, expecting them to change, etc. It's a process getting out of it. Takes years....

  • @lindaobrien8538
    @lindaobrien8538 7 місяців тому +30

    My cousin was very sick but she got up to take care of her dog.When the dog died..she died the following week.People can't underestimate the wonderful gift dogs are I thank God every day for mine.

    • @suzettecooper382
      @suzettecooper382 7 місяців тому

      Very true, my pets bring me joy and laughter.

  • @Joy80JJ
    @Joy80JJ 7 місяців тому +19

    I am 69 & have regrets but don't dwell on them...cause what's the point..its done...life is now to short to worry about my regrets....so I make the most of it and keep living a life that's free of regrets. Freedom rock's! Sandra your a sweet & caring soul. Love your word today.

  • @lisah1507
    @lisah1507 7 місяців тому +42

    What a wonderful message, Sandra ❤. I work in an independent living community as a fitness trainer and one of our residents is 88 yrs young and works at Costco five days a week @ 4 hours a shift - handing out food samples. It’s incredible how vibrant and alive mentally and physically he is. Him and all of our residents are an inspiration. Freedom for sure. Never retire. ❤

  • @enaalexis92
    @enaalexis92 7 місяців тому +21

    Mushu doesn’t care how old you are, he has so much unconditional love to give and he wants to give it to you, so love him with all your heart ❤️

    • @Butterfly.2002
      @Butterfly.2002 7 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely..well said…Sandra is a treasure

  • @rosamondhazell2149
    @rosamondhazell2149 7 місяців тому +8

    Sandra, I love you ❤️I am 67 and retired from my job. I am so grateful for each day, because my husband passed away and only had one year retirement. In my job I was responsible for all the associates all the customers. I did enjoy my job, but realized one day rolled into another. When I had to take care of my husband (cancer) we both realized we were actually living one day at a time, never knowing when. It was after my husband’s passing I worked for two more years and decided to retire. My daughter who is my only child is in the military and deployed so it’s just me. I had to rediscover myself and it’s lots of fun ❤️

  • @NancyStinger-ll6wt
    @NancyStinger-ll6wt 7 місяців тому +27

    I’m with you Sandra can we stop saying retire. It’s a time for celebration !! Life was so challenging for so many of us . I love my single non working present . I enjoy my Sunday now no more depression over the work week ahead. There is a sense of gratitude like never before . You and Moo shoo are a love blessing for each other ❤️

  • @situzen185
    @situzen185 7 місяців тому +23

    Sandra, apparently the miniscule number of commenters asking why you adopted a puppy at this stage in your life have not given much thought to their own lives. They do not know the number of their own days...whether they will live a long and satisfied life or whether today is their final one on earth. My 70 year old friend lost her 26 year old granddaughter to cancer recently. It was a shock to the family! Thank you for your words of wisdom. God bless!

    • @violetsinspring5863
      @violetsinspring5863 7 місяців тому +4

      The most important thing when having pets is having a plan for if/when you may no longer be around. No matter what your age, have a plan in place for who will take care of your animals. Otherwise many end up in county animal shelters. I have a person and a back up in my will. My pets are my children❤

    • @lindseyboss6734
      @lindseyboss6734 7 місяців тому

      You are radiant and wise! When you fell in love with Mooshu, I knew my path has always included animals. I can’t have a cat where I live, but I decided to commit to helping her with her very verbal Rex cats. I fell in love with her 6 lb 16year old cat named Maria.
      Thanks Miss Sandra!! We love you LB

    • @lilajtblue
      @lilajtblue 7 місяців тому

      Good for you, I'm not going to retiring thank you for your kindness and knowledge 🙏 ❤

  • @lindabuono7893
    @lindabuono7893 7 місяців тому +51

    I agree 100% with you Sandra. Every day I thank God I don't have to get up and go to work any more. I've been retired for 8 years now and I love the freedom I have to do whatever I want now. God bless you Sandra. Stay well and stay safe.

    • @irenetovar7756
      @irenetovar7756 7 місяців тому +4

      I agree with you 💯

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  7 місяців тому +6

      Thank you. I am enjoying these years. Really cherishing them.

