🇵🇭 Why Filipinas over 30 are the Perfect Partners…(The Honest Truth)
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- Опубліковано 24 чер 2024
- An Expat in his 40s explains why Filipinas over 30 are the perfect partners for men that are 40+50+ etc. #philippines #expat #passportbros #jasperinthephilippines #itsmorefuninthephilippines #bgc #manila #cebu #boracay #dumaguete #angelescity
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I'm 63, my Filipina is 52. She loves me for me. She never asks for money. When I offer to buy her something nice, she always says no, so I have to insist. She looks better than most western women half her age. Solid personality, no drama, great personality, and very very sexy. 😁
I chatted with a few dozen Filipinas under 40 and a few under 30. Call it a generational divide if you want, but I could not see a long term relationship with any of them.
Went to see her last month. We took a 2200 km motorcycle trip around half of Mindanao. It was the best 4 weeks of my life. I'm going to marry this woman.
Very nice! 🤝
Awesome. Congratulations. I had a similar experience. Young gf loved my wallet. Current filipina gf loves me. She is closer to my age and works 3 jobs. We plan on settling down in Mindanao in 6 years
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I'm 62, my Filipina is 41. She loves me for me. She never asks for money. When I offer to buy her something nice, she always says no because she has a job and her own money. She looks better than Western women half her age. Solid personality, no drama, great personality, and very very sexy.
Very nice my friend! 🤝
A little plagiarism? 🤣
@briangc1972 couldn't help myself, it was pretty on point.
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@@JasperinthePhilippines He cut and pasted part of my prior comment.
When it’s love, she’ll try to save you money instead of spend your money. It’s really that simple.
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When I was in Thailand, the woman who stayed with me wouldn't let me buy her things that she said cost too much. A great sign.
@@bobjohnson7441 and it’s probably true, but you never know in the first six months.
Stretch that dollar to the moon😁
@@myendlesslove5120 The rich live like they’re poor and the poor live like they’re rich. 🤑
Play with the younger ladies but marry the mature and faithful one that has your back
Ha ha ok
Thats not good. Get a woman n stop playing with young womens
Agree completely! I was 49 (2 boys, 13 and 3) and my Provincial Filipina was 34 (no kids!) Had so many Filipinas telling me “age is just a number”, but when the difference is greater than 15-20 years it’s hard to have anything in common. But she looks 25 😁 and is much more mature than an actual 20-something. Just celebrated our 1 year anniversary and very happy ☺️
Nice !!! 👍
For a long term relationship, it is very important to have something else going on, no matter how good you look. 30 plus women have more depth, life experience, and have figured things out, which makes it interesting and fun to be with them. And they still have that youthful energy and can be beautiful. They are a great choice. Good video.
Agreed 1000% 🤝
Im 64, my pinay is 37. What on earth would I have in common or even talk about to a 18-25 yr old girl
Facts
Every younger babe I have ever met from cebu and manila was a fast burning relationship ..longevity factor completely nonexistent. although she was enthusiastic at first, she moved on within 7 days of my departure. Plenty of men are showing up nowadays to try their luck.
1000%
The beer flu is over. So yeah, I mean, depending on your age I don’t see why girls gonna hold on for dear life when there’s another 30-year-old flying in to take her to Boracay 😂
Brutal, honest truth. Loved it.👍
Yes sir 🫡
This was a grand slam 😊
Salamat
Agree. If savvy enough find a single old maid doctor. You get free healthcare.
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Jasper, I'm proud to be 72 and I don't look a day over 72. Eat your heart out!
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Got em!!!
You are absolutely right! coming from a Filipino here. If you are in the 60's and wants to date a filipina in their early 20's good luck. 99.999% of the time it will be just transactional. Your retirement will drain faster and I can't blame some older men because you'll really gonna go crazy on those young filipina with their seductive and innocent look..................don't be surprised to find out though, a lot of filipina women in their 30's are still virgin.
Well said! 🫡
Do You mean the really religious ones?
No
Love that you called out the steady flow of guys commenting on channels like this one who say shit like:
“I’m 65, but everyone thinks I look 45…”
No they don’t. Literally no one has thought that. Ever.
