Get A Player To Fall Inlove With You
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Best thing to do when meeting player is step away, cut contact and move on to find true love where theres no games.
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There is nothing like true love honey
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You not gonna know who a player is a who a lover boy is honey 😂
My mental health is more important than dealing with a player if i spot u.
Yup!!! Dunno why anyone wants to be with a player. Its dangerous to preach that toxic shit. You should want someone more mature. Players are called players for several solid reasons
Exactly, this chick is a psychopath playing with fire. Just don’t date players ……
Bravo ❤
I agree @@saijanaswamy7210
The purpose behind this video is to show how you can play them so they can get a taste of their own medicine. Its not for you to date them lol.
A player will always cheat down the line, you can act like an interesting mysterious queen and have them fall in love but its the nature of the beast, their ego will still want attention from other women.
Exactly 👏🏽
That’s why the the video is titled PLAY the player, not MARRY the player.
@@Nimeshaa Why bother changing for him to fall in love with you if you know he is a player? Why waste your time! Just move on and find someone that is respectable.
@@danielle912but they say men are only as faithful as their options so unless they are very unattractive they all cheat.
@@peekaboots01 Who are they? I never heard of this. its not true whoever made that one up.
Players are weak, low, vibrational, and negative energy if its easy, you should not want its gross that is childish and immature A balanced, high vibrational man is a manogomous man who will say no and stay respectful and has manors husband material or manogomous relationship material
That’s right it’s always very dense energy when games are involved…
Totally wasted of time a pure toddler.
Can't believe I did all of that unintentionally😂without anyone telling me all of this cause I used to be too busy studying and being indulged with my other work and hobbies... it's all about being YOU and focusing on YOU.
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Yes! Be open but not pressed. If a guy suggests a date that doesn’t interest you, stay home.
Exactly ❤️❤️❤️
@@rickimcfarland2269100% 👌
Yes😂 Exactly that's me🙌
If a man is acting like a player towards you he doesn’t want you. Women can come up with a full list on “how to play a player” but can’t use common sense/discernment to move on from a man that doesn’t like you like that so you don’t get your feelings hurt. People need to heal before they date others so this man vs. women bs can end. Enough is enough already.
Agreed! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I'm gonna be that person and say: don't waste your time or breath chasing after a player. I dealt with them my whole life. Not worth you dating or being in relationship with 😊
My mindset was just like you I dated him and played as he played with me but I was all drained mentally and emotionally injured. Later I manifested a mature guy who now respect me and very loving. You become what you think. So stop playing around instead focus on gour growth and loving yourself.
You spoke well... Game damage mental health to the both.. Game is an invented way in which ones with interior motive use in getting what they want.. Desist from those relationships
Trust me you do NOT want a player to fall in love with you. Once that initial high wears off for him, he will play you. Chasing women is something much much deeper than you and his love for you. If you come across a player, do yourself a favor and save years of your life by moving on. It’s not worth it at all, doesn’t matter how attractive or any good qualities you see in him. Your self respect, mental health and physical health (he can literally give you an STI) is worth 1000x more.
The player is not worth the energy. Just ignore him, and forget about him.
Players only love you when they’re playing. Players bore too easily because they themselves are boring. Stop wasting your time with these boy toys.
I found it interesting that she said " this is about players and NOT good men"... Ladies, why is anyone interested in a man who you can clearly tell is not a good man? The world is full of narcissists and psychopaths and if one can identify them early then the best policy is to avoid them.. What is the end goal of this game?
Exactly my thoughts. The moment I notice he is a player I block them altogether. No explanations, nothing (don't need to prove who I am to someone who is interested to play with me) I don't want to waste time and energy on them even if it is to taste their own medicine. I don't want to have such people part of my reality.
I am interested in finding a good man, that's my focus.
