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  • Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
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    ‪@FlyMeToThePhilippines‬
    Expat Diaries Episode Number 2 in the Philippines. Gary Florida Man has 9 age gap relationship prospects lined up for his 6 week travel to Manila and the Philippines. Could You, Would You date an 18 year old Virgin.
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  • @rocconasso6277
    @rocconasso6277 3 місяці тому +72

    Hi Rob and Crissie I think I told you. I had a 48 year age gap and we were together 10 years and 2 months. We never had a fight or argument it was a beautiful relación ship .then when she was 33 years old she just lay down on the floor and died . She was never sick it was a brain tumor .that broke my heart its been 2 years now and I haven't dated since she died. I live on top of a mountain with beautiful views . The moral of the store is age dont matter. You guys enjoy your life. Ps all my family and friends turn against me for the age gap .take care and I love your chats 👍

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +6

      Hi Rocco good to hear from you again. Thanks for sharing

    • @Learning.Naturally
      @Learning.Naturally 3 місяці тому +4

      I am so sorry for your loss. What a wonderful relationship you had, and you have so many beautiful memories. I was luckier on the acceptance issue. There were several family members, and my kids were all highly concerned, and most everyone else was a bit concerned about our 18-year age gap, but all of them came around fairly quickly as we live here in the States with my family nearby.

    • @georgegarvey7338
      @georgegarvey7338 3 місяці тому +3

      I'm so sorry brother. I'm 59 & me wife is 74. We met when I was 29 & she was 44. We've been married for nearly 30 years now.
      I know what it's like to be a widower. I was stationed in the Army at 25, 1st marriage, we're were in Germany when she got cancer & she was gone in 2 weeks when I brought her over from the states.
      I know how much you love your wife. You can live another woman in a different way whenever you are ready to love again. You don't have to love her the same as your wife. I know, I did it.

    • @JimMillsCSLC
      @JimMillsCSLC 3 місяці тому +1

      I’m very sorry for your loss and her untimely passing🙏🏼💜

    • @JimMillsCSLC
      @JimMillsCSLC 3 місяці тому +1

      Different culture, different possibilities. If she loves him and truly wants to be with him, and the parents agree, it is the beginning of a wonderful love story and life together. Western relatives and friends are irrelevant IF he intends to RETIRE and make a new life in terms of Philippines. Bringing her back to America would be a disaster in every conceivable way. The only other reason why this would be WRONG is if he is not able to give her children, which is not the case.

  • @rexlaughlin3897
    @rexlaughlin3897 3 місяці тому +48

    My uncle married an 18 year old he was 58. They are still married 26 years later. He is on oxygen and mostly immobile but she has been so dedicated to him and it is true love. They never had any children together.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks, Rex for sharing that

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 3 місяці тому +5

      How rare in the West for people to be in love for decades. Relationships in the West are like a poorly written reality show. Kudos to them for forming such a special loving bond. They are an inspiration for others.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      @@tryscience 👍

    • @mrwonk
      @mrwonk 3 місяці тому +2

      /|\ This, this is what us older guys are looking for.

  • @lwrgbr
    @lwrgbr 3 місяці тому +22

    my filipina wife and I have been married 32 years, best decision of my life. 21 year age difference. you two remind us of ourselves. you look like an ideal couple, if there is such a thing.

  • @mayainuk600
    @mayainuk600 3 місяці тому +14

    Me and my husband,we have a 21 yrs of age gap..weve been together for 14 yrs, including 12 yrs of marriage.

  • @jeffrt3893
    @jeffrt3893 3 місяці тому +16

    Personally, I think it's great that they both found each other. Not only is their relationship consensual, but it sounds like her family accepts him. This is all that is important. Since when do any of us allow strangers to decide who is right for us to marry? This is a personal decision. As long as no laws are broken, there is no wrongdoing. It sounds like they love each other!

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for watching Jeff and taking time to share your comment

    • @jeffrt3893
      @jeffrt3893 3 місяці тому

      ​@FlyMeToThePhilippines You're welcome. Thank you both for putting out quality content that addresses important topics for our age-gap relationships, which are common between filapinas and foreigners. My lady has been here in the states for 4 weeks now. She is half my age, and we have certainly been non-verbally judged with disgruntled looks from others

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +2

      @@jeffrt3893 Thanks. Sad to hear that

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 3 місяці тому +3

      you're exactly right. In the Philippines, age gap relations are very common. It's an accepted part of the culture. Westerners get weird ideas that they have to criticize these relationships, as if their Western hangups are somehow still valid in the Philippines. It makes about as much sense as wearing a heavy winter coat in Manila, because they grew up in North Dakota.

