Why Do We Hide Our True Self? - Brené Brown on Shame & Vulnerability TED Talk Speaker

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  • @pauladavis506
    @pauladavis506 4 роки тому +14

    Yesss... I was taught (unconsciously) learned "powerlessness" so this left me with successes and than self-sabotaging...
    It's a life path/journey to stand in self-love and walk through, look at, examine and giving myself the permission to be successful in love, peace, and joy...
    This is testimony, my journey, my reality of what has had to be broke down and build back up in faith, hope, and love within my soul one with the Power of Yahshua as my guide on this road map of life... HalleluYah!!!
    🕊🕊🕊

  • @yoursubconscious
    @yoursubconscious 3 роки тому +4

    yea! i sadly agree. our world has forgotten what true enjoyment is and that pain is part if the enjoyment.

  • @KH-fd1vg
    @KH-fd1vg Рік тому +2

    There’s a difference between being vulnerable, and over sharing to manipulate someone into bonding with you

    • @FeelingIsHealing
      @FeelingIsHealing Рік тому

      Interesting. What’s the difference? And how can you tell?

  • @hollytolan7816
    @hollytolan7816 3 роки тому +3

    Attachment is what causes suffering 🙏🏼

  • @darkrangerl
    @darkrangerl 2 роки тому

    Oke belong = having a higher purpose a mission you strive for where you are willing, strong and able to tackle and do what needs to be done to get where you are going!

  • @drkasturirnaik7420
    @drkasturirnaik7420 4 роки тому +1

    Every word is miracle to hear

  • @kathrynwest1072
    @kathrynwest1072 4 роки тому +4

    Great video. two brilliant ladies

  • @irdina3023
    @irdina3023 4 роки тому +28

    Vulnerability is not to be shown to just anyone.. but to those who you trust

    • @alchemywithmirrah2778
      @alchemywithmirrah2778  4 роки тому +2

      Yes!

    • @jessicathiefels9502
      @jessicathiefels9502 4 роки тому +5

      Yes, so key. I've shown it too many people that didn't deserve it. No more!

    • @Nativegirl1985
      @Nativegirl1985 4 роки тому +1

      I agree. And I don't trust anyone.

    • @karunaclayton7
      @karunaclayton7 4 роки тому +1

      What if your vulnerability is the piece, the key, the thing which shifts and inspires that person. I don't agree it is only for a selective, it's to be shared with all AND with boundaries and self-awareness with how much, how deeply.

    • @dalethmccoy8461
      @dalethmccoy8461 2 роки тому

      If it's only to people you trust, it isn't true vulnerability. Vulnerability is the ability to sit in uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure. When we are 'with' people we trust, the uncertainty, risk, and exposure isn't totally there. Vulnerability is with anyone, at any time, when we allow ourselves to not numb or evade: uncertainty, risk, and emotional exposure.

  • @loveiverwashereasherself4803
    @loveiverwashereasherself4803 3 роки тому +1

    Yesss girl!
    Let’s change that mindset! I’m trying to each day!!!
    Ohhh I get super upset and super excited oops
    Awww Ryan get a pup!!! Ohhh no don’t do that with relationships... no no no...
    Yesss oh my heart must be BEAUTIFUL!!! Bruised and beat up... and yep absolutely BEAUTIFUL still😊🤎
    We all can have hearts like that❤️I truly believe it!

  • @cherylwilsherlimberlife7210
    @cherylwilsherlimberlife7210 3 роки тому +5

    We're not afraid to feel joy, but afraid of going into the fear it's underlying trauma response

  • @amongkonyak9836
    @amongkonyak9836 4 роки тому +4

    Love u brene brown

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 роки тому +1

    Well, having power gives you the control to make people like you. Missus

  • @rainbowrose9299
    @rainbowrose9299 4 роки тому +2

    So true

  • @mekenataunton6237
    @mekenataunton6237 4 роки тому +3

    What she says at 2:03!!! Just wow 😭💔

  • @t.t.5195
    @t.t.5195 4 роки тому +2

    I belong to me! The blueprint? I feel this way, but as she was ministering I got a answer.. all our blueprints are different, thats how God wants it so that we remain a individual not a clone. But we long for someone to tell us how to do everything correct. Today I embrace the imperfect me.

    • @naomia472
      @naomia472 3 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing I needed this!

  • @Onelove-Oneheart-h4c
    @Onelove-Oneheart-h4c Рік тому

    The ends of desire is joy, obstacle to joy leads to suffering. So apathy is a defensive mechanism

  • @akshatdahiya6978
    @akshatdahiya6978 4 роки тому +6

    thank you for helping in english test

  • @arfaakhan
    @arfaakhan 4 роки тому +1

    Inspiring

  • @tubailey2459
    @tubailey2459 4 роки тому +5

    They may be disappointed with you, but they won’t be disillusioned

  • @Julz437
    @Julz437 4 роки тому +3

    I have a problem with people pleasing

  • @im19ice3
    @im19ice3 3 роки тому

    TRUTH

  • @karanm651
    @karanm651 4 роки тому +2

    What's the music at the end of the video at 12:06?