  • @ld3507
    @ld3507 7 місяців тому +14

    I agree with you, Sandra re: the word retire. I reject it! A lady was being interviewed on utube and she said this: "We all have an expiration date. Everything does. And I don't let that stop me." I love that! And it reminded me of you. She said her beloved cat died. And when she got a kitten, a friend said why would you do that and get your heart broken all over again. She said I'm willing to take the chance and think of all the love in between. So awesome! This is what you inspire us with every week. As always, thank you, Sandra, for the efforts of sharing and being such an inspiration🌟 BTW, I loved the sound effects coming from a very happy little guy, lol 🧡🌴🎶🌊🥰🎯

  • @Staronqueen
    @Staronqueen 7 місяців тому +10

    Being a caregiver for an adult with mental illness is a huge responsibility. I empathize with what you may have experienced. However, people with mental illness deserve care and compassion just as much as a person who has cancer or heart disease or any other conditions. I am a 72 year old single parent and my daughter has been diagnosed with a horrific incurable mental illness since she was in her teens. I have been there for her to all the countless emergency hospital visits and admissions. I have cried with her and cried for her by myself. My daughter’s pain and suffering is my pain and suffering. My reason for living is to protect my daughter and to advocate for her to keep her safe from this cruel world. People with mental illness deserve to be loved and cared for just as much as a person with any other illnesses.
    I sent my Blessings to all the families who have loved ones living with mental illnesses🙏

    • @lab4389
      @lab4389 7 місяців тому +2

      I too am a caretaker for my adult son. They didn’t ask for their illness. My big fear: When I die, who will help him? This gives me anxiety.

  • @norafarrell8487
    @norafarrell8487 7 місяців тому +8

    I am in my freedom years. What a lovely way to think! Thank you Sandra. You look beautiful today ❤

  • @YardleySlicker
    @YardleySlicker 7 місяців тому +8

    I loved what you said about us “filling ourselves up” with the things we love. At 73 I am reading best sellers, downloading songs I’ve heard that sound to good me from iTunes, swimming in bathing suits I enjoy wearing, and most important treasuring time w family and friends. Keep Moving❤

  • @Annie-qu9ik
    @Annie-qu9ik 7 місяців тому +2

    Hi from Annie it is nice to have your daughter staying or living with you you don't have t o feel alone it is good you have the little pooch with you as he will enrich your life so much and you his too. You have unconditional love. as animals do.that they love us for who we are. You are looking beautiful as always, the outfit looks great on you and those colours too they really light up the complexion.makes it look nice and rosy. Cheers

    • @Annie-qu9ik
      @Annie-qu9ik 7 місяців тому

      god bless you are a wonderful person we are all lucky to have you😘

  • @INSIDEBEAUTYwiththeoldgirl
    @INSIDEBEAUTYwiththeoldgirl 7 місяців тому +13

    Hi Sandra, I have more freedom than I ever have in my life. The best part of freedom for me is being free to be who I am, to accept myself just the way I am. I love dressing with no restrictions, I don’t care what anybody thinks about it because I am having so much fun being me. Knowing where my identity comes from and also my freedom has opened a whole New World for me. Thank you for a great video, your little dog is adorable! Love and blessings, Sheila

  • @danielemeunier9802
    @danielemeunier9802 7 місяців тому +6

    Please Google translate 😉
    Je parle anglais mais c’est compliqué écrire en anglais quand mon clavier veut écrire en français 😆
    Comment vous dire combien je vous adore. J’attends chaque nouvelle émission UA-cam avec tellement d’impatience. Je suis du Canada, plus précisément à Montréal (Québec). J’ ai 60 ans, célibataire (l’Amour reviendra à nouveau, en son temps) et à ma semi retraite depuis janvier 2024 j’étais courtier immobilier. Je continue à travailler plus ou moins 3:30 par jour comme suppléante en enseignement. J’aime tellement vous écouter. Je regarde parfois en boucle vos vidéos et je recule dans le temps pour écouter vos vidéos depuis vos tous débuts.
    Si j’habitais Miami, je voudrais être votre amie 😁
    Vous êtes tellement belle et inspirante.
    Merci beaucoup pour tout.
    Vous êtes une bénédiction pour ma vie. Merci d’être là 🥰

