Revision notes 1. Never plan the first date (don't ask him to go on the first date) 2. Look presentable(nails, stains, perfume) 3. Be Mysterious 4. Do not do anything intimate. 5. Do not obsess over him.
For rule #1, I 100% agree. I was in a very serious long term relationship and this was my first mistake. I consider myself as an independent and strong women so at that time I asked him out. But overtime, I kept thinking what would have happened if I never asked him out. That was the beginning of this insecurity that I never thought I would face. Well as you can assume, that relationship did not last at all. Now I know where I went wrong lol. LADIES, LADIES, LADIES your dream guy will come to you. If somebody is showing a hint that they like YOU, trust me, THEY WILL COME TO YOU. Keep up the feminine energy ✨✨
Basic rule of life: if you want something good in your life then just sitting back and waiting for things to happen miraculously then thats the worst strategy you can use. My wife asked for the date… she was waiting for a very long time for me to make the first move I was in delusion that she has a boyfriend, if she would have never asked me we would never be together, she is a very strong woman
agreed lol. Sorry but if a woman shows no interest in me by never approaching nor starting convo, im going to assume she's not interested and will not ask her out on a date.
She's not saying never approach or never start the conversation. She's specifically saying "ask for the first date". I believe in showing interest, and then letting him make the next move from there
@@moviesnmoscato Boys already have a lot of things to deal with on priority (way our society is structured) don’t play so many games or you may stay single forever.
I know its weird….but please give us tips on long term relationships.(currently in a long term relationship) What to do and what not. THANK YOU GIRL… I LOVE YOUR ADVICES.
1:00 He ask me on a date and he said I could pick the place. I pick Applebees because their is nothing else I could think of. 😅 may I add, this is the first time we both have ever dated so.
Hey namesha, I'm also one of the brown girls, wanna say I love your facial features . Girl you're always there to heal me up whenever I'm at my lowest phase , I love the way you use your hands to express your words. Love from India ❤
For me I feel like its so earthly and natural to date someone after having them in our life as a friend prior to date or being around a circle of friends for some time..Its so familiar about eachother and no anxiety or too attached of the outcome ❤.. 😊😊
You know sometimes I think if we gotta pretend or hide so much from the person we're aiming to spend our life with, then what's the point meeting that person in the first place? In my opinion, before anything else we must be genuine because that's something this world is currently deprived of. 😊
I totally agree with being feminine and having the guy ask you out, which is what I would have wanted but the guy I’m into is kind of a wimp so I had to casually ask him out
1st rule is such a bs if you want him, go get him! bruh u shudnt have to wait for him to ask u out if it feels right for u to ask him out! and as a women, i LOVE to plan dates. and my boyfriend enjoys it, he is always up for whenever i randomly say "hey we shud do this/ go there someday". and i had also planned our first date lmao, and he was up for it. just do what u want and feels right at that moment, no need to wait around due to these bs rules.
6 November my exam will be start. And 4 novembers i am watching "tips for first date" 😂😂😂😂.Though its not for me but i love watching your video 😅😅😅😅😅😅.Wish me best of luck for my exam nimmy😘😘😘😘.
Being a female is just a gender my mom told me if you want them that bad if he makes you happy you should ask him it's your life you're choice don't listen to her it's your life if you don't mind to ask him do it women should have love in there future I never been asked in my life if I want to go on date so if you don't ask the guy may not know you care that much about him so it's your choice your life My crush asked me out first but you still have a choice us Women should find love like every body else if you want to Women be strong just go for it women work very very hard to find a lover and respect
Thank you… can’t believe all these videos nowadays men saying women should pay half the bill. Yeah ok maybe once y’all are in a relationship and been going on dates for awhile. but off the bat? Nah. Lately I been having a man keep asking me to coffee but he asks me to “let him know when” and to “choose where”. I still haven’t gone with him because I don’t have the energy for all that especially since I don’t even know him and this has confirmed my intuition.
