How to Secure a Provider Man: It's all about the CHASE!
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- Опубліковано 30 вер 2024
- Hey Trophies!
In this comprehensive guide, we reveal powerful strategies and expert tips on how to make a man chase you and ignite his desire to pursue you. Whether you're starting a new romance or looking to add some excitement to an existing one, these techniques will help you capture his attention and make him eager to pursue a deeper connection.
In this video, we cover a range of proven techniques that tap into a man's natural instincts and psychological triggers. Discover how to create an irresistible aura of mystery, build a strong sense of self-worth, and cultivate an air of confidence that will have him drawn to you like a magnet. This video will provide step-by-step guidance on:
1. Mastering the art of body language: Learn how to use subtle cues and non-verbal communication to captivate a man's interest and make him crave your presence.
2. Triggering his pursuit instinct: Uncover the key triggers that tap into a man's primal desire to pursue and conquer. We'll show you how to make him feel like he's winning you over while still maintaining your independence.
3. Maintaining a life of your own: Discover the importance of nurturing your personal passions and interests, and how it can make you even more desirable to a man. We'll show you how to strike the perfect balance between being available and creating an air of mystery.
4. Building self-confidence: Boost your self-esteem and radiate self-assurance. We'll share practical exercises and techniques to help you embrace your unique qualities and feel confident in your own skin.
Unlock the secrets to make him chase you and reignite the sparks in your love life. With these expert tips and strategies, you'll gain the confidence and knowledge to create a powerful magnetism that will make any man eager to pursue a meaningful and fulfilling relationship with you.
Subscribe now to our channel and join our community of empowered women on a journey to find love, passion, and happiness. Don't miss out on the opportunity to take control of your love life and make him chase you!
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I love this! I’m happy younger women are resting in their femininity and attracting men who will provide and care for them. I’m in the 40+ demographic and we were constantly told to prioritize career, over working ourselves and being independent to our detriment. In some regards, I can understand why some of our mothers were this way…especially if their being provided for came with a form of abuse. I appreciate this type of content because it would break my heart to see another generation of women , especially black women be used and go through some of the nonsense we went through with men because no one taught us how to properly attract and vet the best suitors. You and other level up content creators are a blessing. ❤🌷
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I hate that we as a culture aren’t taught how to properly vet and choose husbands. I’m determined my daughters will know differently ❤️ thank you for being here! 😘
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Shera would be so proud. 💜 I’m excited to see all the great content and looking forward to learning from you ❤
Thank you my love!!! I hope she tunes in one day 🥰
Who is shera???
@@sc6975sheraseben my love, here on UA-cam!!! Get into it!
@@sc6975look up shera seven❤
@@sc6975 A UA-camr who promotes women to have self-respect and thus be with men who provide and respect her.
I really like how poised you are and the way you talk. Your voice is so soothing lol I agree with the advice you provided in this video. Thank you 💕
Awww thanks babe for the kind words ❤️You’re the first person to tell me this! Glad you’re here 😘
Seriously she is so amazing her and shera need to go on tour hunnty❤🎉
So happy to be a Trophy! 🏆 Gang gang lol
This is right on time Sis! 🙏🏾
I’m excited for your content Queen!👑
And genuinely so happy for your growth.🥰
It’s up from here! 🥳💅🏾💗✨
Thank you so much Babe!!! 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
There are three types of male strategies
1. The Hunter: We approach several women, one at a time, But we are talking to 7 to 10 women and we are chasing all of them to see which ones give us the most of what we want. We will never be faithful or mongomous because hunting is hard work so we never turn it off we always are in the mode to hunt even after we got you. We are always looking for new conquest.
2. The Net Caster: He too is not monogamous. But unlike the hunter he is not open to one night stands, He is not constantly chasing multiple women. He will cast a wide net, To catch the females who match with him He will have a rotation of women maybe no more than 2 or 3 that he really likes, While Hunters usually have 10 to 15 women they are sexual with. His motto is there are always more fish in the sea.