  • @AyaSmith-rb2hp
    @AyaSmith-rb2hp 7 місяців тому +10

    Thank you for your wise wisdom and love for all of us. You bring so much calmness to my soul and inspiration to my heart ❤. 65 on my own just loving the freedom years and so glad to be free from turmoil and chaos of past traumas in my life. I just enjoy water aerobics and my first dog I got 3 years after 30 years of no dogs and not thinking I am a dog person but found out I am a mama bear over my sweet fur baby that I fell in love with. Got her at 8 weeks old. She has really saved me from so much grief of the loses I had in my family. So huggable . I have finally decided to volunteer at a hospital as part of recapturing and recreating a life I put on hold during my grieving period. What you said today and actually every day makes so much sense and helps me to understand and really appreciate these are truly my freedom years. Just to sit out in nature and feel the sun my face is a gift and I am grateful to still be here and move from my time of grief into the freedom of these beautiful years. ❤

  • @DoveNative
    @DoveNative 7 місяців тому +5

    I am 66 and no longer have to work. This video is very uplifting. I love "embracing aging" and the term "freedom years" as it relates to aging! 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @SunsetLadyLive
    @SunsetLadyLive 6 місяців тому +2

    Dear Sandra, thank you so for this days inspiration, my husband (for 53yrs) passed with Alzheimer's in 2020.In 2021, I started a YT ch to keep my mind active and creative at 85yr. This Freedom makes me feel 10 yrs younger. Each day is a gift, and you're right Sandra, we should not retire from life.All the best to you and your new puppy...☺️❤️

  • @myra6087
    @myra6087 7 місяців тому +11

    Thank you Sandra. I agree. I'm 75 and enjoy having time to enjoy my hobbies and walk my two dogs. Your puppy is beautiful and obviously loves you very much as you do him. Dogs bring us so much joy.whatever our age. Sending love from England xx

  • @justmaria5806
    @justmaria5806 7 місяців тому +11

    Way to go today, Sandra! Too many people have bought into the idea that retirement means quitting their jobs and basically giving up and counting the days until they die. Thats the storyline they were taught to believe in. I'm with you. Every day brings new experiences and new things to learn about. Why do people live so much longer in the blue zones? They eat healthy diets, remain active and stay productive in whatever ways they can. Its never too late to learn something new and more importantly, to gain a new point of view. Its not what you have or don't have but what you do with the tools in your toolbox. Get rid of what doesn't serve you and grab some new tools to throw into the box!

  • @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380
    @peggyduncanbaggenstoss5380 7 місяців тому +9

    Retirement is stopping work but not Living.
    I’m 71, retired at 62 and don’t regret my decision to draw less social security and enjoy life.
    I frequently travel, sleep when I want, wake up when I want, do what I want and see people when I want to.
    I’m enjoying life to the fullest. Many friends Same age have so many health problems.
    I continue to learn. I’m currently in a year long online Bible study with a friend’s church in another state.
    I was in Private Pilots class but had to drop out due to family issues. I do plan to finish it with the next class.
    Age is a number, mindset is key to happiness.
    While I am not happy with the extra weight I accept it and live life to the fullest.
    I enjoy the videos… keep them coming. You’re so beautiful.

  • @jgheart3018
    @jgheart3018 7 місяців тому +10

    I loved your insight about not calling these our retirement years but think of them as our freedom years. That definitely has a better ring to my ears and my motivation. Thanks for sharing.

  • @christinebarone2151
    @christinebarone2151 7 місяців тому +3

    Dear Sandra, I needed to hear this today. I am in my 70th year and thinking what’s next. I do have a husband who still works thankfully, so I have a lot of free time . I need to be more productive and not worry about how much time God will give me on this earth but live fully every day. Much blessings to you and MooShoo 🥰

  • @jessiemacleod-p3j
    @jessiemacleod-p3j 7 місяців тому +9

    Hi dear friend..so good to see you again. Wise words from you again, you have no idea how much you lift me every Sunday with your videos. That smile of yours is the best, for all of us. Mushu is so cute, he loves you so much, that’s why he’s glued to you. I don’t know of anyone or any furry baby who would not want to be around you. . Like I said last week I only wish you were my neighbour. Please have a great week ahead, and give that fur baby of yours a big hug from me. Take care. Thanks for that big Smile. We all love you. ❤

  • @Perlovinit
    @Perlovinit 7 місяців тому +7

    Yes true i agree with you. Life is good because God is good to us all the time.

  • @maryyepez6848
    @maryyepez6848 7 місяців тому +13

    I really am enjoying my freedom years...of course, I am always working, and love it. Gosh, Ms. Sandy you look so beautiful......Have a wonderful Lord's Day!!!!

