Grieving Grandma

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  • Опубліковано 6 чер 2019
  • In this emotional case, the plaintiff petitions the court for a DNA test to find out if the defendant’s son was fathered by her deceased son. The result leaves the plaintiff in tears.
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  • @22andaw
    @22andaw 5 років тому +4569

    Judge Mathis I have always liked you but today after what you have done in This case , you have brought my respect for you to another higher level I pray that there will be other judges that demonstrate the compassion and kindness that you do.

    • @THEMANIFESTDIVA
      @THEMANIFESTDIVA 5 років тому +41

      Jr. Whittaker Respectfully said!!!🙌🏾

    • @bnaicole32
      @bnaicole32 5 років тому +14

      💯

    • @mom2bbygkaterad379
      @mom2bbygkaterad379 5 років тому +19

      I wholeheartedly agree.

    • @seattlestunna
      @seattlestunna 5 років тому +39

      Had me in tears!!!

    • @brendawilliams3197
      @brendawilliams3197 5 років тому +96

      I have never seen a judge step away from his bench to come down and offer prayer to both the plaintiff and defendant. Judge Matthews is truly an "honorable" judge.

  • @Megaman8707
    @Megaman8707 3 роки тому +1586

    When he took a break, he gathered himself. He approached both parties with respect and dignity despite one party not being truthful. He prayed not just for them, but WITH them. He carried himself with such a tact that I am speechless. So impressed, and so grateful. This was the epitome of humility and humbleness.

    • @pineapplesplash9166
      @pineapplesplash9166 2 роки тому +25

      That girl knew she was for the streets. That lady was hoping apart of her son would be with her but shawty loose.

    • @darrendoyle568
      @darrendoyle568 2 роки тому +20

      I honestly don’t think she lied intentionally she really believed that her son was the father and obviously wanted her to be the grandmother

    • @rachellerichey2632
      @rachellerichey2632 2 роки тому +21

      Amen/ I was in tears; I knew when he took the break the baby was not his. I believe his heart was sad, and needed time to think. He came out with his angle guiding his heart, and his mind with God working through his vessel Aka Angle through the Judge he delivered a great prayer.

    • @JM-cx6ze
      @JM-cx6ze 2 роки тому +11

      This took me out I feel for miss Rose I truly do may God bless her and her family I hope someday she finds peace and comfort and maybe some understanding

    • @nathanieljones74
      @nathanieljones74 2 роки тому +5

      That part😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @KrysBrown89
    @KrysBrown89 2 роки тому +530

    He didn’t want to deliver that news from the bench. This was heartbreaking.

    • @veeharris253
      @veeharris253 2 роки тому +20

      Heart Breaking!! Judge Mathis was so good in how he handle the whole situation willing to help and counseling for the grandmother and lying girl.

    • @gracehenderson4339
      @gracehenderson4339 Рік тому

      Lying is so hurting she knew she was lying all the rime

  • @corrinjade3973
    @corrinjade3973 2 роки тому +90

    I really wanted the baby to be her grandchild because she needed that baby. That poor grieving woman. That girl should have been honest, that was so cruel.

  • @katelynn2548
    @katelynn2548 5 років тому +2238

    Who is crying 😢 with me. Wow. Was just hoping so the grandma can have a little piece of happiness

    • @norri4
      @norri4 5 років тому +9

      Katelyn Mama 😢😢😢

    • @mom2bbygkaterad379
      @mom2bbygkaterad379 5 років тому +38

      Lord knows I wanted the same thing! Her worst fear has now been realized. Please God.....Heal their 💔 💔. All the young lady had to do was be honest.

    • @brendawilliams3197
      @brendawilliams3197 5 років тому +33

      I was praying it was her deceased son's baby so that she would still have a part of her son with her. So sad.

    • @maverickmee5116
      @maverickmee5116 5 років тому +4

      🙋

    • @primeunique477
      @primeunique477 5 років тому +5

      @@brendawilliams3197 me too.

  • @beautifulstallion3119
    @beautifulstallion3119 5 років тому +820

    This is why Judge Mathis will always be my favorite judge. That prayer was so needed. My heart goes out to all of them.

    • @ebonylocks1375
      @ebonylocks1375 5 років тому +8

      Amen

    • @nobullshytnx2264
      @nobullshytnx2264 5 років тому +12

      Mine too. OMG! I can't stop shedding tears 😥

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 5 років тому +13

      Yo....my appreciation level for Judge Mathis just grew by 1000%. This was real humanity here.

    • @sharonrevelle4401
      @sharonrevelle4401 5 років тому +8

      So it wasn't his grandson leave these Becky's alone I tell my son my nephew's​ and cousins

    • @Litetorture
      @Litetorture 5 років тому +2

      Not to dat dagone lying broad! To the mom and sister!

  • @junglebrother8923
    @junglebrother8923 2 роки тому +359

    I served in the Marines and buried my daughter in 2004... this had me crying.... the pain you'll feel after burying your child will never go away.

    • @billfair8560
      @billfair8560 2 роки тому +18

      Sorry for your lost man sir. My wife and I we had to duried our son 8yrs ago he was still birth means he was not alive in her..but God blessed us with 2 healthy boys and we take them to the grave site alot to see where their brother is.. man I tell ya I lost it to see her pain..thank you for your service and your scafice ..keep your head your up our sons will always be with us...

    • @billfair8560
      @billfair8560 2 роки тому

      I apologize it's your daughter..

    • @maquellewilliams2061
      @maquellewilliams2061 2 роки тому +5

      🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @ladyqvww2876
      @ladyqvww2876 2 роки тому +6

      I am very sorry for the loss of your dear daughter 🙏

    • @iMr.Jetpacks
      @iMr.Jetpacks 2 роки тому +4

      I'm so sorry my brother! I know its been 18yrs but its still hard. Hang in there ✊🏾

  • @thatsamore8869
    @thatsamore8869 3 роки тому +422

    “Dear God forgive me of my sins.” Who knew such a simple phrase could be so impactful and humbling. Thank you Greg Mathis from this moment each time I speak to the Lord, I will being with those words.

