The Truth About Filipinas Marrying Older Foreign Men
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Seeing older foreign men dating and marrying younger Filipinas is a common sight in the Philippines. Here are some reasons why younger Filipinas marry a foreign man despite the age difference.
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@conservativefilipina
Old men do not require that the marriage lasts forever. Just lasts till they die.
@whyh Ha ha so true. Give them at least a taste of happiness and to feel that they are loved at least a little.
@@karriemartinez2746Thank you, for so many men this is so true.
He wants to be happy for the remaining years or days of his life so why not. Their both adults and can make their own decisions. She and her reasons and he has his. Win win.
So why are they going to a 3rd world country to take advantage of a woman who sees them as rich because of the exchange rate. It's morally wrong.
@@user-bd3gt9jt1x old men are easy ATM money
The bottom line is that it is no one's business but the two consenting adults.
That is a beta male, defensive comment. hahah
Best statement of all 💪💪💪
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Really ???
What about when the pinay mother rent her 2 years old baby to westerners pedophiles....thats 2 consenting adults ....!?!?!?!?
Before you make comments like that go and live there for few years ok....
And the green card.
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
wow
I love that . I'm in the same situation. Helping her they nursing school.
@@strannick2212 Me also
Filipinas want stability and the fact older men are a lot less likely to cheat.
Older men don't want children and they only have 15 years of relatively good health. The remaining ten years of their lives you'll be changing his diapers or visiting him in at the Home.
Marry people close to your age so you can experience things for the first time and go through the same hardships
They probably can’t cheat.
@@photopro100money 💰 🤑 💸 👌
@@photopro100they can 😉but have character and self respect
I am Laotian American. I have a girlfriend from Laos who is only 24 years old and I am 56. We cherish each other so much. I am moving there this year planning to live off my pension $2,000/month. I have a Caucasian American friend who married a Filipina gal and had lived in the Philippines for a few years before they moved to Pattaya Thailand. They too love each other so much despite age gap.
delusional lol
@@rohanofelvenpower5566 we will see him crying on the roadside in about two years lol. Just take some spare change for his cup when you hit thailand
you still young man bro not even old enough to get your ssd yet
@@tyronmoore2534 Thank you! I will collect social security at 62 then I will be living off over $3,400/month
@@DigitallyNomad3949 😂 good luck
I'm 67 and am about to marry my 29 year old Fillipina girlfriend, I have my eyes wide open and am not naive, I know the core of our relationship is transactional but from my perspective that's never mentioned , I'm long ago divorced and no children and estranged from siblings so basically have lived alone for a long time with occasional dates .I'm fully aware of my mortality and I have made the decision to leave my modest savings to someone who has struggled her whole life and when I die she will be left with enough to live a comfortable life , this is a better legacy to leave instead of my family going to probate to fight over my Will 😊
Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I appreciate it!
We are same!
I’ve been married 5 years I’m 68 and she is 30 - all is going great
You have the right frame of mind, I wish you the best.
@@claudenewton8932 thank you for the kind words
I love Filipina, marry a Filipina and you don’t just get a wife, you also get a nurse, a cook a doctor and most of all, you get a life time of happiness
but they are not a challenge..seems like they will take any white man.
@@jameshall915you don’t know them well then
They are a lot of work but it is worth it
I doubt it
Are you currently in the PI? How long have you been married? Is everything as good as the first year?
@@MarcoSaldana yes. In Luzon… beautiful people, beautiful country…here in the Philippines, you can’t walk past someone without them speaking to you
A few of us want kids so a younger Filipina makes sense for that.
Thanks for the comment! I appreciate it!
I corresponded with my Filipina at least 6 months before going to the Philippines to meet. She was from Almeria, but working in Manila. Very sweet beautiful girl. I think the women from the provinces are most traditional. The thing about not rushing into a relationship, is that you have months to gain knowledge of the person. This is a very seroius thing, so you make note of everything the she says. If she is not being up front with you, that will come through over time, because only truth is eternal, stories change. My Filipina never deviated in the things she said, so she appeared to be the real deal. Yes, I was twice her age, but I did not have any children, that was a priority for me. We have been married 15 years now, I helped her through nursing school here. Find a good Filipina, and she will give you everything a man needs. Even the most elusive thing from an American gal, serenity, peace. I can truthfully say it was the best decision of my life. My avitar is our youngest.
