Women NEVER fall in love first. That is attachment, not love. Women require consistent demonstrations of integrity within and outside of the connection to fall in love. That means, it takes TIME to have those deeper feelings. If you think you've fallen in love with a man who did not earn, you haven't. It's neediness, not love.
I agree. But dealing with my guy for over 2 years and I love him dearly. Yes I do. And thats just our emotional attachment to one another. But I haven't fallen in love yet and I am aware of this. We both are ❤
@@wuzetiaBecause the energy that was projected out from that "behaviour" really attracts lots of people but you have to be mindful of who you're gonna "entertain".
so will embracing your individuality and expressing yourself which’ll make you feel good as well as giving others the permission to express themselves authentically
This hits hard. I dated someone recently who adored me at first and treated me like I was his dream girl. As time went on and I fell for him, his feelings shifted and he ended it. Utterly heartbreaking and I don't want to contribute to that dynamic and ending with a future person. I have a lot to learn!
People can try to copy you but there is NOBODY quit like youuuu! You blow it out the park every time! 🎉 Love how you talked about being kind vs nice. 👏🏽💗✨
Great video, Fareen. Thank you so much! I’m grateful you heeded the call to do this work; you’re fantastic at it. I am learning so much… it’s not too late to live better at 51. Or 61, 71… and on! The pressure of the baby making years to figure this out is so intense, though. My heart is with all in that space, who are locating their deep feminine as a source of untapped power to live their heart’s dreams as women. My generation really had this info buried for us… I’m so glad to see this renaissance of feminine wisdom!
This is all well and good, but someone showing interest in me doesn't mean I will like him. Do I feel attracted to him? do I like his personality, the way he looks, his smell, his smile, the way he talks, his lifestyle? I need all of that first to feel interested
👋🏾Hello, I’m new here! Your channel is just what I need! Love ur content and I look forward to purchasing ur products and growing more in my feminine energy! Thanks darling! 💕🤗
She's speaking more about urges and impulses of scarcity more than "feelings" in order to inspire a man to chase/be interested/excited toward the woman. I just don't understand how this inspires genuine interest from a man. What do you think? I think that intention/aspect is a little different from a woman who will keep her options open until she is engaged.
Start being attractive and loving it. Try to detail out every aspect of your body from hair to toe and think intentionnally of how you would dream to have them and achieve the look. Exemple: dream hair black, long, shiny, goes with the shape of face. Do everything necessary to reach that goal. Then move to next part of body, face, neck, arms, fingers, nails, chest, tummy, back, butt, triangle, legs, feet, toes😊 Being attractive IS feeling attractive a healthy way. Don't over obsess. Just make it the reasonable well kept journey of loving yourself❤
@@katekotlarska2517 try protective style it for a whole month, clean and redo for the next month. You might need 4 months to see a change. Then it will increase as long as you do it. Keep it simple: Wash, protect, don't touch, hydrate twice a week at night. When you are at your good health and length, treat it like fine lace, tender Care and space up shampoos a lot more. As of from right now: Have your vitamins and add fresh organic oil to at least two of your daily meals.
You are into him just not as much as him. It's either that or be single for the rest of your life. The Game players the ones whom have no intention to invest will always be on the market. Ready and waiting to f*ck with your head.
Sounds like dating survival. A man should love you for you not the performance you put on for him. Eventually you’ll get tired and the real you will show.
Well honestly, after 5 months of relationship in a quite distant way as he was never calling me and texting only every 2 other days, I was truly into this "trying to activate his emotions" type of energy. I would give him space, never require to see him, letting him coming back to me mostly. Then this month he told me he was bored and told me he had no feelings for me (when I actually just told him I started to have some for him) So all in all, a man who WANTS TO FEEL AND LOVE will defintely show you from the beginning, there is nothing really to win over.
Yes but not every guy will be “the one” you end up with. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t have some good advice. Be yourself, don’t play any mind games, be you, don’t chase guys. Reciprocate and show your effort & interest & time in those who deserve it.