    • @feliciajohns4148
      @feliciajohns4148 2 роки тому +2

      AMEN

    • @paulacross3086
      @paulacross3086 2 роки тому +7

      Probably what was going on with the judge in his own mind when he saw the results, normally he go off at this stage of the game when someone lies, he had to been feeling some type way, & God humbled his spirit, so both parties can heal.

    • @gladysfrimpong1147
      @gladysfrimpong1147 2 роки тому +3

      Yh was so impressed of how he initiated the prayera

    • @tallulaaaaa
      @tallulaaaaa 2 роки тому +4

      Isaiah 59:1 Behold, the LORD's hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear: [2] But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear.
      That is the proper way to began so he can hear what you have to say. He’s a very wise judge who does read the Word of God and apply it.

    • @monique4540
      @monique4540 Рік тому

      Amen

  • @RacieRain
    @RacieRain 5 років тому +757

    Girl shut up! With all that loud crying. She knew she was with multiple guys. Putting that woman through all that misery.

    • @revettefarrow4111
      @revettefarrow4111 5 років тому +43

      @rachael thomas finally a real statement

    • @brooklynforever1990
      @brooklynforever1990 5 років тому +53

      I want to slap the crap out of her lying ass.

    • @pamelaworley4122
      @pamelaworley4122 5 років тому +40

      I VIVIDLY recall this episode. I remember Judge Mathis asking her 2 times if she was absolutely sure if her son was the father. She stated yes. I think the lady made the best decision on not getting to close to the baby. I think the girl knew what was going on with this family. And knowing how much LOVE that this mother has for her son.

    • @merced121
      @merced121 5 років тому +3

      RIGHTEOUS TRUTH FROM A PERFECT WOMAN WITH NO FLAWS WHATSOEVER....NOT ! 👎
      YOU KNOW EVERYTHING & NOTHING, WHEN IT COMES TO KNOWING HOW ANOTHER HUMAN FEELS.
      THAT'S VERY HYPOCRITICAL OF YOU TO JUDGE SOMEONE YOU DON'T KNOW & EVEN IF YOU DID, YOU CAST HER ASIDE FOR HER ERRORS JUST BC YOU HAVEN'T MADE 'ANY'.
      PEARLS HAVE BEEN WASTED ON YOU BC YOU REFUSE TO HAVE COMPASSION FOR THOSE WHO HAVE FALLEN & WALKED AWAY W/O LENDING A HAND.
      KARMIC LAW DOESN'T STOP, WHAT GOES AROUND, WELL, YOU SHOULD KNOW THE REST.

    • @aureliapetty-owens6333
      @aureliapetty-owens6333 5 років тому +18

      I'm glad the Mother made sure 100%.

  • @veneyebony
    @veneyebony 3 роки тому +1384

    Man I’m balling😭 I’ve never seen him so vulnerable. Wow! I think he went in the back to cry and compose himself so he could read the results with a clear head

  • @laurenthomas5758
    @laurenthomas5758 2 роки тому +134

    Idk how or why I stumbled across this video. But my heart aches for these two woman. I’m sitting in the bathroom right now crying because he is right. It’s hard to grieve alone. I never realized how much pain I’ve been in until I watched this. This is 7/22/22 and for me it’s time for a change. The world needs ❤️ love.

    • @SSmall29624
      @SSmall29624 Рік тому +1

      Amen.

    • @tiffanyfulton8025
      @tiffanyfulton8025 Рік тому +2

      I pray for your healing and strength to press forward. Don't be afraid to get the help you need. I don't know you, but I love you. You deserve and worth the peace you need in your life.

    • @tonimcbride2205
      @tonimcbride2205 8 місяців тому

      Grieving since Feb 24, Gpa buried April 6, smh, I’m having to learn how to grieve at 60 yrs old. 😭😭😭

  • @nancyedwards4281
    @nancyedwards4281 2 роки тому +136

    I love how compassionate and caring he is! And the fact that he prayed for them is beautiful!

  • @annmurdock9550
    @annmurdock9550 5 років тому +790

    Why did this girl come into the court knowing she had slept with someone else!!! OMG!!!!! She only made that WOUND in this mother's heart "DEEPER"!! Shameful!!!

    • @SunshineandFlowers456
      @SunshineandFlowers456 5 років тому +53

      She obviously is just going through a list of names. My heart breaks for the mother and her daughter.

    • @f.bouwman1214
      @f.bouwman1214 5 років тому +48

      Lieing bitch

    • @wadek798
      @wadek798 5 років тому +39

      She is a liar

    • @user-pn6zp3fu1h
      @user-pn6zp3fu1h 5 років тому +17

      @T RuFF's Home IF... she knows who that is.

    • @victoriasimpson8792
      @victoriasimpson8792 5 років тому +18

      mommy sutton and her dad just sitting there with his mouth hanging open. The prayer from the Judge was sincere, and it was needed. Peace everyone, please try to do the right thing.

  • @NaturallyNerdeeNicol
    @NaturallyNerdeeNicol 3 роки тому +815

    after this, I don't care what anyone says, he is the realest judge ever and probably a nice person

    • @Coach_Rachelle
      @Coach_Rachelle 3 роки тому +21

      He and Judge Lynn Toler are the realest and my favs for sure!!

    • @paulacross3086
      @paulacross3086 3 роки тому +13

      @@Coach_Rachelle So is Judge Hatchett.

    • @Coach_Rachelle
      @Coach_Rachelle 3 роки тому +5

      Yes, she is! I forgot about Judge Hatchet.

