10 Things People Do When They’re Attracted to You

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  • Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
  • These simple signs of attraction will show you the kind of things that people do when they are attracted to you.
    Sources:
    Vocal Modulation During Courtship Increases Proceptivity
    www.sciencedirect.com/science...
    Red in the Face: The Science of Blushing
    www.scu.edu/illuminate/though...
    10 Ways Your Body Language Gives You Away
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
    Chief Editor: Tristan Reed
    Voice Over: Troy W. Hudson
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  • @juliegogola4647
    @juliegogola4647 2 роки тому +1754

    A shy person may act like they don't like you, like avoiding looking right at you. So, not everybody acts the same way in the same situations.

    • @privateprivate8366
      @privateprivate8366 2 роки тому +39

      I’ve heard that particularly with a Scorpio, their moods might fluctuate, when they’re attracted to you as, particularly male Scorpios are uncomfortable with thinking about what to do with it. While I experienced this, I think, with a Scorpio boss I used to work for, I don’t entirely rely upon someone’s zodiac sign. There were also a few things at play. Being a married boss, attracted to one of your employees and being of two different races can spell disaster, in the workplace. Nothing ever happened and I would’ve never let it, although I’d long been attracted to him. But, not everything goes according to the videos.
      In fact, in a couple of instances, I’ve seen men who’s voice raise an octave, when they’re talking to a woman they’re attracted to.

    • @enginestart3009
      @enginestart3009 2 роки тому +50

      I'm too shy of a person.
      But sometimes when I'm attracted to someone my confidence in my self skyrocketed such as my posture and my gaze becomes like very manly.
      My only concern is I'm to shy to start a conversation even if the other paerson shows interest me.haizz

    • @mr.j3371
      @mr.j3371 2 роки тому +4

      For real! That’s me

    • @juliegogola4647
      @juliegogola4647 2 роки тому +9

      @@mr.j3371 It's me too, I had been with an extrovert for a long time when I was younger, but as we got older, it just had went south because of opposite personalities. He wanted to be out among people, and I wanted to relax at home once the day was ending. Physical attraction is what brought us together, and being fixed up by a common friend. I'm an introvert who is shy, so, I am actually fine without anybody other than friends and family around me. Many people my age still want to be with a partner, but I am just over it.
      But hopefully anyone who wants a compatible partner can find the right person for them. Just make sure they are good to you and will not turn out to be a jerk.
      If a person is lonely, they might overlook some bad traits in a person so they aren't alone anymore. I did that several years ago. It didn't last long. You live and learn.

    • @nicoledelamerced6844
      @nicoledelamerced6844 2 роки тому +10

      that's me. I avoid hahhahaha

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 роки тому +3993

    Hey YOU, beautiful person reading this...The truth is you are confident and good enough already with who you are, where you are at and what you have right now to have the success you want in life. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn that skill and go after it! I believe in you so much! Have an awesome day! - Love, Nat ❤️

    • @kurtneywilliams1956
      @kurtneywilliams1956 2 роки тому +50

      Same to me to you and others who are on their grind stay positive and bless stay focus.

    • @saeedrany8385
      @saeedrany8385 2 роки тому +20

      Thanks 😁

    • @dinglee1529
      @dinglee1529 2 роки тому +11

      Thanks

    • @MUTZ1234
      @MUTZ1234 2 роки тому +25

      I open my mouth and I scare women away. I think I did it again tonight. I feel like shit since 11.30 and I can't sleep because of it. I hate talking about myself. I just want to be adored. I wish I knew what that felt like. The older I get the harder it gets. Sick of it...

    • @cainwesleymukobvu8578
      @cainwesleymukobvu8578 2 роки тому +5

      Thank you for that

  • @johnvonmartin7501
    @johnvonmartin7501 2 роки тому +364

    Moral lesson: Just be yourself and keep going

    • @tahu1349
      @tahu1349 Рік тому +5

      Unless you are Hannibal Lector 😂

    • @ip3931
      @ip3931 3 місяці тому +2

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@tahu1349Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@ip3931Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @369Rising
    @369Rising 2 роки тому +386

    They're attracted to you:
    1. They make themselves look more attractive & behave in pleasing ways. 2. They're looking at you and trying not to stare, but making eye contact. 3. Men lower their voice and women change their voice. 4. They find opportunities to physically get close to you. 5. They glow/sweat. 6. They soothe themselves; rub hands together, etc. 7. They want romantic physical contact; hug. 8. They blush, open eyes wide or flutter their eyelashes. 9. They can't focus. 10. They laugh when you laugh and smile when you smile, etc.

    • @ta6402
      @ta6402 2 роки тому +3

      True!

    • @shannon2748
      @shannon2748 Рік тому +8

      They also raise their eyebrows very quickly when they walk by you, and smile.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@shannon2748Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@ta6402Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @InspiringTips
    @InspiringTips 2 роки тому +649

    It's not always easy to tell what someone's intentions are. You might think that a person is just being friendly, but then out of nowhere they start doing some weird things and it can be really confusing.

    • @samuel.l1407
      @samuel.l1407 2 роки тому +29

      This thing happens to me 😬

    • @deborahdesanto2313
      @deborahdesanto2313 2 роки тому +17

      Also I have seen a person on an off their confused how they feel about you, not sure if they are really in to you, and maybe they are in to you. I hope this makes sense.

