Oh they do this to OFWs too. Once a Filipino works overseas he or she pays for everything. That is the we hide and keep it a secret when we visit home.
When I left the Filipina I met back in April I left her with way to much money then got back to Canada and sent more!😍 This made her think I was some loser that couldn’t get a girl and she thought she had the upper hand and was in control. I’ve now cut off all money and started pulling away from her sending her into a full desperate panic mode!. Going back to Thailand in December to clear my mind 😊
Simps are wimps is universal. This is true Regardless of what your culture or nationality you are. If a woman is truly attracted into you, you don’t have to pay for her always to make her to be attracted to you. In fact, leading with money is detrimental to a relationship. If she’s attracted to you it’s who you are in characteristic as a person that she is attracted to. If you have more money which is usually the case just be courteous financially with her but don’t go overboard to make her attracted or stay with you. It's about healthy understanding and balance in relationship. Knowing your worth.
Buddy, don’t be a sucker. Tell the girl upfront. I like to say , hey look I’m a generous guy and I like helping people, so along the way I’m sure your family will benefit from our relationship, but it’s on my terms and I won’t be obligated or weaken our financial position, are you ok with that?
I asked this question to my Filipina a few days ago. She admitted to me, foreigners are expected to me. They don't ask their Filipinos counterparts for money, because they know they already don't have it. It's a hard truth foreigners don't like. Filipinas still prefer Filipinos, even with no money. A tough pill to swallow.
I disagree if you’re a young foreigner, that is the full package. Also, Filipinos definitely have it and some Filipinas prefer Filipinos. It’s like us in America most Americans date, white American girls, but some of us like myself when Asian and never went back. 😂
And you call yourself the chosen one? How ironic. Nevertheless, speak for yourself on thar Filipinas prefer Filipinos. The ones with 80 yr old foreigners, of course, though.
Hey buddy, that negative outlook isn’t going to help you. Plus it’s not true. A lot of these women see us as more attractive probably because of Hollywood movies, we’re generally taller, and better endowed. Lots of great opportunities, put away the black pill my friend
A failing U.S. economy and elevated global tensions reduce the likelihood of prolonged inflation or higher long-term Treasury yields. I've seen folks amass up to $1m amid crisis, and even pull it off easily in a favorable economy. Unequivocally, the bubble/collapse is getting somebody somewhere rich
I do not disagree, there are strategies that could be put in place for solid gains regardless of economy or market condition, but such executions are usually carried out by investment experts or advisors I speak from experience.
True, I’m quite lucky exposed to personal finance at early age, started full time job 19, purchased first home 28, got laid-off work at 36 amid covid-outbreak, and at once consulted a well-qualified advisor to stay afloat. Thankfully, my portfolio has maintained steady growth ever since, amassing nearly $1m after subsequent investments to date.
@@MelPatton-yi8se as I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned my favorite word is “no.” Also there is a lot of different approaches that you can take to avoid that. I just decided to find a woman who has a really good job. And there is no issue. You gotta remember the local guys are not giving away their money to women. So when you do that, you look like the stupid foreigner. No offense. Trust me I have a good heart and I like to help people too. But it will make a woman feel very Unattracted to you and stuff like that. Very sad but that’s the reality.
This is the truth! Even though I treated my date, got her a leather bag out of courtesy. Rest of the time it was for food, drinks and a few hundred pesos for a taxi ride home. Good video!
As an Filipina OFW, Jasper is 100 right. Also in Philippines if you have money like if your OFW or Foriegner you pay for everything. It's a sad sick game tradition.
Outstanding advice..even as an older guy men must understand the wonderful word …NO No No ..enough say it they change their tone real quick don’t play the game ..change the game ..
like the divorce lawyer said, make sure she is your equal or above, or else you will forever owe alimony. Also there is no divorce laws in the Philippines, just annulment.
This comes back to guys a) not understanding, or being afraid to test, their market value and/or b) not having enough self esteem/ self regard to put themselves first.
