I Want a Girlfriend - Here's the Easy Way to Get One!

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  • @t28mcd
    @t28mcd 2 місяці тому +126

    I'd like a girlfriend. I think my wife might object though. 😅

    • @ΔημήτρηςΗλιάδης-ε6γ
      @ΔημήτρηςΗλιάδης-ε6γ Місяць тому +2

      Well thats the comment i ve been looking for!!!!😂😅😂😅

    • @rbspider
      @rbspider Місяць тому +1

      My wife wanted a boyfriend , she got one , two , three , four ...... I was asked to move out because she was going to be busy.

  • @iceice0000
    @iceice0000 2 місяці тому +64

    This guy is legit. I have ZERO experience with women, think of myself as rather boring and uninteresting towards them, yet, while I applied his technique 4 years ago, I got my first date. And I'm not gonna lie and bs and say I got laid with her and all that - I'm still new to the game and inexperienced, and eventually the girl lost feelings for me, left me and got married. But applying his technique, Im proud I got myself a first date (for someone who has been single and barely hit first base with women for 27 years). Now Im back listening to him and trying to re-apply and sharpen my skills that eventually one day, I can say I'm someone's boyfriend.

    • @bobbyj-x7v
      @bobbyj-x7v Місяць тому +6

      "eventually one day, I can say I'm someone's boyfriend." - No, so that someday a beautiful woman can say, "He's my man/boyfriend". You need to change your inner beliefs as much as you go out and sprout your lines and attitude. Try affirmations.

    • @matthewwarren7879
      @matthewwarren7879 Місяць тому

      quiting porn for real will help you. when porn is no longer taking care of you you will lose fear. im fat af. 6ft 390lbs small dick not rich and kinda ugly with a cleft lip. im doing great with women. i stopped using porn and now im able to confidently hold eye contact, i don't feel nervous. i find that when im watching her face when i talk to her im able to see how she reacts to me. i interact with women openly and without fear. seriously for me quitting porn changed my life. im 35 and im banging a 20 year old hottie. shes seriously on looks alone an 8. easily the hottest woman ive ever slept with. shes 5'3 100lbs. my arms are bigger than her thighs. she loves how strong i am how funny i am, she loves how i carry myself and is attracted to me. quit porn dude im telling you it will change your life. im currently using a dumb flip phone and have been since mar 24. I truely don't care if women like me or not. im gonna shoot my shot somehow. I only lose if i don't talk to them.

  •  2 місяці тому +76

    Best advice I've heard in this video is GET REAL and ditch your dating apps. The main requirement after this is COURAGE. Remember courage is needed for a short amount of time when approching a women, regrets lasts forever.

  • @richarddietz2659
    @richarddietz2659 Місяць тому +42

    20 years ago we had Johnny Cash , Steve Jobs and Bob Hope ...now we have no cash , no jobs and no hope ....God please don't ever take Dan Bacon .

  • @LaMarmotaJuguetona
    @LaMarmotaJuguetona Місяць тому +21

    is impossible, i get rejected no matter what

  • @roser8911
    @roser8911 2 місяці тому +136

    Listen to this dude. He’s smart!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +22

      Thanks Rose 👍

    • @johnbul6920
      @johnbul6920 2 місяці тому +4

      You’re smart too rose

    • @Powersproductions130
      @Powersproductions130 2 місяці тому +59

      @@johnbul6920you need to rewatch the video bud. 😂

    • @TreGC69
      @TreGC69 2 місяці тому +12

      @@Powersproductions130😂😂

    • @likashing100
      @likashing100 2 місяці тому +4

      ​@Powersproductions130 greatest coment I read today

  • @samidekash
    @samidekash 2 місяці тому +15

    Such valuable advice once again. Truely the most straight-out videos on this topic.

  • @mohamadrezaie3276
    @mohamadrezaie3276 2 місяці тому +11

    im 29yo and never had girlfriend im gonna find my onest girlfriend thanks you

  • @deodorodafonseca8035
    @deodorodafonseca8035 Місяць тому +6

    I have watched several of your videos and they are very helpful. Thanks for making them. At the same time I feel sorry for several gentlemen writing their comments on their experiences with women. So many have little to no experience and are helpless, nonetheless I respect and understand all of them. They are true soldiers. We men grow up without guidance on so many important topics in society like, relationships, healthcare and financial success. Women can be hard to deal with and figure it out. It doesn't stop there, maintaining a woman in a relationship can also be a challenge.

