Re-Parenting - Part 19 - Motives

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  • Опубліковано 18 лис 2024

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  • @DonTwanX
    @DonTwanX 2 роки тому +20

    Such amazing content. Needs more views! More folks need this healing info. I can see complex trauma everywhere after the education I’ve received from Tim’s insights.

  • @catherinewilson1079
    @catherinewilson1079 Рік тому +8

    Mr Fetcher you are an awesome teacher; thank you!

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 2 роки тому +11

    Honesty, Integrity and Trust are the most important values that show how you love! Words and actions need to match

  • @dnk4559
    @dnk4559 Рік тому +12

    I wish I had understood so much of this sooner in life. Better late than never though!

  • @truthministry7462
    @truthministry7462 11 місяців тому +2

    Deep powerful study

  • @skjelm6363
    @skjelm6363 5 місяців тому +1

    Very important point and connection and... helps a lot!
    Thank you for all your information you bring up here for free!

    • @skjelm6363
      @skjelm6363 5 місяців тому

      in addidtion: I figured out with that new perspective, that I felt guilty when I found out about the motives of the other, kind of I am the failure to keep the love and I am the "destroyer" (I am kind of, but in a good/protecting me way). But to split love from motives helps a lot even to look at my own.

  • @Spritual-life-lessons
    @Spritual-life-lessons 7 місяців тому +2

    God bless you for all you do, I have learned that my anger which was always underneath and eating me like a leech was actually mask for the shame I had faced being a child, my mistake was that I born as a GIRL child in a society where girls are burden and lower species then men.
    So many things and so much inside that it literally crushed my soul like u crush a cigarette bud with your foot once you are done smoking.

  • @michaelgarrow3239
    @michaelgarrow3239 8 місяців тому +1

    It’s ok to be motivated to help yourself. It is self love.
    And you need to protect yourself- many people just like hurting others.

  • @alexandrugheorghe5610
    @alexandrugheorghe5610 2 роки тому +2

    28:16 yep. My father was unaware of his motive(s) and often my mother too.

  • @maranata693
    @maranata693 8 місяців тому +1

    many many many thanks for this great content ❤️you help me to get healed from my depression and difficult childhood 😢

  • @Dduhan
    @Dduhan Рік тому +1

    Tim you are amazing .. kind regards from london

  • @alexandrugheorghe5610
    @alexandrugheorghe5610 2 роки тому +1

    8:44 yep. My father and mother right there. 🎯

  • @bevsofroniuk1193
    @bevsofroniuk1193 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Tim! I appreciated your talks.

  • @haidyyousif2125
    @haidyyousif2125 7 місяців тому

    ❤ Thank You. Tim
    Your Content is My leveling up bridge.

  • @Lion-1.
    @Lion-1. 2 роки тому +2

    Another great video 👍

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 2 роки тому +4

    A Narcissist uses people to get their source of supply like sex, money, time without reciprocity or mutuality

  • @ChrisOgunlowo
    @ChrisOgunlowo 5 місяців тому

    Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @RonBaker456
    @RonBaker456 7 місяців тому

    To act like there isn't always a self serving agenda is to allow myself to be made a slave of my blindness to the ignorance within my own belief system.

  • @luxi590
    @luxi590 4 місяці тому

    I don't think you can give with no strings attached, there always are conditions. If you give to an adult, it needs to respect your boundaries, that is a condition. There cannot really be love without the string of trust.

  • @rorrschach8339
    @rorrschach8339 8 місяців тому +1

    I am not a good person, I'm just terrified of being a bad person.

  • @tearthangel373
    @tearthangel373 2 роки тому +2

    TRUST equals SAFeTY

  • @cynthiacoutu3782
    @cynthiacoutu3782 2 роки тому +2

    I am trying to pay the membership with a prepaid credit card ..... and I does not work ? I do not understand why .... if anyone has an explanation please message me 😊 Thanks

  • @mariaolsrud7346
    @mariaolsrud7346 2 роки тому

    As christians we are called to give our lives for the truth (others), as a servant. When you have that as a motive Jesus will protect you.

    • @jolaola1987
      @jolaola1987 8 місяців тому

      I don't understand that bit with "truth(others)" what does that mean ?

  • @VeraCatlett
    @VeraCatlett 6 місяців тому

    Motive come from psychoanalysis. It is cortex function

  • @pushkinalex
    @pushkinalex 7 місяців тому +1

    Can anyone point out to more resources on actual healing bot just diagnosing

  • @TheAptimn
    @TheAptimn Рік тому

    They are not exactly lies. It's just that they it's no such thing as happiness, just like there is no such thing as Santa. But there are pleasant moments that, if accumulate, result into pleasant periods of time.

  • @Maruzzela-l1u
    @Maruzzela-l1u 7 місяців тому

    For everyone who follows Esthers story .i was thinking ..when some say no no women were never 2nd class citizens...😂right ..i mean the queen could b killed by her husband just for wanting to initiate talking .The point is not that he could kill her despite being the queen but the fact that if he could so easily kill his wife then what does that say abt the relationship

  • @idoracruzinofre2882
    @idoracruzinofre2882 2 роки тому +1

    How can we trust everyone if they keep on hacking people FACEBOOK ACCOUNT, Facebook page and Google account reason why it's really to hard to trust everyone we really need to pick someone we can trust because just like what's happening to me that even my identity been using by someone else