    • @SStupendous
      @SStupendous 2 роки тому +20

      I have a good female friend who gives me long, squeezing hugs and calls me her "boyfriend" sometimes. She also randomly says "I love you". You're right, prob just being friendly, shame she doesn't like me

    • @amarson2322
      @amarson2322 2 роки тому +8

      @@SStupendous thats so sociopathic

    • @SStupendous
      @SStupendous 2 роки тому +12

      @@amarson2322 That's so dull-headed to not understand obvious sarcasm

  • @mela7364
    @mela7364 2 роки тому +465

    I'm very strange when I become attracted to someone. The more attracted I am, the more distant I become and the more I avoid them. I can't even make eye contact. Not very friendly, I know. It's just how I am.

    • @mariepetterson7281
      @mariepetterson7281 2 роки тому +111

      Mel C, fear of rejection can make a person behave that way.

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 2 роки тому +24

      Me too and I don't know how to fix it

    • @peacejoy3629
      @peacejoy3629 2 роки тому +25

      @@mariepetterson7281 how an avoident person like this behave in "romantic" relationships where there's Intimacy and opening up? It's hard

    • @ondefense7586
      @ondefense7586 2 роки тому +41

      Do things that are uncomfortable everyday eventually you get comfortable with the uncomfortable

    • @nouraah
      @nouraah 2 роки тому +17

      I think you have avoidant attachment style

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831
    @highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 роки тому +1112

    *10 things people do when they’re attracted to you*
    0:13 - Unconscious alteration
    1:03 - Behind the eyes
    2:36 - Vocal variance
    3:37 - Romantic gravity
    5:01 - The golden glow
    6:08 - Comforting cues
    6:47 - Dynamite contact
    8:08 - Biological attraction
    9:10 - Lack of focus
    10:01 - Reflective happiness
    Hope this helps!
    *High Living - animated videos* 🚀🌙

  • @timtime9167
    @timtime9167 7 місяців тому +39

    It's always such a good feeling when you meet someone that you share a mutual attraction with. Knowing they are thinking of you.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @pdubois4318
    @pdubois4318 2 роки тому +154

    Dont forget that prolonged eye contact might also be indicative of hostility instead of attraction. I made the error of confusing the two. Very interesting experience...

    • @aafthab-7939
      @aafthab-7939 2 роки тому +26

      Lmao

    • @jennac6954
      @jennac6954 2 роки тому +11

      😂

    • @patty8644
      @patty8644 2 роки тому +13

      What was the experience?😅

    • @joserivera6249
      @joserivera6249 Рік тому

      @@patty8644 yes l think lm feeling good

    • @pdubois4318
      @pdubois4318 Рік тому +31

      @@patty8644 Imagine hitting on someone you like a lot thinking you have an opening only to discover she actively despise and dislike you. It's a roller coaster of emotions going straight to hell. Dating made me misanthrope and hyper vigilant tbh.

  • @morganrobinson2436
    @morganrobinson2436 Рік тому +100

    I have a hard time making eye contact with men I find very attractive, I have to force myself to be comfortable with it, and not avoid meeting his gaze. On the flip side, I come off as very confident and self assured, but around men I’m strongly attracted to, it is rough!

    • @TheConspired
      @TheConspired Рік тому +2

      Heres your attention, hope u have a gd day

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@TheConspiredJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @XxBunnytailxX
    @XxBunnytailxX 2 роки тому +65

    I found these things to be true in new friendships as well. People who are interested in becoming friends will exhibit a lot of the same behavior.

  • @karlbodmer4368
    @karlbodmer4368 2 роки тому +243

    My ex girlfriend cheated on me 8 months ago... I was bored as hell and felt soo bad about myself, but this corona time helped me to work on myself. My friends motivated me to work hard, they introduced me with some tips and tricks that helped me to eat clean as well. In the process I took a diet from Dietarize to further improve my meal planning. I lost 55lbs in eight months, and I am strongly motivated for more!!

    • @abrahammendiola4446
      @abrahammendiola4446 2 роки тому +5

      That's right go get some!

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 роки тому +1

      Hello you can manifest anything,with the help of Dr James, Mr James techniques are the best in Manifesting and blockage of negative energy..

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 роки тому

      Send him a message on Whatsapp or call him

    • @Kitofthearts
      @Kitofthearts 2 роки тому

      I empathise with you brother. Paint us a picture of how her behaviour made you feel & use colours to express the emotions

    • @keiraadolph442
      @keiraadolph442 2 роки тому

      ±2349029353859⏯⏯
      WHAT'SAPP HIM

  • @IanSCastro
    @IanSCastro Рік тому +72

    Me and this girl at my church are attracted to each other. Meaning, we both share the same signs listed in this video. It’s really great when the feeling is mutual and now we can enjoy getting to know each other better over time.

    • @simbause6
      @simbause6 Рік тому +4

      You're not alone bro😂😂😂😂

    • @DTKRDMNK
      @DTKRDMNK 10 місяців тому +8

      Wish you the best Brother! 🙏🏽 🤲🏽

  • @nsaunders83
    @nsaunders83 2 роки тому +67

    He stared at me...it definitely got my attention. He was not subtle. It was enough for us to introduce ourselves and he bought me a drink. The next time I saw him at the same restaurant, I was ascending the stairs to use the restroom. I figured he would be watching my figure in my dress from the bottom of the staircase, which I am sure he was, but he wasn't staring this time. It was a gaze. I looked back and his focus never wavered. I reached the top of the stairs and looked again. That gaze. It was dreamy. I have never experienced that before. I didn't feel like a piece of meat. A connection had been established in that moment. We were together for less than a week. Sadly, he passed away. I was never able to see what we could have been, but I will NEVER forget that man. Rest in paradise.

    • @nsaunders83
      @nsaunders83 2 роки тому +11

      @Om Rohit Thank you, don't be sad. I was happy to have ever met him. I never met anyone like him before. I'm not 100% sure but I think he was my twin flame.

