If you're ambitious but lazy, please watch this video…

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  • Опубліковано 6 лис 2024

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  • @kardo8153
    @kardo8153 11 днів тому +284

    ”Don’t let the fear of failing make you choose the only path where failure is 100% guaranteed”

  • @denishpatel6038
    @denishpatel6038 Місяць тому +318

    Summary:
    1) See Failures as a stepping stone for the final goal, it need dedication and disciplines to be succeed. Thomas Edison - developing bulb took 10000+ attempts and here we are stopping after 3rd attemp.
    2) Reward must be big enough, your inner self will not want to work for small reward.
    3) Believe that it can be done.

  • @lucasmosca1794
    @lucasmosca1794 Місяць тому +140

    I like the MS paint type animation, good nostalgia. Thanks for your thoughts and well presented delivery

  • @jamesmensah8535
    @jamesmensah8535 9 днів тому +6

    As a Habitual Gambler this video is really helpful!

  • @plant9399
    @plant9399 28 днів тому +49

    Failure is status quo, success is progress. You don't have to believe in yourself, just look at the world with detachment and act like a cold optimizer. If you failed, you simply didn't have enough information. Try again and see what happens. Not that you have anything else to do in this world.

    • @anordinaryfellow2832
      @anordinaryfellow2832 28 днів тому

      Uhm, you're right.

    • @cam-inf-4w5
      @cam-inf-4w5 14 днів тому

      If you doubt yourself then doubt yourself thinking you know it's not going to work.
      If you only doubt your positives thats factually and mathematically wrong
      And then reinforcing proof of the negative only
      Thats not even realistic doubt. Youre being an irrational bias radical feminist type person against yourself. Lol
      Fr

  • @eliazibmatias9949
    @eliazibmatias9949 Місяць тому +106

    I really had not thought about how I’m not motivated because I don’t believe that I will succeed. It’s funny how most of my life problems come from very bad self esteem

  • @oceeta
    @oceeta 28 днів тому +13

    This video is really helping me to put a lot of things into perspective for the first time.
    I have struggled with weight and body image issues for a long time. When I was much younger, I was too thin to look like the jacked men that I looked up to. When I grew up a bit, I swung in the opposite direction, again, without any muscle on my frame. I also wasn't athletic. I almost thought that I would never even get close to my goal physique, much less achieve it.
    The keyword here is almost. On some level, I must have believed it must have been possible, because I still kept going at it. I tried working out so many times, but I never stuck with it long enough to see any real results. I would get frustrated after only a few days or, sometimes, weeks.
    Fast forward to 2021. This was by far the worst year of my life. I was depressed for seemingly no reason, which made me even more depressed because I invalidated my own feelings by comparing myself with people whose situations were worse than my own. It wasn't just because of my body, though. I thought I had fundamentally failed as a human and that perhaps the world would be a better place if I did not exist.
    Somehow, with some support, I was able to make it out of 2021 and I tried to finally lose some weight. I tried an exercise and dieting program, but I couldn't even tell you if it worked because I was only on it for 16 weeks and I wasn't really going as hard as I would have liked.
    After this attempt to get in shape, I just let myself go, and became my heaviest at 88kg. At 165cm, this was a nightmare. Occasionally, I would have people make remarks about my body. One time, someone even told me that I occupied too much space in the back of the ride we had ordered for an outing. I felt like a hippo, minus their incredible strength.
    I had almost given up by that point. I was still unhappy, but I didn't know what to do about it. The thought of possibly achieving more than I had was a thought that continuously tortured me as I tried to settle for less.
    It wasn't until last year, on the 6th of September that I realized I had had enough. I was going to try one last time, but this time, I would do things differently. If I failed here, then I would just give up forever. I had to make this shot count.
    So, I went to work.
    I re-educated myself on what I needed to start. This was when I discovered that lifting was a better way to achieve my long-term weight loss and muscle-building goals. I also decided that I would take on a more experimental approach. For instance, I had always tried to wake up early and workout first thing in the morning. However, I hated that. It wasn't for me, and I wasn't about to force myself to do something that would make me quit again. So, I started working out in the evenings, and sometimes, even late at night, when it is generally not recommended to do so. I experimented with a lot of routines. If I didn't like an exercise, I would educate myself on using the correct form, or I would switch out the exercise for another that could accomplish the same thing. I was madly persistent too. This time, though, I actually solved the problems that presented themselves on my path.
    It was difficult, but slowly, I started to make progress. I went down many kilos. Somehow, at the start of my journey that night on September 6th, I discovered that I was lighter than I was in 2022. I can't tell you what I did, but I was 8 kilos lighter than I was in 2022. Still, 80 kg is a lot of weight for someone at my height.
    Again, I continued. Three times a week every week. I gave myself room to fail as well. At a minimum, I needed one day of exercise in the week.
    I was finally transforming. People began to take notice. I began to take notice. Now, I am down 10 kilos with some muscle gained and it has been a year since I started this. I have actually even gone below 70 kg, but I figured that I wanted more muscle on my frame, which is why I'm currently heavier than what most people would call my ideal body weight.
    What you have made me realize is that the people who succeed aren't the ones that just doggedly persist when the going gets tough.
    Creativity. Problem-solving. These are the things that make a difference. If you try something and it doesn't work, find another way to do that thing. If you can't find another way, then change how you execute that strategy. There has to be something that you aren't doing or aren't doing correctly. Document what you have done so that you don't have to do it again. Really think about how to achieve your goals.
    The issue was never discipline. The issue was that for whatever reason, you couldn't solve the problems that you faced. You also viewed your mistakes as setbacks and things that shouldn't happen. Meanwhile, what happened was exactly what should have happened, given your skills and knowledge at the time. Understand: you are not where you want to be because you are not yet the kind of person who would be in that position. To get there, you need to be able to try things and be willing to step back and reflect on what you have done so that you can change if necessary.
    Thank you for reading this far if you did. That was a long one, but I needed to let all my thoughts out to make sense of them.
    To the creator of this video, thank you for sharing your story. Let's all keep striving to become better problem solvers.
    Lastly, don't forget that you need to believe on some level that you can do whatever it is that you want to do. The fact of the matter is that if you are watching videos like this one or reading books or trying to find out some way that you can finally change your life, then it follows that on some level you believe that you can do it. If you didn't, you wouldn't be here.

