The poly couple is ridiculous! This guy found two ladies with severe self esteem issues and he is playing 'Puppet Master" with them. I'm glad the counselor was able to call him out on his BS.
Absolutely. I actually am poly, and I was like, I DO NOT like this guy. He does what some people in the poly community derisively call "emotional libertarianism" -- I can do whatever I want, and you can have whatever feelings you want, but your feelings are not my problem. The two women should dump him and find a kinder person to be with.
Yeah, he's a ridiculous, man-splaining egomaniac, and both of those women are allowing themselves to be used. It's gross. Please tell me they leave him! And he uses 'prescribe' incorrectly. He means 'subscribe' but of course the point for him is to sound smart rather than to speak plainly. Oops.
They most likely have their own relationships outside of him. It sounds like their relationships together with him have the issues because of his own time management and respect. Sounds awfully complicated
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I feel like the body language of the poly couple shows exactly how he feels about each partner. He's making physical contact with one and not the other
Its just a way for people to f around without real consequenses... Maybe they have difficulty with attachment... A lot reasons but i dont think anything to do with being a free spirit or something positive
men who want that are porn addicts and are delusional about what they deserve or even need in real life. mwn lie, humiliate, cheat, gaslight, and arw simply fake fuks all the time. none of them deserve 1, let alone mpre than 1 woman at a time.
The women in the ridiculous “polyamorous “now realize that they both want monogamy and not actually share a man that decides who gets his attention this week. Mind you we can actually physically see he’s more into one than the other.. so why keep that masquerade going ?
"Relationship Anarchy" 😂 This guy!! They all use annoying and unnecessary words to basically say "I want you to spend more time with just ME!". Relationships aren't for everyone, and certainly not for him
They don't really seem to care that much about each other, the 3 of them. That's probably common in these kinds of relationships. How could you? Btw, this guy looks lethargic, depressed and stressed, and the women look sad and hurt.
From what I've heard and seen, jealousy is expected because it's a human emotion but the reaction to it is "supposed" to be different. Like, it's a valid feeling but not necessarily the responsibility of your other partner(s). It seems like a lot to me.
The last couple I feel won’t make it. It’s hard to come back from throwing low blows at one another. Unless they don’t consider name calling and violence a low.
I saw the comments, and while Josh can be a jerk I feel like this snippet doesn't portray their issues well. The girl on the right is Josh's anchor partner. She introduced him to being poly, and it almost felt like because she traveled with the circus (or whatever) for work, she kind of used being poly to have a good time. Now she's done traveling and wants to settle in, but he met the girl on the left, and really likes her. The girl on the left is used to having a rhythm with Josh because while she is his only partner outside his anchor, the girl on the left is actually in other relationships but they don't show those people because it isn't about them.
@@jsimms4292tbh I think it’s cool. People cheat on their partners all the time, this way it’s out in the open. If you want to be a hoe , you can do it nicely lol 😂
Hahaha, thrupples! You think you're being dynamic and liberated but truly you're just doubling down on the complexities of what it actually means to be in a functioning relationship.
the poly couple confirmed that i do not have any interest in this lol Sounds miserable to deal with more drama than needs to be. Everything is done half a$$. Not worth the energy.
The last couple i don’t like together. The one with the short hair was smiling when his partner was clearly hurting and he likes the toxicity. SMH move on
i think it stems from them having different relationships with their family even though both their families are very abusive. the other one has anger that cant be shared with the other because he doesn't like conflict
Poly relationships are so amusing to me. It’s so clear that most men in these relationships want to have their cake and eat it too. they have little emotional intelligence and little to give ANYONE, so the little they do have, they stretch between multiple people. Then they struggle more with jealousy, resentment, reduced quality time etc trying to meet the multidimensional needs of women. Then they add more people in the mix to occupy their dissatisfaction with each other. Lord help them lol.
Sometimes I think that poly guy who are hetero are really just in it for more attention and babying. Rarely, I see a FMF relationship that seems healthy. They're all still so deep in heteronormativity that it's basically just a glorified harem. Poly probably works if you have a woman in the middle or a real queer relationship between three people - either with lesbian women or queer men. Because they don't use the female partners as ego boosters.
dude is working overtime to maintain a polyamorous relationship. it's so much easier to just focus on one. Trying to maintain relationships with 2 very different personalities is stressful. And to the Gay couple, dude in the white sweater thrives on his anger to make his partner miserable. He's a toxic Psycho that needs to divorce and seek help with his underlying issues
Polyamory functions very subjectively, like Ik it’s case to case HOWEVER if everyone in the dynamic can’t hang out or it’s not the norm for then to all be together, it can become very unstable and lowly disconnected. But that’s j my experience ✋😬🤚
I'm being genuine here... Can someone explain WHY poly couples want to add *more* people to the mix? Isn't relationship with 2 people deep and complex enough? I just don't understand. Also, I've never seen a poly/open relationship that looked like it worked
Just because you've never seen it, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. None of these people are being honest with themselves. If everyone is being open and honest and real, it looks very different.
just finished watching season 4 and omg i literally could not stand the poly couple. idk why. i usually find poly couples very interesting and love hearing about their experiences but this particular couple had me yawning and zoning out whenever they made an appearance. apart from the fact that Josh kinda sucks, they were just so boring. i had to skip through most of that. anyway, i really enjoyed Rex and Joey's moments. they're such a cute and complex couple and I really wish they got a bit more screen time. i hope they are able to work through their issues and i'm genuinely wishing them all the best.
