This is my favorite show that you react to! I'm a little surprised you don't do all the episodes the way you do with the 90 Day Fiance. These reactions are far more interesting. These are couples who are actually seeking help and then you get to react to another bonafide couple/family therapist as well.
90df made his viewers skyrocket. Most people before that were psychology students who'd googled Bowen etc. Reacting to celebs let's him teach the whole world!
If you could please do more of this show! This is so insightful and transformative to me! I mean my hubby was blown away when I showed him your reaction to this show and Mau. Something moved him and he hasn't been the same since!
I love these reactions the most out of any of the series. The relationship between them has been so fascinating to me since the first time I saw couples therapy. He says she threatens to leave and they disagree on so much yet their chemistry and the way they seem to love each other is undeniable.
Gender analysis: M enters and “jokingly “ assumes the authority/physical space of the female therapist. (Any bets on whether he would do that to a male?) Wife pads her request with a big ego boost. Wife and female therapist attend to M’s ego throughout the session as the price of trying to move forward. M hears his wife’s feelings about him being dismissive and immediately dismisses them. M attends to himself and his own power throughout and makes it clear he isn’t going to accommodate his wife. Sheesh. No doubt M is covering up a sewer of emotional sheiss, but life is too short. This is a perfect example of the kinds of (not so micro)aggression women face regularly in their personal and professional lives. SMDH
I would love to see Dr. Honda react to your comment! I was thinking the same thing that he immediately dismissed her answer to the question and that they may both be tending to his ego in order to move forward! You express well some daily frustrations we run into.
@@therabbithat I would agree that they’re saying this to show him care and support, but it’s just interesting to consider that it might also be slightly motivated by avoiding him talking over them to air his defenses. Obviously we don’t know what they’re thinking, but it’s something I’ve found myself doing before. When you learn that assertiveness doesn’t work to get your point across, one option that I tend to do is to say things the other person wants to hear (appease them) in order for them to hear anything i say. I feel like it’s all symptoms of our society, but also can reinforce the patriarchal forces
Yes! Glad to see these again!! I binged the whole show after watching your first reactions. Will you be reacting to the other couples?? All very interesting as well.
I do believe in couples therapy.. I wish all those people the best of luck I've been married for 26 wonderful years.. you can work through your differences.. please remember to show mutual respect for one another..
So happy to see more of your reactions on couples therapy! Such great insights, I'm learning a lot. I really hope you will continue with your reactions to the series. Thank you!
KIRK if you were approached by the producers of this show, would you be the therapist in the next season? That would be the greatest crossover of all time
Right? He'd trigger the sh*t out of me if I was with him. I couldn't be with him. Actually I've been with someone similar to him now that I think about it and I've broken up with him after a few months. It was a very odd experience, it was like I could almost feel the walls he was putting up in front of me physically whenever we had a talk about anything that was emotional and he'd pretty much dismiss or deflect things I said with the same laid back "sprawled" attitude Mau displays and I was just so baffled because it felt like I was talking to an alien, I couldn't comprehend that level of lack of disconnect. It felt like one of the most foreign experiences I've had since then in romantic relationships. And a few months in while twisting myself in knots over it, it suddenly hit me "why am I doing this?". It was like a cold splash moment, I realized I'm here twisting myself over how to fix and improve a relationship with someone that is probably relaxing and completely not thinking about anything that has to do this right now at all. I'm sitting here all alone in a miserable problem that I could just not take part in at all. I could be having a glass of wine and enjoy my evening right now being single instead of doing this whatever tf this is. So I broke up with him. It was an important realization for my future relationships as well.
His being willing to go to therapy makes me hopeful. I think the therapist is too embroiled in counter transference to be useful. Hopefully they will see another
@@crimson3sky that seems like utterly the right decision! It sounds like you learned a lot and I hope your ex did too Mau seems like the least laid back person in the room to me. He seems terrified.