Gurlll Me who's never been on a date But still watching it because of nimesha But thank you for all the tips U are really like my elder sis for me ❤️❤️❤️❤️
My first date actually went amazing even tho I was the one who planned it . Even tho the relationship didn't last long my first date was exactly how I envision it be so I am so grateful... The only advice I can give is that do what makes u happy that's the only way you are not going to regret doing it
I love your message ❤️ Let men be men. In a world where men feel they can't be men cause women are equal.. Bollocks.. We love men just the way they are and treating a woman like a princess and taking her/ asking her out and paying for the date is a good thing not a bad thing.
God, I wish I could relate to the privileges of young women my age and younger like you! I don't even have afamily or friends never mind a date never mind a partner! You're so young and have achieved so much! I cannot relate at all! How on earth do you have it all!?
I'm still single and I feel like I'm still not ready to have a relationship or dating...But I'm watching this vedio whenever it will be helpful to me😊 Nimesha my sister you are my motivation girl...Thank you so much and love you so much💓
I'm going on my date today. First date everr. I'm so nervous. I like him alot. He asked out??? How the hell do that happened idk how he asked. I thought it was just me having feelings lol. But yea. In a few hours I'm going. So I'm here. Getting tips
The guy asked me for a meet up.. I didn't answer yes but the other day I follow up and suggest a place where we can go which is a public place... So we will meet after 2 days .
ahh why didn't you post this video one month ago. I went on a date with this guy and did everything the things that you forbade to do in this video. Lomg story short now he says he doesn't want to be with me. He says that he doesn't want to be romantically involved with me . He wants to be friends with good terms. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
If he isn't financially stable it's fine as long as he is 100% honest??? Really girl? He don't gotta tell you none of that unless the relation ship is getting serious.
Okay but not oversharing is so important. Once I went on a date with this girl and we were having those "deep talks" ye know and then she really ended up crying and it got so awkward :/// And if ur lesbian/bi/pan/queer go ahead and ask the girl out. One of u have to and she/they might be too shy to ask so just do it LMAO.
Congrats for going from Miss Nimeshaa to Mrs Nimeshaa .💝💝..u look more and more gorgeous...with each passing day...loads of love to u.. u r my fav gurl...❤️
Wait please someone help, my first date is tomorrow. We have been talking for a week and he made a reservation for dinner tomorrow. He is picking me up from my house, he has shown interest and we have a good connection. We are meeting up for the first time tomorrow. He texts me everyday with good morning and good night, we have good communication and all, anyway my question is SHOULD WE KISS ON THE FIRST DATE
I’m literally going on my first date in 15 mins😂
All the best gurlll ✨🤍
@@brownasiangirl3794 thank you :)🤍
You posted this literal 6 min ago which means you're going there in 9 mins..Best of luck! 🖤 Tell me how it goes 💕
Good luck gurl💕
@@cloudxarepretty he’s on his way to pick me up now haha and I will do :)💕
Revision notes
1. Never plan the first date (don't ask him to go on the first date)
2. Look presentable(nails, stains, perfume)
3. Be Mysterious
4. Do not do anything intimate.
5. Do not obsess over him.
lol I asked him out for a drink and he said yes. the rest I agree with.
As a medical student I save this video for future bc I am currently focused on upcoming exams date lmao😭😂
Same
So relatable
So it is universal 😂
For rule #1, I 100% agree.
I was in a very serious long term relationship and this was my first mistake. I consider myself as an independent and strong women so at that time I asked him out. But overtime, I kept thinking what would have happened if I never asked him out. That was the beginning of this insecurity that I never thought I would face. Well as you can assume, that relationship did not last at all. Now I know where I went wrong lol.
LADIES, LADIES, LADIES your dream guy will come to you. If somebody is showing a hint that they like YOU, trust me, THEY WILL COME TO YOU. Keep up the feminine energy ✨✨
💜💜💜💜
I agree with you. I totally appreciate it
I violated the Rule 1, what do I do?
Basic rule of life: if you want something good in your life then just sitting back and waiting for things to happen miraculously then thats the worst strategy you can use.