  • @RobertGent-w6p
    @RobertGent-w6p 3 місяці тому +33

    Why should she be too young? During most time of human history girls usually married a lot younger like at age 13 or 14. Big age differences were also nothing uncommon until feminism took over.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +7

      You raise a good point

    • @Jerome-Philippines
      @Jerome-Philippines 3 місяці тому +6

      Agree but maybe not many (older western left alone) female agree hehe

    • @timlesiuk
      @timlesiuk 3 місяці тому +2

      ​@@Jerome-Philippines Maybe that's historical young girls married to men with power/authority/money?

    • @Kimonha
      @Kimonha 3 місяці тому +1

      They used to also think the earth was flat. And they would also kill suspected witches. Things have progressed since medieval times.

    • @Otingocni
      @Otingocni 3 місяці тому +1

      @@Kimonha Some people still think the earth is flat and there is places that still kill witches. That being said i do get your point and it is generally valid.

  • @virgowatersnake
    @virgowatersnake 3 місяці тому +17

    After 10 years in 32 gap relationship I say yes it can work.. but the greatest problem is the jellousnes from philpinas

  • @ericrollings
    @ericrollings 3 місяці тому +7

    Americans can’t understand that Filipinos have an entirely different perspective. Older, more mature, stable, loyal men are very appealing to many of them.
    Of course financial stability is important. It’s no different than the stability an American girl seeks other than in the Philippines $2500 per month provides stability where in the US it would require $10,000 to provide a similar lifestyle.
    Then compare the character of the average Filipina to a western woman…… Filipinas are on an entirely different level.
    Beautiful, petite, sweet, feminine, loving who takes pride in caring for you and her family. I’ve been dating my Filipina for 1.5 years. I’ve NEVER been treated so well. Ever.

  • @JAG72270
    @JAG72270 3 місяці тому +22

    My wife is 25 and I am 53. Been together 3 years, all is good!

  • @gesto70
    @gesto70 3 місяці тому +6

    53 / 30 for us. Age gap relationships are historically the norm for men of means. Same with economic disparity. The objections are rooted in shaming tactics by older women who are losing potential mates to younger women.

  • @georged3850
    @georged3850 3 місяці тому +14

    My girlfriend is 37 years younger than me! She loves me I love her. What else does it matter?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Same as us

    • @thomastaylor670
      @thomastaylor670 3 місяці тому

      In time she will change a woman nature is to rule a man the advantage she have over you she is older she will treat you like a child when the time is right for her. Listen to Billy Joe song a woman is always a woman to me. Keep your eyes open and thank me later warning 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Traveler-po3oe
    @Traveler-po3oe 3 місяці тому +9

    I'm 68 and I have no problem with this.

  • @TruckerBill0531
    @TruckerBill0531 3 місяці тому +6

    My 26 yr old was a virgin and I’m 55. We are not only amazing partners but best friends

  • @Dee-pv8lb
    @Dee-pv8lb 3 місяці тому +3

    In Shanghai, I went to a bar- talking a lot to the younger waitress ( i was 40). Went to a KTV with her after work and sang in a private room. Next day she text me to meet her at an address at about 400pm. It was at a school. She came out and I asked and she told me 18 years old. She asked me why i like her- she was pretty, tall and spoke english well. We both took a taxi to a spa and both went to get a massage in a room together. They locked the door for the massage. She told me her mother is coming to meet me. After 10 min, I hear a knock and she asked me to open the door to meet her. I opened the door and her mother was beautiful and our eyes locked on each other for 10 seconds but seemed like 1 minute, frozen and both smiling. For the rest of the massage we could not stop looking at each other- she spoke no English. I realized I wanted the mom who is near my age. I knew no good would happen and I stopped seeing the daughter.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      Wild experience thanks for sharing

    • @dwitcraft
      @dwitcraft 3 місяці тому +2

      So basically, both relationships worked out.