  • @FeelingIsHealing
    @FeelingIsHealing Рік тому

    What’s the closing song?

  • @annamaegold
    @annamaegold 3 роки тому +1

    💖🙏🏽

  • @jefferyperkins558
    @jefferyperkins558 4 роки тому +6

    I belong to me!

  • @msbonnie37
    @msbonnie37 3 роки тому

    💛💛

  • @ashiiiiiiish
    @ashiiiiiiish 4 роки тому +1

    OPrah ❤️

  • @abeerunis8605
    @abeerunis8605 4 роки тому +3

    Oh man! I love Oprah, I love her ...too much

  • @janeyuen7555
    @janeyuen7555 4 роки тому

    Idea worth spreading

  • @monicastoutrise
    @monicastoutrise 4 роки тому

    What song is at the end

  • @agnieszkagarbacz2613
    @agnieszkagarbacz2613 4 роки тому +11

    In scripture it says that we belong to God first and through him we can find our independence and stranght to live a full life. A person cannot say "I belong to me" because this seemingly innocent statement. Everything else she says I agree with, as long as I put God first, not me but God, I can reach a true happiness. Only through seeking God I can truly purify my intention.

    • @NoneYa-pg6dk
      @NoneYa-pg6dk 4 роки тому +4

      Agnieszka Garbacz I think she’s says it that way is 1. To be broad 2. to help people connect. I’m a Christian too, but i have to be open minded that there’s nonbelievers too. When I belong to me is technically saying I belong to what I value. You value God, then good. Keep doing what’s best for you. Some people have other values.

    • @lolavedette7566
      @lolavedette7566 4 роки тому

      How do YOU know that YOU are putting GOD first? Romans 1:20.

    • @Nativegirl1985
      @Nativegirl1985 4 роки тому

      Yea, so don't have kids

  • @neeharikabose7668
    @neeharikabose7668 4 роки тому +2

    this was beautiful :)

  • @houseofcharm4751
    @houseofcharm4751 4 роки тому +1

    I love you Oprah

  • @JolienVDH
    @JolienVDH 4 роки тому

    She is so much like me... it’s eery...
    Ps the interviewer doesn’t like her...

  • @choasfoxie6055
    @choasfoxie6055 4 роки тому

    owen shroyer

  • @augustinahernandfez6840
    @augustinahernandfez6840 4 роки тому

    jenna marbles

  • @someshjadhwani3845
    @someshjadhwani3845 4 роки тому +1

    Hii MBA tech walon

  • @caitlinwalsh6778
    @caitlinwalsh6778 4 роки тому +2

    I feel like Oprah didn't answer the question "are there still some struggle you have about being brave with your life?"

  • @nicholasandrews742
    @nicholasandrews742 3 роки тому

    I really liked the first half but kinda lost me after that.

  • @divinelyguidednia
    @divinelyguidednia 3 роки тому +2

    Okay these are all relatable and all but where in this does she teach us /inform us/educate us/ knowledge us with how to actually transmute the shame ? The attachment issues ? The abandonment issues? This feels like she just wants us to feel comfortable in the “less good” feelings rather than teaching us how to accept it for what it is & then transmute it...she fails to talk about why these emotions arise. She’s a puppet.

    • @lorifenton1284
      @lorifenton1284 3 роки тому

      She’s a research scientist who is educating us on the data she has gathered RE: shame & vulnerability. She’s not a counselor to tell you what you need to do with it. She’s a brilliant speaker and she attracts people because she’s no BS.

  • @aashishdevkota4523
    @aashishdevkota4523 4 роки тому

    deadmeat scary smoothgio thesims4 thequartering scorpions

  • @thanhbinhluong187
    @thanhbinhluong187 4 роки тому

    tabbes marvel joanaceddia rapdevil chad

  • @letnoman6355
    @letnoman6355 4 роки тому +1

    ant

  • @anxosfernandez6663
    @anxosfernandez6663 4 роки тому +1

    hobo johnson

    • @gordful
      @gordful 3 роки тому

      why did you say hobo johnson LMAO

  • @jeromehammers8146
    @jeromehammers8146 2 роки тому

    Oh my, how dreary

  • @magalivieri6059
    @magalivieri6059 4 роки тому

    comedian

  • @gabeatron
    @gabeatron 2 роки тому

    this audio is terrible

  • @SamsungSamsung-bm5je
    @SamsungSamsung-bm5je 4 роки тому +1

    👎👎

  • @jeromehammers8146
    @jeromehammers8146 2 роки тому

    So true