Mother Denies Her Husband Abused Daughter
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant is her daughter, who she claims acted out, got kicked out of school, and even abused her own husband. She’s suing her for a credit card bill. The defendant says she was 13 when her mother married her stepfather, who the defendant says molested her repeatedly. She claims her mother didn’t believe her. She’s countersuing for emotional distress and defamation. #JudgeMathis #RealityTV #Court
The plaintiff said she has three medical degrees and mom said “yeah because she went back to school” in a scolding manner as if that’s not how school works lmao.
Lmao
🤣
Narcissistic mother. Nobody can comprehend the trauma unless it's happened to you.
@n1971you're absolutely right about that and what's worse is people who are in those positions are isolated because the Narc is so good at manipulating those around them to believe their story that the victim is left alone to suffer more.
I laughed at that part. So, you’re sneering at her for….putting in the extreme time and effort that it takes to get those degrees? For getting a respectable education?
You can tell by the way she broke down when judge Mathis ruled in her favor that it was probably the first time she’s ever been believed. She looks like someone FINALLY believes her
My exact thoughts
I agree. This was probably the best thing for her mental health. She got some vindication. I don't think I'll ever get any. But I don't really need any. I'm an no contact with my family. I stay far away from that toxicity.
@@tunisiancrochetchannel sorry to hear that, just know that the only vindication you need is your own. keep your head up ❤️
@@teehee4096 Thank you. I've been on a healing journey for the past few years. I am so grateful we don't have to stay stuck in toxic patterns.
That’s exactly how I felt when a judge granted me my name change. I’d had to be very honest on the paperwork about why I wanted to change my last name. (My step-father had adopted me, and I wanted to be able to start fresh, including the degree I was about to receive. I worked so hard to get my life back together, and I didn’t want any part of him, not even his name, to get any kind of credit for the life I had rebuilt. I believe the paperwork said something to the effect of, “I don’t want my rapist’s name on my BA.”) The judge saw my case first, and when he called me by my new name, I felt both vindicated and free.
She blames the daughter for the abuse. She see’s her own daughter as competition. The best thing Christine can do is move far away and drop contact from her mom.
She was never upset that her husband did anything sexual with her daughter she was upset he cheated on her... Again.
@@MamaMOB he did not CHEAT with his stepdaughter. Cheating is a consentual behavior between 2 adults, NOT a grown *ss man molesting a child!
100% facts!!
@@MamaMOB a CHILD cannot cheat with/on their parents. that's called CSA and it's A CRIME because you are ABUSING A CHILD. 2024 and people still walking around with disgusting mindsets like this... my god.
@@MamaMOBthat is NOT cheating, that is RAPE and pedophilia wtf is wrong with you??
"You and the molester can get out of my court room" is one of the rawest lines to ever be said.
Judge Mathis is awesome
Go, Judge Mathis!! 👍🏿
Being validated (your truth being acknowledged) is everything. Or the beginning of healing anyway.
Such pain.
FR
All right Tell Em judge Mathis that's why we love you so much. Yeah buddy
She didn't just turn a blind eye to the husband's wrong doings but she HELPED him. Such a disgusting person. She doesn't even deserve to be called mother by her daughter
By anyone* , that thing is a monster not a mother
I agree completely.
This ‘mother’ is sickening
I don't know the laws in Illinois, but to me it sounds like she should press charges against both her mom and step-father. She should also get a restraining order against both. Her "mother" is clearly not going to change and will continue to abuse her as much as she can.
Absolutely 😡
Anyone else think she stopped sending her to therapy because she didn’t want to get in trouble with CPS for the abuse?
“She started acting out around age 13”
“Did you get her therapy”
“Yes”
“When”
“Well I stopped when she was 13”
That was my first thought, I be sadly heard many stories of kids telling counselors about abuse and the family pulling them out shortly after. It’s quite common in abuse cases
That’s exactly why she stopped her from going to counseling.
Yup
Yup, evil, she needs to be on that show called ( FOR MY MAN)
I thought the same thing plus the mother seems like she's bipolar no offense to those dealing with it.
How do you carry a person for 9 months and you put a nasty ass man above ya own blood?
Scare to be alone sad but true
“Diqkmatized” it’s a specialty field of mine; contact for consultation.
Baby um im 51 and my mom married the man who was watching me bathe I caught him myself eye to eye I moved out and came back she moved him in again
Doesn't have to be 9months and blood to be a daughter.
@@xavierhugstable2678 has nothing to do with sex more so self esteem and dysfunction or this woman.
When your THIRTEEN YEAR OLD DAUGHTER SAYS SOMEONE TOUCHED HER, BY A GROWN MAN YOU BELIEVE HER!!
Exactly! Even if my hypothetical daughter/son lied I'd still side with my kids over the p.o.s partner. Unfathomable how low some people are.
