High Value Isn't Enough: Casey Zander Reveals Strategies For Keeping Her Hooked!

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  • @CaseyZander
    @CaseyZander Рік тому +895

    Thanks for having me on the podcast bro 💯 soon we have to get you on my channel.

    • @itzsimon.c5908
      @itzsimon.c5908 Рік тому +32

      im 19 and casey big bro i gotta say u are building a man of worth right here...cant thank you enough

    • @TheUnplugged1
      @TheUnplugged1 Рік тому +11

      You helped me a lot Casey

    • @musa9399
      @musa9399 Рік тому +9

      You're the man, Casey

    • @cadichon.reactions
      @cadichon.reactions Рік тому +3

      This was awesome 🔥👍🏾

    • @pobremadadivisao536
      @pobremadadivisao536 Рік тому +2

      Casey you are changing my life ! Thank you bro ! 🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 casey eh o brabo ! Deixando a tropa forte

  • @matthewsaltzman5573
    @matthewsaltzman5573 Рік тому +460

    Right now Casey is the most comprehensive and complete male coach out there. His understanding of both sides and fairness to every situation is unrivaled.

    • @israeliteking1947
      @israeliteking1947 Рік тому +2

      no he's not that's just your white opinion😅😅

    • @stefanmatton8778
      @stefanmatton8778 Рік тому +5

      geez you must spend so much time indoors if you genuinely believe this.

    • @eddieanthony6886
      @eddieanthony6886 Рік тому +5

      ​@@israeliteking1947who else do you put over him?

    • @mrbabyhugh
      @mrbabyhugh Рік тому +1

      it's like he created relationship dynamic.

    • @t5396
      @t5396 Рік тому +5

      Honestly I think he's very overrated and I think a lot of the stuff he promotes is toxic and not really conducive to healthy relationships.

  • @Boe3
    @Boe3 Рік тому +350

    Austin has something most hosts don’t have, it’s to let the guest talk and not interrupt every time 💯

    • @WildMidwest1
      @WildMidwest1 Рік тому +4

      Man, you really nailed it. Americans are so impatient and verbally pressured. It’s ruining social interactions. Learning to listen carefully may be the most important skill of all. Austin has it.

    • @AboutDatMoney
      @AboutDatMoney Рік тому +1

      @@WildMidwest1 Thats every country bruu

    • @clevelandwilliams5922
      @clevelandwilliams5922 Рік тому +6

      He wants to understand the mindset and he realise on why he wanted the guest on the show.

  • @Blue_7777
    @Blue_7777 Рік тому +156

    I'm a woman and listened to at least 35 min. and it's so good to hear there's a guy that seems to really get women, while sharing it in a men's space. Go Casey!!!

    • @debbyshark1596
      @debbyshark1596 Рік тому +2

      Just curious...what does he get about women?

    • @CaptainCologne
      @CaptainCologne Рік тому

      @@debbyshark1596He gets that he can hold a woman’s attention for 35 minutes.

    • @debbyshark1596
      @debbyshark1596 Рік тому

      @CaptainCologne Her attention..I wouldn't say women in generals attention 😂

    • @TANTRIKZMUSIC
      @TANTRIKZMUSIC Рік тому

      @@debbyshark1596don’t be hating haha he’s spot on everything

    • @Babushka_4ever
      @Babushka_4ever Рік тому +17

      Yes I’m a 49 year old woman and I love listening to Casey. Very smart man. I always speak to my “former player” guy friends about him and his teachings and they 100% agree with his teachings for the most part.

  • @theotht
    @theotht Рік тому +312

    Casey is an absolute legend, what a guest. cant wait to watch this

    • @CommonJ676
      @CommonJ676 Рік тому +9

      Idk really think he's saying a whole lot of nothing.

