THE STUCK INNER CHILD | Why Can't I Move On From The Past? THE SOLUTION! | Wu Wei Wisdom
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- Free your stuck Inner Child and positively move on from the past. You’ll discover why your Inner Child won’t let go of old hurt and how you can heal the Inner Child through Inner Child Reparenting… 👉 Work one-to-one with David: www.wuweiwisdom.com/therapies...
☯️ EPISODE # 45 of our Life Lessons teaching series
You’ll learn:
- Why your Inner Child is stuck and locked in a prison of their own making.
- The powerful childhood ‘Vow’ that is now restricting your life and keeping you on the ‘Carousel of Despair’.
- Why your Inner Child seeks out dysfunctional adult relationships and situations rather than avoiding them.
- The essential steps you must take to understand the vital ‘Life Lesson’ presented by painful past experiences.
- How to reparent and heal your Inner Child so you can free them from the past.
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When someone we love does things that are extremely hurtful, it seems like it would be weird to not feel hurt.
Just started my inner child work. My child is very scared and angry. This channel is going to change my life. Thank you xx
Hi Kirsty, we have a video coming soon about the angry Inner Child that will help you. In the meantime, please check out our Inner Child video playlist: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
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Kirsty Sewell , have you managed to heal your IC or still angry ?
Oh yes so was mine! It was life changing when I accepted myself as the new mother to my inner child. It also can help to have a stuffed animal that represents your inner child that you can give hugs and tell advice to as a physical representation. I even dress mine in little pajamas
@@retroreceptionist7571 i have a soft pug
Good idea❤ @@retroreceptionist7571
I cannot thank you enough for the amazing content you provide for free. I've recently started doing inner child work and it's excruciating because it's triggering a lot of emotions I had suppressed all my life (mostly fear, anger, and resentment that are showing up as anxiety), but these videos are really helping. Thank you so much!
I do agree completely
It is so very good it is being done for free... so everybody gets a "fair" chance in life.... at least everybody with connection to the internet :-)
After all we r equivalent as human to each other or how does one pronounce that in english... likewurthy maybe a better word
And also the vids still here and available after that many years..
Im gratefull
Whising all the good 4u too and hopefully u r still in your flow
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23:05 “ You were a little child , A little 8 yrs old that had to deal with a life lesson that was greater than yourself and your equipped capabilities to deal with it “💖👏
I heard and read tons of material on inner child, but here I found the very very essence of this complecated theme. My inner child lovingly agrees🐯
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I think it’s natural in healthy relationships to expect that if someone hurts us or harms us that if we are important enough to them they will seek our forgiveness and work to regain our trust or repair what they have damaged. Unhealthy people often times have no remorse, no sympathy for the person they’ve harmed, see apologizing as giving up power over the other, and have no intention of doing anything to regain trust. This hurts even more because we start to see how unimportant we are to them. And if we aren’t important to the people who are important to us we start to feel unsafe in the world, not knowing if we are important to others. It’s not so much about how we see ourselves; it’s more about gauging how the world values us so we know how to operate in it.
I guess it the emotional conditioning of the inner child, but it’s also just learning the world. I’m not sure how to apply these teachings I guess, or how to change my core beliefs if I don’t have experiences that help support new beliefs.
100% I get what you are saying.
my mom says even as early as 5 I would come into a room and she'd see I was "reading it" feeling the people
Yes, it's protection. My child immediately said, ' they hurt me'. I still protect myself. On the mark!
This is by far one of his most poignant teachings. This can’t be replayed enough. Thank you Alex and David.
We're so glad this teaching has resonated with you deeply. It's messages like yours that fuel our passion and commitment to sharing these teachings. Thank you for your appreciation, and may each replay bring you even more insight and peace. Keep reflecting, and we'll keep the wisdom coming. Kind regards Alex and David.
I have been through so much pain and suffered enough that people who abused, ignored and abandoned me should come kneeling to me and beg me forgiveness and world should award me a badge of honor and should provide me with all the love, care, understanding and validation and I should not have to struggle, do the work. You making me aware of this is so relieving and insightful. So much thankful to you.
I only watch two videos by this channel. And my inner child freaked out. It went to 12 hours of sleep as it got really upset. But i started to cuddling it and trying to explain to it that there is another way for both of us to be happy. Thanks guys. 💙
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How did you cuddle your inner child? I feel I'm available, nurturing & parenting to every child, but subconsciously ignoring, blocking, suppressing my inner child.
