The Reality Of Trucking | It's Not Always Perfect
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- Опубліковано 13 вер 2024
- The Reality Of Trucking | The Struggle Is Real
Hey guys! I'm so so sorry for how long it's been since my last upload! There has been so many changes, it's just been taking some time to adjust. Anyway, I hope you enjoy this video on the reality of trucking, and how to cope with all of the challenges that you will face. Just remember that it's 99% your attitude, and 1% what actually happens. Keep a smile on your face, and keep on truckin'.
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Hey Shelby, I am a truck driver too, and I deal with challenges as most drivers do. Just look at each challenge/problem and ask yourself "If this is the biggest problem in my life, how good is my life?"
A blown tire or a few hours sitting at a shipper is nothing compared to losing a loved one. Perspective is everything.
I'll keep this in mind once I start trucking! Looking forward to the ups and not as exciting downs haha
Who else just hits the like button THEN watches the video knowing its a good one every time? (Besides those 7 people) lol
Byrd819 me too
They are a dedicated team 😁 they have notifications on just to do that. I find it entertaining.
Me. Cause i know it's gonna be a good one.
There a like button?
Same
Always good honest vids
Everything you’re saying about this industry is spot on. I’ve been driving for only 15 years, nothing compared to some, and it’s changed so much in that amount of time. Time can be accelerated to an unthinkable speed for us, I have so many memories of being on the road, but very few of my home and family and I have no idea where it all went. I really enjoy the content you put out here, and I’m positive is very useful to new comers. It’s quite entertaining, beautifully created and real to me. I hope you can keep the videos rolling out, even with your venture into teaming. Good luck!
Thank you! It means a lot to have veterans support my videos. I want to do the industry justice, and have so much respect for all those who have paved the roads before me. 😁
very few memories of home and family is a scary thing
i think also that the profession, have wonderful and unique spirit that you do help to take important decision... in the road. I think that now you have much experiencia for take a decision correct.
Is good take your time and have to decision see to the future. You are inspiration for woman much that now think be driver profetional. Gracias por compartir tu vida con nosotros!!! te amamos !!!
I learned something 30 years ago of all places an AA meeting, its live your life ONE DAY AT A TIME, i know you half to plan for the future, but try to stay into today because if you have one foot into tomorrow, and one foot into yesterday, your going to piss all over today, give that one some thought.
Remember the past, welcome the future, live for today as it's a gift, that is why it's called "the present"
just for today, tell yourself, self....
Love these vids sooo much, they’re just so different and unique from any other video on UA-cam.
You are wise beyond your years. Bless the truck drivers, especially now during the virus. Y'all are keeping the rest of us alive. Literally.
Shelby I have to say that the happiness I see in you during your job is refreshing. I've worked in a new car dealership as an automotive technician for 30 years and it has changed my attitude and not for the good. The wisdom you shared about how to deal with problems is beyond your years. You gave a lot of good advice. As Inky Johnson said "People don't burn out from what they do. People burn out because life makes them forget why they do it."
Thanks for what you do as a truck driver and for sharing your adventures with us!
With 28 years and 4 million miles in a big rig, I can honestly say trucking is absolutely one of the most mentally and physically stressful jobs you will ever have. It’s 90% bullshit and 10% fun... but I’m proud as hell for 4 million accident free miles so the everyday American can have what they need. Keep up the good vids young lady.. ur positivity is contagious.
Sharing these kind of intimidate details in a large forum! It makes you an amazing person on a deeper level! Love YOU!
The good old serenity prayer. "Grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can.....and the wisdom to know the difference" Short but powerful. Shelby gets it! Thanks for the video Shelby.
You’re doing a fine job young lady. Keep up the good work, good luck teaming, drive safe and as a driver myself, maybe I’ll see ya out there somewhere. 👍
You're basically if a doggo was a human because you're so kind! Truly you're just a fucking damn nice human being and I love that.