    • @eminemstrash2021
      @eminemstrash2021 Рік тому +2

      You sound like an INFP. Betting you day dreamed about experiences and conversations you never had with this man. His death allowed these unchecked imaginations to become idealized. It's the unrequited love scenario INFP's can only experience in their imaginations but never in real life.
      The Perfect Love you seek can only be found in a trust/faith relationship woth Christ.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@eminemstrash2021Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@nsaunders83Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @carinagrace8050
    @carinagrace8050 2 роки тому +51

    My crush is shy, but after a long time of getting to know each other, he’s becoming more comfortable. There’s still that awkwardness between us, but we make frequent eye contact and smile at each other

    • @susanstewart7153
      @susanstewart7153 2 роки тому +11

      Same. Lol. It’s nice to take things slow. Especially when people are slow to trust others

    • @maiwandhimmat4808
      @maiwandhimmat4808 8 місяців тому

      Girls can have crush? 😮

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@maiwandhimmat4808Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @BabyJokerGaming
    @BabyJokerGaming 2 роки тому +86

    if you like a person don't tell no one about it, try to think less about the person and keep it secret and that person will be yours

    • @TheRanvamayur
      @TheRanvamayur Рік тому

      Wow thats so amazingly wonderful..

    • @willemvandenelzen3656
      @willemvandenelzen3656 Рік тому +1

      a joke I suppose... Since I like someone already for 2 years but it's my secret so she'll never be mine since we're both shy... I try to think less but the longer I try it to hide the more I think about her😅

    • @jacealbine
      @jacealbine Рік тому +7

      @@willemvandenelzen3656 Just talk to her. Then you can find out if she actually likes you back, or if you can save some time and just move on.

    • @willemvandenelzen3656
      @willemvandenelzen3656 Рік тому +1

      @@jacealbine In the meantime I have decided to just move on😁

  • @djefardeur7958
    @djefardeur7958 2 роки тому +97

    If u love somebody go ahead and don't think too much. Go with the flow... No matter the outcome, u won't die lol !

    • @coolboymalique1787
      @coolboymalique1787 Рік тому +1

      I like your comment dude very realistic lol

    • @AverageCommentor
      @AverageCommentor 9 місяців тому

      Ok, but what if the nervousness causes you to have a panic attack which leads to a heart attack and you do end up dying?
      Then what?

    • @maiwandhimmat4808
      @maiwandhimmat4808 8 місяців тому +1

      The worst thing she can say is: No!
      (Ewwww) emotional damage

    • @IAT1224
      @IAT1224 4 місяці тому

      i will xD

  • @DoodlePoodle199
    @DoodlePoodle199 3 місяці тому +3

    The voice deepening, puffing chest out and smile/laughing when they see you are all that I strongly concur on. I’ve literally never thought of these three things and it’s like a lightbulb went off! Wow. So true.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @opinions-in-training
    @opinions-in-training 3 місяці тому +4

    I like all of these tips. My issue is that nobody is really connecting in real life in the physical world. Meeting people online or on dating apps is zero body language and you don't even know if the person really exists.

  • @DonnyDougherty
    @DonnyDougherty 2 роки тому +47

    The only thing to impress somebody is to be ourselves

    • @Nolaman70
      @Nolaman70 2 роки тому +9

      Or rich.

    • @lessismore8533
      @lessismore8533 10 місяців тому +1

      There are others ways tho but yah that’s the best way

    • @DE.V.S
      @DE.V.S 9 місяців тому

      I believe not.

    • @ejosjek52.87
      @ejosjek52.87 9 місяців тому +1

      Or attractive

    • @DE.V.S
      @DE.V.S 9 місяців тому

      Or intelligent.

  • @ernestp5183
    @ernestp5183 Рік тому +45

    I’m an introverted guy, and when I have a crush on a girl I can’t look her in the eyes when I’m speaking but when she’s speaking I fixate my gaze on her eyes. Also, I act like I don’t care if I see her or not, but I’m actually craving for any interation with her every second of everyday. Last but not least, I make sure myself look beyond presentable when I know I’m definitly gonna see this girl that day.

    • @lessismore8533
      @lessismore8533 10 місяців тому +2

      I’m the same way with my crush 😂

    • @sofycolt27
      @sofycolt27 11 днів тому +1

      I am the same, but I am a girl. My crush is shy as well. But I am not sure is it because he has a crush too or just he behaves like this normally.
      Advice -please try to show her that you like her ,so she won't be confused.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@sofycolt27Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@lessismore8533Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @mmoua7
    @mmoua7 2 роки тому +47

    I had just got done working out from the gym and was in Target still wearing my workout outfit. I went up to this girl to ask where the band aids were and I remembered her face just lit up. Her pupils were dilated and she had a smile on her face.

    • @iestrrguthrie4620
      @iestrrguthrie4620 2 роки тому

      Very good in this modern world we all need help

    • @abelgreen5046
      @abelgreen5046 3 місяці тому

      lol bruh…same story for me, but I was in an old navy. She came up to me, and she was spitting game on me. A memory I’ll probably never forget

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@abelgreen5046Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@iestrrguthrie4620Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @rais2115
    @rais2115 2 роки тому +31

    I cannot notice his face bc we're in school and he never takes his mask off lmao

    • @jennac6954
      @jennac6954 2 роки тому

      Working in a hospital is the same

  • @DemetriPanici
    @DemetriPanici 2 роки тому +58

    Definitely taking notes for the next time I'm out and about

    • @swagking2674
      @swagking2674 2 роки тому +7

      yeah me too, i like to surprise women on bike trails

    • @thatonechannel1920
      @thatonechannel1920 2 роки тому +1

      @@swagking2674 purple shirted eye stabber ??