  • @daveaway
    @daveaway 3 місяці тому +4

    Lots of great info. Thanks for sharing

  • @bentnielsen3731
    @bentnielsen3731 3 місяці тому +2

    Dear Chrissy and Rob - Definitely an international topic. Personally, I have never been focused on age, but rather on maturity and behavior. Many younger women today are far more sophisticated and clear-sighted than when I was young, although their life experience has not always followed. So each individual relationship must be evaluated by the couple together. Best regards from Denmark 😇

  • @robertgillies9382
    @robertgillies9382 3 місяці тому +1

    My wife is 29 and I am 83. I am American and she is from the Dominican Republic. We have been married for 8 years. She doesn't speak English but I am fluent in Spanish. We live in Panama.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for sharing Robert. I’m very interested in how the relationship has progressed as you have gotten into your late 70s and early 80s as that’s in my future also

  • @Abelius
    @Abelius 3 місяці тому +4

    As long as the flags are green, I don't see a problem.

  • @OlegDC
    @OlegDC 3 місяці тому

    It is nice to see you guys, growing on YT, its more look like day show now, where you add not only facts about your life, but facts from the world and history. I totally, see that in a year or two you will do LIVE show with a groups of participants to do some fun activity, or games. It is always a pleasure to watch you, keep doing and growing!

  • @timlee5260
    @timlee5260 3 місяці тому +9

    It seems that shame is used to discourage men from large age gap relationships. Chrissy said that since the Florida man took the girls virginity then he should marry her. That is a traditional view that is seldom practiced today, but it is still in the minds of people. On the flip side if a girl is 25 years old and has had previous relationships does that mean the Florida man is under no obligation to marry? All this is rather vague and has many moving parts to consider. In my opinion shared life goals trumps age, if both people want the same thing then the relationship can work even with a large age gap.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +2

      Well stated Tim thanks for sharing

    • @absurdnerd7624
      @absurdnerd7624 3 місяці тому

      Wait...he _took_ her virginity?!? Took, against her will. That is called r@pe.
      Or did she _offer_ it and he accepted it?

  • @SPENJERE
    @SPENJERE 2 місяці тому +2

    Hahaha great story. I have to say when I met my Filipinas family it wasn’t at the airport, it was at 9:30 at night sitting at their kitchen table. Although I was very well fed, It was in my opinion the 2024 version of the Spanish inquisition . Lots of tough questions and lots of very well thought out answers. On a sidenote, while sitting at the kitchen table, a rat crawled up the wall behind her father 😬 and disappeared out the window, God is my witness ✋.

  • @amazonseller-yf8vv
    @amazonseller-yf8vv 3 місяці тому +5

    If two people can find a way to love each other and be happy in this crazy world, espciially in a time of such high rates of depression and suicide in the west, we should really applaud them and be happy for them!!! It's really tragic to hear of so many cases of situations where the families of the someone in an age gap relationship won't accept them, very tragic indeed.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      Thanks for writing that comment

    • @amazonseller-yf8vv
      @amazonseller-yf8vv 3 місяці тому +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines You're very welcome of course, and the biggest thannks to you for more expecellent content, but it's just my honest feelngs and to me it's very straightforward.

    • @amazonseller-yf8vv
      @amazonseller-yf8vv 3 місяці тому +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines My dad is about 77 and he's unhappily married (not miserable, just not happy) to my stepmom, and some times i just wish he could be married to a Filipina in her 50s or 60s instead cause i'm sure she'd treat him better and he'd have a lot more fun.

  • @M.G-sq8cc
    @M.G-sq8cc 3 місяці тому +4

    Great video chrissy and rob. Love watching you to . 😊

  • @petertraveller6421
    @petertraveller6421 3 місяці тому +5

    My wife came from Philippines to europe with 3 month visit visa, she was 20 years old when we got married here, in our law there is no reason to ask from parents, 20 is old enough to marry if she wants to. Also when got married here, she got instant 1 year extension to her visa.
    As soon as we told we have intent to marry, she got the 1 year extension to her visa, then have time to plan the wedding.

  • @DR23184
    @DR23184 3 місяці тому +11

    As a man who has an age gap relationship. In Asia it is not uncommon that a young service man marries an older Asian women.
    In my case my wife is 20+ years older than I and we have been married for 40+ years and still going strong.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +3

      Wow, that’s awesome. Thanks for sharing your personal story.

    • @jeffrt3893
      @jeffrt3893 3 місяці тому +3

      ​@@GUITARTIME2024Well, now you have

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      @@GUITARTIME2024 we know someone exactly similar here in CDO

  • @tinknocker
    @tinknocker 3 місяці тому +8

    Upon reaching the age of 18, an individual assumes the responsibilities and privileges associated with adulthood. This includes the right to vote, the potential for military service, and the ability to incur financial obligations such as student loans. While societal opinions may vary, it is generally accepted that an 18-year-old is considered a mature and responsible adult.

