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Great great job both of you - invaluable! Summarizing the life lessons at the end is absolutely invaluable! Brilliant! I get confused between coping and surviving - I know I have survived the traumas but believe that I have not been able to cope with them as they still haunt me and affect my world view - coping to me infers my ability to solve problems and minimize the impact of stress - I think this is why a lot of us have difficulty believing we have coped but can easily accept we have survived -
I survived ...or I’d be dead 🤔 I have not coped very well. I am now 55 years old and can hardly stand the results of my decisions and choices. Usually to run or freeze...regardless of what I (or my children) lose in the process. I am so distressed at these truths. Why do I continue to live a lie?🤔😞🥲
It is so healing to hear you put my experience into words. I have no qualifications in maths and yet I have worked in Finance for decades - a quaking 7 year old has been going into work feeling like an inadequate imposter 😔, it’s like running an emotional assault course everyday and feeling like you fail every time - it’s exhausting. Thank you for sharing 💖
Hi surdogal, thanks for watching! We value your support. You may find our Golden Thread Process / Emotional Health Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyDAlex.html + David x
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Thank you very much for your support and wisdom. I recently discovered your videos and I feel blessed to be able to learn from you. I literally wrote down some parts of the video while putting it on pause :D Your way of explaining is truly helpful. I did always know about stuff that happened in childhood and how it is the reason it has been difficult to move on in life and basically just live my life as i like. I now see much more clearly how I have lived most of my life through fear by just avoiding new experiences. Thank you again Alex and David! Be well!
p.s. You are also welcome to join our free 'Wu Wei Wisdom Community' Facebook support group here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity ...And you can follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdom ~ x ~
If The coping strategy was to repeat the childhood situation - how are we to trust ourselves once those strategies fail.. which they ultimately do!? Not thriving and surviving - feeling vulnerable now from outside AND in - since we choose faulty coping strategies! …please explain. Thanks
I am definitely going thru this and trying hard to get past this as I dont trust men or females to be good or nice as I have had horrible relationships with people that have abused me raped me and hurt me and then lost them as friends now I feel I keep myself in low vibrations to avoid it but I want to break past this but now I am full of anxiety and fear ie: red light feelings :( please help
As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you very much for this video Alex and David. I thought i understood that I create my feelings, I mustn't truly believe it though still as i do look for emotional safety and protection. I feel unsafe at work with others but if I am creating these it is ridiculous to be protecting from myself! Have i picked this up correctly?
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💚❤ Thanks so much for your invaluable advice. I've always been a huge believer in self-therapy. It is so much MORE effective. Your advice is UNPRECEDENTED privileged and priceless. ❤💚
Hi Jessica Maden, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
Hi @nancythran9353, The desire to control the outcome often stems from fear or uncertainty about the future. It's a Inner Child response that creates tension and block the flow of your Shen spirit. By trusting the process and focusing on the present moment, you can find peace and allow things to unfold as they are meant to. Letting go of the need to control can be a powerful step toward living in harmony with your true self. Kind Regards, David P.S. Join our community for more support on your journey: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/
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Thank you for this marvellous film. My inner child must be a daredevil. My inner child is very dangerous, to me. It can reek havoc. Observer mode. People that resort to self blame, have a serious issues with their inner child/ have had crappy childhood/ the inner child is very present. We generate the feelings, the inner child, sieze the opportunity to pop out, and ride on it.
Morning 😊 I've had to have a break from looking at my inner child. Prob I have is I had a happy child hood but my family had trauma when I was 4 yrs old that lasted a few years. Thank you for the vids...
Could you tell me if you have a video that has like a script of what to say to your inner child as I understand it’s that part of me that is still scared , depressed /sad , and has the core beliefs of I’m not good enough , got to be perfect , I’m unlovable , I’m unworthy , there’s something wrong with me as my parents never showed me love just criticism, father emotionally bullying , mother emotionally not there with any comfort or support and a cold childhood where I felt suicidal at 9 and knew it was my parents fault. But I’m 47 and barely get out of bed due to depression or leave the house due anxiety / panic attacks. I’ve isolated myself and want to work on my inner child but think I believe it to be true so I don’t feel worthy of being alive which makes it hard to try any therapy over the years. Do I have to just challenge the thoughts as tried that before and I have evidence that proves negative things about me and I can’t take any pride in anything I’ve done from raising two sons to grades at school or a degree in my 30’s. The fact will always remain I blame my parents and am angry at them and wanted them punished but I’ve been punishing myself as it feels all my fault like if I had been a better person I’d have got love etc or if I was stronger I’d have not let it hurt me so much.
