Learn His Method: Finding a Highly Educated Filipina
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- Опубліковано 4 жов 2024
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Manuel from Germany visits Cagayan De Oro Mindanao and sits in the HOT SEAT to share his method of meeting a highly educated Filipina. Meeting a woman in Asia, an age gap Relationship in the Philippines, Vietnam, Thailand, Malaysia took a lot of work and research. Expat Manuel sits for a grilling about his method of blocking the wrong types of Filipinas, how he set his frame and searched through prospects on Pina Love dating app. k
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Using discipline, and having standards which he would not deviate from was key. Video chatting Filipinas, visiting quickly, and insisting on hone sting in his relationship describe his approach.
Fly me to the Philippines Rob and Chrissy interview Manuel on the Hot Seat in CDO, after meeting in Baguio. Manuel visited for six days with his new girlfriend the College Professor, and we can confirm his approach works.
Dating online is challenging, some say only date once you arrive in Cebu City, or Angeles City, others have found success online dating sites and created lasting age gap relationships. Hear Maneul describe his process, meeting for the first time and his future plans.
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Good for this guy…he set some standards and he knew how not to get suckered in by Filipina scammers on line. I hope he grows his relationship with his girl and ultimately has a great life with her.
We agree, Michael
Yeah amazing success! PinaLove is chock full of scammers! Hope it works out!
outstanding display of generalship i talk to my girl from hilongos 3 times a day dark long hair skin that has bein kissed by the sun beautiful kind feminine caring and it doesnt snow here
Rob where is Peter? Where did he go? Why only Manuel in the video.
@@Peregrine8977 peter is in Bohol after visiting Camigun Island.
This was great. Really liked the 1st meeting scene. I booked my ticket last night for a 60 day visit. LDR has been over 2 years. Never been asked for money. Did send $25 to her daughter to buy her flowers and chocolates for her birthday. Got great photos of it all.
Congratulations Danielle on moving forward
2 Years? Why are you so slow? Good luck! The relationship does not start until you actually meet in person.
@@etfremd Hi Eric good to see your comment. Shoot me an update
A lot of foreigners have been scammed and foreigners have heard this but they keep giving money. Don't give money. Don't give money. That is not hard to understand. They've heard of many scams but they give money anyway. You see red flags like she asks for help, leave her. Easy. But, some foreigners choose not to learn and prefer to complain.
I am a subscriber and have seen most of your videos. The ones where you emphasize and interview expats and their partners pull me in the most. Manual (not sure of spelling) is so authentic and open. One of you best. It was s always a pleasure to see your videos
I appreciate that
50% of us have a master's or PhD! Wow! The shoe fits and yes, education is a good, straight forward, indicator of a quality woman who has invested in herself and achieved things in life but there are many other paths too. A successful ceramic artist, an expert at bamboo joinery. . . almost any art or trade that takes talent and effort. Thank you for this interview, I'm "only" 52 and Manuel is closest to my situation.
Thanks for the feedback Dr. James
A great interview , I really admire the German gentleman , he was focused and efficient and got his reward ! If you want a job done properly , leave it to German !!
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Congratulations Rob and Crisdy, you are both becoming the new star couple Vlogger like Reekay and Gio and Paul and their wifes. Great to see many new couple Vloggers and solo Filipina following one of the first Vlogger in the Philippine, Reekay.
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Enjoy your video as usual. Great job Rob and Chrissy
Thanks Andre
Perhaps your best video yet, Rob and Chrissy! Well done. And so happy for Manuel. He's a smart guy and stuck to his guns (his frame). I hope at some point we can meet his Filipina - that would help complete the picture of this journey and success, but understand if she and/or he is/are reluctant. Yes, Rob, turning the channel over to Chrissy is a good goal for both of you. And the channel will most likely see much more growth as she spends more time "on-air."
Thanks for your comment dragon
Great video. A lot of information.
Glad it was helpful!
Salamat Rob…just found your channel…and we are the same age with similar love story…I found my Duma Debbie over four years ago during ldr and covid…we got married last February and are living our best life together with her three outstanding young kids …best regards for your future journey
Welcome aboard! Congratulations and thanks for sharing your story
I care less about if they have a degree or not. It’s all about the connection….to each their own
You’d better hope she’s educated otherwise you find yourself becoming frustrated.
