0:20 In a similar situation, when they make it about *you* (like, you can’t handle the mountain of work they gave you, or, you can’t handle the abuse they doled out) when it’s *their* behavior that’s the problem, if you do not take “you” out of it, the entire issue will continue to be seen (by all involved or who will be involved in the future) as being about *you,* that you’re the problem. So, by removing yourself from it by *not* saying “I can’t do the amount of work you gave me in 2 hours time” or “I can’t deal with the abusive way you spoke to me” , but rather the way Dan explains, you prevent all people involved in this from seeing it as *you* being the problem. Don’t allow that when it’s not you who caused the problem.
Hey Dan, Can you make a video on how to deal with people who try to emasculate you? It can be other jealous men at workplace or even your girlfriend. When someone tries to bruise your male identity, it's not easy to deal with those emotions of humiliation at that moment. Bruised ego can take your confidence down and can also destroy your mental peace & personal relationships. Please make a video on how to deal with this. Merry Christmas!
Hey im sick of being disrespected and discrimated agianst employees at sheetz/wawa. They literally stop the christmas songs to play no scrubs. I guess i surrender i am scrub but what does that make the less fortunate than me? I Surrender i guess im a scrub.
That this has been going on for months. I just returned home from a trip. That i have made multiple reports to the establishment. That to no avail it still continues. Its been so bad reported it to the white house they refferred me to OSHA and OSHA only works with the employee not the customer. WHAT DO?
You find a place of employment where you are valued and respected. It appears this will be impossible where you are now. Making reports to the establishment that is also making the rules will not help you. It's like going to HR. HR works for the company--not you. QUIT.
0:20 In a similar situation, when they make it about *you* (like, you can’t handle the mountain of work they gave you, or, you can’t handle the abuse they doled out) when it’s *their* behavior that’s the problem, if you do not take “you” out of it, the entire issue will continue to be seen (by all involved or who will be involved in the future) as being about *you,* that you’re the problem.
So, by removing yourself from it by *not* saying “I can’t do the amount of work you gave me in 2 hours time” or “I can’t deal with the abusive way you spoke to me” , but rather the way Dan explains, you prevent all people involved in this from seeing it as *you* being the problem. Don’t allow that when it’s not you who caused the problem.
😂😂😂😂😂 I'm going to start getting my glasses off mid sentence
Great tips to use in a troubling situation! Thanks Dan.🎉🎉
Thank you for these videos! I love them!
I'm glad you found them helpful! :)
I need these scripts etched in my brain. Thank you!
That was beautifully done. Thank you for the video it was definitely well needed.
Putting this into action straightaway! Thank you.
Exactly what I need, thank you ❤
Amazing and smart way..
Amazing thank you I was laughing because seems like an iphone 3 was used to record thus 😂
Merry Christmas Dan, I hope you get everything you want for Christmas 🎄 😉 💋 💋
Merry Christmas to you too!
You are so good
Hey Dan, Can you make a video on how to deal with people who try to emasculate you? It can be other jealous men at workplace or even your girlfriend. When someone tries to bruise your male identity, it's not easy to deal with those emotions of humiliation at that moment. Bruised ego can take your confidence down and can also destroy your mental peace & personal relationships. Please make a video on how to deal with this. Merry Christmas!
Will do.
Poetic 😆
Where it should be,...🙃
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I am disrespected when mentioning repeatedly about toxic perfume perfume .
That's a tough one. START SNEEZING and mention allergies. Let me know if that works.
what if you don't see a consequence for them, you are just annoyed
"... that you would risk being an annoyance by ..."
@@launderedcotton8070 and I am some factor in their life, so they care about my annoyance ;)
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Hey im sick of being disrespected and discrimated agianst employees at sheetz/wawa. They literally stop the christmas songs to play no scrubs. I guess i surrender i am scrub but what does that make the less fortunate than me? I Surrender i guess im a scrub.
That this has been going on for months. I just returned home from a trip. That i have made multiple reports to the establishment. That to no avail it still continues. Its been so bad reported it to the white house they refferred me to OSHA and OSHA only works with the employee not the customer. WHAT DO?
You find a place of employment where you are valued and respected. It appears this will be impossible where you are now. Making reports to the establishment that is also making the rules will not help you. It's like going to HR. HR works for the company--not you. QUIT.
@@TheWizardOfWords Thank you
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