In the 1980 there was a big issue about this and the Philippines government and US Government worked together to address this issue. There was a big age gap of 50 years on so many relationships that what happened was both government took a stand. Before you got married they would interview both separately and see if they really knew each other...what was her middle name...what was his favorite color? And if they didn't match then the visa was not approved...in some way this really changed the big age gap difference. All that being said it was also a time when pilipina wanted to go to the US for work and this was not a issue of a expats moving to the Philippines right away
Really ??? What about when the pinay mother rent her 2 years old baby to westerners pedophiles....thats 2 consenting adults ....!?!?!?!? Before you make comments like that go and live there for few years ok....
He wants to be happy for the remaining years or days of his life so why not. Their both adults and can make their own decisions. She and her reasons and he has his. Win win.
I'm 67 and am about to marry my 29 year old Fillipina girlfriend, I have my eyes wide open and am not naive, I know the core of our relationship is transactional but from my perspective that's never mentioned , I'm long ago divorced and no children and estranged from siblings so basically have lived alone for a long time with occasional dates .I'm fully aware of my mortality and I have made the decision to leave my modest savings to someone who has struggled her whole life and when I die she will be left with enough to live a comfortable life , this is a better legacy to leave instead of my family going to probate to fight over my Will 😊
Older men don't want children and they only have 15 years of relatively good health. The remaining ten years of their lives you'll be changing his diapers or visiting him in at the Home. Marry people close to your age so you can experience things for the first time and go through the same hardships
I know of some older guys that do cheat. Some older men are very healthy and sexually active. If they have some erictile dysfunction due to circulation issues, often modern drugs like Viagra and Cialis can help with that.
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
Brought my Filipina to the US in 1997 with a 16 yr age gap. After three boys, still married. She has been 100% stay at home mom. I have provided 100%. Now I'm retired we are considering where to retire. She's not in a hurry to settle in the Philippines but I'd like split our time between Florida and Cebu. Just got to find the right person and have the means to support your family.
@mavoya1 sounds like philipines isn't high on her list. Why not just visit a few times a year. You get enough heat in Florida and the air is much cleaner.
I'm considering the same thing, I'm currently in JAX and thinking of splitting my time some place here and Surburban Manilla. We're considering buying a home there as well
@GUITARTIME2024 yeah I learned that while spending the holidays in 2022 over there. Learned about my anxiety too, but we're looking to buy outside of Manila city limits
I am Laotian American. I have a girlfriend from Laos who is only 24 years old and I am 56. We cherish each other so much. I am moving there this year planning to live off my pension $2,000/month. I have a Caucasian American friend who married a Filipina gal and had lived in the Philippines for a few years before they moved to Pattaya Thailand. They too love each other so much despite age gap.
I have lived in the Philippines for more than half of my adult life, spanning more than 44 years since January 1980. I am married to a well-educated Filipina who gave up a promising career to marry me and later moved back to the United States. My wife and I have a five-year age gap. For more than 20 years, my wife and I have divided our time between homes in the Philippines and the United States. Snow birds have more fun. I enjoyed your video. It was well thought out and provided very accurate information. Thanks for sharing.
I have a home in General Santos city. I am just a two minute walk from Manny Pacquiao’s home. I met my Filipino wife through a friend, and corresponded for almost a year before I travel to the Philippines to meet her. There is a 22 year difference our age. But once I met her and her family, and so I just out incredibly mature, responsible and reliable she was, I decided to start dating her seriously. She very much enjoys the traditional role of housekeeper, caretaker, and preparing meals. She had a son by previous relationship and the father abandoned them. We’ve been married almost 30 years, and I raised her son as my own. We purchased a home in general Santa city and invited her parents to live in it while we were in America. Thanks to her and her family. I have had a wonderful life. If an American dates a Filipina with dignity and respect, the family will accept them. It is quite traditional for a husband of a Filipino wife to send a little bit of money home each month just to help the family. $200 a month and the Philippines goes along, traveling to the Philippines on holidays is such a wonderful experience.
One of the best videos out there on the age gap. I would remind western men to not send large amounts of money for someone you only chat with on line. Online dating is a huge business with some of these young ladies so just be smart.
Thank you, I appreciate that! You're absolutely right 💯. I'd even advise not to send any money. There's always good and bad people everywhere. Social media has made it worse.
I totally agree with you,marrying older person is like marrying a life teacher who can teach you a lot of things you don't know about in life,wiser,knowledgeable and loyal person is the one
For many men this is their first time for them to find true love. America is often hostile towards men, especially old men. Life is better with love and a relationship where you can take care of each other. 65/24 here
@@patrickh6291 Ohhh... So I actually feel sorry for those over 6 feet in America. A feminist is someone who has the legal right to commit adultery, kill her babies and divorce her husband. 🙄
I'm glad you found love but sorry feel sorry for the 24 when you die she will be heart broken and alone? Are you planning to have children so that she will not be alone?
I have been with a sweet young Filipina for 2 years now. Yes she is beautiful,and they know how to manipulate guys on social media , it’s pretty common nowdays. I have learned a lot about how it works there. I have been to Philippines 3x and it’s beautiful there,and the people there are very friendly towards forigners. Our plan is to get margied next year,I will eventually retire there with her and her family . Yes .. the MAIN reason young Filipina date older Forigner is because of the support. There is so much poverty in Philippines,you can’t blame the girls to want ,and get a better life for them ,and their family’s
Hey she's the right one for you! Happy for you both. Enjoy your retirement! I am assuming that is the case, 😅. Thanks and happy 4th! Regards to the wife!
I love Filipina, marry a Filipina and you don’t just get a wife, you also get a nurse, a cook a doctor and most of all, you get a life time of happiness
great vid well done I have met a young Filipina woman at the hospital here in Australia and things are going well I never ever knew that they were so attractive it never even entered my head but now I have seen close up and personal.
Well i am the same my filipina girlfriend is 64 and i am 57 one advantage is when i visit i can get a 20 percent discount on meals and hotels with her senior citizen card
I’m one of the foreigners that have an age gap relationship with my Filipina. She is 33 and I’m 51. Our relationship is an LDR and we are 1yr. in. Our relationship works very well because we communicate twice a day religiously. Our schedules connect perfectly with 12 hour difference. And no, I did not meet her online but through a mutual friend here in the states. Thanks again for your content on this subject.
I video chatted with a Filipina for 2 months. She was great, we had fun chatting. I was clear from the start "just friends". She caught feelings a couple times, I reminded her "friends only" and she would calm down. BUTT, and it's big BUTT, 1-3 hours chatting everyday was 1-3 hours I should have been doing other things. And I'm aware online is a fantasy. Of course it's fun. You never have to make any decisions like where to eat. Always relaxed and focused. Real life is nothing like that. The other giant issue is it gets the carabao before the cart. When a guy finds a Filipina online and then moves to PH he is almost always locked into living close to her family. I want to explore and find where I want to try living before looking for a Filipina. So I shut down the chatting and I stayed off dating site.