Well done! Give the IC love and attention and then become a team to be in your flow and reach your potential. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Kind regards, David.
My mother conditioned me that I'm not good enough in attempts to teach me humility, a value in the religion I grew up with. My mother never said, "Good job" or "Thank you" whenever I've done the task. This religion taught that once you think you are good enough, you are actually not. This was about pleasing God, not building self-esteem. I used to value this religion, but no more. I created self-sabotage throughout my life in almost every aspect of my life, especially in my inability to finding love. I feel I'm in a unique situation since I was conditioned to value self-doubt in the name of humility. I recalled when I complained to my mother that my peers were picking on me, since kindergarten. Her response, "You must've done something bad to your friends." I led a lonely life at home and at school. I'm still a loner perhaps by choice. How can overcome this bad conditioning by my omnipotent mother?
After watching this video again, I realized I'm stuck in my carousel of despair. I blamed my conditioning and the shaming that my mother and the religion bestowed on me. Their intentions may have been good, but teaching humility is a very complex concept for children to understand. Pride and arrogance were considered were sinful qualities that were looked down upon. I understood this, but I didn't achieve a healthy self-concept and self-esteem. I've carried this shame for the longest time. I think it's time that I put this shame in its place -- the past. As a childcare giver, I considered every child very special. It's time for me to do the same for my inner child.
Similar experiences with me. After reading it I connect the dots.
When you're ready, the masters arrive. The best therapy there is. Thank you both so very much. ❤❤
Hello Caitriona, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Dirty little secret - very true. I feel like nobody must find out.
My partner would totally agree with this, no matter what she's been through she will never be a victim she just won't allow it. she loves this channel so glad we found it.
Thank you David and Alex for helping me help my hurt stubborn frightened inner child with your understanding and compassionate videos. I needed "stop it!" and "you are awesome!" Love You! ❤ 🙏
Hi @sandrasimon9264,
We're so touched to hear that our videos have helped you connect with and support your inner child. Your dedication to understanding and nurturing this part of yourself with compassion is truly inspiring. Remember, your inner child is a vital part of who you are, deserving of love and care. Keep reminding yourself, "You are awesome!" because you truly are. Love and gratitude to you! ❤🙏
Kind Regards,
David
23:00 an adult child still looking for the (never received parents' job) unconditional love/validation.
Hi Rafal Jot., thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html ~ Alex + David x
As always, as we (My husband and I), watch your amazing inner child videos, we are blown away by the incredible, loving, wisdom and information that we can apply to our STUCK adult lives and understand better how to get out and be free!!! THANK YOU both for all you do !!!
Thanks for watching Sue! x
I realize I have a number of "inner children" that needs healing, teaching and encouragement. I used to blame everyone, everything and situation for my problems. Until I recently went through a traumatic episode of loosing some family members. Since then, I haven't been myself, having intrusive thoughts that seems so real. Being too concerned for others, blaming myself for everything even if am not the cause. Feelings worthless. In fact all the things am going through right now has never happened to me. Yet I realized I am doing it to myself but I don't even know how to stop it. I need help.
My inner child really has this fear of love, of someone who I feel attracted to actually loving me. I feel like I shouldn't get into it because I will " blow it" and then be hurting. I feel utterly worthless in these situations and incredibly self critical. Then a self fulfilling prophecy occurs because I feel so so uncomfortable....and want to retreat to my " usual self", usual life situation of repressing my real feelings and abilities and capacities. Thanks so much for this
We run from it because We don’t know what is to feel Home, and Love, and Safety. We have an otherwise experience and We make choices from that filtered experience.
Thank you thank you thank you. I am truly in tears filled with gratitude for the breakthroughs I've had in my healing journey from watching your videos. Thank you. I am getting better and finally seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. You are doing divine work.