Na na you grab a shotgun and confront the abuser
And then lie about it not happening years later.
U dont just BELIEVE THEM alotta false accusations happen but you definitely look into the allegations cus its fora reason...too many innocent ppl get introuble cus women and kids say they were touched
@@Lyfe164 im gonna belive a kid no matter what, but Im also gonna belive that coaching is a real thing, and people who lie about that stuff should get the same sentence as some one who did the crime
That's not a mother , she's a monster.
Damn straight ☹️
Yep all that thing is, is an incubator.
I can’t stand mother’s who choose their child molesting men over their kids
very common unfortunately
My story 😢🥲
@@beautywithin3288 😥I don't know you but girl I'm so sorry 😐!! Will always keep you in my prayers 🙌❤️
@@shantellcobb7067 Thank you so much..sometimes I need to see and hear stuff like this to push me to not end it all 🙏🏾
@@beautywithin3288 The more you talk about it, the better you will feel. You are not alone. I have clients weekly tell me their stories about sexual abuse, incest and rape...I wish the whole world knew unfortunately how common it is and what is going on behind closed doors. You're story might help someone else not feel so alone. Love you, sis. Stay strong and never let anyone take your power away.
My children would not be visiting my mother if she is still with the man that abused me when I was child. No contact at all.
I agree. However. this woman has experienced unbelievable trauma. She definitely needs intensive psychological help. I’m so glad that Mathis slammed that excuse of a mother.
I understand she has been through trauma but she was putting her children in harm’s way to be victims as well. A person doesn’t just stop being an abuser.
It’s called a trauma bond
That part!! Neva Eva! No matter what!
@@keab9929 She's not going to know that because she was taught that keeping the family together was right and self-preservation was wrong.
The girl showed classic signs of abuse and mom ignored it smh
Judge: “and you still with him”
Plaintiff: “yeah he’s here”
Everyone starts looking around
Including me! Where? Where is he? I was trying to see angles the camera wasn’t showing.
I didn't even hear her say that. I had to rewind. I'm looking in the crowd, too.
I think he was in the back with the light blue shirt on. Dark hair. He didn’t clap for the daughter when everyone else did.
@@dawnhef good 👁
@@mikaberry8226 I kept rewinding it lol
She has the nerve to try to hug her in court after she accused her of lying about what happened to her smh I can only imagine what the daughter really went through with her "mom" growing up as a child!
Sad part about it…is when the “mama” act’s like nothing ever happened…I personally never went through sexual abuse however I went through everything else…still struggling with past demons till this day😔😔😔…
My mother is the same exact way. She is an enabler for abusers. Something in her head is so messed up. She probably honestly believes nothing happened even if she said so in the past smh. I hope the daughter protects herself and kids at any cost because her mom is so dangerous.
Steady tryna manipulate her daughter!
Fr I was livid when she got all victim and was like "can I please have a hug?" THE AUDACITY.
@@nekea93 My mom is the same way. She defends my older brother and he is abusive!
A mother who believes their partner over their daughter is someone I have zero respect for.
Someone who should no longer matter to you.
This solidified my beliefs that a woman bearing a child is so so different from being a mother
Not true
@Lauren Woolams yes there's a very distinct difference.
@@puresoulreload3369 Any fertile woman can birth a kid, but not every woman can be a mother.
@@teaandroses exactly.
Correct
Stepdad not coming to court to defend his name/actions speaks volumes 🤔🥴
I believe he was there just wasn’t shown on camera
Right 💪🙌
@@kylerdukes5316
He left his wife to fight the battle. It was THEIR credit card. The least he could've done was stand next to her in unity like she did for him all of these years🤔
He was there sitting in the witness seat, they didn’t show his face
@@foreignbodii
Interesting that he got away with not showing his face. Camera never zoomed in on him when wife/daughter made reference to him.
I rewatched.
I believe you are correct. Mathis said, " You and the child molester can get out of my courtroom." Then at timestamp 13:11 a man stands up to go towards mom. If he didn't want to be seen but was shown, I wonder if he can sue😱
If you are a parent and your child says to you "GET AWAY FROM ME" and begs you repeatedly to leave them alone as a teen or adult...you done messed up. BAD. Not them. YOU.
He didn't just grant her case and disregard her wicked mother's claim. He vindicated her on tv, it's now clear to everyone that the mother knew all along and that the defendant had been telling the truth the whole time. Sometimes it just takes the right person to see what's going on to set it all straight. I'm so glad he comforted her at the end.
Yes! This was the comment I was looking for! That (grown) baby NEEDED that desperately....and I'm so glad she got that vindication
Yes. This case is so sad.
Yes... absolutely!!!
So well said
Free of the gaslighting ....
Defendant: “I have 3 medical degrees.”
Plaintiff: “Now! Cause you went back to school.”
She thought that was an insult?🤦🏾♀️
🤣 right, like changing your life for the better is supposed to be a bad thing. Idiot lol
The audacity 😂
Right!?
