Jealous what an insult lol!! We are never jealous of others but rather the opposite we attract a lot of jealous envious people which piss's us off!! Empaths genuinely want the best for others and expect the back in return!
Eatmoverest .We don’t all want something in return..Sometimes we give just to give...Sometimes I give money to a homeless person..it does make me feel good but I’m not about to take them home..
Lol. You just contradicted yourself when you mentioned your expectation of receiving in return what you give out. That is by definition jealousy. To give without expectation is true selflessness.
@@CBourn48223 You can't expect anything in return, but you kinda know it will come. Probably in the form of an unexpected blessing u could never fathom, usually not $ Check out Emmanuel Kant, really profound on this, Morality; every person is an end to themselves, etc.
I am an INFJ and HSP. No matter how bad my life is, I will never be jealous of other people's success and happiness. My problems are my problems and have nothing to do with other people. I also don't hate others. Hate is a very strong word.
Yes, why even hate anyone!! We live our own life and make our on decisions. I personally don't dislike anyone and if they say something that I don't like; I would simply treat them accordingly. It's best to avoid toxic people at all cost.
@@krhervey441 I don't know if I can understand what you wrote, because I need to use Google Translate (sorry for my low level of English). The more I think about these questions, the less certainty I have. Sometimes I feel like moving away from some people, but this feeling is transitory and I think I actually feel like trying to understand them, because if a person arouses the desire for you to move away from them, they may cause that feeling. in other people too. If everyone walks away from her, there will be no one to try to help that person deal with the complexity of their emotions. Sometimes a toxic person may carry trauma, some level of insecurity, some difficulty understanding their emotions. Am I so superior as to throw the first stone? I think each of us carries good and bad things within ourselves and I think we face good and bad phases in our lives. If you have had the misfortune to meet someone who is not at his or her best, when you walk away you may not be lucky enough to keep up with your progress when better days are coming. I'm not trying to say that your choice to get away from people who don't do you good is the wrong choice, but the way I see things makes that choice not so simple for me. Thank you for sharing your point of view. I wish the best for you.
@@blogoosfera I only was only saying that I don't hate or I'm not jealous of anyone nor I don't envy their lives. I'm only in competition with myself and I have zero tolerance for toxic people in my circle.Only wrote as simple as possible to avoid an essay like this one.......An expression of my point of view.
1. You don't feel rested when u wakeup. 2. You feel something is wrong, but u just cannot tell. 3. You often space out. 4. ppl around u can drain or annoy u. 5. All emotions are intensified. 6. You feel a profound sense of loneliness. 7. You are physically exhausted. 8. You are emotionally vulnerable n constantly hitting rock bottom. 9. Your mind is filled with negativity. I had been feeling this alllllllll my life...I really feel lk staying away from ppl for as long as I can...
this is also plain old autism. most autistics are targets because of who we are and they can never be us. we are empaths, clairvoyant, use ESP and out of body experiences. Everything we were taught is "witchcraft" and "wrong" is exactly what we are. and they are terrified of us so they tell us we are retarded.
Positive vibes going out to everybody who has found themselves here. Same as a lot of you I'm exhausted. I stopped watching most news for the last three years as I found it was crushing me and was too much for me to take on whilst I was trying to build myself back up. After over a decade of narcissistic abuse I have cut out all " friends" who I realised just were not on the same wavelength as me, the takers in life. They are gone now. I've moved home and now I'm surrounded by nature..I find the sun, moon, flora and fauna all help me. I'm slowly getting back and my feeling of calm is returning. As a result I do feel very constricted in crowds and find I'm exhausted after being around people. I love people but I realise certain types of people have no place in my space. Wishing all of you the very best. As for the Jealousy(9) I've never been jealous of people I compete only with myself to do better. I did hate my ex for a while but it was as a result of pain and hurt. It was more out of the disbelief that humans can be totally cruel....it goes against everything for me and i hated how cruel and evil a person could be. Now I feel the universe will take care of everything and whatever we attract is on us...basically that no deed goes unpunished/ rewarded. That being said I have let go of the anger etc. Peace and light to you all. Xx
Definitely right bout your choose , empath just to heal with fixing itself and grounding to the earth cause actually only by God , nature , animal we're absord and get pure love energy .
It bothers me when I feel for other people and want a stronger friendship but they don’t feel the same for me. I used to put a lot of energy toward people but would get nothing in return. I think #9 is when your at your breaking point and you just don’t care anymore. I have at times felt jealous wishing I have a connection with people or just 1 person. But being around a group of people is exhausting for me. I’m at the point now I’m content with myself and have found some happiness within myself and it was very hard for me in the beginning. You can’t rely on other people for your happiness.
Wow, same here! I've genuinely taken an interest in people only to end up discarded and alone after they've taken all they want from me. It hurts, deeply. Recently, I joined a new church with the hope of making friends, but no one seems to like me or even need my friendship (I'm kinda chuckling at this as I just read it, even though it hurts). After so many disappointments and being used (I'm good enough to set up the church welcome table, make the coffee, set up the chairs, etc but not good enough for friendship - SMH) I recently decided to start going for myself w/no expectations of fellowship/friendship. It's terrible because that isn't how the church is supposed to be, but for my own peace of mind and integrity I must accept it this way.
@@wk1810 I’m sorry to hear that. And so long for me to reply. I just saw your message. How are you now? I’m sorry to hear about church. If anything I would think they would help you? If you ever want to chat or email me I’m ok with that. Sometimes it’s hard for me too. But we all need some love and support. ❤️
Same I used to hang around people only to realize they weren’t there for me at my lowest point This is when I stopped caring and decided to be friends with my closets ones who cares for me Friend Groups are toxic maybe
@@ulayee9927 lol. Its difficult when you sense others too much, I just have never had a good way of dealing with these issues. Its exhausting. I end up staying more at home without friends.
T Rex - gee, not sure what happened to me. I used to be out there giving advice to other empaths like myself, on how to deal with unwanted energetic intrusions. I have a whole bag of tricks to use. And yet I too got tired and am pretty much withdrawn from society right now. And even that seems not enough. No amount of distance will help. I have lots of family across Atlantic. I always know when they think about me, and especially when the thinking is not very pleasant. 😂😂
@@ulayee9927 Sounds like me. I work from home as a programmer. I love people but its draining. The best lesson Ive learned is how to simply accept and not judge people. In general, accepting people has made my life much happier. And have more fun and not be so hard on my self. I am here on earth to help others. Knowing what people think of me helps me grow and improve my self. I just need to get past the initial reflex and accept the possibility that they are really trying to help. But in general I like communicating with people that get it.
If you're going to do that you have to have at least one person who is not an empath and a beacon of positivity and keep the group small that will allow people to recharge.
Starts at 1:10. 1. You don't feel rested when you wake up. 2. You feel something is wrong, but you can't describe it. 3. You often space out. 4. People can drain or annoy you. 5. All emotions are intensified. 6. You feel a profound sense of loneliness. 7. You're physically exhausted. 8. You're emotionally vulnerable. 9. Your mind is filled with negativity.
And now I don’t have to watch it. Thank you! I’m at 1:37 and getting terribly exhausted from following that hand with sharpie running through my screen all the time.😂😂🤣🤣
I agree with most of them except number 9. I don't hate people or feel jealous if good things are happening to them. It is the exact opposite. If they are happy, then I am happy. I feel their emotions and it makes me happy to see them so joyful. It's a win-win for everybody!
I was thinking the same thing about #9, but then was wondering if that is basically the last step before you break. As an empath, the thought of being jealous like that of others' happiness horrifies me as it is the exact opposite of what I would normally feel. I too am always seeking a win-win for everyone...and agreed with all the others 100% It was actually hard but therapeutic to hear/see the feelings all laid out. Like the video said, it is hard to explain how we are feeling and they were expressed well in this video.
I can understand the 9th point. People around me seem to enjoy being helped and encouraged, but shut off when I need it. And usually you’re able to keep things positive & peaceful for others, but it hurts when they don’t or can’t do it for you. I’ve felt the feeling of rejection rather than jealousy. Or like I must not fit in this world because of how ‘overly emotional’ I am. Y’all can probably tell I’m going through it right now, by my long as paragraph lol.
Life is becoming more and more draining! Years ago helping others was invigorating but now it is taxing! It is a sign of the division between good and evil is widening...may our Creator bless all empaths struggling with exhaustion!
This is the story of my life! I've been 'Broken' since I was 25 yrs old, that was in 1999, I'm still struggling everyday despite the 'help' I've had. Being so overly sensitive & able to feel others pain as well as my own is crippling for me. I get jealous of people who don't feel what I have to go through, I'd love to wake up & feel rested etc, etc.
I've felt this for the past 3 years....I meet with a healer 2 years ago and explained the feeling of "Something is wrong, but I can't figure out WHAT"!....SHE SAID I was picking up all the emotions of people around me.....I'm stilling feeling this way and have a tough time trying to relax and rest my soul.....Just not happening..
Check out some videos on narcissistic abuse. I’ve found out what has made me feel this way. You won’t believe it has happened to you. If that’s what it is...
Interchange ‘jealous’ for ‘isolated’ or ‘disconnected’ and I think this was pretty spot on! I rarely feel jealousy, just that awareness that others treat or react to circumstances in ways I can’t draw support from 🤷🏼♀️
I'm an empath and I feel extremely saddened whenever I see someone being unjustly treated... It just keeps me thinking about their problem & pain , making scenerios in my head of what I could do to help them out even in matters that are beyond my control... And all the time spent from feeling and thinking about their pain really builds up pressure in my own work...