5:00 i remember my professor going over the importance of contract making with clients and how its important for the relationship going forward to have that clear boundary/consent from the client to discuss that part of their life. How it would more likely to be harmful to a client if they came wanting to talk about how stressfull their worklife is and instead the therapist latches on to the clients grief around a loved one passing. And while that might be something the client needs to work thru, if thats not what they are there for it can feel almost invasive to talk about sonething your not ready or wanting to talk about just because the therapist noticed it Edit: it might be later on that the client does want to talk more about other issues and that would be when a new contract conversation would be brought up to update
I think the one saying "you cannot not communicate" was Paul Watzlawick and it was part of his 5 axioms of communication. Actually had that topic in my pedagogy class back in school, so that really rang a bell
More like passive-aggressive, self-centered, mean-spirited and sexist than anything else. Frankly, from the very first episode she seemed like a very bad therapist to me. Dr. Honda had even pointed out a number of times where her counter-transference and impatience could've had torpedoed their session.
Thanks for that bit on communication. I used to have a job that would *always* give me performance feedback that I was a poor communicator. It made me livid. That itself is an incredibly poor communication! What do they want me to communicate about? All I do is show up to work and communicate all day. Are there any instances of poor communication? What were we talking about? How? What was the consequence? What needed to be done better? Once I had something else lined up I gave my full and thorough thoughts in a performance review on this feedback after they gave it to me again. I ended with, "Does this sound like I'm a poor communicator to you?" After many frank conversations with co-workers I learned they said this to nearly all of us. It meant they wanted us to better hide any hint of disagreement with management. So even this dumb management tactic reflects your interpretation that "communication" is nearly always a stand-in for conflict reduction.
This couple confounds me. Mao seems infuriating but Annie calls him the best husband in the world except when he’s dismissive? Is she purposely downplaying the dynamics or is there more at play here that we aren’t seeing? I’ve watched the whole season twice and still don’t get them. 😂
I was so enthusiastic to start therapy and after 4 sessions I stopped going, it wasn't going anywhere, my therapist kept asking what I want to accomplish and I could not reply to it
@@sarajane5306 i went because I want to be happy, not to be a loser anymore, she would ask me to go into details about what would make me happy in the future and I could not figure out, all I saw in my future was pain and misery
What I’m learning in therapy is that the client has to put in a lot of the effort to make it work. Maybe her therapeutic process wasn’t for you keep trying ❤️ you got this!
My psychiatrist casually brings up my childhood & sexual trauma. He seems to think being direct won't be triggering? He is completely unaware of who I am as a person. It is very bizarre
I get a bad vibe from sexual trauma talk too. Some people do not have empathy and might consider less important due no sexual interaction, but for some issues group therapy has helped me overcome better together with prayers.
Several years ago I went to meetings based on Family Foundations, by Craig Hills ministry. I look up now and saw there are online courses and books. The best is called Ancient Paths and was very helpful in a group.
Sitting Indian Style, is that criss cross apple sauce? Or what is it? Serious question, never heard that expression before and might as well try to improve my learn English as well as learning psychology from theese awesome videos😀
I think this is one your best reaction series. Again, very thoughtful and insightful. I actually started watching the show on Showtime because of your videos. I do criticize you sometimes but not here. I gained some insight. Thanks.
I think she's seeing Mau as what she wants or hopes him to be instead of what he actually is. That's the only way I can make this supportive/dismissive thing make sense to me. Like, he'll be nice as long as things are going his way, or when it looks good. As soon as it's not going his way he's literally dismissing her. Lol, but it's not funny.
@@princesstelevision67 That would make sense, given what we’ve seen of him. Honestly I find him very aggravating lol pompous and ignorant together? At the same time? I think it’s a fairly common dynamic, sadly
I'm also picky with office chairs. I want flexible mesh because offices are usually too hot for my taste. A back, but not a high exec one. No arms, because they always get in the way, snag wires, promote poor posture.