What I don’t get is how some guys are successful in business, own their own companies, not easy to do, and then don’t apply any of those skills to relationships… Understanding value exchange; having goals and a plan to reach them; avoiding existential risk; having clearly defined values and not deviating from them. The most successful people can take lessons and skills from one area of life (eg, sports) and apply them to another area ( eg, business).
When a woman that on a looks scale is “out of their league” say he’s a 4 she’s an 8 and they don’t extensive experience with women. All bets are off men go crazy for beautiful women. Lose all their money end up jail lose career etc. In the Philippines at the very least drain their bank account Supporting EVERYONE. Women are intoxicating and exciting to unqualified men that were rejected in the west & get to be the capt of the football team here.
@@JasperinthePhilippines yeah the s*x drive , hormones take over, and it’s too easy to pay to be the king, whereas sports / business there’s no way but to push through the pain and obstacles to win
Yeah, business is different. I’ve met a lot of guys that are rich and super successful in business but they have no clue what they’re doing with women and they turn into like a 12-year-old boy that’s excited, throwing money even though they’re like a captain of industry. It’s crazy.
Hi, i think in this content some foreigners tends to be gullible and idiotic when they fell in love to some local women like Filipinas without knowing the true background of woman but it depends if a foreigner is wise and smart enough to deal with a relationship to a local woman. Just a piece of advice to all foreigners like you courting a local woman like the Filipinas, be cautious and vigilant in a relationship when there are things you should not be really obliged to others life especially most Filipinos even Filipinas have this character of being OPPORTUNISTIC even in a situation like that. There are lessons in giving all you can not in giving all/everything you have even financially, just be to ourselves first...
@@JasperinthePhilippines Correct, it's everyone's right like us when we feel there are limits that what we can do even if its a generosity or charity. We do have boundaries in our lives...
I am from abroad, and I did work for a few months in the Philippines, but it's not worthy, unless you can have a job from abroad who pays you... The daily salary in the Philippines is between 10$ to 15$. I make 50$ per hour abroad
A nice video. I’m an American and I’ve been to lots of different countries even in Asia. This what what I’ve noticed about women. Women expect men to take care of them and provide for them. Men are expected to make the money and provide security for women and any kids they have together. The more attractive a man is to a woman, the less he’ll have to pay initially. Women overwhelmingly only want to be with a man of their same race, culture and around their same age. Those things simply make life easier for everybody. Most countries don’t like the diversity nonsense. Just the facts of life. 👍🏻
I think in 2024 a lot of Filipinas that are financially stable are actually attracted to foreigners that they consider handsome because of the height, the white skin, etc. outside of that I agree.
I think Filipinas have a tough time going back back to Filipinos after dating a guy like me to be brutally honest I know that sounds terrible but that’s the truth
There is a balance there, right? Look, if you're quite a bit older there is almost certainly an s-daddy element to it. Once you have a child together, though, things change. If she has any decency about her, she becomes more centered on the family, though there are no guarantees.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Often times it's the filipina that takes care of her Filipino partner. He stays home, while she goes out, or overseas, to work.
You're never gonna convince the guys that think "all relationships are transactional" cuz those are the guys that had to pay/go the extra mile in their own country. Or they are the ones that got destroyed in a divorce (i don't blame them).
You’re so right I just have to speak from my experience and I think it’s weird when they act like it’s all one way and all men are treated equal. It’s just simply not the case, but I know I’m in the minority and most gentlemen must pay.
Yes. No Lies Told! If you have a Filipina who's unemployed, you may have to come out of pocket a little, just like if you were living in the states. If she's working, you don't have to come out of pocket unless you want to. Now as for giving to a woman that you have that's unemployed, and you still want her as a bang buddy, kick her down some peso's but make sure she's still cooking, cleaning and helping you shop, even if you are smashing. It's the same as in the states. You always make a woman break bread no matter if she's rich or poor. If she doesn't ever give you any presents or come out of her pocket for a jeep ride, even if she's dirt poor, you aren't the one.
