5 Things You Should Never Do During The Talking Stage || GirlTalk

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  • Опубліковано 19 жов 2022
  • I am back with another girl talk video !
    In this video, I covered 5 things you should never do during the talking stage or before getting into a serious relationship.
    I hope these tips will help you girls!
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  • @Amy-rr9bl
    @Amy-rr9bl Рік тому +186

    Why did I see this after the fact I just did most of these 😭😭

    • @lyhouy5307
      @lyhouy5307 11 місяців тому +15

      after seeing all these type of vid now i wanna js go on n ghost him 😔

    • @dhaybarr
      @dhaybarr 11 місяців тому

      Right

    • @Notme811_you
      @Notme811_you 10 місяців тому +2

      You gave him money too 😭😂

    • @dorito3624
      @dorito3624 10 місяців тому +1

      FOR REAL 😭😭

    • @uwuloveliness9987
      @uwuloveliness9987 9 місяців тому +1

      the universe knew you weren’t going to listen, had to put salt on the wound to make you remember for next time with this video 😂

  • @Mickeymous7174
    @Mickeymous7174 11 місяців тому +174

    Notes:
    1. Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend.
    2. Do not give him gf or wife privileges
    3.Do not complain(don't give a shit)
    4. Do not prioritize him
    5. Do not talk about him to other people.

    • @hildahjohnsons
      @hildahjohnsons 10 місяців тому +6

      Thank you for this ❤

    • @leiajones852
      @leiajones852 7 місяців тому +4

      I talk about him to other ppl and I just started like checking in on him more in a way bc I want him to know I care lmao. I wouldn’t call it prioritizing but it could lead up to it in the future. I think nothings wrong with showing you’re serious about that person but hey I guess that ain’t cool these days.

    • @tempejkl
      @tempejkl 6 місяців тому +5

      as a man:
      1. Seems about right
      2. Yep
      3. You should give a shit, but not too much of a shit
      4. Yes
      5. Depends

    • @Chrzysztof
      @Chrzysztof 6 місяців тому +2

      "Do not consider or call yourself his girlfriend unless he asks u to be his girlfriend. " - horrible advice to be stuck in situationship or FWB.
      We as a man don't give a f... If you don't play "relation" card we will see and date other girls.

    • @eslileisberg
      @eslileisberg 4 місяці тому

      ​Fax@@Chrzysztof

  • @aletek205
    @aletek205 Рік тому +112

    As a male watching this I am a little bit confused….Some advice are very good : like first and last one; but you have to be very careful when you use them. The dating life for me is basically trying to do things that attract women: dress good, having a grooming and skin care routine, workout but also trying to showing intent, be funny, make her feel safe around us. And for women it basically go like this: 4:35, don’t over do it. You need to understand that mans are considerate valuable when they do a lot of things and they are very good at it, imagine having a boyfriend with a jacked body, with a solid job, that can cook, play and instrument, speak more than two languages, he has his own house, car and he keeps studying to be more acculturated and also he understands you, makes you feel safe and good with him…sounds cool right? So how you can have a man like this if you keep showing him that you don’t care or pretending you don’t care? Say no when he is trying to take you in his life (going out with his friends, ecc) or never try to meet his schedule….you are dating him, so you are interested, be genuine and show it; man like teasing, maybe two or three times, I have a lot of things to do and I am not gonna waste my time on a woman that likes to play with my time and life, I am already reserving her time so girls don’t play hard to get, he his going to disappear in one moth or less, and don’t think he does it because for him you were a girl to kiss or more for one night, he leaves you because you played hard to get. Guys will chase you that much only if you are his only thing going on in his life, and I think that is a bad thing. We like balance, we like chasing you but if you like him back show it, male are more insecure than you think and becoming confident and also valuable takes time, a lot of time, we are not going to spend it on a girl that shows no interest in us.