I come to the defense of the person making this video in regard to #9 ... If anything maybe there could be more accurate words than jealousy & hate. I can feel along the lines of what's described in #9. Just getting tired of ALWAYS STRUGGLING & being drained & alone, while seeing others seemingly breeze along without the burdens we LIVE WITH. Always being there for people only to then feel like there's no one there for you. It's not really jealousy. I think more just a desire to have some relief, someone in your life who loves you too, & be able to enjoy life like you see others doing. If you haven't experienced it yet, there may come a time when you do, even if only in a small degree. Don't shame people who may be experiencing this. They sure don't ENJOY feeling that way & it only weighs them down more.
I know the feeling. I'm divorced since 2006, the children were 10 and 7 back then. I'm 54 years old know, one child studying. Father hasn't paid a penny for my daughter for 5 years know. I have to do it all by myself. I struggle with the word justice. greetings
Thanks for the video! Empaths can feel jealousy, anger, frustration and hatred just like any other human. They're normal emotions and can be more overwhelming for the emotionally attuned. If you identify with being an empath and believe you don't experience these feelings, maybe think on it! There is nothing inherently wrong with any emotion, although some can be unpleasant to an extreme. Perhaps empaths have a higher tolerance and it takes more pushing to get to an emotion like hatred -- if you don't think you've felt hatred as an empath, perhaps consider yourself lucky no one has crossed the line that would bring about that kind of feeling. Anyway, my point is, I saw a lot of comments that seemed very reactive to the idea of feeling jealous or hateful. I really wanted to say that I believe feeling these things is a normal part of the human experience, and they aren't inherently good or bad emotions. If you ever feel jealous or hateful it doesn't make you a bad person. It just makes you a person and that's okay. 👌🥰
omg thank you i was starting to feel all this shame for having envious moments. empaths are just people with more compassion than the average person. that does not mean you are perfect.
There’s a “thin” line between a Narcissists (that has several forms) which jealousy plays a huge “hidden” role with a Narc and which can be very similar an empath..especially in these days ..vacant be very tricky to distinguish between the two sometimes 🤷🏽♀️😎😉
@@ViktoriaSweetx3 sounds like you're doing the wrong kind of meditation perhaps meditate on your life force energy realize your power and your connection to it be patient meditation takes time to kick in nonetheless I can totally relate to how you feel life being meaningless I also experienced turning those feelings into a Fearless state of being Hence use that emotion and transmute it into will of power
Everything points directly to what I’m going through but the last one. I’m not jealous, I rarely get jealous, because I avoid comparing myself to others. But that’s what causes me to feel lonely, I feel like it’s always hard to explain how I feel. It’s a deep feeling of isolation, in a way it’s great for solitude and recharge, but troubling when you want to be social, because even when I am, I still feel alone.
Add to that a dislike of crowds and super loud noises as well. It's really body, mind and spirit exhaustion as it's ALL connected...the Trinity we all have inside of us , believe it or not!
Wow Brenda! Thank you, thankyou, thankyou! I always thought I was claustrophobic! Now I know why I don't like crowds and am very sensitive to loud noises.
I agree with all of this exxept for JEALOUSY. No EMPATH feels a strong jealous emotion towards pretty much anything. Empathy & jealousy are contradictory feels..
100%. I wish I had things, I wish I could have what they have. But I’m never jealous, and I never I wish I would have it instead of them! I’m never upset they have something I don’t. I might just desire that for me too!
I just cry and cry when i watch these videos. I referred to being an empath as my curse. Years before I stumbled upon this word. Empath. I am one to the fullest. Its. Exhausting.
What really helps me when my soul is troubled is a scripture in Matthew 11:28, which says, Come to me (in prayer) all you who are weary and burdened, and I-Jesus, will give you rest. I hope this helps someone today.
as an Empath and INFJ I have to admit... I've hit rock bottom from soul exhaustion .. and at that point I felt resentment, resentment at being an empath, resentment at being INFJ.. resentment at who I am compared to others.... jealousy? not sure if I can call it that, however I can see some calling it jealousy.
I've been walking around negative for at least a year. Been feeling like I lost something. And it's me I lost. People, some narrsisist person stole my energy after a bad break, and I just feel, ... Lost! Tough getting out of that relationship
Trinada Griffin I went through this, the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced, I lost me! My faith really helped me get through this and you are gonna one day see some good come out of this horrible experience. It will definitely get better once you go no contact. I still think about him but less as time goes on. Keep your head up, find something to occupy your time and if you are a believer, trust God to get you through because He will. I have gained so much wisdom and knowledge due to that awful relationship, just never give up! ❤️
It is tough, but healthy! Good for you! Now you're on the path to recovery and self care. Please, do these things... (i had to leave a long term relationship as well, and even though i knew it was the best decision, it was the hardest) #1 make sure you're getting enough alone time, but not TOO much alone time. Quality time with people who LOVE you is so important. #2 practice and perform self love/self care rituals or affirmations daily. Look into the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself, that you're going to care for you, that all will be well. Then, remember to treat yourself as well as or better than you treat the person you love the most, bc this relationship with you is everlasting. #3 ) practice gratitude. Our attitudes from the moment we wake up, set the tone for the entire day. Make sure you wake up and thank God or creator, mother Earth... be thankful for your life, for the ability to help someone today. Ask for the ability to help others, to be a blessing to others, and you'll see what happens! Positive steps breed positive results! #4 make sure you are doing something to care for others as well as yourself #5) the last, and super important STOP apologizing for everything you feel, think or do! I know you're doing this bc in every bad relationship, you're being made to feel like you're always wrong.... good news! You're not! Come on now, u know you're not really sorry for everything! Practice ownership and even some pride in your decision making skills, you've got an amazing brain!! Love and light
@@jenniferhagan6695 💕❤👌🏾🌻😊😊 ok, I will practice these things. Thank you so very much for taking the time to write all that for me. Super uplifting and encouraging! ❤💯
I enjoy being alone especially at night. I go into the spiritual realm and talk to God. I need time off right now I feel depressed and miserable due to the world .
You see the problems of the world. Dont take out your eyes because you dont like the things you see. Praise God for thinking you worthy to HEAL the world. You dont see many blind doctors, now do you? 😄
@@christinelawrence4315 so true...and I have absolutely no one around me who feels the same. There has to be another empath to understand me. I talk to people about my feelings,but no response. It's like they're dumbfounded by what I've said. No feelings,no emotions..just blank stares. I need to be around like minded individuals. I need mental stimulation.
@@mgnwat Nobody wants to communicate anymore do they! We are of the light and are pure of heart with deep feelings and emotions .. even we have a hard time understanding them and trying to master them! Like you I definitely need mental stimulation. Any whiff of shallow small talk and I'm bored to tears.. it's not who I am! You are not alone brother xx
Whoa man I just discovered your page. This is my third video and I feel like I just had an epiphany. These are so enlightening. Thank you. I've had such a hard time trying to figure out why I can't feel normal. The one that got me is I've grown to hate people. I never used to be like that. It's time for a positive change.
Leon Raye I have started to hate people. I used to love people! I loved talking to,giving to,listening to and helping other people. I have to pray and ask GOD to not let my heart turn cold. I want to love others,but people of today make it so hard. They're selfish,cold,evil and greedy among many other things. I stay off to myself alot. It seems like no one understands me or my gift. I'm thankful for my father who understands me because I got the gift from him,but he's over 700 miles away😢
Hello im a February empath and i have struggled with anxiety and depression my whole life so it would be great to hear from people like myself and be able to talk to each other and help each other out👍
You know what... watching this made me realize with great silence comes understanding... something is changing in you and your body is undergoing an internal download of something really big. Be extremely patient and consistent with yourself, it’s the most important thing you could ever do
No matter what a true Empath will NOT intentionally hurt others because they feel the pain that they cause. Yes, we need to recharge, but when a true Empath is successful at helping another person to get beyond the pain the Empath receives an 'instant energy boost' from the good feelings that they help to generate. By the same mechanisms that they receive the negativity and pain. Thank you. Namaste 🙏❣️ Love
I’m with y’all here; I don’t think I’ve ever been truly jealous. Envious, very rarely yes, but I never wanted other people to not have what they have. I actually don’t compare much.
i don't think all these apply. Only being drained by actually taking on board so many problems and craziness coming from other people. Learning how to process this - since drugs don't work longterm - is all you can really do.
Have you ever attempted to think and ( judge ) if you have to only with an open mind ??? o·pen-mind·ed /ˈˌōpən ˈˌmīndid/ adjective willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced. "a serious and open-minded newspaper"
True but being an empath it’s different for example with self care and some time alone to re energise and heal I can be back to my own self even though I experience everything in the video, I eat well do things that I know make me happy , like swimming and cooking , I take time out for myself and meditate etc and after a while I feel better, With depression you can be kind to yourself with good self care and still be depressed for years as it’s a medical condition often from imbalances in the brain and you need medication to fix it that’s the difference in my opinion .