I don’t understand being poly. I feel that your relationship with your partner should meet certain needs and your relationships with friends should meet certain needs so if you’re poly or exploring outside of monogamy it’s pretty much just about sex and attention. No wonder why there is a strong correlation between narcissists and polyamory :/
A man with two women who’s not very manly and just plain annoying by most standards is baffling to me. Why, just why? Would a woman go for him, let s alone two women?! 😂
We are so progressive and liberal having our poly relationship but we are just doing word salads trying to make it work for all of us. Quit it already ,
I disagree. I won’t go so far to say he’s a narc, but he’s sooooooo handcuffed by his terminal uniqueness. He’s super manipulative, not that aware of his own misogyny, and Lorna’s just not letting him run over her too.
Hmmm I think if you are dealing with someone pathological and you have a history of being gaslit it’s a different situation, you need a timeline, but ultimately when it’s not about establishing patterns of behaviour, in relation to ‘character’ , I don’t think it is important because you end up debating the peripheral and he seems very comfortable in his head so I think she made the right call.
Josh needs to find 1 woman who wants the same things as him. It's like these women are pieces that he is trying to make a whole with..one woman is stuck in trauma that prevents her from making plans, the other has a career that keeps her away and another lover....I mean this is just a drawn out break up.
For the polyamorous couple 👉 You wanna make this fair(?) I propose we allow the women to have "relations" with other men on an intimate/continuous basis... 😌 And then let's see how Josh feels...
The poly couple is ridiculous! This guy found two ladies with severe self esteem issues and he is playing 'Puppet Master" with them. I'm glad the counselor was able to call him out on his BS.
Absolutely. They should comsider dissolving their situation. I am still learning about poly relationships, but I can tell that the guy is trippin
Absolutely. I actually am poly, and I was like, I DO NOT like this guy. He does what some people in the poly community derisively call "emotional libertarianism" -- I can do whatever I want, and you can have whatever feelings you want, but your feelings are not my problem. The two women should dump him and find a kinder person to be with.
When he started his speech on how his emotional abilities were good and he understood why women's often weren't oh my...
You only see a snippet of this so Josh looks like a jerk, but you guys have to see the season.
Yeah, he's a ridiculous, man-splaining egomaniac, and both of those women are allowing themselves to be used. It's gross. Please tell me they leave him! And he uses 'prescribe' incorrectly. He means 'subscribe' but of course the point for him is to sound smart rather than to speak plainly. Oops.
The smirk on the face of the guy while his partner was crying with the last couple was heartbreaking to see.
watching their story was heartbreaking seriously
A master therapist at work. So nice to see.
It’s videos like these where I’m grateful to be single.
The guy in the troupe is insane!!! These girls need to run
They most likely have their own relationships outside of him. It sounds like their relationships together with him have the issues because of his own time management and respect. Sounds awfully complicated
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top-notch DENIAL
Josh is giving cult leader vibes. Trust your gut ladies. Nothing about this appears like you are enjoying this arrangement
OMG was just about to comment this! He is a narcissist, you can tell. He's a wannabe s*x cult leader!!
I have to say this therapist knows what she's doing.
I feel like the body language of the poly couple shows exactly how he feels about each partner. He's making physical contact with one and not the other
I love when a person is actually interested in working on themselves and the relationship!!
I would like to see some of these therapy sessions through to conclusion, not just a window on their problems
8:49 Relationships are challenging, so let's add other people and components to challenge it even further.
I get tired just hearing about it.
Call me square but I still don't understand poly relationships
From my experience they’re the behavior of l o s e rs with attachment issues.
You and me both. The insecurity is madness.
this!!
Its just a way for people to f around without real consequenses... Maybe they have difficulty with attachment... A lot reasons but i dont think anything to do with being a free spirit or something positive
Same.
Poly relationships are so damn complicated. I wouldn’t last a week being in one.
I am way too lazy to be doing all that.
men who want that are porn addicts and are delusional about what they deserve or even need in real life. mwn lie, humiliate, cheat, gaslight, and arw simply fake fuks all the time. none of them deserve 1, let alone mpre than 1 woman at a time.