@@TheRealKCKay Totally this! I'm a very feminine energy woman and I find that there are a lot of feminine energy men out there. I've had lots of guys seem interested in me, I drop them hints that I'd be open to seeing a movie with them, coffee, etc when they ask me and then they don't pursue, don't follow through. It's like, why ask me out in the first place if you're not going to pursue? It took me years to realize they were all feminine energy men and they didn't mesh well with my feminine energy.
Mind blown! This hit me intensely. And as someone how is currently going through your inner work course. I definitely agree that in order to conduct everything you are saying to do in this video confidently, without it being games… the inner work course ties it all together. What a journey.
yesssssss!!! I love hearing that you’re going through the course! Make sure to share your insights with me and it helps others and helps you integrate the learnings. Good for you!!! Excited for what comes for you!😊
just show your heart but without being attached to them. be yourself radically basically, prioritise yourself, express what’s within you. A man should support his woman’s self expression, it inspires them to see a woman who is able to do so. It’s also our feminine nature to want to do that.
But maybe it's because I am not his wife and not his life partner. That's why we don't have this balance. If the man is not giving me enough, I don't want him. Find someone on your level. Don't change your feelings.
Fareen, you are a diamond! Thank you so much for the video, i found myself nodding along to everything! It's so true...i used to believe i had to be easy to be liked and couldn't understand why other women were giving their men a "hard time"! 😅 Little did i know! Also True masculine energy..i used to be afraid i wouldn't be able to "handle" it But I see now it's put in place not to be handled, but for it to handle the feminine 😮 Mind blown Thank you again sweetie! 💖🙌
@@BrooklynBaby100Men holds the ultimate card because men gives commitment which is very rarely given to women compare to women giving sex to men which is a lot easier. I agree with your comment. As a man, I am very selective towards women because of this due to the fact of a messy divorce in the future. Men has a lot to lose in a divorce situation including child custody, assets and alimony.
Could you set it up so that your inner work course can be paid off in two or three installments? I think that would be helpful for the average salary woman?
Why are humans the only species having difficulty finding a partner? Other animals just go after what they want and either get what they want, or get rejected, but they move on quickly to find someone else. Some humans just have to be difficult!
She's right. Sports. There's this coach interfering with girl/guy relationships and it's a mess. He needs to stay out of it and let it happen naturally. A coach can coach a sport, but dating is another "ball game". He's like find out who she likes, that just kills the romance. Sure he's afraid one of his players will feel "rejected" but that's over the line. The guy needs to "find out" if she likes him. Not be told before he pursues. YOur right, no pedestal. But timing is an issue. By a certain age, you need to make the effort. Okay, negative emotions, uncertainty??? for a guy? Don't be too into him.
Such a good video Fareen! When you were talk about women who overwork for a man, I literally feel this yuck feeling! Can’t believe I used to do that! So grateful for you and your coaching, love you!🩷
This is on point. Nobody listens to how men feel, so when they do, it makes a big difference. Men need to be spiritually protected as much as a woman needs to be physically protected. Idk that most would word it how i just did tho. I appreciate you. The stuff you teach, if done honestly, is exactly how you get and keep a good man.
Take the conversation lightly. When he asks you to meet him, learn not to be desperate. Learn to say NO. When you are with him, be sweet and nice. Then when you are not together, be mysterious and not available all the time.
Love is a Gift from God that is up to both upon which it is bestowed to cherish, protect and nurture. It will be tested, and if God wills it, renewed over time. That which is not of God, is not Love, and fleeting and tempestuous.
Back in the day we just followed are intuition and when it didnt work out so be it. Its better to not try to control anything. Just be , think like a philosopher. If your being what some dating expert tells you then your putting on an act.