I know you get a lot of these, but I really have to thank you so much for your videos. I have dealt with my own depression and other nonsense, but recently I have experienced a new low that alarmed me a bit. Watching your videos on empaths really brought things into perspective because I genuinely thought I was losing my mind (even though I don't actually know what losing my mind feels like) Anywho, thank you for your work. You are a helping a sad, lost boy figure out his shite
These are SO TRUE. Positive connection is good for me, especially cuddling. Unfortunately, virtually everyone is always busy so...... its difficult to imagine a future worth living. #6 is partially true. I've definitely found that reaching out for help is a wonderful way to push people away.
Just found your channel. I’m an empath who has been feeling really overwhelmed lately. Very helpful! Was wondering how to deal with an energy vampire in my life. Thank you. Very calming💕
Thank you for sharing this information! I am an empath and for a few months now everything that you have listed, all 9 signs that I'm emotionally drained and exhausted, you have described exactly what I've been feeling, thinking, and happening to me! I had no idea what was going on with me and I couldn't find the words to express and describe what Ive been going through, what Ive been feeling, how I've been acting, and how I have not been able to deal with anything in life as well as not wanting to!! Now that I know I'm suffering emotionally exhaustion and my soul needs healing, I can now take the proper steps to address the whole list of 9 symptoms and focus on my recovery and healing! Ive just started seeing a therapist, scheduled twice a week, to help me and guide me in the healing process! He will find this very informative because I haven't been much help communicating my main issues to him! I didn't have the words! I truly thank you for your video because now I have the words to I need to share with my therapist so he can properly diagnose, guide and recommend treatment for my emotionally healing! it's been too long since I've been able to get excited about anything!! I'm very excited to begin my healing journey! 🙏
I have all of them right now, except for #9. When I see someone happy, it brings a smile to my face. But everything else is true. The smallest things have been making me cry lately. I've felt really overwhelmed, and have still felt exhausted when I wake up. I've been trying to take some time for myself to relax, and that has helped some. But I haven't gotten a complete day off, other than one last week, in a while, with school and work. I'm just going to have to try more to do things for myself. Learn to say no, and keep my distance from negative people who drain me.
Spot on for me, for many years. I finally found enlightenment from job and family stress, after 55 years. So freeing, once I did. Since then I hope I've become most all of the positive traits of empathy, and very little of the negative. It's a wonderful place to be 🤗
Is envy technically Jealousy? Because usually I envy how other people were made to succeed and live their best life while I’m trying to escape the survival mode
No not the same, 2 words just really aren’t the same grammatically and there could be multiple meanings from 1 word alone. Envy is a disease and also considered a sin, so not okay and this can be controlled. This disease of the heart cause some to hurt, steal, or want to kill. Envy is by spiritual definition to wish someone’s blessing or happiness away. Jealousy is okay, it’s a natural human characteristic, autonomous and not within control - (animal instinct) And PS, as an empath you WILL FEEL every emotion - ain’t the that definition of it. To feel what others feel so deeply it sometimes drains u.
Jealousy is what you have, and care to keep from others, so it doesn't get taken away. Envy is what you don't have, but another person does, and you want it.
And I feel overwhelmed with life even though I'm not working and don't have to, and my house is a mess even though I can clean it. Nobody understands in my family at all that I have intense emotions for them and everyone else.
You just described me and my house too. I just got a puppy and hopefully that will help. I know it will force me out of bed!because God knows if I'm not forced to do something positive, I'll stay in bed all day
This is the first time I’ve watched your channel, as it just came up in my feed tonight. Wow! I’m really blown away! As far back as I can remember, I’ve had these feelings. My friends and especially my family gave me lots of “advice.” Over and over I was told: You’re too sensitive, you need to toughen a little, don’t wear your heart on your sleeve, you always take things too hard, don’t worry about what other people say or feel, why are you crying, don’t get so upset and on and on. Well this eventually, since no one else seemed to be this way, they began to see this as a weakness in my personality. Obviously they thought I needed to work on it and change it. No matter how much I tried, I couldn’t seem to be any different. They thought it was a flaw in my personality. I tried to reign in my feelings and became very frustrated with myself. I came down really hard on myself and that became a matter of self loathing. And as you pointed out, I got overloaded and needed to be by myself, which I genuinely enjoyed. And per usual, this became yet another flaw to work on or they served up a guilt trip. It took a long time to realize that, hey, I don’t need to change this, it’s not a flaw or a weakness within my personality. I’d never really heard of anyone who was an empath, or that I was simply just being me. This was a surprise, a good thing. I’m trying to find positive ways to apply this to my life. I want to grow and flourish in my life and make a difference in other’s lives. I want to do this purposefully an make it my life’s purpose. Thank you so much for this video. I learned a lot. I have no desire to change it, stuff it, or apologize for it. I know I’ve written a lot here and I truly thank anyone that’s read it through to the end. If you have any comments, advice or wish to share you experiences, I encourage that. I hit the Sub button and look forward to watching more of your videos.
Having a disability like I do, I am at times get tired more than usual. Which makes me stay close to my reclining life chair or my adjustable bed. This is where my mental powers keeps everything level in regards of people and everything in between. Having a strong force field in and around me, I dont take on much negative energies. Now with fall starting next week, will be able to add more elemental energy to my own to recharge. All in all another great video for all us empaths, intuitive telepathic out there. Keep up the great work👍🏾
I've felt most of these lately. The biggest indicator is exhaustion and loneliness. I dont really feel 9 unless I'm around rotten people. I've never been known to be jealous or bitter or full of hatred. I just couldn't do that.
Going out to all of my fellow empaths... Rest now, you've earned it! know how you feel, but I know it can get better. I'm still in that recharge phase myself, but I'm hopeful now after watching this! ❤️
I feel like a huge part of me is dead inside. I am so exhausted that I can't get the rest i need. I start everyday with a glass that is empty. I judt want to sit in a room and cry
Omg wow this is exactly how i feel right now in these last few months..... i would love to learn more about how to counteract/reverse these feelings - if you can do a video talking about protective techniques
My dearest friends are exhausted empaths. I want to help heal them so much, but then I began to take on their energy as well. It’s tough watching them suffer. I love them so much. I pray all the time they can see their way out of the darkness. I just tell them, I’m here with the flashlight walking with you.
After reading some of the comments, I will agree that jealousy is something that has never entered my mind. I do tend to feel sorry for myself but actually I feel better when I know that others are okay
I dont hate people either , nor am i jealous . I do feel crochety though when tired. Actually what you describe sounds very like fibromyagia. ( which i have ) I wonder if the two are connected . Other members of the selfhelp site are very loving and helpful towards each other .
Hi Angela , On a good day i always manage to do too much , often though not always with friends . I stick to the good friends now though one is rather draining . She never wants me to leave , but keeps delayi g me , wont understand when i tell her about the fibro. Its quite a long drive from her to get home on a motorway , to drive when unwell is irresponsible i feel. Often though i get tired just pottering in the garden , which is very therapeutic . I now live in sheltered flats where we have lunch cooked for us each day , so we socialise each day if well. I also have my home help twice a week for two hours . I often dont go down to lunch thise days, dont feel able to make conversation ! K
Yes I have it too. The Woman that mapped my body said I had the worse case she'd ever seen. It gets depressing just been tired and in pain all the time.
Good content SB. For those of you watching and who posted comments, please understand that you are having this experience for a reason. The Universe does not make mistakes. For it is part of your growth and evolution at this time of your life on Earth. You are to be commended for your well earned growth and wisdom. Please just keep moving forward. Namaste.
Good intro video for the young empaths and new empaths out there. I believe every empath gets "Burned Out" till they learn how to protect themself. The key is to use this gift from God to the best of your ability and when you feel yourself getting exhausted; too many feelings in your head from others; Protect yourself! Do NOT wait till you are burned out. It takes too long to recover. This is a skill that all empaths must master if you wish to be happy. A skill I have yet to master myself even after 58 years. I let to much in last week and it broke me. Been in isolation ever since. No visitors; Cell phone is off, Cancelled all my appointments; No Internet or social media or Emails either till today and only for a few minutes. Enough for today. Time to relax, smoke a joint, and listen to some Steely Dan, and heal. . .
Don’t really agree with the hate and jealousy though... frankly, I don’t have the energy to check if the neighbor’s grass is greener... too busy working on keeping my own alive...
Hey guys, As an empath these short videos on your channel have helped me to de mystify some of the reactions i get in different situations. Please keep up your good work as I also appreciate greatly the help that you are offering here. I hope this will also go on to help others around the world that are influenced by empathy but had no idea that this is why they have the emotions they do. Excellent work, you have my support .I will continue to follow your most needed guidance. On another note : Victoria Anne is somewhat right but it is our nature not to have a jealous existence , therefore difficult for us to understand the motivation that are. People are important and everyone has the right to be heard and helped if they are open to it.
Im not sure how i even stumbled onto this video. But i am totally n completely blown away. Ive never saw a single thing that mirrors me any more than this!! Ive been struggling in every one of these. As a matter of fact ive even said word for word "sleep dont help much when its the soul thats tired" ive not been educated to the whole empath personality trait until this video. I cant help but feel ive finally found something that explains me. Thank you for this from the bottom of my heart. As it just may have saved a life!!!!!!!
Have chakra necklace is a great option. But make sure someone already put positive energy inside it. But you can do meditation. Take a walk or sun gaze. Or you can ask for energy if you know how to turn any energy to positive
Ear healthy, meditation and a lot of time alone. Also once this is underway figure out how you got to this place in the first place and change it for the future. After all doing the same thing over and over hoping for different results is not ideal for healing.