Pure jealousy because she never went anywhere in her life and never changed for the better. A mom that tears down their own child like that is just plain awful.
Imagine !!!
The betrayal of a mother who refuses to protect her child from their abuser is just as damaging as the abuse itself. Some people should not be parents.
being sexually abused is hard enough, but having your family and the people who are supposed to support you not believe you makes it even more painful...
Why doesn't she just leave them alone periodt rather than hitting them up for money cars and other things when she needs them. She is a master manipulator just like them, hope she realizes that sooner than later, this type of behavior does not make it right. Hope she gets the therapy she most definitely needs and finally start the healing process.
You gotta struggle sometimes what i mean is ride the bus, uber, get a second job work a different shift so you and hubby can make things happen. The easy road is to ask a molester to cosign and agree to sleep with him, it wasn't a set up when they were at the car lot it only became that way when she told her husband.
They do believe, they just don't want to accept it.
@@lateshawilson6357 Well obviously he families reactions and the events themselves has mentally scarred her. When things get hard, it’s easier to fall back into bad situations because that’s what you are used too. What she needed to do was get some therapy.
The sick part is that her mother DID believe her, she just chose to pretend she didn't because that trash man was more important to her than her daughter. You heard it, she said agian and again so she k ew it was true. She's a freaking demon.
similar situation with my younger sister who's now 29, i was nearly arrested for beating the shit out of her molester a few years later simply because of the woman who gave birth to us sided with him and now years later, she's paying for it -
she's been begging for forgiveness over the years and i only say this:
"as much as i really want to tell you to go burn in hell, i wasn't the victim, that's between you and her, between us however, you're dead to me, i will NEVER allow someone who defends a pedophile NEAR my daughter, so whatever happened, is on YOU!"
The daughter spoke of her childhood trauma and abuse. The mother spoke of...credit card bills. This speaks LEAGUES of what this monster's priorities are.
Wow she held out to the end and my heart breaks for her.
I'll never forget the words of a friend who was abused as child, "Nothing feels worse than being made to feel you're not worth defending by the people who are suppose to unconditionally defend you."
Dang, your friend has been through so much, and she shouldn't have been. This world is sickening and I pray that she has peace now.
I was 10 when I told my mom, she kicked me OUT saying I was trying to steal her man. It took another 8 years for her to learn the truth, another 5 for me to understand she was mentally ill and NEVER should have been a mom. It Took me 2 SECONDS looking at my child to KNOW the cycle of ABUSE that has troubled my family for GENERATIONS, STOPPED with me. it's been 19 years since I had my child WHO NEVER WAS ABUSED, HUNGRY, HOMELESS, raised by both birth parents. IT STOPPED WITH ME. I found a great man, only after I healed myself 1st. We have been together for 20 years and I'm doing great and so is my kid. So I understand the feelings she is going through, the wanting a family, trying to forgive while still hating because she choose him and not you, yet wanting the families you see others having on tv. thinking your crazy, or maybe you did something, to-self hate, to hate for all, THEN rise above THEM and HEAL is an amazing thing to do. you will make it and you are already stronger just for standing here today, JUST KNOW YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND YOUR FEELINGS ARE 100% OKAY TO HAVE.
same. it stopped with me as well. my daughter has been safe and unharmed. hugs to you 🧡
As a child of a parent who broke that cycle, I can’t tell you how much we appreciate it. My mom was molested almost her whole life by her father, who was molested by his father, and the cycle was just going to continue if my mom didn’t break it.
So she found a wonderful man (my daddy, god rest his beautiful soul) who NEVER made me feel uncomfortable… let alone harm me…a man who would destroy ANYONE that ever did.
So I thank you, both of you who commented this, for saving your children. Thank you.
❤
Dang so sorry that happened to you. But you rose like a Phoenix. Good for you for being a great mom!
I was 11. Crazy that I wasn’t the only one but we moved past it about 12 years later. But I’m 60 and it still affects me especially when I see stories like this.
The mom trying to hug her at the end is appalling! I wouldn’t speak to her again! Not a chance
I am only sadden as to what she will tell her she has to do in order to get her name taken off the house.
@@charliehinds700 I was thinking that too wow what a case
It's because they think it will make them look good. They really are so narcissistic that they think they can manipulate anyone.
@@lisadunn1138 she is a true narcissist. She also looks like a bitter angry woman. I hate to see how she treats people in stores and in customer service. She probably treats them like dirt.
That made me angry, but did you see the man in the crowd when the mom wouldn’t step away? He jumped up immediately to help. I don’t know if it was her stepdad or her husband or even a stranger but it warmed my heart (if it wasn’t her stepdad)
This is too toxic a relationship. Girl, stay away from this apology of a mother.