Just own your age. Stay fit, sure. And then own it.
Cheers, 🍻
One thing about me I keep it 💯
Jasper!! Probably one of the most realistic 10 minutes on the Philippines. 54 and my age targets are over 35.
Perfect bro
You can get that in the West. 😂😂😂
He obviously wants the Philippines I would assume and why would you know what another man can get in another country?
I love when nobody’s coming into my comment section and try to diss my commenters and have main character syndrome as if they’re in authority and know what’s what 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@GUITARTIME2024 I hope that comment was in Jest. Chasing a unicorn is not in my playbook bloke!!
Keep up the good work Brother!!!!!!!!!!
Salamat 🫡
@@JasperinthePhilippines Never gets old watching Boracay and BGC......So Chill 👍🏖🏝
When I was 20 I met a 33 year old filipina in a dance club, When I asked her age and she told me, I said did you say 23? Because she looked it.
Yes 👍 very common
I am marrying my filipina in a few days, I am 62, a few years ago I thought I want too meet a filipina about 30, once I worked out how some play I changed my thinking, my soon to be wife is 48 and no kids.
I agree...older women already have thier life together....and don't just see you as an atm.
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Be careful brother whom you're marrying. Sincerity and transparency is an important character for marrying a Filipina. You might not know, it's an OPPORTUNISTIC Filipina, who will extort your finances for personal advantages and will end you up into a miserable life✌✌✌
Yup. Government contracts are dangerous especially when you’re rich and she has zero. 👍
Awwww congratulations
I met my Filipino wife in HK when I was 47 and she was 36. We have been together for 11 years. We are both educated, we have a profitable business together, a decent income and residential and commercial property that we bought pre-pandemic. We live a comfortable life in the Philippines. I am healthy and physically fit. I would never dream of dating a woman younger than my own daughter nor would I be attracted to a much younger woman. We have an 8-year-old son together.
Love it brother. Perfect example of exactly what I was talking about.
I’m in my 40s & my Filipina is in her 30s I think it’s the way to go. 🫡
@@JasperinthePhilippines We also live about 2 hrs from Manila, in Rizal Province, not in the boonies, being deprived of facilities, etc., but at altitude in a cool non-oppressive climate/atmosphere, away from the grind of the metropolis. It suits us. I had a great life in HK, financially and socially, but living here is better for my health and peace of mind.
Wow Rizal sounds perfect I’ve heard a lot about & would like to check it out. I’m getting sick of the air quality in metro.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Air quality here is good, clean - Manila is visible from one of the houses - and I have lost that annoying 'smoker's cough' I had when we lived in HK. The temperature is relatively cool and I don't use aircon (but my wife does as she regards it as a well-deserved luxury). Maybe you should take a week-end break at one of the hill-resorts in the area, just to get a taste.
I really enjoyed this content, although some of it was truly funny😂. And I will also add that you actually spoke the truth.
Thank you 🙏
Good Stuff!
Thanks
Hi Jasper*! I like your take on things.
I had a hot(!) 53 year old Pinay as an LDR. What killed it is I want to live in the US, but she has a big business in the Pinas. Also, she has a 30 year old special needs son who never leaves her side. More power to them, but I'm too old and living on SS and a small pension can't afford their life style.
Right not, I've been OK with a 46 year old. She has a cute, almost-grown-up daughter, so maybe it'll work over here financially. We'll see. She's definitely cute, shy, and with province values and personality. She's educated and has an OK job in the Pinas, so we'll have to see if she likes the States as much as she thinks she will.
At my age, 76, it's nice to still have some possibilities.
Very nice bro 👍
PS I have a 15 year old parrot named Jasper.
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you right about that 100%
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My man Jasper👍✌️
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I agree. I'm 53 and pretty fit and I must proclaim that I do feel lucky to pull off a 40-something appearance, at least on a good day, lol. Either way, I may decide to play for a little while when I get there (within the next year, I think) but I, like anybody else my age and especially older, should definitely come to terms with the reality that almost all of the young ladies will see us primarily as a ticket to something better. Anyhow, I'll be betting that my 'unicorn' will be somewhere in that 30-40 range, just like you suggest, though the real feat might be finding one without children! I suppose exceptions are not impossible, either..... I enjoy and respect your candor, sir.
