Depression, Suicide, and Aquariums: A Journey to Finding Happiness

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  • Опубліковано 15 жов 2022
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    (Disclaimer this is an affiliate link so I do get a commission) Fish keeping saved my life and prevented me from committing suicide. After struggling with depression and anxiety for years, I found solace in caring for my aquarium and the fish within it. Through the routine of feeding, cleaning, and observing my fish, I found a sense of purpose and joy that had been missing from my life. In this video, I share my journey and how fish keeping helped me to overcome my struggles and find hope for the future.
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  • @marybeth4881
    @marybeth4881 Рік тому +8

    I know how it feels when it seems that being loved by you is a death sentence. You put up a wall and don't let anyone in. I am very glad you have let us in your wall. I lurk in a lot of streams and I see the joy you bring to a lot of people. I am glad you chose to share your sunshine with us.

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому

      Walls defiantly do go up after so many times of being hurt. Im glad you enjoy the streams. Happy to have you as a lurker

  • @rootsnwhiskers8351
    @rootsnwhiskers8351 Рік тому +9

    Last year when we sat together during Johns talk at Aquashella, I remember how choked up you got. Your tears were truly genuine and I could tell his talk hit home. You've shared these sad times with me but now the time line makes sense. Thank you for being strong and not giving up. And thank you for being even stronger and sharing your story ❤️ We love you Lefty ❤

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +1

      You're the best Lisa, love you guys too

  • @Beccs410
    @Beccs410 Рік тому +8

    I’m proud of you for sharing your story with everyone, Lefty. It’s important that people hear these stories to know they aren’t alone in their struggles with depression and loss. So many of us can relate on different levels with what you discussed in this video, so please know that you definitely aren’t alone, you’re important to so many of us, and we are all here for anyone in this community who needs us in whatever capacity. We are very glad you’re with us and I really hope you find your love and happiness.

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +1

      Thank you Becc's I missed our talks :) Thats why I made this video to help people and show them everyone goes through some crap and they arent alone and there are always people going through similar issues.

  • @jennap2005
    @jennap2005 Рік тому +9

    Lefty, you are so strong! Know that we are glad that you are here, and you deserve happiness.

  • @rickdde
    @rickdde Рік тому +6

    Hey Lefty, I just want to say that things happen for reason we don’t and may never understand but rest assure that you are loved. We all care and love you so much that we would not know what to do without you. It takes a lot of courage to share you story and even more courage to help others. You may or may not know this but you also helped me when I was going thru some tough times. It was hard for me to get through the video but I’m glad that I did because your video has helped me and meeting all of you guys just recently helped me so much. If you ever find yourself down that dark road please remember that you are not alone and you can count on me, and others, to help you navigate thru the tough times. Thanks again for sharing your story and don’t forget that there are so many people that care about you deeply. Nothing but love for you Lefty!!!!

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому

      Was super awesome to meet you last month too! Was looking forward to it especially after the hiccup with Dallas. I know I am not alone now thanks to this wonderful community of fish keepers I found online and amazing people like yourself. I am glad to know that I have helped you and I am also always here for you too if you need a shoulder.

  • @StephenP2003
    @StephenP2003 Рік тому +8

    This was tough to get through, emotionally, but I know it had to have been tougher for you to talk about it. While I can't relate as much to the pain of losing so many people, I do understand the pain that drives someone to want to take their own life. I've been there, and it was fate that prevented it from being successful. We are all glad you're still with us. FishFam wouldn't be the same without you.

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +2

      Same to you :) glad youre still with us too! Ya it was hard recording it but wanted to finally get if off my chest.

    • @HippieJohn
      @HippieJohn Рік тому +1

      💯BOTH OF YOU✌️

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому

      @@HippieJohn

  • @mariaz9538
    @mariaz9538 Рік тому +5

    Please always remember that you are loved very much ❤️💙❤️💙❤️

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +2

      Well I know that now :P I didnt back then after being dropped like a hot potato

  • @ScienceGalAquatics
    @ScienceGalAquatics Рік тому +7

    You are one of the strongest people I know! I love ya so very much, and I’m a better person because I have a friend like you!

  • @tjautocross
    @tjautocross Рік тому +3

    It took a lot of courage tell this story, Lefty. Thank you!! You fill a very special place in the Fish Fam and we are better with your presence.

  • @FintasticFreaks
    @FintasticFreaks Рік тому +3

    You're a strong man Lefty! 👏👍 I remember meeting you at Aquaticon and thought you were a really awesome fellow, I'm very happy I got to meet you man. Your story hits hard man. Fishkeeping has done a lot for so many of us including myself and fish truly are therapeutic. I'm glad you're one of the people who share your passion for this hobby Lefty, I know it's going to bring you, me, and a lot of people lots more happiness in the years to come, but please feel free to reach out if you just need to vent man. Stay awesome Lefty!

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +1

      Thanks m8 :) was awesome to meet you back in april too! seems so long ago! and yes fish have def helped lots and LOTS of people

  • @jimmied2838
    @jimmied2838 11 місяців тому +1

    I have bipolar type 2. Basically im very depressed with short periods of being a little too happy to the point of mildly self-destructive behavior. Keeping aquariums is the best form of therapy for me. I manly keep nano fish and neocaridena shrimp in planted tanks. Its an escape from the bs. I may have gotten off to a rocky start with u lefty but know u have my respect and im looking forward to future videos

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  11 місяців тому +1

      No rocky start here my friend :) id imagine for new people seeing someone with a name like mine could be confusing especially if they don't see a video where I explain how I made the user name. Im glad you are here and Im glad fish keeping has helped you :) it has helped so many other people and this community is the best

  • @HippieJohn
    @HippieJohn Рік тому +3

    I'm so glad to have met you...(even IN PERSON).....YOU'RE an asset to this community...I'm glad you were able work through the hardships... as you know my issues were completely different but fishkeeping did the same for me...STAY STRONG 💪 ✌️

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +2

      You too!! Awesome to have met ya :) Imagine how the world would be if everyone kept fish xD

    • @HippieJohn
      @HippieJohn Рік тому +2

      @@Lefty3213a 💯

  • @leo2o915
    @leo2o915 Рік тому +2

    Sorry lefty, you are strong! Just keep fighting. You aren’t alone you got people that care about you.

  • @sandradolbel2578
    @sandradolbel2578 Рік тому +1

    So thankful you're here 💛

  • @TheNanoAquariumGuy
    @TheNanoAquariumGuy Рік тому +2

    You are an amazing and strong human being, and it is people like you that make this fish community amazing. Thank you for sharing your story. I know we have never met in person but know that I care about you!

    • @Lefty3213a
      @Lefty3213a  Рік тому +2

      Thanks so much :3 and we shall meet one day :D