    • @ghk721
      @ghk721 2 роки тому +3

      Earn well..nothing matters..money matters...

    • @jenniferhcsmith-5586
      @jenniferhcsmith-5586 2 роки тому +3

      I had a doctor that acted like this. He was super sweet 😍😍😍😍

  • @kawsudrammeh8837
    @kawsudrammeh8837 2 роки тому +9

    The way you explaining this love story make me feel like i'm sitting next to my crush without seeing her, Thank you for all the motivational you have given us 🙏🏾 Well come the top think you are favourite channels love ✊🏾😘❤️

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @thepashaj7425
    @thepashaj7425 2 роки тому +5

    This is soo on time !

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому +2

    It takes time as I am learning more and more everyday of life's balance of love and heart felt emotions.

  • @Bluemoneystar
    @Bluemoneystar 2 місяці тому +2

    Never ever experienced that stuff under any circumstances!

  • @melyssarevilla1468
    @melyssarevilla1468 2 роки тому +17

    I'm freaking out because I have a freaking horrible crush on my Muay Thai teacher. I have been single for 2 years already and haven't been too interested in men, let alone sex. I have been taking classes for 2 months already and something sparked a couple of weeks ago and now I have the hots for this guy, 7 years younger than me, when I usually like guys older than me. He is tall, has a ton of tattoos is strong and fit, AND he is gentle, which is one of the most attractive qualities I like in men. I love guys who are both strong and gentle. We haven't been able to talk much, but I would love to get to see if I like his personality as I like his looks. The other day we had a grappling class and we were 3 girls and 4 guys. We 3 girls trained together, but he showed all the moves we had to do on me. We shared some laughs and he seemed very comfy being physically close to me, and when I realized I felt really comfy and excited about being that close, I realized that I like him. A lot. I think I'm reading in between lines too hard but I really like him. I'm pretty shy and have never confessed before but I don't know how long I will be able to hold this in. With almost 30 years of existence, it seems I should grow a pair of ovaries already and just casually tell him I like him and that I just wanted to be honest with myself and say it to see what happens. If something happens, great, if not, that's good too, at least I tried. But I'm AFRAID. So yeah, that's my story. It's basically my first time liking someone physically this badly since I'm a demisexual, so processing this is tough for me and I don't completely understand it. I have only had 2 other relationships and no hookups, so my expertise is quite limited and I'm used to either not saying shit or being blunt about my feelings and putting them out there when I feel safe enough to be honest.
    Okay, I just wrote a whole novel about this but it's letting me get it out of my chest. I'm scared of the attraction I'm feeling due to my shyness and how strongly attracted I feel to him, not knowing if it is him or 2 years of not being interested in building a relationship with no one but myself.

    • @Emily-sf8wz
      @Emily-sf8wz 2 роки тому +8

      I'm in my early 20s, and with fair warning, my advice might be wrong. I share a similar flipped experience. He was my prof, but I was the younger one, and we had a slightly more significant age gap than you two. (don't worry, it was not illegal) I am an awkward, introverted girl. At the time, I was also very naive and felt that attraction instantly. If I learned anything from my terrible three-year crush on my prof is if you can't be on similar levels with each other and be open, then don't proceed. In my experience, I felt too scared to do anything, so I never acted on it, and that is probably best. If I had, he would have had to adult for the both of us, which is not appealing nor right. However, the guy you are talking about might be mature enough for you and vice versa. So if he reciprocates your feelings and your maturity levels match enough, then it's excellent! Give it a go, enjoy, live your best lives, respectfully. If not, then it's best not to get too serious! Don't get me wrong. Seven years gap isn't that much AT ALL, especially the older the pair are.
      23 and 30 are not old ages either. Again, the thing is, some people are mature beyond their years while others are still figuring out the basics well into their 30s, etc. (Not here to judge anyone)It will all depend on the individual and their journey. Know what you are looking for as well. Is it passion and not severe, or do you want to see if your morals line up and you'd be good friends as well as something romantic long-term? I like what you said about taking it slow and getting to know his personality a bit more before making significant decisions if neither of you wishes to be overwhelmed or make conclusions you regret. I agree with your other idea too. Ask/share when you think you are ready not to have that regret or too much built-up tension. That's all the advice I can think of. I hope this was helpful and not misguiding! I wish you two the best! :D

    • @educateke8442
      @educateke8442 2 роки тому +2

      Careful, it might end up being your worst 💔 ever

    • @melyssarevilla1468
      @melyssarevilla1468 2 роки тому +2

      @@Emily-sf8wz Thank you for this reply! Times has passed and some things have happened but nothing romantic. I'm pretty much clueless jaja He has stayed to sleep at my house (in my bedroom), given me massages (on my bed), cooked with me lunch, we have had breakfast. All those times I couldn't tell if he was pursuing something more or if it was just normal friendly activities... although there are some things I personally wouldn't do with a guy I just considered my friend. But we don't talk about it. Since a couple of days ago, he has stopped doing these things with me, and I don't know if it is because he is just busy all of the sudden or because he thinks I'm not interested and don't want to put his hopes up anymore. I have concluded I'm not interested in a relationship at the moment because I want to invest in me and myself only, but I would like to have a friend with benefits since I have never had one and I feel very comfy with him. So I might just pop the question and see if he would like that too, but damn, it's hard! I'm glad you decided to not cross the line with your professor, that can be a bumpy road when you are in a strict environment such as school.

    • @glenn7152
      @glenn7152 Рік тому +4

      Quit dissecting so much
      and go for it!
      Life is to damn short.