She doesn't ask or expect any material thing from me or anyone else. She works an 11 hour day plus 1:40 travel, 5 days a week. After transit fare it's less than $6US in her pocket per day and she manages it. The keepers are out there.
I couldn’t agree more. What I’ve noticed is that guys who have a hard time getting women in the the west get railroaded. If you do well with women in the west but don’t want them because of their attitudes, go to Asian you will do well. Best way to say it, as a western guy you gain 2-3 points on your smv, if you’re a 2 at home now you’re a 4 . You will pay for the 22 yo that’s an 8. Just know you are going to pay through the nose, and worse you probably disgust her. Sorry to say that but don’t be delusional. Be smart and get a good woman you could never get at home.
I think the old half your age plus 7 years is good , if you take care of yourself, and have some game. ( basically don’t act like a thirsty bata male, there’s an epidemic 😂)
@@JasperinthePhilippines I figured because america won't let China have control over the seas .. just concerned if China would invade the phillipines by boat and land on beaches and try to start a war ... there's so much b.s. in the world right now
I am a 59 years old guy from Canada, and I have a 35 years old girlfriend in the Philippines, I live in the Philippines for 6 months per years. When I am in the Philippines, she stays with me for free. I pay for the accommodation and I feed her and buy her clothing or little gifrs sometimes beside she wants more sex than I can give her (some of the foreigners I know give them an allowance and they even give them extra money to have sexe with them). She asked me once why I dont give her allowance just like her girlfriends get from their foreigners' boyfriends. I told her that if that's what she wants, just find another boyfriend. I will not do that, then she never talked about that anymore. For the other 6 months, I am abroad in my country, I only send her enough to pay the bills for the household rental and enough to eat. I think that the people who pay more is because they want to do it to clear their consience because they feel unconsciously they are somehow stealing thoses girls youth.
Yeah, I mean you have a 24 year age gap so it’s a little different. I’m in my 40s and my girls in her 30s and she sometimes makes more than me she makes easily a western salary so I get it but yeah I just think of a girl is attracted to you Genuinely sexually you don’t have to pay. You only need to make it super comfortable and do what you do when you’re on the six months on realistically paying on the six months office just just a courtesy on your part and like you said you just do the bare minimum.
@JasperinthePhilippines How can she make so much money living in the Philippines ? 😮 Unless she is working in a bar... I personally don't want any bar girls I wish my girlfriend could make some money also, she is a hair dresser but it doesn't pay much.
I’ve got a great Filipina wife that is here in the USA with me. She asked me for very little while we were dating and nothing changed once we got married. I have, however, sent thousands of dollars back to the Philippines over the years to help her relatives out of financial problems. To me, I’d rather send that money than be stuck messing with American women. To me, it’s just the price of having an otherwise good woman in my life.
I've never been to the Philippines, though I do intend to go some day. I'm not rich by Western standards, though I do have money set aside for retirement. I can admit I'm a bit on the chuddy side. I am prepared to help out a little financially if it's asked of me, but boy oh boy do I intend to get my money's worth. LOL
I refuse to pay never had to any lady in the the US won’t pay overseas will just enjoy the Philippines and enjoy the scenery. The ladies I dated would buy my drinks 😂 now would I get a gf a meal after a while sure lol just not if I didn’t want too jasper is right fellas
I highly desagree, obviously. There's always a fee. And if you believe you are drop dead attractive as a man if you passed 25 or 30 if you're lucky, well pay nothing and you'll be alone in a bunch of days, all around the world. What you consider as normal to pay when dating a woman, are fees. Definitely. You make the huge mistake to think women thinks like men does. They're not. Attractiveness works when girls are juvenile only. As long as they want to settle in life, attractiveness goes way after all the security stuff : financial security, sentimental security, material security and so. I find it very weird to learn this to a 47 yo man. Attractiveness for a woman is not a goal but a bonus. Definitely. Do not base you opinion on your own mindset or what you believe is your experience, just ask women, then learn.
