it's been almost 2 months of no contact, so far he hasn't try to contact me yet, but I love the peaceful and I feel so relieved that I ended the relationship. losing me is his karma, stay strong everyone. we deserve better.. take care
So much truth in what you say... Experienced this and have seen in other situations... Strength and support of others will help you leave them behind...
It’s been a while dealing with the healing. I’m ready to leave that life and that hurt behind. Being alone now, I am learning about myself and my strength. I have seen what I couldn’t while being married to a narcissist. I have a lot of value in just being me. It no longer matters what they do, or how they think, or what they did to me in the end. I don’t have to depend on anyone but myself, because I’ve been depending on myself this whole time. I wanted to be loved, just not in a way that I give up myself to receive it. Going forward, I realize, that if I find myself in another relationship, I have to also let them be who they are as well. Thinking in opposition to myself is important as well, for I am determined to be the best version of myself that I can be. It’s time to see just how strong I can be. I can make a choice of either dwelling on what I can’t change, or realizing the changes of dependence I can change. I’m no longer imprisoned! My wings are no longer clipped. If I see any of you, I’ll greet you with a smile! YOU ALL ARE VALUABLE.
After 3 years of no contact she told me that she thought that I was so hurt that I wanted to heal. Read: so hurt for losing the amazing person she thinks she is.
Three years! Wow I have also thought many times that my ex would eventually find her way back to me, and make claims that she doesn’t deserve to make. I know she won’t change, she’s will just hope that I forget, or forgive.( again)
@@khaledbejdoughJiuJitsu that's not good. She told me her ex husband was an abusive stalker. She still works with all my friends who know me better than that.
I did the same to the narc demon I'm married too caught him cheating and dumped him out of my place he had to go fend for himself outside go pay rent oh well he is her problem now
I was smeared at my old workplace once I left, and they also spread rumours amongst their friends. I don't hang around those people so even though finding out about it from people who rung me up was eye roll inducing, yeah, it doesn't affect my life as it is right now. Still wrong of them though. I didn't backbite about them.
She got new supply so ... there is and will not be any contact from her. I proposed that way in very last phone conversation and she agreed. She is covert narcissist for sure, best case study you can imagine.
Surely not if you told them exactly what they are and called them a pathological liar, blocked everywhere and changed my phone number 5 months ago. He would have to be extremely stupid to even think about trying to contact me again. I asked him which type if narcissist are you? covert overt,malignant, which one is it? Also asked him ,who the hell do you think you are.?
From previous abuse I thought I was crazy suspecting a co-worker of narc abuse towards me but she's doing all the things. Including a text 'being scared' of what I'm doing- but really my work is documenting everything now because when I started suspecting it I requested never being left alone with her: her mask has slipped so much in front of people and I was told how she's openly trashing me now 😮 I'm not crazy
Hats off to you for so true and accurate interpretation. Not sure how you got all this wisdom unless one has been through it their self or read some book on it 🙏🏻🙏🏻
They proved enough for me to never go back. Sure, the old me missed what was, but it was a fantasy. Surely this is normal too so I go from there. I gave him enough rope. He did the rest with the smearing. Never again. I'd not want to give my energy to someone who doesn't deserve it. This goes for any new individuals coming into my life.
You let them know that you put yourself back on the market after the break up. And, their idea of reaching out.....hey, where is my toothbrush? So pitiful. 😔
I think I got rid of him now I only communicated via my property manager for the key & his cancellation of the apartment. he's hiding because I told him everything I've learned behind my back. it's as if this person was never real for 6 years: lies. Engagement: lies. his past: lies. New supply can have him! All of him. She’s a party girl narc happy for his horded money. They can have each other
I'm in that level and that narcissistic person come to me and said you look so depressed lol and the fact is I'm really fine so I said no I'm good don't worry about me and he cap said no you look depressed so i stop talk
My personal narc. I deal with.. has about 10 different numbers.. about 15 or 20 different facebook accounts.. and they have cslled my family n told them horrible things..because i tried to leave...in my experience.. itsn betterbto keep her in contact.. cause itngoes quite.. sumthin badsbgoon down..
Hi,no contact for months his in another relationship but tries to call from different numbers.yes smear campaign bad mouthing me and praising new supply😊
I’ve been no contact for 2 years and he manages to call me from different numbers on the date of our breakup and then on a random day for the past 2 years. His calls are obscene and sounds like a woman making sex noises…like he’s recording himself having sex with a woman. So sick and ridiculous, I think it’s a Hoover for me to call him enraged. I’m not calling, but it is annoying.
When I speak to him I treated him the way they tried to play me he doesn't like .y voice as I say it as it is he thought I would chase I'm not a lap dog he was so used to women running after him no I don't get played he hD a great life best he ever had he told me u dumped me u were good to me yes I said c u in 2 weeks never went back different city
They absolutely hate when you get silent, they need conflict and issues. It’s like breathing to a narc.
it's been almost 2 months of no contact, so far he hasn't try to contact me yet, but I love the peaceful and I feel so relieved that I ended the relationship. losing me is his karma, stay strong everyone. we deserve better.. take care
Do they ever get stability from lying?? I think not. Being around them means having no stability.
I changed my number 31 days ago and I love my peace❤
They hide... they have people watching .
So much truth in what you say... Experienced this and have seen in other situations... Strength and support of others will help you leave them behind...