    • @laibamubeenali7350
      @laibamubeenali7350 Рік тому +14

      She is giving advices to girls that are not in relationship because girls overthink so much and assume so much things that aren't even real and when the reality hits or the treatment from the other person is not what they thought would be then they get hurt and that's why these advices are needed and these are not for the girls that are in a relationship for long time or atleast more than a month

    • @aletek205
      @aletek205 Рік тому +2

      @@laibamubeenali7350 yeah but she said if you want a real relationship, one month or only dating is not a real relationship....

    • @laibamubeenali7350
      @laibamubeenali7350 Рік тому +7

      By that she means if you really want to know who really wants to get serious with you because there are so many guys out there telling you that they wanna get in relationship with you and they are not even serious about that relationship it's just a time pass for them it's pretty normal so one should be cautious to not get hurt and by chasing she didn't mean to become hard to get even when the guy is damn serious, giving importance and time and etc

    • @laibamubeenali7350
      @laibamubeenali7350 Рік тому +4

      That would really be stupidity to become hard to get when someone is really making time for you making efforts for you.

    • @aletek205
      @aletek205 Рік тому +4

      @@laibamubeenali7350 as I said in my comment: the first one and the last advices are very good, I tryed to explain that you can't abuse with them, this is a video that can be very miss-interpretate in my opinion.

  • @kajalrawat7434
    @kajalrawat7434 Рік тому +166

    Hats off to her mindset, found something real and bold in this fake world🌟✨

    • @Obaid90
      @Obaid90 Рік тому +4

      That’s toxic what are you talking about

    • @leiajones852
      @leiajones852 7 місяців тому

      @@Obaid90 lmao

  • @juniordesrosiers2463
    @juniordesrosiers2463 11 місяців тому +6

    " It's easy to move on than trying fix a situation you no control over"

  • @tatamic5771
    @tatamic5771 Рік тому +16

    i dont want to brag or anything, but hear me out,
    not giving a shit is the main reason i have many admirers-
    they literally start thinking that they don't have any effect on you, and when that happens they try harder to get your attention and care back, and that's not playing hard to get or anything,
    its just like she said being mysterious and ignorant (not so much like, just be normal) so that they dont get any clues or hints on you having a crush on them, act like how you are with every other guy, normal and just go with the flow♥

    • @Marauder-eu9om
      @Marauder-eu9om 2 дні тому

      Do you think this will work after you show them you care? Like ive been talking to this guy an you're absolutely right that when we don't care they care a lot but I do have strong feelings for him but I never showed it. But recently we had a huge issue , and we stopped contacting each other, although he tried to contact me initially I didn't really respond well and I finally reached out to him after 5 days (because I didn't wanna lose him) and after that I felt that he's not really putting as much effort as he used to and this is deiving me crazy and i tried putting effort. Because I appeared so damn desperate and I feel embarrassed now. So I don't know if it's possible to get back if I pull away or stop reaching out.

  • @alexandragen888
    @alexandragen888 Рік тому +30

    I’m 34 year old over here. I wish I had someone like you to advice me when I was young. What a clever big sister you are ❤. Such a sweet personality. And I’m addicted to your videos. Never ever let anyone to dull your light.

  • @delizas1968
    @delizas1968 Рік тому +32

    It's my first time being in the 'talking' stage so I needed this thanks😭

  • @_apoorva_07
    @_apoorva_07 Рік тому +8

    "I couldn't care less about what they like or don't like" gurrrlllll😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @cirv248
    @cirv248 Рік тому +13

    Omg the advice on not complaining is top tier! ♡ thank you girl!

  • @shaheenbegum5814
    @shaheenbegum5814 Рік тому +60

    This is so helpful and its like sharing tips with our girl besties. Thanks for sharing Nimesha! You slayyy queen ✨✨

  • @josephperna2081
    @josephperna2081 11 місяців тому +4

    So many of these things are not going to get you women nowhere. She acts like she understands the male mindset. And if 4:34 wasn’t a red flag about what her mindset is like.. idk what is.. ladies seriously don’t take advice from the internet.

