What I WISH I Knew Before Dating RICH MEN!
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- Hey Trophiessss!!!! 🏆✨ Are you ready to level up from Sugar Baby status to the irresistible allure of a Trophy Wife? In this empowering video, I spill the tea on transitioning into the Trophy Wife of his dreams with finesse and confidence! 💅👰
Here are my top tips and secrets that will help you attract that successful man and maintain your Goddess-Energy.
If you've been dreaming of a life dripping in luxury and love, it's time to soak up these strategies and become the spoiled housewife you were meant to be. I'm sharing my journey and the lessons learned so you can navigate the high seas of high society with grace. Whether it's mastering patience with seasoned gentlemen or avoiding the pitfalls of false promises, I've got you covered!
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Remember, ladies, it's all about the long game! Don't just dazzle him with your looks; captivate him with your mind and heart. 💖 Let's embrace our worth and make every moment count!
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I was 19 when I met one. He was in his 30s. I lost big time 😊 and his ways got to me mentally, and crushed me bad. But, I learned his ways so now that's how I function with everyone, not just men.
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#1: Patience. Have more patience and self control than him. Don't text, don't call. Don't chase the mf. Crush him mentally. No matter how many days it takes. Let him stay like chicken in seasoned lemon water. Win.
5:35
#2: False promises. The power of reaction. "Oh that's nice". Don't react more. Don't do more until you RECEIVE. Don't shift your energy, don't give him what he wants. Your energy is not on credit, he needs to pay cash for it. What he says has to be tangible in your hands. Otherwise, it doesn't exist.
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#3: If you are sugar baby, he's going to keep you a secret. Too young, immature, fun. He's not going to introduce you to his world and transition you to his potential wife. He's not spending important holidays with you. You have to come across as an appropriate wife. Someone who would be respected if he was to take around people he knows. It's up to you: The way you dress, the way you talk, the conversations you are capable of having, poised, how you carry yourself.
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#4: Don't ask for big things right away. Be more chill about materialism. Don't give much so you don't get desperate for it. A man who has resources will offer though. Be thankful and show gratitude. Show him that you care about him and white lie. Care about and enjoy who they are as a person.
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#5: Big money to you is little money to him. Chump change to him, and women give themselves fully. Don't overdo it. To him it's "I got a good deal on this. That's all I had to spend to get it? Okay", wait until marriage so you see if he cares. If he doesn't put a ring on it, he doesn't care no matter how much he spends or what he says.
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#6: Be strategic. It's chess, not checkers. Calculating in your movement and the things you're saying. Knowing to understand what he says vs what he means and move accordingly. Don't get drunk. Don't loosen your grip or lose control. Trophy wife and have it all, you have to be serious about positioning yourself in the appropriate way.
Thank you for the time stamps ❤️
@@thenewtrophywife You are most welcome. I'll be revisiting this video countless times 👍🌻
As a girl who has meet one billionaire and dated a few millionaires
1) Most of them communicated very well with me, they love an educated girl who is a great conversationalist.
2) I got presented gifts like car, travel, rented apartment, huge sums of money( 5k to 50k), I got a Channel bag, Louis vuitton bags etc
3) My best strategy for receiving all of this was not sleeping with them. When you don't sleep with them, they buy you gifts, give you everything you want and need…make sure you are always perfect looking, dressed posh, be a nice person, be confident and do not become a push over.
As a multimillionaire, I’m not buying you these things if you’re not sleeping with me.
😂😂😂😂😂who are you ??@@marcushicks5635
Yet you’re still single. Of all of those men none of them wanted you or was it you that did not want to be with any of those men? You may be young now but will rich men want you 40 and up. Get you and rich man and get out the market before it’s too late. Time is ticking… Tick Tock⏰
@@HarryClipzFilmz 40 yr old women popping. Nelly with a 43 year old. Its how you look not your age. New age womena arent like the older ones. The 35 and older women look younger than the young ones.