  • @jeannettejeffreys7829
    @jeannettejeffreys7829 7 місяців тому +8

    Thank you Sandra. My daughter recently turned 60 and I will make sure she listens to your video.

  • @HowieeZ
    @HowieeZ 7 місяців тому +4

    Hello Sandra. I am 75. I lost my husband 18 months ago. My cousin persuaded me to go bank to the modern jive dancing we used to enjoy so much. I Have done this and I love it. I have met some lovely people and always feel good after an evening of dancing. My mother used to say she had retired from work, but not from life .Much love from the UK.

    • @geneveaddleman9383
      @geneveaddleman9383 7 місяців тому

      I love this..Retired from Job.. but not " Life"!!❤ ThkU💕💖

  • @lindaobrien8538
    @lindaobrien8538 7 місяців тому +5

    I meet a lot of people who think they must just give up having fun or those who think they are 18 again..and get into bar hopping, beyond skimpy dressing..etc.I love your videos.They make people think.When i got my new puppy people thought it was crazy.she does get into things..but shes a love and a joy Glad i went for it.

  • @andreahancock1071
    @andreahancock1071 7 місяців тому +15

    Thank you Sandra. I'm on my own. Would love to adopt an elder dog to keep me company .

    • @bernadettekelly8165
      @bernadettekelly8165 7 місяців тому +3

      Just adopt the doggy it will help you both ❤❤❤😊

    • @AyaSmith-rb2hp
      @AyaSmith-rb2hp 7 місяців тому +3

      I agree. Got my dog 3 years ago and grateful for her everyday! I am alone too and it really helps to have her.

    • @lifewithsandrahart
      @lifewithsandrahart  7 місяців тому +1

      Sounds great! You definitely should!

    • @suzettecooper382
      @suzettecooper382 7 місяців тому

      A senior pets are just wonderful. My 13 year old dog is on heart medication and as happy as ever. She lives and loves my cats 13 and 19. They are my joy.

  • @Acceptancetoday
    @Acceptancetoday 7 місяців тому +1

    Sandra, thank you for your wisdom and love. In my late 50s, my soul yearns for maternal love and gentle guidance.

  • @rosemaryhowes8047
    @rosemaryhowes8047 7 місяців тому +2

    Hello to my lovely inspiration, I'm 75 and reinventing myself and planning a new adventure by selling my house and eventually planning a move to Cyprus with my little doggie who looks a little like yours and is definitely as mischievous 😂. I Iive in the moment too but sometimes I wake up in the morning thinking oh my gosh am I really going to do this adventure at my age, but then I say Yes, Yes, Yes. You really are my inspirational beautiful lady. Thank you Sandra xx 😘🌹🇬🇧

  • @grandmabente123
    @grandmabente123 7 місяців тому +11

    Agree with you 100%.... freedom years...

  • @lindaobrien8538
    @lindaobrien8538 7 місяців тому +4

    Since people often tell me not to do things..i am obstinate and do things all the more!

  • @maryabdel-malik656
    @maryabdel-malik656 7 місяців тому +13

    Looking beautiful my friend love this top God bless 🙏❤️

  • @carolnavan4137
    @carolnavan4137 7 місяців тому +3

    Hindsight is one thing, but the reality is we did the best we could with what we had. We all regret something, but as you say, we need to move on to the next chapter. Don’t let regrets drag you down. ❤

  • @cynthiahurlburt2819
    @cynthiahurlburt2819 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you ,Sandra for wise words and motivational video.❤
    Like you my husband had mental health issues that presented themselves in his mid 30s. I,too, stayed too long because of our vows we promised. My children lived a rocky childhood but greatly improved post the divorce.
    I am a retired RN, no regrets,but today volunteer with Guide Dogs for the Blind. I am able to use many of my skills from nursing days of yesterday as a volunteer in their vet clinic. I ,too, am a dogwalker for GDB.
    What joy it is being a small speck in the making of future Guidedogs gor the Blind. My heart bursts with joy when the dogs succeed. Also, those that do not make it are not forgotten. They are career changed for many other occupations. Great dogs 🐕 🦮 they are!. They bring so much love,joy ,comfort,peace,etc.
    Aging is wonderful when we know we are here for a reason in a specific time on earth.
    Big hugs and love !
    ❤ 🙏 ❤