    • @asmaeelidrissi9359
      @asmaeelidrissi9359 23 дні тому +1

      Best comment so far !

    • @oceeta
      @oceeta 23 дні тому

      @@asmaeelidrissi9359 oh, wow. I didn't really think anyone would actually read this stuff. I really went in on telling my story here; I barely edited it, save for the typos that I could find while skimming through. Thank you :)

    • @DAR3VIX
      @DAR3VIX 20 днів тому +1

      I read it all, thank you for the beautiful message.

    • @oceeta
      @oceeta 20 днів тому +1

      @@DAR3VIX Thank you for reading my story! I appreciate that you and some others find it to be helpful.

    • @Nate2cool_not_it
      @Nate2cool_not_it 20 днів тому +2

      Holy yap I ain’t reading all that

  • @_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_
    @_-_-_-_-__--_-_-_ 27 днів тому +81

    "I made 5,127 prototypes of my vacuum before I got it right. There were 5,126 failures. But I learned from each one. " - James Dyson

  • @hizrox9301
    @hizrox9301 19 днів тому +3

    I failed first year of engineering school. Didn't even was bother about starting again because like you said in you video, we have to learn from our mistakes and fix the problems that cause them.

  • @m.korn_93
    @m.korn_93 Місяць тому +11

    thank you for reminding me to be consistent.

  • @metesnsr4544
    @metesnsr4544 24 дні тому +3

    Thanks a lot brother. I hope this video will be the one that makes me realize my mistakes and take actions about them. Just like you I've been doing the same mistakes for over 5+ years.

  • @mariamenezs
    @mariamenezs Місяць тому +1

    this video was everything i needed to hear, i feel exactly like that and i've always seen people telling that discipline is the only way to get through it, but none of them talked about how we don't achieve things because we never try or we stop in the middle of the process, the problem is we don't think we are capable of doing it so the easy way just get more attractive. Thank you for the video, it honestly opened my mind

  • @jojough8283
    @jojough8283 20 днів тому +13

    "What if I wasn't failing, but just quitting before it had a chance to work."
    I know it's rather cliché to put the motivational quote in the comments, but this one really hits differently. Thank you.