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
I think I've the biggest gap on here - 64/20 - but I'll be damned - it's the best relationship I've ever had in my life. Her family loves me - and they are upper middle class with government positions - no poverty here. Her dad bought her a Honda Click for her 18th birthday. She's so beautiful - that she can have any guy she wants. It's like we were made for each other. We both couldn't be more in love - and we plan on having two kids. *_She connected with me_* - on Facebook - and the rest is history. Don't question why - question how stupid you would have to be to say no.
As long as they happy Im happy for them, usually those who criticize are feminist-influenced woman who hates happy couple 😊 Life is about make good memory anyway....
Here is what bothers me with age gap relationship... When the older man doesn't take care of the filipina after he dies .I have seen this two times with expats who died and left the wife with no money.. if a filipina is not a US CITIZEN she has to be 62 yrs old for her to get his pension..if she is a Citizen of US she gets his pension at 35 years old. My friend died last year and his wife got nothing and she had to move back with her family in the province..this is Sad. and the wife is in Worse position then before she got married. .the husband needs to have a life insurance policy for his wife after he dies
Yeah, that's interesting. I think some people just don't do planning, or at least have that discussion. That is sad! I am surprised the Filipina didn't stay here in the US. She could have worked here. I think that would be better than going back home to that same difficult situation. I guess she wanted to live with her family, not to mention it would be very difficult if she is all alone here. Well, I guess I answered my question lol.
Shalom! I’m Kath! I’m also Filipina and wanted to say how much I appreciate the way you explained this topic. Your clarity and presentation are spot on. I’m excited to see more of this content on your channel, especially as I’m considering my options when it comes to possibly settling down with an American man here in the Philippines. Thanks again! God bless!
Thanks for this short, no nonsense video. I am in an LDR with a Filipina 25 years younger and I am moving to the Philippines this year from southwest Florida. New subscriber
I am 37 years old, and I recently met or should I say got in contact with a 32-year-old Filipina. We are already very lovey-dovey towards each other, but I still think it’s moving too fast. She is already talking about marriage. We are already talking about me going over there in a few months. I heard from somebody that some of these women do move very fast. She is a very nice Christian woman.
I just found you in my suggested videos and sub'd. My filipina is an English teacher in PH and she sometimes asks me to speak a little slower. But wow.... I'm pretty sure it would take me an extra 10 minutes to say everything you said in this video 😲😅 I look forward to watching more of your videos! Thanks and good job 😃
I’ve been married for 8 years to my wife. There is a 22 (YES, 22) year age gap between us. I am very blessed that I have found someone who I love very much and plan to spend the rest of my life with. Your analysis is pretty much spot on. One thing you didn’t mention is that in some cases an older man and younger woman are on the same maturity level. That can be a good or bad thing. In our case, we have been fortunate because my wife and I enjoy the same things. We are both homebody’s, we have many of the same interests e.g. music, tv, movies, food (she loves to cook and I love to eat LOL), politics (most of the time😉) and family. I love her sense of humor. And she (bless her heart) finds me entertaining as well. Prior to our meeting, I was married for almost 25 years 😱 to a woman who immigrated to the states, from the Philippines, 4 years before I met her. And while she gave me 2 beautiful children, our marriage was difficult from the start. She was, in my opinion, a high maintenance person who had insecurity issues going back to her childhood. Ultimately, we (thankfully) ended our marriage while we were still young enough to move on with our lives. It was a difficult transition that left some scars but it was very much for the best. I guess what I really want to say is that there is someone for everyone. And in my case, my one and only was born 22 years apart from me. And for those who are curious. I just turned 60 and I met my soon to be wife when I was 48. And I have told her that she is the one I have waited for all my life. Thank you for allowing me to share. And always remember that haters are always going to hate. God bless and good luck.
Enjoyed your video thank you. Im a 39 afam and my filipino fiance is 27. She is younger but it just turned out that way. I fell in love with her and filipino values. She will join me in Europe for a few years and then our plan is to move back and buy a farm in Leyte
I the have a Pinay friend , she's shot me down more times than Chinese Sly Balloon, she is extremely conservative and we have a 30yr age gap I'm moving to Cebu in 540 days so she's my boots on the ground, weve known each other for 6 yrs and I had to learn about her culture I almost blew it with her, she actually forgave me and might be warming up to the idea I am an Evangelical Christian I'm not going to offer a sampler platter I want 1, an actual chance to court her properly 🤞 Thanks again on another excellent Vlog
oh really,,,u are a Evangelical,,,do u follow the whole bible? Or u just pick and choose? You waiting for marriage to have sex? Or you dont follow the bible,,,,hahahahaha Most of the Evangelicals are hypocrites here in the USA
I met a Filipino my age. Her husband was a few years older than her. He passed away about a decade ago to my understanding. We have been conversing back and forth for about two years. In that time she has brought up money which i blew off. I didn't address it. I did send a computer to her for her birthday but apparently customs took it. I tried to send money for birthday and Christmas but western union gave me fraud alert and shut me down. She called me crying which i thought was odd. In that time of our socializing she tattooed her husband's name on her arm along with her daughters and later did a music video about her and her husband. Never once posted anything about me or us. I just said i don't need this. I was going to fly over there to meet but there really doesn't seem like it is authentic. Too many red flags. I was disappointed
8:13 - Nowadays it isn't hard to find a good filipina. All you have to do is give it some effort. Gone are the days that you could go to Subic and find someone in 5 days. You just need to put in some effort and go to places not normally visited. These guys looking for a good girl need to get off their ass and stop going to Angeles, Cebu or Makati and think they can mine gold.
If you think a 20 year old is going to love a 60 year old well try to not give her a allowance or support her family and see how long she stays with with
My family picked me. I was skeptical. Because 40 years old and 65 years old. I don't know what I would do without them. But it's not easy. I want them to come here so that I can pass my home on to them. I don't meet the income requirements to do K1 visa. I spent 1 month with her in Philippines but may never see her again but will support my wife and a daughter in high school until I die.❤
All eminently sensible. The changes from the past are toxic, as you say, with foreigners, in particular, playing around when they go there with little or no intention of a lasting relationship. The result is that Filipino women are often far more cautious about dating foreigners who are in the Philippines.
Oh humans are humans no matter where you go. I'm an extremely conservative person and because of this few will be able to impress me as a loyal loving and intelligent partner.
Hi. No need to feel rushed in making your videos. I don't believe anyone of your subscribers would mind if you slowed down and elaborate more information. You are putting out great content. That's why I subscribed.