3. The Bait: The man who is Trapper ie his appearance, intellect, grooming, style and body is bait to women. He is not easily impressed and he is hard to get, except for a woman who is his type. This man is usually the monogamous type or serial monogamous. He doesn't really trip off women like that, sex is no biggie to him. Because every day in his inbox on social media, at work, at college or just at places he goes were people can be social and interact he is getting offered women left and right. Even at church the church ladies are trying to get him in couples group to arrange connections for a wife . He is not in a hurry to find a wife or even be in a relationship. He has a type or a Standard. He is not picky, he is just not EASY. When a woman of his inner dreams pursues him he comes alive and immediately states his intentions for her. He will not make her wait for SEX like the Hunter will because he has way too many options to vet at one time.
he wil move faster sexually because he doesnt have a rotationof women, most times he is celibate. He focuses on self care, self improving. He has no time to be chasing or hunting or being a fisher of women casting wide nets. Simply because he is bogged down with all the women who approach him on regular basis. Unlike the Hunter, He doesnt have alot options in rotation, He is not interested in entertaining a bunch of different woman, He just wants one woman in his life.
Unlike the hunter, the Bait is more prone to marriage, The man who chases never really settlesdown, you can't turn off the thrill of the hunt, The thrill of the chase is eternal. But a man who attracts women or as they say allures. Doesnt have a need for a bunch of different woman, When he finds one woman who is his ideal.
He is satisfied. An has no need or desire for multiple women. He doesnt have time for more than one woman because, he gives his all to just one.
A man who is chaser or hunter is going to do the bare minium. Because he is always meeting new women.
A man who cast his net wide, is also not gonna give his all to any one woman he will divide his time up evenly and schedule times for each of his few women
A man who is Bait. Not a hunter, and Not a fisher. Will ultimately go for the woman who is up to par. He will be so enamoured with her he will adorn her with love and committment.
Hmmm 🤔 definitely an interesting take
@@eleganceevolved8328 thank you indeed
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@@eleganceevolved8328 I'm hunter I got a rotation of girls for the last two decades
@@omekeifunanya9091 zeero
You are super pretty, I’m on my journey to find my provider now too🎉, stepping into my feminine and dressing classier
You got this! He’s on his way ❤️😘
You’re so gorgeous! Hair and makeup is on point 👏🏾
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I like how real and practical you your advice is. Everything has to be impeccable! These men pay attention to everything with a fine-tooth comb. I have experienced this. It’s annoying but we can do that to when we run background checks.
Thank you love!! 😘
Being a divorced single mom of 4 dating has extremely difficult!
I’ve running into men with the red pill /manosphere rhetoric it’s exhausting
Look amazing. Don't go to dusty areas.
Keep going babe! ❤️ I feel like most older men aren’t into that whole red pill thing
Stop lady! My friend was depressed was a teen mom had two kids from a diffrent men was always getting abused years later she got married and a new child! Dusty men are delusional usually ppl in their late 20s 30s 40s and 50s have children!
You mentioned my name at the end! OMG! Thanks for answering my question! I think you’re right! I’ve been fit for many years now and definitely leveled up my clothes hair and makeup, but still struggle with low self esteem for some reason. It’s illogical. Thank you for your advice!
No problem, my love ❤️ excited to hear how the tips worked for you! 🏆✨😘
You can listen to subliminal affirmations to boost your self esteem
I just found your videos as a mom of 2 this is inspirational ❤
Thank you babe ❤️ there’s so few quality women, that they will become more and more accepting of us women with children. They’ll do anything if they want you bad enough 😉😘
I really like how slowly you talk and calmly take your time to communicate your message softly, it’s so relaxing and helps me slow down in my soft feminine ☺️🎀💅🏻 thank you for your content xxx
Ladies don’t send pictures to males your photo holds a lot of information and invest in a pre paid phone from Walmart or target don’t give out real numbers pay cash when putting data etc on it (text free apps aren’t good either btw )
New subscriber ! Love the channel….
