I would've been miserable today if it wasn't for this and other similar videos. I went full no contact with some people and it gave me so much peace. It didn't happen overnight, but I'm truly grateful that videos like this one exist.
I reconnected with my ex very briefly at one point and at first I left the conversations feeling better, but bit by bit I realised all she did was talk about herself, subtly shift a lot of the blame off of her and either onto me or onto her past, and really she just spoke the same language as she did during the relationship. When I realised this, it was a major eye opener and really helped me find the closure to have no doubts about what happened and to never go back.
Yep, that's they're number one giveaway - behind their language, their choice of words, it's all really about themselves, they really don't care about you. It's just a matter of time, eventually, they all show that side to them, and you'll notice is soon enough.
Interesting that you bring this subject up, Anoushka ! Yesterday for the first time in two years or more, she actually asked me if I was OK…. I said I was OK and nothing else. My first impulse was to share with her how I was feeling, but then I said to myself no and that was the end of it. I know that if I had shared with her any personal or private information she would’ve chewed it up and used it against me anyway…. You can’t expect anything else from a narcissist after they leave us abandoned, discarded, and alone. 😔
She’s hitting the nail on the head! Run for the hills, have no contact, don’t waste your time responding to their “hovering.” They are sick, selfish, and satanic. I love her term, “Emotional Slave.” Good work here, she is a very smart and insightful therapist! 👍‼️
Feels that way except seeing posts that are obviously targeting you, insulting you, even subtly trying to get a rise out of you or worst still, threaten you. I know if I was my exes new supply, I would have been upset a long time ago about the space her ex lives rent free in her mind. It was not free by any means he'll find out eventually. Even if its negative, it's been constant for over a year now. He is definitely better supply than me to put up with that knowingly.
Ive watched this a few times and Anoushka says it perfectly. It keeps me strong and reaffirms that cutting off that narcissists with silence 🔕 blocking 🚫 everywhere is the only way to break free of their spell. I just hate that trauma bond, it sickens me to my stomach and I know its time that heals. She has tried every possible way of communicating, some quite extravagant. Buts its about staying strong and focused on me. I won't ever let someone put me into that darkness ever again and it will be her biggest L in life 😊
Its all about the them, your just a servant, if you have been a good servant in the past then ? You are worthy of a reconnection ! Please listen to Anna people listen and learn knowledge is all powerful. Great vid.
Does a broken iPhone miss a clear screen ? Nope but it’s replaceable? Don’t be left in the drawer waiting to be repaired… you can be upgraded by yourself 😂 beat yah too it Anoushka… Great content as always 🥰
So, how do I stop this girl from mirroring me and casting all the dark negativity energy into my life? It looks like she has my videos and some screenshots that she took while I was in the gym with her. Any advice?
I would've been miserable today if it wasn't for this and other similar videos. I went full no contact with some people and it gave me so much peace. It didn't happen overnight, but I'm truly grateful that videos like this one exist.
I reconnected with my ex very briefly at one point and at first I left the conversations feeling better, but bit by bit I realised all she did was talk about herself, subtly shift a lot of the blame off of her and either onto me or onto her past, and really she just spoke the same language as she did during the relationship.
When I realised this, it was a major eye opener and really helped me find the closure to have no doubts about what happened and to never go back.
Yep, that's they're number one giveaway - behind their language, their choice of words, it's all really about themselves, they really don't care about you. It's just a matter of time, eventually, they all show that side to them, and you'll notice is soon enough.
Interesting that you bring this subject up, Anoushka ! Yesterday for the first time in two years or more, she actually asked me if I was OK…. I said I was OK and nothing else. My first impulse was to share with her how I was feeling, but then I said to myself no and that was the end of it. I know that if I had shared with her any personal or private information she would’ve chewed it up and used it against me anyway…. You can’t expect anything else from a narcissist after they leave us abandoned, discarded, and alone. 😔
PS! I love your phone analogy. They USE a phone and they USE us.
She’s hitting the nail on the head! Run for the hills, have no contact, don’t waste your time responding to their “hovering.” They are sick, selfish, and satanic. I love her term, “Emotional Slave.” Good work here, she is a very smart and insightful therapist! 👍‼️
Narcissistic women never give you a second thought if the new supply gives them more.
Feels that way except seeing posts that are obviously targeting you, insulting you, even subtly trying to get a rise out of you or worst still, threaten you. I know if I was my exes new supply, I would have been upset a long time ago about the space her ex lives rent free in her mind. It was not free by any means he'll find out eventually. Even if its negative, it's been constant for over a year now. He is definitely better supply than me to put up with that knowingly.
Buy a cat or dog and be happy 😂....
ADOPT A STRAY, don't buy.
I got a kitten. I dont miss the narc at all!
I got a lovely cat from a shelter, I am giving her all my love and get it 10000000000000times back!
It's all a HARD NO.
Ive watched this a few times and Anoushka says it perfectly. It keeps me strong and reaffirms that cutting off that narcissists with silence 🔕 blocking 🚫 everywhere is the only way to break free of their spell. I just hate that trauma bond, it sickens me to my stomach and I know its time that heals. She has tried every possible way of communicating, some quite extravagant. Buts its about staying strong and focused on me. I won't ever let someone put me into that darkness ever again and it will be her biggest L in life 😊
Its all about the them, your just a servant, if you have been a good servant in the past then ? You are worthy of a reconnection ! Please listen to Anna people listen and learn knowledge is all powerful. Great vid.
Jeg ved udmærket hvad det drejer sig om Anouska. Så God dag Anouska 🙂❤️👍
They have a bond to you ..at least some have
My ex said he will miss all of what a family brought him not that he will miss me
Does a broken iPhone miss a clear screen ? Nope but it’s replaceable?
Don’t be left in the drawer waiting to be repaired… you can be upgraded by yourself 😂 beat yah too it Anoushka…
Great content as always 🥰
So, how do I stop this girl from mirroring me and casting all the dark negativity energy into my life? It looks like she has my videos and some screenshots that she took while I was in the gym with her. Any advice?
Run!!!!!
Go no contact!!!
Maybe, but who cares.
💯