    • @xyz-mc5of
      @xyz-mc5of Рік тому +6

      He is also 🌈 into dudes. It’s comedy at this point how non-str8 dude pretend to understand women 🥴🤡🤡🤣🤣

    • @Adrian-zu6tm
      @Adrian-zu6tm Рік тому +2

      @@xyz-mc5of now it all makes sense why austin made that short a few days ago about men having gay friends to get girls

    • @oscarchs2239
      @oscarchs2239 Рік тому

      Great guest, a Smart guy

    • @alexanderg5386
      @alexanderg5386 Рік тому +2

      ​@xyz-mc5of Who is gay? You're saying Casey is gay? Where's your proof? I call bs...

  • @remodelboostclub
    @remodelboostclub Рік тому +67

    First time I came across this guy Casey.. And I can tell not only does he know what he's talking about but he's also got some character... He's not loud and is not quick to react. He's a smart guy.

    • @ZeroBudgetGuide
      @ZeroBudgetGuide 8 місяців тому +1

      I’ve been watching Casey for 1 year now and let me tell you he has literally changed my life. I have literally attracted women at a faster rate than watching Austin and the other coaches. Casey gets deep down into the female psyche, I’m not glazing him or anything but if you wanna learn more you should definitely watch him

  • @lorenzor7993
    @lorenzor7993 Рік тому +59

    Never thought I would see these guys on one panel. ✊🏽

  • @iggynotpop4138
    @iggynotpop4138 10 днів тому +1

    Casey is on another level. Breaks down complex topics into simple to understand points. Dr. Zander is a pHd amd an intellectual.

  • @AB-yr2eo
    @AB-yr2eo Рік тому +83

    This content is invaluable. Love listening to Casey’s point of view.

    • @caveman357
      @caveman357 Рік тому

      The McGregor and Kahbib analogy was magical 🌟

  • @MLevyTech
    @MLevyTech Рік тому +64

    This is it. The balance is what matters overall. A little bit of each side in order to fully equip yourself when dealing with women. Great content guys, keep this up!

    • @DJP1993
      @DJP1993 Рік тому

      Proves that the ledgendary ARC was right. The most sought after man is an Alpha male with beta traits.

  • @worldwideentertainmenttv
    @worldwideentertainmenttv Рік тому +18

    Casey touching on God and spiritual aspect to lead women is very on point. At his age to understand that element and why it's crucial in relationships is amazing discovery on his part. Glad he's sharing his experience and knowledge on other platforms.

    • @aaronlarsen4674
      @aaronlarsen4674 28 днів тому +1

      The Adam and Eve analogies play so well into relationships that it shouldn’t be overlooked

  • @KayFlowidity
    @KayFlowidity Рік тому +113

    4:45 💯💯💯
    7:15👌👌👌
    8:35 Genuine Desire
    10:25 Red Pill 💊
    12:00 Balancing Act
    14:20 Upbringing
    15:55 Alpha & Beta
    17:45 Emotional Investment
    21:15 3 Date Rule
    23:30 High Value!
    24:20 Words!
    25:00 Wisdom
    26:15 SMV
    32:35 Class in Session
    33:35 Conor & Khabib 👌
    39:30 The Fantasy
    43:15 Maintaining interest
    45:00
    48:00 Flexible Identity
    53:00 The Pull Back
    56:45 Long Term
    59:30 Valueless Commitment

  • @wiy_annguyen
    @wiy_annguyen Рік тому +28

    Casey is on another level with teaching men about women. I’ve applied his teachings over the years and he speaks truth 💯

  • @TonySayers
    @TonySayers Рік тому +20

    This man is wise beyond his years. Ive learnt so much from him and Im 44 years old!

    • @jarodorla6949
      @jarodorla6949 5 місяців тому +1

      Absolutely me too in my mid 40s and I'm not conceptually as experienced as he is. Undoubtedly savvy in the dating game

  • @gokugotop
    @gokugotop Рік тому +19

    You can tell AD is learning from this interaction himself. Casey is fucking brilliant

  • @j-star1
    @j-star1 Рік тому +14

    Amazing podcast.
    We need Casey back for another episode, this guy knows so much. Keep up!