  • @SonnyCrocket-p6h
    @SonnyCrocket-p6h 3 місяці тому +12

    I"m 72, my wife is 22.

  • @Paladinbr
    @Paladinbr 2 місяці тому

    Any time you find scammers on CF, make sure to report them.
    I got to meet the folks at the CF/FV office on my trip last year. Good people.

  • @soundslight7754
    @soundslight7754 3 місяці тому +1

    I like this couple and the dynamics between them. I can understand they're happy and compatible

  • @ChrissieSM
    @ChrissieSM 2 місяці тому +1

    Céline was only 12 when her future husband became her manager.

  • @trailguy
    @trailguy 3 місяці тому +1

    My moms uncle married a woman from Russia who was a bit younger than me. That was almost 30 years ago and they are doing great. They just took a cruise.

  • @richardjohnson3290
    @richardjohnson3290 3 місяці тому +2

    I’m 62- she’s 25 she’s coming USA Tues , hope it works out!!

  • @mikebentley-lv1gy
    @mikebentley-lv1gy 3 місяці тому +3

    You guys will laugh: First wife three years older than me. Married for 22 years. Current wife 22 years younger. Married (so far) 25 years. Keep the interesting stories coming! Blessings, MB

  • @BrianSmith-yn2zg
    @BrianSmith-yn2zg 2 місяці тому +1

    I'm 66 and don't think I could not see myself with a teen but I have no issue with others that do, to each their own I say.

  • @cooliipie
    @cooliipie 3 місяці тому +6

    If he has good intentions, why not

  • @Bob-hd9jn
    @Bob-hd9jn 3 місяці тому +5

    Rob did you mention the age difference between the married couple Anna Nicole Smith and J Howard Marshall of 63 year

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      No, I didn’t. It’s very interesting and thanks for adding that.

  • @lold6130
    @lold6130 Місяць тому +1

    Lauren Bacall was NOT in Casablanca. That was Ingrid Bergman.

  • @glenclarkchidley3637
    @glenclarkchidley3637 3 місяці тому +1

    Full grown woman… absolutely!
    18-25 off limits!

  • @botaka54
    @botaka54 3 місяці тому +2

    Only one big problem is the 18 year old will mature into a different woman at 32, 35, etc. No I am not talking about the filipina becoming westernized, just that I have talked to several who found out this to be true when she moved out.

  • @jdtravels5140
    @jdtravels5140 3 місяці тому +2

    I have a 90 day rule. I don’t meet the family for the first 90 days. I also have 20 years working abroad and 42 countries under my belt.

  • @pugster73
    @pugster73 3 місяці тому +2

    Correct me if I am wrong, but not alot of expats go to Palawan so chances of meeting a traditional woman there is good.

  • @rusco1948
    @rusco1948 2 місяці тому +1

    But stay to work. Elvis Presley also had an age gap relationship.

  • @Si1verRaven
    @Si1verRaven 3 місяці тому +6

    18 is fine she's an adult

  • @bigjohnson7415
    @bigjohnson7415 3 місяці тому +2

    The movie Casablanca starred Ingrid Bergman, not Lauren Bacall. Bogie and Bacall made some fantastic films together, my favorites being "Dark Passage" and "Key Largo". Still love those black and white film noir movies! As far as the guy nailing the 18 year old, I say good for them. Not really what I'd have ideally in mind for myself, but to each their own.

  • @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y
    @JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y 3 місяці тому +1

    Lining up many prospects reminds me of the shopping mall for singles.
    The women have 7 stories to peruse and purchase. The only catch is that you go up, wut you can never go back down. Most end up going floor to floor, handsome in first, handsome and kind in the second, handsome kind and good pension on third… finally they end up in the last floor and there are no men. Always wanting more they ended up with none.
    Across the street is the shopping center for single men. Beautiful women on first. Beautiful women who like beer on the second. There are no other floors because the shopper usually buys on the first.

  • @MikeMcIntyreintechrity
    @MikeMcIntyreintechrity 3 місяці тому +1

    Very interesting video and thank you. It's helped my head junk with when younger Filipina's hit me up. I'm mid 50s and have been ignoring anyone in their early 20s. I'm headed to Cebu in Sept for my first time, although I might change my ticket to Nov (work stuff) which would allow me to stay longer. I'm looking forward to your next video on Cebu 'oasis'.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Thanks for watching Mike. I hope we don’t disappoint you with our next video.