What a nasty woman 🤢 so good seeing her daughter well kept and doing good for herself
right !!! then tried to apologize! Go head wit that girl it’s beyond that !
Yeah but she needs to work on that credit score. 3 degrees and married = don't rely on scumbags to get material things🤔
There is NOTHING worse for a daughter than to go tell what dad is doing to her.. How she is being damaged sexually, emotionally, mentally and is being called a liar by mother.. That mother cared more about her own self than her daughter.. Smh
@@D.CAMPOS That wasn’t even her dad🤨, nothing worse than a woman chosing a man over their child…….I’m a man that got remarried to my wife who had a daughter and the first thing I was like I don’t want you to meet my two kids or your daughter until we see we’re this goes! 8 years later my kids love my wife and my son calls her for recipes(I cook also)and my daughter calls her for advice and her daughter is coming to visit in a month again………all is cool and open and in wouldn’t have it any other way. 🤷🏽♂️
Amen
One of the BEST cases he’s done ..wow she deserved everything she got..I cried with her at the end !
Me too girl!!!
I did as well. I wanted to give the daughter a hug too. She's endured so much 🙏🏾❤
AMEN 🙌 LADIES 💪
So did I!! Just heartbreaking
😭😭😭😭😭 I'm so HAPPY for the DAIGHTER!! MY HEARTACHES💔💔 FOR YOU CHRISTINA!! GOD BLESS YOU!!
That was probably the first time anyone has every told her how proud they are of her and stood up for her. I felt all of that relief.
I love that judge Mathis said gtfo and that he hugged the defendant. That mom is a sad pos
Amen!
The daughter asked her molester to cosign on a truck for her.
Judge Mathis made all the right decisions in this case.
@@niabia883 She's a grown woman, not a child so it makes no sense that a grown woman would ask her molester for money
@@eve3363..her spirit was broken at thirteen years of age when her depraved mother chose the rapist of her child over her own flesh and blood.
This woman is still seeking her mother’s love (and yes, even her filthy stepfathers’s love) and needs help to fully realize none of it was her fault. She may have to go to no contact status until she is in a much healthier place.
Wow. You can see how much the mom hated when the judge and audience applauded her daughter for not falling into drug use as a coping mechanism to numb the pain of abuse. What an awful mother.
She’s more concerned about her husband ‘cheating’ on her. Repulsive
She does not love her daughter .
She's jealous of her child creating a better life for herself despite the odds.
I wouldn't even call her mother, she was just an egg donor. Takes much more than just giving birth to a kid to be a mother
Mom needs to be charged as an accomplice
That woman is so heartless. She's worried about a stupid bill when her daughter has been traumatized her whole life. What's worse is that she chose a man over her own flesh and blood.
Also: There's a reason for her daughter acting out when she was younger. It's because something happened to her. But the mother was so worried about the man she's with to even protect her daughter.
I'm not a mom, but this is just ridiculous.
It's ridiculous. You might not be a mom, but you have a mom. So you know how horrible that "mother" is
There's a reason her counseling ended at 13, because the mom wanted to hide.
@@AaaaNinja very good point. I wish someone would have stepped in and protected her from any abuse, and from her vile and disgusting "mom".
Ja-Miyah Hurray, I would still be in prison. I know that wouldn't have been the best outcome for my daughter, but he had better be ready to make the acquaintance of God, or most likely, Satan.
It is and I agree 💯 it's so sad she did this
"You and the molester can get out of my courtroom!" I can't believe he had the nerve to show his face in court smh
What bothers me the most is the acknowledgement in private, but the denial in public and to the victim's face. All she had to do was tell her in private that she believed her and she was sorry she didn't protect her. She just got traumatized all over again knowing that her mom knew it was true and gaslit her to oblivion on purpose. Just shameful!
This episode was so sad. That mother is a demon, choosing a rapist over her own daughter. 😪😪
In in shock the mom brought Her to court! She knew it was going to come up! That's why she brought the pedo lie detector test.
The “can I get a hug?” from the plaintiff (including aggressively walking straight up to the daughter) almost made me throw up!
That shows exactly what kind of disturbed brain the old witch has got!!
Who in their right mind thinks that that’s a good idea after everything that has just been said?!
She doesn’t deserve the title of Mother!
she's lucky she didn't get punched
I'm so glad Christina backed away from her and said "stay away from me". I hope she's able to finally cut this virus of a woman out of her life for good.
The hug was for HER. It was not out of empathy or concern or contrition. You are so right. It was very inappropriate. What a horrible, selfish woman.
If that had been me I'd tell her if you were on fire I wouldn't p#ss on you to pur the fire out
that woman needs to be in prison
Some people shouldn’t be allowed to have children. She doesn’t deserve the title of the mother.
But we honor these women for Mother's Day...sad
so she basically sold her daughter
Probably did way back when, too. She'd be at the bar, a guy would say, "let's party", and after she passed out, her daughter was just down the hall. Sick.