I have noticed what good fathers American men in the 60s are. They often tell me that now they have time to be a proper father.
@@johnl9977
why posting the same ole same ole 2x ?
Brought my Filipina to the US in 1997 with a 16 yr age gap. After three boys, still married. She has been 100% stay at home mom. I have provided 100%. Now I'm retired we are considering where to retire. She's not in a hurry to settle in the Philippines but I'd like split our time between Florida and Cebu. Just got to find the right person and have the means to support your family.
@mavoya1 sounds like philipines isn't high on her list. Why not just visit a few times a year. You get enough heat in Florida and the air is much cleaner.
I'm considering the same thing, I'm currently in JAX and thinking of splitting my time some place here and Surburban Manilla. We're considering buying a home there as well
@rodneysessoms8804 enjoy the terrible air quality in Manila and all that beep beeping.
@GUITARTIME2024 yeah I learned that while spending the holidays in 2022 over there. Learned about my anxiety too, but we're looking to buy outside of Manila city limits
wow, nice. you planned well.
For many men this is their first time for them to find true love. America is often hostile towards men, especially old men. Life is better with love and a relationship where you can take care of each other. 65/24 here
Yes especially a older man and somebody under 6 feet in height is extremely hard to date in America. Women look for men well over 6 feet.
@@patrickh6291 Ohhh... So I actually feel sorry for those over 6 feet in America. A feminist is someone who has the legal right to commit adultery, kill her babies and divorce her husband. 🙄
@@patrickh6291 Yes. American Amazon abortion, adultery, and divorce is rampant. Heading to the Philippines is wise.
really? are u sure true love? or just lust?
I'm glad you found love but sorry feel sorry for the 24 when you die she will be heart broken and alone? Are you planning to have children so that she will not be alone?
Social media is ruining Filipinas. Foreign guys recognize that having fun is the only play.
Yes, very sad!
Maybe the younger guys are just wanting fun but the older guys…50ish + are legitimately wanting to settle down.
@@WilliamFluery To each his own.
@@GUITARTIME2024 very true
@@WilliamFluery Still tons of Filipinas are now damaged goods because of the internet
I’m one of the foreigners that have an age gap relationship with my Filipina. She is 33 and I’m 51. Our relationship is an LDR and we are 1yr. in. Our relationship works very well because we communicate twice a day religiously. Our schedules connect perfectly with 12 hour difference. And no, I did not meet her online but through a mutual friend here in the states. Thanks again for your content on this subject.
Thanks for sharing your story!
I wish you both the best in your relationship. Thanks for watching!
1yr LDR? Buddy, you are the only one in the relationship.
I video chatted with a Filipina for 2 months. She was great, we had fun chatting. I was clear from the start "just friends". She caught feelings a couple times, I reminded her "friends only" and she would calm down.
BUTT, and it's big BUTT, 1-3 hours chatting everyday was 1-3 hours I should have been doing other things.
And I'm aware online is a fantasy. Of course it's fun. You never have to make any decisions like where to eat. Always relaxed and focused. Real life is nothing like that.
The other giant issue is it gets the carabao before the cart. When a guy finds a Filipina online and then moves to PH he is almost always locked into living close to her family. I want to explore and find where I want to try living before looking for a Filipina.
So I shut down the chatting and I stayed off dating site.
That is not too much.
@@happywanderer5632😂😂😂
I think I've the biggest gap on here - 64/20 - but I'll be damned - it's the best relationship I've ever had in my life. Her family loves me - and they are upper middle class with government positions - no poverty here. Her dad bought her a Honda Click for her 18th birthday. She's so beautiful - that she can have any guy she wants. It's like we were made for each other. We both couldn't be more in love - and we plan on having two kids. *_She connected with me_* - on Facebook - and the rest is history. Don't question why - question how stupid you would have to be to say no.
@@murrayspiffy2815 unbelievably selfish to consider fathering kids at your age, buddy. Please don't do that.