Smart
You spoke the truth ... in it's rawest form!
Thank you my friend 🤝
You speak the truth, even though the truth is hard to hear sometimes.
Yup
Absolutely true
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I have a great pickup truck, It is very dependable and practical, I love it. It's a perfect fit for me at my age. I would never trade it.
I also like to rent a corvette now and then and run it pretty hard with the top down, just to remind me of the good ole days! :)
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Good analogy
I've got an old Datsun, '78 model, under my carport. I don't ride it a lot but man when I take it around the curves, she sure is fun!
Ha ha love Datsuns. 🫡
I am leaning towards the mature women closer to my age. I met someone even slightly older than me, and we get along great. She has no past issues, and we have so much in common. I’ll visit her and see what happens from there. She is well established and in the top of the social ladder, and is happy with her life & very stable financially. Not everyone goes for youth and the current dating scene. ❤🙏
100%
Sounds like a catch & independent.
@@JasperinthePhilippines super strong mentally and sweet looking, exudes confidence and personality
@@JasperinthePhilippines super strong mentally and sweet looking, exudes confidence and personality
Nice!
I agree, their parents are on their way out so less hassle of them trying to be leaches, still low body count, tons of experiance cooking, fed up with the world they live in so very apreciative of someone taking care of them and helping them see the world/even just seeing other places in PH. lots of upside
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Agreed and many other reasons listed in this vid. But all valid points.
My friend is a Filipina grandma who met a younger American guy in Walmart. They moved in together. The guy works as a Forest Ranger so he is fit.
Nice
Straight up!
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I’m 56, marrying my 31 year old Filipina in August. She’s independent, a college graduate, business owner (owns a cafe and part owner of a school). We will live in her home town.
Perfect 🤝
Do not buy any property unless your name is in that.
I don't care how much she makes or how many businesses she has.
DO not buy real estate nor cars in her name.
Make sure you are in there.
Prevention is the most important thing you can do right now and always.
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@@naldebol dude, I’ve lived in the Philippines for 15 years. I know what’s what. And Im not so jaded as to believe that every Filipina is a money-grubbing bimbo looking to take advantage of a foreigner. I’m sorry if you got burned before, and I have too, but there are some very good Filipinas out there, young women who were raised in a good family and that have demonstrated integrity. Good luck to you and I hope you find a Filipina as good as mine.
I fall out every time you say Dumaguete Grandpa's 🤣💀🤣💀🤣
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Dumaguete nursing home 🏠 😮
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We'll all get there one day, some much sooner than others. The ageist guys will have the hardest time with that. If you're a grandpa, be the best damn, in shape, grandpa you can. Don't let other (younger or older) guys tell you what you can and can't do. In the Philippines you can be a trend setter, and are given a second chance. Use it well!
😂 Mate, you're a funny man so true. What? You're saying good on you from Australia?😊
Ha ha 🫡
There's a lot to be said for age appropriate. The large age gaps are 99.999% doomed to fail.
Yup agreed
I'm 62, met many 45yr old Filipina that are great. Beautiful, smart and not after my money. American women 45yrs wont look at me. You can find these Filipinas, with either kids that are adults of at least teens, no baby daddy drama. These women are all over, just look for the the good ones.
Very nice.
Thats right
30 yr/old guy met my 30 yr/old Filipino gf in the Middle East. She works at the mall and contributes when she can. So far no red flags but I’m paranoid it’s not legit. Any thoughts?
You would need to elaborate a bit further than that.
You could email me under the about section.
@@JasperinthePhilippines 30 yr old blk man 5’11” husky/swole build. Live in the Middle East. Seen her in a park and cold approached her. Short 5’3” Filipino woman slim but curvy. Looks wise 7 and 7.5 on her best day. Speaks decent English. No children, works retail 6 days aweek. She contributes on dates. Does not run my pockets for expensive dates. She buys me gifts occasionally. She can cook. Her family is poor. Been talking for 3 months. I’m going to the Philippines to visit her while she’s on vacation soon. She’s loving and affectionate. But told me from jump she is looking for serious relationship.