The women in the ridiculous “polyamorous “now realize that they both want monogamy and not actually share a man that decides who gets his attention this week.
Mind you we can actually physically see he’s more into one than the other.. so why keep that masquerade going ?
I’m so close to getting a showtime subscription lol
Me too. I binged a season on a flight.
"Relationship Anarchy" 😂
This guy!!
They all use annoying and unnecessary words to basically say "I want you to spend more time with just ME!".
Relationships aren't for everyone, and certainly not for him
I love Dr. Orna.
I love her perspectives and curiosity toward how her clients are feeling/experiencing. She’s a good therapist.
@@BM__8 I wish I could meet her in person.
@@zairehaylock4974I met her in person at an event! So cool to hear her speak
poly but jealous like a monogamous couple. Makes no sense
Monotonous monogamy?
They don't really seem to care that much about each other, the 3 of them. That's probably common in these kinds of relationships. How could you? Btw, this guy looks lethargic, depressed and stressed, and the women look sad and hurt.
@@sarahkottke676 lollll yeah. crazy typo
From what I've heard and seen, jealousy is expected because it's a human emotion but the reaction to it is "supposed" to be different. Like, it's a valid feeling but not necessarily the responsibility of your other partner(s). It seems like a lot to me.
It sound that the guy is not cut for polygamy
This was a good season! I would like a follow up to the couple current relationship status dating back to the first season
The last couple I feel won’t make it. It’s hard to come back from throwing low blows at one another. Unless they don’t consider name calling and violence a low.
The guy embracing anger can turn it around, he's aware he is on a destructive path, but change is terrifying, even for the better.
Also kind of feels like because he doesn’t have his family around that he is trying to sabotage his partner having family around out of jealousy.
The guy in the throuple is horrible
Well he's gay so it's horrible he's stringing along two delusion women.
They’re all silly tbh
I'm married--and I believe in marriage as an institution but BREAK UP. For the love of Jesus
Joshlighting
I’m screaming 😂😂😂
@@psmith3821😂😂
I saw the comments, and while Josh can be a jerk I feel like this snippet doesn't portray their issues well. The girl on the right is Josh's anchor partner. She introduced him to being poly, and it almost felt like because she traveled with the circus (or whatever) for work, she kind of used being poly to have a good time. Now she's done traveling and wants to settle in, but he met the girl on the left, and really likes her. The girl on the left is used to having a rhythm with Josh because while she is his only partner outside his anchor, the girl on the left is actually in other relationships but they don't show those people because it isn't about them.
Josh is gay. Everything discussed is a moot point.
It all seems a bit ridiculous.. 3 different people having their cake and eating it too?
@@jsimms4292tbh I think it’s cool. People cheat on their partners all the time, this way it’s out in the open. If you want to be a hoe , you can do it nicely lol 😂
@@jsimms4292CAKE 🍰 is DELICIOUS 😋
The "thrupple" doesn't make sense to me.
this show is so incredible
Can someone tell me where can I watch this free?
Why is this nowhere else but in the US and UK available?!! Come on!!
Hahaha, thrupples!
You think you're being dynamic and liberated but truly you're just doubling down on the complexities of what it actually means to be in a functioning relationship.
Is there a new season coming??!! Orna I am ready!!!
the poly couple confirmed that i do not have any interest in this lol Sounds miserable to deal with more drama than needs to be. Everything is done half a$$. Not worth the energy.
I love this show. ❤
9:57 Relationship Anarchy?!?!?! What???
Subscribed love this series
Brilliant
Anyone know if/when series 4 will be available in the UK?
Get that vpn young blood
It's on BBC iPlayer now.
@@dumfriesspearhead7398 omg thanks so much! Just in time for the weekend :D
Sounds like in the poly...those two do NOT want Erin around lol
How do I watch this from
The beginning - in order and full episodes?
Showtime via Paramount+
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@@DanielPereira4444if you are in 🇬🇧 BBC iPlayer
What do I need to do to what the season…. I’m from SA and our cable tv is still sleeping… someone help me!!
How do you get to a point of marriage and kids knowing you have no adult social skills or don't feel safe with your partner?
The last couple i don’t like together. The one with the short hair was smiling when his partner was clearly hurting and he likes the toxicity. SMH move on
i think it stems from them having different relationships with their family even though both their families are very abusive. the other one has anger that cant be shared with the other because he doesn't like conflict
Poly is exhausting 😮💨
Poly relationships are so amusing to me. It’s so clear that most men in these relationships want to have their cake and eat it too. they have little emotional intelligence and little to give ANYONE, so the little they do have, they stretch between multiple people. Then they struggle more with jealousy, resentment, reduced quality time etc trying to meet the multidimensional needs of women. Then they add more people in the mix to occupy their dissatisfaction with each other. Lord help them lol.