@@badvegan2540 I don't know exactly what you mean by worse. I think they are both really harmful because they both see what their wives need and are getting off on withholding it. Mike might actually be a bit more harmful because he's done it to someone who at least initially, was isolated from community and trapped by covid. Mau is very arrogant, though, and he's basically daring his wife to leave right now. I don't know enough about their life to know whether that's feasible for her, but at least she's from New York and wouldn't have to deal with covid restrictions?
Really loving these reaction/breakdown videos. One thing--I notice that you seemed to jump forward and omit segments, like Annie describing her sexual trauma and Mau reacting to it. And the part where Annie describes Mau making her wear short skirts. It's a little disorienting to see you reacting to a scene we haven't witnessed. Is there an unedited version of this video somewhere?
I would not be able to reframe from punching a man that said to me, "That's both true and untrue," after I said as plainly and clearly as Annie did that I had had experiences with him that were similar to my trauma. After they have been sitting here talking about his demands of sex from her.
Have you ever thought about reviewing sitcom episodes involving a counselor or therapist? There is an episode of everybody loves Raymond involving a therapist that is absolutely hilarious and it would be great to hear your thoughts on it.
Now I like the husband! He was clear as day. He's only there because the wife dragged him there, he's not going to change and the therapy will only help if it makes this point clear to her and helps her make the decision she knows she has to make and move on with her life.
the only therapist i ever had is the one i asked for at my uni and the only good thing she did was send me to the psychiatrist (then she stopped answering my email to reschedule an appointment so now I am without help since last year yay) and almost at every end of the session i was shaking and in one of the very first (the first or the second) she asked me about my sex related traumas and i was like "for real???? i barely know you" i shared this stories with my ex and my best friend and only with my ex a shared a bit more of the details of what happened and we knew each other for 5-6years, my best friend 11 years of relationship. How do you think is a good idea ask me that on the second appointment. I immediately shut down and said "no its fine i don't have issues with that" and she was "okay let's move on then onto something else" 😭
tbh it's really weird that the office is set up in such a way as to give her a clear position of power anyway. Unless you have lower back pain,. It's a huge fancy office, why not have 2 or even 3 couches and let the couple sit wherever
I'm so interested to see reactions from a female therapist. As a female observer, I can't help but realize I feel irritated at the immense amount of grace you give these obviously abusive men. I'm wondering if it's because of your privileged male point of view and the fact that you can not understand what it means to experience these situations as a women. It would be really educational to see you do this with a female colleagues and compare the different observations you two make.
dude.. i don't know about the north west coast.. but in the east coast it's considered offensive by some people, particularly Native Americans to say, "sit indian style" big No NO.. you're a Prof. You should know better..
I’m here bc I love your advice but this man is so hard to watch. He triggers me so much! I think he reminds me of my abuser as a child or something bc I get such a hightened feeling when he speaks
Interesting from your description I have ptsd 🧐 I’ll just tuck that possibility in the back of my mind for now something I think about a lot with starting therapy is how can I tell the therapist what happened in the past with out completely devolving myself because to tell someone you have to think about it 🫣😫
This is my favorite show that you react to!
I'm a little surprised you don't do all the episodes the way you do with the 90 Day Fiance. These reactions are far more interesting. These are couples who are actually seeking help and then you get to react to another bonafide couple/family therapist as well.
I totally agree with you!
Yes!
90df made his viewers skyrocket. Most people before that were psychology students who'd googled Bowen etc. Reacting to celebs let's him teach the whole world!
If you could please do more of this show! This is so insightful and transformative to me! I mean my hubby was blown away when I showed him your reaction to this show and Mau. Something moved him and he hasn't been the same since!
😊😊😊
I’d love to hear more about how not re-traumatize people while discussing trauma. Thank you for reviewing this show!
There's a Patreon episode about it. I'd like a full deep dive into everything trauma!