Hi Conservative Filipina. I don’t think you rambled in the video or made it too long. In fact you deliver very clear and concise information. First time viewing. Subscribed Thank you.
You touched upon some important points. I have some experience with Philippines; first trying to find romance, then changed my attitudes and now perhaps not really that much interested in anything serious there. What was the problem, for me? Well, I find the people there to be so casual and living with the moments; not saying that is bad or not, but it did not work for me. I met a girl for serious relationship and met her big family and friends. They did not even ask single question about my family, my thoughts, my expectations and my thinking. This laid back, casual attitude and approach makes finding girls there for fun easy but for serious matter really hard. Now things are getting worse, because as you said they learnt the trade and dating sites are flooded with girls looking for fun in return for money!
I love my fiancé she’s younger but I love her so so much n I treat her like a goddess ; yes I built her a house ; she makes me happy and I love her n accept her the way she is
I am the opposite I am married to a Filipina who is three years older than me she is 64 and me 61 I have been with here twenty years I never considered a younger woman as I prefer my own age group by the way I met her in Australia I have been to the Philippines many times I got her pregnant at 45 we now have a 18 year old son
Rarely discussed... what happens to the Filipina when the old goat drops dead ? At least for Americans...it could be decades until she gets social security survivor benefits. There is rarely discussion about the importance of the foreigner legally adopting the woman's kiddos. So they can get survivor benefits until they are 18, or out of college. I would not be able to engage in a relationship with a younger woman if I wasn't confident that there was sufficient resources available to support her after I die.
You don't want someone that loves you because they need you. You want to find someone who needs you because they love you. Whoa... Such true words. T_T
Awesome video. I absolutely agree with you. I tell men my age at 57-year-old dont send money to women you never met. I lived in Phillipines and yes its poverty and money is hard to come by. Alot of women would prefer 🤔 fillipino men. But they will take a older foreigner to help them financially. Great video.
Most Filipino prefer Filipino men? Thats not always. Young Filipinos will date a young foreigners black or white over Filipino men but the problem is theres very few young foreign men because they have no income and is very unstable. They end up going back to the states just to survive. And they may not be patient enough to wait on immigration. Its a catch 22
I told my wife before we married that I wanted to retire in the Philippines. She stayed there 10 years and was able to send money to the family but she realized the life in the US was hard. Get up, work, get home, ear sleep, repeat. Weekends, shop grocery, wash dry clothing, clean house, repeat. Not a lot of time to enjoy. She made more money but realized had to spend money.
I stumbled upon your video by chance and I’m absolutely glad that I did.. I can listen to you talk all day! Feels like chatting with someone sitting before me in a fine afternoon over coffee, except that you’re doing all the talking. I look forward to just about any video you’ll post. Sub’d!!! It’s hard to come by someone who delivers their content the way you do. Your husband is one of the lucky few to have such an eloquent, intelligent and good looking lady beside him. SALUTE!
I am 59 and my Filipina fiance is 29. My Filipina will never have to work again in her life. We filed for K1 visa for her to come to USA. We plan to visit Phills once per year. She hates the heat in Cebuano area. I live in the Mid-west so I am concerned about the cold weather on her. I also have a Pre-nup agreement and I will provide her a small stipend if we do get divorce. I was married for 39 years and lost my wife to cancer. Why would I date an American Woman my age with all the drama BS when I can get a young, hot Filipina to be good to me?
Believe me there is plenty of drama with young filipina's as well. You sound like a good guy, don't put the pressure of perfection on your relationship. There will be ups and downs, hopefully more ups.
@@ggrace1133 Not really but do you know what is really disgusting? Single American Women. Their body counts are over 10, they have 2 baby Daddies, they are 20 pounds over weight, they want to be a "stay at home Mom" but refuse to cook and clean. They want to be "good wives" but go out with their girlfriends to the club and cheat. Now that is disgusting. Filipinas are raised to be conservative. They cherish the role of traditional house wife. They cook and clean for their husbands and families. Therefore, the husbands provide for their wives. My fiance will never have to work a day in her life. I just worry that she will get "Americanized". I have told her repeatedly, if she gets radicalized by American women, I will send her back. If she already has her US Citizenship and pulls this crap, she is kicked to the curb. My fiance is a good Catholic girl so I am. not worried about her getting radicalized. It is still possible but not likely. So why are you disgusted? That a rich American man does not chose you or your kind but chooses a better woman?
Everything was going ok for about 5 years, but she slowly became Americanized over the next 5 years. Then things fell apart. There is no way to stop this that I know of. If you live in the Philippines, there is less chance of this happening. America living can be destructive to relationships sometimes.
Also, there’s a fact that the new Philip is a younger ones have a very high body count. Going from one foreigner to another, and that also plays into it.
She gets his Estate much sooner, than if he were younger. That means she can go on to score another Mark while she is still young enough to look appealing
sometimes it's not "playing around" but rather that we date to really get to know each other. However, the Filipina may be ready to be in a serious relationship NOW, planning the future, etc., after just a few dates and even speaking about love. Most western men are more cautious and looking for real compatibility, so we move into serious relationships more slowly. So our very seriousness about being with the right woman gives her the impression of not being serious. Hmmmmmm I think men and women are basically incompatible, but we are compelled to seek each other out because God is obviously a prankster!!
i am 53yo and single, i will visit next year for the first time flying to the philippines. to find a love in my heart till end of time. i am from the netherlands
The US Supreme Court recently ruled that an American citizen does not have the right to bring a foreign spouse to live in the US based solely on the fact that they are married. The Filiina would still have to go through all the procedures to get a foreigner visa, or to become an American citizen.
@@stan1027 Interesting read. She married someone who was in the country illegally at the time or came here illegally after. He was told he would have to go back to apply for a visa so he did. He was given preferential treatment as a spouse of a citizen. But he already has illegally crossing the border on his record. He then shows up to his interview covered in tattoos. At least one of which was believed to be an MS13 gang tattoo. They then say they found additional evidence of gang ties. They block him. She then tries to say her constitutional right to liberty are being violated by them blocking him. The court throws that argument out. Points out that while spouses are offered preferential treatment, they have always had to pass some standards. They also compare her to a wife who's husband is sent to prison. Saying that if they followed her logic, they also would open up the idea that sending married men to jail would also violate their wives rights. I have to agree with the court. Interesting read. I will have to read the decent later. My eyes are burning after that.
@RebelCowboysRVs Wow! Thanks for looking into this. I was going to, you've saved me time😅. This is very interesting! When it comes to Filipinas, the US immigration has always been very thorough. Background checks with biometrics, medical exams, vaccinations, and an interview with the US embassy in Manila. The applicant will have to pass every single step of the process. I saw others getting denied during my application. So, being in a relationship with an American alone doesn't guarantee entry to the US. I do think everyone should go through the same process with few humanitarian exceptions.