Haha I didn’t not want those men, most of them were married, divorced with baggage etc I made the right decision.
I was never afraid of being single because of things I had seen
But I know who my husband to be is currently, and we are both making preparations.
yep lol abstinence seems like how you get the life you want frfr. thanks queen.
Thats what I've observed as well
I agree with you! Ladies, please don't fall for just words. I wish I would've know that. It would've saved me a lot of heartache. Especially older men in their 40's 50's they've gained enough experience to know not only exactly what to say but when to say it as well. So don't get excited by words but actions. Also these men have plenty of options and she is right when she stated they want to be chased. Set yourself apart and don't fall for that chasing trap. Don't get attached too soon. Love yourself enough and know whats meant for you will not miss you.
That's a thing I had to learn. What is for you, won't miss you. It'll come to you.
leaving is not gonna farantee anything many women have tried this with me i just let them leave and had the self respect to replace instead of chase yo you know how much women aproach us im even handsome i get like 700 dms on one site got 5 and im not even doing my best lmao posting pictures total glow up its hilarious when you do that any second later a women will come in happy because u fuced up lmao
Amen 🙏🏾🙌🏾
Yes. Can women please start saving ourselves until marriage? I really believe that will change how guys date and treat us. It will likely help lead to more marriages. I really want us to stop giving away everything for free and so easily.
Amen!!! 🙏🏽🏆👑
Can you wait even with a child?
@@tishinahoneyblue5355yes! You control who you have sex with. You don't owe anyone your body.
@@tishinahoneyblue5355yes you can, I’m doing it now. I have 2 daughters and he has a son same age my oldest daughter. We both have past failed relationship we both agree is due to putting to much emphasis on the physical scope of the relationship and with each other we agreeing to wait until proposal/ marriage. 4 months in 🤍
Girl I feel like I’m on that road! This man literally said to me this morning that men will pretend to be committed to you in order to get in your panties and I’m so tired of it. Even a “commitment” doesn’t stop the foolishness
all accurate! i can attest to all of these. especially the falling into the "fun girl" category trap... only accept real dates, not casual hangouts at their place - even if they say they're a private person... they love that line. it's just a bluff to see if you'll accept going to their place right away. and ladies, don't try the "i'll just be the chill girl who's ok with just hanging out" tactic. i tried it numerous times and it only works with men who have very few options. presenting yourself as a strong willed, mature adult who requires real dates is what works on high value, wealthier men. they won't believe you deserve to be courted properly if you don't even believe it yourself.
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What do we neeed to say if they would like to go sexual after few months?
@@maynakasarli5779 you're waiting until marriage
Right now I’m talking to a man that owns 4 franchises with multiple employees. I’ve been talking to him for about 2 weeks now. He’s picked me up and taken me on 2 really nice dates. I’m 22 & he’s 32. I typically let him reach out to me, I myself am patient. He wants to go on another date but at any point he wants to get sexual I’ll let him know I’m celibate until marriage.💍 until then I’m still going to be talking to other guys. Always keeping my options open so I don’t get too attached. Even if I wasn’t, I still don’t take people seriously until I see action.
Yes, have multiple men courting you. 🏆
O oh! May I give you as an older married man some life saving advice. Because the advice of "Newtrophywife'' is horrible and will cost you.
First I understand what it's coming from. For women men with many women are attractive.
HOWEVER! For men are women with more men... dirty (apologies, I don't know a better word, and absolutely not the s word).
We want women for our own, exclusive, not sharing them. At least not if we see them as potential wife in a relationship (for one night smash it doesn't matter).
SO give him exclusivity if you want to have him! Don't ever let him know that you're talking/dating other guys or just don't do it. If he thinks you're dating the other guys chances are high he will smash you and then quit.
A high value man wants exclusivity from his woman to take you seriously.
Thank me later!