My wife asked for the date… she was waiting for a very long time for me to make the first move
I was in delusion that she has a boyfriend, if she would have never asked me we would never be together, she is a very strong woman
agreed lol. Sorry but if a woman shows no interest in me by never approaching nor starting convo, im going to assume she's not interested and will not ask her out on a date.
She's not saying never approach or never start the conversation. She's specifically saying "ask for the first date". I believe in showing interest, and then letting him make the next move from there
@@moviesnmoscato
Boys already have a lot of things to deal with on priority (way our society is structured) don’t play so many games or you may stay single forever.
Eat before you go on a date..don't be hungry and order a meal that's affordable
I get motivated alot watching her videos and hearing her povs. As an impact of her video I become automatically productive and positive as a girl.
Awww that’s nice to hear ❤️
I know its weird….but please give us tips on long term relationships.(currently in a long term relationship) What to do and what not. THANK YOU GIRL… I LOVE YOUR ADVICES.
Yes pls
1:00
He ask me on a date and he said I could pick the place. I pick Applebees because their is nothing else I could think of. 😅 may I add, this is the first time we both have ever dated so.
GO girls GO!!!!
All solid facts GIRL! Love you so so much sis
She is making valid points here
Im not going on a date but I definitely needed these advices as my relationship is falling apart due to my extreme attachment.
Please don’t show extreme attachment. It’s not only ruin your relationship but also it will destroy you. Give yourself priority first trust me
Hey namesha, I'm also one of the brown girls, wanna say I love your facial features . Girl you're always there to heal me up whenever I'm at my lowest phase , I love the way you use your hands to express your words. Love from India ❤
After wedding u look more gorgeous 😍
he asked me for a date, and we will go tomorrow.. so i think i passed rule number one...😁 and i got the right video on the right time love you sis😊
I‘m shocked nobody disagrees with her in the comments…
Like wtf.
This might work for a certain kind of relationship but not for any kind…
For me I feel like its so earthly and natural to date someone after having them in our life as a friend prior to date or being around a circle of friends for some time..Its so familiar about eachother and no anxiety or too attached of the outcome ❤.. 😊😊
You know sometimes I think if we gotta pretend or hide so much from the person we're aiming to spend our life with, then what's the point meeting that person in the first place? In my opinion, before anything else we must be genuine because that's something this world is currently deprived of. 😊
I totally agree with being feminine and having the guy ask you out, which is what I would have wanted but the guy I’m into is kind of a wimp so I had to casually ask him out
Why date a wimpy guy? Sounds like a lose.
Set rules for betas , break rules for alphas perfect example if she wanted to she would.
Nimesha just keep doing videos on these topics...you explain it so well and you have valid points❤️
Nah, either person could ask first, it takes courage to make a move on either side
fr both sides are waiting and hoping the other person will ask😭
1st rule is such a bs
if you want him, go get him! bruh u shudnt have to wait for him to ask u out if it feels right for u to ask him out!
and as a women, i LOVE to plan dates. and my boyfriend enjoys it, he is always up for whenever i randomly say "hey we shud do this/ go there someday". and i had also planned our first date lmao, and he was up for it. just do what u want and feels right at that moment, no need to wait around due to these bs rules.
Right like wtf is that advice
6 November my exam will be start. And 4 novembers i am watching "tips for first date" 😂😂😂😂.Though its not for me but i love watching your video 😅😅😅😅😅😅.Wish me best of luck for my exam nimmy😘😘😘😘.
all the best 😂
How to manifest a loyal, trustworthy basically an actual MEN ... Nd dude i swear you're really the queen nd you motivates me alott
girl looks exactly like a doll 😫❤
Being a female is just a gender my mom told me if you want them that bad if he makes you happy you should ask him it's your life you're choice don't listen to her it's your life if you don't mind to ask him do it women should have love in there future I never been asked in my life if I want to go on date so if you don't ask the guy may not know you care that much about him so it's your choice your life My crush asked me out first but you still have a choice us Women should find love like every body else if you want to Women be strong just go for it women work very very hard to find a lover and respect
I love this series!!! 💁♀️
Nimesha you helped me moving on from my ex thank you so much
I'm late but happy for u❤
I already broke the first rule.😥 please wish me all the luck in my relationship guys . I really really like him.