Absolutely disgusting ! She doesn’t deserve to be called a mama
Sounds like it. Ugh I want to just beat the hell out of people like this.
How? Sounds like her daughter was wanting to make the transaction for a vehicle.
@@imnothere5801 she told the mom what he did and the mom said to go through with it to get him in trouble but back tracked when the mom realized how much trouble weren't you listening?
Me and many other women felt that "fatherly" hug Judge Mathis gave the defendant. What a man of honor!!!
🙏❤🙏
That hug brought a 😢 to my eye .
You can tell he thought of his babies.
Yes!
Yep a 😢 fell on that
It was nice to see the judge being so loving . Good people still exist in the world.
As a victim it makes me so happy to see her win. It’s hard but I’m so proud of her for standing up to her mom
Ditto. My mom did nothing it's one thing I still can't forget::-(
The fact that the daughter was so poised and articulate despite everything is a testament to the daughters character, especially in SPITE of that crazy egg donor.
“Egg donor” instead of “mother” is fucking _perfect._ Stealing that one and keeping it in my back pocket for later use.
@@TheTownNarcoleptic i also recomend « discount bargain bin sperm donor » or « the womb that birthed me but never nurtured » despite the dramatics
Because she's been going through this her whole life. She let her get married so fast so that she wouldnt have to be responsible for her...But then she just trashed her daughters name and made life for her. Christina was pregnant with her youngest child and Sally put her in jail saying Christina stole a credit card that Sally signed for. They thrive on drama
@@mermaidgirl8462That’s so awful.
She's been training for 23 years 😢 She was unprepared for Judge Mathis to defend her ❤
This case brought tears to my eyes. The mom is so horribly disgusting. How dare u turn a blind eye on what is happening to your child???? I would disown her. My prayers go out to the daughter. Stay strong and continue to be successful. God sees everything 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Yes 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Both mommy and husband sould be locked up.
It happens to a lot of us.
@@sparklesp9304 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
She didn't turn a blind eye, she was part of it.
Wtf!! The POS mother asks to hug her daughter at the end! Just gross!
Im sorry that you went through what you did!
Obviously the defendant suffered a whole freaking lot!! And any "acting out" she did was due to the neglect and abuse she suffered
No doubt about it
Her daughter was showing major signs abuse and trauma, and her reaction was to call her a liar and try to turn the entire family against her. What a revolting excuse for a woman and a mother.
Her daughter needs to cut her off. Completely.
The "mother" is a narcissist.
And she’s still beautiful, strong, and kept herself successful. She’s an amazing woman.
Even through abuse, we want to love our mommas, sometimes even to our own demise. That lady had been seeking her mother's love, attention and acceptance into adulthood, until she finally had to accept the truth that her mother is nothing more than a wicked beast!
EXACTLY !
Very very true
Yes. I live through this at 37yrs old. Finally accepting that all mothers ain’t momma.
I very much agree. I've been there w/ my own "mother". I had to cut her off for good, because everytime I would try, I got destroyed all over again. Trying to prove myself worthy of her love was too much. I realized you should never have to go along or put up w/ bs to be acknowledged by your own mother or anyone else for that matter
@@chantellmoody828 same. Also at 37. It's so very heartbreaking 😔
even Doyle looked annoyed with that mother...his body language was very strong at the end...he even started nodding when the daughter said she wanted her mother to leave her alone....SMH...i don't understand how mothers choose men over their own children!
I also noticed he was standing closer to the daughter---a protective gesture. Normally he stands pretty evenly in the middle.
I'm glad he's human cus WUY
Im guessing Doyle is the officer at the end? That eye roll said a lot at 13:28 . He's probably instructed not to speak but yes the body language says it all.
Traumatised children sometimes grow up to be Traumatised adults.
Hats off to you for educating yourself and God bless you for ongoing healing
When i was a kid, my mom used to fool around with a lot of men, but she never, NEVER brought anyone home.
When she married for the first time, she sat me and my sister down and she taught us about sexual harassment and that we should always tell her if her new husband ever touched us the wrong way. He was very loving, pretty much the perfect father figure for us, but she was careful nonetheless.
Nothing bad ever happened to me or my sister, my mother was mostly very good to us, which I'm grateful for.
Your mom sounds like such a great woman.
I don’t know your mom but I love her. She deserves everything.
Sounds like your mom either experienced abuse from her mother's partner or she knows someone who did. Glad she protected you.
@@fbbWaddell Not necessarily true. I've never been abused, never been put in any situation which would lend itself any harm coming my way. I told my children the same thing. "If anyone touches you, says anything inappropriate to you let me know". They knew that I meant every single word. Being a mother means protecting your children at all costs🙏🏾.
You had a wise mother. Women should always be careful
And this confirms the saying "every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child" once again.
A mother not helping her child after molestation is SICK!