    • @chefmarco305
      @chefmarco305 3 роки тому +3

      Him, judge Lynn and judge Judy realest judges on TV period

    • @Angel-st4jv
      @Angel-st4jv 3 роки тому +4

      You can tell that he’s a good person at heart. He reminds me of my dad that passed at the age of 58. That’s part of the reason that I love watching his show.

  • @endiarapier5663
    @endiarapier5663 2 роки тому +37

    That’s like loosing her son all over again.😢😢😢😢
    And, Judge Mathis, I love the beautiful way you handled this. You walked away, came back, comfort both parties and one of my favorites, prayed with them. This goes down in history. Mad love and respect in the most high manner.❤️✊🏽

  • @gwenndavidd
    @gwenndavidd 2 роки тому +88

    This was a hard one to watch. My heart breaks for the mother of the deceased son. Much respect to Judge Mathis.

  • @jazzroulac6760
    @jazzroulac6760 5 років тому +360

    My man!!!!!!! Judge Mathis....Much Love and Respect.

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +4

      U r telling her right God gone truly truly truly Bless u Judge Matis That was sweet. I am sorry u lost your son.

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +2

      U woman don't know who your Baby Daddy's r? Sadd on TV at this is

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +1

      Judge Matis God gone truly truly truly Bless u for you . That was sweet and he gone pray with them? That right there took off to God

    • @AandP4dummieslikeme
      @AandP4dummieslikeme 5 років тому +1

      Thank goodness the mother decided to get a DNA test before she got close to the baby. It's sad that has to be done, but she made the right choice.

  • @cculc175
    @cculc175 5 років тому +472

    She standing there with her mouth open like she ain’t know there was somebody else. Trifling.

    • @hydeiagavin3668
      @hydeiagavin3668 4 роки тому +44

      Cherri Culcleasure And didn’t even apologize

    • @mama-shellsmith359
      @mama-shellsmith359 4 роки тому +8

      Exactly

    • @titiwest5891
      @titiwest5891 4 роки тому +25

      When they read it she said I gotta go

    • @jadeehm
      @jadeehm 3 роки тому +28

      Trash!!! She has no idea who the father is, so her tears are for the humiliation not for the loss of this woman’s son!🤨

    • @jeanwagner7031
      @jeanwagner7031 3 роки тому +10

      Exactly!!!! And this woman’s already been through enough; she didn’t need the added trauma!!

  • @bigpoppa44120
    @bigpoppa44120 2 роки тому +75

    Thank you sir, for allowing God to shine through you. I absolutely could feel your pain and despair, as you exited the bench. You repented, and then prayed on television…Epic!

  • @upenzi
    @upenzi 3 роки тому +184

    To stand there and lie is trifling. To say immediately “I gotta go” is trifling. To let out that wail of a cry like you’re hurting is trifling. To not even have the decency to apologize for not telling the truth is trifling. I’m so sad for that woman and I pray for her and her family healing together more than anything.

    • @benitaapplebottom01
      @benitaapplebottom01 2 роки тому +24

      Exactly her trifling behind...that mean she slept w/3+ men around the same time of conception...smdh

    • @rosereacts843
      @rosereacts843 Рік тому +8

      An to add….
      eyes was wide open during the Lord’s Prayer smh!
      The lord saved them from having someone like her in they’re life’s we may not understand it (at the time) but God has a plan… an in my opinion I believe this is why it was “negative”, that women already has toxic ppl in her life (her family) she didnt need the young lady as well!
      Thank you dear lord!

    • @isys8277
      @isys8277 Рік тому

      Man oh mannn

    • @ygpwnxd_xd752
      @ygpwnxd_xd752 Рік тому

      Upenzi 👍👍👍
      The defendant fat b - - -h lied to the judge abt the 3rd guy bcz she had already tested 1 guy so she presumed the deceased was the father. Why the F was she shedding crocodile tears when the results came out? That’s bc she must hv slept with multiple black men N was guilty. Also the mother shld move on since that’s not her grand son. In any case that kid was not living with her N she needs no extra burden bc she has her own biological kids. As for the fat white b - - - h she shld go on mauryas show with a battalion of black men .

    • @crispycruiser4654
      @crispycruiser4654 Рік тому

      Racist

  • @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz
    @MyThoughtzAndOpinionz 4 роки тому +2497

    When he said “I need to take a break” I knew that the paternity results were negative.

    • @dayYdream2k
      @dayYdream2k 4 роки тому +25

      So did i

    • @renitarice1022
      @renitarice1022 4 роки тому +19

      And so did I as well 😭

    • @Cozmoe-su8yj
      @Cozmoe-su8yj 4 роки тому +40

      Okay because I wasn’t understanding that, but it make sense now.

    • @fadethechannel
      @fadethechannel 4 роки тому +67

      You Need Jesus i did too. I think he went to cry.

    • @nubiacairo8835
      @nubiacairo8835 4 роки тому +74

      Me too. I guess he had to go compose himself.

  • @FallnAngel07
    @FallnAngel07 3 роки тому +523

    My heart breaks for the mom. She was lied to in the worst way.

  • @drislady
    @drislady 2 роки тому +97

    The young woman's father sat in complete disbelief. She lied and was extremely inconsiderate of the grieving mother. She calls even more trauma to this woman after she lost her son. I hope that the grieving mother finds some peace on this Earth soon

  • @Jglendab8153
    @Jglendab8153 2 роки тому +12

    He saw the results and needed time to compose himself enough to tell the mom the findings. This is a compassionate judge.

  • @kre.7339
    @kre.7339 5 років тому +709

    Saddest case on the Judge Mathis Show!!💔😢

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +17

      Alright Judge Matis u doing the right thing now . God gone truly truly truly Bless u Judge Matis . Because that was real sweet. See right now Judge Matis c u better buy u a umbrella because c Right now God fixing throw so many Blessings at u . Judge Matis u gone need a umbrella to catch all your Blessings. That was truly truly sweet

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +10

      For the mother God got u sugar . It's ok . God got this God got u

    • @benjaminlewis2876
      @benjaminlewis2876 5 років тому +5

      God gone truly Bless u Judge Matis he sure is

    • @queendomgaming
      @queendomgaming 5 років тому +8

      Cried for like the past few minutes man 😢 My heart broke for her

    • @patricewashington1024
      @patricewashington1024 5 років тому +7

      This was so heart warming how he prayed and treated both ladies. I love Judge Mathis. I love how he wasn’t ashame to pray with them.