That’s pretty cool that you’ll get to team with someone you already know and feel comfortable around. And I really just about cried when that coffee met its death 😢
So not only is she an amazing truck driver, she seems like she has her head on straight and the advice that she gave in this video has really made me stop to think. She's absolutely correct and that's a very healthy attitude
Glad to see you posted a video. I was starting to worry about you. I am worried about you out there.
Some things are not taught you learn through experience... never tell a receiver it's your day off you'll be stuck there all day!
Love that you’re a team driver now!! Woo!! You will enjoy waking up to new destinations ❤️
You are an absolutely amazing woman ! Your positivity and genuine honesty is very refreshing! While you may not be driving a big rig forever, your amazing attitude will carry you a very long way in life. I wish I had the wisdom you have when I was your age. Please keep that great personality and know that you have a ton of fans and friends. God Bless !
Shelby, you are a beautiful person inside and out! Love the videos! Safe travels and keep the shiny side up!
You got this! It takes time. Hang in there. Proud of you! 17 years and still learning new things.
Shelby you are a beautiful person just learn to relax everything will be fine....
... (visual confusion) ok I agree
Great little therapy session! I personally think mental health is -THE- biggest issue facing truckers. Coming together to try and face it will only do good.
Stay safe out there. Love that your dog sometimes travels with you.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on how to handle stress I've been retired from trucking approx 20 years now and yes everything you said is so true and thanks for sharing!!!
It's a positive attitude and creative mind along with a winning smile that attracts us. Keep tha videos comin!
Shelby, that was your best video about trucking.
We've all been burnt , its just part of the job we doing.
But listening to you in this video is like having the best therapy ever.
Keep on trucking girl
Thank you for doing what you do . We are all rooting for you .... keep that smile going everything will work out you got this O:
Attitude and how you perceive what happens to you is vitally important in this industry.
I just knew that coffee was not going to make it to the truck, that made for an interesting intro for sure. You have a good head on your shoulders and with a talking dog things can only get better. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us
I agree, although the way it resolved as I watched it was.."this is not going to end well for the coffee"
My husband is a truck driver and I completely agree with you 100%. Truck drivers are sooooooooo unappreciated by others that aren’t truck drivers. We need to cater to truck drivers bc they supply all our needs. By the way, we love your channel!!!!
love your vids. As a FORMER trucker..i know its not easy. Please stay safe :-)
Great video. I am a Trucker and completely aligned with your thoughts. Anxiety is always a challenge for me too but stay healthy, drink water, exercise, etc. Audiobooks are great in the truck.
Video doesn’t suck! I was wondering where you were. Happy that you are happy and drive safe!
Thank you for your honesty about the life-challenges of truck drivers and the industry as a whole
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found myself, nodding my head at your question "does that makes sense?" then I realized it was a video lol
😅😁
As a trucker and from a family of truckers...the biggest thing I see out there with trucking is --> "ATTITUDE" and like you said how you deal with it. You control what is happening to you. Myself I stay self sufficient with proper food in the truck, porta toilet, several gals of water, and proper supplies for the truck. Staying on top of scheduled maintenance is key and helps avoid breakdowns. Blown tires are part of the job...Try to limp it to a tire repair if close and try to find a safe place to pull over to have it repaired...I enjoy my job and workout on the road, have CX bike, and tons of entertainment. Keep your mind busy (reading, music, etc...) and it helps with depression.... KEEP ON TRUCKIN!
Your shedding your "naivete" and growing a 'tougher skin" -it's OK, part of the process of survival!
Been out here over 40 years, one thing you need to do is, no matter what happens...
See The Beauty In Each Day !!
We chose this life so enjoy it, some people have it much worse. Be careful and don't sleep in dangerous places !
It was truly a pleasure to meet you both, take care and safe travels.