Are you a man woman or transgender? What is your age? What country are you from? Have you ever dated anyone in your life? What position of a authority do you sit from? 😂
@@JasperinthePhilippines I was aware that some UA-camrs struggle with debate and believe that producing videos and having an audience is enough to make their words unquestionable on any subject. However, I must admit, I did not expect this level of aggression here. I will simply disregard your pathetically sterile and utterly ridiculous insults. If you have even a shred of humility left, ask the women themselves, and draw the necessary conclusions from their responses.
That was not an insult I was asking your qualifications if you’ve ever dated another human being if you’re male or female and what made you a person with no platform have the absolute truth in me the guy with 50,000 subscribers and extensive dating history that has lived this non-transactional dating and women paying for me. I was curious as to what your position of authority was but I understand you have an argument or dating history so you’re doing hypotheticals with no platform and I’m the one with the platform & the experience.
Well, it's probably cheaper that way. You don't have to accommodate nor feed her all the time.😂 Sometimes I wonder if it would not be better for me that way... You don't have to support their bad temper and attitude half of the time. 😮
If you're older, accept diminishing returns when it comes to women and relationships. Your future is to pay for access. The window of opportunity left you in your younger years, and now you'll never, ever, ever, find a wholesome equal partner. Accept it or just stay single and accept you'll still be paying to rent them.
Oh they do this to OFWs too. Once a Filipino works overseas he or she pays for everything. That is the we hide and keep it a secret when we visit home.
I believe it.
Yes I'm fat & ugly and I pay !
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I am neither fat or ugly and I still prefer to pay. I'm paying for them to leave not to cum.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Just don’t overpay my brother
I'd personally pay as much as the local guy pays.
Anything else is
NO.
HELL NO.
F**K NO.
ABSOLUTELY NOT.
GO KICK ROCKS.
GO POUND SAND.
Cheers🍻
Exactly my thoughts. 🎯
Treat me like a Filipino Chad. Not one penny more. 50-50. Or I’ll pay whatever I feel like. No problem saying. NO
When I left the Filipina I met back in April I left her with way to much money then got back to Canada and sent more!😍 This made her think I was some loser that couldn’t get a girl and she thought she had the upper hand and was in control. I’ve now cut off all money and started pulling away from her sending her into a full desperate panic mode!. Going back to Thailand in December to clear my mind 😊
Yeah, I can’t stress enough how the showering with money signals low value.
Gotta let them struggle a little when they’re not with you if they haven’t figured out how to make money on their own
They definitely think that you’re a loser. Doofus if you send a ton of cash and they do feel like they have the upper hand and they’re that b****
I also know some Filipinas that use their foreigners' boyfriends' or husbands' money to pay Filipinos for sex
Facts
Simps are wimps is universal. This is true Regardless of what your culture or nationality you are. If a woman is truly attracted into you, you don’t have to pay for her always to make her to be attracted to you. In fact, leading with money is detrimental to a relationship. If she’s attracted to you it’s who you are in characteristic as a person that she is attracted to. If you have more money which is usually the case just be courteous financially with her but don’t go overboard to make her attracted or stay with you. It's about healthy understanding and balance in relationship. Knowing your worth.
Agreed 👍
You pay the most when you marry them. Also there family will grow as you pay for them 2.
Pass
No goverment contracts
& only give what you feel like. Don’t make it the focus and learn the word no
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Buddy, don’t be a sucker. Tell the girl upfront. I like to say , hey look I’m a generous guy and I like helping people, so along the way I’m sure your family will benefit from our relationship, but it’s on my terms and I won’t be obligated or weaken our financial position, are you ok with that?
I love your channel man keeping it real trying to save some of these guys. They don’t know what trouble they can get into. Thanks for keeping it real.
Thank you my friend I will 🤝
I asked this question to my Filipina a few days ago. She admitted to me, foreigners are expected to me. They don't ask their Filipinos counterparts for money, because they know they already don't have it. It's a hard truth foreigners don't like. Filipinas still prefer Filipinos, even with no money. A tough pill to swallow.