  • @jessicamariesmith9847
    @jessicamariesmith9847 5 років тому +566

    When the judge has to take a moment to regroup it’s really bad. 😭😭😭 this hurts my soul!

    • @ebonylocks1375
      @ebonylocks1375 5 років тому +4

      True

    • @jaesimpson425
      @jaesimpson425 5 років тому +38

      When he left I automatically knew something was wrong. I started crying then😢.

    • @ebonylocks1375
      @ebonylocks1375 5 років тому +22

      I cry, it is so sad, I guess the judge went away to cry, I cry when the judge Pray for them, this is something rarely happens in court

    • @healed2011
      @healed2011 5 років тому +24

      Jessica Marie Smith I knew when he left that her son wasn’t the father. I believe that he went to verify the results with his staff and/or the contracted testing center.

    • @mom2bbygkaterad379
      @mom2bbygkaterad379 5 років тому +5

      Yes indeed.....😔😢

  • @lolofraz06
    @lolofraz06 2 роки тому +15

    I feel so bad for both of them. You can see it in her eyes that she truly felt he was the father and how numb she becomes while he’s talking. I really feel for his mom cause it was already rough and this added to it

  • @kachirisuarez7812
    @kachirisuarez7812 2 роки тому +8

    His heart broke when he read those results thats why he took a break he felt her pain before he could even get the words out so heartbreaking god bless all of them

  • @dopechick4955
    @dopechick4955 4 роки тому +898

    When grandma said the baby would change lives, I felt it in my soul. That’s as real as it gets. That girl was 15 and running wild.

    • @Cozmoe-su8yj
      @Cozmoe-su8yj 4 роки тому +89

      I know her dad is extremely embarrassed.

    • @andrejamal5438
      @andrejamal5438 4 роки тому +30

      She is terrible for that

    • @jeanwagner7031
      @jeanwagner7031 3 роки тому +39

      @@Cozmoe-su8yj DUDE!!! I was thinking the SAME thing!!!!! “My daughter is a dang hoar!!”

    • @rocthaice24
      @rocthaice24 3 роки тому +50

      The dad looked at her in disgust. I don’t think it’s because she slept around but the fact knowing what those people had been through and you still lied

    • @andigordon8397
      @andigordon8397 2 роки тому +4

      @@Cozmoe-su8yj
      Yeah her dad was stunned.... Felt bad for him too...

  • @dmburns555
    @dmburns555 5 років тому +716

    I knew as soon as Judge Mathis left the bench that wasn't her grandchild... I hope both families can heal and The Creator bless her son's soul.

    • @kkthedrummer8999
      @kkthedrummer8999 5 років тому +18

      Yep it was in his face

    • @ybradford6349
      @ybradford6349 5 років тому +5

      @@kkthedrummer8999 Yes it was all over his face

    • @revettefarrow4111
      @revettefarrow4111 5 років тому +15

      I knew when the case started it wasnt her grandchild. Glad she didnt get attached. When asked was there any other man besides the 2 you stated she paused. Only feel bad for the mother

    • @elgiepettus2723
      @elgiepettus2723 5 років тому +4

      Praying for these families 🙏🏿💕

    • @nataliebrady7565
      @nataliebrady7565 5 років тому +1

      D B yup and when he walked over to her i knew then too

  • @jenydawn
    @jenydawn 3 роки тому +14

    We need more of this in America. This judge is a good man

  • @swails57
    @swails57 Рік тому +11

    I work at a cemetery and I deal with grief on a daily basis. This episode really shook me to the core. What Judge Mathis did here to help this family dealing with grievances is truly extraordinary. I couldn’t stop crying 😢

  • @julizzamoreno2848
    @julizzamoreno2848 4 роки тому +548

    I cried because of the intense emotions :( I cried even louder when she said oh my God he doesn't have any kids

    • @misshebabe16x
      @misshebabe16x 3 роки тому +25

      That part took me out, I had to walk out of the room for a minute. This episode was something else

    • @ScorpioBeauty
      @ScorpioBeauty 3 роки тому +9

      Right. She just wanted something left of him

    • @theninjacat7200
      @theninjacat7200 3 роки тому +13

      The pain...my goodness. she said it could push her over the edge...my heart goes out to her.

    • @sexyd062291
      @sexyd062291 3 роки тому +6

      @@theninjacat7200 I hope it didn't. I hope therapy is working for her. I hope she's not alone either because I swear dark thoughts attack you the most when you're alone.

    • @annac6701
      @annac6701 3 роки тому +7

      That part broke me down. She needed this to be her grandson so she could have a piece of her son. So sad!!

  • @lisameadows766
    @lisameadows766 3 роки тому +662

    I'VE SAID THIS A 1000 TIMES ~ DNA TESTS SHOULD BE MANDATORY!!! NO IFS ANDS or BUTS

  • @ninapeihopa4948
    @ninapeihopa4948 2 роки тому +58

    As a mother and grandmother who has lost, a few children myself this hit many cords for me. 😢

    • @darleneachille491
      @darleneachille491 2 роки тому +5

      Nina, sorry for your losses!!!!

