so much beautiful hope. and for the BPD community thank you ❤ for helping me and the rest of us keep going for our healing and happily ever after. you deserve it and we all do ❤xoxo
Please never stop talking about how much you love Moses! It gives me hope and comfort knowing that, that type of love can happen to me, and it’s everything you deserve Trish! It’s beautiful to listen to ❤
I have my Moses too. Don’t believe all the doom and gloom the internet feeds us. There are a lot of nice men outside of this virtual reality. I’m rooting for you!
Thanks for sharing a positive birth story, Trisha. For every nightmare experience, we rarely ever hear about the millions of births that go right, C-section, vaginal, or otherwise. We definitely need more positivity.
Moses is your safe space, and that’s the best feeling. He saw a broken little girl inside of you that deserved love, and deserved peace. He saw you at your worst at the beginning, and stayed by your side, and loved you through it. All you knew was toxic behavior, and toxic love. You’ve tried to sabotage a good thing, and Moses stayed, and loved you through it. I truly believe his love healed you in ways you never knew you really needed to be healed. I’ve been watching you since 2007, and it’s been a wild ride, but I always cheered for you, and wanted you to find your pure happiness, and it looks like you did. Thank you, Moses for coming into Trishs life and showing her what true unconditional love is. ❤❤❤
Seeing you do a video sitting on the floor in your child’s playroom being so calm and happy brings me so much joy I love you so much. I’m so proud of you.
Thank you for sharing your positive c section story. I’m so traumatized from my c section, so this gives me so hope for a better experience if I have another baby. My son was born via c section in 2023. I labored for 22 hours, pushed for 2 and his heart rate wasn’t tolerating the contractions so I was sent into a c section. They numbed me, did the little pokes to see if I could feel it, I didn’t, so they proceeded with the surgery and I felt the sharpest pain and just screamed. They had to completely knock me out and I didn’t get to meet my son until I woke up from the anesthesia and meds 6 hours after he was born. I spent almost the whole first year of his life just grieving my birth and grieving that everyone else got to meet him before me and it just felt like I didn’t have a connection since I didn’t get to bond with him after birth. This in a way has healed me. Love you Trish
To give you some hope, my first c section was horrible. I could feel it and was knocked out. My second one was scheduled. Not going thru labor I think helped my body not be as bad. I was nervous about feeling something. The spinal was way different and much better. And I was feeling great and wanted to go home quick. Recovered way better than the first time. I also think knowing how to move around already from your first one helps you avoid moving and hurting yourself.
Same here. Expected to be awake for the c_section and due to failed epidural got put out. It helps to.hear tht positive experiences are possible for second child. The first one definitely made me so sad. It made me have Post partum depression
I had a similar experience and having Ike of my favorite content creators for 10+ years now shed some light on a positive experience gives me so much hope 🥹
Love this Trisha, watched u for 8+ years, I’m 23 I’m not having kids at the moment but I’m in a long term relationship. This is amazing thank you for easing our minds on one of the most eventful times of our lives that not many talk about!
I too had a positive experience. I just love seeing your family. I always tell you we grew up together,we are the same age and now I’m right behind you with baby number 2❤❤
I love hearing your REAL voice. Your real personality. Not the bimbo you played as a persona. This era of Mommy Trisha is everything. It’s refreshing to see the real you.
In case anyone needs to hear it; Scars are beautiful! I call my scars my battle scars, and I love each and every one of them because it reminds me just how strong I am. 🥰❤️🙌🏼
Honestly can Trisha has probably the best character development between all of UA-cam! I feel like you have matured with us through young adulthood to parenthood. It is so inspiring to see.
I’m literally turning 25 tomorrow and this gives me so much hope.❤ I’ve been a mess and lost since I was a teen. I feel like I’ve wasted my life and sometimes it feels like there no hope. But watching Trish in her element, better than ever and rocking it in her 30s. Just such a beautiful sight and makes me think, hey it’s not the end for me. Watching Trisha’s journey has been so inspiring. Love your work and amazing to see you loving life. Thank you for sharing every step of the way. It means so much to us. 🩷
Trisha, I just found out I’m pregnant and let me say this did help me feel a little less scared. I feel like all I hear is horror stories about C sections so that’s been something I’ve been worried about. It’s nice to hear a positive story for a change ♡ ♡ love seeing you thrive!!!!!!