Kudos girl
Don't tell him you are celibate until marriage or anything similar, he will be gone in minute. And it's none of his business. A man motivation is the possibility of having sex. Don't kill his dream. I am speaking from experience. I'm in my 40's and dated a man for 2 years without giving it up and he was generous to me.
@ Liz-ic6jb men with working brain will not let you manipulate him with sex, you might have few strikes before you get deleted from his brain
I agree 100%. You can’t always dress too sexy. You can dress sexy CLASSY. He will start taking you seriously. She’s on point. You gained a new subscriber ❤
What if he wants to touch.. do we have to accept after spending a great amount of time?
@@maynakasarli5779 you can check him in a nicely manner. Have him know that you are not a cheap one night stand.
I never fell for talk. Still don't. Never will. Even an engagement should be treated as such, until you're married. Even then, we need to stay awake. It's insane how far a man will go just for his own selfish desires, so yeah, game on. Some women find it exhausting, wich is understandable. I play to win, so i cannot afford to get tired. Thanks for making this video. It's a much needed one.
Miss lady, After the first 20 minutes of meeting you, you are put into a category. 80% of women who meet men with money are already labeled as side chicks, and there is zero you can do to jump out of the side chick zone; you will get a ride until it's time for your replacement.
I love the way you think.
Sprinkle sprinkle ✨✨
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Ikr
Omg retired NFL player in his 50’s played me exactly how you described!!! False promises and my naive *ss overgave.
It happens! 😩 but we learn
Girl me too! But I discovered his lies before I gave it up. In my first week of meeting him he said he was going to give me a car, and I could live in one of his condos. He promised so much it got ridiculous 😅
His name is Kevin ladies! I forgot his last name but his nickname is KL-Hitter (in case you come in contact 😅)
@@Liz-ic6jblol yea that’s kinda crazy for someone to offer you these things in the FIRST WEEK? I’m a guy and I would never ever do that (I make 600k a year) but still! Wow
3:35 self control to not chase him is easier when youre not emotionally attached or intimate with him. I won't be doing either until real commitment (marriage).
That part!! Keep your legs closed and your value high
I can relate to all this and have fumbled SOO many wealthy, well off and even rich men. From NFL players to doctors. But I also had Zero guidance, my mother didn’t provide any.
Would love to do an episode with you . I think women should group together and discuss this stuff
Your mother did not fail you. Most older women don't know this stuff and did not date this way.
You think you would have listened to her and did EVERYTHING she told you?
@@Liz-ic6jb yeah I probably wouldn’t have .. I do feel to an extent , more guidance could’ve been given in regards to men..
Don’t think your mom failed you. She probably gave what she knew to give. In all areas. I felt that at one point , then I realized my mother just simply didn’t know. ❤
I don’t think my mum could’ve done any better. She and my dad courted for only 5 months before they got married for 49 years. They were both the first for each other. And that was pretty much the same for older women around me whilst growing up. They promoted dating for marriage. Go figure 🤷🏻♀️
I'm currently talking to an Engineer, me may not be a multimillionaire, but I think he is doing well for himself. I think these tips are absolutely amazing and I wish more women in your shows were more transparent vs trying to just display the lifestyle and hiding the real reality. Thanks for the advice and congratulations on your new bundle of joy!
We all make mistakes on this journey towards our happily ever after! Im just hoping mine can help someone do it better ❤️ and thank you my love!
Getting an opportunity to get info like this at 20 is a blessing imo . Love your channel!❤️
Same
Same❤
Great content! I had to watch this on 1.75x speed because I’m still working on my patience 😅
Same 😂😅
😂😂.. good idea..
😂😂😂
Loved the content but she definitely should have had flash cards. She seemed like she had trouble getting her thoughts out.