    • @kiagraham2987
      @kiagraham2987 2 роки тому +2

      Blessings to you praying for your healing & strength

  • @HeIsKJW
    @HeIsKJW 2 роки тому +23

    I’m literally on the verge of shedding a tear they both seem to have such a kind heart after having to grieve 😢

  • @devarnburks7647
    @devarnburks7647 5 років тому +455

    SAD SAD THAT GIRL KNEW SHE WAS LYING ALL THE TIME THAT POOR LADY MY HEART GOES OUT TO HER😢😢

    • @ChocolateSunshine1
      @ChocolateSunshine1 4 роки тому +20

      I THINK SO TOO... LYING ASS ...FOH

    • @mstamaraful
      @mstamaraful 4 роки тому +1

      Right

    • @mellandy87
      @mellandy87 4 роки тому +24

      I hate when she said she was 100% sure she wasn't sleeping with no one else. Like a Whole Lie!

    • @rocthaice24
      @rocthaice24 3 роки тому +1

      It’s to many situations like these that we laugh off or disregard because a woman was being a free spirit

    • @mom2bbygkaterad379
      @mom2bbygkaterad379 3 роки тому +1

      7:43-8:00.... Judge Mathis asked her specifically if she had been with anyone else? He literally asked her was she 100% certain & she said yes. She LIED. We're all imperfect but all she had to do was be honest. This young lady sought out a grieving mother when they had no idea she & her child even existed. This was so awful. Prayerfully, the mother of the deceased is on the path to healing though she will never be the same.💔🥀😔

  • @Belle2oo8
    @Belle2oo8 4 роки тому +1364

    I was like “im not going to cry im not going to cry” but this broke me. Prayers and love towards the grandmother 💕💕💕

    • @pammoore2171
      @pammoore2171 4 роки тому +6

      me too! crying like a baby

    • @angelanelson2275
      @angelanelson2275 4 роки тому +9

      Love is not in the Blood..
      It is in the Heart! The Baby & The Mom need someone obviously..they are in each others lives ...make the best of it!!!

    • @kimh9420
      @kimh9420 4 роки тому +1

      Me too

    • @victory3269
      @victory3269 4 роки тому +1

      @@angelanelson2275 yes

    • @victory3269
      @victory3269 4 роки тому +1

      @@angelanelson2275 my toughts too

  • @perrybeason8389
    @perrybeason8389 3 роки тому +20

    I've never seen such a great God fearing judge in all my life. Keep up the great work.... I had to fight back the tears 😢

  • @charleswindom3305
    @charleswindom3305 2 роки тому +9

    He really didn't want to tell her,but as a grown as man I'm crying like a baby

  • @barbiegirl6393
    @barbiegirl6393 3 роки тому +701

    When he walked back in and hugged the mother I instantly started crying but the prayer was a game changer!! Best Judge EVER!!

    • @darleneachille491
      @darleneachille491 2 роки тому +2

      AMEN!!!!

    • @36Kourtney
      @36Kourtney 2 роки тому +2

      Me 2

    • @wendywilkins5218
      @wendywilkins5218 2 роки тому +4

      This really touched me and hurt my heart❤️I feel so very bad for the mother and she has already loves this child, I am do very sorry I know this hurts please ask our GOD to give you the Strength you will need to keep going, always remember the good times that you and your child spent together, GOD BLESS

    • @nishafont100
      @nishafont100 2 роки тому +4

      He was really nice to her after she lied. Prayers is what she need.

    • @36Kourtney
      @36Kourtney 2 роки тому +3

      He did a similar pray on Monday's show. The young was devastated because she was the defendants daughter 😢 💔 😭

  • @chaechanelo893
    @chaechanelo893 3 роки тому +607

    This was so tough...I can’t imagine her hurt. She just wanted a little piece of her son just to be crushed to know that no parts of her son is left on this earth. She wanted to watch this child grow and see her son through him. It’s so sad.

    • @edithedlund1532
      @edithedlund1532 3 роки тому +33

      That young woman is a disgrace. Putting that poor woman through this ordeal.

    • @darondawilliams9097
      @darondawilliams9097 2 роки тому +3

      My heart goes out to that mother. She only wanted something left on this earth. You are totally correct.

    • @tramainewiggins4028
      @tramainewiggins4028 2 роки тому

      It was so sad

    • @desireerivera2464
      @desireerivera2464 2 роки тому +2

      @@edithedlund1532 pure selfish and evil imo she should have been honest esp in this situation. I'm so angry at her right now and this is an old case. I hope the mother is better and got help she seemed like a very sweet woman.

  • @davidsmythe7645
    @davidsmythe7645 3 роки тому +17

    I liked how this ended despite what the outcome of the DNA test was. Shows that he has a heart and he’s really a caring person at the end of the day.

  • @burney7418
    @burney7418 2 роки тому +6

    This hurt my heart badly. I so wanted it to be their grandson. God bless them.

  • @liljok8102
    @liljok8102 3 роки тому +934

    That girl is so wrong for that. She should have just said she wasn’t sure instead of being sooo certain. This really hurted me

    • @sasziy375
      @sasziy375 3 роки тому +94

      I said the same thing. I cried. I just hope the black lady doesn’t commit suicide as well because of this. 🤦‍♀️

    • @gj5924
      @gj5924 3 роки тому +21

      Me tooo... I boo hoood

    • @thedobermangang3503
      @thedobermangang3503 3 роки тому +16

      you right about that

    • @heathernks8
      @heathernks8 2 роки тому +48

      Not only being so certain, but "messaging" the mom to "let her know" that it was her son's?! That seemed especially cruel.. Or a move to get child support🤷‍♀️

    • @souheartt3825
      @souheartt3825 2 роки тому +27

      @@heathernks8 exactly,seems like she knew he wasn't the father but still wanted child support or whatever

  • @juliettablack2000
    @juliettablack2000 4 роки тому +897

    That’s right judge Mathis! Don’t be afraid of the gospel of Christ .!

    • @beasaroseco5840
      @beasaroseco5840 3 роки тому +17

      Praise The Lord!