The whole sensitive thing makes it sound we are brittle which is far from the truth. He take in more of what's going on and are overwhelmed by the things alot of people who look or don't allow themselves to see.
I tell people it this way. For every 20 years of my life. I feel like I’ve lived 60 years in my body, mind and soul. And let’s just say that by now I shouldn’t still be alive.
I'm a lifelong people pleaser as well as empath but now literally fall asleep with stress (blood sugars or something) I relate to most of this and am on burn out after decades of positivity and even cry at adverts and am desperately trying to regain my high energy steph to the rescue person I was some time back but have had to distance myself from humanity. I'm finding silence with Bluetooth headphones on listening to audio books and music my ally. Strangely just by conversing now stresses me out. BTW, fabulous artwork in this video ! Gratitude 😀
Well I'm definitely an empath. I've watched other videos but this confirmed it. This is EXACTLY how I'm feeling right now and I'm so glad that I'm not the only one
When my son was falsely incarcerated and then my sister died of cancer while he was incarcerated I had so much anger and hurt inside of me. Without realizing it... I started becoming bitter because I started saying to myself how are guilty people free an innocent people in prison.. over five deaths occurred while my son was incarcerated. I personally can agree with number 9 although I'm not a hateful person the Bible says oppression can make a wise man a fool and In the Flesh I started becoming envious of those who could wake up without so much problems on their head. Slowly I was envying people who did not have to stand by the phone throughout the day just to hear their child's voice ...I started to get sad when I saw people who looked like my son.. and due to the bitterness another Spirit jumped on me which was jealousy and it was turning to hatred and as an empathist I am grateful that God showed me that I was developing another spirit. It was from being drained.... when a person becomes drained different energies come towards them. It's almost like a person losing their apartment and having to go in a shelter.. although an empathist is not a jealous person they start to feel sad when they see other people leaving the shelter and they are still there. IT doesn't mean they want to be jealous but the spirit can do tricky things when your soul is drained. Once you are healed and I'm speaking for myself it went away. It's almost like if a woman is unable to have a child and her best friend keeps having children it's not that SHE wants to be jealous but the drained part in her can become jealous if she is not able to work through the bitterness and that's just how I see it. Being that I connect with other people feelings it plays tricks on me only when I'm in a drained state....
I get exhausted from constantly having my intelligence insulted by willfully ignorant people who refuse to see the truth. My options are to either play along with them and play dumb, speak my truth and get attacked or shunned or simply keep to myself and avoid people as much as possible. After getting burned one too many times, I've chosen the last option.
Everything was good until you said we get “jealous” we can read people and the reason why our emotions get drained is mostly do to negativity “sad or depressed people that suppress their feeling” around us, most of the time people that use us to recharge their energy and often tell us their issues, this happens to me with strangers all the time. How can you ever be jealous if positive happy souls refill us as well?!... Do your research please.
All of these are typical introvert struggles in an excessively extroverted world and the human experience in general where it all has to be Loud where everyone wants it Now. Extroverts are often very draining to be around for prolonged periods of time especially in the work place fallowed behind by social events and it is all the worse when they are extreme extroverts who are clearly unbalanced. Normal society today is unfavorable for introverts who are often more sensitive to their surroundings much less the spiritually active who can feel the energies around them.
This video is put together perfectly.Every point is true.It's almost as if i've attracted yoir channel.It is opening up my eyes and my mind to so many perspectives
Ok so I feel extremely vain watching these videos that paint empaths as being unique or superior in some way. I relate to a lot of the symptoms of being an empath, but I feel uncomfortable assuming that other people aren’t operating on the same plane, even when they seem selfish or inconsiderate. I usually try to assume that they have a proper reason for acting that way that I just don’t understand. Is it possible that everyone has the potential to be an empath with the right about of consideration and meditation? Are there conditions that make certain people more likely to possess empathic traits than others? I’ve personally always had a lot of social anxiety, and I attribute a lot of my sensitivities to growing up that way. At the same time though, one could say that my anxieties came from my sensitivity. It’s a chicken and the egg sort of question. I’d love to see a video debating the concept.
not unique or superior, far from it , you know if u are an empath no need to be humble here . do you feel other people's feelings? do you know things about people who are close without having to be told ? would you say no to a person who needed help if u were capable of helping or would you go out your way to help them?
Many of the people we encounter every day are souless avatars. Controlled by the matrix. We live in an energy realm. Energy and frequency's. Seriously I think we are just a Creators garden. We are either wheat or tares. We choose to be good or bad light or dark. Empaths like us are pre chosen and should strive to stay as close to the Father as we possibly can but realize we are still human and make mistakes and learn by them. Some day YOU may be given your own solar system to create whatever you wish. Then share the creation and joy with your Creator YAWHEY.
Jealous what an insult lol!! We are never jealous of others but rather the opposite we attract a lot of jealous envious people which piss's us off!! Empaths genuinely want the best for others and expect the back in return!
Exactly thank you!
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Eatmoverest .We don’t all want something in return..Sometimes we give just to give...Sometimes I give money to a homeless person..it does make me feel good but I’m not about to take them home..
Lol. You just contradicted yourself when you mentioned your expectation of receiving in return what you give out. That is by definition jealousy. To give without expectation is true selflessness.
@@CBourn48223 You can't expect anything in return, but you kinda know it will come. Probably in the form of an unexpected blessing u could never fathom, usually not $
Check out Emmanuel Kant, really profound on this, Morality; every person is an end to themselves, etc.
I am an INFJ and HSP. No matter how bad my life is, I will never be jealous of other people's success and happiness. My problems are my problems and have nothing to do with other people. I also don't hate others. Hate is a very strong word.
Indeed hate is a very strong word. I just stay away from does people that try to hurt me an I hope I never used that word against someone
Yes, why even hate anyone!! We live our own life and make our on decisions. I personally don't dislike anyone and if they say something that I don't like; I would simply treat them accordingly. It's best to avoid toxic people at all cost.
@@krhervey441 I don't know if I can understand what you wrote, because I need to use Google Translate (sorry for my low level of English).
The more I think about these questions, the less certainty I have.
Sometimes I feel like moving away from some people, but this feeling is transitory and I think I actually feel like trying to understand them, because if a person arouses the desire for you to move away from them, they may cause that feeling. in other people too. If everyone walks away from her, there will be no one to try to help that person deal with the complexity of their emotions.
Sometimes a toxic person may carry trauma, some level of insecurity, some difficulty understanding their emotions. Am I so superior as to throw the first stone? I think each of us carries good and bad things within ourselves and I think we face good and bad phases in our lives.
If you have had the misfortune to meet someone who is not at his or her best, when you walk away you may not be lucky enough to keep up with your progress when better days are coming. I'm not trying to say that your choice to get away from people who don't do you good is the wrong choice, but the way I see things makes that choice not so simple for me. Thank you for sharing your point of view. I wish the best for you.
@@blogoosfera I only was only saying that I don't hate or I'm not jealous of anyone nor I don't envy their lives. I'm only in competition with myself and I have zero tolerance for toxic people in my circle.Only wrote as simple as possible to avoid an essay like this one.......An expression of my point of view.
@@krhervey441 I apologize for not understanding your first comment. My english level is bad.
1. You don't feel rested when u wakeup.
2. You feel something is wrong, but u just cannot tell.
3. You often space out.
4. ppl around u can drain or annoy u.
5. All emotions are intensified.
6. You feel a profound sense of loneliness.
7. You are physically exhausted.
8. You are emotionally vulnerable n constantly hitting rock bottom.
9. Your mind is filled with negativity.
I had been feeling this alllllllll my life...I really feel lk staying away from ppl for as long as I can...
this is also plain old autism. most autistics are targets because of who we are and they can never be us. we are empaths, clairvoyant, use ESP and out of body experiences. Everything we were taught is "witchcraft" and "wrong" is exactly what we are. and they are terrified of us so they tell us we are retarded.
Positive vibes going out to everybody who has found themselves here. Same as a lot of you I'm exhausted. I stopped watching most news for the last three years as I found it was crushing me and was too much for me to take on whilst I was trying to build myself back up. After over a decade of narcissistic abuse I have cut out all " friends" who I realised just were not on the same wavelength as me, the takers in life. They are gone now. I've moved home and now I'm surrounded by nature..I find the sun, moon, flora and fauna all help me. I'm slowly getting back and my feeling of calm is returning. As a result I do feel very constricted in crowds and find I'm exhausted after being around people. I love people but I realise certain types of people have no place in my space. Wishing all of you the very best. As for the Jealousy(9) I've never been jealous of people I compete only with myself to do better. I did hate my ex for a while but it was as a result of pain and hurt. It was more out of the disbelief that humans can be totally cruel....it goes against everything for me and i hated how cruel and evil a person could be. Now I feel the universe will take care of everything and whatever we attract is on us...basically that no deed goes unpunished/ rewarded. That being said I have let go of the anger etc. Peace and light to you all. Xx
All the best going in your chosen direction. We can only grow stronger after the healing 🌱
Definitely right bout your choose , empath just to heal with fixing itself and grounding to the earth cause actually only by God , nature , animal we're absord and get pure love energy .