The moment they started talking about acting out and they said she was molested and traumatized…YOU THINK?! Then the mom has the audacity to ignore her daughter and blame her for it. Disgusting!!
I pray she stay strong and don’t let them gaslight her anymore. It just dawned on me that when she’s saying all those years she’s referring to all the abuse. Omg! So heartbreaking!
Gross
The end where she’s begging her mom to just leave her alone really spoke volumes .
How do you break a person down for years & feel no remorse ?
The daughter has been traumatized by that woman. She shook and started panicking when she came near her! Signs of awful abuse that that had to take place. So sad for her and pray her mom stays away.
And no accountability. Like you’re sorry for what he did. But not your the part you played as a mother
That girl needs to stop interacting with her mother and stepfather and has to get a restraining order against them.
I can’t even imagine what the daughter went through her mother is just as sick as her husband 🗑 🤢
Evil mother. Whats crazy is how she lied that day then tried to give her a hug when she gets proven to be a liar😂 how does she switch up like that?!
Multiple personalities 🤒
Narcissist tendency at its best.
Manipulation. Just trying to save face for the cameras
@@corruptedglitch10 100%
sociopathic behavior actually-
"can I get you a hug?"
I think tf not.
I’m not putting any man over my children . No way , ever . I will give my life to protect my child , this mother is disgusting.
Exactly. My child comes first.
You damn right I have a son and a good man who understands that our son who is not his biologically will always come first
What a GREAT mother a lot of women NEEDs to see your comment I'm so serious
Well said!
Amen
Her mother doesn’t want to take accountability for anything and has an excuse for everything negative that’s happened to her daughter that was because her her(the mothers) doing. How sad and horrible of a human being!
There are alot out there. That's why there are so many broken children that turns into broken adults. Smh she better stop playing with her before she really lose her mind and the defense she ain't leave me alone after ALL of this now she don't have a choice smh.
Typical narcissistic mother!
11:55 the audience reaction behind the mom realising the mom knew all along. Wicked woman
People who see their child, especially a 13 year old, as "going against me" or have a hidden agenda against them is the most toxic thing a parent could ever do
Narcissists.It’s all about them and their image.
Poor woman! I’m so sorry for what she’s been through. Her only mistake was trying to make up with her family. Cut them all off!
Her only mistake was asking them for things
Exactly. Family isn’t always blood.
@@imnothere5801 Ngl I’m kinda glad the truck thing happened because that’s really what put Clint’s creepy old ass in the spotlight
@@Steef_Lee blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb :)
Yes and this is a lesson all of us with toxic families need to learn sooner than later, they will not change, and they will only get worse, so move on without them
That’s my parents. Seriously. Wants a hug after suing your daughter?!! That’s literally my dad right there.
What a horrible mother. Even when the daughter mentioned she has 3 medical degrees, she shot her down. She doesn't love or care about her daughter and it's really a damn shame. Idk how the case ends but i hope for the daughter's own sanity she cuts her out of her life for good.
She is jealous of her daughter and views her as the other woman not a victim. She is sick and her and the rapist husband needs jail time
Typical narcissist!
even after the court case "im sorry for what CLINT has DONE TO YOU." never a true apology for her disgusting actions. that mom is doing better in her life than her mom ever will. props to her.
Parental rejection is one of the worst things a child can experience, under molestation and rape. This young lady experienced all three and more. I’m more than happy she won the case and had her story heard. My heart goes out to people like her that have gone through so much hardship
I’m literally SICK TO MY STOMACH. That woman has no right calling herself a mother, that criminal deserves to be behind bars herself.
I see the panic in this daughter, when the mom tried to hug her. Because my mom would do the same, after abuse, can I hug you? And I always jumped and got something between us like a table instinctively. And said no. Women like that are vile. My mom was the one touched me, my dad didn’t know that but when I told him he said I don’t believe you. We are now no longer in contact. We live in a sick world, and it’s time that people that are innocent and good and don’t hurt others, get their voice.
I'm sorry. I get it. Sending you healing vibes.
I remember my best friend in high school being abused by both her parents. It was mostly her dad, her mom occasionally… but when her dad passed (rest in hell Stephen) her mom became an absolute MONSTER. We grew apart in the past few years but her now fiancé is one of my close friends’ cousins. She did get away from her mother and doesn’t talk to them at all anymore. Her mother snakes her way into anyone’s inbox who MIGHT have contact with H to see where they’re living, H has a one year old son now-the witch’s first grandchild and I’ll say, we don’t speak anymore but I’m damn proud of her for getting out. She’s clean and sober also from what I hear. I miss her every day but I’m proud of her. And I hope you’re doing well also-I’m proud of you for surviving it.