As someone who was watching 2019 Trish, I think 2024 Trish was your destiny all along and I have not ever seen you look more happy. You look more and more radiant and just happy to have this life and all the struggles prior make sense. AS a momma starting to FINALLY fall into my own destiny, I can see why things don't work no matter how bad we want them to, AND it really makes it hit home that some things just aren't for us and there's always a greater plan that we are unaware of. This is your final form and you are the most beautiful, happy and complete and I could not be more happy for you. I'm obsessed with THIS Trish. Keep on shining!
My bday is may 8th, too. I've been watching you for 7 years and kind of celebrating my bday with you. I'm 54, and I've never had a bday party, and so it made me feel less lonely, I guess. I'm so happy for you and all the amazing things have in your life today. Congratulations on new baby. You're a great mom. My section was 32 yrs ago, it wasn't a horrible experience but it was unexpected.
you mentioning how out of it you were during your first c section was exactly how i was too but i do remember the tugging and pulling. thank you for sharing a positive experience! makes me more excited for when i have my next baby!!
I’m about to have my third c section in 4 yrs and I am terrified at the thought of having to go into labor 😅 I’ve have two breach babies and made it to my c section date both times without ever going into labor. I was literally walking and felt great in 2 days. I only took Tylenol for the minor pain. The only thing is that it kind of limits you on how many babies you can have 😣 my OB said if we decide to have a 4th it could start causing issues. Our second son who was born last year passed away 🕊️🤍 👼 so this will kind of be like having our a second child again…. But the third child section ofc. I’m 21 weeks and going in for my anatomy scan in 2 weeks 🙏 hoping everything is okay with this baby and he is happy and healthy ♥️
You have me crying again. The whole thing. And then when you’re talking about Moses, and how great he is, I can totally see that. I had a man like that for 26 years and he passed away at a very young age. Thank God or Buddha, or whoever that I had him as my children’s father. Not trying to be a downer but I am just saying. There are men that are so good at being a part of our lives, and making us feel worthwhile and cherishing everything along with us. I could just go on, but I won’t. SO happy for you and the fam bam. ❤️
I’m so glad that you share your birth experiences on this channel, coming from someone who is planning to have a baby soon with my husband ! it’s been so cool to literally grow up watching you and experiencing the same things now 🥲
Omg I didn’t even know you were pregnant again! I just have To say… you have come such a long way and look so happy with your loving family. I’m VERY happy for you that’s amazing ❤❤
Hey Trish, I've watched your videos since the very beginning and it's so lovely to see how far you've come. There's definitely been ups and downs but going from sitting on your kitchen floor upset to sitting calmly as a wife and a mother you've grown so much. Always loved you Trish, but we all love this new Trish era ❤ Much love from a Mum in the UK ❤
I’m glad you’ve shared your positive experience. Whenever I have kids, I will have to have a c section as my pelvis is too small give birth vaginally. It scares me to see all these negative bad experiences and makes me nervous that I couldn’t possibly have a good experience. So it is refreshing to see this.
I'm so glad girl! Doing better! I'm so glad you're not crying on the floor in your kitchen eating some full of food anymore like he used to be! See you happy again and thriving! My soul used to cry for you every time you could cry on that floor! Just makes me so happy to see you doing well!
Marriages should be more like theirs. No huge arguments, disrespect. I am married to a loud mouth jerk who went to prison and came back a complete monster. We had five kids and I gave him another chance and it’s been nothing but a complete disaster. He changed, became a cheater and jerk. I am close to divorce, it’s nothing I take lightly. But I want to be happy and I don’t see it anytime soon. Life is too short. The one thing for me is financially. I’m the full time worker, and make 100% of the money, but everything is tied to me right now. How can I just move or leave when I have no savings? You see people just staying or even worse, committing some horrific crime. I just don’t know where to go right now. You know when your life is miserable when you go to work, and are happier there. Sorry to sound so depressing. I’m not trying to gain sympathy. This is the first time I commented on my life, online. I just love how Trisha is with her family and life. Side note, my kids are amazing. We even have a grandchild, which is even more amazing. Maybe I just needed to let it out💜
I love love love how happy you are and how much your life has changed. I used to play your vlogs in college when I was lonely so I would have someone talking with me. You are such a special creator to me and I love following your journey!
Thanks for sharing! I had a scheduled C-section April 23 and it is nice to see people talking about the experience. My first also ended in an unplanned/emerg C-section due to erratic heart rate.
When I had my 4th baby I had a bad epidural. The first 3 were easy and I wasn’t expecting what happened. The guy doing it would poke it in and I’d feel what felt like electric shocks down my right leg. He did it 6 times and was getting frustrated. I asked for someone else. They came in and did it perfectly the first try. I had the worst backache the next day from the first guy.