I would do it too brother 💪💪💪
You’re a lucky man! Enjoy!
😂😂😂😂😂
Robert de Niro is 80 and just had a kid. Congratz boss!
My Filipina wife is 12 years older than me, so we went against the flow. 😁 Oh well, we've been happily married for 22 years now.
Wow! Congratulations 🎊
Thanks for watching and for commenting!
Very rare have a heard of older filipina and younger foreigner.
Well i am the same my filipina girlfriend is 64 and i am 57 one advantage is when i visit i can get a 20 percent discount on meals and hotels with her senior citizen card
I am 59 and my Filipina fiance is 29. My Filipina will never have to work again in her life. We filed for K1 visa for her to come to USA. We plan to visit Phills once per year. She hates the heat in Cebuano area. I live in the Mid-west so I am concerned about the cold weather on her. I also have a Pre-nup agreement and I will provide her a small stipend if we do get divorce. I was married for 39 years and lost my wife to cancer. Why would I date an American Woman my age with all the drama BS when I can get a young, hot Filipina to be good to me?
Believe me there is plenty of drama with young filipina's as well. You sound like a good guy, don't put the pressure of perfection on your relationship. There will be ups and downs, hopefully more ups.
That’s disgusting.
@@ggrace1133 Not really but do you know what is really disgusting? Single American Women. Their body counts are over 10, they have 2 baby Daddies, they are 20 pounds over weight, they want to be a "stay at home Mom" but refuse to cook and clean. They want to be "good wives" but go out with their girlfriends to the club and cheat. Now that is disgusting.
Filipinas are raised to be conservative. They cherish the role of traditional house wife. They cook and clean for their husbands and families. Therefore, the husbands provide for their wives.
My fiance will never have to work a day in her life. I just worry that she will get "Americanized". I have told her repeatedly, if she gets radicalized by American women, I will send her back. If she already has her US Citizenship and pulls this crap, she is kicked to the curb.
My fiance is a good Catholic girl so I am. not worried about her getting radicalized. It is still possible but not likely.
So why are you disgusted? That a rich American man does not chose you or your kind but chooses a better woman?
Good analysis. But one thing I might point out is that a 20 year age gaps seem smaller when people are older when they are younger.
I messed up... Married a Filipina 3 yrs older than me. 😂She moved to America and now we migrating back to the Philippines after 20 years. Great stuff!
Hey she's the right one for you! Happy for you both. Enjoy your retirement! I am assuming that is the case, 😅. Thanks and happy 4th! Regards to the wife!
As long as they happy Im happy for them, usually those who criticize are feminist-influenced woman who hates happy couple 😊 Life is about make good memory anyway....
One of the best videos out there on the age gap. I would remind western men to not send large amounts of money for someone you only chat with on line. Online dating is a huge business with some of these young ladies so just be smart.
Thank you, I appreciate that!
You're absolutely right 💯. I'd even advise not to send any money. There's always good and bad people everywhere. Social media has made it worse.
it is sex for the foreign guy and financial security for the younger Filipina. What's wrong with it? Nothing. Win-win for both.
Most Filipinas prefer Filipinos. It's still a homogenous culture. But most Filipinas don't want to deal with a life of poverty. Most young Filipinas already have children. Dating old men is basically their only way out. Most Filipino men don't date a Filipina with Children. Foreigners do. This is no secret. Just my observation over the past 7 yrs. living in the Philippines.
Thank you for sharing your perspective I appreciate it.
@@conservativefilipina Just my opinion. Please feel free to enlighten me if my statement is off.
@chosen_one1602, you are not off. I actually talked about this in one of my videos titled, "Single Motherhood Phenomenon in the Philippines".
@@conservativefilipina
Your comments/responses are really spectacular. Very insightful .....
What actually happened to those single PH moms, was easily preventable and avoidable.
The only real concern my pinay wife, 28 years younger than me, had before we got married was that she worried I might not perform my marriage duties well. After I proved to her that would not be a concern she happily married me.
I hope I do not break her. LOL!
Stability is something one wants in a table. My insanity is what causes my wife to love me.