Thank you for answer. Yes it takes a lot of strength. I am still recovering. Yes they try to get into your life again, I also had inquiries and threats. It’s also I think difficult to protect yourself, because when it happens from such a young age, you at some point distance yourself which is already a hard situation since they don’t let go easily, but there is nobody guiding you in the process. When you get assaulted as an adult, and step to the police, they offer you services. Also you get the choice to make it a court case. How would a child know all this? It’s their primary caregiver. I remember thinking what would happen to me if I told, who would give me food, where would I live. And then when I told as an adult to my father, and my sisters also experienced weird things and knew my mother (and father) were aggressive and especially at that time, because I wanted out. They say it must be you, and don’t believe it. It’s now 9 years later. Also I feel that you are vulnerable for these types of predators due to this experience. At least now that I am aware of it and healing, this happened many many times. I am a target for bullies. Or was should I say. And also, see how they keep denying even when in court and the facts are presented right there. How are children supposed to handle all this? If the adults can’t even? This proves that we are not to blame, and not abusing others means they are by nature evil and we are by nature good. There is justice needing to be done. Much strength to anyone needing it, be super proud of yourself.
Narcissistic. Very sad.
My CSA lead to a SEVER drug addiction. I’m clean 2 years 4 months now but I still struggle. SHE DID AMAZING STAYING OFF DRUGS. HER “mother” IS A SICK PERSON
I absolutely love the judge's intelligent approach to this case. He knew that, technically speaking, if the daughter hadn't made the payments, breaching a loan agreement, then she was at fault and he had to find against her. Yet, morally, the mother did not deserve a penny, nor the opportunity to harm her daughter any more than she already had (not to mention that, if the daughter felt that he was siding with her abusers, that could undo much of her recovery).
By focusing mainly on the counter claim he could, at least, give the daughter public vindication. But seizing the opportunity the moment he could prove that the mother lied to call perjury, a perfectly legal way to dismiss her case without the daughter needing to answer for it? That was a masterclass in how to use the law to deliver true justice.
Well played, Judge Mathis! Well played 😎
Yes indeed! Good insight 👏
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Not going to lie. When the credit card claims came in, I was wondering myself how he was going to navigate laws on this one. This really was a hell of a checkmate that I'm glad he found a loophole you could say to do the right thing. Very clever on his behalf.
@@cherylarias1913 Agreed! 👍
Oh, poor Christina. The "please just leave me alone" at the end - I felt that. Christina, there are those of us who know your pain. Sending you hugs and healing.
Christina ...you are good......stay away from her at all costs. I'm sen ding you support
2:22 - Did that lady REALLY say that her daughter “threw a metal phone book” … a METAL phone book?! 😂
Never heard of a metal book
@@thaloblue IKR? The closest we have to that is a Kindle, but even they don’t have much metal (& I’m pretty sure a Kindle doesn’t even have a phone book feature on there)! 🤣
I was proud of Judge Mathis. He gave that 'poor excuse for a mother' a verbal
smackdown. 🐃💨 💩😒
Please lady!. Shame on you lady. Praying for you and your children.
The daughter so desperately needed someone to believe her for many years and now we all have witnessed what a nasty woman her mother is and what a vile man her stepdad is and I’m sure she cried a cry of relief knowing we ALL believe her!!!! Hugs from Chicago
The daughter handled herself so well. I hope she is living her best life right now.
Imagine allowing your child to be SA'd by your husband and then suing them for a few bucks. Nasty woman.
imagine knowing he did that and still stay with him.... even after he tries it again as she was an adult.
This is why we need medieval torture back. Some people cannot be fixed. This is why I don't judge addicts because childhood abuse/trauma is the main denominator if you polled a bunch of addicts.
"She baited him." But your husband took the bait!
a child cannot bait a decent man.
@@hellaSwankkyToo 👏👏👏👏
This comment didn’t go off like u think it did !!!! He did not take the bait a child is not BAIT!!!
Very true
Facts
Typical narcissist of a mother, that poor woman, good to she shes made a good life for herself despite growing up in such a horrid way x
What's so sad is that these types of "mothers" are so common. I know so many of them. They hate their daughters, they're jealous of them, they have a spouse that abused their daughter whom they stick up for and they do everything in their power to tear down their daughter's self worth and accomplishments. What a world we live in.
My mom was one of them. I vow to be better than she ever will be as a mother and human being in the future.
My mom is one of them, I don't know my real father and was lucky my stepfather was a loving man. I can only imagine what would have happened.
She blames me for finding out that my step dad wasn't my real dad. I was 23 when I found out. Not sure why I'm being blamed though?
@@trowbdon Easier to blame you instead of herself for being a bad person/parent by withholding something that important.