It bothers me when I feel for other people and want a stronger friendship but they don’t feel the same for me. I used to put a lot of energy toward people but would get nothing in return. I think #9 is when your at your breaking point and you just don’t care anymore. I have at times felt jealous wishing I have a connection with people or just 1 person. But being around a group of people is exhausting for me. I’m at the point now I’m content with myself and have found some happiness within myself and it was very hard for me in the beginning. You can’t rely on other people for your happiness.
Wow, same here! I've genuinely taken an interest in people only to end up discarded and alone after they've taken all they want from me. It hurts, deeply. Recently, I joined a new church with the hope of making friends, but no one seems to like me or even need my friendship (I'm kinda chuckling at this as I just read it, even though it hurts). After so many disappointments and being used (I'm good enough to set up the church welcome table, make the coffee, set up the chairs, etc but not good enough for friendship - SMH) I recently decided to start going for myself w/no expectations of fellowship/friendship. It's terrible because that isn't how the church is supposed to be, but for my own peace of mind and integrity I must accept it this way.
@teri gooding ❤️ hope your well Teri.
@@wk1810 I’m sorry to hear that. And so long for me to reply. I just saw your message. How are you now? I’m sorry to hear about church. If anything I would think they would help you? If you ever want to chat or email me I’m ok with that. Sometimes it’s hard for me too. But we all need some love and support. ❤️
You describe it perfectly.
Same I used to hang around people only to realize they weren’t there for me at my lowest point This is when I stopped caring and decided to be friends with my closets ones who cares for me
Friend Groups are toxic maybe
Honestly need an empath support group.
T Rex - I joined one on fb. Don’t visit anymore. It was more exhausting than visiting an overcrowded shopping mall.
@@ulayee9927 lol. Its difficult when you sense others too much, I just have never had a good way of dealing with these issues. Its exhausting. I end up staying more at home without friends.
T Rex - gee, not sure what happened to me. I used to be out there giving advice to other empaths like myself, on how to deal with unwanted energetic intrusions. I have a whole bag of tricks to use. And yet I too got tired and am pretty much withdrawn from society right now. And even that seems not enough. No amount of distance will help. I have lots of family across Atlantic. I always know when they think about me, and especially when the thinking is not very pleasant. 😂😂
@@ulayee9927 Sounds like me. I work from home as a programmer. I love people but its draining. The best lesson Ive learned is how to simply accept and not judge people. In general, accepting people has made my life much happier. And have more fun and not be so hard on my self. I am here on earth to help others. Knowing what people think of me helps me grow and improve my self. I just need to get past the initial reflex and accept the possibility that they are really trying to help. But in general I like communicating with people that get it.
If you're going to do that you have to have at least one person who is not an empath and a beacon of positivity and keep the group small that will allow people to recharge.
Starts at 1:10. 1. You don't feel rested when you wake up. 2. You feel something is wrong, but you can't describe it. 3. You often space out. 4. People can drain or annoy you. 5. All emotions are intensified. 6. You feel a profound sense of loneliness. 7. You're physically exhausted. 8. You're emotionally vulnerable. 9. Your mind is filled with negativity.
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And now I don’t have to watch it. Thank you! I’m at 1:37 and getting terribly exhausted from following that hand with sharpie running through my screen all the time.😂😂🤣🤣
Thank you...
damn, i got all of those, so what do i do ???
@@SamuelAlder self care. Rest. Recharge your personal battery. Listen to yourself. What do you need? Then give to yourself.
I agree with most of them except number 9. I don't hate people or feel jealous if good things are happening to them. It is the exact opposite. If they are happy, then I am happy. I feel their emotions and it makes me happy to see them so joyful. It's a win-win for everybody!
@Viewlessfriend 90 oh o.k. I was under another assumption. Thanks.
Totally agreed!
Agree with you.I love people.
I was thinking the same thing about #9, but then was wondering if that is basically the last step before you break. As an empath, the thought of being jealous like that of others' happiness horrifies me as it is the exact opposite of what I would normally feel. I too am always seeking a win-win for everyone...and agreed with all the others 100% It was actually hard but therapeutic to hear/see the feelings all laid out. Like the video said, it is hard to explain how we are feeling and they were expressed well in this video.
I can understand the 9th point. People around me seem to enjoy being helped and encouraged, but shut off when I need it. And usually you’re able to keep things positive & peaceful for others, but it hurts when they don’t or can’t do it for you. I’ve felt the feeling of rejection rather than jealousy. Or like I must not fit in this world because of how ‘overly emotional’ I am.
Y’all can probably tell I’m going through it right now, by my long as paragraph lol.
Life is becoming more and more draining! Years ago helping others was invigorating but now it is taxing! It is a sign of the division between good and evil is widening...may our Creator bless all empaths struggling with exhaustion!
This is the story of my life! I've been 'Broken' since I was 25 yrs old, that was in 1999, I'm still struggling everyday despite the 'help' I've had. Being so overly sensitive & able to feel others pain as well as my own is crippling for me. I get jealous of people who don't feel what I have to go through, I'd love to wake up & feel rested etc, etc.
"You feel something is wrong but you just can't figure it out"
Me this whole year
Me my whole life
Me too! This whole year has been very rough, but I feel like I should feel good! Was making me feel crazy until I watched this
I've felt this for the past 3 years....I meet with a healer 2 years ago and explained the feeling of "Something is wrong, but I can't figure out WHAT"!....SHE SAID I was picking up all the emotions of people around me.....I'm stilling feeling this way and have a tough time trying to relax and rest my soul.....Just not happening..
Me for the past 2 years.
Check out some videos on narcissistic abuse. I’ve found out what has made me feel this way. You won’t believe it has happened to you. If that’s what it is...
I'm not jealous of anyone, why would I be? Most people are lost.
Ikr. 😳
Yeah, I don't understand it either
Exactly... Indigo child over here opening his eye
I know right. Most people are lame and wack man. Bunch of fools.
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I know my Soul is exhausted! I’ve basically cut myself off from the outside world for awhile.
It’s been years now for me.
Ditto....
Yup.
the Celtic Crone I am currently going through this now has been for a few months
Same
Interchange ‘jealous’ for ‘isolated’ or ‘disconnected’ and I think this was pretty spot on!
I rarely feel jealousy, just that awareness that others treat or react to circumstances in ways I can’t draw support from 🤷🏼♀️
Well said.
Same for me. Except that i don't think i am even capable of being or feeling jealous. i automatically yield to it when it arises.
I'm an empath and I feel extremely saddened whenever I see someone being unjustly treated... It just keeps me thinking about their problem & pain , making scenerios in my head of what I could do to help them out even in matters that are beyond my control... And all the time spent from feeling and thinking about their pain really builds up pressure in my own work...
Your not alone
I come to the defense of the person making this video in regard to #9 ... If anything maybe there could be more accurate words than jealousy & hate. I can feel along the lines of what's described in #9. Just getting tired of ALWAYS STRUGGLING & being drained & alone, while seeing others seemingly breeze along without the burdens we LIVE WITH. Always being there for people only to then feel like there's no one there for you. It's not really jealousy. I think more just a desire to have some relief, someone in your life who loves you too, & be able to enjoy life like you see others doing. If you haven't experienced it yet, there may come a time when you do,
even if only in a small degree. Don't shame people who may be experiencing this. They sure don't ENJOY feeling that way & it only weighs them down more.
Well said I couldn't agree with you more.
Very well spoken kd
@@legalize.yo.hustle.lilbabylit
Thank you. I greatly appreciate your words. 🌷
YES! Well said!
@@ladyfire2456
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I DO NOT have a jealous bone in my body!! NOT
NOR hate!! I AGREE with most of the comments...
Same here. I couldn't hate even if I wanted to. Jealous doesn't exist in my vocabulary or my whole being.
I cant even use the word , I believe if you really hate , your hating yourself . Jealousy is a waste of energy . Keep lifted ❤
" don't waste your time on jealousy, sometimes ur ahead, sometimes ur behind, the race is long, in the end, it's only with yourself"--Sunscreen
I’m stressed / drained / exhausted from being a single mom w a sick mom and a depressed dog that’s acting out 😓😭 y’all pray for me
Sending you love ❤ and light 🌅!!!
I know the feeling. I'm divorced since 2006, the children were 10 and 7 back then. I'm 54 years old know, one child studying. Father hasn't paid a penny for my daughter for 5 years know. I have to do it all by myself. I struggle with the word justice. greetings
take care!
Peace, strength, courage, and healing be with you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
You need to get away for a few days if you can?
You have to come up for air!!
I survived a similar circumstance
And I know you can too 🙏
Thanks for the video! Empaths can feel jealousy, anger, frustration and hatred just like any other human. They're normal emotions and can be more overwhelming for the emotionally attuned. If you identify with being an empath and believe you don't experience these feelings, maybe think on it! There is nothing inherently wrong with any emotion, although some can be unpleasant to an extreme. Perhaps empaths have a higher tolerance and it takes more pushing to get to an emotion like hatred -- if you don't think you've felt hatred as an empath, perhaps consider yourself lucky no one has crossed the line that would bring about that kind of feeling.
Anyway, my point is, I saw a lot of comments that seemed very reactive to the idea of feeling jealous or hateful. I really wanted to say that I believe feeling these things is a normal part of the human experience, and they aren't inherently good or bad emotions. If you ever feel jealous or hateful it doesn't make you a bad person. It just makes you a person and that's okay. 👌🥰
omg thank you i was starting to feel all this shame for having envious moments. empaths are just people with more compassion than the average person. that does not mean you are perfect.