Yeah I loved having a Csection. I didnt feel one contraction. My only sadness was they didnt lay my daughter on me. They took her away right away and I didnt like that. I missed that special moment. Makes me angry and sad but thxs for sharing ❤❤❤
The Voice Kids might be a good show for you and Malibu - especially if she likes singing! It might be nice and inspiring for her to see younger children up on stage doing what they love, I know she’s only little but if she’s too young to understand the concept of it, at least she might find enjoyment from it! ❤
"Whenever our time comes, I wanna just be together. And as long as our kids are taken care of and happy and good. They'll know well be good, whatever life we go into after this" TRISHA 😭😭😭😭😭 im sobbing this is beautiful ❤️
Trisha I started watching you when I was probably wayyyyy too young haha. I grew up watching you grow up and I’m so damn proud of you. You are living proof that life does get better ❤️
This is my second comment, but I just also want to say that I think so much of you for not pointing out anything negative. And believe me, I totally get that. When you are pregnant, you hear the horror stories and why would somebody do that?? Major props to you. I did the same. I would never tell anyone anything negative about pregnancy, birth, any of that. Why? I think some people just love to be miserable and love to have others join in on their misery. But anyway. Congrats! What a lovely little family you have. Thanks for sharing with us.
My second c section was planned too! My first one was emergency. Highly unlikely to give birth naturally if you couldn’t the first time. My planned c section was great! No problems, no pain!
I had a spinal tap for a separate reason not pregnancy. They were checking me for Ms and they messed up, they left a hole in my spine. I had spinal fluid leaking for days only relief I had was when I laid down straight. It was the worse thing I ever went through the pain was horrendous. Felt like my brain was being ripped apart. I was in and out of consciousness for days, another hospital figured out what happened and closed the hole, was instant relief.
So happy for you and your beautiful family Trisha 🙂 Thank you for sharing & spreading this positivity into the world. I do have to have a scheduled C-section as well. This will be my first time so your story is so uplifting, even though everybody is different.
I did the same ❤️ first c section was so scary, after 77 hours In laybor :( AND I only had epidural who did not work so I was In pain and was put under :( so second time I asked for a planned c section. And got that spinal stuff, totally numb hehe, first time my son also could handle It anymore he had to come out fast. But with a todler and just had surgery, sometimes you forgot you should not pick them up hehe. But yeah I forgot about that all the time. Now he Is 15 and daughter is 11
Our delivery experiences are very similar. My first boy I had to get an emergency c section and honestly it was a little traumatizing. My scheduled c section date is 7/12 and this video makes me feel so much better and gives me peace of mind knowing your second experience was way better 😭
I love this for Trish!! And don’t you dare apologize you’re a fresh mama of 2 and a wife. You’re thriving and we love it!! We will support you forever in this happy era ❤😊
I had my first c-section in 1985 and the way they did emergency c-sections was from belly button to pelvis. My child was stuck in my pelvis and the umbilical cord was wrapped around his head and neck twice. They told me that the weight of another baby wouldn't be good, but I had 2 more afterwards lol. I love hearing about your little family🤗🩷🩷
I just can’t explain how happy I feel about seeing Trish this calm and happy…. I’ve been watching since stripper diaries and that era… the way she feels and how she is sooo grateful for everything…. Damn… 💚
I am the only single person in my friend group. I am in my early 20s but it feels impossible the thought that I will find a healthy love and relationship. Nights are rough I would love to have a soft spoken video going into more depth about your self love journey instilling hope for lonely people like me :)
The idea of an epidural terrifies me, but I also had a miscarriage last year so just the thought of going thru any of it again scares me. I developed moderate exema after my miscarriage and have to give myself a shot every other week, I have done it like 6 times so far but it never gets easier.
Since you had to go in at 5:30am did your mom watch Malibu the night before as well or did she come over that early and take over? Asking because similar situation, trying for baby #2 now. Baby #1 was emergency c section, & not sure how I want to proceed yet with baby #2 L&D but regardless my mom will be watching my son and Idk how to go about it. Thank you and congratulations!❤
I love you Trish I’m so happy for you. I had a spinal tap for my scheduled c-section and they stuck my 8 times and I was bawling the whole time before the surgery
Our first 3 birth were vaginal deliveries. Our 4th was a c-section after 24 hours of labor due to a severe placental abruption. 5th birth, I was ok'd for a VBAC with twins, which we had just 11 months after my c-section. if they were both remained head down. 18 hours into labor, one twin turned sideways so had a repeat c-section. My c-sections were much easier recoveries than my first vaginal delivery, and I left the hospital 38 hrs and 30 hours after each c-section. I rather recover at home.