U definitely not ugly, u even wrote "feel" ugly. Watch the movie about "Diana Vreeland the eye has to travel." No one is ugly, people are either insecure or have been abused into believing that about themselves. ❤🦄
@@fareenashofficial Hey! I don't believe that a revenge mindset is of high value. If you want to be taken seriously, then shouldn't you evaluate yourself? Thank you for listening 💞
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Women NEVER fall in love first. That is attachment, not love. Women require consistent demonstrations of integrity within and outside of the connection to fall in love. That means, it takes TIME to have those deeper feelings. If you think you've fallen in love with a man who did not earn, you haven't. It's neediness, not love.
I agree. But dealing with my guy for over 2 years and I love him dearly. Yes I do. And thats just our emotional attachment to one another. But I haven't fallen in love yet and I am aware of this. We both are ❤
Well said
@@urstrulii5932If you have been dating 2 years and haven't fallen in love, move on. That's not healthy.
Bullshit. Who are you to decide what love is, or how long it takes to feel love? Such bullshit.
Perfectly explained👌
Embrace your natural beauty, be humble, calm, polite, and hardworking. You'll attract all sorts of people.
This. This is how I try to live- not to get a man but to make genuine connections wherever I’m at and with my friends & family
Why would you want to attract ALL kind of people?😅
@@wuzetiaBecause the energy that was projected out from that "behaviour" really attracts lots of people but you have to be mindful of who you're gonna "entertain".
so will embracing your individuality and expressing yourself which’ll make you feel good as well as giving others the permission to express themselves authentically
When u are humble, men walk all over u
This hits hard. I dated someone recently who adored me at first and treated me like I was his dream girl. As time went on and I fell for him, his feelings shifted and he ended it. Utterly heartbreaking and I don't want to contribute to that dynamic and ending with a future person. I have a lot to learn!
Same fucking story 😢
Sameeeeee
It’s called fearful avoidant or avoidant attachment style…read about it, it’s quite interesting.
If you had sex - it's clear, he hit it and ran.
Maybe it’s a same guy playing with girls…I had a same story with a guy 😏😏😳
People can try to copy you but there is NOBODY quit like youuuu! You blow it out the park every time! 🎉 Love how you talked about being kind vs nice. 👏🏽💗✨
Haha I love this and YOU! Thank you’ and ya I’ll just give them a taste of their own medicine then 😝
I love you! Thank you for having my back!
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Great video, Fareen. Thank you so much! I’m grateful you heeded the call to do this work; you’re fantastic at it. I am learning so much… it’s not too late to live better at 51. Or 61, 71… and on! The pressure of the baby making years to figure this out is so intense, though. My heart is with all in that space, who are locating their deep feminine as a source of untapped power to live their heart’s dreams as women. My generation really had this info buried for us… I’m so glad to see this renaissance of feminine wisdom!
You give me big sister vibes.
I am so thankful and grateful. I have been binge watching your videos. And i am so happy that i am on the right path. 😍
Awwwww yay!! Hi!! Welcome :)
@@fareenashofficial 🤗🥰
This is all well and good, but someone showing interest in me doesn't mean I will like him. Do I feel attracted to him? do I like his personality, the way he looks, his smell, his smile, the way he talks, his lifestyle? I need all of that first to feel interested
I enjoyed this video ,wonderful and very useful content ,thank you Fareen
Such an amazing video ❤
How do we not be interested when we are then 😅 I don’t want to pretend and play games..
This is me. I cant stand being fake
Awww this is so inspiring ❤❤.
Thank you for touching a soul (me)
i agree 100% with you. you’re excellent ❤
👋🏾Hello, I’m new here! Your channel is just what I need! Love ur content and I look forward to purchasing ur products and growing more in my feminine energy! Thanks darling! 💕🤗
Hiiii!! Yay so happy you’re here!
Inverted advice if you ask me.
Men are visual, not emotional.
Same thought, everything she is saying is how to attract a woman.
So men have no emotions. Should women just stop dating men all together then?