Well, I can tell you this. There's one definite way you can find out if She just wants to get out of the Philippines. And it's not for true love. Tell her during the dating process. You'd eventually like to move to a nice area of the philippines
Correct it’s in my brothers wife’s name with a spa but I’m not worried about if something goes wrong . In any business you don’t invest what you can’t afford to loose. i’m secure with my brother and his wife’s relationship married over 20 years with children. They’re not going anywhere at this point in their life. They own many properties in the Philippines properties United States they’ve no intentions of going back to the Philippines. I only have one child who dose not want the house so not a big deal!
I've traveled to the Philippines 3x thus far now planning my 4th trip because of the woman I've met and fell in love with. 52 @the time we met and her 38, as I told her I'm too old to be dating around and looking to be married. We'll be married sometime next year and couldn't be happier. Salamat for your opinions po
I just found your channel. Please don’t feel rushed. I have visited the Philippines multiple times and plan a semi retirement there. I appreciate longer educational videos on the topic from those that have the knowledge. Thanks for the vid.
THank you so much for the honest insight i am 66 and still run a business in usa and have been on christian filipina have not found a match have applied for my SRRVvisa and will be visiting in January to finalize my visa and explore PH Singapore Malaysia may find someone but need to be friends first like you said must have common goals and desires great job
Interesting topic. I believe that a lot of educated women in Asia over thirty have a tough time marrying guys in their age group because the Asian guys in their country want younger ladies. Probably some real gems in the over 30 category that might appreciate/consider an educated older Western guy. Oh, and Chop On Braves!
For her, money is a lack and for him, sex is a lack, so foreigner and Filipina are a perfect match. This is an opportunity for both and if both sides are ready, true love can develop from it.
What I do not understand is why any man would want to get married after 50? Marriage is for building a life together (in their 20s, not 50s) and having children. If he wants companionship, he can get that without the legal restraints that limits him in a marriage relationship. I have always believed relationships have a shelf life. They eventually run their course and both sides are stuck unfulfilled once it does. If the man is over the age of 65, he is looking for a full time nurse and he knows he can get a younger woman in the Philippines who will accept him. Why not just be up front, pay her a flat fee each month, and if things go bad, they part ways?
You don't need to pay if she's your gf. If you want a maid it's a different deal. Of course you're going to pay the bills if your gf lives with you, which will amount to the same thing in the end, but you've got your freedom if that's what you want.
First of all 50thy is not old for a man. You can't even get retirement because you're too young and still sexual active. So you most be young to even think like that
We know beauty fades. But when you grow old with someone, their beauty is not their physical. Me and my asawa have been together 12 years. She is almost 40 now and I see her as more beautiful now than when we met.
LET ME EMPHASIZE: When I stated 'Younger Filipina', I was referring to a young LEGAL ADULT Filipina. I hope that is all clear. Thank you!
In the 1980 there was a big issue about this and the Philippines government and US Government worked together to address this issue. There was a big age gap of 50 years on so many relationships that what happened was both government took a stand. Before you got married they would interview both separately and see if they really knew each other...what was her middle name...what was his favorite color? And if they didn't match then the visa was not approved...in some way this really changed the big age gap difference. All that being said it was also a time when pilipina wanted to go to the US for work and this was not a issue of a expats moving to the Philippines right away
It is a sad world when it was needed to say adult. Everyone should of known that without saying.
The bottom line is that it is no one's business but the two consenting adults.
That is a beta male, defensive comment. hahah
Best statement of all 💪💪💪
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Really ???
What about when the pinay mother rent her 2 years old baby to westerners pedophiles....thats 2 consenting adults ....!?!?!?!?
Before you make comments like that go and live there for few years ok....
And the green card.
Old men do not require that the marriage lasts forever. Just lasts till they die.
@whyh Ha ha so true. Give them at least a taste of happiness and to feel that they are loved at least a little.
@@karriemartinez2746Thank you, for so many men this is so true.
He wants to be happy for the remaining years or days of his life so why not. Their both adults and can make their own decisions. She and her reasons and he has his. Win win.
So why are they going to a 3rd world country to take advantage of a woman who sees them as rich because of the exchange rate. It's morally wrong.
@@Joe-n4e8e old men are easy ATM money
I'm 67 and am about to marry my 29 year old Fillipina girlfriend, I have my eyes wide open and am not naive, I know the core of our relationship is transactional but from my perspective that's never mentioned , I'm long ago divorced and no children and estranged from siblings so basically have lived alone for a long time with occasional dates .I'm fully aware of my mortality and I have made the decision to leave my modest savings to someone who has struggled her whole life and when I die she will be left with enough to live a comfortable life , this is a better legacy to leave instead of my family going to probate to fight over my Will 😊
We are same!
I’ve been married 5 years I’m 68 and she is 30 - all is going great
You have the right frame of mind, I wish you the best.
@@claudenewton8932 thank you for the kind words
Sad to read this, but it makes sense
Filipinas want stability and the fact older men are a lot less likely to cheat.
Older men don't want children and they only have 15 years of relatively good health. The remaining ten years of their lives you'll be changing his diapers or visiting him in at the Home.
Marry people close to your age so you can experience things for the first time and go through the same hardships
They probably can’t cheat.
@@photopro100money 💰 🤑 💸 👌
@@photopro100they can 😉but have character and self respect
I know of some older guys that do cheat. Some older men are very healthy and sexually active. If they have some erictile dysfunction due to circulation issues, often modern drugs like Viagra and Cialis can help with that.
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
wow
I love that . I'm in the same situation. Helping her they nursing school.
@@strannick2212 Me also
We were pen pals for a year before we got married in Cebu 1995.
It was worth the wait.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU
Brought my Filipina to the US in 1997 with a 16 yr age gap. After three boys, still married. She has been 100% stay at home mom. I have provided 100%. Now I'm retired we are considering where to retire. She's not in a hurry to settle in the Philippines but I'd like split our time between Florida and Cebu. Just got to find the right person and have the means to support your family.
@mavoya1 sounds like philipines isn't high on her list. Why not just visit a few times a year. You get enough heat in Florida and the air is much cleaner.
I'm considering the same thing, I'm currently in JAX and thinking of splitting my time some place here and Surburban Manilla. We're considering buying a home there as well
@rodneysessoms8804 enjoy the terrible air quality in Manila and all that beep beeping.
@GUITARTIME2024 yeah I learned that while spending the holidays in 2022 over there. Learned about my anxiety too, but we're looking to buy outside of Manila city limits
wow, nice. you planned well.