Not sure if anyone clarified this to you before, but I guess not because this is the second time I’ve heard you say that an epidural is the same as a spinal tap. They are not. They are the opposite of each other. A spinal tap is when a neurologist ( usually it’s a neurologist, but other specialists are most likely qualified to perform one) are taking cerebrospinal fluid out of your spinal canal to help to diagnose or rule out diseases or infections. An epidural is when medications are put into the spinal canal to numb you and prevent pain. Please take this info with the intent that it was given… Just to inform. I’m a fan of you and your growth and how far you have come. You have come a very long way from who you were when I first started watching you many years ago. Kudos to you!
As bad as my vaginal births sucked, I cannot imagine being cut open and then having to go home to take care of my family. Props to all C section moms ❤
If you got a nerve blocker the shock is actually normal in your hip. I’ve had three of them and every time that’s what happens because it when it hits the nerve it’s a little like zap.
Real question for any moms who chose to formula feed: what happens to your breast milk production. Do you get sore, engorged or a mastitis infection? Is there a medicine that stops milk production? (Obviously this is only relevant for those who CHOSE to formula feed. I know it’s not always a choice and some women try and bf and it doesn’t work for many possible reasons.)
There is medication now available to help dry up the milk production but when my mother lost her first baby in childbirth they told her to use cabbage leaves in her bra and apparently it worked.
Trish, thanks for sharing your story.. I’m a c section mama too! My epidural unfortunately didn’t work. They tried twice, for some reason my lower half didn’t go numb… I wish someone could have maybe checked me also like what your obgyn did.. my husband had to leave cause they decided to put me to sleep which was my nightmare. I did not want to give birth that way but I believe everything happens for a reason and myself and my daughter were ok so that’s all that mattered. She’s now 3 years old 😊 I’m glad to see you and your beautiful baby girl are doing great! Congratulations to you and your family 💕
The shock is normal. My anesthesiologist walked me thru everything I would feel and she told me I would feel a shock and I did. The full feeling was the worst part of the epidural for me everything else was great.
Trisha is living proof that you could really be living a completely different life in only 5 years. It gives me hope 🙏
so much beautiful hope. and for the BPD community thank you ❤ for helping me and the rest of us keep going for our healing and happily ever after. you deserve it and we all do ❤xoxo
Please never stop talking about how much you love Moses! It gives me hope and comfort knowing that, that type of love can happen to me, and it’s everything you deserve Trish! It’s beautiful to listen to ❤
I have my Moses too. Don’t believe all the doom and gloom the internet feeds us. There are a lot of nice men outside of this virtual reality. I’m rooting for you!
This!!
@@KatheryneHe will. But don’t seek it out, it’ll come when the time is right.
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@@Katherynemen will tell you immediately through their actions if you are their priority. Listen and don't let them waste your time.
Thanks for sharing a positive birth story, Trisha. For every nightmare experience, we rarely ever hear about the millions of births that go right, C-section, vaginal, or otherwise. We definitely need more positivity.
Both of my c sections went as good as they possibly could. 💜
@@kellyfinley4419me too i only had one tho since i have only one ❤
This title means everything! As a C section mama, I needed to hear more positive experiences back then. Can’t wait to watch.
Are you inverted like Trisha Banana ?
Moses is your safe space, and that’s the best feeling. He saw a broken little girl inside of you that deserved love, and deserved peace. He saw you at your worst at the beginning, and stayed by your side, and loved you through it. All you knew was toxic behavior, and toxic love. You’ve tried to sabotage a good thing, and Moses stayed, and loved you through it. I truly believe his love healed you in ways you never knew you really needed to be healed. I’ve been watching you since 2007, and it’s been a wild ride, but I always cheered for you, and wanted you to find your pure happiness, and it looks like you did. Thank you, Moses for coming into Trishs life and showing her what true unconditional love is. ❤❤❤
Seeing you do a video sitting on the floor in your child’s playroom being so calm and happy brings me so much joy I love you so much. I’m so proud of you.