  • @rivercatch8216
    @rivercatch8216 2 місяці тому +26

    Dans quote at 7:25 into the video is simple and very important to build up to. "What women really want. The feeling they are looking for is they really want to feel like they are attracted to you but they still have to impress you in order to be your girlfriend".

  • @rivercatch8216
    @rivercatch8216 2 місяці тому +10

    These simple methods of being much more confident have helped me improve my life in many aspects in such a short amount of time. I will also add that assertively taking care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally will make your suggestions work even better! Thanks again Dan for improving many others lives in such a simplistic way!

  • @BlckJack123
    @BlckJack123 2 місяці тому +16

    The reason that Dan Bacon's material is so powerful is because you are giving a woman the feelings she really wants to feel.

    • @zonefreakman
      @zonefreakman Місяць тому

      I think I'm really starting to understand now. We're not on trial in front of women or something. She just needs to get to a point of feeling comfortable with us because lets be honest, they are the weaker sex. It's not meant to be demeaning to women, it's just that they are far more at risk with sex than men are so they need to be more careful and do those s*it tests.

  • @Nocturnallybornstealers
    @Nocturnallybornstealers Місяць тому +4

    I think he is right. I had one that (after only phone sexing her) said she was on her knees begging me to marry her. Pretty much as he explains. She is my match though. That doesn't happen with all of them . Love her too.

  • @Ranjitzu
    @Ranjitzu 23 дні тому

    Damn Dan, another video you nailed - I see why I failed last time on how you explain in this video about it! 😅 Thanks, great video again!

  • @VladislavBabbitt
    @VladislavBabbitt 2 місяці тому +6

    I have never used any dating app at any time.

    • @avve9001
      @avve9001 2 місяці тому +2

      You haven't missed out on much. It's easier to find a girl irl.

  • @castontbeston
    @castontbeston 2 місяці тому +5

    You're the best.Dan😎

  • @cocobolooooooooo
    @cocobolooooooooo Місяць тому +1

    That was *GOLD*

  • @glennriley6699
    @glennriley6699 2 місяці тому +28

    I've never had success with women. Thing is I am in the best physical shape of my life, can run an hour to two hours on the treadmill, still have energy to pump weights. I have a strong martial arts background, amongst so many other skills. The thing is, my friend, who is nowhere near as physically athletic and skilled, slightly overweight, has had multiple girlfriends. He told me it is because I am too intense and focused on being an ironman/superman, that it turns them off, intimidates them, that I should just try talking to them instead of trying to look powerful.

    • @robertFat804
      @robertFat804 2 місяці тому +6

      You may want to try dance classes. You won't need to focus on chatting so much!

    • @senectarius9685
      @senectarius9685 2 місяці тому

      Great Tipp. I can recommend it too. Especially if you have a fight sport background. Best sport to complement dancing skills ​@@robertFat804

    • @zonefreakman
      @zonefreakman Місяць тому

      I'm really happy that guys are coming around to Dan's perspective and are leaving behind that sigma, lone wolf mentality. It doesn't mean you need to stop doing what you are doing in your life and being successful. But yeah with women I think it's so much more about having fun with them, being playful rather than trying to impress them with how serious we might be.

    • @StuJones-gn7te
      @StuJones-gn7te Місяць тому

      If you can get them to talk with you, you can get the rest with wit and charm. But you have to know what to say.

  • @mohammedshinwari6154
    @mohammedshinwari6154 2 місяці тому +2

    Truly a legend forever ❤ i love you M. ALI

  • @Black66
    @Black66 2 місяці тому +3

    Great video! Confident funny edgy detached

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +2

      Cheers. Glad you enjoyed it! 👍

  • @MrTuberguber
    @MrTuberguber Місяць тому +3

    I think a lot of your success is attributed to having the name Bacon.

  • @truthbetold6496
    @truthbetold6496 2 місяці тому +1

    Dan what you are saying is true, Online dating were the last resort of humanity is you see this all the time you are judge by your pictures that is it, even if you have the best written profile the women will only check your pictures, its a huge waste of time, I am 52 but even in my forties when going out with friends I had younger women come talk to me, yes i am tall 6 feet and built and also dress well, but I failed online dating.
    I guess with age comes life experience too I have been single for a long time, and met a few women at my age i don't go out that much anymore. But its better to meet face to face then that stupid online dating stupidity

  • @mubashirafridi8085
    @mubashirafridi8085 2 місяці тому +3

    First one to comment in my life 😂
    @Dan Do you reply yourself to emails on your website or assistant?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +4

      My assistant replies to emails. I reply to comments here for the first few hours after a video is posted. I sometimes come back and reply to comments days later. Cheers, Dan

  • @dddesigns4318
    @dddesigns4318 2 місяці тому +6

    You...Are Changing mens Lives.........