  • @yaboiij6694
    @yaboiij6694 Рік тому +9

    Casey is undervalued on this platform

  • @charlesmkhize77
    @charlesmkhize77 Рік тому +6

    My world has been completely revolutionised, shoutout to my little brother that made me watch this interview, shoutout to Austin for bringing through Casey. What an interview!!

  • @londadon_bx
    @londadon_bx Рік тому +10

    I got mad hyped seeing Casey on here. This was a great podcast 💪🏾

  • @jmonk5588
    @jmonk5588 Рік тому +4

    This collaboration was so insightful & well broken down I didn’t realize I’d been watching this vid for nearly an hour 👍🏼

  • @treviancalhoun7693
    @treviancalhoun7693 Рік тому +13

    Been following Casey for about 2 years. Definitely in my top 3 coaches with Dr. BOA and Alan Roger Currie R.I.P.🙏🏾

  • @JVNSfit
    @JVNSfit Рік тому +34

    Casey Zander has an interesting perspective compared to most red pill creators. The only way to describe it is fair. No taking sides, no essence of “men over or against women”. Its obvious he’s gained a lot of his wisdom from experience and through consistently challenging his own and the bias of the RP.

  • @AnthonyWilsonGrant
    @AnthonyWilsonGrant Рік тому +2

    This colab is GOLDEN

  • @OnealEddie
    @OnealEddie Рік тому +5

    I watch Casey all the time! Lots of wisdom, especially being in his twenties!

  • @Lawrence_of_Asia
    @Lawrence_of_Asia Рік тому +23

    We need to get Casey on the Fresh and Fit Podcast! He’s the GOAT!

  • @mrbabyhugh
    @mrbabyhugh Рік тому +7

    36:13 Austin, get the fundamental thing that Casey is saying, LEAD THE INTERACTION. You are to guide her in to whatever direction you want her to go, both emotionally and physically. So from the word "hey", you to be directing her in the direction YOU want the interaction to go. You are to set the tone, rules, reward, consequences, outcome everything, THAT IS HOW YOU LEAD, that is the leadership women seek. So from the hey to the thumb game, you are to be leading her in to that direction. So wherever in the interaction YOU want the thumb game to be, you are to set it. Notice how women get turned off when you ask her what she wants, where she wants to go etc, YOU ARE TO LEAD HER.

  • @michaelsmp1
    @michaelsmp1 Рік тому +3

    Casey is the best out there. I don’t agree with all his philosophy but his perspectives are much more honest and true than others, this is coming from someone who is older. Thanks Casey, you’re helping so many men out there

  • @alextrodriguezz
    @alextrodriguezz Рік тому +2

    Great interview gentlemen 🤙🏼
    Deff agree a man leading the relationship is the #1 boundary that is necessary

  • @doneiliragaba1266
    @doneiliragaba1266 Рік тому +7

    Casey Spat some old head Wisdom stuff man, this stuff was great to listen on my Headphone, I learned a lot. Great first podcast.

  • @shredderSupreme91
    @shredderSupreme91 Рік тому +2

    Insane facts on the spiritual stuff Casey. Almost everybody misses that part & things crumble because of it.

  • @dna8269
    @dna8269 Рік тому +6

    Good stuff, I actually like this podcast format more than any other video you've done recently

  • @avg.guy.1012
    @avg.guy.1012 Рік тому +3

    Uncle C finally doing interviews. Let's get it 💪

  • @danstrick3314
    @danstrick3314 Рік тому +2

    Casey picks new angle at the same subject in every video and hits it on the nail, every time.