  • @sylviaperkins3051
    @sylviaperkins3051 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Sandra for your words of wisdom ❤

  • @GailFeltman
    @GailFeltman 3 місяці тому

    I have had Bonus Great Children …. three years ago my husband died from an massive heart attack.
    I sold my home and moved to my middle son’s town … he and his wife are Heaven sent! They have two sons and the oldest married and him and his wife gifted me with a great grandson! He’s adorable!
    I love your vlog and I am 76 … going to try to learn from you … now what! 😮
    Blessings! 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️🇺🇸🇺🇸😁

  • @juliabailey3447
    @juliabailey3447 7 місяців тому +5

    We are all so lucky you are here Sandra you are such a comfort xxx best part of the week xxx

  • @panayiota1955
    @panayiota1955 7 місяців тому +1

    Dear Sandra. I am 69 and you are my inspiration. Regards and love from Cyprus ❤

  • @maryoneill2427
    @maryoneill2427 7 місяців тому +2

    My Dad retired when covid happened and their giant breed puppy is what is keeping them going. Dad is 79 and Mam 78. My grand uncle is 99 and fit and healthy. Wishing you and your beautiful puppy many years of happiness. He is such a lucky loved pup. X

  • @Kiki-wi7px
    @Kiki-wi7px 7 місяців тому +1

    Sandra, You " Covered " it All ! ! So " Uplifting " and " Inspiring." Your lil' Baby Dog will Bring Ya' J🙂Y " Unspeakable " in T-i-m-e Moving Forward. " 💜 " You Dear Sweet Lady.

  • @barbarella1235
    @barbarella1235 7 місяців тому +2

    Sandra, I love you adopted this sweet doggy. Looks like Mooshoo is so attached to you❤️🙏
    I always see some similarities. Like you, I never want to come back to my past, to be younger. Not because it was bad. I believe each decade gives me more experience and I live my life the best I can. I wouldn’t change anything. Love❤️

  • @shelbywasheere
    @shelbywasheere 7 місяців тому +5

    I'm 46 and have been thinking a lot lately about getting older. I love being in my 40's and hope that the next decade is as good or even better. Thank you for your videos, I love watching these and they often accompany on my morning walks.

  • @cynthiaperdue1543
    @cynthiaperdue1543 7 місяців тому +5

    Brava, Madame! Your conversation today made me think of your new days and your freedom-years as a Second Act: you on a stage with many revolving sets, costumes and new dialogue to come! Thank you for gracing our world with your inspiration, generosity and wisdom --- and thank you for the Moo Shu moments: what a happy and sweet family member; I know he has a star on his dressing room as well! 🌟👏💐

  • @debrarusso330
    @debrarusso330 7 місяців тому +1

    He’s adorable Sandra! Enjoy him! Thank you for another inspirational video. I particularly liked your take on “retirement.” I could not agree more. Keep on learning, experimenting and creating. It’s how we grow. It brings joy! Sending you much love ❤

  • @ligiaalloy8333
    @ligiaalloy8333 7 місяців тому +1

    I'm in my freedom years, can do anything I want to with out worry about going to work,I'm still busy but with things I love to do🙏😊

  • @knots12345678
    @knots12345678 7 місяців тому +2

    ALL of your windows are closing. Only the higher power knows when it will shut. You and your puppy found each other and you are both thriving. Please continue to spread your message of hope and positivity Miss. Sandara. The world needs it, both the young and the older!

  • @cares3262
    @cares3262 7 місяців тому +6

    Always keep on being you Sandra (and all you brave, strong, inspiring, wise women). You're an inspiring woman and we need more and more women like you. Especially in politics and the head of churches! Oh wait...some religions and many politicians don't allow women to speak behind the pulpit or teach men... Sadly, It's no wonder things are falling apart at the seams.🤦

  • @gladysperez8156
    @gladysperez8156 6 місяців тому

    Hello Mrs. Sandra. Next month I’m turning 67 years old. I’m contemplating “my freedom year” in four months from now. I enjoy what I do but the time to give the baton to someone else’s is now. I guessed I needed to listen to you to really focus on what do I want, and need? 1) freedom, make realistic economic decisions, budgeting and being consistent with it. I need to make plan A, B, & C.= TO LIVE ACCORDING TO MY MEANS. Thank you and to those people who commented too. ( I never read anyone’s comment and this time I did and it helped me make certain decisions with my life goals) . Blessings 🙏