Me too sis :))) don't worry
Yeah me too
Fucking right girls it happend with me too
i asked him for the date😂😂😂😂
!!! I asked him on day so I broke the first rule!!!!
Thank you… can’t believe all these videos nowadays men saying women should pay half the bill. Yeah ok maybe once y’all are in a relationship and been going on dates for awhile. but off the bat? Nah.
Lately I been having a man keep asking me to coffee but he asks me to “let him know when” and to “choose where”. I still haven’t gone with him because I don’t have the energy for all that especially since I don’t even know him and this has confirmed my intuition.
Gurlll
Me who's never been on a date
But still watching it because of nimesha
But thank you for all the tips
U are really like my elder sis for me
❤️❤️❤️❤️
Youuuu loookkk damnnnn prettryyyyy 🥰🥰 so obsessed with ur videos gurl 😍😊
Me literally on the first date: *sees him* "okay when do we want to marry and how many children do we want" 😭 why am I like this
It's a natural feeling but be wise and control yourself. You'll scare him off and ruin the process of his pursuit.
“Do not bring that 50/50 bullshit into this channel”… IMMEDIATELY SUBSCRIBED! 😂🤌🏽🫶🏽
But I think splitting the bill is a good thing, why depend on someone else to pay for you? It will hurt my self esteem (personal opinion)
Then you'll keep attracting broke ass man who would want you to split the bill always
@@garfield4882 I don't feel , splitting the bill is a broke thing it will respect my dignity.
@@Sunlovesbangtan Then you'll never find a man who's ready to lead and take charge. You'll always find men who need to be taken care of.
@@Sunlovesbangtan you need to believe that you're worth his time, money and energy. And him providing for you is actually the bare minimum.
@@garfield4882 ok as I said personal opinion
YOU DON'T CHASE YOU ATTRACT...TRUE... JUST LOVE THAT❤❤❤
Though I'm single and never going to get into a relationship. But still watching it, because I like Nimeshaa
Wow. Love everything what I heard ❤. Thank you !!!!
My first date actually went amazing even tho I was the one who planned it . Even tho the relationship didn't last long my first date was exactly how I envision it be so I am so grateful... The only advice I can give is that do what makes u happy that's the only way you are not going to regret doing it
Now you know why it didn't last long. If a man doesn't initiate plans to see you he's not that interested in you.
I liked your long hair version ❤️ than that before 2 years... It really suits u sis😍
I love how u tell exactly what I wanted to hear thank u ❤️
Ily gurllll❤ you're a good advisor
I love this, I'm a guy who just went on a date with a guy for the first time, I was so nervous someone would catch us on date that I knew
I looovveeee your perspective on being high value woman ❤
love you Nimesha, this video matches so well with my mindset 🤌✨
My date was canceled a while back ...glad I'm watching this now
Well said, but girl has to be honest and tell the true if asked
I love your message ❤️ Let men be men. In a world where men feel they can't be men cause women are equal.. Bollocks.. We love men just the way they are and treating a woman like a princess and taking her/ asking her out and paying for the date is a good thing not a bad thing.
love your advice 😘😍
2:56 bestt🤣🤣🤣
You are too good Nimeshaa❤❤❤ love you
Thanks nimeshaa Di all the rules were accurate to the point
My crush said yes to go on a date with me guys😢😢😢 if you have any do's and don'ts please let me know😚
I m seriously in love with ur thoughts ❤
❤love you nimesha !!!! Your woman arge is 🎉🎉🎉amazing
God, I wish I could relate to the privileges of young women my age and younger like you! I don't even have afamily or friends never mind a date never mind a partner!
You're so young and have achieved so much!
I cannot relate at all!
How on earth do you have it all!?