You remind me of Ziva 😊
Thanks babe 🥰😘
Love your videos, please keep them coming! Love when say “minus 10 points” lol makes you memorable…
Yes, that’s her thing sprinkle sprinkle
😂thank you babe! 😘
LMFAO.. wasnt sure this video is serious or some funny parody. However, as a man this is the type of woman my mother warned me about. Its sad society has turned this way. A logical man will not even bother about women like this.
Ladies, just be genuine and get your things sorted and the man will follow.
UA-cam algorithm suggested your videos and shorts before I became a subscriber. Your channel name, set up and look is perfect!
Aww thank you so much for the positive feedback 🥰😘
When I was younger, I wanted my name to be Crystal too! 😂😂
Why is that such a good name?! 😩😂
all we shera seven watchers have a lot in common but one trait is highly common 😂 is the “okayyy?? 💅🏽💀🌝🤭🤭” ❤❤❤ SPRINKLE SPRINKLE 💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽💅🏽
Lmaooo so true!! 🤣😘
💖What are the perfumes that you ladies have the most complements from guys?
I've been watching a lot of videos about perfumes men love on women, so here's a little list of some fragrances and how the men described them:
- Angel Muse by Mugler “Smells like a mystery.”
- Mon Guerlain by Guerlain “Smells like a wife. The woman you’ll never leave.”
- Elicit by Jimmy Choo “Very beautiful, you smell like a clean, elegant lady. Big compliment getter.”
- My Way by Armani “The word ‘beautiful’ comes to mind. Instantly makes you smile.”
- Idole by Lancome “Pleasing to be around. Mature and classic.”
- Decadence by Marc Jacobs “If you were in the presence of a queen, that’s what it would smell like.”
- Cloud by Ariana grande “Smells like the mother of my children.”
- Blouse by YSL “A bright, fun, sexy, head turner.”
Try looking for more reviews of perfumes men love, buy sample sizes and experiment with those. Although the risk with popular, mainstream perfumes is that you might end up reminding a man of his ex or his sister/mom. So look into layering a mainstream fragrance with a skin scent like Molecule 01 by Ecsentrics or Missing Person by Phlur. Those amplify your own natural pheromones and can give you a truly unique smell that attracts men on a biological level.
Awesome answer, 🎉 thank you so much!
@@Celestialdoing 🙏🫶🩷Thank you love
Subscribed after seeing your shorts video on assets. Ladies remember to put some effort into yourselves because trophy wives always look good
I’ve made it so easy for him. I’ve been very attentive & very flirty but also I’ve been pushing him away which in turn makes me feel bad and I end up apologizing (I have an anxious attachment style) Any tips on making him chase? Or is it too late?
Find something you enjoy to keep you distracted from him. This way he can miss your energy. Once he starts chasing again, Rest in your femininity and don’t go back 😘
Work on your attachment style sis. If not those issues will constantly pop up please understand this. I have had similar issues with my attachment style and it's cute in the beginning but once the mind gets to doing it's thing then the thoughts become intrusive and now you're awkward when you're around him and I'm sure you know the rest 😂
Minus 10 points 🤣🤣 my new reminder to keep myself in check, thank you for this!
Very nice video and you look so pretty. But just some kind advice, avoid the lip smacking. Its distracting and off putting but other than that I enjoyed the video
Lol, well received 😂 I believe it’s a symptom of my nervousness. Still getting comfortable with recording ❤️
@@thenewtrophywife gotcha I cam understand that
Just came across your video. Wow, such great advice and oh so true! I dated this type and what you are describing, all of these things do count. The thing though is you have to keep it up and make it part of who you are for the rest of your life. These types as soon as they see a falter later on, can dump you like a hot potato.