I disagree if you’re a young foreigner, that is the full package. Also, Filipinos definitely have it and some Filipinas prefer Filipinos. It’s like us in America most Americans date, white American girls, but some of us like myself when Asian and never went back. 😂
If you’re Filipina still prefers broke Filipinos, I suggest you dump her immediately.
And you call yourself the chosen one? How ironic. Nevertheless, speak for yourself on thar Filipinas prefer Filipinos. The ones with 80 yr old foreigners, of course, though.
Lmfao
Hey buddy, that negative outlook isn’t going to help you. Plus it’s not true. A lot of these women see us as more attractive probably because of Hollywood movies, we’re generally taller, and better endowed. Lots of great opportunities, put away the black pill my friend
And don't fall for age is just a number.
Facts
Amen!!! Stay it loud for the guys in the back of the room !!
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💯 % ,facts!
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A failing U.S. economy and elevated global tensions reduce the likelihood of prolonged inflation or higher long-term Treasury yields. I've seen folks amass up to $1m amid crisis, and even pull it off easily in a favorable economy. Unequivocally, the bubble/collapse is getting somebody somewhere rich
Wow
I do not disagree, there are strategies that could be put in place for solid gains regardless of economy or market condition, but such executions are usually carried out by investment experts or advisors I speak from experience.
True, I’m quite lucky exposed to personal finance at early age, started full time job 19, purchased first home 28, got laid-off work at 36 amid covid-outbreak, and at once consulted a well-qualified advisor to stay afloat. Thankfully, my portfolio has maintained steady growth ever since, amassing nearly $1m after subsequent investments to date.
this is great! think your advisor would get on the phone with an unknown? i'm in dire need of proper portfolio allocation
Wow.
Truth! I'm dating a Japanese chick now. She pays dinner for me and other things. Doesn't beg or ask for gifts although she does have a job.
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I have had similar experiences you want experiences like that find a girl that’s a big big earner and hot. It’s possible I promise.
Lol
100% Correct
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watching sir❤.Mtv
Salamat
A woman who has high attraction and interest in you will be on her best behavior at all times . And that means not asking for money.
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@@MelPatton-yi8se as I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned my favorite word is “no.” Also there is a lot of different approaches that you can take to avoid that. I just decided to find a woman who has a really good job. And there is no issue. You gotta remember the local guys are not giving away their money to women. So when you do that, you look like the stupid foreigner. No offense. Trust me I have a good heart and I like to help people too. But it will make a woman feel very Unattracted to you and stuff like that. Very sad but that’s the reality.
lol Mel.
Bullseye 🎯
This is the truth! Even though I treated my date, got her a leather bag out of courtesy. Rest of the time it was for food, drinks and a few hundred pesos for a taxi ride home. Good video!
Yes sir
Truth
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Thats great video to share.mtv
Salamat Kate 🙏
New friend support from MTV
Salamat
As an Filipina OFW, Jasper is 100 right. Also in Philippines if you have money like if your OFW or Foriegner you pay for everything. It's a sad sick game tradition.
So true.
Outstanding advice..even as an older guy men must understand the wonderful word …NO No No ..enough say it they change their tone real quick don’t play the game ..change the game ..
Yadddiiiiggggg 🫡
Tell a girl no over and over again and you will see if she’s REALLY ATTRACTED
like the divorce lawyer said, make sure she is your equal or above, or else you will forever owe alimony. Also there is no divorce laws in the Philippines, just annulment.
1000%.
Or make sure she can at least care for herself and her family very well. It might be hard to be my equal, but I’m not getting married anyway. 🤣
This comes back to guys a) not understanding, or being afraid to test, their market value and/or b) not having enough self esteem/ self regard to put themselves first.
1000%
What I don’t get is how some guys are successful in business, own their own companies, not easy to do, and then don’t apply any of those skills to relationships…
Understanding value exchange; having goals and a plan to reach them; avoiding existential risk; having clearly defined values and not deviating from them.