Hi. No need to feel rushed in making your videos. I don't believe anyone of your subscribers would mind if you slowed down and elaborate more information. You are putting out great content. That's why I subscribed.
Thank you for the feedback!
I appreciate that. Thanks for watching!
I agree. I don't feel you need to rush. The content is good and a few more minutes won't hurt.
I’ve been married for 8 years to my wife. There is a 22 (YES, 22) year age gap between us. I am very blessed that I have found someone who I love very much and plan to spend the rest of my life with.
Your analysis is pretty much spot on. One thing you didn’t mention is that in some cases an older man and younger woman are on the same maturity level. That can be a good or bad thing. In our case, we have been fortunate because my wife and I enjoy the same things. We are both homebody’s, we have many of the same interests e.g. music, tv, movies, food (she loves to cook and I love to eat LOL), politics (most of the time😉) and family. I love her sense of humor. And she (bless her heart) finds me entertaining as well.
Prior to our meeting, I was married for almost 25 years 😱 to a woman who immigrated to the states, from the Philippines, 4 years before I met her. And while she gave me 2 beautiful children, our marriage was difficult from the start. She was, in my opinion, a high maintenance person who had insecurity issues going back to her childhood. Ultimately, we (thankfully) ended our marriage while we were still young enough to move on with our lives. It was a difficult transition that left some scars but it was very much for the best.
I guess what I really want to say is that there is someone for everyone. And in my case, my one and only was born 22 years apart from me. And for those who are curious. I just turned 60 and I met my soon to be wife when I was 48. And I have told her that she is the one I have waited for all my life. Thank you for allowing me to share. And always remember that haters are always going to hate. God bless and good luck.
I have a home in General Santos city. I am just a two minute walk from Manny Pacquiao’s home. I met my Filipino wife through a friend, and corresponded for almost a year before I travel to the Philippines to meet her. There is a 22 year difference our age. But once I met her and her family, and so I just out incredibly mature, responsible and reliable she was, I decided to start dating her seriously. She very much enjoys the traditional role of housekeeper, caretaker, and preparing meals. She had a son by previous relationship and the father abandoned them. We’ve been married almost 30 years, and I raised her son as my own. We purchased a home in general Santa city and invited her parents to live in it while we were in America. Thanks to her and her family. I have had a wonderful life. If an American dates a Filipina with dignity and respect, the family will accept them. It is quite traditional for a husband of a Filipino wife to send a little bit of money home each month just to help the family. $200 a month and the Philippines goes along, traveling to the Philippines on holidays is such a wonderful experience.
16 happy years with my Thai wife who is 32 years younger than me. We just had our first child after all these years. Life is good!!
The only opinion that matters, is the couple's opinion.
Many videos have been made on this topic but your approach is probably the most interesting I've seen so far!
Glad you think so! Thanks for watching!
There is 40 years difference between my Filipina wife and me. We knew each other for 4 years before we were engaged; we were engaged for 2 years before we were married and now we have been married for 2 and a half years and there are not any problems. More than that it has been great. She came to the US and we were married here. At this point we are in love. There are other things in that I support her family. I am healthy and we are having fun. Yes, I may die within 20 years, and we knew that. From the security side, she may get 750,000 USD when I die. We are trying to have a child and I have no problem with it. I know the relationship is much more than money. If she would have married someone her age with a terminal disease who would die in 20 years, no one would have a problem with it. If i can satisfy her physical and emotional needs, then it pisses me off that people judge.
Speaking of the OLD FOOL🤷
Hey James, I understand your situation. If you both are happy it's no one's business but your own. No one has a right to judge you = even though you'll get lots of criticism. It's mostly bitter old women or brainwashed men who think that it's their right to judge other peoples' choices. There are taboos in the West against age gap relationships, as you know. Even in the Philippines, they exist, but people are more understanding there, as they recognize the factors that draw people together with significant age gaps. I've also experience discrimination in the Philippines with my much younger gf and I know that we'd experience a lot more here. It's the price you pay if you choose to take that route. Good luck to you guys and ignore the haters!
I have been with a sweet young Filipina for 2 years now. Yes she is beautiful,and they know how to manipulate guys on social media , it’s pretty common nowdays.