Absolutely!! Hope you continue to enjoy your position ☺️ but you know if you ever get bored we’ll take you in as a “grounder” 😝
🤙🏼
I only laughed at your spilled coffee , because I have been there and done it many times. I had a coffee once , was driving a work van . I left it on the roof and drove away . Everything was covered , once I hit the brakes . Roof , windshield , hood side . What can you do , laugh at yourself and carry on . The look on your face , was priceless ! You have a great attitude , very positive . You can be lonely anywhere , I retired at age 56 in 2015 , after a massive stroke at work . I had to repair much of myself , on my own . I live with my tiny 5 pound Chihuahua Freddy , who is protective like Dakota is by you . I enjoy watching your travels . I had a motorhome I ran to Key West in 2017 and 2018 with Freddy . It wasn't easy on me , but I did it . I always watch to the end !
You should do what you eat in a day while on the road to stay healthy
Yes! Can even do some truck stop food reviews.
Subway and occasionally Arby's
With trucking you can never take your eyes off the Ball !! Trucking is a hard job and most people could never do it !! I for one appreciate all of you !!
I’ve been driving locally for a company for over 15 years. Some of it is heavy-haul containers out of shipping ports. It’s hourly with overtime pay and full benefits. I’ve never worked nights and I’ve never worked on the weekends. I also never have to touch the freight! OTR is a hard and many times a very frustrating way to make a living. Living on the road on a whole sucks in my opinion. Been there and done that. My advice to unhappy truckers? Get some quality OTR experience and then with a good driving record try to secure a good local driving job. I sleep in my own bed every night and I eat food from home every day. The “adventure” of driving and living “over the road” gets old fast. Take care and be safe out there!
@Steve Robertson You’re right, it depends on the person. It also depends on where and how they want to spend their free time. I like having my nights and weekends off which in my mind anyway equals freedom. I definitely don’t miss sleeping and showering at truck stops. Take care and stay safe.
@Zanda Williams It depends on your particular job. Some jobs you never have to touch the freight, while other jobs you have to help load and unload. And of course that’s usually after driving for a long distance. Training time depends on the school and/or the company you intend to work for. Driving school is usually about 30 days and then you go out with a trainer on the road for a few weeks or so. Some people can “stack up” some money while driving over the road while others continually blow a lot of their money by eating at expensive truck stops. I used to save a lot of money by trying to eat in my truck. You can set it up with a fridge and microwave. Shop at a grocery store and dine in your rig. I hope this helps.
Your a rockstar with a great attitude I wish you both safe travels and fun... the videos are great and the service you provide allows the rest of us the comforts we take for granted... so a long winded thank you
Best wishes Shelby! I've been driving for 20+ years, stay positive, winter is over!
From someone who suffers from anxiety, ptsd and depression, some of the things you said, is actually helpful, and I appreciate it. (I’ve been thinking of truck driving)
Think again. You don't have the mental fortitude for this line of work son...
The way your face lit up when you started talking about him....🤩🥰
I still love your videos. I can see that you're borderline or already burned out. Once you have a schedule again you'll be doing much better. I'm a creature of habit and repetition and planning, too. Good luck to you both!
Oh yeah they are banging
Shelby I have so much respect for you. I could not do your job, because I fear traveling. Then here you are baring your soul to us. You are real, not super human. Just like me! Thank YOU. You are so cool. God bless.
Lol I’m liking just for that intro lol
Hi Shelby. Another good video. What determines what sort of character we have is not how many times we get knocked down-it's how many times we get back up, dust ourselves off and carry on. Glad you're changing your driving situation. Do these things while you're young and have the energy and enthusiasm. Never, ever give up.KP
It’s great to see you again. Does this mean we get to see BK in the videos? Stay Strong! Stay Safe!
Shelby, my wife and I are watching all your videos to catch up! (We Like them all and subscribed) We have been married for 37 years. I drove for our first 12 years locally, went into IT Industry, am now disabled. (Back fractured) I wish I was driving again. So, you’re our girl! Keep it up! Thanks for your hard work. We enjoy your good-hearted nature very much. Enjoy the journey! P.S. our son drives 18 wheel for FedEx local in California.