Pregnancy Brain 😩
As a successful brother, I concur with nearly all of your points. My wife is a stunning young woman who played the long game and ultimately won the ring. I hope in your book, you inform women about the fundamental qualities they should possess before approaching a man with wealth. They should be reasonably attractive, without a nose ring, free from visible tattoos, and should avoid having excessively long nails, unusually colored hair, dreadlocks, and, most of all, don't come off as masculine. Additionally, it's preferable not to have children from previous relationships. Ladies, you can't fool men with money. They see through 98% of you 10 miles before you step toward us.
Come off masculine?? Don’t you mean feminine?
THIS! 🎯 God bless your beautiful union!
@@LuxuryLivingManagement Well, I was trying to say that one thing a woman should not do is come off as a masculine woman, that is so unattractive it can make the most attractive woman look unattractive. A woman's superpower is her femininity.
Yessir
The locs part to me is unreasonable.
The more and more I watch videos like this, the more I feel like it would be best to either be single or just date woman. It’s just too many rules when dating men.
& He will cheat anyway 🙄
@@MedusssssaChristo 🤯🤯🤯 chileeeeeee
Money. The point is money.
By the odds, he will cheat anyway, discard you anyway, it’s how society encourages men to act.
Also some of us aren’t attracted to women.
yes women belive in love, romance and commitment
@@shivani99999 ...on the surface. Because when you keep denying to yourself the fact that you have immense competition for the top 5% or 1% of men in status, income, and potentially physique (because almost every other woman is aiming for them too) yet continue gunning for them, you can't exactly claim to love someone for who they are. In fact, it is men who are true romantics by default, yet realize that is often not compatible with reality.
You’ve dropped so many quality gems in this video!! It’s all about learning from your mistakes and continual growth. Congrats on your book!! 🙌🏾💖✨
Thank you My Love!
About 1.5 years ago, I was approached by a surgeon while I was leaving the store. We sat down and chatted for a bit but he told me he was getting a divorce. He asked me if I wanted to go eat but I said no because he was legally married. I ran into him again at a different store about a week later. He asked me if I wanted to go to a party at the Four Seasons Hotel, but I declined again.
Sadly, the circumstances were not correct for anything romantic. I haven't ran into him since but I have a feeling that God might reintroduce us when circumstances change.
Yea I’d probably turn him down too. Some men will pretend to leave their wives but aren’t going anywhere. There are other SINGLE surgeons😂
You did the right thing. Good for you. The right man will cross your path. The surgeon was Mr. Wrong 😑 and a married man. No thank you.
I think you did the right thing, but I’d probably be cautious about entertaining him even after he’s divorced….he’s already communicated to you that he’s not opposed to cheating 🤷🏽♀️
@@dasjdajd You're right if his intention was to ask me out romantically. I wasn't sure if he wanted to hang out as friends, but I wouldn't have felt comfortable regardless. That's the doubt I have. I'm curious as to why God had me meet him twice though.
I@@dasjdajd
Thank you for taking you time in doing this video for us. I like how patient and clear you are in your speech. Its represents the softness you have and which helped in becoming the trophy wife you are 😊
Awww thank you My Love, helping you ladies is my passion! ❤️
I’m 24 and he’s 40, we’ve been talking for 3 weeks and I’ve been following your advice. We’re going on our first date this weekend since he lives in Florida with me in Georgia. I’m excited and hoping he’s the one, but also using logic. Definitely the provider type with his own business in construction.
I'm scared met a older man with a regular Job been talking 3 weeks as well
@@durgalakshmi2793if he’s old and regular it might be a waste of time lol there’s a reason he is single
I was 22, dating a 56-year-old, and spent most of my 20s with older men. Be careful! Some ppl just want to use young women for their youth, but will not marry them. Withhold sex for as long as you can.
That’s a concerning age gap… babe there’s long term consequences of dating a man much older than you…please don’t go down that path
@@MB-xv7erWhat’s the age gap between this lady and her husband?