What you just said almost brought me to tears. My mothers youngest brother molested me when I was a small girl and my mother doesn’t believe me to this day. My mother would go out of her way to talk about me, dismiss my feelings, and would tell me to drop out of college because she was not going to help transport me to and from class. My mother ended up abandoning me as a child as well as my brother and to this day she feels as though I owe her something. I am legally blind and lost my vision at 12 years old because my mother abuse me from the moment she found out that she was pregnant. My mother has said extremely disrespectful and degrading things about me yet with being legally blind I have graduated from a prestigious university in Ohio with my masters degree, raise a child alone, travel throughout the country with jobs and with my university, and have now relocated to NC to a new job and a new life with my almost 17-year-old son. I have had to go through this world without a mom and with my dad‘s blessing and prayers.. I try not to ever think about those low points in my life but I remember later that it’s those low points that have brought me to the top of the mountain. I don’t understand how a mother can live with herself doing this to her children
Social media and the narcissism it causes exacerbate the jealousy of middle aged women against their daughters. Women feel justified tearing down their daughters in order to remain the dominant woman in their environment. I see varying forms of it all around and it makes me cringe. It seems that mothers today either treat the daughters like a bestie or are jealous of them. The dysfunction proves that in American society today, there are fewer women every year that are willing to have healthy relationships with their daughters, instead of toxicity.
I told on MY dad and got this same reaction from my "family" so I feel for this woman. Her mom disgusts me.
So sorry you're going through that 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
No good mother will ever pick a man over her child. I hope you find someone who will listen and get you all the help you need. To many children suffer at the hands of them people meant to protect them.
I'm sorry you had to go thru' that, I was also abused, but hopefully my family supports me and we're gonna make a demand. I hope you're doing fine now :)
I hope you can find healing from your trauma. You deserved better.
The worst that can happen to a young woman when she asks for help against a molester is not to be believed....the most debilitating abuse.
I love how when judge Mathis was reading the letter, the mother began shaking her head up and down because she thought that judge Mathis was going to give her some Kool points. Instead, he threw her case out lol.
She trynna save her credit but couldn’t save her daughter from a predator, ok ma’am 🤦🏽♀️🤧
Shame on that so called mother!!!
“Cheat on me”
Um, ma’am, that’s your daughter…
Right?! The supposed “last straw” was not violating her child both as a minor and an adult but that he cheated.
Definite “daughter’s-out-to-steal-my-man” vibes from that “mom”. She even tried to use his age as a crutch for the creepy act to stand on!
Not to mention that the “last straw” has a multitude of friend “last straws” as SHE’S STILL WITH HIM!!!
That woman stood up for herself so well! Poor baby was shaking and crying turning into that little girl she once was when she was being abused. She is an amazing and resilient woman, I am SO proud of her.
I hope the young lady finds her peace.. she is educated, beautiful and hopefully she will rise from the ashes and finds he happiness
Thank God a judge understands the dynamics of a mother who protects the child molester! Helping her daughter financially is just a way to keep the daughter entangled. I bet it was healing for the daughter to be validated in front of the whole world. Good hug, Judge!
Hello Vivian how are you doing. I believe you are healthy and also having a nice weather where you are. I live in Virginia and I'm looking for a new friend Ok!
This brought tears to my eyes. As a mother, how could you? I hope this young woman continues to prosper and cut her toxic mother out of her life for good.
This should be a book, a movie and a Ted talk. She's turned out as a SPECTACULAR survivor. Few manage tp get out. Incredible woman and a role model/beacon of hope for others.
That woman is a soldier. She’s so strong for standing up to her. That Judge is so sweet for hugging her. I cant imagine the weight that was lifted off of her once it was dismissed!
I admire her but it's unprofessional for a judge to hug a plaintiff or defendant
That mama came in from the jump making it seem like her daughter was just bad and crazy by herself. She never once owned up to her wrongdoings raising her wrong. Glad to see the daughter is doing well. Mama gonna get her just desserts.
Momma is a narcissist for sure
@@nancythornton2947 definitely. Maybe even borderline sociopathic? So sad
@@alexaonther0x as a borderline we don't claim her 💀💀💀✋
@@Asia-zd1rg haha oh I understand. I meant on the verge of sociopath if not fully there. BPDs actually have empathy. This woman clearly does not
This was one of the most sickening cases I ever seen. Broken heart for that young mother. 😢
So glad Judge Mathis brought out the real truth and put this woman to shame, I feel so sorry for the poor girl, I hope the Good Lord watches over you and takes good care of her for the pain and abuse that has been done to you by this sadistic man and the poor excuse of a mother.
the fact that she had such a reaction to ruling in her favour says a lot about the situation. your own mother is supposed to protect you regardless of age and situation, and the fact this girl has no one is sickening. I hope she finds clearance and heals from this.
Thank you Judge for hugging her! we all need hugs of support!
God watch over Christina. My prayers are with you! Your mama is really sick! XOXO
She's a survivor 😞💐❤
I really pray the grace and mercy of Almighty God over her life, in Jesus Christ’s name. Amen.
I also pray that her twisted mother and stepfather will come to a saving knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ and repent of their evil deeds and apologize to Christina.
Amen