  • @NotinKansasanymore
    @NotinKansasanymore 3 місяці тому +9

    OK, I’m 62 and I can remember my great great grandmother telling me that her marriage was arranged that when she met my great great grandfather she was 16 and he was 30 and it was an arranged marriage. Her parents arranged that for them so it’s not unheard of, I don’t know why people make such a big deal about

    • @Patrick-oy6er
      @Patrick-oy6er 3 місяці тому

      So you think a 30 year old with a 16 year old is OK, got it. Tell me you're a Ped without telling me.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +3

      Thanks for sharing your personal story

    • @Patrick-oy6er
      @Patrick-oy6er 3 місяці тому +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines So you're thanking someone for sharing a story about a grown man marrying a minor and that he believes it's really no big deal. Glad to see what you condone.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +2

      @@Patrick-oy6er seriously I think he is referring to a time and place we don’t recognize today- I don’t say I condone anything- I appreciate the engagement- including yours

    • @Patrick-oy6er
      @Patrick-oy6er 3 місяці тому +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines Action speaks louder than word's .....................It's this part that's telling "so it’s not unheard of, I don’t know why people make such a big deal about"

  • @BearInThePhillipines
    @BearInThePhillipines 3 місяці тому +1

    You remind me of the Regis and Kathy Lee show. Good morning Phillipines

  • @Jose.Q_
    @Jose.Q_ 3 місяці тому

    I know that there's another celeb that got married to an older guy , but she and her husband passed away , I remember that Anna Nicole Smith was 26 years old when she married her 89-year-old husband

  • @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl
    @SuccessiveApproximations-Intl 3 місяці тому

    Another great video, thanks Rob & Chrissy! I don't think any relationship is a one size fits all thing. The age gap relationships work as long as both people are realistic about it. I like Chrissys outlook that, at her younger age, she wasn't mature enough to consider a much older man. That would be my concern about dating a much younger woman... but, again, maturity levels should probably be equal. For me, at 68, I wouldn't consider a girl below 20, or even 30. My target age was above 30, and my ldr is 34, who already has a 14 y.o. child. This was very attractive to me, because I have no desire to raise a young child. I wanted a girl that could 'retire' with me and have fun and live life.

  • @bctiger86
    @bctiger86 3 місяці тому +3

    Anna Nicole Smith and J Howard Marshall the second

  • @lot6129
    @lot6129 3 місяці тому +2

    VIRGIN for marriage, YES PLEASE!

  • @marcrichard7251
    @marcrichard7251 3 місяці тому +6

    Don’t forget Mick Jagger …..

  • @trailguy
    @trailguy 3 місяці тому

    I think Julius Caesar was 53 when he met the 21 year old Cleopatra. It was a fortuitous union but they had genuine chemistry. No one disputed that.

  • @kismet512
    @kismet512 3 місяці тому +1

    It's impossible to be in a relationship with someone that does not want to be in it so if you are together then it's alright.

  • @RobertStern-k4t
    @RobertStern-k4t 3 місяці тому +3

    Spiritually, according to scripture, he is married because the father approved. A proper wedding is moot at this point. Nonetheless it is necessary. He should marry her immediately because this can be devistating on children spiritually.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts

    • @tedlaurvik3765
      @tedlaurvik3765 3 місяці тому

      I thought I heard that Gary was in the process of getting divorced. That being correct, it is too early to marry.

  • @Dfd_Free_Speech
    @Dfd_Free_Speech 3 місяці тому +3

    Yes, why not? As long as it is legal. But it should be exclusively up to the two people involved and no one else's business.
    Today totally different cultures, religions, social classes and even any genders can get married. Why should different age be an exception?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for watching the video and sharing that thoughtful comment

  • @Vaderbill
    @Vaderbill 3 місяці тому +3

    My worry is that an 18yo will change alot personality wise as she developed...I appreciate your thought process Rob and Chrissy!!

  • @msudak4
    @msudak4 3 місяці тому +2

    Chrissy is such a beautiful and classy lady

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz 3 місяці тому +9

    Didn't 20 something Anna Nicole Smith marry an late 80s old man?