  • @paulbrown2532
    @paulbrown2532 2 місяці тому +28

    I'm 51 and still a loser with women, celibate for years and forever will be, I absolutely hate my miserable life

    • @JohnTaylor-bd1uy
      @JohnTaylor-bd1uy Місяць тому

      With that shit attitude you will die a virgin!

    • @BlckJack123
      @BlckJack123 Місяць тому +1

      Then you really need to listen to Dan Bacon!

    • @Storytimeandconfessions
      @Storytimeandconfessions Місяць тому

      😢

    • @ashinthewind2759
      @ashinthewind2759 Місяць тому

      It can still change, today

    • @lambo2655
      @lambo2655 Місяць тому +8

      Same I'm 59 and still shy around women. I never approach or talk to them because of too much anxiety. Never had a GF, experienced a passionate kiss or sex with a woman. I'm early retired and I fear I'll die alone 😢

  • @behindthespotlight7983
    @behindthespotlight7983 Місяць тому +2

    0:36 daaaaang bro 🥵🥵

  • @oiloil7083
    @oiloil7083 2 місяці тому +2

    True about dating apps. I was trying to approach girls in real life and 6th attempt gives me relationships

  • @jeffclydecainong2444
    @jeffclydecainong2444 2 місяці тому

    Thanks, I can do it

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +3

      Definitely. Don't doubt yourself. Millions of guys got a girlfriend today somewhere in the world. Why not you? You can do it. Cheers, Dan

  • @goncaloboleto6203
    @goncaloboleto6203 2 місяці тому +6

    Listening to Dan is like playing Duke Nukem 3D with cheat codes

  • @chibuezejerry2002
    @chibuezejerry2002 2 місяці тому +5

    Fantastic video Dan. I have a question I want you to treat.
    If you're talking with a girl you've not had sex with yet but you're making her feel attracted to you, but you're always the one texting first and calling and she doesn't text you first and sometimes can come online and leave a one line text, does it mean that she's not interested in you? And how do you make a girl call you first or text you first.

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +5

      It's usually after kissing, or sex that women start to pursue more. Prior to then, you just have to accept that some women will want to see that you're confident enough to pursue and make something happen, as well as interested enough. She knows that a guy will sleep with her if she opens up to it, but will he remain interested if she's not throwing that at him? Will he remain confident? Also, if you're only texting - switch to voice texts (so she can hear your confidence), or call her when she replies with a one line text - take things to the next level. Watch this playlist of my texting videos for more tips: ua-cam.com/video/spCdxFxuFIg/v-deo.html Cheers, Dan

  • @Nehpets1701G
    @Nehpets1701G 2 місяці тому +11

    Interesting insights.
    Just curious about something..
    You mention you’ve been in a committed relationship with the same woman for over twelve years.
    If you compare what the dating scene was like just before you met her versus the dating scene now that your coaching clients are experiencing , what are the biggest differences?
    Is it easier now, harder now - or much the same?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +47

      It's definitely easier now. Reasons why:
      1) Men are less confident and masculine now, so if you know how to have and display those traits, women feel magnetically attracted to you and know that it will be a long time before they come across another guy like that. As a result, they are more obviously interested and willing to give a phone number, kiss, go on a date.
      2) Casual sex is much more accepted now than it was back then.
      3) An increasing number of men are virgins now and have no idea how to attract women. So, when you do know how to attract women, their face lights up and it's so obvious that they are interested.
      4) Millions of men have been negatively brainwashed by the negative content they've seen on UA-cam and TikTok, leading them to assume that all women are disgusted by men, picky, unapproachable, etc. As a result, even less men approach women. So, when you walk up and say hi and know how to attract her, it's exciting for the woman. I've literally had many members with ZERO experience picking up women getting sex on the first night they go out to meet women.
      5) 20-25 year old women are even easier for me to attract these days. It's just so hard for them to come across a guy who isn't afraid, anxious, insecure. They sense your confidence and it's magnetic.
      6) Most guys are wasting time on dating apps and thinking that they're not good enough. As a I showed in the video, only 9% of people use dating apps and approximately 70%ish of the users are men. If you use dating apps, you are competing with tens of thousands of men for the same woman. Most guys don't realize that and assume women don't like them.
      The members of my community have been getting instant results when talking to women in person. More info here (including screenshots of their success stories that they've posted within the community): www.masterattraction.com/lessons
      It's definitely easier now. No doubt.