I think we should play the player because once a while a player came into my life and he played with my feelings I was so innocent to understand these minds game at that time but after getting hurt break I realized I was played and he just wants to use me
And now I faded feelings for him in my heart but I also play and now he treats me better way and respects me more than before.. I'm enjoying this
In my most recent case - he had that rizz and that energy that just sucked me in and drained my DRY! I could see it and knew what was happening, but I couldn't do ANYTHING about it. And when he got tired of playing with me, he dumped me - and here I am, once again, in shattered pieces! Yep, I know my value and my worth and all of that. Typically, decent self esteem. I don't know wtf happened!
@@SB-tc2jr Trauma Bonding and you probably have CPTSD like many of us if this is a pattern. These people are predators and they use a common play book. Sometimes you have to tell your heart that the brain is in charge. Its hard as they are charming devils.
@@bethaminkhan4951 CPTSD... I knew about PTSD, but not complex. So, ya. That probably fits! And you are absolutely right "charming devil"... TRUTH! Thing about it is, I KNEW things - but it's like I couldn't make myself make right choices! I felt like I was under a damn spell !!! Seriously!!!
You don't play a player, you avoid them.
If you play player, you will became player. And you can play for rest of his life. I guess that this work just for People who wants to be actors. I am not interested in players and they still love me and want me. Because best way is ignoring them.❤😂
Girl yes...the satisfaction of hurting a player was sooo good! I did exactly everything he did to me...became busy and treated him hot and cold. I didn't give him any validations (act like whatever and was not impressed) Kept the conversation short and went on for days without replying back. Well he came back a year later....chased me at a grocery store for my number again. Texted me and I left him on read did not even bother replying back 😂 he will forever be in the nas line. He thought he got me again but nope he will never get that chance ever again hahaha
Luv that for you!
Hahahahahahah girlll i did the same and he is super angry at me now
honey move on and heal . you will attract a good man . in my pov this is the perfect mindset for women who waana attract players only. No hate to nimeeshaaa i adore her.
Truly, all that she says is very tiring. Literally, just leave him. What she does is reverse desperation because she is still spending all of her energy pretending to be a "boss bitch." At the end of the day.....she still doesn't have a good man. Lol! I wouldn't even ever give "players" the time of day to "play" with me to begin with. Only women who want to "play a game" do all of this extra stuff which still requires a lot of energy....which also has a sense of desperation to it.
I loved the way she casually carried on applying her lipstick which being a girl bestie who is ready for us to give advices.
Love you Nimeshaa.🙌💫
Ladies don't play the players don't waste your time, life is short,make good with the worthy one, i would strongly say don't settle for players in your lives, life is beautiful when you get a man who is decent yet full of values, love, care and respect. Decent men are the most attractive cuz they are not playing with people's hearts❤ and who plays hence called as player so decide would you fall for such player who lacks value system and life !??
If the guy is a player and you drag a date and you try to make him jelous his idea of you is going to change and since is a player he will move on as easy as 1234
Is not all about playing someone , it also taught me to be hard to get not just seem Hard to get... respect yourself and be busy building your personality and your life not just play like your busy
Not good content for young girls. Once you HEAL and cultivate self love you won’t DARE want to deals with a player, seek his love or validation. You’d have too much self respect to tolerate it. Move on
Thank you
This is true ❤
GHURLLLLLLLLL, IM DYING FOR THIS TYPAAAA CONTENT LIKE EUUGHHH
I did this to one boy but now he is playing back.. i didn't intentionally did it. I was not so sure of his feelings towards me.. finally im fallen into tht i think now i deserve better than him in all ways and he deserve better than me too so im trying my best to move on soon.. sumtimes i cant resist the urge to talk with him.. i must prioritize my self respect self dignity self discipline self love for which he was obsessed towards me..
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Gurl, u should start a podcast ❤🎉
youre my fav youtuber!!! love ya
Yoooo...your videos are frr a source of practicality which we need to survive in this harsh world...since many days due to final exams I was unable to watch your videos but Imma binge all after my exams hehe...lovee uhhh frrr
Hi girly, i love your videos, they've helped me so so freaking much ❤❤❤ love you, i wish you all the best🎉🎉
❤Honestly, playing a player is foolsgold, because somewhere along the line their wanderlust sparks a flame and they'll be cheating on you. You cannot hold onto a player, even when they purport to love you.