  • @barbaramclean7108
    @barbaramclean7108 7 місяців тому +4

    Blessings Sandra, over 60 is a blessing, there is a sense of freedom and as you said change course no retirement because life goes on, for me I'm learning a new language, and new activities like spin cycling, zumba and reading more ,I'm also going out more with my senior friends, I just thank God for health and blessings everyday

  • @jwgriswold
    @jwgriswold 7 місяців тому +5

    Sandra, thank you for sharing your insight about how to live each day. Age doesn't matter, and you give many wonderful examples of why this is true. I am glad you have your companion, Mushu! Whoever said that about your being too old to have a puppy, was very rude.

  • @streaming5332
    @streaming5332 7 місяців тому +2

    I regret having an older sister. I can't describe how unhappy she makes me. Everything turns into an argument and blaming, and nothing is ever her fault. Life does all these terrible things to her and it's somehow always other people's fault. She's 74 and as my mother's funeral approaches she has got even worse.
    I would go back to 20 but without a sister breathing down my neck, always on my case. I would love to do that part of my life again in different circumstances.

  • @nancypersin8943
    @nancypersin8943 7 місяців тому +6

    Thank you for your calming and inspiring support.

  • @cindyweeks
    @cindyweeks 7 місяців тому +2

    Everyday no matter what age we are is a wonderful gift that we should cherish. I agree we are in a free stage of life and we need to learn to put ourself first I personally have sacrificed 55 years of my life if I don’t take time for me now time will run out. Thank you as always for a wonderful sharing of your wisdom and taking the time to talk to us about all these things. Bless your heart ❤️

  • @lizvardon5357
    @lizvardon5357 7 місяців тому +1

    Such a wonderful liberating title "Our Freedom Years"! I learn so very much from you Sandra. You are a gift to us all. Just the thought makes each day have tbe sparkle of choice. So easy to get bogged down with lifes challenges, the gift of choice and one's Freedom Years brings a sparkle to my day ❤

  • @patsy6589
    @patsy6589 7 місяців тому +4

    Freedom years, love it. You are a ray of sunshine in my life, dear Sandra. Have to watch this video more than once to soak in all the wisdom you manifest. Regrets we all have them, but not more than being grateful for all the wonderful times we've had in our life, hopefully.

  • @carolmaclean2329
    @carolmaclean2329 7 місяців тому

    Such a wise, beautiful lady, you adopt a puppy and be proud of your zest for life, I love it ❤

  • @aguedaalmeida6415
    @aguedaalmeida6415 7 місяців тому +5

    Hi Sandra,
    Nice to see you. You look lovely as always. Thank you for being transparent and sharing.❤

  • @KRwind.
    @KRwind. 7 місяців тому +2

    May your window close very slowly! You are a blessing!

  • @novanorman1091
    @novanorman1091 7 місяців тому +3

    Thank you!! You are a ray of sunshine for us!! I too, want to live while I live!!

  • @selinawyllie3481
    @selinawyllie3481 7 місяців тому +1

    Hi Sandra I am 71 years old and I am grateful to be this age regrets I do have but I cannot change the past but I trying to learn something from that and make each little moment enjoyable. God is in control of the situation and he is the one who knows what the future holds. Blessing to all ❤️🙏

  • @madelinevegas8123
    @madelinevegas8123 7 місяців тому +3

    I’m 58 with 2 grown children 32 and 41 they have no children. I’m retired from the city of NYC but I’m still working.

  • @theunspeakable24
    @theunspeakable24 7 місяців тому +2

    I am in my late 60's, struggling. You are such an inspiration.