I am Laotian American. I have a girlfriend from Laos who is only 24 years old and I am 56. We cherish each other so much. I am moving there this year planning to live off my pension $2,000/month. I have a Caucasian American friend who married a Filipina gal and had lived in the Philippines for a few years before they moved to Pattaya Thailand. They too love each other so much despite age gap.
delusional lol
@@rohanofelvenpower5566 we will see him crying on the roadside in about two years lol. Just take some spare change for his cup when you hit thailand
you still young man bro not even old enough to get your ssd yet
@@tyronmoore2534 Thank you! I will collect social security at 62 then I will be living off over $3,400/month
@@Bruce3949 😂 good luck
I have lived in the Philippines for more than half of my adult life, spanning more than 44 years since January 1980. I am married to a well-educated Filipina who gave up a promising career to marry me and later moved back to the United States. My wife and I have a five-year age gap. For more than 20 years, my wife and I have divided our time between homes in the Philippines and the United States. Snow birds have more fun. I enjoyed your video. It was well thought out and provided very accurate information. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Good analysis. But one thing I might point out is that a 20 year age gaps seem smaller when people are older when they are younger.
I have a home in General Santos city. I am just a two minute walk from Manny Pacquiao’s home. I met my Filipino wife through a friend, and corresponded for almost a year before I travel to the Philippines to meet her. There is a 22 year difference our age. But once I met her and her family, and so I just out incredibly mature, responsible and reliable she was, I decided to start dating her seriously. She very much enjoys the traditional role of housekeeper, caretaker, and preparing meals. She had a son by previous relationship and the father abandoned them. We’ve been married almost 30 years, and I raised her son as my own. We purchased a home in general Santa city and invited her parents to live in it while we were in America. Thanks to her and her family. I have had a wonderful life. If an American dates a Filipina with dignity and respect, the family will accept them. It is quite traditional for a husband of a Filipino wife to send a little bit of money home each month just to help the family. $200 a month and the Philippines goes along, traveling to the Philippines on holidays is such a wonderful experience.
One of the best videos out there on the age gap. I would remind western men to not send large amounts of money for someone you only chat with on line. Online dating is a huge business with some of these young ladies so just be smart.
Thank you, I appreciate that!
You're absolutely right 💯. I'd even advise not to send any money. There's always good and bad people everywhere. Social media has made it worse.
I totally agree with you,marrying older person is like marrying a life teacher who can teach you a lot of things you don't know about in life,wiser,knowledgeable and loyal person is the one
For many men this is their first time for them to find true love. America is often hostile towards men, especially old men. Life is better with love and a relationship where you can take care of each other. 65/24 here
Yes especially a older man and somebody under 6 feet in height is extremely hard to date in America. Women look for men well over 6 feet.
@@patrickh6291 Ohhh... So I actually feel sorry for those over 6 feet in America. A feminist is someone who has the legal right to commit adultery, kill her babies and divorce her husband. 🙄
@@patrickh6291 Yes. American Amazon abortion, adultery, and divorce is rampant. Heading to the Philippines is wise.
really? are u sure true love? or just lust?
I'm glad you found love but sorry feel sorry for the 24 when you die she will be heart broken and alone? Are you planning to have children so that she will not be alone?
I’m a Filipina but I learned so much from your vlog. Didn’t realize some reasons that you mentioned but they make sense. ❤
Glad you think so. Thank you!
I was 56 when I started dating a 21 year old Chinese. We married two years later and now I’m 72 she 37 and still married.
All relationships are transactional. An exchange of value
True at first but diminishes with time otherwise relationship is doomed
Men want a pretty wife and lots of sex women want stability marriage kids and the white picket fence. As a guy I think women get the better deal !
I have been with a sweet young Filipina for 2 years now. Yes she is beautiful,and they know how to manipulate guys on social media , it’s pretty common nowdays.
I have learned a lot about how it works there. I have been to Philippines 3x and it’s beautiful there,and the people there are very friendly towards forigners. Our plan is to get margied next year,I will eventually retire there with her and her family . Yes .. the MAIN reason young Filipina date older Forigner is because of the support. There is so much poverty in Philippines,you can’t blame the girls to want ,and get a better life for them ,and their family’s
I messed up... Married a Filipina 3 yrs older than me. 😂She moved to America and now we migrating back to the Philippines after 20 years. Great stuff!
Hey she's the right one for you! Happy for you both. Enjoy your retirement! I am assuming that is the case, 😅. Thanks and happy 4th! Regards to the wife!
I love Filipina, marry a Filipina and you don’t just get a wife, you also get a nurse, a cook a doctor and most of all, you get a life time of happiness
but they are not a challenge..seems like they will take any white man.
@@jameshall915you don’t know them well then
They are a lot of work but it is worth it
I doubt it
Are you currently in the PI? How long have you been married? Is everything as good as the first year?
@@MarcoSaldana yes. In Luzon… beautiful people, beautiful country…here in the Philippines, you can’t walk past someone without them speaking to you
great vid well done I have met a young Filipina woman at the hospital here in Australia and things are going well I never ever knew that
they were so attractive it never even entered my head but now I have seen close up and personal.
My Filipina wife is 12 years older than me, so we went against the flow. 😁 Oh well, we've been happily married for 22 years now.
Wow! Congratulations 🎊
Thanks for watching and for commenting!
Very rare have a heard of older filipina and younger foreigner.
Well i am the same my filipina girlfriend is 64 and i am 57 one advantage is when i visit i can get a 20 percent discount on meals and hotels with her senior citizen card
I’m one of the foreigners that have an age gap relationship with my Filipina. She is 33 and I’m 51. Our relationship is an LDR and we are 1yr. in. Our relationship works very well because we communicate twice a day religiously. Our schedules connect perfectly with 12 hour difference. And no, I did not meet her online but through a mutual friend here in the states. Thanks again for your content on this subject.
Thanks for sharing your story!
I wish you both the best in your relationship. Thanks for watching!
1yr LDR? Buddy, you are the only one in the relationship.
I video chatted with a Filipina for 2 months. She was great, we had fun chatting. I was clear from the start "just friends". She caught feelings a couple times, I reminded her "friends only" and she would calm down.
BUTT, and it's big BUTT, 1-3 hours chatting everyday was 1-3 hours I should have been doing other things.
And I'm aware online is a fantasy. Of course it's fun. You never have to make any decisions like where to eat. Always relaxed and focused. Real life is nothing like that.
The other giant issue is it gets the carabao before the cart. When a guy finds a Filipina online and then moves to PH he is almost always locked into living close to her family. I want to explore and find where I want to try living before looking for a Filipina.
So I shut down the chatting and I stayed off dating site.
That is not too much.
@@happywanderer5632😂😂😂
A few of us want kids so a younger Filipina makes sense for that.
Thanks for the comment! I appreciate it!
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
I have noticed what good fathers American men in the 60s are. They often tell me that now they have time to be a proper father.
@@johnl9977
why posting the same ole same ole 2x ?