Hello Yasmin, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I just want to say that you two are AMAZING!! I have just gone through the last several years (decade, really) of the most painful, difficult events that I've ever experienced in my life. And, in trying to work towards a "solution", I have been meeting with Counselors, Doctors, friends, Therapists, etc. and I've watched hundreds of UA-cam videos, trying to find this golden solution/s to healing. I have always been acutely aware of my "inner child" that also had a very difficult childhood, with incredible amounts of trauma, but I have never approached "healing my inner child" in the ways that you guys have explained. Frankly, at least for me, you have explained this in such a clear, and obvious way, that making these adjustments and doing this work is so straight forward, that I want to do any and all of the work ASAP, in order to achieve the healing. I KNOW this will change my life, moving forward, and it certainly helps me parent my children in a better, more understanding way, to help protect, develop, and grow their "inner child", with even more understanding and care. THANK YOU BOTH!! If you have any recommendations for me, as I go through this final stage of discovering my new, happier life, I would greatly appreciate and value your input. It will certainly be adhered to as well! Thank you! :)
I’ve watched 2 videos in a row so far. I already feel like, I can unblock my parents because I’m taking the reigns in parenting myself. I’m not gonna unblock anyone just yet lol, but my point is, this is so healing. So healing. I don’t even feel like I need them to realize they were wrong anymore. I think a part of me is seeing the mistakes they made with me as a result of them not dealing with their own inner children. I cannot thank y’all enough
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,500 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I'm binge listening to your videos and podcasts to soak myself in this new way of thinking! It's marvellous and has already brought me so much joy 🥰. I've mentioned your channel to a few of my friends and encouraged them to visit (take what you like and leave the rest...). This model of yours makes so much sense and enables me to understand myself. Now Little Cellotia and I are on an exciting journey, even though we haven't left the house! I feel so much freer after hearing that I _am_ loveable, I _am_ good enough, and I _can_ and do cope: I caught myself CCJ-ing earlier today and Little C and I had a chat about it and I think she's having a good think about why we do it and whether it's valid or not.
Thank you so much for having this channel available to anyone, for free. I am coming to believe that the rest of my life will be a lot richer, somewhat smoother and an awful lot happier than I was imagining. It's a weight lifted off my spirit -- I have hope again. Blessings on you both 👃💜💙💚💛🧡❤
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Working with our inner child is life changing. As a transformational coach with senior leaders and having worked with my own inner child I cannot stress the power of this enough. Thank you so much David and Alex, your work is so inspiring ❤️
David very often says some very profound statements that I would like to resonate for a second. It is hard to let his amazing wisdom sink in at times when he is often seemingly interrupted. Just a pause of dialogue after he speaks would really help make these videos even more effective to those learning so much from their combined insight. Also, I don’t like when someone says “buying into the belief” as though they are trying to con us. Our inner child doesn’t want to be conned into a belief. Even though she is possibly joking, Our inner child is a beautiful soulful being wanting to be validated and heard and nurtured. These videos are changing my life! What amazing insight they both have & the ability to articulate to the child within us is extraordinary. Read “I’m OK, You’re OK” to understand what they mean by inner child.
14:49 i'm about to cry when he said "give me the evidence"
Can you guys help me? Whenever I remember something from the past I get anxious and angry.. whenever I'm doing something fun,social, happy I feel that my younger self is watching me and react to what I'm doing and How I 'evolved' and changed,I feel that it's blocking me from doing my current self wants to do,but I'm still clinging to the past, whenever I want to get out of my confort zone I feel crippled and helpless,and I allways Say ' well it's not me' but I know that that's unhealthy ,I feel unable to face reality ,I'm still living in the fantasy Land of my past....this vedio was a miracle....If anybody has an advice for me please go ahead I need it.
I love the idea of familiar and inner child; OCD makes it harder to stop that carousel.
Or is that an excuse 🫥
Always sabotage
Need to watch your shen vids
Wow!
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
I think l might have made myself become all the things l was told . I can remember thinking ok you can have the worst daughter you ever had . I made myself a freek . Cos they kept telling me . I cut off my nose to spite my face just so my parents suffer .
When l try to heal l sabotage it when my parents tell me what l need to do . Like loose weight , stop drinking ect . But inside lm saying no you need to love and be nice to me for me to heal but they never changed so l didn't to punish them . If my mum ever sore me getting better , healthier ect she didn't like it so she'd bring me down again cos she sore it as a compatition . So l would Sabotage it all again . She would say you know you need to get better you need to lose weight stop drinking . Then the cycle starts all over again . It's a visious circle .