Hi Arnie B, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
Thank you, really, for listening to eachother in this teaching, wich I´ve really enjoied and took benefit from.. Thank you for doing this important work 🙏
p.s. CAMILLA ELLEKVIST if you have a question or topic you'd like us to consider for a future show episode, you can submit it to us using the form here: bit.ly/askusyourquestion ~ x~
Question, and please excuse me if I missed something. It's hard for me to understand the concept that we create 100% of our emotions. To a degree, yes, the whole thoughts before feelings concept. What is your opinion on trauma in the body, cell memory, vasovagal responses? They create emotion beyond our control, even unconsciencely. Look forward to understanding this. Very interesting and helpful content.
Hi Gina the physical body can be impacted by our unbalanced thoughts and beliefs. There are other things that cause an impact on our body -eg. physical harm to us or physical illness etc. It is normal and appropriate to experience a physiological/biological response to any imbalance or dysfunction in our physical body but this response is not the same as 'emotional feelings' - emotions are created by our thoughts and beliefs.
Inner child is such a good terminology it makes it neither an enemy nor a friend, How do you stop the judgmental part, that is judging people and the self by appearance? would love if you could put a video specifically on appearance judgment and it's relatedness to inner child and how to love your own appearance. Coming from a culture that is obsessed with appearance and looks as if we are on a modelling stage of who gets the approval stamp.
Hi Coach Zak Alashwal, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. This video may help you: ua-cam.com/video/Lu_6Rq0Cqmc/v-deo.html Alex + David x
My culture is middleastern. I wonder if yours is too. Appearances is very important in those types of families .. comparing between cousins.. … i also married into a family that were obsessed with looks.
Brilliant, as always. The adult part of me agreed wholeheartedly but I think the IC may have let a few important points go in one ear and out the other. Well, once we watch it again we will both be going in the same direction. Thanks to both of you.
p.s. Joyce Dunlap if you have a question or topic you'd like us to consider for a future show episode, you can submit it to us using the form here: bit.ly/askusyourquestion ~ x~
Hello Sara, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
How do we stop emotional protecting ourselves ❤ I mean I experienced anxiety and I would always find ways to not feel these feelings or try to protect myself from not doing ,seeing, reading something that might make me axious.Thank you .
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Do you accept that you create those emotions? Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
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WOW. This explains so much for me as I had a very critical mother who was never pleased and was verbally abusive. This clarifies why I have always hated reviews at work.
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Thank you, keep telling myself that I am creating my own emotions. However, I keep myself closed off from life to be safe. Today you have shown me I can't believe both. Therefore, I choose to open up because I am in control of my emotions and will be safe because I am in control. Wow😊
Hi, thank you for this great material, thank you for keeping my inner child busy :-). My question is the following: How do i know I made the right decision, I know have the right belief ?? true, honest and authentic to self?
This is soooo critical!!! Without this type of mentality, we'll never even touch the real cause of our "problems" (that we are uncounsciously creating). Thank you soooo much!!! Lots of Love from Southern Brazil!
Thanks for sharing!! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Thank you so much for this talk. I have a question. When does discernment come into play? How do you discern a persons character as not right for you based off past experiences and not label it as emotional safety?
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Hello David and Alex, thanks so much for these videos. I’ve watched a few of your videos now, including the 3 stages (part 1 and part 2) and I’ve started working on my inner child over the past 5 days. I have noticed my sleep has been broken since I started this inner child work. Do you think this could be the inner child kicking up a fuss because of the attention I am giving him and the changes I am working on with him?
Hi Tom West, thanks for sharing your thoughts - we value your support. It could be your inner child overworking/overthinking that is causing the restless sleep (but there may be other reasons too). Perhaps you could try one of our guided meditations to help you with this - we have a playlist here: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIA12P7BftG6a18lIWFDjL35.html ) and we have a new inner child meditation that will be published tomorrow! Alex + David x
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You are so welcome! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
i needed to understand this a long time ago. however I feel it's too late now. It's nice to watch and explains a lot, but I'm not understanding the solution. I truly don't know what to do. Could somebody help with a path to a solution ? I would be very grateful.