Should be fine maybe she wants money but she’ll let you know later. Don’t give anything you don’t wanna give you’re the same age proceed with caution, but enjoy it.
@@JasperinthePhilippines how will she let me know? In your experience? Filipino women are a different breed? Have that feeling of her wanting my money I actually told her that I don’t trust women ect…
This guy is salty and real! Thanks from spring valley Vegas
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Moved from
Vegas 2 years ago
I love this advice, this means I can multiple girls 18+ to take care of them and tell them str8 up im talking to other girls since i would already know what the dililo is. She would cheat on me anyway so there would be zero reason to pour all my eggs in one basket considering the circumstance. This gives me ideas.
Hey 💡
100% true.
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Jasper keeping it real af
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Depends on the person. I'm 59 and my pinay is 27. I have been with her for over 5 years. I have known her since she was 18. We have no issues on the financial situations.
lol. Do you think she’s s3xually attracted to you?
Are you financing ? How the hell did you know an 18 yr old in your 50s?
The sex is great. How did I find her. Daughter of a friend who I met when I was stationed in PI back in the day. She has her own job and fies well for herself.
Answer the questions I asked.
Are you financing her life? Do you think she s3xually attracted to you???
“You look 62”🤣😂🤣😂😂😂
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I like and agree brother i was just fixing to tell you im 56 but look 26 lmmfao 😂😂😂
No you don’t!!! 😂😂😂😂😂
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I'm now 66. I started traveling when I was 48. I live 16 years in Thailand. It comes down to that I love your money. No money. No, Danny that's the truth, 😊
For you perhaps. My Filipina outearns me some months and pays often. However I’m mid 40s and not average.
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Ha ha, U a straight-shooter, pull no punches Mofo !! Appreciate you !!
Yes sir 🫡
Jasper, keep up this message, you are 100% correct.
Salamat 🤝
Wish there was a link to the Dumagete Grandpa video he mentioned
🇵🇭Old Dumaguete Grandpas banging Negros girls in the Philippines EXPOSED
ua-cam.com/video/5yMuyCcdNBM/v-deo.html
@JasperinthePhilippines thanks bro. Definitely gonna watch today. Appreciate your frankness
No problem. I got you 👍
No offense for my thoughts, it is in the character and background of the Filipina it's not in the age, if you're wise and smart enough to have and handle a relationship with a right girl/woman it's a good one but if you're in a wrong woman/girl, personal misery comes next. Nowadays, it's hard to be blinded by a love and relationship to a not so sure woman👍👍👍
I respect your thoughts always Charles. 🫡
Black don't crack... Im 60 and my Filipina and i been together since she was an undergraduate and now shes in med schools. She very loving and mature and as a person who lives in the United States, I had always had yourger women. Women love my coco brown skin with all my hair and non smoking, drinking and no coffee history.
Me being 60, my age has not been an issue with my girlfriend of 3 years and counting. I never been asked for money from her, but when it comes to making love, she the one initiates all the time, and its a fountain of youth everytime we pound.
I eventually bought a condo in Manila and I also own my paid off California home to always come back to the states. Men with leverage is also very attractive to women... its nots just looks but it influences or status they want to hold on to... just be exciting and enjoy your truth and it will all be great.
I disagree I think looks and age matter. However if you’re “that guy” all bets are off. Salute brother keep living your best life.
@JasperinthePhilippines Don't go for the woman you want, go for the woman that wants you. Men are weaker going the woman they want vs the woman that shows I in every way, they want them. You are that guy and you don't need to invest much energy and relationships are so much better to navigate when you are that guy.
Agreed 1000% don’t chase and court a woman that prefers the locals go for the girl that has enough looks that’s chasing you. She will treat you like a king and be genuinely attracted to you. I couldn’t agree more.
i could be wrong, but a pina over 30 a high percentage would have a kid, that's if you want to date a single mum
A Filipina over 22 would be likely to have a kid an American over 22 would be likely to have a kid 😂
Most girls you’ve been with have a kid that they didn’t tell you about in the province. 😂😂😂😂
Exactly my thoughts.