Thank you for sharing your positive c section story. I’m so traumatized from my c section, so this gives me so hope for a better experience if I have another baby. My son was born via c section in 2023. I labored for 22 hours, pushed for 2 and his heart rate wasn’t tolerating the contractions so I was sent into a c section. They numbed me, did the little pokes to see if I could feel it, I didn’t, so they proceeded with the surgery and I felt the sharpest pain and just screamed. They had to completely knock me out and I didn’t get to meet my son until I woke up from the anesthesia and meds 6 hours after he was born. I spent almost the whole first year of his life just grieving my birth and grieving that everyone else got to meet him before me and it just felt like I didn’t have a connection since I didn’t get to bond with him after birth. This in a way has healed me. Love you Trish
To give you some hope, my first c section was horrible. I could feel it and was knocked out. My second one was scheduled. Not going thru labor I think helped my body not be as bad. I was nervous about feeling something. The spinal was way different and much better. And I was feeling great and wanted to go home quick. Recovered way better than the first time. I also think knowing how to move around already from your first one helps you avoid moving and hurting yourself.
Same here. Expected to be awake for the c_section and due to failed epidural got put out. It helps to.hear tht positive experiences are possible for second child. The first one definitely made me so sad. It made me have Post partum depression
I had a similar experience and having Ike of my favorite content creators for 10+ years now shed some light on a positive experience gives me so much hope 🥹
her saying “something bigger than us” comparing her kids to her and moses 😭😭😭😭😭🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
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“If you’re skinny I don’t know what’s there” LOL ILY
it warms my heart to see how many books you have for the girls behind you ❤️
2x c-section mama! I was TOTALLY happy with my experience! It allowed me to have 2 healthy babies! ❤
Annnnnd I’m crying…
So so happy for you finally getting the love and life you deserve! It’s amazing what true love can do for a person.
Love this Trisha, watched u for 8+ years, I’m 23 I’m not having kids at the moment but I’m in a long term relationship. This is amazing thank you for easing our minds on one of the most eventful times of our lives that not many talk about!
I too had a positive experience. I just love seeing your family. I always tell you we grew up together,we are the same age and now I’m right behind you with baby number 2❤❤
Congrats🎉💕 hope the birth goes as chill as trishas!!
I love hearing your REAL voice. Your real personality. Not the bimbo you played as a persona. This era of Mommy Trisha is everything. It’s refreshing to see the real you.
I just cant get over how beautiful you are Trish. You are glowing and I love this new era for you and Moses. Again congratulations to you both.
Make this channel like routines, what I eat in a day, playing with my kids..I’d just love to see your life!!!
In case anyone needs to hear it; Scars are beautiful! I call my scars my battle scars, and I love each and every one of them because it reminds me just how strong I am. 🥰❤️🙌🏼
Honestly can Trisha has probably the best character development between all of UA-cam! I feel like you have matured with us through young adulthood to parenthood. It is so inspiring to see.
I’m literally turning 25 tomorrow and this gives me so much hope.❤
I’ve been a mess and lost since I was a teen. I feel like I’ve wasted my life and sometimes it feels like there no hope. But watching Trish in her element, better than ever and rocking it in her 30s. Just such a beautiful sight and makes me think, hey it’s not the end for me.
Watching Trisha’s journey has been so inspiring.
Love your work and amazing to see you loving life. Thank you for sharing every step of the way. It means so much to us. 🩷
Life keeps getting better.. They want you to think getting old is scary but it's not💕
Trisha, I just found out I’m pregnant and let me say this did help me feel a little less scared. I feel like all I hear is horror stories about C sections so that’s been something I’ve been worried about. It’s nice to hear a positive story for a change ♡ ♡ love seeing you thrive!!!!!!
As someone who was watching 2019 Trish, I think 2024 Trish was your destiny all along and I have not ever seen you look more happy. You look more and more radiant and just happy to have this life and all the struggles prior make sense. AS a momma starting to FINALLY fall into my own destiny, I can see why things don't work no matter how bad we want them to, AND it really makes it hit home that some things just aren't for us and there's always a greater plan that we are unaware of. This is your final form and you are the most beautiful, happy and complete and I could not be more happy for you. I'm obsessed with THIS Trish. Keep on shining!
You’re glowing Trisha! I’ve been watching you since the beginning, to see where you’re at now is truly an inspiration! You go girl
I loved hearing this! Trish is so calming 😍🫶🏼💕 Also this made me think you should get a doctor on the pod! Or Dr. Mike!!
Thank you for spreading this kind of positivity. We need more good stories about deliveries, even more about us plus sized mamas.
My bday is may 8th, too. I've been watching you for 7 years and kind of celebrating my bday with you. I'm 54, and I've never had a bday party, and so it made me feel less lonely, I guess. I'm so happy for you and all the amazing things have in your life today. Congratulations on new baby. You're a great mom. My section was 32 yrs ago, it wasn't a horrible experience but it was unexpected.