Sometimes I think that poly guy who are hetero are really just in it for more attention and babying. Rarely, I see a FMF relationship that seems healthy. They're all still so deep in heteronormativity that it's basically just a glorified harem.
Poly probably works if you have a woman in the middle or a real queer relationship between three people - either with lesbian women or queer men. Because they don't use the female partners as ego boosters.
Wondering if it's not possible for one of this 2 ladies with 1 guy find a nother partner for themselves.
Both of them need to go
They’re all greedy tbh
These woman need to see their own value and not depend on that from a man!😮
This man said I want the anger 🤦🏾♂️
dude is working overtime to maintain a polyamorous relationship. it's so much easier to just focus on one. Trying to maintain relationships with 2 very different personalities is stressful. And to the Gay couple, dude in the white sweater thrives on his anger to make his partner miserable. He's a toxic Psycho that needs to divorce and seek help with his underlying issues
6:52 what exactly was he implying? How does that help resolve their "thrupple" issues? Ridiculous clown.
Polyamory functions very subjectively, like Ik it’s case to case HOWEVER if everyone in the dynamic can’t hang out or it’s not the norm for then to all be together, it can become very unstable and lowly disconnected. But that’s j my experience ✋😬🤚
What a mess
Lol
😂😂
I want to binge seasin 4
all these people here complaining about poly and i’m sitting here thinking how anyone is in ANY type of romantic relationship with even one person 😂
Why do the two of three have matching outfits?
I'm being genuine here... Can someone explain WHY poly couples want to add
*more* people to the mix? Isn't relationship with 2 people deep and complex enough? I just don't understand. Also, I've never seen a poly/open relationship that looked like it worked
At 😂this point just be in an open relationship
Just because you've never seen it, it doesn't mean it doesn't happen. None of these people are being honest with themselves. If everyone is being open and honest and real, it looks very different.
It's just a way of avoiding connection.
Somebody that you used to know
just finished watching season 4 and omg i literally could not stand the poly couple. idk why. i usually find poly couples very interesting and love hearing about their experiences but this particular couple had me yawning and zoning out whenever they made an appearance. apart from the fact that Josh kinda sucks, they were just so boring. i had to skip through most of that. anyway, i really enjoyed Rex and Joey's moments. they're such a cute and complex couple and I really wish they got a bit more screen time. i hope they are able to work through their issues and i'm genuinely wishing them all the best.
Maybe because Josh is gay so there's no intimate connection with either woman.
where can i see the whole full episodes
Co-asking
I watched on Amazon
Paramount trial and binge watch it.
Is this reality tv?
I’m not polyamorous, but people are coming for them like couples don’t have the most f*cked up relationships too lol
I don't like Josh
Josh is weird lol. His eyes are demon eyes
Well damn.
I don’t understand being poly. I feel that your relationship with your partner should meet certain needs and your relationships with friends should meet certain needs so if you’re poly or exploring outside of monogamy it’s pretty much just about sex and attention. No wonder why there is a strong correlation between narcissists and polyamory :/
The couple of three perplexed me?? He's gay ,right??
A man with two women who’s not very manly and just plain annoying by most standards is baffling to me. Why, just why? Would a woman go for him, let s alone two women?! 😂
Josh is odious.
Ugh. That polyguy is playing those two girls so hard. I feel so bad for them. I can't watch The Show anymore. I'm out.
the poly couple sounds ridiculous
Oh ok. They are in a relationship with a cult leader.
The Throuple couple has to be a joke
We are so progressive and liberal having our poly relationship but we are just doing word salads trying to make it work for all of us. Quit it already ,
He’s a narcissist.
6:46 This therapist is wrong here
I disagree. I won’t go so far to say he’s a narc, but he’s sooooooo handcuffed by his terminal uniqueness. He’s super manipulative, not that aware of his own misogyny, and Lorna’s just not letting him run over her too.
Hmmm I think if you are dealing with someone pathological and you have a history of being gaslit it’s a different situation, you need a timeline, but ultimately when it’s not about establishing patterns of behaviour, in relation to ‘character’ , I don’t think it is important because you end up debating the peripheral and he seems very comfortable in his head so I think she made the right call.
What do you think she did wrong?
Josh seems to thrive on the attention .....and conflict that two women are in conflict over him ....🫡
Also, he seems zesty.
Accurate read.
Agreed.
Yes, dude is creeping me out.
Josh needs to find 1 woman who wants the same things as him. It's like these women are pieces that he is trying to make a whole with..one woman is stuck in trauma that prevents her from making plans, the other has a career that keeps her away and another lover....I mean this is just a drawn out break up.
For the polyamorous couple 👉 You wanna make this fair(?) I propose we allow the women to have "relations" with other men on an intimate/continuous basis... 😌
And then let's see how Josh feels...
Both women have other relationships with different people.
These women are all nuts!
8:46 oh hell no