I think I've the biggest gap on here - 64/20 - but I'll be damned - it's the best relationship I've ever had in my life. Her family loves me - and they are upper middle class with government positions - no poverty here. Her dad bought her a Honda Click for her 18th birthday. She's so beautiful - that she can have any guy she wants. It's like we were made for each other. We both couldn't be more in love - and we plan on having two kids. *_She connected with me_* - on Facebook - and the rest is history. Don't question why - question how stupid you would have to be to say no.
@@murrayspiffy2815 unbelievably selfish to consider fathering kids at your age, buddy. Please don't do that.
I would do it too brother 💪💪💪
You’re a lucky man! Enjoy!
😂😂😂😂😂
Robert de Niro is 80 and just had a kid. Congratz boss!
Thank you for getting to the point and not dragging it out for watch time.
Clear & Concise is always appreciated. Subbed!
I appreciate that!
Many videos have been made on this topic but your approach is probably the most interesting I've seen so far!
Glad you think so! Thanks for watching!
16 happy years with my Thai wife who is 32 years younger than me. We just had our first child after all these years. Life is good!!
You're saying real things, very good informations, it's clear.thank you
People pair up when it is in both of their best interests.
As long as they happy Im happy for them, usually those who criticize are feminist-influenced woman who hates happy couple 😊 Life is about make good memory anyway....
Phenomenal conclusion at 10:12+ 👍
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Here is what bothers me with age gap relationship... When the older man doesn't take care of the filipina after he dies .I have seen this two times with expats who died and left the wife with no money.. if a filipina is not a US CITIZEN she has to be 62 yrs old for her to get his pension..if she is a Citizen of US she gets his pension at 35 years old. My friend died last year and his wife got nothing and she had to move back with her family in the province..this is Sad. and the wife is in Worse position then before she got married. .the husband needs to have a life insurance policy for his wife after he dies
Yeah, that's interesting. I think some people just don't do planning, or at least have that discussion. That is sad!
I am surprised the Filipina didn't stay here in the US. She could have worked here. I think that would be better than going back home to that same difficult situation. I guess she wanted to live with her family, not to mention it would be very difficult if she is all alone here. Well, I guess I answered my question lol.
yea, planning for these things is necessary.
It’s a husband’s duty
Hello my dear how are you doing?
Shalom! I’m Kath! I’m also Filipina and wanted to say how much I appreciate the way you explained this topic. Your clarity and presentation are spot on. I’m excited to see more of this content on your channel, especially as I’m considering my options when it comes to possibly settling down with an American man here in the Philippines. Thanks again! God bless!
Glad it was helpful! I hope you find someone you love and someone who will cherish you. Best wishes to you!
This was the most well educated informational complete summary of this topic. Commit this to memory.
TWO REASONS!! 1. Financial 2. Having a beautiful kid that can become an actor or a beauty queen.
Thanks for this short, no nonsense video. I am in an LDR with a Filipina 25 years younger and I am moving to the Philippines this year from southwest Florida. New subscriber
I am 37 years old, and I recently met or should I say got in contact with a 32-year-old Filipina. We are already very lovey-dovey towards each other, but I still think it’s moving too fast. She is already talking about marriage. We are already talking about me going over there in a few months. I heard from somebody that some of these women do move very fast. She is a very nice Christian woman.
@@servantofthelivinggod6192 Always be cautious, good luck and God bless
I just found you in my suggested videos and sub'd.
My filipina is an English teacher in PH and she sometimes asks me to speak a little slower. But wow.... I'm pretty sure it would take me an extra 10 minutes to say everything you said in this video 😲😅 I look forward to watching more of your videos! Thanks and good job 😃
I love the way you talk. You are so well-spoken. Great points you presented here. Got yourself a sub.
Thank you! I appreciate the support!
I’ve been married for 8 years to my wife. There is a 22 (YES, 22) year age gap between us. I am very blessed that I have found someone who I love very much and plan to spend the rest of my life with.
Your analysis is pretty much spot on. One thing you didn’t mention is that in some cases an older man and younger woman are on the same maturity level. That can be a good or bad thing. In our case, we have been fortunate because my wife and I enjoy the same things. We are both homebody’s, we have many of the same interests e.g. music, tv, movies, food (she loves to cook and I love to eat LOL), politics (most of the time😉) and family. I love her sense of humor. And she (bless her heart) finds me entertaining as well.
Prior to our meeting, I was married for almost 25 years 😱 to a woman who immigrated to the states, from the Philippines, 4 years before I met her. And while she gave me 2 beautiful children, our marriage was difficult from the start. She was, in my opinion, a high maintenance person who had insecurity issues going back to her childhood. Ultimately, we (thankfully) ended our marriage while we were still young enough to move on with our lives. It was a difficult transition that left some scars but it was very much for the best.
I guess what I really want to say is that there is someone for everyone. And in my case, my one and only was born 22 years apart from me. And for those who are curious. I just turned 60 and I met my soon to be wife when I was 48. And I have told her that she is the one I have waited for all my life. Thank you for allowing me to share. And always remember that haters are always going to hate. God bless and good luck.
Enjoyed your video thank you. Im a 39 afam and my filipino fiance is 27. She is younger but it just turned out that way. I fell in love with her and filipino values. She will join me in Europe for a few years and then our plan is to move back and buy a farm in Leyte
I the have a Pinay friend , she's shot me down more times than Chinese Sly Balloon, she is extremely conservative and we have a 30yr age gap I'm moving to Cebu in 540 days so she's my boots on the ground, weve known each other for 6 yrs and I had to learn about her culture I almost blew it with her, she actually forgave me and might be warming up to the idea I am an Evangelical Christian I'm not going to offer a sampler platter I want 1, an actual chance to court her properly 🤞
Thanks again on another excellent Vlog
I wish you the best! I appreciate your comments. Thank you!
Bud, she's not interested. You've been friend zoned. Don't creep her out.
oh really,,,u are a Evangelical,,,do u follow the whole bible? Or u just pick and choose? You waiting for marriage to have sex? Or you dont follow the bible,,,,hahahahaha Most of the Evangelicals are hypocrites here in the USA
Thank you very much for your interesting and genuinely helpful information, All the best to you.
I met a Filipino my age. Her husband was a few years older than her. He passed away about a decade ago to my understanding. We have been conversing back and forth for about two years. In that time she has brought up money which i blew off. I didn't address it. I did send a computer to her for her birthday but apparently customs took it. I tried to send money for birthday and Christmas but western union gave me fraud alert and shut me down. She called me crying which i thought was odd. In that time of our socializing she tattooed her husband's name on her arm along with her daughters and later did a music video about her and her husband. Never once posted anything about me or us. I just said i don't need this. I was going to fly over there to meet but there really doesn't seem like it is authentic. Too many red flags. I was disappointed
Every relationship is unique. If it works it works if it don't there is plenty of opportunities for both parties out there.
