Cheaters, How Did Your AFFAIR Start And END?
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- Опубліковано 17 кві 2024
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The first story OP wondering if she dodged a bullet…honey, you were the bullet 😂
Came here to write that myself
Cheaters always do that. "I performed the ultimate betrayal, but you looked through my texts after I acted suspicious for weeks? That's way worse"
Also she blames poor communication skills on being a cheater? Come on. She can communicate well enough to manage two boyfriends at once
@@megaspitalso the “I felt so guilty but I kept doing it.” If they’re actually feeling remorseful about their actions then they would stop doing the action.
They were both bullets I'm a man can't imagine not claiming my significant other in public to not let female friends feel bad 😂😂😂
She was too cowardly to break up with the guy. He was too cowardly to claim her publicly. No one is the hero.
All of these stories are the cheaters putting their partner in a bad light to justify their cheating. “They were so horrible to me and this other person was so nice to me, I had no other option but to cheat.”
Only time it would be considered “understandable” is if the cheater is being abused.
Still doesn’t make it right. It just might help them leave an abusive relationship.
Yup
@@rainerhorn9285 all cheaters have so called “abusive” partners. If you believe that then you’ll eventually be the one called an abuser when they jump to the next relationship.
@@rainerhorn9285no it is still definitely not they can just run away
Most likely they are cheating on their SO. You can’t believe what a cheaters says.
The mental gymnastics some of these folks are doing are just unbelievable.
In no way is cheating "good" or "morally right."
You mean to tell me the multiple abusers mentioned deserved faithful spouses?
@@rubymeaddle Did I say that?
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
It's better to divorce than cheat.
@@rubymeaddleand you really believe these people. Cheaters always lie.
@rubymeaddle7532 If they're already being abused, cheating on said abuser before leaving is just asking to be put in critical condition or killed. Get out of the situation before doing something that might make it even worse. Its common sense.
most of this stories are giving cassie "ive never, ever been happier" 🤡
With the new footage that's come out, this comment is disgusting.
@WatchHeadsRoll what do you mean?
@@WatchHeadsRollnot really
These people are red flags.
So many people lying to themselves as much as anybody else in order to sugarcoat and justify their vile past behaviour 🤣
They could just as well admit that they were selfish and didn't care. It wouldn't really paint them in an even worse light...
Right all these cheaters taking no accountability at all
@@talkstran6352just a bunch of “I didn’t have a choice but to cheat”. When you always have a choice outside of cheating.
That first girl did everything in her power to excuse her actions
S1: Girl you were the bullet… you had no problem communicating when it involved getting with your cheating partner. SMH
Story 1: I cheated and he got suspicious so he's the a hole.....
Story 2: I cheated and the guy knew I was married but I won't cheat again and neither will he.......live by the gun ya die by it.
I swear cheaters say some dumb ish
Except in the second story the husband was also on dating apps, that marriage was dead long before she cheated. I just wonder why people are such cowards and don't call it quits before 'securing' another person, being single isn't that bad. Actually it's way better than being with the wrong person.
@@mariac.9344Exactly. I didn't feel bad for the second guy. The only reason he didn't cheat was because women didn't want him.
@@mariac.9344but the solution is divorce not cheat, if my new partner was okay to cheat with me I will live on the edge for the entire of the relationship
First story.
I didn't cheat.
My sister in Christ, you allowed a romantic attachment to form and then kissed a dude because you had a fight because your boyfriend knew something was up.
Half these stories could be avoided if you just don't get with your back up plan don't just date someone to be with someone until your ex is back on the market
Your act like solitude is easy
@adjwindu70 you just self reported.
@thetreelander7378 you are right. I'm married with kids. No solitude here but my kids are my life so I world to make them decent people when they become adults like myself.
@@adjwindu70 It's easy for based humans, if you are not comfortable by yourself then your not ready for a relationship .
Some people stay far too long in dead relationships, that makes them latch on to whoever shows them romantic interest. People just need to break up when they are miserable.
Every story: I was hurt so i didnt leave. I cheated and never looked back.
Lol.
Not me my friend. She got married. Months into the marriage her husband started acting different. He started using sex and affection as a weapon against her. If she didnt do exactly what he expected of her, he wouldnt kiss or hug her. He would t even compliment her. He was passive aggressive. He literally told her on multiple occasions, "you dont deserve a kiss." Two years of this she finally got the emotional needs else where. I personally dont agree and our friendship is now strained. I told her to leave and divorce if she is unhappy. Having an affair will make it worse. Although she said now that she gets those needs elsewhere her marriage is better because him holding it against her no longer works. 🤷🏻♀️
Of course the only ones that would admit to cheating would be individuals that felt validated. Regardless they never went about the respectful way leaving but still these type of individuals don’t like being alone so they wait till something better comes along, cheating to them is like changing out a pair of old shoes.