  • @teresameisner4895
    @teresameisner4895 7 місяців тому +1

    Hi Sandra. I watched you back when you were looking through your magic mirror. I will be 70 in October. I lovecwatching your videos. I'm glad you're doing well. About 7 years ago my husband of almost 34 years decided he didn't want to be married anymore. Turns out that he'd been talking & texting with his high school girlfriend. That didn't work out for him, but that's his problem now. I retired at the end of 2022 & have been adjusting to having all this free time! My daughters & grandkids live close so I'm enjoying seeing them a bit more. The hardest thing for me is not having the person around that I thought I'd travel with through my later years. I hope to take a vacation with each of my grandkids & daughters. I can't believe how far time seems to be going by! You take care & I'll keep watching. 🤗

  • @suzannegittins9574
    @suzannegittins9574 7 місяців тому +5

    Amen to everything you have said Sandra. You are a blessing.🥰🙏💗🐶

  • @silentwanderer2020
    @silentwanderer2020 7 місяців тому +1

    I am 66 and I am trying hard to take your wonderful wise words of advice to heart. You are a beautiful woman inside and out, and I so appreciate you sharing what you do. Thank you, Susie

  • @gloriayouchisonbrown7734
    @gloriayouchisonbrown7734 7 місяців тому +6

    Your videos always motivate me, living in the moment is so important
    Beautiful scenery and you look lovely as usual ❤

  • @lilajtblue
    @lilajtblue 7 місяців тому +1

    I just love ❤️ you Sandra, what beautiful woman you are. I have to watch you everyday to keep the negative things out. You must live in Florida, because the scenery is gorgeous. Enjoy your days with family members and friends ❤️ you are so lucky to have that.
    My son throws the past in my face. I cried for 2yrs, but i don't cry anymore. I married very young, my sister calls it a shot gun wedding. My option was to stay with my babies grandmother, not my mom, to finish school and she'd help me raise him. But since i denied my moms wishes to abort, she has put me down all my life 😢 That's my only regret. I would have went to college. My inlaws were so positive and strong willed.
    Btw I'm from a rural town in Central Louisiana.
    So Sandra I'm so happy I found you. You make my day's so much better. 💕 God bless you 🙏 ❤️

  • @dreamgaits
    @dreamgaits 7 місяців тому +16

    I still work because it is my hobby. I love my job and look forward to going to work every day. I don't need to work but I love to work. Do what you want with your "golden years".

  • @auk7447
    @auk7447 7 місяців тому

    Thank you. At 55 my life is entering a new phase and this is so helpful.

  • @geneveaddleman9383
    @geneveaddleman9383 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank You Sandra❤
    You have really added so much more Thoughts of wisdom an healing in my 71years. You light up my life Sandra.. by provoking my deeper thoughts an memories that change my outlooks in this stage of my life. I loved your sharing Arthur's illness's and Your both enhanced romance THRU IT ALL which I admire so much.
    My husband's last 2 years of his life were not at all pleasent due to his constant traumas physically.
    Yet thru it all We kept keeping on keeping.
    He was very challenged with learning disabilities which it was difficult for him to grasp all his Many Physical hardships..but thru it all We did it. And after listening to this video my regrets are fewer. Iam just ever Grateful Our my higher Powers of God gave me the strength to keeping on.
    Thank for your Beautiful❤ Sandra. May your blessings increase 10 fold dear Friend.❤❤❤xoxxoi

  • @DAWesomemusicandmore
    @DAWesomemusicandmore 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you this topic! I turned 65 yesterday and I am "retiring" - from my job, that is - in three weeks. But I have SO much planned. I am a part-time musician and will be doing lots more of that! I'm also an artist and make jewelry. That is on my agenda as is working on my UA-cam channel where I travel with my two dogs. I had some tough times in the past too and am working on letting all that go and enjoying my freedom years! Thank you again for your wisdom!

  • @WiggyPineda-eg3gb
    @WiggyPineda-eg3gb 7 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much for these videos, I am just starting to get into my freedom years. I had a stroke at 44. that wiped me out completely. now Im about to turn 47 and back in school with a new love, my kids are grown and on their own. and I just recently learned a new skilll that I can continue to do the rest of my life with my love. and your videos are so encouraging especially as I grow older.

  • @vickylee5579
    @vickylee5579 7 місяців тому +2

    Sandra you’re always such a delight to watch. You enjoy your puppy. I sure miss my Yorkie boy. They are so much company. I enjoyed all the cloths you had on. I’m glad you’re enjoying your life♥️ You are are healthy and beautiful and so intelligent. ❤

  • @nenameza2982
    @nenameza2982 7 місяців тому +1

    Hello Sandra, next week I will be 82, I start organizing most of the stuff trough out the house. I have to be realistic that I don’t have much time. My husband is almost 90, and we had no children. I admire women like you, so positive and supportive, I really don’t know what to do in my last years. God bless,🙏♥️🌹🙏♥️🌹

  • @kathy5706
    @kathy5706 7 місяців тому +2

    What a role model and inspiration you are for us young uns (I’m 75)! I also have thought about the future for my 3 year old dog, but she keeps me moving forward and I’m hoping that I am here for her entire life. No one can predict the future. Enjoy every day!