I'm still single and I feel like I'm still not ready to have a relationship or dating...But I'm watching this vedio whenever it will be helpful to me😊 Nimesha my sister you are my motivation girl...Thank you so much and love you so much💓
So pretty 😍
Girl where were you before I made a fool of myself 100 thousand times before 😳
Very well said good advice 💯👌🏻❤️
thank u nimesha ♥️
I'm actually going next week 😂kinda excited..thanks uploading ❤
Thanks for this 🥺🥺🥺
i never had a boyfriend i’m 18 lol i feel bad sometimes 😢
Bro I'm 20
@@aditisharma6951 hm. Indians m. To chlta h yr😂
I m almost 22 and still haven't gone
@@Fg45662 dude sem 💀😢
You have time..
More videos like this please 🥺👉👈❤️
Thank you Nimesha you r my favorite😍💕 one
Thank you for amazing advice
Keep shining babe❤️😘😘
Thank you ❤️😊
Love ya❤
I'm going on my date today. First date everr. I'm so nervous. I like him alot. He asked out??? How the hell do that happened idk how he asked. I thought it was just me having feelings lol. But yea. In a few hours I'm going. So I'm here. Getting tips
I'm going on my first date at 1st November, I came to rewatch... It'll help me soo much😭
Thnkuuu Thnkuuu Thnkuuu nimeshaaaa❤️
I am literary learning things for you before going on a date
The guy asked me for a meet up.. I didn't answer yes but the other day I follow up and suggest a place where we can go which is a public place... So we will meet after 2 days .
ahh why didn't you post this video one month ago. I went on a date with this guy and did everything the things that you forbade to do in this video. Lomg story short now he says he doesn't want to be with me. He says that he doesn't want to be romantically involved with me . He wants to be friends with good terms. 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂
I’m about to go on a date today!
It was a cute date
Going on my first date in 30mints 😊
2:57 ..dude i love this gurl ❤❤❤ ✨✨✨✨😂😂
Thank you for the good tips
The way you said "Split the bill" 🤣🤣🤣 OMG!!
Most needed at this time. Thanks nimeshaa ❤️
If he isn't financially stable it's fine as long as he is 100% honest??? Really girl? He don't gotta tell you none of that unless the relation ship is getting serious.
Okay but not oversharing is so important. Once I went on a date with this girl and we were having those "deep talks" ye know and then she really ended up crying and it got so awkward :/// And if ur lesbian/bi/pan/queer go ahead and ask the girl out. One of u have to and she/they might be too shy to ask so just do it LMAO.
This suggestions definately helps me in future.
But I like the sound you make " Don't do that" ❣️
Love you nimehsa, you are our Queen ❤
Lemme expose a Truth..... I'm eagerly waiting for your Video..... Btw happpy married life❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️...love from Bangladesh 🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩🇧🇩
Wow Nim ❤️🤭
2:57 minutes is 💯🔥🔥🔥🔥
'not sleep with him on the first date' - luckily for me, I will be on my period! God knows what he is doing.
I don't think you should sleep with anyone without a solid commitment.
YOU LOOK SOO SOO GORGEOUS MAN😍
Hey nimishaa... We need more dating advices from youuuuu😭😭😭😭
Pov : I have never gone on a date but I'm still here
Nim your voice just calm us sis
OMG she is such a good person ❤❤❤❤
Stick to the FORD stuff when talking family occupation recreation dreams. That would keep the first date going for hours
Congrats for going from Miss Nimeshaa to Mrs Nimeshaa .💝💝..u look more and more gorgeous...with each passing day...loads of love to u..
u r my fav gurl...❤️
Please making series on dating conversation
QUEEN ENERGY>>>>>
Wait please someone help, my first date is tomorrow. We have been talking for a week and he made a reservation for dinner tomorrow. He is picking me up from my house, he has shown interest and we have a good connection. We are meeting up for the first time tomorrow. He texts me everyday with good morning and good night, we have good communication and all, anyway my question is SHOULD WE KISS ON THE FIRST DATE
@@margeryojije7862 yes!♥️ 7 months together yesterday 🙈♥️
First 😚😚
Idk I'm just getting obsessed with yo videos 😢❤