The most successful people can take lessons and skills from one area of life (eg, sports) and apply them to another area ( eg, business).
When a woman that on a looks scale is “out of their league” say he’s a 4 she’s an 8 and they don’t extensive experience with women. All bets are off men go crazy for beautiful women. Lose all their money end up jail lose career etc. In the Philippines at the very least drain their bank account Supporting EVERYONE. Women are intoxicating and exciting to unqualified men that were rejected in the west & get to be the capt of the football team here.
@@JasperinthePhilippines yeah the s*x drive , hormones take over, and it’s too easy to pay to be the king, whereas sports / business there’s no way but to push through the pain and obstacles to win
Yeah, business is different. I’ve met a lot of guys that are rich and super successful in business but they have no clue what they’re doing with women and they turn into like a 12-year-old boy that’s excited, throwing money even though they’re like a captain of industry. It’s crazy.
Truth.
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Hi, i think in this content some foreigners tends to be gullible and idiotic when they fell in love to some local women like Filipinas without knowing the true background of woman but it depends if a foreigner is wise and smart enough to deal with a relationship to a local woman. Just a piece of advice to all foreigners like you courting a local woman like the Filipinas, be cautious and vigilant in a relationship when there are things you should not be really obliged to others life especially most Filipinos even Filipinas have this character of being OPPORTUNISTIC even in a situation like that. There are lessons in giving all you can not in giving all/everything you have even financially, just be to ourselves first...
Yes.
Learn the word no. But be as generous as you want but it is not required when there is attraction. Same as anywhere.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Correct, it's everyone's right like us when we feel there are limits that what we can do even if its a generosity or charity. We do have boundaries in our lives...
Exactly. If you’re a 70 yr old. Dating 20 yr olds you know the deal. But for actual genuine couples. Zero is required. IMO
This is true but the foreigners want to ignore this because they are weak man with no game they have to pay.
Yup
amen bro!!!!
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Yep
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💯 true! Been here almost a year and this is correct!
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What about love don’t pay the bills. What about if the girl is pretty loves you but is poor.
Do what you want
You are a truth teller !!! 💯👍👍👍
Good luck bro 🇺🇦🍷🍾
Can a foreigner stay in the Philippines and find a job there?
Please answer the question. Thanks.
I just do UA-cam. I don’t suggest looking for a job here.
@@JasperinthePhilippinesdo you have a passive income from a rental at home or something?
I have some other things going on that I don’t speak on
I am from abroad, and I did work for a few months in the Philippines, but it's not worthy, unless you can have a job from abroad who pays you... The daily salary in the Philippines is between 10$ to 15$. I make 50$ per hour abroad
Exactly. Do UA-cam.
You're going there. You pay. They didn't ask you to come.
I’m here and I’m not paying
A nice video. I’m an American and I’ve been to lots of different countries even in Asia. This what what I’ve noticed about women. Women expect men to take care of them and provide for them. Men are expected to make the money and provide security for women and any kids they have together. The more attractive a man is to a woman, the less he’ll have to pay initially. Women overwhelmingly only want to be with a man of their same race, culture and around their same age. Those things simply make life easier for everybody. Most countries don’t like the diversity nonsense. Just the facts of life. 👍🏻
I think in 2024 a lot of Filipinas that are financially stable are actually attracted to foreigners that they consider handsome because of the height, the white skin, etc. outside of that I agree.
I think Filipinas have a tough time going back back to Filipinos after dating a guy like me to be brutally honest I know that sounds terrible but that’s the truth
There is a balance there, right? Look, if you're quite a bit older there is almost certainly an s-daddy element to it. Once you have a child together, though, things change. If she has any decency about her, she becomes more centered on the family, though there are no guarantees.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Often times it's the filipina that takes care of her Filipino partner. He stays home, while she goes out, or overseas, to work.