@@DoD_DD214 naaa not at all. There is more to a Filipina that her education background. I look at many factors. Do I have one? Yes and couldn’t be happier
Hi Bill i see your point
@@DoD_DD214 More degrees = more feminism
Yes, I often find it people with the most education also have the most indoctrination
I really enjoy your videos looking to retire in the next seven years the Philippines looks like a great spot and great people ❤
Glad you like them!
Visit us in Davao province maybe the province is for you try visit in every ins of Davao don’t limit yourself if possible
I guess finding a good Filipina is a numbers game with a solid frame in place and a little it of luck.
Thanks for sharing
You bet
Recently found your channel. The two of you are really enjoyable!!! Thank You!!!
Welcome!
Was surprised when Manual said they have a 5-year plan. I could see a 2-year plan after his Filipina graduates. I wish him the best.
Thanks for watching and sharing your thoughts
@@Rwj378 Yeah maybe. But if they are looking to lay a solid foundation and build something that lasts, there isn't a big rush. He is very methodical and has plans and goals which does not guarantee success but will help engineer success. I think they will be fine although I do agree that it is very early in the process. Rob and Chrissy are clearly two peas in a pod but even they are in the honeymoon phase. LOL No one I know of is making these cross-culture videos after 10+ years of marriage! Even with my eyes wide open to this, the alternative is dating here in America and, well, OMG! LOL
Good stuff. Manual seems like he has a good head on his shoulders and he lays out a good plan for others to follow.
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Practical thinking, methodical approach, does not suffer fools lightly and ready to cut ties as soon as the BS comes out! You just have to love Germans. I am not German from birth, but grew up and have lived my whole life here from the age of 6. And they are very much like this guy.
Thanks for sharing that
Dear Chrissy and Rob wonderful and informative entertaining video. Best regards from Denmark 😁
Hi Bent. Great to hear from you. Hope things are going well in Denmark.
very informative, thanks for sharing . Hi from South Africa
Hi Andrew, thanks for checking in
Another great video from you. I really like the contents you are producing. Having recently met a very nice Philippina
it is very useful and helpful for me. Interviewing a fellow German, certainly gave me an interesting perspective too.
Little shout out to Manuel: "Das war sehr interessant. Vielen Dank dass Du Deine Erfahrungen hier mit uns teilst."
Ich wuensche Dir viel Glueck und Freude in der Zukunft.
Thank you my German friend will appreciate the kind words
❤ VERY INTERESTING! ❤ I hosted a high school kid from Germany, Hamburg area, a couple years ago. 😊 Brought back those memories. 😊 Same time I had a kid from Hong Kong, too.😊 It was a wonderful thing for all of us here in Kansas. 😊❤
Manual certainly nailed down some specifics and did an amazingly good job so far. 😊 It sounds like she is on the same line of thinking also! 😊😊
Oh wow!
Well the sky is really grounded I like your style. I wish Manual well and I do agree with him in trusting your gut if we all trusted our gut more often I believe we'd be more successful in our lives. All the best you two.
Well said!
The expressions on her face , priceless
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excellent interview, I wish them the best
Thanks, Albert
Thanks manual, for sitting in the hot seat. hope it works out for the big man rob,chrissy.
I hope so too
Too Good to be true !! Lord have mercy
We enjoyed his fiancé‘s company in our house for four days and witnessed them as a couple. They seemed extremely happy and Destin to a life together.
Rob, you are way more trusting than me. To invite a total stranger who can use you as a toothpick into your home for a week shows how confident you are in measuring a person's character. Hope you're right.
His girlfriend was also with us, and Chrissy had become very good friends with her
Seeing all these kinds of videos come up in my feed is interesting to me since I met my (filipina) wife when she was already in Canada. She had been in Canada already for a year, and now it’s been about 14 years we’ve been together. I guess i got lucky that she came to me and not the other way around 😂 travelling there to meet her family was an eye opening experience though, as an average looking guy I was not used to the female attention and my wife was getting jealous at all the girls flirting with me everywhere. I was only 25 years old at the time, and the only foreigners I seen around my age the whole time I was there were some aussies in boracay.
Great share
love those canucks i thought the cup was comming home
Awesome
Yes
I like watching your videos ftom time to time, and i found this one very interesting. Back in 1998, I met a Filipina on an online dating site, which is nothing like it is now. I met her in Makati while on a vacation. She was pretty, well educated, and nice. I wanted her to go to Boracay with me, but she wanted her mom to tag along. I dont think she was scamming me, she was just being careful. Well, i couldn't afford it, so i went alone. I did neet up with her a few more times after i got back from Boracay. She never asked for money. Well, after i got back to Canada, I eventually met my ex-wife, and life went another direction. Now i booked my tickets to Manila in Oct and am going back to Boracay, single again. I always wondered what would've happened if i married this Filipina in 1998. Life has its twist and turns. Im going to the Philippines with no expectations. I would like to meet someone, but I'm not sure if that's in my future as I just turn 62. Like you keep repeating, take your time and don't make mistakes of being impatient. If I luck out again, life will come full circle.