I have bipolar disorder. I have tried desperately to un think it without results. This video speaks to me and says there is hope for me and I don't have to be in despair and at the mercy of a cruel and unfair world. Something happened to me early in my life which I can't remember yet but I think I might be able to discover with the help of my higher self. I want to thrive and love being alive! Thank you Wu Wei Wisdom. I feel like there might be hope for me yet. I don't have to worry what others think and I don't have to fear failure. I cI would be elated if anyone in this online community left an encouraging comment for me. I want to encourage others as well, I can get past this. I think I can I think I can I think I have a plan, that I could do most anything just when I think I can!
I’ve used homeopathic remedies for 40 years Sepia for depression Aconite for anxiety and ignatia for grief they do work have a look on line and try to get a trained homeopathic doctor . Best wishes to you 🏴🙏🏼
Couldn't stop crying the entire time! very powerful, thank you both 🙏
Hello Suza, Thank you for sharing your story with us. We are delighted that our videos are helping with your spiritual journey and emotional education. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
What if you can't remember the event or eventd because you've blocked out those traumatic memories but it's stuck in our inner child's memory?
Then how do you know if it's your child that is the angry part of you?
@@shreeyaa121 How do people notice that? What guides them inside?
Fear, fear is what I felt in my childhood. I became invisible to stay safe, not to anger anyone. Now I am a people pleaser and that has got me in trouble.
Every time I hear you say the vow I tear up. My little one might have needed to hear this. We thank you!
Thank you so much for your videos and the powerful messages they bring. My inner child has been ruling my adult life for so long I don’t know where to begin. I had multiple traumas in my childhood which left me thinking I was unlovable unwanted and unable to cope in a adult world. Somehow I mackled up a belief that if I strove to be perfect I could control everything. That made me feel safe. I am now completely stuck because reality has dawned upon me that there is no utopia it was all in my mind. I have flashbacks anxiety nightmares and so much pain emotional and physical I think I am still 4, 5, 6 years of age terrified and bewildered. I know you say it is not a monster but I believe it is
17:15 familiar, 38:40, 20 self fulling, 22:00 blame, wants the known,41:20
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
I AM NOT OWED. I AM BLESSED. FORGIVE MYSELF AND OTHERS. I LOVED THE GREEN FLAG. WHEN I REFLECT ON MY PASSED I HAVE MISSED OUT WITH MY INNER CHILDS RESPONSES THAT'S OK. MEDITATION AND JOURNELINGI IS A MUST. QUESTION THE CHILD ON IT BELIEFS. CHANNELING CONNECTING WITH IT. BEEN TRUTHFUL. IT GOING TO BE CHALLENGING. KEEP AT IT. SO MUCH IN THIS VIDEO. THIS IS THE WAY TO LIFE IT MUST BE SO MUCH MORE PEACEFUL THAN THE LIE. THANK YOU SO MUCH. 💖💞🌹🏴🙏
STUMBLING ONTO THIS PAGE, IS LIKE STUMBLING INTO AN OASIS, AFTER BEING TRAMPED IN A DESERT SEASON!! MY CUP RUNNETH OVER! THANK YOU.
Thank you both very much.
Listening to and learning from this video is a God send for me.
I've attended Adult Children of Alcoholics/Dysfunctional Families (aka ACA) telephone meetings since December 2015.
What I find amazing is that the information I hear at ACA meetings and what you all have shared here is of the same nature.
The amazing part is that I heard you two at a heart level versus just more head knowledge.
I'm reminded to keep an open mind.
Gratefully,
Joe in Ohio, USA
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Vital information. It took me 30 years to come to this realization. Thank you.
The words move on and let it go are *highly triggering*
Let your heart be light! Sending love and seasons greetings to Wu Wei Wisdom. So glad I found you this year!
We're glad you have found us too Judith... thank you for your support! x
You guys understand the mind so well your explanations are second to none on YT. Thank you making us all understand how to conquer our internal struggles. The inner child resonates with me so incredibly deeply and thanks to you, I am now at one with him. Merry Christmas to you both!
Thank you Jason! Merry Christmas to you and your family too :) x
You guys are EXCELLENT!! The information you provide...as well as the manner in which you deliver it.
I just learned about this channel and happy I came upon it, which is not by accident. My inner child needs HELP for I’ve been going through a lot of creating thoughts and emotions
Thank you for this saving Knowledge!!! Peace to you both.🙏🏻❤️💯
Hi @naturelover9162,
Thank you for your kind words! We're so glad that you've found value in our teachings. May peace be with you too. If you're seeking more knowledge and a supportive community, feel free to join our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community.