  • @FizzyToni
    @FizzyToni 9 днів тому

    Exactly! Never give up, even if you have failed multiple times and lost everything. 99% of gamblers quite right before the big win!

  • @lmaowhodis5776
    @lmaowhodis5776 Місяць тому +28

    bro is out here making everyone lock in. Glad this hit the youtube algorithm

  • @Miszel-l5k
    @Miszel-l5k 10 днів тому +515

    It's surprising that more people don't discuss Hidden Pineal Gland Activation on Shirlest. I read about it, tried the exercises, and noticed my intuition is way stronger now. Plus, the lucid dreaming aspect is mind-blowing. It’s like I’ve unlocked a secret door to my mind!

    • @devshelke1545
      @devshelke1545 10 днів тому

      whats that?

    • @VuiCasa
      @VuiCasa 10 днів тому

      @@devshelke1545 scam

    • @MacaronStudio28
      @MacaronStudio28 10 днів тому

      Hello, how did you manage to activate your pineal gland? What technique did you use or what feeding regime, if you want to share with us. Thank you

  • @diego_roca
    @diego_roca 25 днів тому +4

    That last 10 second hit me so hard. I hope never forget those words

  • @livingwhaticreated
    @livingwhaticreated 16 днів тому +1

    I learned when I was studying for a big test that every mistake I made was one less error, and once I learned from it, I was closer to success. That kept me motivated to keep going

  • @vertixd7453
    @vertixd7453 День тому

    I'm not sure how to say it, but no matter the numbers of views you have, the ones that do see your videos, will genuinely enjoy them. They're very well done, animations are fun and your explanations are great. Thank you for your efforts!

  • @倪信宏
    @倪信宏 День тому

    Having Aaron Finch at 4ra events brings a spark of trust and high-caliber sportsmanship

  • @DarkPsycheZone
    @DarkPsycheZone 17 днів тому

    This video is exactly what I needed! It's so easy to feel stuck when you're full of ambition but lack the motivation to take action. The way you break down these strategies is not only inspiring but practical for someone like me who needs that extra push. Thank you for reminding us that ambition without action doesn't have to be the end of the story-there's always a way to bridge that gap! 🙌🔥
    What’s one daily habit you recommend to start overcoming laziness without feeling overwhelmed?

  • @КлеопатраАвдеева

    4ra having Finch as an ambassador adds a layer of trust and class to their events pure quality

  • @CarolinaIgnatyeva
    @CarolinaIgnatyeva День тому

    With Finch as an ambassador 4ra always feels more premium and reliable great vibes every time

  • @elaela1147
    @elaela1147 12 днів тому

    I feel like a big part of the recommendations found online and in books are designed for extroverts. You have introvert problems and have found solutions that introverts can easily apply. This is great!

  • @ТрифонАртемьев
    @ТрифонАртемьев День тому

    I like how 4RA gives good bonuses.

  • @DAR3VIX
    @DAR3VIX 20 днів тому +3

    Awesome video i hope it will change my life and my mind 😊

  • @akmaldju
    @akmaldju 3 години тому

    It's an amazing video, I hope 2025 will be the year when I will finally start my youtube channel and succeed. P.s I tried it a long time ago and failed exactly because of the reasons mentioned in this video

  • @kassd2
    @kassd2 8 днів тому

    Hey man, this video showed up in recomendations, I havent searched anything about motivation (because I am successfull af). So your effort is starting to pay off. Keep going

  • @dunnowhattotype8451
    @dunnowhattotype8451 Місяць тому

    Thank you for giving me a mental breakdown.
    This video + realizing that many of my expectations towards myself aren't \*mine\* + reading two ADHD books (I got a diagnosis) is messing with my head big time. I might actually improve something about my lacking energy outside school. Welp.
    Btw, emotions do affect your motivation. So besides remembering all the times one failed, feeling bad about failing many times ALSO worsens your motivation. Duh. I know but it does help looking how you feel about a task or goal.

  • @CarmichaelsRestoration
    @CarmichaelsRestoration 6 днів тому

    I have nothing to say but commenting to help your analytics.

  • @4reinersplug959
    @4reinersplug959 13 днів тому

    Everyone who is dedicated and hardworking towards whatever they do love whatever they do.
    You gotta love what you do

  • @reymars_
    @reymars_ 8 днів тому

    Bro ... Thank you.