I have learned a lot about how it works there. I have been to Philippines 3x and it’s beautiful there,and the people there are very friendly towards forigners. Our plan is to get margied next year,I will eventually retire there with her and her family . Yes .. the MAIN reason young Filipina date older Forigner is because of the support. There is so much poverty in Philippines,you can’t blame the girls to want ,and get a better life for them ,and their family’s
Thank you for getting to the point and not dragging it out for watch time.
Clear & Concise is always appreciated. Subbed!
I appreciate that!
All relationships are transactional. An exchange of value
True at first but diminishes with time otherwise relationship is doomed
You know I heard you make a comment 30 seconds into your video that seems to be a cliche with many bloggers. Older men
want younger women because of her youth and beauty and we know that looks fade over time. First rather then answering the
question as to why with your opinion have you ever asked older foreigners that question? Not one or two but a good sample.
Yes no doubt any man of any age (and woman for that matter) appreciates what is pleasing to the eyes. But to say that is the
driving force for them (most) is foolish and belittling to men. Looks may draw him but personality and character its what
will hold him. She is (hopefully) less jaded and scarred with a lifetime of failed relationships and life disappointments then a older
woman and he could maybe save her from ever going through that because he has lifetime knowledge. Also he is able to do things
that he could never do when he was younger because he is financially stable and he has time and wisdom on his side. As far
as her "beauty fading with time" goes. First if he is in his 60's, 70's and she is anywhere from mid 20's to I would say early 40's,
chances are he will fade from this life before his Filipina's beauty fades. More importantly physical beauty and attraction is
more important in the beginning then later. When you are with a good person as time goes on you see the inner beauty or ugliness
more than the outer. Sorry for making this so long, but I have been seeing this statement made over and over again and felt I had to
sayh something.
I get your point. Thanks for sharing your perspective! I appreciate the time you took to leave a comment! Thanks for watching!
I have lived in the Philippines for more than half of my adult life, spanning more than 44 years since January 1980. I am married to a well-educated Filipina who gave up a promising career to marry me and later moved back to the United States. My wife and I have a five-year age gap. For more than 20 years, my wife and I have divided our time between homes in the Philippines and the United States. Snow birds have more fun. I enjoyed your video. It was well thought out and provided very accurate information. Thanks for sharing.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
Every relationship is unique. If it works it works if it don't there is plenty of opportunities for both parties out there.
I the have a Pinay friend , she's shot me down more times than Chinese Sly Balloon, she is extremely conservative and we have a 30yr age gap I'm moving to Cebu in 540 days so she's my boots on the ground, weve known each other for 6 yrs and I had to learn about her culture I almost blew it with her, she actually forgave me and might be warming up to the idea I am an Evangelical Christian I'm not going to offer a sampler platter I want 1, an actual chance to court her properly 🤞
Thanks again on another excellent Vlog
I wish you the best! I appreciate your comments. Thank you!
Bud, she's not interested. You've been friend zoned. Don't creep her out.
oh really,,,u are a Evangelical,,,do u follow the whole bible? Or u just pick and choose? You waiting for marriage to have sex? Or you dont follow the bible,,,,hahahahaha Most of the Evangelicals are hypocrites here in the USA
When you say back in the day you sound 70. But you look 25
It feels that way for me.😅
I'm in my 40s. Thanks for the comment!
Here is what bothers me with age gap relationship... When the older man doesn't take care of the filipina after he dies .I have seen this two times with expats who died and left the wife with no money.. if a filipina is not a US CITIZEN she has to be 62 yrs old for her to get his pension..if she is a Citizen of US she gets his pension at 35 years old. My friend died last year and his wife got nothing and she had to move back with her family in the province..this is Sad. and the wife is in Worse position then before she got married. .the husband needs to have a life insurance policy for his wife after he dies
Yeah, that's interesting. I think some people just don't do planning, or at least have that discussion. That is sad!
I am surprised the Filipina didn't stay here in the US. She could have worked here. I think that would be better than going back home to that same difficult situation. I guess she wanted to live with her family, not to mention it would be very difficult if she is all alone here. Well, I guess I answered my question lol.
yea, planning for these things is necessary.