Very interesting story thanks for sharing
Thanks for sharìng this interesting interview with your new friend. I think his choosing an educated, intelligent caring partner will help foster deeper and more meaningful conversations. Not a bad place to start from at all in my opinion. I wish him luck and you two as well.
Thanks James
WOW! I thought he was older at least in his 50s.✌️❤️
He is very young looking in person
Here’s my strategy is to get an apartment next to a nursing university in Philippines and walk around looking helpless .
Perhaps walk around looking well resourced
Greetings Rob & Chrissy, I love this guy ! 🤗
Everything he speaks about is on point. It’s one thing to know and create your “frame” but to uphold them and keep to your boundaries and values is another. Good on you brother !! 👍🏼 If it doesn’t work out with his gf ( but I hope it does )
I would gladly step in … ( joke lang ) 🤣🤣
Best wishes and safe travels 🌺🇵🇭
Thanks, Sally
I like this guy's mind set
Agree
Great video again Chrissy and Rob, thank you. I have just started my search. This was very insightful. I do wish this gentlemen the best of luck and congratulations to you. He is smart as well, yes it can be a bit frustrating at times with all of the scammers or red flags that you just have to block and move on. Very smart to have your standards and stick to them. I agree with him I might have a list of questions on my mind but when you start chatting it goes out the door. Thank you for your videos and I will be emailing you for more info on your services and yes always great to have another friend or friends.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Looking forward to speaking with you.
Love your videos and great information you're giving.
I'm visiting in September 2024 from US for 5-6 weeks.
Lately I've noticed gf & I chatting are shorter (small talk) as time only couple months away. We have communicated for a year. I feel that something's not right due to the short chats 🤔⏳
Hmm let me know if I can help
I noticed that when a woman is less chatty, one of these could be the reason:
1. Not truly interested in you
2. She is playing hard to get
3. She is mentally stressed so much(when people are super stressed, it is common to withdraw from what we used to enjoy).
4. Don't have time because she is spending time with another man.
My advice to you is to pretend that you are busy(tell her that) and cut down the contacts for 2 weeks and see how she reacts. Also have maximum 3 women to meet before you go, just in case 1 or 2 ghosts you.
In my opinion the best approach is boots on the ground. If we chat with women before arrival, that can limit our options upon arrival
Good luck
This was a wonderful interview with insightful questions and insightful answers. Manual and his lovely lady have found a great match it seems. My own list was almost identical to Manual's when I searched nine years ago. His advice to trust your gut is pure gold, as is the idea of no money for someone I haven't met in person. There are lots of educated Filipinas, and I found they also tended to have broader interests and a better command of English. But that is still a personal decision; it will be very important for some and not matter at all to others. On a lot of UA-cam channels and Facebook groups, there is a constant harping to "Come to the Philippines and meet women in person, don't use the dating sites." I disagree. For me, starting on the dating site meant I could meet more women quickly and drill down to find a woman who matched up better with me. Then, the conversations flow, and you can cover lots of deeper topics more quickly and more easily than in person. After that, though, you need to meet in person, and that is where the true magic happens.
Thanks Paul
Going to the Philippines definitely made me pursuit my divorce in the states I'm living a nightmare back home
I hope you’re able to find your way forward quickly. Thanks for watching our video.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines I will thank you
You will not 📝 disappointed in Davao province
Seems a nice chap, good interview, not sure about his five year scenario though, his lady`s body clock may change that idea!
You may have a point
Very good interview!
Thanks Marc
Sounds like your strategy or methodology is working well.
His girlfriend is exactly as he described
Don’t let her be the one that gets away💔 ❤
Good luck ♥️
Thanks
An interesting interview. Your guest didn't answer the question of why he didn't want to take his GF back to Germany until he moves to the Philippines. Is there a reason? Is it her studies?
Perhaps
Fascinating story. I share his approach. Know what you want. But unlike him, I know how to test for the things I wanted. That is unusual. It is a core competency for physicists. I am not boasting, just a simple fact. I am no better than anyone else. We are all the same. Social circles vs. money is a tough balance. I have a different model. Manuel is a good example of how to do it right. The woman is a bit of luck. I have a very different approach. Find the right Filipina family and the woman shows up automatically. That may not make sense to some, but it works.