  • @shaun787max
    @shaun787max Рік тому +5

    Proud of you two gentlemen 🙏 you’re doing a lot of great things for the next generation

  • @RichardWeaver-w4b
    @RichardWeaver-w4b Рік тому +1

    Really appreciate both hosts Austin takes you into his own personal experiences and Casey has the best unbiased approach. The 2 dichotomies result in great Q&A. Would be interesting to see Casey's take on some of Austin's experiences

  • @salahfoster5681
    @salahfoster5681 Рік тому +3

    Casey is so on point!💯

  • @enzosalinas6487
    @enzosalinas6487 Рік тому +3

    so great, great collaboration... I didn't expect it

  • @marktureaud4094
    @marktureaud4094 8 місяців тому +1

    Transform your character transform your life .

  • @TalioMirishaTV
    @TalioMirishaTV Рік тому +2

    Casey’s advice is top tier

  • @WJax85
    @WJax85 Рік тому +7

    Awesome collab! It would be interesting to hear you speak to Matt Cross from 33 Secrets, or John Anthony Lifestyle.

    • @ashinthewind2759
      @ashinthewind2759 11 місяців тому

      Matt Cross is an OG but John is a waste of time.

  • @duwaynelangham
    @duwaynelangham Рік тому +4

    This one should be big, love seeing other masters of mens work!

  • @Adrian-zu6tm
    @Adrian-zu6tm Рік тому +71

    it's wild all the shit guys have to learn, and play and know at specific times etc just to land a girl lmao

    • @MaseTheMeninist
      @MaseTheMeninist Рік тому +11

      Don’t over think this shit

    • @senzatieee
      @senzatieee Рік тому +8

      ​​@@MaseTheMeninistYeah a lot of bullshitting by guys who wanna sell a worthless "course". Ultimately looks, money and similarity is what matters, and I'd ignore similarity since you can't really change yourself.
      It comes down to look as good as possible and make as much money as possible while maintaining a generally happy life, i.e. no burnout.
      Something that has truly surprised me lately is how painfully simple and "basic" dating is, the better I look the easier it gets with women.

    • @123sanoon
      @123sanoon Рік тому

      What? Idiot!? It is not to get the girl but to play the game of life well and get the girl, the fun, and your own joy of living life itself. Girls are just a part of fun and life. Man’s path, however , is about constant growth and betterment to become and EXPERIENE who and what you are in your highest vision and idea you can reach. Then everything will work. They are just a part of FUN.

    • @iban53
      @iban53 9 місяців тому

      Maybe it's naturally inside of us as men already

    • @MasterShimirama
      @MasterShimirama 5 місяців тому

      It kinda comes naturally with time. Have self respect over everything and be personable seductive. Most things come naturally as a result of getting your body right and being able to sustain yourself. If you go in understanding you are better off without a girl then ur chilling.

  • @n300zx931
    @n300zx931 5 місяців тому +1

    You can see how Casey is light years ahead of everyone else in this field.

  • @RalphyLopes
    @RalphyLopes Рік тому +2

    Great Convo, God Bless

  • @tkayy9662
    @tkayy9662 Рік тому +2

    Great pod. Good to see two creators in the space discussing these dynamics

  • @SeshanDecodes
    @SeshanDecodes Рік тому +4

    He is on to it. Miles ahead of most dating coaches.

  • @marcusj97
    @marcusj97 Рік тому +10

    I've learned a lot from both of these guys. Casey is very impressive with how he breaks down female nature. However fresh and fit can too so I kinda cringed a bit when he low key mentioned them. Myron actually breaks down female nature as good as anyone. Great video

  • @marcoslugo2384
    @marcoslugo2384 5 місяців тому

    Austin is A Very good listener 👍
    We are here to help one another; we have to keep strengthening Men out there

  • @OCor-s5c
    @OCor-s5c Рік тому +2

    Love this interview!! 2 of my favorite dudes to watch!

  • @Jaitonic
    @Jaitonic Рік тому

    That’s why Casey is the best

  • @furkanyuksel3263
    @furkanyuksel3263 7 місяців тому

    I am a big fan of Casey Zander. This guy helped to change my all beliefs.