Yes! Leveling up and keeping him chasing is a lifestyle, even after marriage ❤️😘
It’s crazy this guy I assumed was a net caster is transitioning into Bait. We’re friends but he’s leaning in and preparing to lean in. I feel watched and observed constantly and he always asks if I’m seeing anyone.
He deleted 50% of his ig and wiped the past! He is not slick
👑 Queen Isis,Thankyou ... I just subscribed & I do subscribe to Shera too. 🥰 I Lo♡e your channel & you have made me start improving myself ... I'm trying to make changes to implement all your tips.
Thank you babe, I’m so glad you like the content! 🥰😘
Are u n ziva sisters
Lol I was wondering the same thing when I saw her 😆
Rich men cant find true luv..
New subbie, looking forward to your channel growing and more gems being dropped :)
Thank you for subscribing, and yes more to come! 🥰😘
I love this talk ..this reminded me of one time we had a girl's night out so we used one of my friend's cars and it broke down haha. I had to use my engineering skills to fix the car ..with the tools available ..ha ha ha to cut the story short when we went out people were always asking can you smell diesel ha ha ha omg 🤣🤣🤣 crazy night I must admit
Not smelling like diesel 😂😂😂 lmao!!!
Lollll youre so funny 😂 love it I love the tips and advice. I gave too much of my time and not giving enough insecurity. I will do better with the other who will come my way. Love your composure and overall vibe ahaha. Really good !
Thank you my love! ❤️ so glad you’re here 🏆✨😘
Love your content. Immediately followed 💕
I'm in a conundrum.. so I've secured a financially secure provider type man who's alot older however we're still in the courting stage. when do I actually go from dating casually to sleeping with him. I'm taking things slowly 🐌 but I'm thinking if it's too slow he could lose interest. We've had serious talks on long term commitment ect and he seems to say all the right things and jokes frequently about him buying us a new home ect ... I'm not falling for words yet. What do i do?! 😂
Tell him that you want to be sure that you are going to be committed to marriage before you take that step. Wait until he is asking you for it.
Tell him that you aren't ready because you are not sure that your heart is safe.
Gotta love how this 20-something knowitalls come to give you life advice. "Don't tell your date what you actually do for a living. Much better if you lie to him". Yeah, what great advice.
You know how you've met a good man/woman? When he doesn't give a fuck about what you do for a living but what kind of a person you are. I couldn't care less whether you're a CEO or a maid as long as you are a good person and have a job. Jesus fuck shit like this drives me up the wall.
Uber black always 💋🤌
U and ziva are twins omg 😊😮
This is horrible advice, pls don't listen to this nonsense. Just be you and the best of you will attract options. You choose who you want accordingly after
Please 🙏 share wht type of body shimmer do you use for glowing ✨️ skin. You glow my beautiful 😍 🎀🩷 I'm loving your channel
I will show you what skin products I love in the next video! ❤️😘
Less than two wks later and you now have close to 3k subbies
NEW SUBSCRIBER ✅ AMAZING! Keep up the great work 👍🏾
Thank you Babe 🥰😘
Omg I’ve been binging your content girl and I just can’t get enough lol these are such great tips!! Some of these I’ve never even thought before with the man and being mysterious with them! Omg I’m so excited to try these tips on a future date!!
as a woman and SAHM married to a provider I 100% agree
I say I work part time at dental office 😆 doing dental insurance
Your mic sounds underwater a bit
I just found your channel and I want to say you are so beautiful I’m in love with your energy !!!
what's the app to do a background check?
10/10 video!
Thanks babe!! 🥰
So happy I found you before you blow up big ❤
Aww thanks you my love 😘
I’m not going to lie about my age or be dodgy about it. I’m 37 and I like my age. I don’t understand this thing about it being rude even for children to guess
Mystery is always more intriguing 😘
You are goals! Love your content.