Kind Regards,
David
Very enlightening. I can recognise how my IC has steered me into conflict avoidance, and surpressed anger, in 'unjust' situations. Thankyou.
Hi GlassbackDIY we're glad the video helped you.
Please check out our Inner Child video playlist as we have lots more helpful teachings on there: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html
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Alex + David x
This is very helpful, I do recognize my inner child and have for a while. I have a issue being kind to it.
Kareem, your beautiful Inner Child needs your attention, love and support.
It may challenge you or misbehave at times but this is what all children do... they like to push the boundaries and test their parents!
Have you tried our Inner Child guided meditation yet? ua-cam.com/video/2lhnEm8VCyM/v-deo.html
This may help you...
Wishing you well on your journey :) x
I can't even remember my childhood. i wouldn't be able to tell you what happened that locked my inner child
Ages 6- 9 Moved house, newschool, grandfather died, auntie committed suicide, mum went into depressive psychosis and mum dad split up. Was turbulent.
This video helps me to understand the 'stuck' aspect of the Inner Child much more clearly. Brilliant !!! A thousand thank you's from 'Team O'Connor' ;-)))
Thanks Kieran! We appreciate your support :) x
I will listen to this vedio 20 times to get this in my mind and heart because I am stuck on believing I will never get that kind of love again thank you i get my mind understanding so much when i listen to you all
Thank you for this wisdom! My innerchild is angry, feels hopeless, abandoned, scared.
You are so welcome Kind regards, David.
This has been the most enlightening video. A light bulb has just gone on and I am hoping this is the pathway for change. I have definitely beaten myself up for over 40 years thinking there was something wrong with me. I was scared to make decisions or try something new because I thought I wouldn't cope but in most cases I have surprised myself and done well but still go back to the negative and black thinking criticising judging and comparing myself to others. Always thinking I'm falling short. I'm so excited to hear none of this is true. I can see a light to happiness and fulfilment. Thank you so much. Great work. I feel inspired. I can be stronger and gain my self esteem and self worth 🙂
Good work sir, please make the inner child projections on your body, on beauty and hating your self and body. Also make videos on inner child of those people who suffered abuse, emotional or sexual any kind of, it will be great. 💓😍
After listening to this video, I listened to several others about Shen and inner child difficulties. My inner child has been creating lots of exaggerated fears. She is impatient and talking in a loud voice. But this morning I asked a new question....Shen, what do you think? And Shen answered me! Calm, wise, helpful answers. Wow! Call Shen by name and Shen answers. My inner child was so relieved. Shen, you are there and I can call for you. You are trustworthy. You have good judgment.
Beautiful. Thank you for sharing this Barbara. Shen is always there, waiting quietly and patiently without judgement. x
okay im going to set an example for public consumption .
Having a really hard time keeping it together, my faincee has left me because i struggle with my inner child. It has consumed my life, i cant sleep cut everyone off and work myself when ever i can currently and sleep in my car most nights. My issues stem from loss, off the top of my head i can count 9 immediate family members that passed away starting from as early of the age 12. The hardest ones to deal with were my sister and my mother. My mother is a very troublesome memory because i am the one who found her deceased. It was so hard watching her after my sister passed away from cancer.
This haunts me, the person i developed into is a quiet and very recluse. Im not sure how much more i can handle i am so emotional broken and have been for a long time. my crying fits used to get so bad i inflict pain on myself to keep my emotions in check. and im loosing everything good in my life. All i have left are my two boys my oldest born after my sister passed and my youngest born after my mother passed.
Hi Kareem K,
Thanks for your comments and sharing your story.
As you will appreciate it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms.
I am sorry to hear about your losses and I agree it can be very challenging for that part of your mind we call the Inner Child to understand and rationalise these type of traumatic events.
I would suggest you have some very important emotional education and healing to do with her around death and dying.
This is challenging but rewarding areas to work for you and your Inner Child to do together.
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I have been trying to meet my inner child by thought but find I am resisting to meet with her and I don't understand why. My abuse started at 4 and has continued in more and more keeps me feeling so on alert. It feels like fear.
This is so eye opening and helpful, can’t wait to watch more!