Don’t do it with someone in the room who is dismissive.
Why am I so invested in the chair story? I feel like I need a chair tour now
💯🤣
I feel the same way. Now Im going to watch a more recent episode and see if he still has it.
I love these reactions the most out of any of the series. The relationship between them has been so fascinating to me since the first time I saw couples therapy. He says she threatens to leave and they disagree on so much yet their chemistry and the way they seem to love each other is undeniable.
PLEASE do more of those! Way better than 90 day fiance
I've been saying this forever now😆 but it just seems that it simply reaches different audiences so I guess both series have their own benefits...
Gender analysis: M enters and “jokingly “ assumes the authority/physical space of the female therapist. (Any bets on whether he would do that to a male?) Wife pads her request with a big ego boost. Wife and female therapist attend to M’s ego throughout the session as the price of trying to move forward. M hears his wife’s feelings about him being dismissive and immediately dismisses them. M attends to himself and his own power throughout and makes it clear he isn’t going to accommodate his wife. Sheesh. No doubt M is covering up a sewer of emotional sheiss, but life is too short. This is a perfect example of the kinds of (not so micro)aggression women face regularly in their personal and professional lives. SMDH
I would love to see Dr. Honda react to your comment! I was thinking the same thing that he immediately dismissed her answer to the question and that they may both be tending to his ego in order to move forward! You express well some daily frustrations we run into.
I don't think they pad his ego. He's very scared and they are trying to reassure him he is safe and loved
@@therabbithat I would agree that they’re saying this to show him care and support, but it’s just interesting to consider that it might also be slightly motivated by avoiding him talking over them to air his defenses. Obviously we don’t know what they’re thinking, but it’s something I’ve found myself doing before. When you learn that assertiveness doesn’t work to get your point across, one option that I tend to do is to say things the other person wants to hear (appease them) in order for them to hear anything i say. I feel like it’s all symptoms of our society, but also can reinforce the patriarchal forces
Yes. And for the women in that situation it's SO difficult to explain why you feel confused and unheard.
Thank you!!! Well said!
Yes! Glad to see these again!! I binged the whole show after watching your first reactions. Will you be reacting to the other couples?? All very interesting as well.
I do believe in couples therapy.. I wish all those people the best of luck I've been married for 26 wonderful years.. you can work through your differences.. please remember to show mutual respect for one another..
More of these!! This is actual therapy that relates to you!
So happy to see more of your reactions on couples therapy! Such great insights, I'm learning a lot. I really hope you will continue with your reactions to the series.
Thank you!
I think she’s a very good therapist. She has a gentle way of working with her clients
KIRK if you were approached by the producers of this show, would you be the therapist in the next season? That would be the greatest crossover of all time
I’ve never seen so many red flags in a person as I do when I watch Mau react to his wife.
Right? He'd trigger the sh*t out of me if I was with him. I couldn't be with him. Actually I've been with someone similar to him now that I think about it and I've broken up with him after a few months. It was a very odd experience, it was like I could almost feel the walls he was putting up in front of me physically whenever we had a talk about anything that was emotional and he'd pretty much dismiss or deflect things I said with the same laid back "sprawled" attitude Mau displays and I was just so baffled because it felt like I was talking to an alien, I couldn't comprehend that level of lack of disconnect. It felt like one of the most foreign experiences I've had since then in romantic relationships. And a few months in while twisting myself in knots over it, it suddenly hit me "why am I doing this?". It was like a cold splash moment, I realized I'm here twisting myself over how to fix and improve a relationship with someone that is probably relaxing and completely not thinking about anything that has to do this right now at all. I'm sitting here all alone in a miserable problem that I could just not take part in at all. I could be having a glass of wine and enjoy my evening right now being single instead of doing this whatever tf this is. So I broke up with him. It was an important realization for my future relationships as well.