She's speaking more about urges and impulses of scarcity more than "feelings" in order to inspire a man to chase/be interested/excited toward the woman. I just don't understand how this inspires genuine interest from a man. What do you think? I think that intention/aspect is a little different from a woman who will keep her options open until she is engaged.
What do you mean ??
@attva2348 Nobody said that. But looking at the state of women generally, I think the men (in general) have already walked away.
So pretty Fareen and wise honey ❤
Thank you :)
True❤
What about women that are not super attractive and dont have bunch of men running after them? Stay alone and wait forever?
Start being attractive and loving it. Try to detail out every aspect of your body from hair to toe and think intentionnally of how you would dream to have them and achieve the look. Exemple: dream hair black, long, shiny, goes with the shape of face. Do everything necessary to reach that goal. Then move to next part of body, face, neck, arms, fingers, nails, chest, tummy, back, butt, triangle, legs, feet, toes😊
Being attractive IS feeling attractive a healthy way. Don't over obsess. Just make it the reasonable well kept journey of loving yourself❤
Inner work
@@gabrielnadia1085 wont happen as have the sittiest hair ever, cant even grow them long.
@@katekotlarska2517 try protective style it for a whole month, clean and redo for the next month. You might need 4 months to see a change. Then it will increase as long as you do it. Keep it simple: Wash, protect, don't touch, hydrate twice a week at night. When you are at your good health and length, treat it like fine lace, tender Care and space up shampoos a lot more. As of from right now: Have your vitamins and add fresh organic oil to at least two of your daily meals.
@@gabrielnadia1085 i wish it was so easy. I thing its genetic and no doctor know how to help and they just suggest wigs...
How to even have a pool of men vying for my attention? Can't even have just one😅
Inner work! My course will help
Where are you from?
Pakistan
Ladies, high value men don't pursuit. They are the prize!
False
Never lol
You lost me at successful career woman
Sounds like the age old rule “marry a man who loves you more”
And this is how wifes cheat after
Yeah but I can't be witn a man I'm not into or kinda like just to have a man
You are into him just not as much as him. It's either that or be single for the rest of your life. The Game players the ones whom have no intention to invest will always be on the market. Ready and waiting to f*ck with your head.
You are NOT being courted by a man when you are sleeping with him. Period.
Yep.
Sounds like dating survival. A man should love you for you not the performance you put on for him. Eventually you’ll get tired and the real you will show.
That's the reason why INNER WORK is important so we can be the best version of ourselves.
That’s exactly what she’s saying
Am I the only one that truly genuinely feels like?The more I learn about men the more I don't like them.
Well honestly, after 5 months of relationship in a quite distant way as he was never calling me and texting only every 2 other days, I was truly into this "trying to activate his emotions" type of energy. I would give him space, never require to see him, letting him coming back to me mostly. Then this month he told me he was bored and told me he had no feelings for me (when I actually just told him I started to have some for him) So all in all, a man who WANTS TO FEEL AND LOVE will defintely show you from the beginning, there is nothing really to win over.
You can’t “try” you have to “be” it which comes from inner work and stems from the start of the courting process 🤍
Yes but not every guy will be “the one” you end up with. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t have some good advice. Be yourself, don’t play any mind games, be you, don’t chase guys. Reciprocate and show your effort & interest & time in those who deserve it.
It’s possible that he wasn’t a masculine man also, and wants women to chase him 🤷🏽♀️
@@TheRealKCKay Totally this! I'm a very feminine energy woman and I find that there are a lot of feminine energy men out there. I've had lots of guys seem interested in me, I drop them hints that I'd be open to seeing a movie with them, coffee, etc when they ask me and then they don't pursue, don't follow through. It's like, why ask me out in the first place if you're not going to pursue? It took me years to realize they were all feminine energy men and they didn't mesh well with my feminine energy.
You was a nice woman, you was waiting days for him to contact you, when you had to be dating multiple men and not sleept with him or anyone else.