Yes, it’s called dangling the carrot, that as a tactic that Some men use
I'm so appreciative. My mom has always had multiple millionaires stalk her throughout her whole life. My dad is the super successful athletic man with an MBA and wants to provide, not only so my mom can be a stay-at-home wife, but for me too. It's so awkward meeting my dads 65 year old friends with thier 37 year old wives (the same age as me). Since I was a little, I have always been taught the importance of manners because we were always surrounded by politicians or military leaders or business owners. And being frugal is so important. We shop at discount places all the time.
I love that you brought up the importance of frugality, those with any level of monetary success don’t go crazy with spending just because. You can be well put together and beautiful without being decked out in designer. We all have our guilty pleasures but smart people don’t primarily wear their money, they invest it 🏆 Thank you for being here and sharing your experience Babe ❤️
@thenewtrophywife Thank you for sharing your knowledge with others! This is beautiful.
Yesss we love the back to back videos!🥰
Hey Trophies , Go Trophies🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️
Okay with a lil quick commercial !
🤣😂 Thanks Babe! 😘
“Your energy is not on credit, he needs to pay cash for it. What he’s says has to be tangible.” -Isis ❤
Please make this statement a shorts so it can go viral.
Men who have everything… love women who know their worth. And they love how your energy empowers them. Protect your energy. This is a great video.
Yes it was helpful! I like the tip about getting that ring and meeting his inner circle. You.looked so beautiful in that commercial😍 Way to go!!🎉🎉 Good luck future trophies!🏆
This comment section is gold! All great advice ladies!
such an important topic ❤please more on the dynamics and mistakes 😊 thank you
So true. I remember my first hypergamous relationship I treated him like an ATM because I knew he had the means. Yes, he gave me what I wanted every time, but I think he also felt I was just there for his deep pockets. So naturally, that relationship did not work out.
I was young, dumb and excited. If I could go back I would definitely practice delayed gratification.
Thank you for sharing this Babe! ❤️
We all live and learn!!
I dated a man with money before and they play too many games.
HE led the relationship with “Ill get you whatever you want, I want a stay at home girlfriend” and then got upset when I asked for what I wanted.
Being with a dude that has money is only exhilarating if you don’t have money. If you’re able to take care of yourself financially, then you will come to expect more from any man that you date. In my experience with men with money, it’s way too much of a loosing battle because the power dynamic is so intense.
@@MaybejustNarbe
Yep a lot of men play games.. it's what you tolerate/accept is what u get. Men with $ have more options. Broke men have more creative ideas/games because they have time to conjure up BS. I still prefer someone just as financially stable & literate or higher. U may have to kiss 💋 frogs 🐸 before u get king 🤴.
@@MaybejustNarbe
And in my experiences, it's a bad ideal to date men w/ money if you're broke. It's an art to finessing a man w/ money. If u ask outright it's off-putting. Or they'll see u as not wifey material. Idk why it is🤷🏽♀️
I’m glad you said save yourself till marriage. I question whether or not it’s even a must in todays society. A lot of people think nobody’s waiting that long but I don’t see why not and it shouldn’t take that long.
Hi Trophies! 🏆 Get my Hypergamous Dating Handbook HERE:
www.thenewtrophywife.com/hypergamous-dating-handbook
I checked out a few of your videos. You are indeed a gorgeous woman. One thing you have to take into account is that we live in a global world now, and the competition for women to get that 1% man to put a ring on it has gotten much more difficult. Several of my close friends own villas in some countries where the women are drop-dead gorgeous, feminine, and were raised to care for a man. The competition is global now.
@@dmac5808
Yes true. These ladies make content for women to provide tips on how to be your best & have an edge on competition. The top 1% is very competitive and near impossible. So make compromise. What's wrong with the top 10%. A woman can still have a nice, comfortable lifestyle. Or even go for middle class . It's still competition but again you have an edge if feminine & high value.
Congrats on your book doll!