    • @candiceturner7529
      @candiceturner7529 6 місяців тому +1

      ​@@melyssarevilla1468Update please. Lol. Did yall hook up?

  • @jonathanlopez8982
    @jonathanlopez8982 2 роки тому +9

    Liked this one! Why didn't you upload yesterday?! I was waiting for it

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @user-Blackhour00
    @user-Blackhour00 4 місяці тому

    Everyone has his own trait that make him special from another💜

  • @michale3130
    @michale3130 Рік тому +2

    your voice is very calm. I just felt like I want to sleep🥱

  • @delliusdesigns6378
    @delliusdesigns6378 2 роки тому +34

    Ok this was good, but can you do one for older people 30 and over who want to take their time with new attractions compared to youthful attractions

  • @therepublicofpluto6209
    @therepublicofpluto6209 2 роки тому +8

    Honestly take all these hints with a grain of huge salt because it seems I act this way with everyone, so someone with low self esteem may get the wrong message when I'm trying to be friendly, nothing morw.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @lolhai6430
    @lolhai6430 Рік тому

    Im a nurse and looked into this nurses eyes and I told her that she was piercing my soul

  • @nafisakwande6544
    @nafisakwande6544 2 роки тому +2

    Nice video.learnt a lot.

  • @RockymountainRobert
    @RockymountainRobert 2 роки тому +14

    I met a girl, and I love everything about her, her voice, and all her traits come together to make her perfect 🥰

  • @eleanorsparks9503
    @eleanorsparks9503 Рік тому +11

    Man I feel vulnerable and nervous regardless of who's eyes I'm looking into. Eye contact is freaking scary, who's with me?

    • @aniqaasif3003
      @aniqaasif3003 Рік тому

      Yep it makes my eyes go weird when I make eye contact with someone

    • @akshlo2967
      @akshlo2967 Рік тому

      Social anxiety

    • @petersophic
      @petersophic 10 місяців тому

      What if you try looking into your own eyes in the mirror? What do you feel? Who knows maybe you start doing that and looking into others eyes maybe easier

    • @eleanorsparks9503
      @eleanorsparks9503 10 місяців тому

      @@petersophic nah, I got the tism, it's the main thing I struggle to mask lmao. It at least gives people a good indicator that I'm neurodivergent right off the bat, haha.

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@eleanorsparks9503Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @womenwhodate7643
    @womenwhodate7643 2 роки тому +121

    One rarely falls in love without being as much attracted to what is interestingly wrong with someone as what is objectively healthy.
    Great content, keep it up!

  • @supremereader7614
    @supremereader7614 Рік тому +8

    That was a great video, thank you very much!

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @happyfreeky
    @happyfreeky 2 роки тому +5

    Uh, if someone’s legs are entangled with yours, there’s a very good likelihood that you already like each other. This is not typically something you do with strangers

  • @nul4327
    @nul4327 Рік тому +3

    hate that i realised this person i liked showed signs of attraction to me years ago but i was too stupid, blind, and just avoidant bc scared of rejection... now im the one who's in love with them and finally matured enough to make a move but they've already moved on and not into relationships anymore :(

  • @malkn1754
    @malkn1754 2 роки тому +16

    There are definitely different voices that I really love. Like the way Kurt Cobain talks and his voice. I just really like it for some reason. Also, Billy Corgan. His voice is unique and I just really like it

    • @kezs5798
      @kezs5798 3 місяці тому

      I have a thing for certain types of voices too... sometimes that all it takes for me to be attracted to a guy. My ex had a real nice voice. Great singer too. I love Keanu Reeves voice and Johnny Depp...they could talk all day lol loved Robert Downey Jr's voice in Sherlock Holmes. Oh, and Jensen Ackles voice when he played the character Dean Winchester in Supernatural...does help they are all nice to look at too, not going to lie 😂

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@kezs5798Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @damonwayans9834
    @damonwayans9834 2 роки тому +5

    Is it just me or did this thing read 10 things people do when. They are attracted to you but yet it continually says that you feel that you will do this when you are attracted to someone

  • @nicepush2574
    @nicepush2574 2 роки тому +33

    Don't change yourself to please another person.
    We are all beautiful; put passion in your wants, be nice and protect yourself from abusers.
    They can be very pretty but the devil in disguise.

  • @audrey_lyn22
    @audrey_lyn22 2 роки тому +6

    I NEEDED THIS

  • @Som_sika26
    @Som_sika26 6 місяців тому

    Mann mistakely pressed this and tbh everyone sweats around me 💀 you know I always noticed people get restless when they see me, and thanks for this information cause I has social anxiety and noe I'm about to get paranoia, just hope everyone supports one another and loves themselves and the others unconditionally"

  • @sensualessentialslingerieb2799
    @sensualessentialslingerieb2799 5 місяців тому

    thanks for sharing ~ new subbie!

  • @magnoliasunshine5147
    @magnoliasunshine5147 2 роки тому +16

    Just because I’m interested in someone doesn’t mean that I’m going to make eye contact. I’ve been interested and not made eye contact. Yes, I looked in his direction often and I wanted him to look my way. I tried to start up conversations with him. But, I would look away quickly… because I was shy. That has NOTHING to do with my intentions or my attraction to him!!! That part of this video is absolute bull dung.
    Not to mention, men tend to think that if I have eye contact with them, that I am interested. When that is not what I am feeling at all. I hold eye contact with many people. Why do men feel this way? Women don’t.