    • @erinjones5165
      @erinjones5165 3 роки тому +25

      Until people give their hearts and lives over to JESUS CHRIST this world will be a sinful and a heartless nation

    • @richardrodriguez5359
      @richardrodriguez5359 3 роки тому +5

      @@erinjones5165 he doesn’t exist. Stop with that foolishness

    • @erinjones5165
      @erinjones5165 3 роки тому +14

      @@richardrodriguez5359 HE does exist read the HOLY BIBLE and go to a Holiness church. Not these man made churches like Baptist and Catholic and Lutheran and Methodist and AME and no Dominational and any other man mad church. We supposed to be HOLY just like GOD is HOLY. You start listening to Pastor Gino Jennings on UA-cam he preach the truth and don't sugarcoat nothing

    • @blablablammamma
      @blablablammamma 3 роки тому +13

      @@richardrodriguez5359 you are the fool, Jesus does Exist. And I really hope you just try and pray so He reveals His Glorious Self to you. Jesus loves you 💖

  • @GDogg84067
    @GDogg84067 Рік тому +9

    That was by far the most emotionally charged case that I have ever viewed.
    I have the utmost respect for Judge Mathis but after seeing his display of compassion with these ladies, my respect for him was elevated to another level! Let go and let God! 🙏🏽❤️

  • @dashar9046
    @dashar9046 Рік тому +5

    This is sad!.... She didn't even apologize knowing how the mother felt about this situation. I hope both parties get the help they both need.

  • @CeeVee714
    @CeeVee714 5 років тому +204

    He prayed for them. That was really nice of Judge Matthis.

  • @dayYdream2k
    @dayYdream2k 4 роки тому +328

    😭😭I'm hurting for this mother. She needed this child. I pray for her strength.

  • @lukebeelmanbeelman7952
    @lukebeelmanbeelman7952 2 роки тому +1

    I usually don't watch judge's on tv but my respect for wat I just saw is higher then ever.
    God. Moves in ways possible.

  • @CDKV
    @CDKV 2 місяці тому +1

    This child lost a wonderful grandmother. That’s the saddest part. What a wonderful grandmother she would have been.

  • @queenb3184
    @queenb3184 5 років тому +301

    That’s enough to have given that poor grieving mother a heart attack. I don’t understand why people lie about serious matters such as paternity. My condolences to the family. 🙏🏾

  • @veroa1985
    @veroa1985 5 років тому +220

    Such a sad situation, to see the judge step down to pray for the women broke my heart

  • @cynthiabonner-wood7400
    @cynthiabonner-wood7400 2 роки тому +3

    I just saw this episode and I was really in tears, as soon as the grandmother started. I love the judge prayed for both of them as we all stand in the need of prayer.

  • @aquiringmind
    @aquiringmind 2 роки тому +5

    It's so messed up this happened and it's also a blessing to the mother to not have such a trifling person in her life. Prayers to her and family

  • @sinndymorr6358
    @sinndymorr6358 3 роки тому +485

    Sad that we can't have more judges like him in courts all over the US.

  • @Maria-kw1zm
    @Maria-kw1zm 5 років тому +285

    I never thought of starting a prayer like he did...I will start because it made sense to me in many ways.

    • @inspirexperience0705
      @inspirexperience0705 4 роки тому +4

      Maria 1967 I felt that too 🙏❤

    • @Queensofafrica8
      @Queensofafrica8 3 роки тому +4

      Amen!!!! So true

    • @jeremiahcarter5366
      @jeremiahcarter5366 3 роки тому +10

      I always ask God to forgive me of my sins I have committed, sins that I may have committed I did not realize. Yes I agree with Judge Mathis you must always cleanse before you go before God in prayer.

    • @lawandamoore7743
      @lawandamoore7743 3 роки тому +9

      Yes ! I loved the way he began that prayer. I had to go back so I could hear it again.

    • @SuperZytoon
      @SuperZytoon 3 роки тому +4

      I’ve never heard of beginning a prayer like this either. I’m going to write this in my Bible so I can remember to say it each time. What a wonderful man we have in Judge Mathis.

  • @tequiladenise7787
    @tequiladenise7787 2 роки тому +3

    And this is why he’s on the Hollywood walk of Fame. He has such a good heart and a genuine love for people. He’s a very passionate person on specific matters. He gives a great balance of tough and love. Thank you for your service Judge GM🙏

  • @melissabillings6561
    @melissabillings6561 2 роки тому +6

    My heart aches for this mother! I can't stop crying. GOD BLESS everyone who is involved.

  • @nicholecrawford7367
    @nicholecrawford7367 5 років тому +271

    Damn I wasn’t ready for this RIP BABYBOY

    • @cassandrarussell5558
      @cassandrarussell5558 5 років тому +7

      Who you telling 🤧🤧🤧🤧

    • @reneehill2780
      @reneehill2780 5 років тому

      @Kenya smith why she was white. To all women it was embarrassing!

  • @thepyro9694
    @thepyro9694 3 роки тому +160

    You can literally see his heart break when he reads it

  • @glennasalas4591
    @glennasalas4591 2 роки тому +1

    Love how he keeps his kindness and love even when she didn’t tell the truth and offered prayers. Amazing man of God! I’m am 😭😢😭

  • @godsgirl1977
    @godsgirl1977 2 роки тому

    Thank you for praying for them out loud.... I was so concerned about the grandmother for she uttered she didnt wanted to live
    Life can be so hard.....

  • @jasmineyoungblood
    @jasmineyoungblood 4 роки тому +188

    I can’t believe she would lie and embarrass that woman like that 😕. Talking about “100% sure”. Unbelievable!

    • @develyamccullough6554
      @develyamccullough6554 3 роки тому +7

      Right..Lying Ass😪😪😪

    • @barbaraw.
      @barbaraw. 3 роки тому +2

      SMH

    • @revettefarrow4111
      @revettefarrow4111 3 роки тому +3

      And Those Crocodile Tears

    • @wendyharris9370
      @wendyharris9370 3 роки тому +1

      She said she was sure but she didn't say 100% sure. That's when I knew the baby wasn't his. The girl wavered and she didn't sound so sure.