Buying any condo in the Phils could be a moronic decision.
Yup
hard truth ...50+ just accept it's pay to play and enjoy the game ...
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Men, listen up. Even if SHE IS INTO YOU, and even if she says and insists, and you feel that she is genuinely trying to show it...
.... you can also do like I have done in the past.
19, 20, 21 year old women who have tried to make it work, I had to tell them the truth -- Intellectually, maturity, social skills , and so on -- those things matter to me.
I am in my fifties. I have done surgical procedures to my face, and I have a good body (strength training) and I do cardio.
My diet is impeccable, and I am a vegan.
I don't have any vices, so no drinking alcohol, no smoking
I look younger than a lot of men who are 40s. Jasper may promise other men they look their age but not me. I know what he is talking about.
I can tell a woman I am 38 and she will believe me... BUT I DO NOT lie about that.
I am very proud to be my age and look the way I do
The reality is that looks in a woman to me are SECOND to maturity , intellectual capacity, and social/emotional intelligence
Do not get blinded by beauty or age.
I already have had my lion's share of very good looking women
Beauty will not give you the smiles and joys that endure
Mental stimulation is key as much as loyalty; no question.
Too young of a woman can be a lethal or fatal blow to your emotional well being, my fellow men.
***** WORD of advice regarding $$$ -- DO NOT BE A SIMP. If you want to pay for short-term, do it, 1-3 hours. But never ever buy your way into a long term relationship. The expiration dates on those are undefeated. ***
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@@JasperinthePhilippines not sure what you mean by that, but I edited the comment.
I include some things I left out earlier
Ok ok.
That means salute 🫡
A lot of people say age is just a number i don't agree with that as we age real biological changes take place.
Why do we start to look different also why do most of us have to start using reading glasses.
Our testosterone levels start to go down,
I could go on and on about getting older,
The word ageing (getting older is there for a reason because everyone ages.
Ok 👍
Great video! I agree, women in their 30s are hot.
You mentioned China, what is your opinion of the older Chinese women? I’m getting tons of hits from some extremely beautiful and accomplished 40 year old Chinese ladies.
Dated one in Vegas that was late 20s when I was 40. Not bad at all. Had family money. Very generous.
Use this formula: 1/2 your age + 7
Ya. That’s what they say.
That out me at 30
I was in Vegas for 9 years , we all said get them before there corrupt
Facts
Please make a video about advice for 30 year olds moving to the Philippines to get away from western culture. 🤲
Ok
Wanting an older Filipina with three kids for foreigner to support, plus three pinoy families to support
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wtf.
That’s crazyyyyy Brodie
I’m in my 30s and I’ve had multiple friends with benefits situations in the Philippines, no
Money was involved. Ask yourself this, how many FWB do you see 18 year olds with guys in 60s, no money? 😂 I will say though, I do know a smoking hot girl that did FWB with a really fat guy, but they were similar in age.
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Yeah, you’re a young man. This is for guys like 45+.
No money, no honey.
😂😂😂😂 for you perhaps.
Hello MisterJasper. I’m in Angeles city. I want people to know that when you walk on Walking Street here, there’s people who shine laser pointers in your eyes. It happened to me at least 3 times, and there’s at least 2 videos on UA-cam that show it happening.
Oh no.
I’m sorry that happened sir.
I have not had any problems with my wife
I'm 50 And my wife is 23. I have no money to give her so I guess I'm In the 1% that I found love SO don't let THIS guy talking in this video make you feel bad or think twice ABOUT your happiness....to me what he says is BS My wife never asked me for money and never cheated on me either. SO I think the Guy talking just couldn't find what he wanted so he now has to Put people down for the age difference If you think she like/loves you Then Go for it don't listen to guys like this one talking do what makes you happy.
I’ve dated 21 year olds in the Philippines and dumped them
Do you follow your girl around with a video camera?? You sure she’s not cheating?