Could be
You're never gonna convince the guys that think "all relationships are transactional" cuz those are the guys that had to pay/go the extra mile in their own country.
Or they are the ones that got destroyed in a divorce (i don't blame them).
You’re so right I just have to speak from my experience and I think it’s weird when they act like it’s all one way and all men are treated equal. It’s just simply not the case, but I know I’m in the minority and most gentlemen must pay.
Yes. No Lies Told! If you have a Filipina who's unemployed, you may have to come out of pocket a little, just like if you were living in the states. If she's working, you don't have to come out of pocket unless you want to. Now as for giving to a woman that you have that's unemployed, and you still want her as a bang buddy, kick her down some peso's but make sure she's still cooking, cleaning and helping you shop, even if you are smashing. It's the same as in the states. You always make a woman break bread no matter if she's rich or poor. If she doesn't ever give you any presents or come out of her pocket for a jeep ride, even if she's dirt poor, you aren't the one.
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She doesn't ask or expect any material thing from me or anyone else. She works an 11 hour day plus 1:40 travel, 5 days a week. After transit fare it's less than $6US in her pocket per day and she manages it. The keepers are out there.
Wow.
Retire her
lol. I mean having your girl work all day for $.50 an hour seems kind of pointless unless you’re dirt broke. 😂
You’re not independent with 50 Cent an hour
To be brutally honest, I mean you’re not really bringing anything to the table
I couldn’t agree more. What I’ve noticed is that guys who have a hard time getting women in the the west get railroaded. If you do well with women in the west but don’t want them because of their attitudes, go to Asian you will do well. Best way to say it, as a western guy you gain 2-3 points on your smv, if you’re a 2 at home now you’re a 4 . You will pay for the 22 yo that’s an 8. Just know you are going to pay through the nose, and worse you probably disgust her. Sorry to say that but don’t be delusional. Be smart and get a good woman you could never get at home.
Yup. If you’re 40s date 30s. Be realistic. Teenagers don’t like grandpas even if someone told you you look 38. They were lying. You look your age 😂
I think the old half your age plus 7 years is good , if you take care of yourself, and have some game.
( basically don’t act like a thirsty bata male, there’s an epidemic 😂)
lol
Was wondering if you could inform us with the problems between China and Philippines... what will happen if China takes over
China won’t
@@JasperinthePhilippines I figured because america won't let China have control over the seas .. just concerned if China would invade the phillipines by boat and land on beaches and try to start a war ... there's so much b.s. in the world right now
America will protect
@@JasperinthePhilippines appreciate a no bs answer ... see you around
For sure
I can pay my bills hahhaa charizz❤
😂😂😂😂
Yes I can tell you are very rich! 💰🙂
@@JasperinthePhilippines haha hard worker hahaha
@@JasperinthePhilippines I woke up and watch this video gonna go back to sleep again
Gotta watch my better videos. Go to the popular tab. I have a lot of good ones. This one I sound angry 😂
I dont have to do anything I dont want to
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Only if I'm there
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I am a 59 years old guy from Canada, and I have a 35 years old girlfriend in the Philippines, I live in the Philippines for 6 months per years. When I am in the Philippines, she stays with me for free. I pay for the accommodation and I feed her and buy her clothing or little gifrs sometimes beside she wants more sex than I can give her (some of the foreigners I know give them an allowance and they even give them extra money to have sexe with them). She asked me once why I dont give her allowance just like her girlfriends get from their foreigners' boyfriends. I told her that if that's what she wants, just find another boyfriend. I will not do that, then she never talked about that anymore. For the other 6 months, I am abroad in my country, I only send her enough to pay the bills for the household rental and enough to eat.
I think that the people who pay more is because they want to do it to clear their consience because they feel unconsciously they are somehow stealing thoses girls youth.
Yeah, I mean you have a 24 year age gap so it’s a little different. I’m in my 40s and my girls in her 30s and she sometimes makes more than me she makes easily a western salary so I get it but yeah I just think of a girl is attracted to you Genuinely sexually you don’t have to pay. You only need to make it super comfortable and do what you do when you’re on the six months on realistically paying on the six months office just just a courtesy on your part and like you said you just do the bare minimum.