    • @dzikijohnny
      @dzikijohnny 3 місяці тому +1

      Yes, but she was Playboy Playmate.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      George, that was a crazy story

    • @George-ux6zz
      @George-ux6zz 3 місяці тому +4

      @@dzikijohnny Still a 60 or so age gap

    • @tryscience
      @tryscience 3 місяці тому +1

      Yeah, but she was as pure as the driven slush

  • @tg213
    @tg213 3 місяці тому +1

    It is very endearing how you interact with each other... On the longest age l gap relationship, i have a vague recollection that she drew a pension from his military service well into the 20th century. Gonna look that up. All the best. Tim

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Thanks, Tim that’s an interesting factoid

    • @tg213
      @tg213 3 місяці тому +1

      Sertrde janeway died in 2003 still drawing a civil war pension

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      @@tg213 thats crazy. They married in the 1920’s

  • @noelsingletary
    @noelsingletary 3 місяці тому +6

    NOPE! The largest age gap relationship in history is between a Somali man who was 112, and his 17-year-old bride, with a staggering 95-year age gap. This remarkable case is reported to be the biggest age difference in the world.

  • @Trahloc
    @Trahloc 3 місяці тому

    Hah, I watched this video as a lark but you mention the exact place I'm moving to next month. Curious what you'll show since I'm moving there due to the weather. My dog, a border collie, can't handle the weather living in Bangkok.

  • @jaybeaner4726
    @jaybeaner4726 3 місяці тому

    wow! where do you live? it seems so calm and peaceful!

  • @1307scooter
    @1307scooter 3 місяці тому +4

    Number 2. I am a 61 year old Florida man, sitting in a hotel room in Phoenix, flying to the Philippines tomorrow and not looking for a young girl!

  • @raymonddee1059
    @raymonddee1059 3 місяці тому

    philippine heaven for men's

  • @Paul-McB
    @Paul-McB 3 місяці тому +1

    I'm going to share this vid with my American Expat ex-friend. I'm in the exact same situation with his daughter and he is really angry to the point of threats. I'm praying he'll be open with his daughter and I. We love each other, so I don't see a problem.

  • @dimakonax
    @dimakonax 2 місяці тому +1

    Would love to see video tour of your home on mountain looks awesome 👏

  • @trailguy
    @trailguy 3 місяці тому

    In the mid 1990s there were still 7 women collecting their dead husband’s benefits who were formerly soldiers in the civil war.

  • @johnclark7973
    @johnclark7973 23 дні тому

    29:34 to 30:21
    Can you paste the link to the Cebu City video you mention here, please?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  22 дні тому +1

      Cebu City 2024: Best Place To Meet Filipinas in the Philippines
      ua-cam.com/video/Sv9KeC0LL88/v-deo.html

    • @johnclark7973
      @johnclark7973 22 дні тому

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines 👏👍🙏. I appreciate this. Can't wait to watch.

  • @George-ux6zz
    @George-ux6zz 3 місяці тому +4

    Have you watched on UA-cam, FOREIGNER IN THE PHILIPPINES? They've been in a marriage for 10 years. Their ages right now is he's 85 and she's age 35. So a 50 year age gap.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      I’ll have to check it out

    • @George-ux6zz
      @George-ux6zz 3 місяці тому +2

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines They're actually a cute couple. Especially when they give advice to someone who wrote them about their problems.

    • @emanuelusa63
      @emanuelusa63 3 місяці тому +1

      I watch that channel as well, yes they are a cute couple, and you can tell she is completely devoted to him as a wife!

  • @albertmorrissette3640
    @albertmorrissette3640 3 місяці тому +1

    well done

  • @Lawskipper
    @Lawskipper 3 місяці тому +2

    There is nothing wrong with this video, or the topic. However I do take issue with the click-baiting, salacious way in which the topic is advertised on UA-cam, and also in the beginning of the video.
    If you are talented and intelligent and produce quality videos, you will not need to employ click-baiting titles or salacious content.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      🤔

    • @paulfabulous
      @paulfabulous Місяць тому

      I agree. I'm a little discouraged with the clickbait titles and the dressing it up to look like other glamorous UA-cam channels I like the earlier videos best because it's more down to earth.

  • @MrRizzo1961
    @MrRizzo1961 3 місяці тому

    I don't know if you're mixing Lauren Bacall with ingred burgman. Lauren wasn't on Casablanca. ✌️❤️

  • @Andrewcj396
    @Andrewcj396 3 місяці тому

    Yep easy 👌 😌
    Just seen thumbnail didn't even watch video

  • @tenzinchoegyal4067
    @tenzinchoegyal4067 3 місяці тому +3

    Age gap is noting but for money and worth

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      🤔

    • @tenzinchoegyal4067
      @tenzinchoegyal4067 3 місяці тому

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines am I right ?

