How To Get Your Ex To Commit To You Again

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  • Опубліковано 5 кві 2023
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    How do you get your ex to commit to you? Watch through to the end because this is going to be covering some very deep psychological things and some very deep emotional things that could be happening with you and your relationship with your ex.
    Keep on watching if you want to understand how to leverage these things in just the right way, making you very likely to be successful at getting back together with your ex. If you ignore these things, then you know you may very well have a very difficult time in this process and come to some sort of conclusion that it's impossible to get back together with your ex.
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  • @ClayAndrews
    @ClayAndrews  Рік тому +2

    Here's the link to our connection-based course for saving your relationship: www.modernlove.life/esp

    • @ledijuazeez
      @ledijuazeez Рік тому

      We broke up last year October and I went on no contact rule and she finally reached around January she told me she met a new guy around December but he stays in Europe we've been having series of lovemaking yesterday I followed one of your tips to leverage the connection I've built with her but she told me we ain't dating and all she's focused on now is meeting the new guy he's arriving from Europe in June. Please Mr Clay I will be glad if you can advise me on this thanks so much in advance.

  • @snowgirl5414
    @snowgirl5414 Рік тому +5

    Hey clay! An awesome video idea could be “signs your ex is starting to trust you again”

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому +3

      Good idea. I'll put that onto my list of future video topics. Thanks for the suggestion.

  • @DanteS-119
    @DanteS-119 Рік тому +10

    Thank you for being an encouraging and authentic voice of reason and for putting positive pressure on us.

  • @mikey5848
    @mikey5848 Рік тому +2

    Nice tie Clay 👌

  • @aftabsheikh4243
    @aftabsheikh4243 Рік тому +8

    The person that loved me so much are now telling me just to be as a friend... It's break my heart I don't know what to do it's a 5th day that my heart broke and I always thinking about a good times that we spent together 💔

  • @ledijuazeez
    @ledijuazeez Рік тому

    We broke up last year October and I went on no contact rule and she finally reached around January she told me she met a new guy around December but he stays in Europe we've been having series of lovemaking yesterday I followed one of your tips to leverage the connection I've built with her but she told me we ain't dating and all she's focused on now is meeting the new guy he's arriving from Europe in June. Please Mr Clay I will be glad if you can advise me on this thanks so much in advance.

  • @Zen4life-
    @Zen4life- Рік тому +2

    Clay, I want to know how to act when / if you ex reaches out? Do you talk about the breakup? Let them bring it up? Act like nothings wrong and fun to be around? Maybe make a video about this topic!🙏

    • @cinderkenders744
      @cinderkenders744 Рік тому +1

      Schedule a date and just have fun.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому

      Very quickly, you'll want to have a Same Team conversation and roughly follow this strategy ua-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/v-deo.html

    • @chisomoffor6877
      @chisomoffor6877 9 місяців тому

      @@cinderkenders744I did this and I told him I won’t pressure him and he was happy and open to meet with me , we were intimate and all but I’m gonna be patient

  • @westcedar
    @westcedar 4 місяці тому

    I got to the point of real closeness, sex and connection. Was going really well then she freaked out and asked for space. " I love you and I miss you but I need some space" - that was 2.5 weeks ago. Head is still spinning.

  • @paradisusparadoxum
    @paradisusparadoxum Рік тому +3

    First comment. I wish I could get back with my ex.

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому +4

      Thanks for the comment. I hope you and your partner get back together :)

  • @justventing5913
    @justventing5913 Рік тому

    She stopped talking three weeks ago
    We seen each other for 7month
    I’m showing signs of being anxious attachment she shows signs of dismissive, she has pulled away before but only a day or two now it’s been weeks she says she doesn’t want a relationship she’s away with work In army but says when home she will see me and we can talk properly , I told her as she’s home in 3weeks il not speak to her now let her have space and see her when she’s home. Any advice??????

  • @RazorSharpChannel
    @RazorSharpChannel Рік тому

    Thank you so much for everything you do! I've been broken up with my ex for 1 month now, spoke on Sunday and am going no contact again for a while as it's clear we both need to heal again. I found out she's seeing someone else and I'm not sure what the chances are this is a rebound relationship? I also have no idea how long its been going on for, but I know they are saying 'I love you's already. She was kind of withdrawing from me for a little while before we broke up, but it's obvious she hasn't healed from our relationship yet as she's actually said that when we spoke.
    Her birthday is in a couple weeks so I'm going to send her some small gifts and a card I think, but after that wait until I've fully healed before initiating contact again and working towards building an emotional connection as a 'friend'. Is this a good approach?

    • @aveave5643
      @aveave5643 Рік тому

      same with me Caleb and I'm seeing her in May. it's a long-distance relationship. She told me she loved me and wanted to marry me as well. She got into that kinda fast to 1 month currently and yep saying I love you when tbh I know its a rebound u cant love someone that fast. i hope it works out for you and I caleb.

    • @RazorSharpChannel
      @RazorSharpChannel Рік тому +1

      ​@@aveave5643 We were long distance as well and it was only a few months ago she said we were going to be together forever, get married etc. Went from 'we're 100% going to stick it through' to 'I can never see us getting back together' in only a few months!
      Are you doing your best to stay out of her life and work on being independant and getting over the old relationship? I kinda know it's what I have to do but it's the hardest thing.

    • @aveave5643
      @aveave5643 Рік тому

      @@RazorSharpChannel Yep kinda crazy same with me. and I care a lot about her and helped her in a lot of ways. makes no sense

    • @cinderkenders744
      @cinderkenders744 Рік тому

      Don’t send her shit

  • @yashraj8791
    @yashraj8791 Рік тому +1

    I broke up with my girl 7 months back, since the last 2 months I’ve been asking her to get back. She still has feelings for me, she likes me, if I don’t call or reply to her texts, she gets bummed out. But she doesn’t want to get in a relationship, she’s running away from the feelings she has. What could I do to get back?

    • @Labrynthcrystalize
      @Labrynthcrystalize Рік тому

      Dont give up try being her friend and hanging out with her try to discuss things

  • @clips7047
    @clips7047 Рік тому

    How do you get your ex back to commit if you left them ?

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому +2

      Similar to the strategy here: ua-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/v-deo.html However, when doing the Same Team conversation, you'll likely also need to apologize for breaking up with them.

  • @Ibegazelle
    @Ibegazelle Рік тому

    this is crazy. u don actually say what one should do? ur just sayin this is good, this is bad, or all about the possibilities. but bring in some clarity on what exactly one should do. stop talkin, continue talking. be really nice or what?

    • @ClayAndrews
      @ClayAndrews  Рік тому +1

      I did mention things to do in this video. If that wasn't clear, then please understand that this video builds upon previous videos in a series. You might consider starting here: ua-cam.com/video/pOPiamJV_Mo/v-deo.html