  • @TristianWatson
    @TristianWatson Рік тому +11

    all i heard is men always win in the end if there is a established plan set and acted upon with consistency

  • @SwivTech-autos
    @SwivTech-autos Рік тому +3

    please we need to spread the word. every single men on youtube should be listening to @casey Zander

  • @maximalsakerhet7930
    @maximalsakerhet7930 Рік тому +6

    I fkin knew it lmao. I knew you'd been watching Casey, because you were saying a lot of the same stuff he was. This just confirmed it for me

  • @sebastianplacencio5762
    @sebastianplacencio5762 Рік тому +1

    Casey is the goat I love to see this collab.

  • @LAWRENCECHUKWUEMEKA-n9o
    @LAWRENCECHUKWUEMEKA-n9o Рік тому

    Never believed Austin would bring Casey here thanks guys

  • @stevep4358
    @stevep4358 Рік тому

    You are both scientists working and experimenting hard in this area. Your research and hypothesis is invaluable .

  • @J-Cruze
    @J-Cruze 8 місяців тому

    That front end Conor, back end khabib metaphor was perfect🔥🔥🔥

  • @Maxwell-mb7xn
    @Maxwell-mb7xn Рік тому +2

    The whole thing about women want to build something too, is the greatest game I've heard in a while. This guy is a treasure.

  • @kagomogorosii
    @kagomogorosii Рік тому +2

    Best dating podcast on the internet right now

  • @JoeMacStevens
    @JoeMacStevens Рік тому +1

    Wow, my two favorite game influencers together. I know what I am listening to on the treadmill today 👊🏾

  • @ephraimquainoo8012
    @ephraimquainoo8012 11 місяців тому

    I believe this podcast alone is enough to change and shape any man....thanks AD and Casey

  • @d.arthur462
    @d.arthur462 Рік тому +1

    We’ve been waiting for this one

  • @Vic_RE_Investor
    @Vic_RE_Investor Рік тому +1

    Uncle C in the house! Dropping 💎💎💎

  • @Nicey90
    @Nicey90 Рік тому +2

    You have both been life savers
    Thanks guys

  • @nathananderson8720
    @nathananderson8720 Рік тому +3

    This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my UA-cam channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 1,206 subs and > 1,000 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

  • @TheBulletzgottishow20
    @TheBulletzgottishow20 Рік тому +1

    Dope conversation all facts was spoken

  • @Dr.Nietzsche
    @Dr.Nietzsche Рік тому

    Zander educated Dunham, giving him some Game !

  • @mcdolec
    @mcdolec 3 дні тому

    Powerful interview definitely was the heart breaker that transitioned to marriage and became a husband and I can confirm the combination of both works. Austin for Front End and Casey for Back end. The key however is identity and direction would love to have an interview with everyone!
    Reps are key too

  • @johntumba9459
    @johntumba9459 Рік тому +1

    This was insightful and powerful keep up the good work 👏

  • @cuatrojr1
    @cuatrojr1 11 місяців тому

    Awesome colaboraction!

  • @chriseleuterius
    @chriseleuterius Рік тому

    Casey and Austin, this pod is pure gold

  • @mannieA07
    @mannieA07 Рік тому +2

    That tip on planning games is gold I use the thumb war or make a joke reading her palm telling her I can predict her future 😂

  • @caesarprice3252
    @caesarprice3252 Рік тому +25

    I don't care about being a "high value man." Why I got to do all this work for women. I gonna do me and if I no girls want me, I can live with that.

    • @nicbell8090
      @nicbell8090 Рік тому +18

      you’re looking at it backwards. when you start to level up and build the mindset, it makes your life better. and will no doubt attract women. and you’ll need those skillsets to be well rounded everywhere

    • @ohKemo
      @ohKemo Рік тому

      @@nicbell8090nah he def has the right idea. Prioritizing HIS reality

    • @Persongr
      @Persongr Рік тому +1

      😂

    • @Persongr
      @Persongr Рік тому +3

      If you level up naturally without this mindset they are dishing out, you will be tired of women, better learn so you can choose well😂

    • @rubenTR309
      @rubenTR309 4 місяці тому

      Your last statement is kind of what he teaches though so.... 🤣🤣

  • @JesusGonzalez-qx4xz
    @JesusGonzalez-qx4xz Рік тому

    Never thought this would be a crossover!!! This is crazy.