Always happy and excited to watch your videos Shelby always a nice start of my day when a get notification of a new video 😎😎😎🙏🏻 stay safe Shelby to you and Dakota also to BKM thanks for the info and experience Shelby it’s true what you say there always challenges on any type of job and trucking is one of them but as long as you are up for the challenge you’ll get through it so thanks Shelby🙏🏻
Hey Shelby, as a truck driver here in New Zealand I have two simple rules. Don't worry about what you can't control, just deal with as best as you can. If you can control it, don't worry just deal with it the best you can. All you can ever do is your best, and that is all I try to do. Good luck.
It's not easy to get good food anywhere right now... I was eating healthy and now I eat whatever is in stock when I go shopping.
No matter the different circumstances life brings. I'll be here to support you
You are a super awesome UA-camr keep up the good work 😊❤️
Video didn’t suckShelby. Everything you talked about, we’ve all been there one way or another. On the tough days just take a deep breath and keep going. The next day may be a lot better. Keep safe and take care of yourself.✌️
You always have great Video Content, keep it up Shelby. Hope having a co-driver works out for Both of you...
I want to personally thank you and every trucker out there for doing what you do. A lot of us have it hard, but you all have it harder, and I am very grateful.
When I was OTR omg stuck at a truck stop over Xmas and missing my kids birthdays took pieces of me but made me rethink things
So what do you do now for work
American truckers drink buckets of coffee… one at a time. You are such a ray of sunshine for truckers. Thanks!
I just got my CDL permit Monday when my DMV opened up here in Tampa. Looking to start with Knight Transportation when their school opens up. Maybe I will see you both out on the road! 👍👍👍
Tony Stark! You my friend are in 4 a real Experience in Life with Knight! Good Luck?
Dwight Arnold Good or bad? 😂
@@virtualtrucker2531 Tony! They will work your Ass off , Not pay U the miles U drive, and Use you as a Pawn! I COULD go on andon but if You get a chance talk 2 a person who went through the Training Class . GET their opinion. Or look at Vids on people who have worked 4 them! GOOD LUCK MY FRIEND..? Let me know how you make out!p
You are what keeps our country running! God Bless you and good luck!
Highly recommend checking out the air fryer trucker on FB. He air fries in his truck! He has fabulous recipes!
but, can he "air fry" cornbread? i betcha, it ain't done in the middle...
Air fryers are the best! I have one and cool almost everything in it! Eating healthy keeps the mind right.
zzz /// I’m 100% sure I can 😈
@@kristimarie4655 - without a doubt; i am sure you can... {basic arithmetic} ~ you make cornbread + dang, you are beautiful = wait, hold up; not gonna' finish this mathematical equation, just yet. QUESTION? - how did you end up, in the "comments" section, of a "you tube" trucking video?
You're young but very bright. You're learning valuable life lessons and you're going to succeed. Life treats everyone like this and throws in some luck once in awhile. Smart people grab the opportunities and "luck" when it presents itself. Good luck! I enjoy your channel.
Yes, I watched all the way to the end.
Shelby really says some good things in this video. Keep the good attitude.
0:09 I love humor like this😄.
"Our anxiety does not come from thinking about the future, but from wanting to control it."
"Do not anticipate trouble, or worry about what may never happen. Keep in the sunlight."
These quotes helped me back in my darkest days. I hope they can help anyone who read this.
Greetings from Spain. #StaySafe
Shelby I missed you and watching you lovely content
Sounds good Shelby. I hope you guys kill it $$$$$. You got half the battle, you all ready know your co-driver. Looking forward to the 48 content. BEST OF LUCK!
I would’ve ran back in the store and bought you another
cup of coffee lol
really appreciate you being so open about your strategies on letting things go and deciding when it’s worth loosing sleep over. Those are very powerful lessons and tactics you described, very emotional for me because I relate to them 💯. iv drove truck for a bit after getting my class A and to see you approaching it with such a consistent and positive outlook really is moving. keep up the videos and keep killen out there, but most importantly stay safe! 🌎🥂
Depressed... honestly I’m just depressed about the rates right now 😅
agreed
That bad? I have been off the road for a while but I’m getting that itch here lately. How bad is it right now?