  • @harshita6668
    @harshita6668 Рік тому +44

    Omg Nimesha this is such an eye opener and i'm definitely gonna make sure i take care of these things in my next talking stage cus i've f'ed up pretty bad in my past ones. Love youuuu!!!💗

  • @life_goes_on_and_on
    @life_goes_on_and_on Рік тому +5

    She's the older sister we need❤️. People do address me as an independent and intelligent woman in world, books, academics, work but m an immature, inexperienced child when come to people, society, relationship, friends so this is my first step learning these things

  • @calmcatto
    @calmcatto Рік тому +5

    Bruh my ex once literally told be they were "TRYING TO LOVE ME" like bro Y TF DO U NEED TO TRY?!?! LOVING ME IS NOT HARD. I was 17 back then and I remember being heartbroken but I cut off all ties with them. Always remember ur worth. Nobody should have to try to love u. If they have to try they are NOT THE ONE!!!! LEAVE!!!

  • @bommabhargavi
    @bommabhargavi Рік тому +7

    Your video pops up right when I need it the most and coincidentally on the topic that I need the most. Loved it!! More power to you.❤️

  • @catcries
    @catcries Рік тому +22

    these gonna change my life from now on!!!! you’re the real queen 🤍 thank you sm

    • @edhaaaa
      @edhaaaa Рік тому

      Mine to. Power to us💪

  • @Krullfath
    @Krullfath 11 місяців тому +6

    Let me tell you something, men don’t want to play any fucking games or manipulative mind tricks, we just want an equal and healthy relationship in which both partners love and respect eachother. All of us need to be more straightforward and direct with eachother and express what we want, don’t like or are going to do in my humble opinion ofcourse

    • @Krullfath
      @Krullfath 11 місяців тому +1

      Although I must agree with you on the fact that you shouldn’t be making out if you guys haven’t determined what your relationship is

  • @citygirl4157
    @citygirl4157 Рік тому +6

    I literally did each and everyone of these things in our 4 MONTHS TALKING STAGE🤡🤡🤡and then he said he's not emotionally ready for a relationship

  • @Ameli481
    @Ameli481 Рік тому +9

    Omg I'm in the talking stage and i needed this so much !! Much love ❤️

  • @namjoongavemejiminsjams1284
    @namjoongavemejiminsjams1284 Рік тому +88

    I would more than love having a best friend like Nimeshaa
    She is so motivating ... so mature...so beautiful ... YOU GO GURL!!!!!
    I love you PERIODT!!!💜

  • @aross5234
    @aross5234 Місяць тому +2

    What’s funny is male dating coaches say the EXACT same thing, so we’ll just never get anywhere 😂

    • @IVvOOvVI
      @IVvOOvVI 11 днів тому

      That’s why you don’t follow those coaches

  • @anujaloganathan
    @anujaloganathan Рік тому +4

    Legit advice. Seriously amazing 👌

  • @pxllxvii
    @pxllxvii Рік тому +4

    You are more than an elder sister to me
    This girl talk is very helping want more like these.

  • @anu2694
    @anu2694 Рік тому +8

    Nimesha with long hair just wow 🥰☁️

  • @reeyasahu565
    @reeyasahu565 Рік тому +2

    this is so helpful nimesha....you are an eye opener thankyou so much❤❤

  • @chamainjayesekara5387
    @chamainjayesekara5387 Рік тому +8

    Nimesha ur a life saver girl ♥️ I needed this topic so much n got the advices .thnks love

  • @sumitracharlu1786
    @sumitracharlu1786 Рік тому +23

    Need sooo many more girl talks like these🥺❤️

  • @titi_dora1865
    @titi_dora1865 Рік тому +2

    Omg i love this kind of videos!! i love the way you see things. you're so right. more videos like this plss💞💞😜