His being willing to go to therapy makes me hopeful. I think the therapist is too embroiled in counter transference to be useful. Hopefully they will see another
@@crimson3sky that seems like utterly the right decision! It sounds like you learned a lot and I hope your ex did too
Mau seems like the least laid back person in the room to me. He seems terrified.
More of Couples therapy and MAFS and less 90days mess. Please and thank you
5:00 i remember my professor going over the importance of contract making with clients and how its important for the relationship going forward to have that clear boundary/consent from the client to discuss that part of their life. How it would more likely to be harmful to a client if they came wanting to talk about how stressfull their worklife is and instead the therapist latches on to the clients grief around a loved one passing. And while that might be something the client needs to work thru, if thats not what they are there for it can feel almost invasive to talk about sonething your not ready or wanting to talk about just because the therapist noticed it
Edit: it might be later on that the client does want to talk more about other issues and that would be when a new contract conversation would be brought up to update
glad you're reacting to it again.
This is my favorite series!!!
Me too! I'm learning so much. I feel like one of Dr. Kirk's students.
This is definitely my favorite reaction series you’ve done, Dr. Honda. I’m learning so much!
I think the one saying "you cannot not communicate" was Paul Watzlawick and it was part of his 5 axioms of communication. Actually had that topic in my pedagogy class back in school, so that really rang a bell
True!
Love me some Orna. She is brilliant, direct, kind and patient. Would that we could all have a wise counselor like her .
🦋
More like passive-aggressive, self-centered, mean-spirited and sexist than anything else. Frankly, from the very first episode she seemed like a very bad therapist to me.
Dr. Honda had even pointed out a number of times where her counter-transference and impatience could've had torpedoed their session.
I used to be a nanny on Mercer Island, have been to that store he's talking about, and this is taking me back
Thanks for that bit on communication. I used to have a job that would *always* give me performance feedback that I was a poor communicator. It made me livid. That itself is an incredibly poor communication! What do they want me to communicate about? All I do is show up to work and communicate all day. Are there any instances of poor communication? What were we talking about? How? What was the consequence? What needed to be done better? Once I had something else lined up I gave my full and thorough thoughts in a performance review on this feedback after they gave it to me again. I ended with, "Does this sound like I'm a poor communicator to you?" After many frank conversations with co-workers I learned they said this to nearly all of us. It meant they wanted us to better hide any hint of disagreement with management. So even this dumb management tactic reflects your interpretation that "communication" is nearly always a stand-in for conflict reduction.
Thanks for sharing your experience! Better not take them too seriously down the line.
My most favorite reactions.
Yay! I love your reactions to this show
this is my fav series!!
I love this show! She's so good at what she does! So excited for season 2. I haven't started it yet.
I wish you did some of the other couples from this show, your reviews are so valuable.
This couple confounds me. Mao seems infuriating but Annie calls him the best husband in the world except when he’s dismissive? Is she purposely downplaying the dynamics or is there more at play here that we aren’t seeing? I’ve watched the whole season twice and still don’t get them. 😂
Yay! I’ve missed these
i love the couples therapy reaction videos!!!! 🤩
I have binge watched these reactions and as someone hoping to enter the field of therapy your input and reactions are so incredibly helpful.
Please do more reactions on this show, I got so excited when another episode on it!
I love when you react to this show!
I love the Is This It vinyl in the background! Nothing like therapeutic advice from a dude with good music taste.
Could you please do more on this show? I dont know why but I am getting a bit tired of 90 day fiance...thanks for all your interesting videos!!!
Young couples get to be quickly annoying. I liked to hear this one due to more in depth analysis
More of these please!
YES YES YES!!!! I lOVE this show. One of my favorites.
I was so enthusiastic to start therapy and after 4 sessions I stopped going, it wasn't going anywhere, my therapist kept asking what I want to accomplish and I could not reply to it
The therapist should've helped you figure it out. There are so many sucky therapists out there it's sad.
So why did you go in the first place? Just wanted someone to talk too ?