I better not be a truck driver I get depressed if they run out of ice at a restaurant
Harry Kaminski trucking is not for everyone 😳 30 years as a OTR driver and it’s in your blood or not 😳 gear jammer for life😁👍🏻😎
Shelby, love your videos and your enthusiasm about your work. I’m not a trucker myself but I’ve always found it intriguing and your videos are the same. Thank you so much for taking the time to make and edit these videos to give us all a behind the scene and mind of a trucker. I’m glad you formed a team and I wish you the best of luck!! Hopefully you keep making the videos as it gives me more motivation to get out there and do what I do as I’ve been doing the same thing for 36 years haha!! Be safe out there!!!
And you’re definitely the best looking truck driver I’ve ever seen
Excellent intro. Loved it. This is the first video I have seen of yours. I love trucking. I drove many years ago for just a short time. Was going to get back in but became disabled. You know, there is good and bad with any career. It's what you make of it. You have a good head on your shoulders and it seems you are using it. I have liked and subscribed. Have fun, stay safe and stay healthy.
Beginning to wonder where you were.
You encourage your followers. I try to have some sort of life coach. That person may change often but I want somebody who motivates and encourages me daily ! I watch you because your smile and your attitude is contagious!!
Coffee WAS harmed in the making of this video. . .!! ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What a loss!!
Truck stop coffee doesn't count. I'll bring you my bath water you won't know the difference.
Ive been out here 14 years and its nice too see somebody explain the goods and bads and ive found my new copeing mechanism keep up the awsome videos and keep trucking remember change what you can change not what you can't 😁😁😁
2:50 "Mom, am choowing shtick loud becaws yoo no pays attenshun toos me!!"
I love these videos! My dad is an OTR trucker and has been for a very long time, and I turned him on to your channel and he loves it. I've been considering getting into trucking for a long time, and your videos totally inspire and enlighten me. I really appreciate you doing this!! Talking about compassion to truckers ... what a beautiful idea!! I want people to be kinder to, and more considerate of truckers and basically everyone else on the road. We appreciate you all ... you are the beating heart of our economy and the source of so many of our comforts ... often at the expense of your own. Love to you all, and be safe out there!! Thank you, Shelby!!
When you said you got stuck at a shipper recently.. I was like it was probably my company... which is in Ohio... then you said you got stuck in Ohio.. I was like ohh #%%! and now I’m hoping it wasn’t us.
I saw her walking out of the linehaul office at 0432 while fueling and recognized her immediately. Had no idea they were stuck there for 2 days! And with the pandemic mostly everything was closed.
Both of them as team drivers will bring in some serious $$$
Shelby-Thank you for sharing your real feelings. We all experience doubt, frustration, anxiety, fear, stress, loneliness from time to time. This just means you are part of the human race. Here are a couple ideas that I use when talking to myself (in no order of importance even though I numbered them). #1---It's only a problem if it can't be fixed. #2---I'm not in charge of the world, and all the outcomes. I do my job , you do yours--And I let you do yours. #3---Sometimes "shxx" happens, out of your control, move on, don't get bogged down with little stuff. #4---"......to Accept the things I cannot change, Awareness of the things I can change, and Wisdom to know the difference."
Self talk is good, be fair and compassionate with yourself, but always be honest. My last idea I got from a wall hanging in our house, it says: #5-- "Ideas become real at the point of action." Isn't that true. All my planning, all my scrutinizing, all my evaluating is pointless if I take no action.
Thanks for sharing,
Dick M
Get your masters - the income potential is far greater than driving a truck.
I am not a truck driver. If I knew more about it when I was young enough, I would probably have given it a try. I'm too old now, I'm 80. Anything you do in life is met with apprehension. Always questioning your ability, willingness, dedication and, are you up to the challenge. If you want it bad enough, you will find a way. I always told my daughter, "If it was easy, anybody could do it", but anybody can't do it, they would have to be strong like you. Anxiety is just another bump in the road that you have to get passed. Every obstacle in life is an opportunity in disguise. Solving problems makes you stronger. If it's any consolation to you, I have gained new respect for truck drivers by watching your channel.