  • @Divadrive03
    @Divadrive03 Рік тому +5

    You're getting prettier everyday💕

  • @tyeprettygirl5591
    @tyeprettygirl5591 Рік тому +3

    I love this advice 😍, I totally just subscribed ♥

  • @pastelmoon2705
    @pastelmoon2705 Рік тому +21

    i'm seriously in a talking stage😂and istg as I consider you as my sisterrr i have the same mindset like you do😂♥and thankyou once again for guiding us so well💌

  • @balasultan862
    @balasultan862 Рік тому +2

    you 're the big sis everyone wants in their loving ❤️

  • @archangelyoonah2198
    @archangelyoonah2198 Рік тому +2

    you're the big sis everyone wants in their lives...💖

  • @chrispillay7255
    @chrispillay7255 Рік тому

    Glow up brighter than the sun, the hair looks amazing on u plus d makeup too

  • @christopherrivera9154
    @christopherrivera9154 Рік тому +2

    As a guy this is true this just make you seem easy even if you ain’t you’re gonna end up getting your feelings hurt by how he’s gonna react to your behaviors

  • @certifiedsc6419
    @certifiedsc6419 Рік тому +5

    I swear this is it. I did this I completely ignored this person who was once my priority .. We used to talk daily and me literally used to press on the fact that we keep up conversation . But then I got tired and just stopped. Now he is the first person to watch all my updates within a minute everywhere on socials doesn't matter if it's important or not for him. Yes she is really speaking truth

    • @ashley684
      @ashley684 5 місяців тому

      Yes! They always start to care when we stop! Happened with my plans yesterday with this guy I’ve been seeing. He didn’t take our plans seriously up until I went and found other plans. Ain’t no body have time for all this

    • @Marauder-eu9om
      @Marauder-eu9om 2 дні тому

      So will it work if we stop reaching out? I just wanted some advise 😭 I did a big mistake of reaching out to him when he didn't. And now I feel he's taking me for granted. He's not putting the same effort he used to ever since I put the effort.

  • @bharathipalanichamy3330
    @bharathipalanichamy3330 Рік тому +113

    Is this really happening🙄🙄 Nimesha, you wouldn't believe what am gonna say. I again manifested your video to see whether the thing is really happening. Is this just a coincidence or my wish is really getting manifested🙀🙀

    • @Kaju-_-Katli
      @Kaju-_-Katli Рік тому

      Which one plz share the link

    • @shlokasuthar4969
      @shlokasuthar4969 Рік тому

      I always would think that she hasn't posted in a while n BAM he posts!

  • @fergiescherzinger
    @fergiescherzinger Рік тому +2

    ur looking so gorgeous in this video , i could watch you all day

  • @rushmanakarmi
    @rushmanakarmi Рік тому +1

    You look so beautiful nimeshaa❤️ and thank you for the suggestions

  • @pppaaattt4671
    @pppaaattt4671 13 днів тому

    I agree no manipulation here. It’s excellent advice (sometimes we need to hear) for a potential successful relationship. Just liked & subscribed.

  • @vastviktaa
    @vastviktaa Рік тому

    Okay but you look soooo beautiful in this vid!!!😭😭❤️ You’re literally glowing!❤️💅🏻

  • @shy.v3
    @shy.v3 Рік тому +10

    considering that I only attract talking stages this is so usefulll THANK YOU

  • @jinukiperera340
    @jinukiperera340 Рік тому +2

    Thank you soo much Nimeshaaa!!! Btw you look soo pretty 😍❤

  • @ties0622
    @ties0622 Рік тому +4

    Nimeshaa seriously u help a lot🖤..... Need more advices ❤️

  • @Irinnn
    @Irinnn Рік тому +3

    O la la 🔥
    Makeup looks so good on you girl ♥️

  • @rosh237
    @rosh237 Рік тому +2

    Omgg you look sooo pretty!! The glowwww😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @mysticpanda1642
    @mysticpanda1642 Рік тому +2

    Nimeshaa I’ve never met u but ur officially my bestie, older sister and guardian angel 👼 😭🫶

  • @shreyadeka17
    @shreyadeka17 Рік тому +3

    You are looking so beautiful ❤️ and your videos are always amazing ✨✨

  • @Shainigope
    @Shainigope Рік тому +10

    Nimesha your makeup was on point loved it......❤🧿🧿🧿🧿❤

  • @sumitanag6452
    @sumitanag6452 Рік тому +8

    Hlww nimeshaa ..... Pls talk about your wedding, new life,and as a married person how are you doing??? Please we are waiting for this....