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▶️ The Emotional Safety Myth - Why You Can’t Be Emotionally Vulnerable ua-cam.com/video/mmc5pbSfk5s/v-deo.html
▶️ Scared of Getting Hurt Again - The Truth About Emotional Protection & Safety ua-cam.com/video/lpAellKk2-0/v-deo.html
▶️ The Emotional Pendulum - Your Mood Swings Explained ua-cam.com/video/wOC3CgmrgSU/v-deo.html
▶️ The Highly Sensitive Person Explained - How To Survive & Thrive as a HSP ua-cam.com/video/xIbpXtoD6t0/v-deo.html
▶️ The Inner Child Explained - How to Love Guide & Heal Your Inner Child ua-cam.com/video/BM0lmfBlE2E/v-deo.html
▶️ Reparenting Your Inner Child (Part 1) - The 3 Stages of Inner Child Work ua-cam.com/video/SndWtblVf2U/v-deo.html
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Thank you David and Alex. You are like my "UA-cam parents" helping me heal.
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Yes they are
Really excellent today. I wish you were about 40 years ago for me. However it is never too late to become the person we were always supposed to be.
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Great great job both of you - invaluable! Summarizing the life lessons at the end is absolutely invaluable! Brilliant! I get confused between coping and surviving - I know I have survived the traumas but believe that I have not been able to cope with them as they still haunt me and affect my world view - coping to me infers my ability to solve problems and minimize the impact of stress - I think this is why a lot of us have difficulty believing we have coped but can easily accept we have survived -
I agree 👍
I survived ...or I’d be dead 🤔
I have not coped very well.
I am now 55 years old and can hardly stand the results of my decisions and choices. Usually to run or freeze...regardless of what I (or my children) lose in the process. I am so distressed at these truths. Why do I continue to live a lie?🤔😞🥲
It is so healing to hear you put my experience into words. I have no qualifications in maths and yet I have worked in Finance for decades - a quaking 7 year old has been going into work feeling like an inadequate imposter 😔, it’s like running an emotional assault course everyday and feeling like you fail every time - it’s exhausting. Thank you for sharing 💖
Hi surdogal, thanks for watching! We value your support. You may find our Golden Thread Process / Emotional Health Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIAsS_wgdRN7QGBKIk54sbyDAlex.html + David x
p.s. You are also welcome to join our free 'Wu Wei Wisdom Community' Facebook support group here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity ...And you can follow us on Instagram: @wuweiwisdom ~ x ~
Thank you very much for your support and wisdom. I recently discovered your videos and I feel blessed to be able to learn from you. I literally wrote down some parts of the video while putting it on pause :D Your way of explaining is truly helpful. I did always know about stuff that happened in childhood and how it is the reason it has been difficult to move on in life and basically just live my life as i like. I now see much more clearly how I have lived most of my life through fear by just avoiding new experiences. Thank you again Alex and David! Be well!
Hi Karoliine, thanks for sharing your thoughts! We value your support. Alex + David x
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If The coping strategy was to repeat the childhood situation - how are we to trust ourselves once those strategies fail.. which they ultimately do!? Not thriving and surviving - feeling vulnerable now from outside AND in - since we choose faulty coping strategies! …please explain. Thanks
Great topic! thank you so much from the heart! my inner child thanks you and says I love you^^
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Thank you so much Alex and David
“Separate the incident from the emotion” ❤️
I am definitely going thru this and trying hard to get past this as I dont trust men or females to be good or nice as I have had horrible relationships with people that have abused me raped me and hurt me and then lost them as friends now I feel I keep myself in low vibrations to avoid it but I want to break past this but now I am full of anxiety and fear ie: red light feelings :( please help
As you will appreciate, it would be inappropriate for me to comment on personal issues without full knowledge, history and background. Therefore I can only comment in general terms. Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
Hi David and Alex .Thankyou so much for this teaching x x ♥️Love and best wishes ..
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Thank you very much for this video Alex and David. I thought i understood that I create my feelings, I mustn't truly believe it though still as i do look for emotional safety and protection. I feel unsafe at work with others but if I am creating these it is ridiculous to be protecting from myself! Have i picked this up correctly?
Hi Andrea, yes you have understood the teaching correctly :) x
Your videos have made such a difference for me. Thank you!
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I love your videos ❤️❤️
Excellent teaching. Thank You.