Thank you Trophy!! 🥰
Love these gems Queen! You are truly heaven sent❤ and congratulations for 10k subscribers!!!🎉❤💕
Thank you so much Babe!!! 🥰 I need to email you!
Men rich or poor all manipulative. All games
Identifying the wrong guys or character flaws of your own that you aren't addressing.
Patience is a key take away for me. Some men in my age group are far too rushed for me, no ways 😭
“The Power of Reaction” thank you so much for sharing this insight! ❤❤ Amazing video.
My pleasure Beautiful!!! 🥰
I really enjoyed reviewing this information ❤.
I am new and I have been learning from your channel.
Great video! Excited to get the book. Please talk more about single parenting and hypergamy.
Will do Babe, theres a chapter just for single mommies in the ebook! 😘
Dropping FACTS sister!! ❤
Whewwww😮💨The first part about patience,keep busy ladies always let him reach out first.this video couldn’t have come at a better time m’am🫠❤️
Yes, a mistake I've made too due to getting anxious and insecure. Stay in your feminine role!! Never reach out first after the date. You need to give them space to pursue, think about and miss you. Let the man be the man and initiate most of the convos.
Hey Isis! This video really put a lot of things into perspective for me, so helpful. TFS
She’s glowing! 🥰
Just as I decided to take myself and my future more seriously and become celibate, the lord guided me to your page. Thank you❤ and thank you for bringing to my awareness that I should consider being less revealing with my clothes. I do notice the high value/wealthy men I attract are not turned on by it. They may thing I look beautiful, but they are t taking me as seriously as if I were covered up. Thanks girl!
Am so excited that I found you - ❤️
First tip already gold 👌🏾
This is AMAZING advice!❤
This was such a great video. Thank you!
Thank you Trophy! 🥰
This was literally a gem. Thank you for sharing these tips !
You're so welcome My Love! 😘
i can feel and hear ur femininity that’s what makes me wanna listen to ur videos even more!! ur so calm
Nice to see this video as I’m currently thinking about pursuing rich men who I am actually attracted to (money alone is not enough). I naturally like mature men & rarely connect with guys my age. I really want someone to add value to my life as I do to his. I’m not so sold on being a “trophy wife” b/c I really want to have both a personal and professional identity outside of the relationship. I haven’t been with a man in over 7 months now b/c I refuse to settle after being in a 10 year rx. I simply do not want struggle love 😂
Love your background interior!
Thank you 🥰
It's called future-faking! When they make promises to do something for you but there no defined time or when it will happen.
Thank you for this video. It changed my life.
Wow thank you Babe, you ladies humble me! 🥰🥰
Yes the false promises point is so true!!
I’m married to a woman but I just enjoy watching you and listening to your crystal clear audio.
Love this. You dropped some true gems!! 💎
😘😘
I have been binge watching your videos 😍
such good points!!
These "HARD LESSONS" ...is what made you who you are today.. & your GEMS (message) that can/will make you RICH/WEALTHY... Great message.. thank you
Thank you Beautiful 🥰😘
As a young woman i wont be dating Older Men to develop "connection" . I just need his financial benefits so he can help me level up. If you date an older man and he's acting like you need to prove yourself to him that "your worthy" to be his wife, you probably come off as deperate. Dont boost their ego by paying them too much attention or contacting them when they slow ir dont. They'll start to act and feel nonchalant about you. You aint the main character, its him. Depends on that type of older man. If you got one who thibks you HOT and he's the one that NEEDS you cuz you a trophy to him. He shouldnt feel like he has choices or think he has options to decline you and "go find a better one" if your not giving him attention. That means he knows he the prize. Its not you. You not the priority. He and his needs are the priority. I dont subscribe to thinking or calling men with money "high value". Even tho i target them for dating. But if we call them "high value" they gonna feel it and They gonna think they better and you the one who should prove yourself to them
Reading this gave me a headache 🥱
Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us Queen! 👑💗🏆
Thank you for being here Babe 💕😘
That’s right stand in your femininity
Thank you for this video!!!