  • @gracehannah5977
    @gracehannah5977 Рік тому +2

    Beauty with Brian,Love you girl, I was following you ever since I saw your Chloe Ting's 2 week shred challenge 2020, the way you grown is owesome , thankyou for the wise words love you,love from India ❤️

  • @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss
    @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss Рік тому +2

    Gurlllllllll u soooo pretty
    U get prettier every video

  • @LoneRager90
    @LoneRager90 4 місяці тому +1

    Really needed to see this video.. btw girl you are so beautiful

  • @anjalipaswan6409
    @anjalipaswan6409 Рік тому +7

    OMG Nimesha your eyes are so gorgeous 🥺❤️

  • @random-yf2hq
    @random-yf2hq Рік тому +2

    Omg why isn't anyone talking about how pretty this grl is !?

  • @edhaaaa
    @edhaaaa Рік тому +4

    This video is much needed 🤧🤍 thank u nimeeshaaa

  • @artfeine
    @artfeine Рік тому +2

    can I pls take a moment to appreciate on how freaking gorgeous she looks :( It makes me wanna look at her for hours... and this video was very very helpful, thankyou sm love

  • @sanjanamn3870
    @sanjanamn3870 Рік тому +1

    Can we appreciate how beautiful shes looking😍 Half through the video i just kept looking at her 💕

  • @btsot769
    @btsot769 Рік тому +1

    Woah look at your glow up after marriage
    You were so pretty but now you are glowing

  • @amritkaur8210
    @amritkaur8210 10 місяців тому

    I jst love the way u explain the things❤

  • @buxmaheen
    @buxmaheen Рік тому +15

    You're the best big sister anybody could ever ask for!❤️

  • @preetivrao8976
    @preetivrao8976 Рік тому +2

    nimeshaa with long hair>>>>😩🙇‍♀️💫💜

  • @indeewarimaddage8024
    @indeewarimaddage8024 Рік тому +2

    you are freaking glowingggggg girllllllllllllll

  • @roseanne_7728
    @roseanne_7728 Рік тому

    You look Stunning!!❤️

  • @DaphneWagai-nx4cc
    @DaphneWagai-nx4cc 4 місяці тому

    Omg I just love your video.its very helpful💯😍

  • @riaaaa02
    @riaaaa02 Рік тому +1

    nimmm whatttt?! youre looking soooo pretty in this video. that glowww>>>😍

  • @emaankhan5847
    @emaankhan5847 Рік тому

    Iloveyou girl ❤️🥺 thnkyou for existing.

  • @ishadi
    @ishadi Рік тому +2

    Girl has a different look now😍

  • @vasusharma1018
    @vasusharma1018 Рік тому +2

    Love this video❤️

  • @rinirajesh430
    @rinirajesh430 Рік тому +1

    i was admiring her beauty in this whole video ,she is so GORGEOUS!!🥰😍☺

  • @keerthikeerthi912
    @keerthikeerthi912 Рік тому +5

    Do a day in your life plzzzz sis💜🦋

  • @sanya144
    @sanya144 Рік тому +1

    My gooooodddd she's looking sooooo pretty 😍 💕 glowwingggggg and these long hair💯💯💯💯💫

  • @moazzamashakeel2765
    @moazzamashakeel2765 Рік тому +2

    Thissss. Omg this video is such a life savour. For someone like me who’s grown up in desi household and is fucking naive and did all of the opposites OUR BB told us. GURLS LEMME TELL YOU IM A DIFF PERSON AFTER WATCHING THIS!