8:13 - Nowadays it isn't hard to find a good filipina. All you have to do is give it some effort. Gone are the days that you could go to Subic and find someone in 5 days. You just need to put in some effort and go to places not normally visited. These guys looking for a good girl need to get off their ass and stop going to Angeles, Cebu or Makati and think they can mine gold.
Reconsidered , Humm you are wise ..... 👍👍👍
I just subscribed to your channel because I like the content and the quality of the audio
The only opinion that matters, is the couple's opinion.
If you think a 20 year old is going to love a 60 year old well try to not give her a allowance or support her family and see how long she stays with with
My family picked me. I was skeptical. Because 40 years old and 65 years old. I don't know what I would do without them. But it's not easy. I want them to come here so that I can pass my home on to them. I don't meet the income requirements to do K1 visa. I spent 1 month with her in Philippines but may never see her again but will support my wife and a daughter in high school until I die.❤
All eminently sensible. The changes from the past are toxic, as you say, with foreigners, in particular, playing around when they go there with little or no intention of a lasting relationship. The result is that Filipino women are often far more cautious about dating foreigners who are in the Philippines.
Yes, that's what I've observed.
Thank you for watching and for commenting!
@@MelPatton-yi8seNo the want a foreign virgin kinda like a man would like a Virgin 😊
Great and honest information…thanks ❤
I’m chatting with older Filipina 44 and I’m 39 she is amazing woman I hope to get chance to meet her one day
Oh humans are humans no matter where you go. I'm an extremely conservative person and because of this few will be able to impress me as a loyal loving and intelligent partner.
Thank you. Very intelligent rundown. (79-year-old American.)
Hello my dear, how are you doing?
Realistic and useful comments. Thanks.
Hi. No need to feel rushed in making your videos. I don't believe anyone of your subscribers would mind if you slowed down and elaborate more information. You are putting out great content. That's why I subscribed.
Thank you for the feedback!
I appreciate that. Thanks for watching!
I agree. I don't feel you need to rush. The content is good and a few more minutes won't hurt.
Hi Conservative Filipina. I don’t think you rambled in the video or made it too long. In fact you deliver very clear and concise information. First time viewing. Subscribed Thank you.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Very articulate vlogger!! Nice message!!
Glad you think so!
You touched upon some important points. I have some experience with Philippines; first trying to find romance, then changed my attitudes and now perhaps not really that much interested in anything serious there. What was the problem, for me? Well, I find the people there to be so casual and living with the moments; not saying that is bad or not, but it did not work for me. I met a girl for serious relationship and met her big family and friends. They did not even ask single question about my family, my thoughts, my expectations and my thinking. This laid back, casual attitude and approach makes finding girls there for fun easy but for serious matter really hard. Now things are getting worse, because as you said they learnt the trade and dating sites are flooded with girls looking for fun in return for money!
I love my fiancé she’s younger but I love her so so much n I treat her like a goddess ; yes I built her a house ; she makes me happy and I love her n accept her the way she is
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I am the opposite I am married to a Filipina who is three years older than me she is 64 and me 61 I have been with here twenty years I never considered a younger woman as I prefer my own age group by the way I met her in Australia I have been to the Philippines many times I got her pregnant at 45 we now have a 18 year old son
Rarely discussed... what happens to the Filipina when the old goat drops dead ? At least for Americans...it could be decades until she gets social security survivor benefits. There is rarely discussion about the importance of the foreigner legally adopting the woman's kiddos. So they can get survivor benefits until they are 18, or out of college. I would not be able to engage in a relationship with a younger woman if I wasn't confident that there was sufficient resources available to support her after I die.
You don't want someone that loves you because they need you. You want to find someone who needs you because they love you.
Whoa... Such true words. T_T
Awesome video. I absolutely agree with you. I tell men my age at 57-year-old dont send money to women you never met. I lived in Phillipines and yes its poverty and money is hard to come by. Alot of women would prefer 🤔 fillipino men. But they will take a older foreigner to help them financially. Great video.
Most Filipino prefer Filipino men? Thats not always. Young Filipinos will date a young foreigners black or white over Filipino men but the problem is theres very few young foreign men because they have no income and is very unstable. They end up going back to the states just to survive. And they may not be patient enough to wait on immigration. Its a catch 22
@@theshadow532 facts
Social media is ruining Filipinas. Foreign guys recognize that having fun is the only play.
Yes, very sad!
Maybe the younger guys are just wanting fun but the older guys…50ish + are legitimately wanting to settle down.
@@WilliamFluery To each his own.
@@GUITARTIME2024 very true
@@WilliamFluery Still tons of Filipinas are now damaged goods because of the internet
I told my wife before we married that I wanted to retire in the Philippines. She stayed there 10 years and was able to send money to the family but she realized the life in the US was hard. Get up, work, get home, ear sleep, repeat. Weekends, shop grocery, wash dry clothing, clean house, repeat. Not a lot of time to enjoy. She made more money but realized had to spend money.
I stumbled upon your video by chance and I’m absolutely glad that I did.. I can listen to you talk all day! Feels like chatting with someone sitting before me in a fine afternoon over coffee, except that you’re doing all the talking. I look forward to just about any video you’ll post. Sub’d!!! It’s hard to come by someone who delivers their content the way you do. Your husband is one of the lucky few to have such an eloquent, intelligent and good looking lady beside him. SALUTE!
Thank you so much!!
I am 59 and my Filipina fiance is 29. My Filipina will never have to work again in her life. We filed for K1 visa for her to come to USA. We plan to visit Phills once per year. She hates the heat in Cebuano area. I live in the Mid-west so I am concerned about the cold weather on her. I also have a Pre-nup agreement and I will provide her a small stipend if we do get divorce. I was married for 39 years and lost my wife to cancer. Why would I date an American Woman my age with all the drama BS when I can get a young, hot Filipina to be good to me?
Believe me there is plenty of drama with young filipina's as well. You sound like a good guy, don't put the pressure of perfection on your relationship. There will be ups and downs, hopefully more ups.
That’s disgusting.
@@ggrace1133 Not really but do you know what is really disgusting? Single American Women. Their body counts are over 10, they have 2 baby Daddies, they are 20 pounds over weight, they want to be a "stay at home Mom" but refuse to cook and clean. They want to be "good wives" but go out with their girlfriends to the club and cheat. Now that is disgusting.
Filipinas are raised to be conservative. They cherish the role of traditional house wife. They cook and clean for their husbands and families. Therefore, the husbands provide for their wives.
My fiance will never have to work a day in her life. I just worry that she will get "Americanized". I have told her repeatedly, if she gets radicalized by American women, I will send her back. If she already has her US Citizenship and pulls this crap, she is kicked to the curb.