Never had a birthday?😢💔 I'm so sorry🥺
Off topic but I love the layered haircut 😍
Trisha I am so happy that you found urself and recovered from depression, I know it was a long time ago but. I’m proud of you.
you mentioning how out of it you were during your first c section was exactly how i was too but i do remember the tugging and pulling. thank you for sharing a positive experience! makes me more excited for when i have my next baby!!
I’m about to have my third c section in 4 yrs and I am terrified at the thought of having to go into labor 😅 I’ve have two breach babies and made it to my c section date both times without ever going into labor. I was literally walking and felt great in 2 days. I only took Tylenol for the minor pain. The only thing is that it kind of limits you on how many babies you can have 😣 my OB said if we decide to have a 4th it could start causing issues. Our second son who was born last year passed away 🕊️🤍 👼 so this will kind of be like having our a second child again…. But the third child section ofc. I’m 21 weeks and going in for my anatomy scan in 2 weeks 🙏 hoping everything is okay with this baby and he is happy and healthy ♥️
Love this video! I’m having my 1st c section in September, superrr nervous, BUT you definitely calmed my anxiety a bit! Thanks Trisha!! 😊🩷
You have me crying again. The whole thing. And then when you’re talking about Moses, and how great he is, I can totally see that. I had a man like that for 26 years and he passed away at a very young age. Thank God or Buddha, or whoever that I had him as my children’s father. Not trying to be a downer but I am just saying. There are men that are so good at being a part of our lives, and making us feel worthwhile and cherishing everything along with us. I could just go on, but I won’t. SO happy for you and the fam bam. ❤️
I’m so glad that you share your birth experiences on this channel, coming from someone who is planning to have a baby soon with my husband ! it’s been so cool to literally grow up watching you and experiencing the same things now 🥲
Omg I didn’t even know you were pregnant again! I just have
To say… you have come such a long way and look so happy with your loving family. I’m VERY happy for you that’s amazing ❤❤
Hey Trish, I've watched your videos since the very beginning and it's so lovely to see how far you've come. There's definitely been ups and downs but going from sitting on your kitchen floor upset to sitting calmly as a wife and a mother you've grown so much. Always loved you Trish, but we all love this new Trish era ❤ Much love from a Mum in the UK ❤
I’m glad you’ve shared your positive experience. Whenever I have kids, I will have to have a c section as my pelvis is too small give birth vaginally.
It scares me to see all these negative bad experiences and makes me nervous that I couldn’t possibly have a good experience. So it is refreshing to see this.
I'm so glad girl! Doing better! I'm so glad you're not crying on the floor in your kitchen eating some full of food anymore like he used to be! See you happy again and thriving! My soul used to cry for you every time you could cry on that floor! Just makes me so happy to see you doing well!
Marriages should be more like theirs. No huge arguments, disrespect. I am married to a loud mouth jerk who went to prison and came back a complete monster. We had five kids and I gave him another chance and it’s been nothing but a complete disaster. He changed, became a cheater and jerk. I am close to divorce, it’s nothing I take lightly. But I want to be happy and I don’t see it anytime soon. Life is too short. The one thing for me is financially. I’m the full time worker, and make 100% of the money, but everything is tied to me right now. How can I just move or leave when I have no savings? You see people just staying or even worse, committing some horrific crime. I just don’t know where to go right now. You know when your life is miserable when you go to work, and are happier there. Sorry to sound so depressing. I’m not trying to gain sympathy. This is the first time I commented on my life, online. I just love how Trisha is with her family and life. Side note, my kids are amazing. We even have a grandchild, which is even more amazing. Maybe I just needed to let it out💜
Literally so freaking proud of you guys 🥺💚 your growth is beautiful!!!
I wish I could afford patreon!!!!!!!!! Thank you for making these vids! So nice to hear positive stories after all the scary ones.
Trish your hair looks so good! And you're glowing so beautiful
I’ve been battling C-section vs vaginally for my iVF baby bc all my friends and c-sections but now I’m sold on choosing that route.
I love love love how happy you are and how much your life has changed. I used to play your vlogs in college when I was lonely so I would have someone talking with me. You are such a special creator to me and I love following your journey!
“If your skinny idk what’s there” haha love you Trish! I’m a labor and delivery nurse and follower of you from the beginning, so happy for you ❤
Thanks for sharing! I had a scheduled C-section April 23 and it is nice to see people talking about the experience. My first also ended in an unplanned/emerg C-section due to erratic heart rate.
When I had my 4th baby I had a bad epidural. The first 3 were easy and I wasn’t expecting what happened. The guy doing it would poke it in and I’d feel what felt like electric shocks down my right leg. He did it 6 times and was getting frustrated. I asked for someone else. They came in and did it perfectly the first try. I had the worst backache the next day from the first guy.