Such good advice ❤❤❤❤ thank you 🙏🏽
Love this 🤍✨ and I love how articulate and classy you are. A lot of women of color in this space can come off “hood rich” or ghetto…and I can’t relate to that. New Subscriber here 🤍
Thank you for sharing beautiful! Such useful information
Thank you my love 🥰
This is a really good video, thanks for saying what it really takes to land someone who actually is helpful. This advice applies for matches of better quality.
Get it in blood marriage. Marriage is a safety net especially if you’re talking about hypergamy play the long game
thank you so much for your advice ❤
She gets what she wants I get what i want everyone is happy.
Don’t play with someone’s emotions that’s how things turn in to dangerous situation.
Thank you for sharing ❤so true
Very true all that you said. Also I found this helpful so I don't make the same mistakes in relationships again to have them fall apart.
great video. i liked where you talked about false promises because that is so true.
Off topic but the chair grabbed my attention 😅...its beautiful!
Thank you 🙏🏾✨
Just discovered you and your advice is so 💖💖💖 Thank you so much
Great Golddigger channel!
Very useful video with great tips thank you 🥰😻
You’re so welcome 😇
I really love what you have to say!
New subscriber. Good advice.
Very useful ❤thanks
What about how many rich men exist statistically VS how many women out there want them. Literally over 99% of single, beautiful women will never be able to have a rich man in their lifetime; there's not enough of them to go around.
Thank you❤
I wish I'd heard the thing about patience a few years ago before I started my journey....
Good luck those guys didn't get rich by chance. They are not stupid. (Most of them) And the one who are easily moved by manipulation, already have gold digger or aspiring princess all over them. Also they kinda know eachother so if you are chasing in one area and try to move in the circles. At some point you will be detected. You can succeed but you will need luck and "hard work" ( network , psychology, and put real genuine energy from yourself, at some point, basically deserve it factor will need to exist )
Unless you are lucky and you kinda look like his first love or have some psychological trait from his mother or something he subsconciously love or some mindfck like that that will lower his protection... and even if that happen you will still have to convince his circles.
Good luck again. Nothing is impossible . Wont knock a hustler. I too is an hustler(in the sense of entrepreneur).
THATS SO TRUE
I think that’s so true about getting excited because a man spends a little money on you. What is a lot to you may be chump change to him. Who does he want to be with long-term, the girl that giggles every time he buys her a nice meal or expensive jeans, or the one that is interested in him, is appreciative, and doesn’t look for financial things from him?
Girrrll, I just went on a date … and we got really drunk😂. It was such a wonderful date.. one thing lead to another and that happened. When I tell you the last part of your vid really spoke to me. IT SPOKE TO ME.
I should have let it escalate, how it did.. I feel defeated. Could anyone give me advice on how to stay in the game with him… we still text after. We haven’t talked about another date.. but it was mentioned in person a lot of times… this happened on sat.. it is Monday
Hey Beautiful, just pull back in your energy and let him come to you. Don’t show any insecurity ❤️ and continue talking to other Men
IMO the Bible tends to be a good guide for these more traditional relationships. It instructs/suggests wives to be submissive to their husbands, and husbands to love their wives.
What is love in this context? "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
In other words, the best way to secure commitment and love is to submit to him (e.g. be useful to him in his life, step into his frame, respect and follow him, etc.)...but only submit to a man who loves you.
This is for any relationship. :)
You are amazing and gorgeous!
Stay blessed gorgeous
She gets it❤
Hey trophies🏆
Wise ❤
Where did u get that pink dress
Nordstrom 💕
It's absolutely gorgeous on you! 😍@@thenewtrophywife
I Think It Depends On What You Want In A Marriage Some Men Marry Their Sb’s
Yes, if they have been positioning themselves correctly! 🏆