Thank you Trophy! I’m so glad you’re here! 🥰
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You’re the goddess sister i never had I LOVE YOU ❤️
Aww Thank you My Love! 🥹🥰
The men r god!
Her mouth
Just found your channel today!! Omg what UA-cam has been missing!! So pretty pls don’t stop content🍒❣️
I like this advice, I just wish it wasn’t a game or strategy. I just want to fall in love and be loved and taken care of. I can be genuinely ME and he can be himself and that works for US.
So beautiful and just genuinely pleasant to watch. I'm happy for you girl
rewatching your content and you're at 15.4k subscribers now. the growth has been beautiful to see!
You look gorgeous and thank you for sharing
Thank you for being here! 😘
This doesn't really work for 2 reasons : 1) any man that knows his value isn't into chasing women. Additionally, any man that has value , has options (and any woman who has good looks has options). Which brings me to 2) when women are chased, they become arrogant and begin to look at a man as being weak with no options . Instead, they should just appreciate being pursued (especially by a man they find attractive) ..but then again, with social media, how can you appreciate being pursued when it comes a dime a dozen ?
All of these games we play is really sad and the entire demographic needs therapy
Ladies, if you want a man: be different . Don't be a carbon copy of other girls you see on Instagram . Plastic surgery, 75% naked post, random pictures of you in Dubai (EXTRA RED FLAG) , cliché comments etc is detrimental to your chances. Do your own thing. Know yourself enough and have realistic standards about who you are and how you look. Be grounded in reality , and DO NOT BRING CHAOS into another mans life.
STOP LOOKING FOR UPGRADES (always wanting more is a sign of being ungrateful and unhappy within)
IF YOU LIKE THE GUY THAT YOU HAVE AND HE'S THE BEST YOU'VE EVER GOTTEN , stick with him.
She has the ring though and you don’t. Lmfao.
@@karisima6060 I’m the one with access to the ring - how can you figure what I have based on a comment ? 🤡🐥
@karisima6060 exactly very sad she has a hater! Sometimes u have to listen to people who have it all together!
Why should we stick with a guy? Nothing wrong with wanting more that's like saying be grateful u have a minium wage job
@@durgalakshmi2793 You're not paying attention : I said, "if he's the BEST that YOU can get" after stating being REALISTIC with yourself (meaning most women overrate themselves as '10's' when they're not)
The 2nd flaw in your statement is : when does getting better stop?
It doesn't
You can have a rich, good looking guy with good s3x and a nice body, and compatible in every way, but still want "something better"..then you leave what you have to get another guy who actually isn't 'something better'--all bc of your unrealistic selfish needs of always wanting more.
A perfect analogy : Thats like hitting the jackpot in a casino and then pressing your luck and gamble yourself back to broke.
Greed is a cardinal sin for a reason . Temper and control your desire for more or you'll be put in a position to lose it all
U remind of the old Carrie b before all her surgery
You and your background are both so beautiful I love taking notes from beautiful feminine women
What’s the app called for the background check?
You look like a classy version of cardi b and I love cardi di.
😂 I get this a lot!
Can you do a video on how to be more confident please 🙏🏽 I get shy around men 😂
At 105 she may be underweight depending on her height. The look to go for is "healthy".
Any suggestions for good quality/classic/femenine dresses 👗 🎀🩷
Wrap dresses are a great way to start. They are versatile, appropriate for most occasions and complement most figures
Macy’s have some good dresses.
@@PrettyStraightforwardBudgets Thank you 🫶beautiful 🎀🩷
@xpnn any store suggestions 🎀🩷?
@Rachelle707 do u think shein is good and any other stores?