Yeah I loved having a Csection. I didnt feel one contraction. My only sadness was they didnt lay my daughter on me. They took her away right away and I didnt like that. I missed that special moment. Makes me angry and sad but thxs for sharing ❤❤❤
That is what happens when you give up your bodily rights and don't advocate for yourself.
The Voice Kids might be a good show for you and Malibu - especially if she likes singing! It might be nice and inspiring for her to see younger children up on stage doing what they love, I know she’s only little but if she’s too young to understand the concept of it, at least she might find enjoyment from it! ❤
"Whenever our time comes, I wanna just be together. And as long as our kids are taken care of and happy and good. They'll know well be good, whatever life we go into after this" TRISHA 😭😭😭😭😭 im sobbing this is beautiful ❤️
What a beautiful story. I’m so happy for you Trish! Congrats 🎉
Trisha I started watching you when I was probably wayyyyy too young haha. I grew up watching you grow up and I’m so damn proud of you. You are living proof that life does get better ❤️
The love and kindness in these comments is inspiring. Thank you!
This is my second comment, but I just also want to say that I think so much of you for not pointing out anything negative. And believe me, I totally get that. When you are pregnant, you hear the horror stories and why would somebody do that?? Major props to you. I did the same. I would never tell anyone anything negative about pregnancy, birth, any of that. Why? I think some people just love to be miserable and love to have others join in on their misery. But anyway. Congrats! What a lovely little family you have. Thanks for sharing with us.
I had a C-Section 35 years ago and my husband’s grandmother had one in 1941! Great success stories, wonderful birth experiences.
I’m so happy for you, you deserve this happiness! Congratulations on your beautiful family
So so so proud of how far you’ve come Sis 🖤🖤🖤🖤
This video has me crying with happiness for you two!!! And your family it’s amazing 🎉
My epidural only worked on my left side. 🤦🏻♀️also I never got any painkillers at all.
My second c section was planned too! My first one was emergency. Highly unlikely to give birth naturally if you couldn’t the first time. My planned c section was great! No problems, no pain!
I had a spinal tap for a separate reason not pregnancy. They were checking me for Ms and they messed up, they left a hole in my spine. I had spinal fluid leaking for days only relief I had was when I laid down straight. It was the worse thing I ever went through the pain was horrendous. Felt like my brain was being ripped apart. I was in and out of consciousness for days, another hospital figured out what happened and closed the hole, was instant relief.
So happy for you and your beautiful family Trisha 🙂 Thank you for sharing & spreading this positivity into the world. I do have to have a scheduled C-section as well. This will be my first time so your story is so uplifting, even though everybody is different.
So happy for you trish❤ What a beautiful family you have!
I did the same ❤️ first c section was so scary, after 77 hours In laybor :( AND I only had epidural who did not work so I was In pain and was put under :( so second time I asked for a planned c section. And got that spinal stuff, totally numb hehe, first time my son also could handle It anymore he had to come out fast. But with a todler and just had surgery, sometimes you forgot you should not pick them up hehe. But yeah I forgot about that all the time. Now he Is 15 and daughter is 11
Our delivery experiences are very similar. My first boy I had to get an emergency c section and honestly it was a little traumatizing. My scheduled c section date is 7/12 and this video makes me feel so much better and gives me peace of mind knowing your second experience was way better 😭
so happy for you Trish ❤ Congrats on the second baby!
Love how Moses treats you 🫶 I hope I can feel that loved one day
From hysterical crying in the kitchen to grateful crying in the playroom, you deserve so much good and happiness 😫🧡
So happy for you. Silent viewer for years - happy to see where you are today.
I love this for Trish!! And don’t you dare apologize you’re a fresh mama of 2 and a wife. You’re thriving and we love it!! We will support you forever in this happy era ❤😊
I had my first c-section in 1985 and the way they did emergency c-sections was from belly button to pelvis. My child was stuck in my pelvis and the umbilical cord was wrapped around his head and neck twice. They told me that the weight of another baby wouldn't be good, but I had 2 more afterwards lol. I love hearing about your little family🤗🩷🩷
I was a c section baby in the 90s and I’m pretty sure it was like this for my mom too - were your other two babies c section too?
@@hermiesrokmysox Yes. All 3 were c-section babies🩵🩷🩷
I just can’t explain how happy I feel about seeing Trish this calm and happy…. I’ve been watching since stripper diaries and that era… the way she feels and how she is sooo grateful for everything…. Damn… 💚
I had three c- sections and I still don’t believe women have babies that other way 😂
It's so wonderful hearing you say my kids. I'm so happy your dream finally came true.