Mind blown! This hit me intensely. And as someone how is currently going through your inner work course. I definitely agree that in order to conduct everything you are saying to do in this video confidently, without it being games… the inner work course ties it all together. What a journey.
yesssssss!!! I love hearing that you’re going through the course! Make sure to share your insights with me and it helps others and helps you integrate the learnings. Good for you!!! Excited for what comes for you!😊
PLEASE SLOW DOWN WHEN YOU ARE SPEAKING...PAUSE..GIVE US LISTENERS A CHANCE TO GRASP WHAT YOU ARE SAYING. you have good advice😊
I’ll try
Go to settings and slow down the playback speed. I do this with most videos on UA-cam.
slow down the speed 0.75
just show your heart but without being attached to them. be yourself radically basically, prioritise yourself, express what’s within you. A man should support his woman’s self expression, it inspires them to see a woman who is able to do so. It’s also our feminine nature to want to do that.
As a man, YES! A strong and determined woman is most sexy
But maybe it's because I am not his wife and not his life partner. That's why we don't have this balance. If the man is not giving me enough, I don't want him. Find someone on your level. Don't change your feelings.
Decenter men from your life 😁
Fareen, you are a diamond! Thank you so much for the video, i found myself nodding along to everything!
It's so true...i used to believe i had to be easy to be liked and couldn't understand why other women were giving their men a "hard time"! 😅
Little did i know!
Also
True masculine energy..i used to be afraid i wouldn't be able to "handle" it
But I see now it's put in place not to be handled, but for it to handle the feminine 😮
Mind blown
Thank you again sweetie! 💖🙌
yes exactly! I love these ah ha’s you receive!
Too much game! Im out!
😂😂😂 so funny life
This is nonsense. Woman chooses the guy she wants.
…sure but if he doesn’t want to be chosen by her he’ll move on eventually
@@adaora5545 yes. But same for a woman. Women are way more selective. So it’s false that men hold all the cards.
@@keithbernstein7436They hold the ultimate card 💍
@@BrooklynBaby100Men holds the ultimate card because men gives commitment which is very rarely given to women compare to women giving sex to men which is a lot easier. I agree with your comment. As a man, I am very selective towards women because of this due to the fact of a messy divorce in the future. Men has a lot to lose in a divorce situation including child custody, assets and alimony.
Could you set it up so that your inner work course can be paid off in two or three installments? I think that would be helpful for the average salary woman?
Can you slow down your talking? Thanks❤
What in the world are you saying, you are all over the place..absolutely confusing!!
Why are humans the only species having difficulty finding a partner? Other animals just go after what they want and either get what they want, or get rejected, but they move on quickly to find someone else. Some humans just have to be difficult!
She's right. Sports. There's this coach interfering with girl/guy relationships and it's a mess. He needs to stay out of it and let it happen naturally. A coach can coach a sport, but dating is another "ball game". He's like find out who she likes, that just kills the romance. Sure he's afraid one of his players will feel "rejected" but that's over the line. The guy needs to "find out" if she likes him. Not be told before he pursues. YOur right, no pedestal. But timing is an issue. By a certain age, you need to make the effort. Okay, negative emotions, uncertainty??? for a guy? Don't be too into him.
Just be hot and crazy. 😂❤
I’m tired of understanding a man and his double standards including the games he plays concerning matters of the heart.
All this and more when you get a passport!
Jack: high country Colorado!
Omgosh your an attorney???!!? Me too. I find it challenging to be in my feminine. I work with my dm. I just want to be in my feminine with him
Extremely impressive. You are intelligent. All of this is true. Never seen a video like this that’s actually all true and no bs or cliches!
You are absolutely right! How do you suggest we can give him a bit of unsafety? Also, do you think this advice applies to women over 50?