It’s a husband’s duty
WOW! That was an awesome video! Thank you for your insight. :)
All eminently sensible. The changes from the past are toxic, as you say, with foreigners, in particular, playing around when they go there with little or no intention of a lasting relationship. The result is that Filipino women are often far more cautious about dating foreigners who are in the Philippines.
Yes, that's what I've observed.
Thank you for watching and for commenting!
@@MelPatton-yi8seNo the want a foreign virgin kinda like a man would like a Virgin 😊
Awesome! Very well spoken and very well put.
I’m a Filipina but I learned so much from your vlog. Didn’t realize some reasons that you mentioned but they make sense. ❤
Glad you think so. Thank you!
Thank you for recognizing the natural differences in what men and women appreciate.
Men value fertility, which is associated with youth, and they also value beauty, which is nature's way of creating attraction.
It's a way of keeping men committed to their partners. Without these aspects, men arebless likely to stay and support their children.
Their interest would only be to provide for themselves.
Thats true historically but more and more women today value looks as much as men. Its why 20% of men on dating apps get 80% of the women
People pair up when it is in both of their best interests.
Good video. Concise and informative. Subbed.
Thanks for the sub!
I just found your channel. Please don’t feel rushed. I have visited the Philippines multiple times and plan a semi retirement there. I appreciate longer educational videos on the topic from those that have the knowledge. Thanks for the vid.
Thank you for the feedback! I appreciate it!
I love my fiancé she’s younger but I love her so so much n I treat her like a goddess ; yes I built her a house ; she makes me happy and I love her n accept her the way she is
😂😂😂😂
Hi Conservative Filipina. I don’t think you rambled in the video or made it too long. In fact you deliver very clear and concise information. First time viewing. Subscribed Thank you.
Thank you! I appreciate that.
She gets his Estate much sooner, than if he were younger. That means she can go on to score another Mark while she is still young enough to look appealing
Thank you. Very intelligent rundown. (79-year-old American.)
Thanks for this short, no nonsense video. I am in an LDR with a Filipina 25 years younger and I am moving to the Philippines this year from southwest Florida. New subscriber
I am 37 years old, and I recently met or should I say got in contact with a 32-year-old Filipina. We are already very lovey-dovey towards each other, but I still think it’s moving too fast. She is already talking about marriage. We are already talking about me going over there in a few months. I heard from somebody that some of these women do move very fast. She is a very nice Christian woman.
@@servantofthelivinggod6192 Always be cautious, good luck and God bless
Very articulate vlogger!! Nice message!!
Glad you think so!
Excellent, informative, truthful, balance.
Glad you think so!
Security, a future, and family support. It is hard for many Western people to understand life in a third world country
Your video summary was honest and factual, Thank You. I plan to bring that knowledge with me when I come to the Philippines.
Glad it was helpful!
Thoughtful and well presented.
Thank you! I appreciate that!
@@conservativefilipina (shame about the trump thing though - he'll kill us all if he gets the chance)
It's a transaction. Women want security and men want (you know what). I tried the large age gap twice and it didn't work. I found one closer to my age, 13 years younger, and we are going to live there. Most everything you said is absolutely true. I was told by a Filipina woman who was the landlord to the apartment I rented to do what you said, play the field. Even after I was with the woman I was with and still am. In front of her she didn't say that. Two faced. I have all the qualities you mentioned, light color eyes, large bridge nose, slim, and 90% of my hair, lol, albeit over 60.
Thank you for your insight 😊
Glad it was helpful!
Very high quality video
Rarely discussed... what happens to the Filipina when the old goat drops dead ? At least for Americans...it could be decades until she gets social security survivor benefits. There is rarely discussion about the importance of the foreigner legally adopting the woman's kiddos. So they can get survivor benefits until they are 18, or out of college. I would not be able to engage in a relationship with a younger woman if I wasn't confident that there was sufficient resources available to support her after I die.
sometimes it's not "playing around" but rather that we date to really get to know each other. However, the Filipina may be ready to be in a serious relationship NOW, planning the future, etc., after just a few dates and even speaking about love. Most western men are more cautious and looking for real compatibility, so we move into serious relationships more slowly. So our very seriousness about being with the right woman gives her the impression of not being serious. Hmmmmmm I think men and women are basically incompatible, but we are compelled to seek each other out because God is obviously a prankster!!