  • @vincentparker972
    @vincentparker972 5 років тому +267

    That's real sad 😢 my heart goes out to her judge Mathis said he didn't know what to say, he did when he praised his holly name Hallelujah!!!" 👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @garrislaw
      @garrislaw 5 років тому +1

      Holy not holly

    • @kristieconner8608
      @kristieconner8608 5 років тому

      Yes!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @vincentparker972
      @vincentparker972 5 років тому +5

      @@garrislaw thanks 4 correcting me 😄 its always some body

    • @garrislaw
      @garrislaw 5 років тому +3

      @@vincentparker972 Thanks for not being offended.

    • @vincentparker972
      @vincentparker972 5 років тому +1

      @@garrislaw you had to find1 misspelled word hu

  • @morganburden4969
    @morganburden4969 Рік тому +3

    I’ve been watching for so so so long, and this is the first case that’s ever brought me to tears

  • @a.s.3883
    @a.s.3883 3 роки тому +5

    I really love how Judge Mathis handled this case. Very compassionate. We could see every part of his heart.

  • @thecrew20101
    @thecrew20101 5 років тому +210

    So sad, but beautiful the way the judge handled it

  • @PricelessPretty
    @PricelessPretty 5 років тому +240

    All she had to say is "I don't know". Not yes she was 100% sure. Sad.

    • @charray6867
      @charray6867 5 років тому +2

      Exactly

    • @charray6867
      @charray6867 5 років тому +4

      Okay. She must've been thinking how her Daddy was gonna react abt her whorish ways, instead of how it was gonna affect Darien's Mother. Very sad 😥

    • @sisterhoodconfessions8776
      @sisterhoodconfessions8776 5 років тому +9

      This lady is evil, I’m sorry. She wanted to take advantage of this poor grieving woman . All she had to say, was she wasn’t sure. So you slept with multiple men and got pregnant wow!

    • @jearl3054
      @jearl3054 4 роки тому +2

      Sad is right. These girls don't know the power of the DNA test. They really don't, and that too is sad. Gone are the days when you can "make" any man the father. Now the DNA test will expose you for the liar that you really are. They still refuse to just say: "I don't Know", but yes, 100% sure. Only to be embarrassed by the truth of the DNA result. Sad, sad, sad! .

    • @thewise2443
      @thewise2443 4 роки тому +1

      Yea she knew ! Smfh triflin

  • @HeyTidi
    @HeyTidi 2 роки тому +12

    Watching this hurt so bad. My heart hurts so much for this mother and the whole family. I know how it feels to lose a family member to suicide, but I know the is much deeper when it's your child. I pray this woman's healing.

  • @sboykin8680
    @sboykin8680 2 роки тому +3

    I believe that girl was JUST hoping and wishing, the Judge felt this Mother’s pain and I felt his compassion!

  • @nettejones8276
    @nettejones8276 3 роки тому +157

    When he said *I need to take a break*, I knew he went in the back to cry because I know I did. She should have just been honest. My heart is broke.

  • @Monika-bc3dq
    @Monika-bc3dq 3 роки тому +705

    Stop trying to pin a child on a dead person, because you think no one will question that. She knew he wasn't the father or at least that there were other men. She's cruel to put this woman through it.

    • @theninjacat7200
      @theninjacat7200 3 роки тому +57

      some folks have no shame. when my cousin died, some chick came forward and I shut her down.

    • @sexyanonymous4962
      @sexyanonymous4962 3 роки тому +17

      if that was the case why would she agree to come on national tv and embarrass herself like that

    • @Monika-bc3dq
      @Monika-bc3dq 3 роки тому +49

      @@sexyanonymous4962 lie going to far to back out? Happens all the time unfortunately.

    • @tjneverdefeated4394
      @tjneverdefeated4394 3 роки тому +31

      She definitely knew there were other men. If not her issues are much deeper than grief counseling can help.

    • @justjoan4010
      @justjoan4010 3 роки тому +11

      That’s right. She was sleeping around and now who knows who the father is.

  • @sharonvelasquez2633
    @sharonvelasquez2633 2 роки тому

    My heart is weeping, & you were always my favorite judge before this case but you have just raised the bar. God Bless You & the Mother that raised you🙏🏽🙏🙏🏾🙏🏻🙏🏿🙏🏾

  • @marthawest4313
    @marthawest4313 Рік тому

    WOW JUDGE MATHIS, YOU ARE THE AWESOMEST!!! WHAT AN AMAZING DISPLAY OF CONCERN & CARE! YOU HAVE GAINED GREATER RESPECT ACROSS THE WORLD.

  • @drshockusdebra123
    @drshockusdebra123 5 років тому +121

    This totally was not what any of us expected. I'm so tearful too. Thank God for a judge who knows you

  • @TrulyUnbothered
    @TrulyUnbothered 4 роки тому +306

    I cried way to hard lawwwddd. I need a hug too.

  • @CrystalBotes-mf5be
    @CrystalBotes-mf5be 8 днів тому

    What a man and judge with such great compassion.May u always be blessed.The world need more people like u👍🙏😢💖

  • @mouthingtheobscure2579
    @mouthingtheobscure2579 2 роки тому +1

    I have never bawled my eyes out to a court case before. Just incredible.Still wiping away the tears.

  • @Lifeslessons81
    @Lifeslessons81 5 років тому +96

    This is one of the most emotional cases I've watched 😫😖😖

  • @MorganB101
    @MorganB101 4 роки тому +543

    So she knew the truth and instead of saying sorry she says she has to go

    • @ThatBeeyatch
      @ThatBeeyatch 3 роки тому +27

      Skanks gonna skank

    • @chooseylover1422
      @chooseylover1422 3 роки тому +12

      Ooooh she made me so mad I needed that prayer too

    • @audreyhenderson2776
      @audreyhenderson2776 3 роки тому +15

      She should have been more truthful and admitting that there was another potential father.