How can a video like this suck? When it's being made by a beauty like you. Keep up the good work. Love watching your videos. Reminds me of my brothers when they used to drive big truck. I think your awesome.
I been a first responder in New York for many years. we love all are truck drivers. God Bless
Shelby I work in the trucking industry and your channel has re-inspired my passion for what we do. I handle operations, I’ve never driven a truck. But you and your energy remind me what it means to remain positive and how that rubs off on other people. I am happier with my job and have been pushing to do more since I discovered happiness by the mile.
Thank you!!
Awww thank you I greatly appreciate that!!
The best thing about trucking is that you can always get out of it. Do not pigeon hole yourself into a truck. Keep options open so you can leave once you have had enough (or when you are about to be replaced by automation).
I am so happy I found your channel. I think you are such a huge inspiration for women everywhere doing the job you do! But mostly, you are a huge inspiration to me. I am not a truck driver, but I struggle with major anxiety on the daily and it keeps me from doing the things I want to do most of the time. Watching you put yourself out there and work incredibly hard transforming every curve ball thrown in your path has helped me in ways I can't express in words. My anxiety sometimes creeps in when I'm driving, (especially before I'm preparing to go on a long road trip) and I totally do this whole "What Would Shelby Do" thing! You are just freaking awesome, please keep putting out these videos. They mean more to people than you know. Keep on truckin'!
Awww oh my gosh that’s crazy ☺️ I fail some days, but you know how hard it is to succeed. Just gotta keep encouraging yourself 🙃
I enjoy your post ..you put it out there for all to see ..Your very positive and refreshing to see a strong women
Found this channel last night, I'm going for my "B" road test soon; I'll get my A eventually when I can figure out the whole trailer thing. But one thing she touched on 6 or so minutes in, truckers feeling under appreciated. When the rona came everyone loved truckers, now that things are "kinda" normal its back to status quo. I've been cut off more than once and I've been on the road for like 6 days! Training! In a vehicle I'm very comfortable with; (been moving them around the yard for years.) Came here to say, I appreciate you all, especially the OTR drivers. I'm right there with you, facing all the same compliance laws just in a motorcoach. Brothers and sisters keeping the country moving. Let's go
I am a driver for FX as well and I know all to well there are good and bad things to this profession. I’m glad you brought up the anxiety/depression because it greatly affects how I do my job from a day to day basis. Though I am not OTR it still gets me from time to time. Stay strong live what yo ur doing and keep on smiling. :)
Shelby,...you are so much your own person, this is what me and the rest of the people that watch you for want to see. Lonely is a sad state of mind, however it always gives you something beautiful to look forward to....USMC 1969 Vietnam, but now I get to enjoy a wonderful person like you. It's hard to find the bright side sometimes...but it's there....❤ from Texas pretty lady.
I've been out here for26 years.Ive learned that you have to put your faith in God,pray everyday for guidance, physique yourself out mentally,be nice to customers, and get plenty of rest whenever you can.
Amen to all of that! The Lord has protected me numerous times and given me peace out there on the road.
Congratulations, I drove truck for 20 years for the railroad and it can be stressing at times. I was at home driving my car back from the store and I lost my voice. Thought it was from starting to get sick. But lt turned out to be lung cancer. Never got my voice back. Never did treatment and was supposed to only live till last January but I am still here by the grace of God. All I am saying is, there is nothing in this world to stress about. What ever problem rises will get fixed. My thing I miss most about working was stopping and seeing things along my way. Like Lincolns tomb in Illinois John Waynes house and I used to stop a lot at American pickers in Iowa. Your young enjoy life and remember, everything always works out. Love your videos. I know your parts of the woods, I am in layton.
I’m not a very religious person however, the Serenity Prayer has always helped me accept the various challenges of life. Acceptance can be a powerful state of mind. And don’t set your goals out of reach or unrealistic.