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💚❤ Thanks so much for your invaluable advice.
I've always been a huge believer in self-therapy. It is so much MORE effective.
Your advice is UNPRECEDENTED privileged and priceless.
❤💚
Hi Jessica Maden, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
Why do I do this try and control. The end result..
Hi @nancythran9353,
The desire to control the outcome often stems from fear or uncertainty about the future. It's a Inner Child response that creates tension and block the flow of your Shen spirit. By trusting the process and focusing on the present moment, you can find peace and allow things to unfold as they are meant to. Letting go of the need to control can be a powerful step toward living in harmony with your true self.
Kind Regards,
David
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This is really help me wake up not to blames myself, why me?
Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest and support. Why don't you consider joining our FREE and private Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - Over 7,000 members discuss WWW teachings, answer questions and share experiences: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
It all ends with me.
Thank you for this marvellous film.
My inner child must be a daredevil.
My inner child is very dangerous, to me. It can reek havoc.
Observer mode.
People that resort to self blame, have a serious issues with their inner child/ have had crappy childhood/ the inner child is very present.
We generate the feelings, the inner child, sieze the opportunity to pop out, and ride on it.
Morning 😊 I've had to have a break from looking at my inner child. Prob I have is I had a happy child hood but my family had trauma when I was 4 yrs old that lasted a few years. Thank you for the vids...
Hi AJ, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x
Could you tell me if you have a video that has like a script of what to say to your inner child as I understand it’s that part of me that is still scared , depressed /sad , and has the core beliefs of I’m not good enough , got to be perfect , I’m unlovable , I’m unworthy , there’s something wrong with me as my parents never showed me love just criticism, father emotionally bullying , mother emotionally not there with any comfort or support and a cold childhood where I felt suicidal at 9 and knew it was my parents fault. But I’m 47 and barely get out of bed due to depression or leave the house due anxiety / panic attacks. I’ve isolated myself and want to work on my inner child but think I believe it to be true so I don’t feel worthy of being alive which makes it hard to try any therapy over the years. Do I have to just challenge the thoughts as tried that before and I have evidence that proves negative things about me and I can’t take any pride in anything I’ve done from raising two sons to grades at school or a degree in my 30’s. The fact will always remain I blame my parents and am angry at them and wanted them punished but I’ve been punishing myself as it feels all my fault like if I had been a better person I’d have got love etc or if I was stronger I’d have not let it hurt me so much.
Thank you both, you are amazing
Our pleasure! Kind regards, David.
10 gold stars.
Thanks for this video !
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I struggle with so much of this. I just don’t understand.
Hi Arnie B, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
Loved this thank you 😊
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Thank you, really, for listening to eachother in this teaching, wich I´ve really enjoied and took benefit from.. Thank you for doing this important work 🙏
Hi CAMILLA ELLEKVIST, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x
p.s. CAMILLA ELLEKVIST if you have a question or topic you'd like us to consider for a future show episode, you can submit it to us using the form here: bit.ly/askusyourquestion ~ x~
Question, and please excuse me if I missed something. It's hard for me to understand the concept that we create 100% of our emotions. To a degree, yes, the whole thoughts before feelings concept. What is your opinion on trauma in the body, cell memory, vasovagal responses? They create emotion beyond our control, even unconsciencely. Look forward to understanding this. Very interesting and helpful content.
Hi Gina the physical body can be impacted by our unbalanced thoughts and beliefs. There are other things that cause an impact on our body -eg. physical harm to us or physical illness etc. It is normal and appropriate to experience a physiological/biological response to any imbalance or dysfunction in our physical body but this response is not the same as 'emotional feelings' - emotions are created by our thoughts and beliefs.
@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you.
Inner child is such a good terminology it makes it neither an enemy nor a friend, How do you stop the judgmental part, that is judging people and the self by appearance? would love if you could put a video specifically on appearance judgment and it's relatedness to inner child and how to love your own appearance. Coming from a culture that is obsessed with appearance and looks as if we are on a modelling stage of who gets the approval stamp.
Hi Coach Zak Alashwal, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. This video may help you: ua-cam.com/video/Lu_6Rq0Cqmc/v-deo.html Alex + David x
My culture is middleastern. I wonder if yours is too. Appearances is very important in those types of families .. comparing between cousins.. … i also married into a family that were obsessed with looks.