    • @malkn1754
      @malkn1754 2 роки тому +2

      The eye contact thing is true, but not all the time. There are definitely people (like me) who will purposely avoid eye contact because they're shy or anxious. I saw a video that said there are sometimes people who go out of their way to make it seem like they're not attracted to someone. But doing so often makes it even more obvious that you like them

    • @thefilmrookie3099
      @thefilmrookie3099 2 роки тому

      It’s called a common denominator. You are an extraneous variable.

  • @timgodin2114
    @timgodin2114 2 роки тому +7

    I puff out my chest while waiting for the transit when I find myself slouching. No frigging intentions....this is b s. 😄

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @davidsundquist1845
    @davidsundquist1845 2 роки тому +2

    The Safeway young women and myself LOCKED eyes while I was looking at hers. The connection was obvious!

  • @OgaugeTrainsplusslotCars
    @OgaugeTrainsplusslotCars Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing this 👍♐️

  • @jamal8012
    @jamal8012 2 роки тому +8

    If only it weren't about looks. If only people gave me a actual chance.

    • @crazykatys77
      @crazykatys77 Рік тому +1

      same here mate - I am the ugliest man alive

    • @jamal8012
      @jamal8012 Рік тому

      @@crazykatys77 exactly bro

    • @sage_e_sage
      @sage_e_sage Рік тому

      Being to good looking can be tuff as well

  • @JJ-iq8mi
    @JJ-iq8mi Рік тому +22

    In my experience, a lot of men think you're attracted to them if you so much as smile at them!

    • @hyemuhyemu8221
      @hyemuhyemu8221 Рік тому +4

      stop smiling at strangers

    • @FlintyMint
      @FlintyMint 9 місяців тому +2

      That unfortunately means they think you look easy

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@FlintyMintJesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      ​@@hyemuhyemu8221Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

    • @LisaHack-hq3dv
      @LisaHack-hq3dv 9 днів тому

      Jesus was not killed nor Jesus was crucified

  • @dennisrobinson8008
    @dennisrobinson8008 Рік тому

    i used to get all of this as a less focus and determined younger man who was laid back and less responsible.

  • @libangomani1954
    @libangomani1954 2 роки тому

    Thank you "Topthink" now I have info😎

  • @thenomad4123
    @thenomad4123 2 роки тому +5

    Not everyone is an anxious mess when they like someone dude chill. Some of these like glowing etc may just happen due to excitement.

  • @werkzoekende6553
    @werkzoekende6553 Рік тому +15

    I never look long in someone eyes , i feel its disrespectful . If someone looks long in my eyes i know they have a problem with me . Be careful with that

    • @dennyyulian2554
      @dennyyulian2554 Рік тому

      Iya pak, kuwi jeneng e pentelang penteleng

    • @jackmemphis777
      @jackmemphis777 Рік тому +2

      This only really applies somewhat if its the men staring eachother down. Every time a woman has looked at me in the eyes for a long time, they were interested in me or wanted to kiss. It's being vulnerable because the eyes are filled with ambiguity and wonder and a window to the soul. When men stare at other men in the eyes, that can mean they have a problem with you or are just trying to figure you out.

    • @Marinaglam2023
      @Marinaglam2023 9 місяців тому

      How is that disrespectful you need to look at that persons eyes when your talking to them if you don’t then that’s being rude

    • @ejosjek52.87
      @ejosjek52.87 9 місяців тому

      Bro got opps ☠️

    • @mariuszsaassa414
      @mariuszsaassa414 6 днів тому

      I agree but not in all situations . Every situation can bi different or similar

  • @animefantasy8502
    @animefantasy8502 2 роки тому

    after that clip i think i am the best man ever but i was alone all time so i can t tell you how good is that video :)))

  • @xmarip0sao
    @xmarip0sao 8 місяців тому +1

    As someone who was in love with someone, it is painful when they left me for someone else. I depended on that person for my happiness but I shouldn’t bc how am I supposed to be happy with anyone if I’m not happy with myself? now that I’m alone tho and learning to love myself, getting used to being alone and love being alone, it’s very peaceful

  • @carmelhughesparolya899
    @carmelhughesparolya899 2 роки тому +3

    Brilliant I know who I like

  • @AbianahBarbie
    @AbianahBarbie 2 роки тому +7

    Just watching this so I can avoid doing all of this with my crush.

  • @6maria94
    @6maria94 2 роки тому +1

    okaaaay, perhaps this video helped me. I'm an anxious attachement style and I've been dating this boy. We get along well, theres attraction and all, and sometimes I actually feel like he likes me, but how he looks around when we are in the streets was driving me crazy, like, why can't he just look at me? I keep waiting for him to look mesmerized at me, but then he just looks around. I keep asking him if I'm boring him and he even laughts at me saying that he's never bored with me. That was the ONLY thing making me insecure. But if lack of attention really might be a sign, maybe perhaps I need to stop assuming he got bored and try to see if he really is anxious somehow.

    • @leesmallone3680
      @leesmallone3680 2 роки тому +2

      He may just have a wondering eye,looking out for someone prettier 😉 don,t invest your time in him,it will make you feel sad 😔

  • @noserialkiller3596
    @noserialkiller3596 Рік тому

    I watch these videos to do the opposite of what is advised, to ensure I stay single. Thank you so much! 😊 No Serial Killer.

  • @sarahmerbell4712
    @sarahmerbell4712 Рік тому +53

    great & educative! my husband certainly loves me... at least thx to natural drops spanish fly i bought for myself. just wanted to try bc i wanted my husband to like my energy in bed. actaully i didn't epxtect anything but the opposite came true

    • @lutherstump6315
      @lutherstump6315 Рік тому +1

      damn why i hadn't hear of them before? these natural drops are life for me. my partner stopped saying i'm bad in bed !