You’re paying for expenses. I promise. 😂😂😂😂😂
Don’t let the door hit ya baby girl
Bro because I found that 1% of a good woman WHY DO YOU TRY TO POP PEOPLE'S HAPPY BUBBLE just because you had a bad experience doesn't mean you have to be upset when someone like me has found the good one And try to bring us down brother
If you find one without too much baggage and without kids, you might be good to go (perhaps a former OFW?). Otherwise, I'll pass.
Ok
All good
I'd say 25 to 35.
What’s your age?
I’m 54 I look 55.
Me too I look 48. 😂
Fine, but I'm not paying for any of her kids.
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Tell her not me.
Nah. 20s. Less trauma and body count.
lol.
Trauma 😂
Body count ? I know 19-year-olds with high body counts and 30+40+ virgins it all depends on your age, brother everybody’s entitled to their opinion.
@@JasperinthePhilippines Those are the sh*t that women, no matter what race use nowadays. Whether western or eastern.
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Pensions are sexy.
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Quick question... how much in monthly income in the PH is really "Fk You" money..? In USD, would it be $3k, $5k, $10k...? I'm thinking anything over $25K in USD is serious F.Y. money. Then again, $25K in USD per month is pretty much F.Y. money in almost any country, including the US.
5k plus. Probably would be hard to spend.
Unless you just rent a huge place that you don’t need
You figure 5K you have 2004 housing which would get you a pretty damn good set up and then $100 a day every single day of your life and $100 here is probably like $200 somewhere else at least
But yeah, I live a pretty comfortable life with travel included and eating out for around three
@@JasperinthePhilippines Thank you Jasper! So about $5K will work... add in another $500 for "companionship" and call it good.
You think and talk like a typical American 😂
Thank you so much 🙏
Most powerful envied & RICHEST COUNTRY IN THE WORLD 🌎 ❤️☔️
@@JasperinthePhilippines Actually Luxembourg is the Richest.
No.
America is the world leader and the trendsetter. Don’t be a jealous doofus 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Tell these guys to stop giving them money and see if they stick around
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Exactly I always tell these guys if you think you have a girlfriend, but you’re paying her and her parents and allowance every month. Tell her you lost all your money. Tell her your bank account was frozen. Tell her you lost money in the stock market and see how cold she gets or if she goes back to the province to visit for the rest of her life or if you catch her on a dating site 48 hours later. 😂
@@JasperinthePhilippinesgood advice
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And this is different than western women in what regard? Go spend day in family court bruh
most 24 yearold men cant hold a candle to me better body and better looking that most dudes nowdays
The best thing about you is that you’re so modest
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im 65 .6feet plus tall and 215 pounds ,excersize regularly I'm living in the Philippines now this time 5 years and know pinay over mid 30s with expat partners , and have one pinay that comes to see me when her expat is gone for months . Another expat who is short and fat , his pinay said when she was drunk and he is gone she does not like sex with him ,but her pinoy fockbuddys ,she does ,and yes she has at least 2 of those , i could go on . but , i dont blame the girls . these guys leave them behind for 6 months ,what do they expect ?
but i agree long term 30 and above is better .
Yup. Can’t leave them 6 days let alone months.
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you got no game dude lololol
Do you own a mirror???
Head injury ????! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Something we all should keep in mind is what are her core values:
Does she work vs beg?
What would she do if the roles were reversed ?
Will she fight to keep the relationship together?
Does she lie ?
Is she vengeful ?
Does she like black men?
Is her friends low life’s: cheaters, liars, gays
Wo
A lot to unpack I agree with the first 5 for sure.
@@JasperinthePhilippines when I lived in Vegas over 90% of black men was with fat women with low self of steam and used these women to pay for there bills because they refused to work and the women more often then not were real low life’s themselves.
When 13% of the population is committing 54% of violent crimes and 8.5 times more likely to have a venereal disease you just might be a little concerned.
Asians have a higher net worth and commit less crime and even lower chance of contracting a disease than even white people.
Sorry but in Vegas you know you seen it too it’s just not politically correct to admit it, but facts don’t lie and if you was a betting man would you bet with a 90% chance of losing?
Many Ps in Vegas with snow bunnies 🐰