My fiance is a good Catholic girl so I am. not worried about her getting radicalized. It is still possible but not likely.
So why are you disgusted? That a rich American man does not chose you or your kind but chooses a better woman?
Everything was going ok for about 5 years, but she slowly became Americanized over the next 5 years. Then things fell apart. There is no way to stop this that I know of. If you live in the Philippines, there is less chance of this happening. America living can be destructive to relationships sometimes.
@@RetirePhilippines You got that right.
Security, a future, and family support. It is hard for many Western people to understand life in a third world country
Also, there’s a fact that the new Philip is a younger ones have a very high body count. Going from one foreigner to another, and that also plays into it.
Hello, this is my first time watching one of your videos. I love the gems 💎 you drop. So I subscribed. Very good content.
She gets his Estate much sooner, than if he were younger. That means she can go on to score another Mark while she is still young enough to look appealing
Great video.
Thank you very much .
You get what you want, I take what I need.
sometimes it's not "playing around" but rather that we date to really get to know each other. However, the Filipina may be ready to be in a serious relationship NOW, planning the future, etc., after just a few dates and even speaking about love. Most western men are more cautious and looking for real compatibility, so we move into serious relationships more slowly. So our very seriousness about being with the right woman gives her the impression of not being serious. Hmmmmmm I think men and women are basically incompatible, but we are compelled to seek each other out because God is obviously a prankster!!
I appreciate your perspective! Thank you for sharing!
Excellent point that women all over the world are looking for financial stability and security in their man.
I like that… “We don’t want someone to love us because they need us. We want someone to need us because they love us.”
Your video summary was honest and factual, Thank You. I plan to bring that knowledge with me when I come to the Philippines.
Glad it was helpful!
This is a refreshingly realistic commentary on Filipina motivations to marry a foreign guy.
i am 53yo and single, i will visit next year for the first time flying to the philippines. to find a love in my heart till end of time. i am from the netherlands
The US Supreme Court recently ruled that an American citizen does not have the right to bring a foreign spouse to live in the US based solely on the fact that they are married. The Filiina would still have to go through all the procedures to get a foreigner visa, or to become an American citizen.
Know the name of the court case? I like to read the interesting ones.
@@RebelCowboysRVs Dept of State vs Munoz
@@stan1027 Interesting read. She married someone who was in the country illegally at the time or came here illegally after. He was told he would have to go back to apply for a visa so he did. He was given preferential treatment as a spouse of a citizen. But he already has illegally crossing the border on his record. He then shows up to his interview covered in tattoos. At least one of which was believed to be an MS13 gang tattoo. They then say they found additional evidence of gang ties. They block him. She then tries to say her constitutional right to liberty are being violated by them blocking him. The court throws that argument out. Points out that while spouses are offered preferential treatment, they have always had to pass some standards. They also compare her to a wife who's husband is sent to prison. Saying that if they followed her logic, they also would open up the idea that sending married men to jail would also violate their wives rights. I have to agree with the court. Interesting read. I will have to read the decent later. My eyes are burning after that.
@RebelCowboysRVs Wow! Thanks for looking into this. I was going to, you've saved me time😅. This is very interesting!
When it comes to Filipinas, the US immigration has always been very thorough. Background checks with biometrics, medical exams, vaccinations, and an interview with the US embassy in Manila. The applicant will have to pass every single step of the process. I saw others getting denied during my application. So, being in a relationship with an American alone doesn't guarantee entry to the US. I do think everyone should go through the same process with few humanitarian exceptions.
Just walk in from Mexico
Well, I can tell you this. There's one definite way you can find out if She just wants to get out of the Philippines. And it's not for true love. Tell her during the dating process. You'd eventually like to move to a nice area of the philippines
That is a very good idea. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Awesome! Very well spoken and very well put.
Correct it’s in my brothers wife’s name with a spa but I’m not worried about if something goes wrong . In any business you don’t invest what you can’t afford to loose. i’m secure with my brother and his wife’s relationship married over 20 years with children. They’re not going anywhere at this point in their life. They own many properties in the Philippines properties United States they’ve no intentions of going back to the Philippines. I only have one child who dose not want the house so not a big deal!
I've traveled to the Philippines 3x thus far now planning my 4th trip because of the woman I've met and fell in love with. 52 @the time we met and her 38, as I told her I'm too old to be dating around and looking to be married. We'll be married sometime next year and couldn't be happier. Salamat for your opinions po
WOW! That was an awesome video! Thank you for your insight. :)
Very intelligent with great English thanks
For a man the lack of baggage is very important and a younger woman usually has less baggage.
I just found your channel. Please don’t feel rushed. I have visited the Philippines multiple times and plan a semi retirement there. I appreciate longer educational videos on the topic from those that have the knowledge. Thanks for the vid.
Thank you for the feedback! I appreciate it!
THank you so much for the honest insight i am 66 and still run a business in usa and have been on christian filipina have not found a match have applied for my SRRVvisa and will be visiting in January to finalize my visa and explore PH Singapore Malaysia may find someone but need to be friends first like you said must have common goals and desires great job
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I agree 💯... 😊
Great video!
Interesting topic. I believe that a lot of educated women in Asia over thirty have a tough time marrying guys in their age group because the Asian guys in their country want younger ladies. Probably some real gems in the over 30 category that might appreciate/consider an educated older Western guy.
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For her, money is a lack and for him, sex is a lack, so foreigner and Filipina are a perfect match. This is an opportunity for both and if both sides are ready, true love can develop from it.
What I do not understand is why any man would want to get married after 50? Marriage is for building a life together (in their 20s, not 50s) and having children. If he wants companionship, he can get that without the legal restraints that limits him in a marriage relationship. I have always believed relationships have a shelf life. They eventually run their course and both sides are stuck unfulfilled once it does. If the man is over the age of 65, he is looking for a full time nurse and he knows he can get a younger woman in the Philippines who will accept him. Why not just be up front, pay her a flat fee each month, and if things go bad, they part ways?
You don't need to pay if she's your gf. If you want a maid it's a different deal. Of course you're going to pay the bills if your gf lives with you, which will amount to the same thing in the end, but you've got your freedom if that's what you want.
First of all 50thy is not old for a man. You can't even get retirement because you're too young and still sexual active. So you most be young to even think like that
Good video. Concise and informative. Subbed.
Thanks for the sub!
I will move to Philippines. Retirement is so much more affordable in Philippines. Inflation in USA is to crazy now .
We know beauty fades. But when you grow old with someone, their beauty is not their physical. Me and my asawa have been together 12 years. She is almost 40 now and I see her as more beautiful now than when we met.
40ty? She still a young child by American standards she will be beautiful for a long time if she take care of her health and exercise