Maybe wishful is a better term.. I'm always glad for people.. sometimes I am wishful but not really jealous.. ?
There’s a “thin” line between a Narcissists (that has several forms) which jealousy plays a huge “hidden” role with a Narc and which can be very similar an empath..especially in these days ..vacant be very tricky to distinguish between the two sometimes 🤷🏽♀️😎😉
Very well said, thank you. 🕉
I don't feel jealous, or hatred. I have a habit of avoiding people when I feel exhausted, but other than, that the video was on point.
This describes me. 😳 But I don't feel jealous. At least not consciously. I just wish I was less alone and less tired.
That's why Empaths need to do Meditation every freaking day!
Best advice ever...
Actually meditation reminds me of how pointless life is and it makes me even more depressed. I need to occupy myself to feel in peace a balance..
@@ViktoriaSweetx3 sounds like you're doing the wrong kind of meditation perhaps meditate on your life force energy realize your power and your connection to it be patient meditation takes time to kick in nonetheless I can totally relate to how you feel life being meaningless I also experienced turning those feelings into a Fearless state of being Hence use that emotion and transmute it into will of power
NurAini SW empaths need to do psychiatric therapy every single day!
Vicky Ichigo Sladkov do Aérobic workout and take hot bath once a week and eat healthy and stay away whatever bothers you.
Empaths know the difference.
It doesn’t matter what you think. Every one has a opinion.
Everything points directly to what I’m going through but the last one. I’m not jealous, I rarely get jealous, because I avoid comparing myself to others. But that’s what causes me to feel lonely, I feel like it’s always hard to explain how I feel. It’s a deep feeling of isolation, in a way it’s great for solitude and recharge, but troubling when you want to be social, because even when I am, I still feel alone.
You are not in a relationship? ?? Wait until you are . 😏
Narcissistic abuse. I’ve just realized that’s what I’ve suffered. That’s why I feel this way. It’s like waking from the matrix.
Add to that a dislike of crowds and super loud noises as well. It's really body, mind and spirit exhaustion as it's ALL connected...the Trinity we all have inside of us , believe it or not!
Yes and i cant stand people who are overly vocal , they cant speak normal like you dont hear them .
Working with people who think it’s funny to scare you cause you always jump. So annoying and makes me want to scream
Brenda Drew I totally agree, I get exhausted with it all. I can never understand people who talk so loud.. They wear me out and scare me lol..
Wow Brenda! Thank you, thankyou, thankyou! I always thought I was claustrophobic! Now I know why I don't like crowds and am very sensitive to loud noises.
A loud noise rattles me to my core its horrible.
Feel better knowing I’m not alone. I thought I was going crazy.
No hon, it's the world we live in that's crazy. And sometimes it gets to us. You're not alone.
Wish could feel better !!
I agree with all of this exxept for JEALOUSY. No EMPATH feels a strong jealous emotion towards pretty much anything. Empathy & jealousy are contradictory feels..
100%. I wish I had things, I wish I could have what they have. But I’m never jealous, and I never I wish I would have it instead of them! I’m never upset they have something I don’t. I might just desire that for me too!
Agreed.
I just cry and cry when i watch these videos.
I referred to being an empath as my curse. Years before I stumbled upon this word.
Empath.
I am one to the fullest. Its. Exhausting.
What really helps me when my soul is troubled is a scripture in Matthew 11:28, which says,
Come to me (in prayer) all you who are weary and burdened, and I-Jesus, will give you rest. I hope this helps someone today.
That's how Arthur became Joker, so better rest and heal before something snaps inside.
Really i find narcissist to be more like the joker an empath who knows wrong from right wouldn't do those things i believe
as an Empath and INFJ I have to admit... I've hit rock bottom from soul exhaustion .. and at that point I felt resentment, resentment at being an empath, resentment at being INFJ.. resentment at who I am compared to others.... jealousy? not sure if I can call it that, however I can see some calling it jealousy.
I totally agree with how you worded that, for I don't envy things etc or ever get jealous and I refuse to use or say or act on hat....
I’ve never seen a more accurate video that describes what nobody seems to “get”. It’s overwhelming and a cycle that is all consuming.
I like how they didn't just tell us where we went wrong and still gave a direct path to begin to change what we went through
It feel so good to have people here like me,and to finally be understood! Being an empath is both a gift and curse.
I've been walking around negative for at least a year. Been feeling like I lost something. And it's me I lost. People, some narrsisist person stole my energy after a bad break, and I just feel, ... Lost! Tough getting out of that relationship
Trinada Griffin I went through this, the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced, I lost me! My faith really helped me get through this and you are gonna one day see some good come out of this horrible experience. It will definitely get better once you go no contact. I still think about him but less as time goes on. Keep your head up, find something to occupy your time and if you are a believer, trust God to get you through because He will. I have gained so much wisdom and knowledge due to that awful relationship, just never give up! ❤️
It is tough, but healthy! Good for you! Now you're on the path to recovery and self care. Please, do these things... (i had to leave a long term relationship as well, and even though i knew it was the best decision, it was the hardest) #1 make sure you're getting enough alone time, but not TOO much alone time. Quality time with people who LOVE you is so important. #2 practice and perform self love/self care rituals or affirmations daily. Look into the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself, that you're going to care for you, that all will be well. Then, remember to treat yourself as well as or better than you treat the person you love the most, bc this relationship with you is everlasting. #3 ) practice gratitude. Our attitudes from the moment we wake up, set the tone for the entire day. Make sure you wake up and thank God or creator, mother Earth... be thankful for your life, for the ability to help someone today. Ask for the ability to help others, to be a blessing to others, and you'll see what happens! Positive steps breed positive results! #4 make sure you are doing something to care for others as well as yourself #5) the last, and super important STOP apologizing for everything you feel, think or do! I know you're doing this bc in every bad relationship, you're being made to feel like you're always wrong.... good news! You're not! Come on now, u know you're not really sorry for everything! Practice ownership and even some pride in your decision making skills, you've got an amazing brain!! Love and light
@@daphnejohnson9969 Wow, thank you for taking the time to write that! 😊🌻💕
@@jenniferhagan6695 💕❤👌🏾🌻😊😊 ok, I will practice these things. Thank you so very much for taking the time to write all that for me. Super uplifting and encouraging! ❤💯
Me too.
I enjoy being alone especially at night. I go into the spiritual realm and talk to God. I need time off right now I feel depressed and miserable due to the world .
We feel the pain and hurt and injustices of the world ... we feel on a very deep level indeed..
You see the problems of the world. Dont take out your eyes because you dont like the things you see. Praise God for thinking you worthy to HEAL the world. You dont see many blind doctors, now do you? 😄
@@christinelawrence4315 so true...and I have absolutely no one around me who feels the same. There has to be another empath to understand me. I talk to people about my feelings,but no response. It's like they're dumbfounded by what I've said. No feelings,no emotions..just blank stares. I need to be around like minded individuals. I need mental stimulation.
@@mgnwat Nobody wants to communicate anymore do they! We are of the light and are pure of heart with deep feelings and emotions .. even we have a hard time understanding them and trying to master them! Like you I definitely need mental stimulation. Any whiff of shallow small talk and I'm bored to tears.. it's not who I am! You are not alone brother xx
FEMA CAMP ESCAPEE Wow I never thought of it like that. That's a beautiful way to look at it. Thank you. Completely altered my perspective.
Whoa man I just discovered your page. This is my third video and I feel like I just had an epiphany. These are so enlightening. Thank you. I've had such a hard time trying to figure out why I can't feel normal. The one that got me is I've grown to hate people. I never used to be like that. It's time for a positive change.
Leon Raye I have started to hate people. I used to love people! I loved talking to,giving to,listening to and helping other people. I have to pray and ask GOD to not let my heart turn cold. I want to love others,but people of today make it so hard. They're selfish,cold,evil and greedy among many other things. I stay off to myself alot. It seems like no one understands me or my gift. I'm thankful for my father who understands me because I got the gift from him,but he's over 700 miles away😢
Hello im a February empath and i have struggled with anxiety and depression my whole life so it would be great to hear from people like myself and be able to talk to each other and help each other out👍
You know what... watching this made me realize with great silence comes understanding... something is changing in you and your body is undergoing an internal download of something really big. Be extremely patient and consistent with yourself, it’s the most important thing you could ever do
No matter what a true Empath will NOT intentionally hurt others because they feel the pain that they cause. Yes, we need to recharge, but when a true Empath is successful at helping another person to get beyond the pain the Empath receives an 'instant energy boost' from the good feelings that they help to generate. By the same mechanisms that they receive the negativity and pain. Thank you.
Namaste 🙏❣️ Love
Very true
Norman Schmidt exactly
I’m with y’all here; I don’t think I’ve ever been truly jealous. Envious, very rarely yes, but I never wanted other people to not have what they have. I actually don’t compare much.
These are the exact medical symptoms of depression
Yeah duh. When you are highly intuitive and or emotional that happens sometimes
Exactly!
i don't think all these apply. Only being drained by actually taking on board so many problems and craziness coming from other people. Learning how to process this - since drugs don't work longterm - is all you can really do.