I appreciate your perspective! Thank you for sharing!
Good vlog, very good perspective
Thank you 🙌
You get what you want, I take what I need.
You have very good insight. 👍 this is the first time I watched one of your videos you have a distinct accent. Your English is excellent but I wonder what the accent is.
Thank you! I am from the Bicol Region of the Philippines. My hubby has a bit of a Southern accent. I guess mine is a mix of both 😅.
Good video, thanks
i am 53yo and single, i will visit next year for the first time flying to the philippines. to find a love in my heart till end of time. i am from the netherlands
For a man the lack of baggage is very important and a younger woman usually has less baggage.
I would be the most best comprehensible choice to marry a young lady who grew up without a father! It makes perfect sense to marry someone like this.
Well done Mame.
I've traveled to the Philippines 3x thus far now planning my 4th trip because of the woman I've met and fell in love with. 52 @the time we met and her 38, as I told her I'm too old to be dating around and looking to be married. We'll be married sometime next year and couldn't be happier. Salamat for your opinions po
Awesome video. I absolutely agree with you. I tell men my age at 57-year-old dont send money to women you never met. I lived in Phillipines and yes its poverty and money is hard to come by. Alot of women would prefer 🤔 fillipino men. But they will take a older foreigner to help them financially. Great video.
Most Filipino prefer Filipino men? Thats not always. Young Filipinos will date a young foreigners black or white over Filipino men but the problem is theres very few young foreign men because they have no income and is very unstable. They end up going back to the states just to survive. And they may not be patient enough to wait on immigration. Its a catch 22
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That was a great video. Thanks!
The one thing I learned about the Philippines .. is that there are no rules in the Philippines. Don't do risk analysis. Don't categorize and rationalize. Just pick the right girl.
I respect that. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
Correct it’s in my brothers wife’s name with a spa but I’m not worried about if something goes wrong . In any business you don’t invest what you can’t afford to loose. i’m secure with my brother and his wife’s relationship married over 20 years with children. They’re not going anywhere at this point in their life. They own many properties in the Philippines properties United States they’ve no intentions of going back to the Philippines. I only have one child who dose not want the house so not a big deal!
This is a refreshingly realistic commentary on Filipina motivations to marry a foreign guy.
For her, money is a lack and for him, sex is a lack, so foreigner and Filipina are a perfect match. This is an opportunity for both and if both sides are ready, true love can develop from it.
Interesting topic. I believe that a lot of educated women in Asia over thirty have a tough time marrying guys in their age group because the Asian guys in their country want younger ladies. Probably some real gems in the over 30 category that might appreciate/consider an educated older Western guy.
Oh, and Chop On Braves!
1045 Fifteen years doesn't sound like a significant age gap.
The world changes so fast and I know that there is pro and cons. But it’s more toxic or harm than good. Good other video.❤😊
I agree with you. There's always good and bad. With social media, it's more bad than good.
I hope you're having a great 4th of July! Fireworks 🎆 with the family!
Robin Yount and Ken Griffey, Jr. one of the purest sweet swings ever
I agree 💯... 😊
Well, I can tell you this. There's one definite way you can find out if She just wants to get out of the Philippines. And it's not for true love. Tell her during the dating process. You'd eventually like to move to a nice area of the philippines
That is a very good idea. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
excellent video.very informative, thank you.
Glad it was helpful!
Excellent point that women all over the world are looking for financial stability and security in their man.
I am 67 but very fit and stable. I do not drink or smoke and I lived in PI years ago, I plan on coming back because I love the people , culture and food. I am not looking for hook up, I am Catholic and no pre marital stuff.
Enjoyed your video thank you. Im a 39 afam and my filipino fiance is 27. She is younger but it just turned out that way. I fell in love with her and filipino values. She will join me in Europe for a few years and then our plan is to move back and buy a farm in Leyte
Nice video my friend
I have never cheated. I don't believe my partners have cheated. I have 100s of friends. I maybe know 4 people who have cheated ? Cheating isn't that common in some social groups.