Ladies, this video applies to most men that you are interested in. Not just players. Sadly we do have to do all this stuff to a certain degree for most men in the early stages especially
girl is so beautiful, following you since 2020 and i love growing with you and seeing you glowup and get more beautiful everydayy ❤
Looks like lot of hard work for just a guy (who is a player). I would ignore him and be with a normal man and focus on my work. Nobody can play this game for more than a year or 2.
It just happened to me and I am no spring chicken - he has been doing this for 25 years.
I find some value in this even if I would avoid saying that I want to go back to hurt people who hurt me (cause sometimes it's not worth it) BUT, these are tools of protection, as well. People in the comments like "I won't waste my time playing with a player"... yeah yeah, really? So many times you'll run into these fuckers and won't even notice how attracted you are to them until you're already lost. If you never think on how to respond to these kind of men you'll probably just get run over by them. Humbling these people is GREAT. Not to get them. Not to date them. Most of this is just very much needed protection from men who just don't care about you at all. Just DON'T do it to get love. Learn some tools for when you realize they're trying to do it to you and don't waste too much time. Don't get fooled. Learn.
ı really feel like playing hot and cold is toxic
Great video queen! Agree with all your points!!!!
A player can't fall for you. It's a player. A player playing with another player will give you a game.
Remove yourself from the game....then there's no game. It takes two to play..
@@priyamadhoo7266 Don't worry for me, I am neither masochist nor stupid. I don't feel concerned by this video.
A player like this will end up alone for sure ....a true lover
doesn't understand and tolerate such nonsense
i hve always gotten played by many so called MEN bcuz of my caring nature. So, tq for this i just got played a few days back again. SO TQSM for this Nimesha.
it feels so horrible... especially bc you have good intentions with them and see who they are behind that facade they put up. But don't be sad queen! good people attract good people, i bet there's someone who will know how to cherish you right from the start
I love ur videos ❤ it helps me a lot
I hope this works ! 😭 I feel like I'm too nice for my own good sometimes and want to be sexy & more mysterious, not look desperate. Thanks for the tips ;)
OMG Nim!! ❤ Love your hair ❤️
You just knew what i needed!!!
Yes girl u spot on right. And I love ur hair
Nimesha plz start making vidios on how to be high value women , Mostly young girls dont know what to do or what not to do how to present herself in front , so they can understand by your experience because you explain so good
Gurl, don't worry I've got you!
You go to the search bar and type , "How to really be high valued women by tam kaur". Trust me on this, she's like an elder sister who's helping us. Her videos are the best!
I really loved this video Nimeshaa❤️Thanks for it 😊
Wow this is soo amazing, thankyou a whole lot Nimeshaa! Even am gonna be a smartie girl like you and have the time of my life! ❤🎉🥳😎
I need this topic a one video for every week nimesha because you are only healed me for played by every boy 😢😢😢
A player always have a pretty big ego and they always think they can get anyone they want and they become furious if they face rejection of any kind . Most of them become obsessed when they're interested but you don't give in (most of them like to chase) . Once you know they're obsessed and confess their feelings for you turn them down in the sweetest way (in a way they can't spread s*it bout you nor they can blame you . If they guilt drip you do it back to them in an innocent way so that they won't feel like they succeeded. Just act like you dk anything what they mean and look at how they turn out 🤭 and darling don't make the mistake of falling for a player because once a player is always a player. Take care pookies ❤️
U looking sooo.. ahh i have no words to explain how u are lookin.. and u are literally giving so much more positive vibe todayyyyy!!!
Playing the player to fall in love with you only makes then want to get close to you to understand your charm not to genuinely love you.
Thank you so much for this i need this
Youre the best!!!!❤
You got a new subscriber sis❤ after watching this video I became your fan😊
I love your honesty ❤thank you
What about rule no. 6 don’t sleep with him too early in the relationship. Don’t give up the goods fast!!