    • @tedlaurvik3765
      @tedlaurvik3765 3 місяці тому

      @tenzinchoegyal4067
      please explain your thoughts further @tenzinchoegyal4067, it sounds like you have an interesting perspective.

    • @walshamn
      @walshamn 3 місяці тому

      Someone has obviously had a bad experience. Don’t judge us all based on what happened to you.

  • @drrao9954
    @drrao9954 3 місяці тому +1

    Love the show and synergy between both of you. Topics are definitely of interest... and love that fox tail palm behind you swaying away and takes me to that song Sway. Cheers

  • @TobyBloom
    @TobyBloom 3 місяці тому

    Great story. I have a unrelated question. Can u tell Rob what visa you have? I ask because I plan on retiring to Ph in two years. I Don t have 10k for srrv.

  • @dwitcraft
    @dwitcraft 3 місяці тому

    There is no one who can select two people and it's the perfect match. Everyone has to choose for themselves. Everyone has to judge if their partner is in for the long haul or not. Anericans love to judge others. I don't know what special power people think they have to decide for others. Like that clerk in KY, wouldn't do her job because she didn't agree with their choice. No one is god and no one should be judging other's choices.

  • @timlesiuk
    @timlesiuk 3 місяці тому

    Nothing like you list, but my last long-term relationship was with a lady 14 years younger.
    Someone I met many years ago, and have now reintroduced ourselves is 10 years younger.
    But to me it is my first marriage when I was 21 and she was 17.
    I was too young and immature to know that she was totally unprepared to be a housewife in any way.
    Yes in 1980, I thought of things that way.
    I am sorry if the following offends you/anyone, it is not intended that way.
    I have shared my flat (not a relationship) with a 23 year old. Around the home and in looks she struck me as a 14 year old. So not being interested in children I was merely an older friend.
    Here is the bit that I hope will not offend. I have watched many videos about the Philippines, so many have extremely bright university students. Many in early to mid 20"s, but although I do like many of their thoughts on life, physically their bodies still look like children to me!
    Perhaps part of it is that they are so short as well as slim?

  • @jonshannon1025
    @jonshannon1025 3 місяці тому +1

    This is a wonderful story. Great job guys!

  • @emanuelusa63
    @emanuelusa63 3 місяці тому

    Dude, you are 68!! You look great!! Interesting to hear Chrissy mention the virgin part multiple time. Virginity is pretty much lost as important here in the west. Marrying the fitst person you have sex with isnt necessarily the best thing.

  • @JimVan-ii5jy
    @JimVan-ii5jy 3 місяці тому +1

    Great as usual !!!!!

  • @ivoted7199
    @ivoted7199 3 місяці тому +3

    Errol Flynn.

  • @richardhogeland8597
    @richardhogeland8597 3 місяці тому

    Age gaps were common practice all over till 90s 2000s

  • @rogerhessell9137
    @rogerhessell9137 3 місяці тому +2

    I am 60 years old and my finpno flance is 17 years old

  • @BC19572
    @BC19572 3 місяці тому +4

    Did he request a cenomar on her? Better safe than sorry. Cenomar is the #1 thing to request if you are going to date a Filipina.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      No, he didn’t but obviously he will need one if he does decide to marry her

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 3 місяці тому

      ​@FlyMeToThePhilippines CENOMAR should be inquired long before marriage.
      Should be inquired in early datimg stage, to prove she is of correct age and not allready married.
      It can have detrimental consequenves if she is allready married (and her husband decides to blackmail for money), or if she is under 16 years old... then can become jailtime.
      (If american, then the sexual age limit is 18 year in the ph. So if dates+ a 17,x year old in the ph... it can get very messy very soon if anyone complains).

    • @BradleyT2p2
      @BradleyT2p2 3 місяці тому +1

      @@paulruano1903 I've probably watched 50+ phillipines videos and never heard of CENOMAR. Sounds like a background check for marriage in PH?

    • @paulruano1903
      @paulruano1903 3 місяці тому

      @BradleyT2p2 its a public record certificate. Each person in the ph has a seperate file with their CENOMAR record.
      It has updated information about that person age, civilstatus (marriage, single, etc), etc.
      Its public record, so you can contact the gov agemcy to extract her public revord.
      Or easier would be to get her to show you;)
      So that is yoir 1st line of "defence" against married people and against undrragr women.
      Both which could get you into serious problems.
      Of you involve yourself with a married woman... the legal spouse could file a case against her and you. Leading to hefty fines and even jailtime.
      Very few file a legal casr.
      But simce your a "juicy" target you may end up being blackmailed and extorted for money.