Smart move to say find another boyfriend if they compare to their friends that get allowances allowances are for daughters or for employees
@JasperinthePhilippines
How can she make so much money living in the Philippines ? 😮
Unless she is working in a bar... I personally don't want any bar girls
I wish my girlfriend could make some money also, she is a hair dresser but it doesn't pay much.
My gf dues well
I’ve got a great Filipina wife that is here in the USA with me. She asked me for very little while we were dating and nothing changed once we got married. I have, however, sent thousands of dollars back to the Philippines over the years to help her relatives out of financial problems. To me, I’d rather send that money than be stuck messing with American women. To me, it’s just the price of having an otherwise good woman in my life.
Awesome
I've never been to the Philippines, though I do intend to go some day. I'm not rich by Western standards, though I do have money set aside for retirement. I can admit I'm a bit on the chuddy side. I am prepared to help out a little financially if it's asked of me, but boy oh boy do I intend to get my money's worth. LOL
Ha ha
Love your honesty bro. 😎
Dont fall for it
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world isnt also that black and white. Some girls might actually struggle financially or have bad habits about saving money
Not my problem
Why would I want any woman who is a burden in any way? You devalue yourself by accepting that.
Exactly
Not all Filipina.. crazy
Did I say all?
To many Simps out there.
Yup
I refuse to pay never had to any lady in the the US won’t pay overseas will just enjoy the Philippines and enjoy the scenery. The ladies I dated would buy my drinks 😂 now would I get a gf a meal after a while sure lol just not if I didn’t want too jasper is right fellas
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Nice
I highly desagree, obviously. There's always a fee. And if you believe you are drop dead attractive as a man if you passed 25 or 30 if you're lucky, well pay nothing and you'll be alone in a bunch of days, all around the world. What you consider as normal to pay when dating a woman, are fees. Definitely. You make the huge mistake to think women thinks like men does. They're not. Attractiveness works when girls are juvenile only. As long as they want to settle in life, attractiveness goes way after all the security stuff : financial security, sentimental security, material security and so. I find it very weird to learn this to a 47 yo man. Attractiveness for a woman is not a goal but a bonus. Definitely. Do not base you opinion on your own mindset or what you believe is your experience, just ask women, then learn.
I have the experience like I’ve lived this
Are you a man woman or transgender? What is your age? What country are you from? Have you ever dated anyone in your life? What position of a authority do you sit from? 😂
@@JasperinthePhilippines I was aware that some UA-camrs struggle with debate and believe that producing videos and having an audience is enough to make their words unquestionable on any subject. However, I must admit, I did not expect this level of aggression here. I will simply disregard your pathetically sterile and utterly ridiculous insults. If you have even a shred of humility left, ask the women themselves, and draw the necessary conclusions from their responses.
That was not an insult I was asking your qualifications if you’ve ever dated another human being if you’re male or female and what made you a person with no platform have the absolute truth in me the guy with 50,000 subscribers and extensive dating history that has lived this non-transactional dating and women paying for me. I was curious as to what your position of authority was but I understand you have an argument or dating history so you’re doing hypotheticals with no platform and I’m the one with the platform & the experience.
Be blessed
Great video. I use to say if it is not free it's not for me. Now I say please take the money and leave. Haha
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You’re the man cal. 🫡
Well, it's probably cheaper that way. You don't have to accommodate nor feed her all the time.😂
Sometimes I wonder if it would not be better for me that way... You don't have to support their bad temper and attitude half of the time. 😮
Depends
lol
If you're older, accept diminishing returns when it comes to women and relationships. Your future is to pay for access. The window of opportunity left you in your younger years, and now you'll never, ever, ever, find a wholesome equal partner. Accept it or just stay single and accept you'll still be paying to rent them.
Lol.
Sad life