  • @lilezo4885
    @lilezo4885 2 роки тому +4

    Me who can’t hold eye contact for even a second:🗿

  • @blackdogbrown
    @blackdogbrown 5 днів тому

    My crush checked all these boxes. I already knew he found me attractive, I just wanted to hear the validation. Lol

  • @Noname-jd1vp
    @Noname-jd1vp Рік тому

    I'm just happy that I can make a serious, mysterious, and unsociable someone laugh. 😁
    That's it!!! 😊

  • @QBlond84
    @QBlond84 2 роки тому +14

    What to do when someone attracted to you but you aren't? Like how to decline thier offer politely

    • @jimmybrand9325
      @jimmybrand9325 2 роки тому +7

      Run

    • @iamshadowbanned699
      @iamshadowbanned699 2 роки тому +20

      Fart.

    • @Emily-sf8wz
      @Emily-sf8wz 2 роки тому +1

      @@iamshadowbanned699 😭🤣 that would work

    • @natesamadhi33
      @natesamadhi33 2 роки тому +4

      You gotta be honest. Appreciate their compliment, but say you just don't see them in that way & that they're a good friend.
      If you string them along like a coward, it'll just make shit worse & they'll resent you because you weren't being honest with them.

    • @lessismore8533
      @lessismore8533 10 місяців тому

      @@natesamadhi33true

  • @Miguelascencio1996
    @Miguelascencio1996 2 роки тому +3

    It’s soooo difficult for me to keep eye contact because I have a lazy eye 😭

  • @horheathetoad5655
    @horheathetoad5655 2 роки тому

    Sending this to my crush/bff

  • @picolas4118
    @picolas4118 Рік тому

    5:50 this part, wow , ty it helped me alot to understand someone ty 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

  • @eltedelarosa
    @eltedelarosa 2 роки тому +12

    Is it possible to be attracted to many people at the same time? I mean, strong attraction as in the vid.

  • @erikpeterson25
    @erikpeterson25 2 роки тому +12

    I guess no one has ever been attracted to me ...oh well

  • @sbrinafloresca2349
    @sbrinafloresca2349 2 роки тому +1

    pov you're someone w/ anxiety and feel everyone is looking at u, and somehow this vid gave you a false little confidence

  • @angelonearth8498
    @angelonearth8498 Місяць тому

    I am a female. I enjoy eating alone while observing others. I am confident and comfortable in my own skin. I walk into the room full of people without any worries.

  • @noahbody5609
    @noahbody5609 2 роки тому +21

    If a girl is attracted to you- she asks to open a joint saving account with you

  • @aewtx
    @aewtx 2 роки тому +4

    When a guy is interested, they touch you. I'm not talking about in a disgusting way, but like your arm, your shoulder, whatever. There's a physical component there.
    And let me tell you, guys, not a fan of it. Not because I'm thinking of it in a disgusting way, but because, maybe this is just me, I don't like people touching me, especially if I barely know you. Though to be fair, I don't think the guys realize they're doing it.

  • @iminsane749
    @iminsane749 Рік тому +2

    I was so shy towards my crush that I can't even look at him, now he thinks I hate him....

  • @bryanmccallum4614
    @bryanmccallum4614 Рік тому

    The second time watching this video more information I have forgotten.

  • @KatariaGujjar
    @KatariaGujjar 2 роки тому +6

    When I'm attracted to a woman, I give her a little attention, lock eyes a few times, then ignore the sh*t out of her.

  • @lastone1533
    @lastone1533 2 роки тому +8

    10 things make normal people mentally sick…. Live your normal life

  • @Arolynn
    @Arolynn Рік тому

    okay i need some advice(btw i don’t got a crush on this person!) this is gonna be a long rant but i wanna give details about what has been going on! so there’s this guy that I’ve seen since almost last year in school in the hallways that always eyed me even sometimes turned his neck to look at me. now present time it’s a brand new school year and guess what, i have a class with him. and let me tell u i sit in the back of the classroom so my back is leaning towards the wall and he is almost in the far front row sort of ? but there’s people in between us, his back is facing towards me.. in the first week being back to school he noticed that i was in that class and he just kept staring at me. the next day there’s another guy that knows him and that dude is those annoying type of dudes that be rating girls and trynna talk to everyone in that class and he went up to the guy and they were talking and i might be tripping but i think he pointed towards my way and the other dude look towards my way.. i don’t know if they were talking about me or not but that situation was so weird. another thing that happened probably a week later (we had to go around the classroom and trade papers to people to have them sign their paper of things that they’ve done) and mostly everyone was sitting i was trading my papers with people nearby me and the guy was the only one that was standing up and trading his paper to some people and then he kept staring at me and he came towards my spot near me then he gave his paper to the person right next to me and then he went to the person sitting to the left of me and then after that he left but i notice him kinda circling towards my way and kept staring at me from afar. i felt off about that cause i don’t know him so i felt like “the weird one out” cause he just skipped me to hand his paper to people nearby me and i felt uncomfortable cause i don’t know why he wouldn’t come up to me ig? then after that a couple days after he always kept staring at me during class and after that situation i started to ignore his presence cause i don’t want him to misunderstand and think that i like him or something. but he keeps staring like one time he turned towards my way cause his back is facing my way and i noticed him looking towards my direction and i moved a bit to have people block his view cause I was weirded out and he deadass stood up and look towards my way like that shit creeped me out 😭 long story short i don’t know what his deal is i don’t know if he hates me or if he’s a psychopath.. lol like i was telling my friend about this and she was saying to get a restraining order i found that funny cause tbh at this point it’s really getting out of hand 😭😭 but lmk what u think about this situation cause I’m confused what this means!