  • @brendahorn4782
    @brendahorn4782 7 місяців тому +4

    Enjoyed the video and all the snippets sprinkled throughout. 😊

  • @MB-vu3ow
    @MB-vu3ow 7 місяців тому +2

    Hello Sandra, thank you for your comforting messages in an increasingly alien society that surrounds me. The values and culture of my country are deteriorating. Bless you for being a beautiful, positive force in this world.

  • @charlottesponar2100
    @charlottesponar2100 7 місяців тому

    Wonderful commentary for my 75th!😊

  • @JustCallMeLiberty
    @JustCallMeLiberty 7 місяців тому +1

    👍👍😎💖🐶🙏 Beautiful! I'm 62 and my Mom is 81 we both will go up a number in July and enjoy watching you.

  • @TJPoppy
    @TJPoppy 7 місяців тому +4

    Hi dear Sandra, you’re a bright light to many of us, I really appreciate you. 🌹

  • @fernandaleite8143
    @fernandaleite8143 7 місяців тому +4

    Your videos are full of great things to think about, thank you for sharing your time and lessons with us! 😊🤝

  • @justChrisjones
    @justChrisjones 7 місяців тому +4

    Thank you Sandra you are an inspiration ❤❤❤😊

  • @ladyw605
    @ladyw605 7 місяців тому

    I am of the opinion that a human being with no regrets is a human being who hasn’t lived life to the fullest!!! There are absolutely no guarantees in this life!!! Don’t we all wish for the proverbial crystal ball; but then, that just wouldn’t be good either…I think we are better off not knowing what tomorrow holds-especially if it’s not going to be so good-who wants to live in even more angst than we already do?!?!? I earnestly believe that God wants us to rely on and trust in Him. 💝

  • @vickiclark6087
    @vickiclark6087 7 місяців тому

    So lovely to hear you speak from the heart , Taking your own sunshine with you makes each day beautiful whatever your age. 💕🌞

  • @TheresaErickson-m5l
    @TheresaErickson-m5l 7 місяців тому

    Oh my gosh, you have no idea how much I needed this today!!!! I was recently laid off and I am in a “lost” phase of my life. I started to go for a walk, and you just started talking (I didn’t even hit the podcast section) God knew I needed this today… Thank you!!!!

  • @camerajen
    @camerajen 4 місяці тому

    Every time I watch your videos they seem to be so relevant to whatever I’m experiencing at the time. It’s time for me to retire, I’ve been on the fence about it but I know that I’m ready for my freedom years. You’re amazing. ❤

  • @maryabdel-malik656
    @maryabdel-malik656 7 місяців тому +4

    Love your message since I retired I really retired have no desire of doing anything It has been 7 years Sometimes I blame it on my health issues but I know the reason is inside of me I just have no interest and no I don’t think I am depressed .

    • @AyaSmith-rb2hp
      @AyaSmith-rb2hp 7 місяців тому +2

      Hi, really resonated with what you said. I retired 7 years ago too after losing my son and father then my daughter living 3 days drive away I can’t say I never get lonely sometimes. Yet, after a life with lots of trauma, I enjoy sitting outside here in Florida with my dog and so grateful not to work or having a crisis going on. I feel so many are pushed to be active all the time and travel. I just don’t want to.
      Thanks for speaking up and know you are not alone.❤

    • @maryabdel-malik656
      @maryabdel-malik656 7 місяців тому

      @@AyaSmith-rb2hp I am sorry for your losses may God bless their souls & bless you Sending love from the Northeast 🙏❤️

  • @НатальяКраснопевцева-и2б

    I can't agree more!😊 Sandra, you are so fit, you look great in all your outfits! Thank you for the video💐

  • @melloo3782
    @melloo3782 7 місяців тому +1

    Dearest Teacher Sandra, once again, you have shared your wisdom and provided this community with much encouragement on positive living. You never fail to bring sunshine and hope!! Thank you and God bless you with good health and many more years to spend with us and your love ones💕🙏