    • @Nehpets1701G
      @Nehpets1701G 2 місяці тому +3

      ​@@DanBacon_ Excellent reply - thanks for the insights 👍

    • @neilbradley
      @neilbradley 2 місяці тому +5

      @@DanBacon_ You helped me considerably with The Flow, Dan - thank you. And oddly, I'll underscore your #1 above. I get the comment "You're so masculine!" with the overwhelming majority of my dates, and my current GF likes that I'm "manly". I had no idea what they were talking about or why this was an issue, but apparently it is!

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +8

      That's so good to hear Neil. Well done man! There's nothing better for me to hear back from men like you who've learned what I teach and then actually implemented it. 99% of guys who watch my channel will never try this stuff, so they will never know. Thank you for sharing what it's like when you do. Enjoy the great times ahead man! It only gets better from where you are now. Cheers, Dan 👍

    • @mindsetmotivation9124
      @mindsetmotivation9124 2 місяці тому

      Point #4 is huge. Unfortunately its also sad that men get kicked down this much. Cheers 🍷​@@DanBacon_

  • @RP-hx1ch
    @RP-hx1ch 2 місяці тому +2

    Hey Dan, was wondering if you have any advice on the best way (attractive way) to start a conversation through instagram with a girl I like, so that I can keep her engaged and keep the conversation moving or any tips for that app?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +1

      On IG, if you message a woman, the first thing she does is check your profile. You need to have good pics, evidence of a lifestyle, evidence that you're not a lonely guy, etc. If you have that, great. If not, you have to fix that first.
      Regarding starting the text conversation and keeping it going, I provide examples for that in Text Attraction: store.themodernman.com/text_attraction.html or you can watch my free playlist of texting videos here: ua-cam.com/video/spCdxFxuFIg/v-deo.html

  • @user-pb2jm2ei7v
    @user-pb2jm2ei7v 2 місяці тому +1

    Is it possible to do and apply this if you're already in a year long relationship? How can I integrate this if I missed it

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому

      Yes, but she will test to see if your newfound confidence is real. If it is, then she will begin to respect you and appreciate you more and will be happy that she feels that way. If your confidence isn't real, then she will lose respect for the act that you were trying to trick her with. To make it 100% real, you need to have the kind of confidence I teach in the first lesson here: www.masterattraction.com/lessons

  • @Jmanrocks321
    @Jmanrocks321 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey @DanBacon you need to do a video on how to get rid of a girl that youve been dating...or how to tell them you arent ready to settle down but still want to keep them around. All the skills learned from your experience is great but now what do i do with all the women who like me without being an asshole

    • @mohamadrezaie3276
      @mohamadrezaie3276 2 місяці тому +1

      just act like a nice guy because needy she will run

  • @chlovado
    @chlovado 2 місяці тому +29

    What about 1 Wife, 1 Girlfriend and 1 Mistress?

    • @ANUNNAKI19
      @ANUNNAKI19 2 місяці тому +12

      😂😂😂 $$$ Expensive!😮

    • @Nehpets1701G
      @Nehpets1701G 2 місяці тому +3

      That's Oligarch game 🎮

    • @mikaeljonsson4686
      @mikaeljonsson4686 2 місяці тому

      Sounds like a triple PITA... 🤪🤪🤪

    • @RKHBLD
      @RKHBLD 2 місяці тому +2

      That math works out!

    • @Colintrevoh16
      @Colintrevoh16 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂really bruh

  • @CarstenMoreno
    @CarstenMoreno 2 місяці тому +2

    All awesome points that Dan made! When I go out to the bars/clubs, while I tend to hesitate approaching women that are a "10" or near a 10 by looks, I also hesitate to approach women that don't dress really attractive. For example, I'm NOT into the baggy 90s era style jeans that are so popular with gen z women and girls right now. However, if I just approach them, make them feel attracted and I do get to go out with them, MAYBE I can talk them into wearing something else haha! I can't guarentee they'll change their dressing habits, but I can try! I think I should stop thinking that a lot of these "10" women are out of my league. Also, if I do go out with one of these gen z chicks that wear the baggy 90s jeans, just like Dan said, there may come a point that she'll want to impress me cause she wants to be my girlfriend. Hence, she'll dress more like what I really dig seeing. They may not go around admitting that, but I bet they can still feel that!