    • @amberm7116
      @amberm7116 3 роки тому +13

      She definitely HOPEFULLY learned a serious lesson in being dishonest ! She should have just said the damn truth instead of worrying about judgment ! She got this poor woman’s hopes up. But if anything good did come of this is that she’s gonna get the grief counseling she needs at no cost to her and I’m sure the judge did something extra. It coming out on national television is good for her. I’m sure thousands of people reached out to her. She was always so alone and I’m willing to bet she’s not now. Its also helps shine more light on suicide. Her being there might really save some other mother the pain of losing a child to suicide. She knew she fucked up. I hope she learned a damn lesson fr otherwise it would be in vain.

    • @NateNizzle
      @NateNizzle 3 роки тому +4

      Yeah.. She had to go find who the daddy is.

  • @nadiamajors390
    @nadiamajors390 2 роки тому

    This is the most incredible but sadden story that I’ve heard. In the kindness of this judge is amazing for him to hug them and then pray for them I am beyond like that is true human kindness

  • @nadinerogers5322
    @nadinerogers5322 2 роки тому

    Speechless and full of admiration for the level of compassion shown to all parties. 😢😢😢

  • @jamesobiri1583
    @jamesobiri1583 5 років тому +513

    Why did she stand there and lie for God sake. I am devastated myself.

    • @janethefriend-awakened33
      @janethefriend-awakened33 5 років тому +33

      because she's a nasty lying...

    • @zeewash7153
      @zeewash7153 5 років тому +26

      She was hesitant saying he was the only other one.

    • @DatsWatsUp
      @DatsWatsUp 5 років тому +19

      You can clearly see her shift her eyes when the judge asked her 2x if she was sure.

    • @lindawheatley6864
      @lindawheatley6864 5 років тому

      James Obiri hu

    • @ursulatroxler7428
      @ursulatroxler7428 5 років тому +30

      Exactly all she had to say was that she didn't know who the father was and she had slept with her son.

  • @ashleyarmonie9439
    @ashleyarmonie9439 5 років тому +286

    This was sad.....remember to just be honest!

  • @danastewart8709
    @danastewart8709 3 роки тому

    The judge felt so much empathy for his mom.

  • @dianaoliver8493
    @dianaoliver8493 2 роки тому +1

    I've never cried so much over any case before. As a parent and a grandparent, this one hurt my soul. I'm still crying.

  • @larissamccord4968
    @larissamccord4968 5 років тому +140

    I feel horrible for that mama!!! 😢 I wish them nothing but the best in life.. may God bless everyone involved 💕🙏💕

  • @SuthernGyrl99
    @SuthernGyrl99 5 років тому +225

    This is heartbreaking on so many levels. I wonder how the mom is doing now. My heart aches for her!

    • @amberlynn2634
      @amberlynn2634 5 років тому +11

      The would have been grandmother has my deepest sympathy though...terrible terrible situation.

    • @sophiaburger6199
      @sophiaburger6199 5 років тому +9

      I just watched and sitting here crying so heartbreaking.

    • @goldenstar2656
      @goldenstar2656 5 років тому +4

      @@sophiaburger6199 me too so sad I pray for the family may God be with them always I was hoping the baby was her grandchild.

  • @margiesbeauty
    @margiesbeauty Рік тому +8

    I’m late in this but, this is really deep. The level of respect for a judge like Judge Mathis!!!!! Wow

  • @ronflowers3099
    @ronflowers3099 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Judge for being a light in a dark moment.

  • @Bloombaby99
    @Bloombaby99 5 років тому +143

    I don't normally cry but damn it. Good job, Judge Mathis.
    😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

  • @FirstladyGibson
    @FirstladyGibson 3 роки тому +178

    My God! I pray that this young man’s mom has received the help she needs! In tears...Lord have mercy! Thank you Judge Mathis for being a man of God and topping this episode off with a prayer!

  • @Tee-kk6tj
    @Tee-kk6tj 2 роки тому +3

    I cried like this were my own results! Good Lord! I have two sons & this is something I can never imagine having to go thru when they’re old enough to have kids. Goodness this touched my heart!!!

  • @reginaelizabethbrown1963
    @reginaelizabethbrown1963 2 роки тому

    This case brought me to tears. Through the passage of time and The Most High's grace heal the mother's heartache over the lost of her son. Thank you, Judge Mathis, for your kindness and compassion... may The Most High Yah bless you always, Judge Mathis. SHALOM

  • @michelledarville1122
    @michelledarville1122 3 роки тому +291

    I upset because that young lady knew there was a 3 person. Why put that mother through that at all

    • @dawng5890
      @dawng5890 3 роки тому +10

      300

    • @ForeverYoung-zm5em
      @ForeverYoung-zm5em 3 роки тому +20

      Probably way more than 3. All unprotected and around the same time. Smh. I encourage all men, married or not, get blood test!

    • @dondudan2441
      @dondudan2441 3 роки тому +16

      A 3rd person? How are we sure they're aren't 10 dudes? She's wrong for putting this lady through this

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 3 роки тому +6

      Exactly . They act like they forgot they slept with multiple dudes

    • @candid0111
      @candid0111 3 роки тому +2

      there could be 10+ others

  • @aaronhill443
    @aaronhill443 3 роки тому +141

    This was one of the saddest cases that I ever seen on a court show in my life. I watched a ton of episodes of Paternity Court, and never felt this sad after a DNA outcome.

  • @Shorts3J21
    @Shorts3J21 2 роки тому

    This got me crying judge mathis a true dude. Anyone who's been in a situation sorta like this or just lost someone and was sorta solo healed with that prayer man. Damn judge you got me today thank ya

  • @realitydoll216
    @realitydoll216 2 роки тому +2

    This was so sweet of the judge.