Or do
He’s not worth a relationship
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Loved it!!❤️
everything ur saying its soo true, Thank you!❤
I was doing at first then become emotional now back to me again. ❤
No more played by anyone, prevention is better than cure. 😊
Omg girl you are too right.. before watching this video i understand 3-4 things about players and now i know it all .. can't thank you enough for this. Take love ❤
❤❤❤love ur advices! Very useful!
You just ate frfr 😊
Youre looking stunning ❤🔥🦋
great advice. love you. this has always worked for me. i am naturally detached and mysterious. hard to get rid of them. with that being said why work so hard to win the heaet of a player. i think bre yourself so the right one will stop by you and hold your hand.
i loved this! tysmmm
Omg u look so gorgeous❤
Players are insecure .
Becoming a player to play a player , to prove a point, is insecure .
If someone plays you , draw it up to experience , explore how you played a part in it , for example not having strong boundaries, jumping in too soon and use the experience to grow and learn from .
Good luck ladies , players gonna play but you can learn to identify them and run the fuck away 😉
yes girl you speak truth thank you Xx
Woah I needed this ❤
Hi 👋 this is your new subscriber..!! I have started to work on my height after watching your video , its really good. But i have one doubt 😅 do we decrease or reduce back when we stop working on our height????
Reallly uhhhhh slayyyyy queen 👑💖
Love yaaaaa nimeshaa ❤
Girl I love this message
I just followed you hahah amazing tips!
Well for me.,a player has also a chance to be a better person when they've met a good and a unique woman in their lives to inspire and motivate them because,a player or a narcissist man is able to change their behaviour by a empath woman. Because, they are lack of empathy in their childhood maybe from their parents or family member, which is they're finding someone who can understand and love them unconditionally. that's why they're behaving like this.. perhaps,if they were met someone who suitable for them, they'll be grateful towards that someone as well as their partners in life for good.
I think I needed this 😂 gotta win this game gurllll
You go girl.. nimisha always rocks
Love u so much srsly love u so much i loved each and every freaking in advice thankkk u so so u much
tHANK YOU Nimmie.....your advise is 100% true..LOve u so much
Hey amazing girl u nailed it. ❤❤❤❤
Agree with you💯. Thank you so much❤
We need more kinds of videos like this nimu baby ❤
Yess finally..... Loved it sis❤
you are the bestttt❤❤❤❤❤❤
this girl slays
You earned a subscriber ❤
❤ yess ma’am
Is true. Just ghost them and no contact. They worry and cannot wait to see you.
Luv it 🤤💓💕
you’re like the older sister I’ve always wanted ❤️
Omg,I love this girl
This was much needed
Great video! I really want to try the Patrick Ta.
Very good advice ⚘
Haha this was a riot! Bravo sis! 💕
girllll i needed this video in august 2023 T_T...
I have a different technique. I feed their ego and make him feel more wanted and needed than anyone else. I’ll worship him and also drop him at the drop of a dime. The inflated ego that I create in him can’t handle the cold sudden drop. And I mean it no games is who I am. I’ll give him my all today and tomorrow he doesn’t exist and he can’t handle.
And you are proud of doing those things.... 🤢🤮
I’ve done that before too
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Love you! ❤️ I wish I had heard this five years ago. Yep, I got played like a Fidel.
It's funny I do all this stuff naturally. I'm not a player though, just highly selective.
And I humble men and if I spot a player, I do these things out of self-protection.
They always end up thinking I'm playing "hard to get" not realizing there's no game. I am hard to get.
If I spot bullshit, you can't have me.
I had one guy write all over the front of my apartment sidewalk. Guys have cried to me, over me, I've gotten love letters, one guy wrote me a song and put it on youtube.
Guess what? If you're a player, no thank you 🙏🏽
The pulling away is very real, not a mind game.
Loved it!
I'm in the first minute of the video and I love you already ❤❤❤ and now let's continue the video 😁😜
Gurl I wish you uploaded this SOONER😭😭😭😭😭