Don't excuse these people, just broke up, is to easy not cheat
There’s such as thing as not sinking to someone else level, and leaving the relationship prior to getting with someone else so that you leave with your head held high and you aren’t a bad guy/girl. It can be done. You can have integrity and morals. You can keep your good character. I grew up strung between bio parents (not together) who couldn’t be faithful if their lives depended on it. The saying is true that cheaters never prosper. What it means usually (if serial cheating happens) is that it causes breakup after breakup, broken heart after broken heart, shattered lives, shattered and lost homes, starting over again and again forever. That’s no way to get ahead in anything in life. It’s how you fail at life more than anything. And if kids are involved-it basically makes you a sh-tty parent. Yeah-I said it. Because it’s true. Constant upheaval for the children, constant pain, constant loss of people they grow close to and then lose because their parents can’t stop following their crotches to greener pastures. The problem with these people is that the grass is always greener on the other side…until they get there. New never stays “new” long.
Loll the second story is funny to me
First because she was cheated with her then husband make it seem she will never cheat again and 2nd her new husband didn’t respect your old marriage who would say he won’t cheat on you with someone even if his marry with her 😂😂😂
But the husband was also cheating on her so doomed marriage tbh
And she said she never thought of cheating again. Which is the exact opposite of what she’s thinking about
When I was young I got in relationships and cheated often went to therapy and learned being sexually abused as a 8 year old played a big role in my ability to form proper connections and treat sex the way it should be treated I stay out of relationships now because we do not trust myself
"I stay out of relationships now" THAT. I RESPECT YOU SO MUCH FOR THAT. YOU ARE SO BETTER THAN EVERYONE WHO DATES WITH TRAUMA,TRUST ISSUES ETC ACTIVE.
I remember a friend of mine who had trust issues after her break up confessed to me but I rejected her instantly even though she was leagues above me. She asked me if it's because of her issues and I said yes and that somehow made me ahole? Like bish I ain't a therapist 💀
I have no sympathy for the first cheater like yeah I get you were unsatisfied in that relationship but why didn't you just leave or talk to your boyfriend especially since he was your first That's the point of a relationship is to experiment and see how you and that person gave me the experience between each other during sex and if you can't do that what's the point of view even being in a relationship if you're just going to go around fucking somebody else maybe that's just me but I hate when people make this dumbass excuse like oh I did it because I was so unsatisfied then neither just break up or let the person know And don't use the dumbass excuse that you were insecure
Right?
"Oh my gosh, I was so angry my boyfriend didn't trust me, can you believe him?"
*immediately cheats on him with the guy he was worried about*
@@AnonymousJohnAutobonShe was probably cheating before the boyfriend went through her diary anyway. Going straight to "the guy he shouldn't be worried about" and giving him a kiss? Something was definitely going on beforehand.
If they cheat with you, they will cheats on you 😂
Story1: a million excuses of why she had an emotional then physical affair with no accountability. And some how she still tried to play victim in the end 🙄
My girlfriend a few years ago was pretty cool and then we moved in together. She wanted to try the open relationship thing so I gave it a try, met my future wife at work and then left GF for her.
Why would Story 2 even marry him when she said she never felt physical + emotional attraction to him. Thats fkn gnarly to think about. Awful
A lot of people have the expectation to be married by a certain age, because of that you see quite a few stories of newly weds barely talking to each other at their own reception, they only got married because they thought it was the next step in life, not because the person is the one they see being with forever
I think that the OP of that story was in that category, tbc it doesn’t make what she did right at all
noticing how they're all women and that they all describe their bfs in a bad light, "abusive, narcissist" blah blah blah, i really doubt they're being genuine in their one sided stories and it seems highly unlikely that they all just happened to be in bad relationships and have 0 to do with the situations they found themselves in. Seems more like cheaters just trying to justify themselves
It would be interesting to hear about the men who have cheated.
Women cheat more. Data proves it
a relationship that starts in deceit will end in deceit
Love your stories
3 types of stories here. The first is people being abused, those are understandable if they were really getting abused. Second is not affairs, more of monkey branching at the end of relationships (1-2 weeks). Third is people making excuses for their shitty behavior
Why there is almost only women?
Because men admit to being weak when we cheat
So this should be called "women justifying their cheating"...
😅came here to hear the people who ended up married or something.
Once a cheater always a cheater. “I’ve never cheated again” yeah because I’m gonna believe that lie.
I can't trust this, it's only women cheating and why can't they just leave before cheating, no they need a side dude before leaving
There are cheating women on reddit because they know internet supports women so they want reddit strangers to pat them on head and validate their cheating.... meanwhile cheating men are hiding in abyss knowing if they said a word, they're dead
Women cheat more. You can't tell they are actually women because they are trying to paint themselves as victims and not take accountability
Men cheat too and I always felt there was more men cheating than women
The Second Lady had a serial cheater for a husband flirting and trying to get dates when you have a partner is still cheating but yeah cheating is lame both ways
All of these people suck, even the ones that were in shitty relationships.
All of these cheaters. They aren't satisfied and cheat. And they believe they won't ever cheat again. Lol!
You know i married too young myself but I didn’t cheat on my wife 🙄
Started working with a married woman she pursed me left her husband for me had a good relationship but it ended too many things going on in her life plus her kid the older one being rebellious bout us living together so eh
Let hear some BS.