I am the only single person in my friend group. I am in my early 20s but it feels impossible the thought that I will find a healthy love and relationship. Nights are rough I would love to have a soft spoken video going into more depth about your self love journey instilling hope for lonely people like me :)
You have me crying watching this ❤😭
Congratulations on having a baby your baby is so cute
The idea of an epidural terrifies me, but I also had a miscarriage last year so just the thought of going thru any of it again scares me. I developed moderate exema after my miscarriage and have to give myself a shot every other week, I have done it like 6 times so far but it never gets easier.
Since you had to go in at 5:30am did your mom watch Malibu the night before as well or did she come over that early and take over? Asking because similar situation, trying for baby #2 now. Baby #1 was emergency c section, & not sure how I want to proceed yet with baby #2 L&D but regardless my mom will be watching my son and Idk how to go about it. Thank you and congratulations!❤
I love you Trish I’m so happy for you. I had a spinal tap for my scheduled c-section and they stuck my 8 times and I was bawling the whole time before the surgery
Our first 3 birth were vaginal deliveries. Our 4th was a c-section after 24 hours of labor due to a severe placental abruption. 5th birth, I was ok'd for a VBAC with twins, which we had just 11 months after my c-section. if they were both remained head down. 18 hours into labor, one twin turned sideways so had a repeat c-section. My c-sections were much easier recoveries than my first vaginal delivery, and I left the hospital 38 hrs and 30 hours after each c-section. I rather recover at home.
Not sure if anyone clarified this to you before, but I guess not because this is the second time I’ve heard you say that an epidural is the same as a spinal tap. They are not. They are the opposite of each other. A spinal tap is when a neurologist ( usually it’s a neurologist, but other specialists are most likely qualified to perform one) are taking cerebrospinal fluid out of your spinal canal to help to diagnose or rule out diseases or infections. An epidural is when medications are put into the spinal canal to numb you and prevent pain. Please take this info with the intent that it was given… Just to inform. I’m a fan of you and your growth and how far you have come. You have come a very long way from who you were when I first started watching you many years ago. Kudos to you!
Spinal taps can also refer to the injection of medicine. Not all anesthetic injections to the spine are epidurals.
I got shocked too by my epidural n wow did that hurt! My nurse said the anesthesiologist missed. Super scary
As bad as my vaginal births sucked, I cannot imagine being cut open and then having to go home to take care of my family. Props to all C section moms ❤
If you got a nerve blocker the shock is actually normal in your hip. I’ve had three of them and every time that’s what happens because it when it hits the nerve it’s a little like zap.
This was such a beautiful video. So happy seeing Trisha happy
How was the voiceover recorded to sound so clear in this video?
Real question for any moms who chose to formula feed: what happens to your breast milk production. Do you get sore, engorged or a mastitis infection? Is there a medicine that stops milk production? (Obviously this is only relevant for those who CHOSE to formula feed. I know it’s not always a choice and some women try and bf and it doesn’t work for many possible reasons.)
There is medication now available to help dry up the milk production but when my mother lost her first baby in childbirth they told her to use cabbage leaves in her bra and apparently it worked.
Why are you asking this?
i love you so much trisha, please never stop doing what you’re doing
Congratulations Trish!! You look amazing 🩷🩷
C-Sections r the best🎉 Love u Trish & Family💕
There's a perfect balance between education and entertainment.
Trish, thanks for sharing your story.. I’m a c section mama too! My epidural unfortunately didn’t work. They tried twice, for some reason my lower half didn’t go numb… I wish someone could have maybe checked me also like what your obgyn did.. my husband had to leave cause they decided to put me to sleep which was my nightmare. I did not want to give birth that way but I believe everything happens for a reason and myself and my daughter were ok so that’s all that mattered. She’s now 3 years old 😊 I’m glad to see you and your beautiful baby girl are doing great! Congratulations to you and your family 💕
I’m so happy for her ❤
What is the process for choosing the best takes for a video like this?
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Thank you so much for sharing your baby story ❤️ ❤.
Congratulations on your new bundle of joy 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you for always putting a smile on faces. The content is pure joy.
The shock is normal. My anesthesiologist walked me thru everything I would feel and she told me I would feel a shock and I did. The full feeling was the worst part of the epidural for me everything else was great.
Yes please enjoy every moment you can with your loved ones. We aren’t promised tomorrow.
I love how you titled it positive🩷🩷