Never actually got me because I set boundaries and because of my gut instincts. thank you God 🙏
It’s been a while dealing with the healing. I’m ready to leave that life and that hurt behind. Being alone now, I am learning about myself and my strength. I have seen what I couldn’t while being married to a narcissist. I have a lot of value in just being me. It no longer matters what they do, or how they think, or what they did to me in the end. I don’t have to depend on anyone but myself, because I’ve been depending on myself this whole time. I wanted to be loved, just not in a way that I give up myself to receive it. Going forward, I realize, that if I find myself in another relationship, I have to also let them be who they are as well. Thinking in opposition to myself is important as well, for I am determined to be the best version of myself that I can be. It’s time to see just how strong I can be. I can make a choice of either dwelling on what I can’t change, or realizing the changes of dependence I can change. I’m no longer imprisoned! My wings are no longer clipped. If I see any of you, I’ll greet you with a smile! YOU ALL ARE VALUABLE.
After 3 years of no contact she told me that she thought that I was so hurt that I wanted to heal.
Read: so hurt for losing the amazing person she thinks she is.
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Three years! Wow
I have also thought many times that my ex would eventually find her way back to me, and make claims that she doesn’t deserve to make. I know she won’t change, she’s will just hope that I forget, or forgive.( again)
Caught her cheating with the new supply and exposed them and kicked her out. I'll be surprised if she tries to contact me again. I hope not.
Similar situation , she called me crazy, stalker.
@@khaledbejdoughJiuJitsu that's not good. She told me her ex husband was an abusive stalker. She still works with all my friends who know me better than that.
@@Ventura60kts I tried to get her a therapist too, backfired. She denied that anything was wrong with her.
@@khaledbejdoughJiuJitsu narcs never take accountability or seek help
I did the same to the narc demon I'm married too caught him cheating and dumped him out of my place he had to go fend for himself outside go pay rent oh well he is her problem now
If it's not one thing it's the other. Like the song.
He can't smear me he has absolutely no idea where I live or who my family and friends are. ☺
I was smeared at my old workplace once I left, and they also spread rumours amongst their friends. I don't hang around those people so even though finding out about it from people who rung me up was eye roll inducing, yeah, it doesn't affect my life as it is right now. Still wrong of them though. I didn't backbite about them.
This says ALOT,it hits home
She got new supply so ... there is and will not be any contact from her. I proposed that way in very last phone conversation and she agreed. She is covert narcissist for sure, best case study you can imagine.
Surely not if you told them exactly what they are and called them a pathological liar, blocked everywhere and changed my phone number 5 months ago. He would have to be extremely stupid to even think about trying to contact me again. I asked him which type if narcissist are you? covert overt,malignant, which one is it? Also asked him ,who the hell do you think you are.?
right...Wicked persons that devise callous way to inflict pain upon an unsuspecting individual through gaslighting and stonewalling...
From previous abuse I thought I was crazy suspecting a co-worker of narc abuse towards me but she's doing all the things. Including a text 'being scared' of what I'm doing- but really my work is documenting everything now because when I started suspecting it I requested never being left alone with her: her mask has slipped so much in front of people and I was told how she's openly trashing me now 😮 I'm not crazy
Hats off to you for so true and accurate interpretation.
Not sure how you got all this wisdom unless one has been through it their self or read some book on it 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Hurts them the most!
self justification of there own ego inflated self importance... fork em
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YOU'RE NOT SILENT, THAT'S THE PROBLEM, AND YET, HERE WE ARE 😊😊😊
They proved enough for me to never go back. Sure, the old me missed what was, but it was a fantasy. Surely this is normal too so I go from there. I gave him enough rope. He did the rest with the smearing. Never again. I'd not want to give my energy to someone who doesn't deserve it. This goes for any new individuals coming into my life.
True......girllllll you are right. Lol
You let them know that you put yourself back on the market after the break up. And, their idea of reaching out.....hey, where is my toothbrush? So pitiful. 😔
Facts ✅️
Can I get a full video again? These shorts are nice, but frustrating.
I think I got rid of him now
I only communicated via my property manager for the key & his cancellation of the apartment. he's hiding because I told him everything I've learned behind my back. it's as if this person was never real for 6 years: lies. Engagement: lies. his past: lies.
New supply can have him! All of him. She’s a party girl narc happy for his horded money. They can have each other
I'm in that level and that narcissistic person come to me and said you look so depressed lol and the fact is I'm really fine so I said no I'm good don't worry about me and he cap said no you look depressed so i stop talk
Okay 👍🏽
My personal narc. I deal with.. has about 10 different numbers.. about 15 or 20 different facebook accounts.. and they have cslled my family n told them horrible things..because i tried to leave...in my experience.. itsn betterbto keep her in contact.. cause itngoes quite.. sumthin badsbgoon down..
Hi,no contact for months his in another relationship but tries to call from different numbers.yes smear campaign bad mouthing me and praising new supply😊
they miss the money and free housing
I’ve been no contact for 2 years and he manages to call me from different numbers on the date of our breakup and then on a random day for the past 2 years. His calls are obscene and sounds like a woman making sex noises…like he’s recording himself having sex with a woman. So sick and ridiculous, I think it’s a Hoover for me to call him enraged. I’m not calling, but it is annoying.
When I speak to him I treated him the way they tried to play me he doesn't like .y voice as I say it as it is he thought I would chase I'm not a lap dog he was so used to women running after him no I don't get played he hD a great life best he ever had he told me u dumped me u were good to me yes I said c u in 2 weeks never went back different city
My husband
Love your necklace. Where did you get it from? X
He said he will.come and have his way as a vampire and snake.I am sure my God is bigger than all evil and his wayin Jesus mighty name Amen
Don't know where and how to begin.....
De er ikke rigtige kloge nå ha en god dag Anoushka 😊