@@sarajane5306 i went because I want to be happy, not to be a loser anymore, she would ask me to go into details about what would make me happy in the future and I could not figure out, all I saw in my future was pain and misery
What I’m learning in therapy is that the client has to put in a lot of the effort to make it work. Maybe her therapeutic process wasn’t for you keep trying ❤️ you got this!
@@graceh9227 there are a lot of crappy therapists out there too!
Lol
I skip the useless chair talk.
My psychiatrist casually brings up my childhood & sexual trauma. He seems to think being direct won't be triggering? He is completely unaware of who I am as a person. It is very bizarre
I hope you told him or will eventually tell him that.
I get a bad vibe from sexual trauma talk too. Some people do not have empathy and might consider less important due no sexual interaction, but for some issues group therapy has helped me overcome better together with prayers.
Several years ago I went to meetings based on Family Foundations, by Craig Hills ministry. I look up now and saw there are online courses and books. The best is called Ancient Paths and was very helpful in a group.
Sitting Indian Style, is that criss cross apple sauce? Or what is it? Serious question, never heard that expression before and might as well try to improve my learn English as well as learning psychology from theese awesome videos😀
Yes, Criss cross applesauce = Indian style. Indian style is the non politically correct way to say it.
@@LeandroVelez7 Thanks for explaining, never heard this expression either. in Polish we just have one expression for that - 'to sit Turkish' 😅
I've heard it referred to as "tailor style" because tailors apparently sit like that as a replacement for Indian
In Germany we say tailor style haha
@@s.melonita4454 in Swedish , we call it tailor style too! ”Att sitta skräddare” = to sit tailor style
I think this is one your best reaction series. Again, very thoughtful and insightful. I actually started watching the show on Showtime because of your videos. I do criticize you sometimes but not here. I gained some insight. Thanks.
Dr Kirk and Mau have super similar shirts this episode hahaha
Thoughts on EFT? Thats the modality my partner and I chose and have a wonderful therapist.
This is just amazing. Thank you so much
I wonder what the wife means by her husband being both supportive and dismissive. Maybe he frequently alternates between the two?
He puts his arm around her while dismissing her.
I think she's seeing Mau as what she wants or hopes him to be instead of what he actually is. That's the only way I can make this supportive/dismissive thing make sense to me. Like, he'll be nice as long as things are going his way, or when it looks good. As soon as it's not going his way he's literally dismissing her. Lol, but it's not funny.
@@princesstelevision67 That would make sense, given what we’ve seen of him. Honestly I find him very aggravating lol pompous and ignorant together? At the same time? I think it’s a fairly common dynamic, sadly
Would absolutely love a video on talking about trauma without retraumatization
Shout out to Mercer Island, I used to work at Island Crust.
I'm also picky with office chairs. I want flexible mesh because offices are usually too hot for my taste. A back, but not a high exec one. No arms, because they always get in the way, snag wires, promote poor posture.
“Is the goal to never be dismissive?” Sounds dismissive already from husband
He has declared he is unlikely to change = dismissive of therapy process
I lost my mind when he said that. He’s the most dismissive person in the room
thank you Dr. Kirk Honda! Can you please react to more of these show??
Anyone else surprised that he’s been sitting this whole time? Deep down I think I knew but he just looks so up right to me lmao
Mau is giving big Mike Y. energy. She's never going to get what she wants out of him, he's enjoying being withholding.
This guy is way worse. Mike Y doesn’t mark his territory like this. He is avoidant, but not domineering.
@@badvegan2540 I don't know exactly what you mean by worse. I think they are both really harmful because they both see what their wives need and are getting off on withholding it. Mike might actually be a bit more harmful because he's done it to someone who at least initially, was isolated from community and trapped by covid. Mau is very arrogant, though, and he's basically daring his wife to leave right now. I don't know enough about their life to know whether that's feasible for her, but at least she's from New York and wouldn't have to deal with covid restrictions?