Have you ever attempted to think and ( judge ) if you have to only with an open mind ???
o·pen-mind·ed
/ˈˌōpən ˈˌmīndid/
adjective
willing to consider new ideas; unprejudiced.
"a serious and open-minded newspaper"
True but being an empath it’s different for example with self care and some time alone to re energise and heal I can be back to my own self even though I experience everything in the video, I eat well do things that I know make me happy , like swimming and cooking , I take time out for myself and meditate etc and after a while I feel better,
With depression you can be kind to yourself with good self care and still be depressed for years as it’s a medical condition often from imbalances in the brain and you need medication to fix it that’s the difference in my opinion .
I know you get a lot of these, but I really have to thank you so much for your videos.
I have dealt with my own depression and other nonsense, but recently I have experienced a new low that alarmed me a bit.
Watching your videos on empaths really brought things into perspective because I genuinely thought I was losing my mind (even though I don't actually know what losing my mind feels like)
Anywho, thank you for your work. You are a helping a sad, lost boy figure out his shite
These are SO TRUE.
Positive connection is good for me, especially cuddling. Unfortunately, virtually everyone is always busy so...... its difficult to imagine a future worth living.
#6 is partially true. I've definitely found that reaching out for help is a wonderful way to push people away.
We are EDGY, cramped and IRRITATED!
That’s what I’ve learned when I’m burned out.
Just found your channel. I’m an empath who has been feeling really overwhelmed lately. Very helpful! Was wondering how to deal with an energy vampire in my life. Thank you. Very calming💕
This hit right home.
I am at this state right now, and I know how to get out of it, but I am just to tired to do so.
Thank you for sharing this information!
I am an empath and for a few months now everything that you have listed, all 9 signs that I'm emotionally drained and exhausted,
you have described exactly what I've been feeling, thinking,
and happening to me!
I had no idea what was going on with me and I couldn't find the words to express and describe what Ive been going through, what Ive been feeling, how I've been acting, and how I have not been able to deal with anything in life as well as not wanting to!!
Now that I know I'm suffering emotionally exhaustion and my soul needs healing,
I can now take the proper steps to address the whole list of 9 symptoms and focus on my recovery and healing!
Ive just started seeing a therapist,
scheduled twice a week,
to help me and guide me in the healing process!
He will find this very informative because I haven't been much help communicating my main issues to him!
I didn't have the words!
I truly thank you for your video because now I have the words to I need to share with my therapist so he can properly diagnose, guide and recommend treatment for my emotionally healing!
it's been too long since I've been able to get excited about anything!!
I'm very excited to begin my healing journey! 🙏
omg this all was on point. thank you for saying it because it makes it so i dont feel alone.
I'm drained just by breathing .🙏😮😔
I have all of them right now, except for #9. When I see someone happy, it brings a smile to my face. But everything else is true. The smallest things have been making me cry lately. I've felt really overwhelmed, and have still felt exhausted when I wake up. I've been trying to take some time for myself to relax, and that has helped some. But I haven't gotten a complete day off, other than one last week, in a while, with school and work. I'm just going to have to try more to do things for myself. Learn to say no, and keep my distance from negative people who drain me.
Very good, it hit the nail on the head for me. I have to give myself permission to rest and recover.
It just blows my mind, that there are people who don't recognize or relate to any of this. Your feeling are valid, and take up space. ✌🏽💌
Spot on for me, for many years. I finally found enlightenment from job and family stress, after 55 years. So freeing, once I did. Since then I hope I've become most all of the positive traits of empathy, and very little of the negative. It's a wonderful place to be 🤗
Is envy technically Jealousy? Because usually I envy how other people were made to succeed and live their best life while I’m trying to escape the survival mode
CeceTheOG Guerrero no, they are different. This content creators tends to get at least one point wrong in most of his videos
No not the same, 2 words just really aren’t the same grammatically and there could be multiple meanings from 1 word alone.
Envy is a disease and also considered a sin, so not okay and this can be controlled. This disease of the heart cause some to hurt, steal, or want to kill. Envy is by spiritual definition to wish someone’s blessing or happiness away.
Jealousy is okay, it’s a natural human characteristic, autonomous and not within control - (animal instinct)
And PS, as an empath you WILL FEEL every emotion - ain’t the that definition of it. To feel what others feel so deeply it sometimes drains u.
You r right on,it feels like we don't get to have a life n they do
Jealousy is what you have, and care to keep from others, so it doesn't get taken away. Envy is what you don't have, but another person does, and you want it.
And I feel overwhelmed with life even though I'm not working and don't have to, and my house is a mess even though I can clean it. Nobody understands in my family at all that I have intense emotions for them and everyone else.
👽Alien👁️Zelda👽 - oh boy! Is this my comment? Have I commented on this video and forgot all about it? 🤣🤣🤣
You just described me and my house too. I just got a puppy and hopefully that will help. I know it will force me out of bed!because God knows if I'm not forced to do something positive, I'll stay in bed all day
I agree with all you e said except feeling jealous of others.
This is the first time I’ve watched your channel, as it just came up in my feed tonight. Wow! I’m really blown away! As far back as I can remember, I’ve had these feelings. My friends and especially my family gave me lots of “advice.” Over and over I was told: You’re too sensitive, you need to toughen a little, don’t wear your heart on your sleeve, you always take things too hard, don’t worry about what other people say or feel, why are you crying, don’t get so upset and on and on. Well this eventually, since no one else seemed to be this way, they began to see this as a weakness in my personality. Obviously they thought I needed to work on it and change it. No matter how much I tried, I couldn’t seem to be any different. They thought it was a flaw in my personality. I tried to reign in my feelings and became very frustrated with myself. I came down really hard on myself and that became a matter of self loathing. And as you pointed out, I got overloaded and needed to be by myself, which I genuinely enjoyed. And per usual, this became yet another flaw to work on or they served up a guilt trip. It took a long time to realize that, hey, I don’t need to change this, it’s not a flaw or a weakness within my personality. I’d never really heard of anyone who was an empath, or that I was simply just being me. This was a surprise, a good thing. I’m trying to find positive ways to apply this to my life. I want to grow and flourish in my life and make a difference in other’s lives. I want to do this purposefully an make it my life’s purpose. Thank you so much for this video. I learned a lot. I have no desire to change it, stuff it, or apologize for it. I know I’ve written a lot here and I truly thank anyone that’s read it through to the end. If you have any comments, advice or wish to share you experiences, I encourage that. I hit the Sub button and look forward to watching more of your videos.
Thanku /Appreciate ur advice very helpful it’s 2022” I truly read ur whole mgs ......God Blessed 🙏🏽
I just really want to say that I'm thankful that you made this video from the bottom of my heart
Years of this has plagued my tired & exhausted soul 😔
Having a disability like I do, I am at times get tired more than usual. Which makes me stay close to my reclining life chair or my adjustable bed. This is where my mental powers keeps everything level in regards of people and everything in between. Having a strong force field in and around me, I dont take on much negative energies. Now with fall starting next week, will be able to add more elemental energy to my own to recharge. All in all another great video for all us empaths, intuitive telepathic out there. Keep up the great work👍🏾
I've felt most of these lately. The biggest indicator is exhaustion and loneliness. I dont really feel 9 unless I'm around rotten people. I've never been known to be jealous or bitter or full of hatred. I just couldn't do that.
Well I don't necessarily think that is factual, u say "exhaustion biggest indicator of loneliness" how did you come to the conclusion ?
Going out to all of my fellow empaths... Rest now, you've earned it! know how you feel, but I know it can get better. I'm still in that recharge phase myself, but I'm hopeful now after watching this! ❤️
I feel like a huge part of me is dead inside. I am so exhausted that I can't get the rest i need. I start everyday with a glass that is empty. I judt want to sit in a room and cry
Omg wow this is exactly how i feel right now in these last few months..... i would love to learn more about how to counteract/reverse these feelings - if you can do a video talking about protective techniques
Would you please do a more in depth video about ways to restore, to heal? Thank you.
I agree!!! Thanks
Alone time, in nature if possible. Take a walk in the woods find a place to sit and just "be", soak in the energy of the earth and things around you.
I feel so privileged to have been given this gift !!
My dearest friends are exhausted empaths. I want to help heal them so much, but then I began to take on their energy as well. It’s tough watching them suffer. I love them so much. I pray all the time they can see their way out of the darkness. I just tell them, I’m here with the flashlight walking with you.
After reading some of the comments, I will agree that jealousy is something that has never entered my mind. I do tend to feel sorry for myself but actually I feel better when I know that others are okay
Same
Jealousy isn't a thought though it's an emotion.
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True
I dont hate people either , nor am i jealous . I do feel crochety though when tired. Actually what you describe sounds very like fibromyagia. ( which i have ) I wonder if the two are connected . Other members of the selfhelp site are very loving and helpful towards each other .
I agree completely! I too have Fibromyalgia.... Hmmmm..... Has to be a connection?!
Hi Angela , On a good day i always manage to do too much , often though not always with friends . I stick to the good friends now though one is rather draining . She never wants me to leave , but keeps delayi g me , wont understand when i tell her about the fibro. Its quite a long drive from her to get home on a motorway , to drive when unwell is irresponsible i feel. Often though i get tired just pottering in the garden , which is very therapeutic . I now live in sheltered flats where we have lunch cooked for us each day , so we socialise each day if well. I also have my home help twice a week for two hours . I often dont go down to lunch thise days, dont feel able to make conversation ! K
Yes I have it too. The Woman that mapped my body said I had the worse case she'd ever seen. It gets depressing just been tired and in pain all the time.