  • @udayanasaikiran
    @udayanasaikiran 10 днів тому +1

    Thanks for your time dedicated for this vedio

  • @therealodelola
    @therealodelola Місяць тому +13

    Brother. I relate to you on this. I started not seeing my mistakes and failures as part of me and always wondering why again?
    It made me so much better when I just focus on picking myself up again

  • @neville_n
    @neville_n Місяць тому +3

    Keep posting. This channel is so cool.

  • @有働進
    @有働進 День тому

    I'm mostly into roulette; the vibe feels just like a real casino. Got any favorites when it comes to table games

  • @ahmeddoghri1576
    @ahmeddoghri1576 8 днів тому

    take a deeper look at those goals

  • @juanpablomorenocadena5921
    @juanpablomorenocadena5921 6 днів тому

    Thank you, i need it. ♥

  • @whitesnipe6309
    @whitesnipe6309 Місяць тому +69

    i found this video on my fy and im quite shocked that you only have that much subs and likes. Your video really got a movement started in me. Thanks for that man

  • @sarah_002
    @sarah_002 8 днів тому

    That's what I needed 🔥 thanks🔥

  • @AstovSantoth-tf8nh
    @AstovSantoth-tf8nh Місяць тому

    Keep it up, this motivated me to work more on consistency and the now rather than the past and taking it easy

  • @ChrisTzagkarakis
    @ChrisTzagkarakis Місяць тому

    Good job man. I've been there for many years and have built up a failure wall that made me think it's impossible to even work towards my goals until I experimented with different ways of motivating myself and doing things while focusing on cultivating a positive state that made everything easier.
    Thanks for sharing your story, keep up with your journey.

  • @LowkeyBragi
    @LowkeyBragi Місяць тому

    Keep it up bro this was an excellent video confidence is definitely the factor I’m lacking in when it comes to achieving specific goals it’s nice to get a new perspective in it

  • @EVYLEN
    @EVYLEN Місяць тому

    Wow this vid rlly motivates me for school and commiting to my passion (art). Ive been feeling extremely discouraged lately and i have an exam tomorrow but i will try my best. I also want to create more art and improve my skills. Thank you!

  • @TrofimMedvedev
    @TrofimMedvedev День тому

    Aaron Finch with 4rabet showcases their commitment to excellence in sports and more

  • @nezukoyaegerr
    @nezukoyaegerr 4 дні тому

    OMG u dont know how much I needed this video. Thank u soooo much for psting such content pls keep going.

  • @МатренаШубина
    @МатренаШубина День тому

    Sharing strategies with friends has really ramped up my betting game. Got any tactics you swear by

  • @ИнгаГолубова
    @ИнгаГолубова День тому

    Following some tips from my brother turned into a decent win last month. Ever had a win that felt extra sweet because it came from a tip

  • @SnjezanaLebedeva
    @SnjezanaLebedeva День тому

    Every event at 4rabet is a hit with Finch his achievements in sports really draw a crowd

  • @BaccariniAmy
    @BaccariniAmy День тому

    Finch at 4rabet events is like a stamp of excellence always a sign that things are gonna be awesome

  • @michaelgiovanni9533
    @michaelgiovanni9533 23 дні тому

    Your content is so simple yet interesting. Keep it up

  • @JamesBanze
    @JamesBanze 25 днів тому +1

    I was pretty much at rock bottom but this video gave me a new perspective thanks bro.

  • @ManavSinghlp
    @ManavSinghlp 11 днів тому

    Dude made it on the 2nd try. 3rd try even higher. I am happy to see the results working. Good work brother

  • @_ao101
    @_ao101 Місяць тому

    definitely worth it to stick to the videos! It brought me some value 🙂

  • @nawazhussain1281
    @nawazhussain1281 2 дні тому +1

    I was here at 19.2K. I will be here at 1M. Keep it up!

  • @thomasgunawan7541
    @thomasgunawan7541 Місяць тому +1

    Hey man.... From SEA; Indonesia as a Chinese-Indonesian, and I felt the same way with the fear of being forgotten after death just because my dreams were always hindered by people or stuff that says that I can't do it..... Could you make a video for the ones who are hopeless because of being isolated, because of the rules that made them unable to achieve their dreams?.... 😒

  • @Crimson_Fanatic
    @Crimson_Fanatic Місяць тому

    Thank you so much bro😊

  • @Jazmeyne
    @Jazmeyne Місяць тому +1

    this was really great, thank you.