  • @KNuzX
    @KNuzX Рік тому +1

    Quite a wealth of experience between these two

  • @pritomsaha1100
    @pritomsaha1100 Рік тому +4

    Nice one! ❤

  • @cosmicsea89
    @cosmicsea89 4 місяці тому

    Great metaphor using MMA front-end vs back-end

  • @lesto_
    @lesto_ Рік тому +1

    Nice to see you switching up the content

  • @joshandebbarma5960
    @joshandebbarma5960 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Casey Thank You Austin for bringing this contents ....wow !!!

  • @GODLY_Stephen
    @GODLY_Stephen Рік тому +2

    Casey is a G, ones of the greats of understanding female nature

  • @meme-zv7kw
    @meme-zv7kw Рік тому +2

    Awesome tandem you guys make unbeatable tandem

  • @AmineAyadi-m7o
    @AmineAyadi-m7o Рік тому +2

    Yeeeeeeah keep it uuuup Casey is the best

  • @eliasmaverick5612
    @eliasmaverick5612 Рік тому +1

    Great collaboration.

  • @lescj200
    @lescj200 Рік тому

    Casey is the GOAT and that is not an understatement

  • @cryptorunner6957
    @cryptorunner6957 Рік тому +21

    I learned a lot of female game in high school. Definitely helped me post divorce get back out there and crush it.

  • @MikeMFNLove
    @MikeMFNLove Рік тому +11

    I’ve been following “Uncle C” for awhile and it’s dope that he mentions Patrice O’Neal. When I put a couple of my friends up on his content, I told them… this guy is Patrice O’Neal reincarnated as a young white guy breaking shit down on a whiteboard

    • @Jay-px8ue
      @Jay-px8ue 4 місяці тому +1

      Great explanation

  • @JEMANF
    @JEMANF Рік тому +7

    The collab I been waiting for👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @yuzaro8606
    @yuzaro8606 Рік тому

    Woooo that's a completely unexpected collab🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @upstream0564
    @upstream0564 Рік тому +1

    This was a very good interview/podcast

  • @Timefades1
    @Timefades1 Рік тому

    Two of my og favorite creators let’s goo

  • @wallyjackson9543
    @wallyjackson9543 Рік тому +4

    Great interview Austin, quick note.. When Casey brings up that there are certain “beta” traits that make women comfortable with a man in the long haul, try to ask him what those traits are

  • @ACEProfessional-m9s
    @ACEProfessional-m9s Рік тому +1

    austin this is amazing content , you asked really good question and the only thing that would have made it better is if it was in person

  • @ghanaentertainmentconnect
    @ghanaentertainmentconnect Рік тому +1

    Great content love from Ghana 🇬🇭 West Africa The Motherland ❤

  • @admiralackbarceo
    @admiralackbarceo Рік тому +1

    really great discussion.

  • @tonyhinds9855
    @tonyhinds9855 Рік тому

    This Guy is the man God Bless him 🙏🏾🙌🏾👊🏾

  • @amsg7245
    @amsg7245 Рік тому +1

    Another dream Collab came true

  • @VIZIONONE
    @VIZIONONE Рік тому +1

    why did your end the pod so abruptly and short. content was fire and felt like it could of kept going 🔥

  • @hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951
    @hulk-smash-deez-hose.7951 Рік тому

    Love watching these two minds collaborate dopest podcast 🔥

  • @giacomoleopardi5776
    @giacomoleopardi5776 Рік тому

    2 Top Guy... Like how Austin processing what Casey has to say👍🏼