YYYYYEEEEEEEESSSSSS!!!!!!! FINALLY!
You bought it from the thrift shop I worked at! The Mercer island thrift shop, yes?
Really loving these reaction/breakdown videos. One thing--I notice that you seemed to jump forward and omit segments, like Annie describing her sexual trauma and Mau reacting to it. And the part where Annie describes Mau making her wear short skirts. It's a little disorienting to see you reacting to a scene we haven't witnessed. Is there an unedited version of this video somewhere?
I would not be able to reframe from punching a man that said to me, "That's both true and untrue," after I said as plainly and clearly as Annie did that I had had experiences with him that were similar to my trauma. After they have been sitting here talking about his demands of sex from her.
Ty
Have you ever thought about reviewing sitcom episodes involving a counselor or therapist? There is an episode of everybody loves Raymond involving a therapist that is absolutely hilarious and it would be great to hear your thoughts on it.
Dr. Honda has reacted to therapy sessions in Frasier and The Office and another sitcom whose name I don't remember 😀
@@nicky132 ooh I didn’t know, I love Frasier! must look for those…
Now I like the husband! He was clear as day. He's only there because the wife dragged him there, he's not going to change and the therapy will only help if it makes this point clear to her and helps her make the decision she knows she has to make and move on with her life.
There is a new season will you be going into that ?
the only therapist i ever had is the one i asked for at my uni and the only good thing she did was send me to the psychiatrist (then she stopped answering my email to reschedule an appointment so now I am without help since last year yay) and almost at every end of the session i was shaking and in one of the very first (the first or the second) she asked me about my sex related traumas and i was like "for real???? i barely know you" i shared this stories with my ex and my best friend and only with my ex a shared a bit more of the details of what happened and we knew each other for 5-6years, my best friend 11 years of relationship. How do you think is a good idea ask me that on the second appointment. I immediately shut down and said "no its fine i don't have issues with that" and she was "okay let's move on then onto something else" 😭
tbh it's really weird that the office is set up in such a way as to give
her a clear position of power anyway. Unless you have lower back pain,. It's a huge fancy office, why not have 2 or even 3 couches and let the couple sit wherever
YES!
Yes!
this is META!
Did doc review the screen when she discusses Maus sexual event at 15 ? That was wild how he swept it under the rug so quickly …
As a Native American, please be mindful of saying "sitting Indian style" just say sitting with legs crossed.
Yes❤️
What does it mean to sit indian style? I've never heard that before!
It means to sit cross legged. The way he said it isn’t generally considered culturally sensitive in the US.
@@madison_mcelroy ohh ok! In my country we just say sit cross legged. Thanks for explaining!
Seems like they opened up so many topics without really gping deep into any.
12:41 to 13:57 TIKTOK
Can you take a picture of your chair?
I'm so interested to see reactions from a female therapist. As a female observer, I can't help but realize I feel irritated at the immense amount of grace you give these obviously abusive men. I'm wondering if it's because of your privileged male point of view and the fact that you can not understand what it means to experience these situations as a women. It would be really educational to see you do this with a female colleagues and compare the different observations you two make.
dude.. i don't know about the north west coast.. but in the east coast it's considered offensive by some people, particularly Native Americans to say, "sit indian style" big No NO.. you're a Prof. You should know better..
Second!!
I don't like Mau
I’m here bc I love your advice but this man is so hard to watch. He triggers me so much! I think he reminds me of my abuser as a child or something bc I get such a hightened feeling when he speaks
First :)
12hm
The Thrift Store on Mercer Island is absolutely wonderful! 🪑 ❤️👍‼️
Interesting from your description I have ptsd 🧐 I’ll just tuck that possibility in the back of my mind for now something I think about a lot with starting therapy is how can I tell the therapist what happened in the past with out completely devolving myself because to tell someone you have to think about it 🫣😫