  • @EstherIbrahimova
    @EstherIbrahimova День тому

    Finch's involvement in 4rabet also known as 4rabet ensures a blend of sport and star power at events

  • @МаксимилианРожков

    4ra events shine even brighter with Aaron Finch around he's a real indicator of reliability

  • @podcastclips778
    @podcastclips778 5 днів тому

    I need this thank you

  • @Deno64
    @Deno64 6 днів тому

    thank you my man

  • @unhinged.mp4
    @unhinged.mp4 17 днів тому

    This video resonated alot with me. keep going bro love your content💪

  • @PelagiaAlexandrova
    @PelagiaAlexandrova День тому

    I stick to for the most part; it's easy and I don't have to think too hard. What's your go-to for a relaxed gaming session

  • @sumanthmoole
    @sumanthmoole 29 днів тому +1

    i needed this thank you

  • @AntenorCavalcanti_
    @AntenorCavalcanti_ 9 днів тому

    Thanks a lot man, now you opend my mind

  • @gokulhemanthkumar4556
    @gokulhemanthkumar4556 18 днів тому

    The ability to move forward with continuous effort, regardless of the results you get, is the key. It may take days, months, even years, but there will come a point when you make improvements by leaps and bounds and leave behind all your competition. Most people quit before reaching that point. Will you?

  • @marc-antoinesauve5636
    @marc-antoinesauve5636 4 дні тому

    Better keep posting mah boy, you're crushing it!

  • @Posi2Mind
    @Posi2Mind 21 день тому +2

    I get what you're saying, but I don’t totally agree that laziness is just fear. Sometimes it's more than that-like burnout or just not having clear goals. And honestly, not every failure is a lesson; sometimes it's a sign we need to take a break and rethink things. Maybe instead of always pushing through, the real key is knowing when to pause and reset?

    • @noa8990
      @noa8990 21 день тому +1

      Personally, I think it’s both! You just have to know yourself better, sometimes it’s fear and you have to pass through it and sometimes you need a break, it’s about balance !!

  • @Max-nh2kx
    @Max-nh2kx Місяць тому +3

    Man, I find so many references to my life. I have had lots of inner thoughts like that. Typically I don’t watch cartoon type of content, yet I am subscribing. Keep up the good work.

    • @iamprospero
      @iamprospero Місяць тому

      So many references, so many.

  • @yuvrajeditz928
    @yuvrajeditz928 15 днів тому

    I think you just changed my life

  • @AThoughtfulFrog
    @AThoughtfulFrog Місяць тому +1

    Hey man great video! I really thank you for this, youre really wise. I know youll be able to achieve all of your dreams ❤ keep going champ

  • @HonaOshiro
    @HonaOshiro День тому

    Aaron Finch boosting 4rabet events with his presence means you're in for top-notch quality every time

  • @armandoariaktaaloanis1949
    @armandoariaktaaloanis1949 16 днів тому

    Awesome mate, I found this video really helps me at this time. Bless ya!

  • @JonathanSt-Yves
    @JonathanSt-Yves 16 днів тому

    The first video got 3 views because the algorithm takes time to takeoff when you have 0 track record.
    The quality of of these videos is so amazing. If they were posted by a channel with a million subscribers it would be in the top trendings.
    Great honest insight like this is rare. With humor that's a recipe for succes.

  • @produccionesluxy
    @produccionesluxy 8 днів тому

    “What if I wasn’t failing, but just just quitting before it actually works?”
    That quote hit me like a truck

  • @JS44444
    @JS44444 11 днів тому

    Great video. 👏🏻

  • @romancordova9291
    @romancordova9291 Місяць тому +2

    I hope to see your account grow hugely

  • @SpaceMhd
    @SpaceMhd 21 день тому

    this is a great story

  • @zaqargrigoryan9096
    @zaqargrigoryan9096 10 днів тому

    I never thought activating my pineal gland could have such a profound impact, but Hidden Pineal Gland Activation on Shirlest had me feeling things I didn't know were possible. My creativity has skyrocketed, and I feel more connected to my inner self.