  • @anshutomar9363
    @anshutomar9363 Рік тому

    Nimesha please make next video on how you visualised while listening to the height increase subliminal ,how you got the results because i am struggling with it . And what affirmations should be used to increase height in a week.
    Please 🙏🙏

  • @sarayupolisetty9475
    @sarayupolisetty9475 Рік тому +3

    OMG NIMESHAAAA...I love you gurl 💖

  • @KritJah2205
    @KritJah2205 Рік тому +1

    Gurl you're glowinggg😭❣♥

  • @artbymaanz9122
    @artbymaanz9122 Рік тому +8

    Expecting a part 2 of this 🤗

  • @life-is-here
    @life-is-here Рік тому +5

    This video provides great advice for women looking to start a serious relationship. It covers five key things to avoid before dating, and is definitely worth watching.

  • @dalinkannan7250
    @dalinkannan7250 Рік тому +2

    U go queen❤

  • @kalai4366
    @kalai4366 Рік тому +2

    Long hair suits you very well. Looking gorgeous and stunning 😍😍

  • @ilmanaw132
    @ilmanaw132 Рік тому +2

    Youuu looook damn pretty with long hair 💞❤️ do continue it

  • @vibes6878
    @vibes6878 Рік тому +2

    That newly married beauty 😍

  • @uthpalaekanayake742
    @uthpalaekanayake742 Рік тому +2

    Nimesha, can you do a video for married women as well? ♥️

  • @vibes6878
    @vibes6878 Рік тому +1

    You look so beautiful after marriage like that snack wifey goals

  • @AditiTanwar
    @AditiTanwar Рік тому

    Girl, you are so beautiful. KEEP THOSE LONG HAIR!!

  • @someone.313
    @someone.313 Рік тому +1

    OMG Nimeshaa!!!! girl, you are really looking gorgeous. You are gorgeous already, but trust me you are looking way more gorgeous than before. Honestly, I could not get my eyes off you 😍♥️♥️

  • @tahminaakhter6748
    @tahminaakhter6748 Рік тому

    OMG this is really helpful

  • @bhavi.k
    @bhavi.k Рік тому

    THIS STYLE !! i cannot stress it enough nimesha this makeup this look this whole aura its just wow plus speaking facts and great advice just cheffs kiss fr 😭❤❤.

  • @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss
    @Vvvvvvvvvssssssssssssss Рік тому

    I really really love ur girl talk videos

  • @priyankasinha3978
    @priyankasinha3978 Рік тому

    Ayyiiii!!! You're looking so pretty! 👀💕

  • @anchalbehera3752
    @anchalbehera3752 Рік тому +1

    You are looking really beautiful Nimesha❤

  • @rashmika4082
    @rashmika4082 Рік тому +3

    Your long hair soo beautiful sis ❤

  • @manonita__basak
    @manonita__basak Рік тому +1

    Ok so after marriage u really look mature n gorgeous.. Long hair sits really well on u

  • @Rajeshkumarsharma1910
    @Rajeshkumarsharma1910 Рік тому

    Her mindset is so good yaar

  • @zarmeen971
    @zarmeen971 Рік тому +3

    Hey gurl....we need a Q n A video about the whole story that how your wedding gone ....the new life with hubby....your new hair ...... everything ..... please make a Q n A video ....by the way you look so beautiful 😍😍😍💝💝💝💝

  • @vi_10
    @vi_10 Рік тому +1

    girl you look so beautiful I can't stop seeing you through the whole vedio and the audio is just running in the back you're looking just gorgeous 🥰😍

  • @kppu_0
    @kppu_0 Рік тому +2

    today you glow 🌟 gallll 🌻

  • @Kirti_bhardwaj
    @Kirti_bhardwaj Рік тому +2

    You have my heart ♥️♥️

  • @chithirapradeep3510
    @chithirapradeep3510 Рік тому

    Omgg!!! I love u girl!!