Hos being Hos
No accountability
Why do i feel women in these stories are lying to feel validated
Those coworker
I don’t have sympathy for cheaters regardless of the cause
If you are not happy leave then do whatever tf you want
A cartridge of bullets dodge
I hate cheaters so much
I'm not going to lie I think the only time I've ever seen cheating to be an acceptable thing is under two rules that I have unless you're in an abusive marriage and the abusers friend is trying to get you out of that situation and you catch feelings for them and they give you the hope to see through the fact that you're in an abusive relationship that they're trying to get you out of that's the only time I find it acceptable secondly high school because I know some people may not like this opinion but I feel like high school is that one time in your life growing up where you're going to make mistakes and one of those mistakes is cheating now if you're doing it as an adult going forward in life it's no longer a mistake it's something you're doing purposely that you know what you're doing cuz I do have to agree with the first story that it makes sense in high school a lot of people are very insecure about themselves and you know they end up making mistakes and doing stupid things especially when there was somebody that they don't know how to break up with that they no longer feel happy with because there's still a small spinach of them that's still in love with that person or they just don't want to hurt their feelings so understandably they end up doing the stupid things that they do
I think that this shows that really everything about relationships is a moral grey area. Aside from prolific cheaters who do it for absolutely nothing, some of these stories indicate that the original relationship was toxic or unhealthy in some way and that both parties became relatively happier without the original partner. Is it better to break it off before moving on to the next? Absolutely, but some don’t feel comfortable leaving without knowing they’ll land on solid ground.
So in other words monkey branching, emotional/physical affairs and leading your partner on is ok since you want to make sure the person next in the line up is a good fit first. Your take on relationships is terrible.
@@goddessrick8734 same opinion, idk why people always try to make excuses to cheat
Imo cheating isnt excused by any means, but sometimes situations are understandable but nonetheless wrong, but im sure a majority of the posters dont include anything that make them seems like the bad guy
Why is it only cheating-stories from females..?
First to say first!
I'm sorry but im pretty sure looking at yout GFs diary without permission is a good way to end up single😂
Who cares?
She was hiding an inappropriate relationship with another guy so it was definitely warranted.
Well he took the risk and guess what he was correct
Oh I guess that makes more sense since they never mentioned why.
@@experiencedotaku171not at that point he wasn’t
6:12 male narcissist, dodged a huge tactical nuke.
I was with my ex for 8 1/2 years and we even had a son together. After our son was born he became extremely mentally and emotionally abusive. He would mom shame me if I asked for a break from our son. Well I started a job at FedEx and met this guy who I fell hard for. He was also in a terrible relationship with the mom of his 3 kids. We started as friends and eventually it came out that we both had feelings for each other so we started a secret relationship. Eventually we told our exes and left them. We got married less than a year after dating and also have a 1 year old daughter together we are going on 3 years together married for 2 years and we are both happy as can be
If I were you, I’d seriously consider taking frequent individual therapy and couple therapy for both you and your now husband. Not only you both chose bad long term partners (allegedly) and you both lied and cheated on them to be with each other but you also rushed into marriage and family after less than a year of dating, while you’re still not yet out of the euphoria of the affair, you’re still living the newness of the relationship and you are still learning about each other. The odds of your relationship ending as badly as your previous one are very high. Your life really seems to me like a series of bad decisions with innocent children stuck in the middle.
@@dreamstories3524 we gave them what they deserved they had been doing the same thing to us first. I was loyal to my ex for 8 years while he cheated all the time and he was loyal to his ex while she cheated on him the whole time. I say pay back is a bitch. Also 3 years is long enough for the newness to wear off and we are still happy.
Women try not to cheat challenge: impossible
Men statistically cheat at twice the rate.
It's all girls cheating even the guys telling story say they were the side guy cause she was cheating
Idk how these stories were chosen… I guess women are quicker to admit it?
Skipped story 2, 3 and 7?
....wow... given I have been cheated on by numerous men... just wow😂😂😂😂
I noticed that too
@@RepubsWannaMarryKids damn you must be doing something crazy that every single guy in your life runs away 😭
I think this goes to show that cheaters aren't necessarily "evil" and there are degrees of how bad cheating is. The only people I'll give a whole pass to though are abuse victims whose views of love are so screwed up that they quickly form connections with anyone who will treat them with any decency.
Don’t defend it
Poor excuse of a cheater, you buy that??? Lmao
I’m with you, I’ve worked with abuse victims before and some of them range from sad to tragic. Most of them don’t know how to get out of their mess of a relationship without involving a third party and some of them never get out due to being too scared. Heck I even knew one spouse that got murdered when she finally stood up to her husband, that day was sad but that dick got sent to prison.
@360entertainment2 yeah nah, that's even less of a reason to cheat because if you're already getting beat for no reason all the cheating is gonna do is probably get them killed.
Cheaters don't deserve any sympathy as it's a choice.
@@360entertainment2so you want more abuse victims to get killed? Being abuse isn't an excuse to cheat nor is it a reason to stay, and it sounds like you'd rather them suffer then leave a bad relationship.
Men would be less stressed if they just accepted that women will always have her mind on past Chad encounters and one foot in the next relationship, whether married or not.
If you cheat you lack a spine. Cowards can rot.