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Excellent video, thank you. As the creator of our own emotions, I am concerned about denial of feelings though.
Much love from Africa, Kenya
Brilliant, as always. The adult part of me agreed wholeheartedly but I think the IC may have let a few important points go in one ear and out the other. Well, once we watch it again we will both be going in the same direction. Thanks to both of you.
Hi Joyce Dunlap, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. Alex + David x
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Hello Sara, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
Amazing couple. These videos have helped so much - Thankyou ♥️♥️♥️
Our pleasure! Kind regards, David.
How do we stop emotional protecting ourselves ❤ I mean I experienced anxiety and I would always find ways to not feel these feelings or try to protect myself from not doing ,seeing, reading something that might make me axious.Thank you .
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Do you accept that you create those emotions? Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind regards, David.
This is so me.
Hi Peaceful Neecy, thanks for watching! We appreciate your support. You may find our Inner Child Video Playlist helpful: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zICGLRS1b7q1HSJhZRash5qq.html Alex + David x
I can really relate to this one. 3x watching this one. Thank u.
Glad it was helpful!
WOW. This explains so much for me as I had a very critical mother who was never pleased and was verbally abusive. This clarifies why I have always hated reviews at work.
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Excellent work WWW...as always :)
Wow, thanks! Kind regards, David.
Thank you.
You're welcome! Kind regards, David.
Hi David and Alex.
Your videos changed my life!! I can't thank enough you two! Keep watching your videos and keep learning!
Thank you ❤️
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Now, I'm aware of the child, I can learn to work w her. I'm so flipping excited to implement this into my life.
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Thank you, keep telling myself that I am creating my own emotions. However, I keep myself closed off from life to be safe. Today you have shown me I can't believe both. Therefore, I choose to open up because I am in control of my emotions and will be safe because I am in control. Wow😊
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Hi, thank you for this great material, thank you for keeping my inner child busy :-). My question is the following: How do i know I made the right decision, I know have the right belief ?? true, honest and authentic to self?
This is soooo critical!!! Without this type of mentality, we'll never even touch the real cause of our "problems" (that we are uncounsciously creating). Thank you soooo much!!! Lots of Love from Southern Brazil!
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@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you David! I will! 🙏
Thank you so much for this talk. I have a question. When does discernment come into play? How do you discern a persons character as not right for you based off past experiences and not label it as emotional safety?
Loving the consistency! I’ve benefited soo much from your videos 🥰
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Love that you change it from victim to victorious! Yes we made it and we are still here.Change the script!
As you speak in the very beginning, tears surfaced. Yes, I was. Yes I do protect myself emotionally. David hasn't even started. Thank you.
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Hello David and Alex, thanks so much for these videos. I’ve watched a few of your videos now, including the 3 stages (part 1 and part 2) and I’ve started working on my inner child over the past 5 days. I have noticed my sleep has been broken since I started this inner child work. Do you think this could be the inner child kicking up a fuss because of the attention I am giving him and the changes I am working on with him?
Hi Tom West, thanks for sharing your thoughts - we value your support. It could be your inner child overworking/overthinking that is causing the restless sleep (but there may be other reasons too). Perhaps you could try one of our guided meditations to help you with this - we have a playlist here: ua-cam.com/play/PL9NQ_PWX4zIA12P7BftG6a18lIWFDjL35.html ) and we have a new inner child meditation that will be published tomorrow! Alex + David x
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Thank you guys :)
Really enjoyed the video, it will help to work on my internal healing even more.
Love you guys God bless❤❤
Hello, Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Kind regards, David.
Thank you ❤thank you 🙏
You are so welcome! Thank you for taking the time and trouble to watch and comment on our videos and work; we appreciate your interest. Why don't you consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom Community Facebook support group - we answer questions and offer guidance and teachings to our members here: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Please check out our next LIVE online event. More details here: bit.ly/GTP-Live-Dec-2023. Kind regards, David.
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i needed to understand this a long time ago.
however I feel it's too late now.
It's nice to watch and explains a lot, but I'm not understanding the solution.
I truly don't know what to do.
Could somebody help with a path to a solution ? I would be very grateful.
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This is one of the best. Thank you for this!
You two are amazing!
So helpful. Thank you.
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When it comes to my family my inner child rules my emotions, but with clients and others I can act maturely. So I need to find out why
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Love every word. Thank you deeply
You are so welcome. Kind regards, David.