  • @samuelwainaina5970
    @samuelwainaina5970 2 роки тому

    Thanks

  • @aa-vb4ik
    @aa-vb4ik 2 роки тому +9

    oh every girl i talk to doesnt look me in the eyes:(

    • @rais2115
      @rais2115 2 роки тому +7

      They feel awkward bc people who avoid eye contact are hiding love or lying

    • @314Leothelion31
      @314Leothelion31 2 роки тому +1

      If they stare at your crotch that’s good too you stud you.

    • @cathy75
      @cathy75 2 роки тому

      @@314Leothelion31 Bwahahahahahaha!!!!

    • @crazykatys77
      @crazykatys77 Рік тому

      maybe you are unknowingly looking too much at them and making them shy , means nothing . Most girls actually are hostile to true crushes

  • @nickylewilson2922
    @nickylewilson2922 2 роки тому +4

    I feel a girls right now is in love with me but coming out of dating someone I need rest don't you think so

  • @samanthameadows7671
    @samanthameadows7671 Рік тому +1

    In the end I couldnt even look at the person or even hold a sentence. I felt like Jelly being devoured. The Person in front of Me just took My breath away. I never ever told them though in the end.

  • @Marina-yb9it
    @Marina-yb9it 2 місяці тому +1

    I know people who give a hug purly on social base. It kind of depends on what hug. Some hug around randomly. And there are people who won't even touch the person they have a crush on, let go hugging them. So I don't understand where that info comes from.

  • @TQSinc758
    @TQSinc758 2 роки тому +3

    Wow even more awesome content is on the way🥰👩📱👍

  • @joshuafuqua4154
    @joshuafuqua4154 Рік тому +3

    I admitted to my coworker back in January that I have feelings for her but she told me that she wasn't interested in having a boyfriend at the time. It's now April and she's been giving me mixed signals lately by greeting me every time she sees me (hey whenever I clock in for work and bye whenever I leave work), laughing at every time I make a joke whether it's a funny joke or corny/lame joke, offering to help me out around the store, playfully poking me in my arm, and offering to wear my hat (which she looked really cute wearing). Are these possible signs that she may be starting to like me or am I accidentally reading too much into these actions and have the wrong idea and she's just being friendly?

    • @stephencarroll9210
      @stephencarroll9210 Рік тому +3

      She's come to the realization that you're more than the impression she got at first and now her interest is really peaking and she wants your attention so you will ask her out and something more may develop KNOWING HOW WOMEN ARE

    • @jpstrisovsky5601
      @jpstrisovsky5601 Рік тому +4

      She's digging you now man.make a move before she cools off

  • @RonnieCanda-uf4mp
    @RonnieCanda-uf4mp 10 місяців тому

    Attractive eyes , outfit Elegant dress may be simple but i like it's like smile

  • @dg-dm1rr
    @dg-dm1rr 5 днів тому

    person literally on top of you
    this vid: they might like you

  • @Talkinglife
    @Talkinglife 2 роки тому +9

    Pupils dilate when they look at you. ...
    Blushing and flushed skin. ...
    Tonal voice changes.
    Open body language. ...
    Leaning closer to you. ...
    Mirroring your behavior. ...
    Sneaky gestures to enhance their appearance. ...
    Increase in body temperature

  • @dominikzivanovic1200
    @dominikzivanovic1200 2 роки тому +17

    "For example men will stick out their chest in front of females they find attractive"
    My mild kyphosis: "I said we gay today"

  • @aahanasenxic382
    @aahanasenxic382 Рік тому

    Now this is another useful video this makes perfect sense we should read this carefully and try to do the same

  • @Jacqueline_333
    @Jacqueline_333 2 роки тому +1

    UGGHHHGHH I haven’t had a full blown crush in so long but this dude has just made me lose my mind like-

  • @ghk721
    @ghk721 2 роки тому +8

    Nothing matters.
    Money matters..if you have money ,looks doesn't matter..

    • @ellefsensbarmyarmy8491
      @ellefsensbarmyarmy8491 2 роки тому +1

      @@zoeymckeown3194
      Sure it can

    • @ellefsensbarmyarmy8491
      @ellefsensbarmyarmy8491 2 роки тому

      @@zoeymckeown3194
      I’m not talking just surgery.

    • @aleciawimer8506
      @aleciawimer8506 2 роки тому +5

      Not true. My x-boyfriend is a millionaire. I’m happy with my husband. My x-boyfriend was self-centered and shallow.

    • @kdphotos4691
      @kdphotos4691 2 роки тому +3

      This what people who have poor characters say. When they get old and alone, they learn that they should have developed their character rather than buying everything. There is a famous quote, "money? You can't take it with you when you die."

    • @314Leothelion31
      @314Leothelion31 2 роки тому

      If you flaunt money the only fish to take the bait Love the bait. Flaunt yourself as the bait.

  • @WolfArmyGod
    @WolfArmyGod 2 роки тому +8

    Okay, so what happens if everyone avoids eye contact at all costs? :)

  • @enalyn7
    @enalyn7 Рік тому

    I usually talked and looked into someone’s eye while talking. For some reason I’ve met people that they’re saying “ why do you stare like that?” 2nd “ Don’t look at me like that “ I’m just like common I don’t wanna be rude here that’s how I talked to someone. then they will makes me uncomfortable so after that I’ve never looked to the same person in the eye.
    I stared to the floor while talking instead.

  • @christinehallfeldt4280
    @christinehallfeldt4280 2 місяці тому

    Introverted person may act differently to an extroverted person but in my experience eye contact is key, even if you hesitate or feel to nervous to meet their gaze once you do its alllll over red rovver lol. ❤