  • @RandomBro5
    @RandomBro5 Місяць тому +1

    Bro, keep up the videos, this is value you're giving out right here!

  • @turtlezello687
    @turtlezello687 Місяць тому

    this video called out to my so much and ive been slacking off lately on my aspirations as well but this video has made me feel motivated

  • @afihaileywibowo1095
    @afihaileywibowo1095 29 днів тому +3

    I agree 99,9%, except for the rather harsh word of lazy. Sometimes it's not lazy, it could be Adhd. Or in my case, you are right, fear. Thinking that I am lazy makes me sink even more. Keep making these videos. I'm 50 yrs old btw. And I'm proud of listening to your advice😊

  • @FjFj-u6w
    @FjFj-u6w 9 днів тому

    I love your videos and totally relate to your struggles ❤

  • @Santino-nw1hw
    @Santino-nw1hw Місяць тому +51

    Until very recently, I used to assume that "believing in yourself" were just empty words of wishful thinking. I just found the concept too wishy-washy and irrational. But then I realized that I can't NOT believe in myself, I can't just let myself fail "because I probably wouldn't have succeeded anyway."
    So I put the concept in better words, and saved it on my notes:
    Believing in myself doesn't mean having unfounded confidence, it means I will NOT give myself permission to assume I will fail in the future based on past mistakes.
    That's the definition I chose to go with. And it's helping me.

    • @Justinieiew
      @Justinieiew 21 день тому +1

      That's a great concept. I like it. Thank you very much :>

    • @advenchurro6
      @advenchurro6 10 днів тому

      Those who believe they can and those who believe they can't are both usually right!

  • @SeriousGamer-pi7kw
    @SeriousGamer-pi7kw 7 днів тому

    Doing Mistakes is the human way to master the work. If a machine fails, it becomes useless.

  • @aquilakayode5865
    @aquilakayode5865 5 днів тому

    Thank you

  • @poweronwithyouandmeestiva2688
    @poweronwithyouandmeestiva2688 Місяць тому

    thank you for the motivation, your make hard things simple

  • @someonewhomyoudontknow466
    @someonewhomyoudontknow466 5 днів тому

    I started to do blogging but I stopped doing it as the result wasn't great It was not like I had confidence. I was really confident about It but It never worked out sometimes some works aren't made for us even If work day and night working for It . It won't bring us any result. That is why I stopped doing that now I write and share on social media. I am going to learn some new skills which will be more delicate and fun to work.

  • @ShahriarJunaid
    @ShahriarJunaid 7 днів тому

    I am procrastinating so much that I am struggling to watch this full video! I haven't watched this video yet....(Just commenting for being focused😴)

  • @Justinieiew
    @Justinieiew 21 день тому

    This video changes everything. Thanks for this. I really need it right now 🥹

  • @MrGizmo471
    @MrGizmo471 20 днів тому

    Good but I have one issue with this 10k and running 1 mile example. If I dont know I can run 1 mile, I do it anyway because I have in this situation 2 options, maybe I win 10k maybe not but If I dont run only option is lose. I cant understand why some people can think diffrently

  • @tommasosantini6338
    @tommasosantini6338 10 днів тому

    Now, this is a handy video, good job

  • @BraveRubberDuck
    @BraveRubberDuck Місяць тому +1

    Thank you dude, I needed this ❤

  • @it-shiza
    @it-shiza 7 днів тому

    Watching this video at 3am, yep, tomorrow, I will definitely start a new life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @Chocolatepenguin
    @Chocolatepenguin Місяць тому

    Great advice, keep it up!

  • @greaterthanlife
    @greaterthanlife 29 днів тому

    Crazy thing is i don't even procrastinate
    I just need enough evidence to focus fully on what i want to

  • @littletath
    @littletath 13 днів тому

    expectancy value theory. now it's finally clicking. thank you so much oh my god

  • @WiltSmo-em1ho
    @WiltSmo-em1ho Місяць тому +1

    Interesting Focus is
    how much you believe you can complete the goal
    the value of the goal

  • @Shortsmaniaoffician
    @Shortsmaniaoffician 17 днів тому +3

    3:40 and that is why we know h Thomases name and not the other dudes who just gave up