  • @pauls4742
    @pauls4742 3 місяці тому

    He took advantage of the situation because they believed that he was there because he was serious - not shopping, or doing the sex-pat thing. He should have known better...did he really think that it was going to work with an 18 year old? He broke her heart and let her family down. The fact that he took her virginity was a signal to her that he was going to marry her. He shouldn't have done it unless they were planning to marry... which of course he wasn't.

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому +1

      He actually is planning to marry

    • @pauls4742
      @pauls4742 3 місяці тому

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines - that doesn't mean that you can leave a trail of destruction in your wake. He broke this 18 year old's heart and violated her trust and that of her family. Act with honesty and integrity....that means don't take advantage of vulnerable people. The Philippines is a conservative country, and the "hook-up" culture doesn't exist in the same way as in Western countries. The fact that the family trusted him with their daughter shows that they respected him and thought that he had good intentions as an honourable foreigner. BTW - I've spent a lot of time in Palawan and know Port Barton well. People like him give foreigners a bad name.

  • @martinjonkhoff3957
    @martinjonkhoff3957 3 місяці тому

    How about Anna Nicole Smith ?

  • @richardjohnson3290
    @richardjohnson3290 3 місяці тому

    Same 37 exactly

  • @homebasebelgium359
    @homebasebelgium359 3 місяці тому +4

    I'm 65 and I don't think I could bring myself to touch an 18 year old. Not because of lack of attraction, but because it just wouldn't feel right for me. I say that without judging people who would bite the apple but such a girl could be my grand daughter. I would feel like I were depriving her of her youth. On top of that she would be a widow before the age of 40. What kind of prospects would I be giving such a girl?

  • @antonioperez-i6x
    @antonioperez-i6x 3 місяці тому

    Hi my name is Antonio Perez a women 18 To 19 Years Old is a women in the USA and you don't need permission at all sincerely yours Truly Antonio Perez

  • @billyjohnson9166
    @billyjohnson9166 3 місяці тому +1

    If she’s legal who are we to say anything. Good luck to him.

  • @kennethwelsby2143
    @kennethwelsby2143 19 днів тому

    If he made love to her at 18 then later slept with another. There is something wrong here. Emotionally, a persons congnative emotional state is not fully developed until the age of 25. He better be totally upright with her from here on out.

  • @tgardner866
    @tgardner866 3 місяці тому

    Sign me up!

  • @fransodekerken-sf7xs
    @fransodekerken-sf7xs 3 місяці тому

    What are his children thinking about him?

    • @FlyMeToThePhilippines
      @FlyMeToThePhilippines  3 місяці тому

      Not sure? He said his son was ok and had not told his daughter

    • @fransodekerken-sf7xs
      @fransodekerken-sf7xs 3 місяці тому +1

      @@FlyMeToThePhilippines he is tactical smart to tell his son and not his daughter😀

  • @FlipandTheBlueMule
    @FlipandTheBlueMule 3 місяці тому +1

    18yo... way too young and Way Too Fertile for me haha

  • @Bob-hd9jn
    @Bob-hd9jn 3 місяці тому +3

    Hi Rob/Chrissy questionable is the women’s maturity at 18 here in the Philippines not the age difference . The family greeting is definitely nice particularly when a ongoing divorce leaves you empty….Good luck to him though

  • @garystrain2788
    @garystrain2788 3 місяці тому

    At 18 her looks and figure can change alot by 23

  • @BarakTheWonderer
    @BarakTheWonderer 3 місяці тому +1

    This kind of behavior is what gives Western guys and Americans in particular a bad name. This is NOT how you avoid "putting all of your eggs in one basket". It also shows that you don't give a damn about those girls you visit and are sleeping with, one after another, (trying them out or making them "contestants") without informing them beforehand as to your true intentions. It's not being judgmental to say that this is wrong. This is being deceitful, dishonest & unworthy of trust - and you can't later build a real relationship based on this kind of behavior. There is a lot more here than a simple age gap relationship which I have no problem with. C'mon guys, you can produce better content than this...I know that sex sells, but so does character and integrity. Choose the latter. Avoid the race to the bottom :(