Jupp same here!
100% description of me. I hate talking to people... Im so anti social. But I love people, from a distance
Good content SB. For those of you watching and who posted comments, please understand that you are having this experience for a reason. The Universe does not make mistakes. For it is part of your growth and evolution at this time of your life on Earth. You are to be commended for your well earned growth and wisdom. Please just keep moving forward. Namaste.
Good intro video for the young empaths and new empaths out there. I believe every empath gets "Burned Out" till they learn how to protect themself. The key is to use this gift from God to the best of your ability and when you feel yourself getting exhausted; too many feelings in your head from others; Protect yourself! Do NOT wait till you are burned out. It takes too long to recover. This is a skill that all empaths must master if you wish to be happy. A skill I have yet to master myself even after 58 years. I let to much in last week and it broke me. Been in isolation ever since. No visitors; Cell phone is off, Cancelled all my appointments; No Internet or social media or Emails either till today and only for a few minutes. Enough for today. Time to relax, smoke a joint, and listen to some Steely Dan, and heal. . .
I do feel alone. jealous no.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ you're not alone love😊 You are needed, kind, and loved. Stay strong
Cliff A ikr
Cari lol. good luck out there
Cant Trust,feeling alone never jealous want to live again !!
What can we do when we are feeling don
Don’t really agree with the hate and jealousy though... frankly, I don’t have the energy to check if the neighbor’s grass is greener... too busy working on keeping my own alive...
Super accurate...but, wish the video focused on the solutions instead of adding 3 suggestions at the end. Though most appreciated!
Hey guys, As an empath these short videos on your channel have helped me to de mystify some of the reactions i get in different situations.
Please keep up your good work as I also appreciate greatly the help that you are offering here. I hope this will also go on to help others around the world that are influenced by empathy but had no idea that this is why they have the emotions they do.
Excellent work, you have my support .I will continue to follow your most needed guidance.
On another note : Victoria Anne is somewhat right but it is our nature not to have a jealous existence , therefore difficult for us to understand the motivation that are.
People are important and everyone has the right to be heard and helped if they are open to it.
Im not sure how i even stumbled onto this video. But i am totally n completely blown away. Ive never saw a single thing that mirrors me any more than this!! Ive been struggling in every one of these. As a matter of fact ive even said word for word "sleep dont help much when its the soul thats tired" ive not been educated to the whole empath personality trait until this video. I cant help but feel ive finally found something that explains me. Thank you for this from the bottom of my heart. As it just may have saved a life!!!!!!!
Need to understand one's self and mature emotionally. With time there will be a good balance.
Great video, but all that drawing was doing my head in. I closed my eyes and just listened.
Kim Pool Lover ~ Yes! It was exhausting!
I'm an exhausted empath. So what's the solution to getting better?
Have chakra necklace is a great option. But make sure someone already put positive energy inside it. But you can do meditation. Take a walk or sun gaze. Or you can ask for energy if you know how to turn any energy to positive
Feeling comfort from and feeling loved by God... I get this by reading and being around ONLY those safe people who will treat me similarly.
An understanding of stoic philosophy can help. Stay in the here and now and....to thyself be true. ☮️❤️🕉
Ear healthy, meditation and a lot of time alone. Also once this is underway figure out how you got to this place in the first place and change it for the future. After all doing the same thing over and over hoping for different results is not ideal for healing.
Do what you want to
This is the way we are, cooperative people rather than competitive.
Man every single one of these are spot on...accept I dont really ever experience jealousy I want us all to be well...the rest is spot on
The whole sensitive thing makes it sound we are brittle which is far from the truth. He take in more of what's going on and are overwhelmed by the things alot of people who look or don't allow themselves to see.
So my soul have been exhausted for the majority of my life...makes sence
I tell people it this way. For every 20 years of my life. I feel like I’ve lived 60 years in my body, mind and soul. And let’s just say that by now I shouldn’t still be alive.
It was really bad in combat for me. Always someone needing help and I can’t help them all
I'm a lifelong people pleaser as well as empath but now literally fall asleep with stress (blood sugars or something) I relate to most of this and am on burn out after decades of positivity and even cry at adverts and am desperately trying to regain my high energy steph to the rescue person I was some time back but have had to distance myself from humanity. I'm finding silence with Bluetooth headphones on listening to audio books and music my ally. Strangely just by conversing now stresses me out. BTW, fabulous artwork in this video ! Gratitude 😀
Well I'm definitely an empath. I've watched other videos but this confirmed it. This is EXACTLY how I'm feeling right now and I'm so glad that I'm not the only one
Definitely not the only one!
When my son was falsely incarcerated and then my sister died of cancer while he was incarcerated I had so much anger and hurt inside of me. Without realizing it... I started becoming bitter because I started saying to myself how are guilty people free an innocent people in prison.. over five deaths occurred while my son was incarcerated. I personally can agree with number 9 although I'm not a hateful person the Bible says oppression can make a wise man a fool and In the Flesh I started becoming envious of those who could wake up without so much problems on their head. Slowly I was envying people who did not have to stand by the phone throughout the day just to hear their child's voice ...I started to get sad when I saw people who looked like my son.. and due to the bitterness another Spirit jumped on me which was jealousy and it was turning to hatred and as an empathist I am grateful that God showed me that I was developing another spirit. It was from being drained.... when a person becomes drained different energies come towards them. It's almost like a person losing their apartment and having to go in a shelter.. although an empathist is not a jealous person they start to feel sad when they see other people leaving the shelter and they are still there. IT doesn't mean they want to be jealous but the spirit can do tricky things when your soul is drained. Once you are healed and I'm speaking for myself it went away. It's almost like if a woman is unable to have a child and her best friend keeps having children it's not that SHE wants to be jealous but the drained part in her can become jealous if she is not able to work through the bitterness and that's just how I see it. Being that I connect with other people feelings it plays tricks on me only when I'm in a drained state....
Yes us empaths get exhausted quickly. I carry toumaline with me. Sage at home. When good things happen to other people. Congrats and move on.
Thats interesting i must look into this tourmaline. Sage is easy and can be added to food. Thankyou . K
I get exhausted from constantly having my intelligence insulted by willfully ignorant people who refuse to see the truth. My options are to either play along with them and play dumb, speak my truth and get attacked or shunned or simply keep to myself and avoid people as much as possible. After getting burned one too many times, I've chosen the last option.
@@reesedaniel5835 Exsactly the same with me.
Wow this sounds like my life....
All of these. Living on Mother Earth in this day and age is a lot for anyone. For an empath like me, it feels impossible most days
I am working on how to separate myself from the issues of others.
Everything was good until you said we get “jealous” we can read people and the reason why our emotions get drained is mostly do to negativity “sad or depressed people that suppress their feeling” around us, most of the time people that use us to recharge their energy and often tell us their issues, this happens to me with strangers all the time. How can you ever be jealous if positive happy souls refill us as well?!... Do your research please.
Absolutely true. Any real empath would struggle to hate or to be jealous
Cant stand violent movies and can't handle some scary movies either.
All of these are typical introvert struggles in an excessively extroverted world and the human experience in general where it all has to be Loud where everyone wants it Now. Extroverts are often very draining to be around for prolonged periods of time especially in the work place fallowed behind by social events and it is all the worse when they are extreme extroverts who are clearly unbalanced. Normal society today is unfavorable for introverts who are often more sensitive to their surroundings much less the spiritually active who can feel the energies around them.
I concur however there is no such thing as "normal society" Just because a lot of people do something, it doesn't make it "normal" 😎
This video is put together perfectly.Every point is true.It's almost as if i've attracted yoir channel.It is opening up my eyes and my mind to so many perspectives
I'm right there. Laying on my couch. Had to quit caregiving jobs because of no energy left. Change of direction in my life.
Healing my nervous system.
Ok so I feel extremely vain watching these videos that paint empaths as being unique or superior in some way. I relate to a lot of the symptoms of being an empath, but I feel uncomfortable assuming that other people aren’t operating on the same plane, even when they seem selfish or inconsiderate. I usually try to assume that they have a proper reason for acting that way that I just don’t understand. Is it possible that everyone has the potential to be an empath with the right about of consideration and meditation? Are there conditions that make certain people more likely to possess empathic traits than others? I’ve personally always had a lot of social anxiety, and I attribute a lot of my sensitivities to growing up that way. At the same time though, one could say that my anxieties came from my sensitivity. It’s a chicken and the egg sort of question. I’d love to see a video debating the concept.
I agree Mara . K
not unique or superior, far from it , you know if u are an empath no need to be humble here . do you feel other people's feelings? do you know things about people who are close without having to be told ? would you say no to a person who needed help if u were capable of helping or would you go out your way to help them?
Mara Batt .. these traits are deep and on a soul level....
Many of the people we encounter every day are souless avatars. Controlled by the matrix. We live in an energy realm. Energy and frequency's.
Seriously I think we are just a Creators garden. We are either wheat or tares. We choose to be good or bad light or dark. Empaths like us are pre chosen and should strive to stay as close to the Father as we possibly can but realize we are still human and make mistakes and learn by them. Some day YOU may be given your own solar system to create whatever you wish. Then share the creation and joy with your Creator YAWHEY.
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