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You are so gorgeous girl! 😍
Thank you so much my love 🥰😘
The minivan 😂😂😂
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I love your content. I was literally taking notes on this video. Thank you so much
Thank you, I'm so glad! ❤️
Name of the app, please! 😊
The Uber story 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Preach sister- into wanting provider not dusty
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
I love this content new subscriber!❤
You nailed it Queen 👸🏻 🌹
Men: "Never pursue a woman that doesn't have genuine burning desire for you"
Women: "Pretend to not have desire for him"
How is that working out for you ladies?😆
Worked for me. Happily married and my husband perused me.
@@MariaLiLV Fair enough. Congratulations!
Men try harder when you are polite but don't give them your full attention. They need the chase because the good ones despise easy women.
@@natashadickson4819 Okay and you want someone that wants you to pretend like you don't want him and play games instead of being your authentic self?
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
“This like nasty mini van shows up, embarrassing us” 🤣
LMAO 😆😆🙃
Hello beautiful! Interesting video… I totally enjoyed it. New sub❤️
Thanks for subbing! 😘
This is a master class.
❤. What to do if you been with him for 3 years and have a baby together and you want him to marry you?
My name is Erika.
Thanks for the video
By the way we have a 20 year age gap.
I just turned 28 he just turned 48!
He got me a house but still hasn’t proposed to me.
Please HELP!❤
Do you guys ever talked about the topic? What he said?
@@caribbean9829In passing. Not a topic we really discuss. But he told me he wants to. I don’t know what he means by that cause I’m still here waiting for a ring 💍
Provider men don't get you pregnant without a ring and marriage honey, you picked the wrong target. 😢
@@iistrawberrimuffinzii perhaps
@monachopsis5622 thank you 🙏🏽
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Thank you for starting your channel. I am so happy to get my hands on to this precious gold mine. 🙏 Quick question, how do you communicate to a man when you're only interested in being a wife and not a girlfriend? Thank you
Pretend that’s the way you were raised 😆😘 “my family taught me that exclusivity was only for marriage” ❤️
Pleaseee try not to smack your lips so much, good lord girl lol
Subscribed ❤
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Love this advice ❤! Now please share where to meet wealthy men with exotic luxury cars or places where you suggest going. We know you snagged your husband on eharmony girl but let us know other places 😅✨💗🙏🏿
Go shopping in affluent areas while looking good, girl you’d be surprised how many millionaires I’ve met at Walmart 😆😘
The more impressed you are the longer you need to wait to be ina relationship with him. Gems💎
No man of means is doing this.
As if you would know🙄😒
No man of means is taking time going on women’s spaces negging them. So you just told on yourself 😂
They do she is telling the truth. You have to remember what YOU wont do another man will. Men with money go after what they want how else did they make their money?
@MariaLiLV Now with drizzle drizzle. Men with money now know women just see them as wallet,insurance, and laborers😂. If you ain't providing what you are asking for from a man, just pass. That providing and protecting would be no more in few years to come because as modern women say, cooking and cleaning shouldn't be a defined gender role. They forgot to add providing and protecting as well 😂😂.
Providing for a modern woman in the west in 2024 is a scam. Dont fall for what they say. They only trick you into believing they will follow and submit to a provider and a protector. But the trick is, Providing and protecting would be in their discretion because they will some day leave and say, you were good but not good enough or you were leading them to trenches when you don't do what they like. And at that point, you would be screwed because you might loose kids to her, pay child support, alimony and potentially half of your stuff. They are the ones leading because, you have to play according to their rules. You are just a shield to them. Guys, don't let them deceive you into, real men do this or real men do that. It is a tool they have used for years. The only difference is, women in those days were worth taking the risk and there were no laws incentivising them to divorce. Beware of the scam.
Little girl vibes -_-
I just subscribed- I like your titles and content , but please don’t do the ‘sucking lips ‘ or breath sucking / lip smacking stuff , it’s a turn off & seems so fake compared to your great topics and opinions . This sort of thsp thsp sound that some women do when they want to appear special or beautiful. You don’t need it because your insights are enough 💖🙏🏽
I remember that app 😂it was FREE!!!!
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