  • @Chikitooo21
    @Chikitooo21 2 місяці тому +4

    Dan i got a friend whos a virgin at 22, i do have a flow ebook but i think he needs a bit less advanced program to build confidence and experience from nothing.
    Do you suggest him to buy 21 ways to get a girlfriend? I saw it comes with 30 day challenge ebook. Or do u have other one that might be helpful?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +2

      He should join Master Attraction. It's a training program that builds your confidence and attractiveness to women every month, in addition to allowing you to get instant results. So many members post success stories (i.e. kissing and having sex with women) in the community after only learning from the first two lessons that a new member gets immediately. It's that powerful. Check it out here: www.masterattraction.com/lessons Cheers, Dan

  • @ELRoSRoND
    @ELRoSRoND 2 місяці тому +3

    kinda trapped in being a nice guy i guess

  • @HughJStamboulidis-q4l
    @HughJStamboulidis-q4l 2 місяці тому +4

    I'm 25 and a virgin how can I get a woman to be attracted to be s3xually. I have no experience and I can tell they sense it.

  • @sirsmilesalotmore
    @sirsmilesalotmore Місяць тому +1

    They're strange and complicated creatures! 🤔

  • @duece-rv3fp
    @duece-rv3fp 2 місяці тому

    Are you against a Black Friday sale for “The Flow”?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +3

      We don't have sales, but I can tell you this: The Flow will change your life in so many amazing ways. 100s of customers have said to me that they would've paid double or triple for The Flow, if they knew what they were about to experience with women 😄 If anything, I will be increasing the price of The Flow, rather than putting it on sale, but good on you for asking anyway. Cheers, Dan 👍

  • @developerdeveloper67
    @developerdeveloper67 2 місяці тому +5

    Yes, I remember my first gf. She was quite used, I would find out later. But we dated once, second date she came to my parents house (where I lived at the time) and after we had sex, she said "you are my boyfriend now", I was confused but just thought "okay". (I was a chad)

  • @jonathan6480
    @jonathan6480 2 місяці тому +2

    Did the student who slept with his yoga instructor do it after the first session, or did he go a few times before sealing the deal?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому +1

      He had gone a few times prior because he was already a student at the yoga class. Yet, when he used the Confidence mindset from the first lesson at Master Attraction and couldn't believe how much of a difference it made to how he felt and how she reacted to him. They ended up sleeping together that night. It's a total game-changer. Many members have reported getting instant results with it (you'll see their posts in the community). Most guys will never realize that this mindset exists and as a result, will unnecessarily feel insecure and self-doubting around women they find attractive. Once you learn this, you never look back. It completely changes everything. If you want to learn the mindset, here's where to sign up: www.masterattraction.com/lessons Cheers, Dan

  • @VNBSlash
    @VNBSlash 2 місяці тому +1

    So I'm 36 in a town with 15,000 people in it. Unfortunately everyone knows everyone. The closest big city to me is an hour away. I date women over there but distance is an issue to them but it's so much cheaper to live where I live. I can afford my needs comfortably. Any advice anyone????
    I striked out in my own town but have a great job I wouldn't give up.
    Please help.

    • @likashing100
      @likashing100 2 місяці тому +1

      Sometimes I travel from Northern Hong Kong to Southern Hong Kong need more than one hour if a traffic jam happen.

    • @jayrubio7299
      @jayrubio7299 2 місяці тому +2

      Step up your game and move to the city

    • @briancanbefound
      @briancanbefound 2 місяці тому +1

      Everyone knows everyone? :) I wish I knew just half of that.

  • @shubhampatil7061
    @shubhampatil7061 2 місяці тому

    Great video man....i am insecure due to my d**k size down thr.

  • @GodOfWisdomGOW
    @GodOfWisdomGOW 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Dan, making some Black Friday promotions on MasterAttraction?

    • @DanBacon_
      @DanBacon_  2 місяці тому

      Good question. The answer is no because I have a 'No Sale Ever' policy at Master Attraction to be fair to existing members. That means I will never be offering the membership at a sale price. However, the price you see at the moment is the cheapest it will ever be. I intend on increasing the price as the community grows. The price that you get when you sign up will never increase though - you lock in that price as long as you remain a member and never experience any price increase no matter what. If you're interested in unleashing your attractiveness as a man and being absolutely irresistible to women, I look forward to teaching you my best secrets: www.masterattraction.com/lessons Cheers, Dan 👍

  • @samuelrk9000
    @samuelrk9000 2 місяці тому +2

    Why this education is missing in Universities?
    Society could be lot better and happier inturn being more productive!!