Interesting approach- sounds right
I noted he looks not at Chrissy much more most of the time even when she asks a question. People might think he thinks Rob is the man the boss but I don't think so. I think more a man that looks to the man because he unconscious wants Rob to know he's pure to their friendship first
Interesting observation
Yes Manual is very respectful man. Man who stare at woman are disrespectiful and creepy. If she has a man in her life is even more disrespectful and more creepy.
I am surprised he could find a shirt that fits him there. I am only 5' 9" 185lb and couldn't really find very much that fit me. Also buy shoes before you go.
Good advice about the shoes although nobody really wears them here
I have a feeling I might end up on this chair one day... with a good story.
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You folks are doing very well with your site, but you need to learn the fine art of interviewing people. Asking short questions that draw long detailed answers from your guests is very difficult. But otherwise you do all the talking and they end up giving u short unhelpful answers.
Like “give me a short overview of your history”, give me a thumbnail sketch of your relationship history”, “help us understand your goals in relationship in the Philippines”, etc…
Thanks for the advice
If you want a highly educated Filipina you need to learn to speak her language or languages to be worthy of an educated Filipina.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
It’s funny about your title. Finding “highly educated Filipina” the bottom line is most Filipina are hard working and many have education but almost all are poor from a poor family and still need opportunities that can only come from getting married or in a relationship with a foreigner. Especially the foreigner that has interest in a “mail order bride” to bring home to his country where she can work and earn more and that old man’s inheritance when he dies and she’s set up with a stable life.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
I'm 6'3 so I can say that 6'4 is pretty tall but also you put him on a totally different type of chair which gives the false perspective that he's a giant 🤣🤣🤣
I have a feeling in reality he's not that much taller than Rob!!!
He’s 6-4
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines So they're the exact same height?
Why did you put that guy up on a higher chair and make him look like a giant?
I also did pinalove
I tried to years ago. I saw a lot of the same people as Filipina Cupid.
@@FlyMeToThePhilippines Rob did you mean Filipino Cupid?
@@pauls3075 no I tried Pinalove once
Filipinas don't like 5 year relationship plans, they want to hear a 5 week plan or less. No discussion about making or not making babies? Probably the most fundamental compatibility issue in a relationship. A little more important than the number of advanced degrees she's attained. Sounds more like a part time roommate relationship with lots of worldly conversation whenever she has a little time away from work. But if that's what he's looking for and this fits his "frame" then I wish him luck. But it seems to me he's still young and confused from all of the Western modern women propaganda programming prevalent in Europe.
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Studying for a PHD _is_ a five year plan, everyone is different.
@@pauls3075 PHD isn't a relationship plan.
At four-foot eleven explains a lot why nobody had picked her up in all her 35 yrs of living. Everyone is fairly short there and people frown on even shorter ones. I am just wondering why this man will not choose an equal height or something close? He is almost 7-foot and she barely 4-foot and change mean she will be at his belt buckle. I am curious now what she looks like -
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A bit odd... strange way of talking about 'frames' - lol. I wish him luck, but I don't think much of approach...
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what site did he use please ? pina date is to expensive
Pinalove
Hi guys, love your channel. My thoughts are he's kuripot, he's looking for way too much. And the only reason he found it is because he went through 35 women. There are plenty of wonderful housekeepers there. Furthermore he looks like he's 60. If I looked like him at 43 I would not broadcast my age. I see nothing to like about him. What is a 20 dollar bill, once in a while. Is it going to break you to load someone's phone. What could that be a couple of dollars. So you send 10 or 20 bucks. I help strangers in need, and I love doing it.
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I don't know if it is an economy thing(less income) but I have observed that us(Americans and Canadains) are more generous when it comes to giving money even giving a tip than other western countries. No judgemdnt just an observation
Where is my comment? Are you deleting comments that you don't like?
If you use certain types of language the system will automatically flag it and hold it for review - otherwise I get thousands of comments a week and unless its hateful it is rarely deleted
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Typically German solder.. haha stay to your frame… I have a normal Philipina with High school only.. we know each other since 2012 it took 4 years before she finally got her Visa to Germany..it’s a long way and a lot of patients and frustration to go.. good luck
Thanks for sharing
That guy looks like he's in his late 50's
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Rob is better than Ricky.
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Hopefully he will be smart and not get married....LOL
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