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MY CHILD is VERY ANGRY IT WANT ME TO GO INTO DENIAL. CAN'T ALLOW IT🙏💖😍🙏
I watched this episode, however I would like to ask this question, when your raised by people who compared you to a dog, cats, children in your neighbourhood, family members who were around the same age as you, telling you constantly your worthless did the inner child create that self talk?
thankyou both, grateful.🙏🌹💝☮
Hi Maria Richards, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x
What I was told about perfect…….the best of the people had their problems.
Another one for my basket.
This is a very insightful video. I've listened to couple times now. In growing up I think my VOW was not only, It must be me but also I am a bad girl and everything was my fault. It took me many years to realize it wasn't me. And I like to listen to videos that reinforce that my belief was not correct. Thank you!
God bless you guys, thanks thanks💝💖❤️
Will I ever feel that I am good enough, smart enough to have a a respectful career? Or be able to use my voice to defend my self or express my anger?
Woooo. Was led to this video today "by mistake". So amazing to see the stuck child in operation. Such a relief to understand as things come up in this challenging time. Thank you ❤❤❤❤
It wasn’t confusing at all. I love the way y’all explain it out between you two. 🙏🏿 thank you!
Would love to see a videos about
- Unhealed inner child and romantic relationships
- relationships between people who BOTH have Unhealed inner children
These guys are AMAZING! yes to life changing. So grateful to have found them 💜🙏
Love this channel ! It’s super !!
I think it's because my inner child thinks I'll never get that kind of love again because I felt with it was perfect. I think I feel the child does want to believe I'll ever get that kind of love again.
Hi David and Alex...This video is extremely helpful and appreciated. I agree that the truth does set people free ..It's believing in yourself that makes the difference, after years of being put down and thinking that it was your fault..Thankyou so much for this support.Love to you both and good wishes ..♥️ xx
Thank you Denise! Sending love to you and Brian. x
Thank you so much for these priceless videos.
I love how you complement each other!
Thanks for your positive feedback Hakan! :-) x
Agreed. They really do.
Omg! Helps so much
Hi Gina,
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Kind Regards,
David
Thank You
So grateful for this information
Hello Shakaya, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
You are amazing! Thank you.
You are both a true blessing . Thank you.
These are some serious keys. Thank you for bettering lives.
Hi Tristan, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you!
Thank you!!
This was perfect. Thank you. I think that I was finally ready to hear this message.
Wow... this is so insightful..the self fulfilling prophecy piece...
I understand totally now….OMG!!, thanks a million. I wholeheartedly appreciate you sharing your gifts with us. It is helpful & we do truly appreciate you. ❤️💡🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
You are so welcome! Kind regards, David.
Awesome. Cleared many doubts and confusion
Glad it helped x
Thank you.
You're welcome! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Great content as always!
Thanks Anastasia - we 100% appreciate your support! x
Thank you so much! My Life is so much better feeling better and worthy, You have helped me so much.
Deborah, you are worthy... you are love! Thank you for sharing with us. x
*THIS*!!!!!! This is PURE GOLD!!!!! Thank you 😊 Thank you 💓 THANK YOU!!!!! So many things makes so much sense now!!!! 😮🥰😱🥰 I needed to hear this.
Great video!!!
Glad you liked it! Kind regards, David.
For the first time in my life I have hope thank you very much
Thank you for sharing with gratitude
You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much! May God bless you and reward for you great generosity to help us out out there, since cov19 I could not afford psychology so thank you so much!!
I've created a love so strong. I dont want to stop. Even tho he is not creat for me. But I think I'm not believing that he has stop loving me why cant I believe he stopped
I’m so incredibly thankful & grateful for you & these videos.
I wholeheartedly thank you, o absolutely needed this cause I’m working on my issues.
Thank you!!, thank you!!, Thank you so very much 🤗❤️💡
In my experiences with the inner child, I am in the odds of rejection in my community, yet there is a tolerance in co-existing for simple matters…… Our beleief differences don’t agree, and among family I happen to be restricted in financial I needs, where I am dependent on some support from my mother. I want to meet full financial,independence, and my mother is overly concerned about these needs….. my mother and I have our disagreements, but I need to have control for my personal needs.
You two make a great team, elaborate on @ others input. 🎶
THanks a lot for posting these videos. These are the best ones I have watched so far and really go deep and provide examples.
Hi m29422, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x