Yes it does 🤍
This is exactly how I did it with the guy I’m dating (now exclusive)
Such a good video Fareen! When you were talk about women who overwork for a man, I literally feel this yuck feeling! Can’t believe I used to do that! So grateful for you and your coaching, love you!🩷
When we start to feel that yuck feeling it means we’re growing 😍😍😍
Love this video, Fareen!
Haha I’m glad you do! Courtesy of our talks 😆😍😀🤍
@@fareenashofficial 😆🤣😆
Wow when a woman is physical it means she feels safe with him 😮
So you have to be mean and unaproachable all the time? How about if you're already in a relationship?
This works if you attractive that’s rule #1
Exactly 😂 and most of this advice doesnt work for high ranking people
Attraction is subjective and we can always work on being a better version of ourselves ❤
This is on point. Nobody listens to how men feel, so when they do, it makes a big difference. Men need to be spiritually protected as much as a woman needs to be physically protected. Idk that most would word it how i just did tho.
I appreciate you. The stuff you teach, if done honestly, is exactly how you get and keep a good man.
We're human beings , we're not perfect
Take the conversation lightly. When he asks you to meet him, learn not to be desperate. Learn to say NO. When you are with him, be sweet and nice. Then when you are not together, be mysterious and not available all the time.
Love is a Gift from God that is up to both upon which it is bestowed to cherish, protect and nurture. It will be tested, and if God wills it, renewed over time. That which is not of God, is not Love, and fleeting and tempestuous.
Great video and explanations ❤
Back in the day we just followed are intuition and when it didnt work out so be it. Its better to not try to control anything. Just be , think like a philosopher. If your being what some dating expert tells you then your putting on an act.
Well explain, excellent lesson 👏
Well said Shereene!
Keep up the great work 💐
Thank you so much!
You're talking in a way as if all people done their inner work which is the thing I don't even find people did
She is 1,000% right… from experience I can guarantee this is right…
I feel too ugly 😕 😢
no pls don't say that 😢 always be kind to yourself, love yourself, no matter what ❤
U definitely not ugly, u even wrote "feel" ugly. Watch the movie about "Diana Vreeland the eye has to travel." No one is ugly, people are either insecure or have been abused into believing that about themselves. ❤🦄
What is the Time frame that a Man will show all of him? Laying all cards down!
Has anyone read her books? Which one did you love the most?
Thank you this was very helpful.
Your very welcome
Talk slower I had to stop listening.
This was extremely helpful. Thank you!
I love listening to you 💅🏽🩷
😍🙏🤍
I looove this video! You’re beautiful Fareen! 🤍
Happy Birthday!! 😍
Thank you so much 🤗
I learned from a young age that i have to only entertain men who are way more into me than i am into him. Its almost like a rule of nature.
Yes!
What the hell
Verrryyy wise woman, male mindset
Thank you
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Happiest Fareen Day to you!! 🙏💙🌻Your insight and guidance gracious and kind! Thank you!!
Awwww thank you!!!
True
Great content, totally agreed...
Love it 🥰
I’m so glad!
I hear what you’re saying but how is this done.?
Have you read my books or gone through my course yet? They will help 🤍
I saw this title on the other coach's channel. I was so disgusted. 🤮
Yup. She’s been taking all my titles. Taste of her own medicine back.
@@fareenashofficial Hey! I don't believe that a revenge mindset is of high value. If you want to be taken seriously, then shouldn't you evaluate yourself? Thank you for listening 💞
@Dee-ahn I absolutely believe in consequences and having strength in who you are. That is not revenge. That is not being a doormat. 🤍
Love this! Such great wisdom heree ❤
Very happy to hear that!
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Happy belated birthday 😁💐💜✨
Thank you 😊
This was good advice. What if you already live with them tho? Roommate turned lover type situation 😅
You’d have to speak with me privately for your specific situation 🤍
How do i book a consultation?
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Terrible sound sorry
Priceless wisdom ❤ you are an amazing soul!
Thank you ❤😊
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Trust me ladies. When you know, you know! 🤍
Yea right lol