"I need to fix my camera because its dark. BRB" Comes back, looks the exact same. lol. Jk. Cool video. Good info.
Hahaha 😂 I tried to open the windows but didn't realize it's about to rain outside 😅. Thanks for the comment! I appreciate it.
It's not just the Philippines, but other not western countries that the age gap is normal. Thru all of history, women always searched for an established man 10-20 years her senior.... it made sense, he got fertility, yourh and beauty, she got provisions, protection and stability...
My only issue with a Filipina is that when you bring up culture or beliefs, they can't or mostly won't accept polygyny, even if you bring up the history of small tribes and multiple wives pre-spaniah invasion or that the T'Boli peoples still live that way. Three wives to a husband
The US Supreme Court recently ruled that an American citizen does not have the right to bring a foreign spouse to live in the US based solely on the fact that they are married. The Filiina would still have to go through all the procedures to get a foreigner visa, or to become an American citizen.
Know the name of the court case? I like to read the interesting ones.
@@RebelCowboysRVs Dept of State vs Munoz
@@stan1027 Interesting read. She married someone who was in the country illegally at the time or came here illegally after. He was told he would have to go back to apply for a visa so he did. He was given preferential treatment as a spouse of a citizen. But he already has illegally crossing the border on his record. He then shows up to his interview covered in tattoos. At least one of which was believed to be an MS13 gang tattoo. They then say they found additional evidence of gang ties. They block him. She then tries to say her constitutional right to liberty are being violated by them blocking him. The court throws that argument out. Points out that while spouses are offered preferential treatment, they have always had to pass some standards. They also compare her to a wife who's husband is sent to prison. Saying that if they followed her logic, they also would open up the idea that sending married men to jail would also violate their wives rights. I have to agree with the court. Interesting read. I will have to read the decent later. My eyes are burning after that.
@RebelCowboysRVs Wow! Thanks for looking into this. I was going to, you've saved me time😅. This is very interesting!
When it comes to Filipinas, the US immigration has always been very thorough. Background checks with biometrics, medical exams, vaccinations, and an interview with the US embassy in Manila. The applicant will have to pass every single step of the process. I saw others getting denied during my application. So, being in a relationship with an American alone doesn't guarantee entry to the US. I do think everyone should go through the same process with few humanitarian exceptions.
Just walk in from Mexico
I will move to Philippines. Retirement is so much more affordable in Philippines. Inflation in USA is to crazy now .
I’m new to this post and it’s not long enough, you went through it to fast in my opinion. But you give good information, I just don’t know how accurate it is. I’m with a 40+ yo Pinay right now and there’s a 16 yo one looking at me that way. I’ve been here in the PI waiting for the older ones annulment for almost 8 years now and I’m trying to be patient but it’s running thin. She says her lawyer told her that the powers that be are looking really hard at the request, so I don’t know right now. I’m starting to doubt and this will fall through and I’ll have to move on, we’ll see.
Take care and God bless you 🙏
Have a blessed night/day, everyone, and stay safe!
Same to you! Happy 4th if you're an American!
@@conservativefilipina Thank you!
@@conservativefilipina I am an American.
@@conservativefilipina How have you been doing?
I’m chatting with older Filipina 44 and I’m 39 she is amazing woman I hope to get chance to meet her one day
I was 56 when I started dating a 21 year old Chinese. We married two years later and now I’m 72 she 37 and still married.
I told my Filipina that I would not love her for as long as she lives. But I will love her for as long as I live.
Too young or too old is for the couple to decide. It's nobody else's business
First time viewing ur video. 3 of my buddy married, brought back to U.S. women were a lot younger, Americanize then Divorce. Sad but true. Here in U.S. called sugar Daddy. B viewing ur videos. Thumbs up.
Hmm, that's very sad! Yes, once exposed to that kind of influence, some gets easily brainwashed.
Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment! I appreciate it!
Love is so rare in general. I live in Manila. I'm single looking for a serious Filipina and I can't find her.