Brene Brown Leaves the Audience SPEECHLESS | One Of the Best Speech EVER
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- Brene Brown Leaves the Audience SPEECHLESS | One Of the Best Speech EVER
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►► Speaker: Brené Brown
She graduated with a doctorate in 2002 from the University of Houston's Graduate College of Social Work. At the Graduate College of Social Work at the University of Houston, she started out as a research professor. Her studies emphasize sincerity and genuine leadership. Many major newspapers across the country have published her articles. COURAGE Works and Brave Leaders Inc. are both run by her as founder and CEO. On the Ted.com website, her 2010 TED Talk is one of the most popular speeches. Numerous teaching honors have been bestowed upon her. The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly, and Rising Strong are three of her books that have reached #1 on the New York Times bestseller list. On PBS, NPR, TED, and CNN, she and her work have been highlighted. Moreover, she runs The Daring as CEO.
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She says the most important thing is to “show up and be seen!” Why do I want to do the opposite? I want to move as far away from people as possible! Lots of land with woods. I want to only hear the birds chirping, leaves in the wind, and the babble of the creek! I don’t want to be seen! I just want some peace and quiet and no one demanding my time every second of my life!
You are being seen Stephanie 🙏🏼
🦋and you have shown up with your authentic feelings 🦋
You stole my comment! 😂 No, really...I concur wholeheartedly. But since I must work until I am financially stable and paid debts, I can use this to catapult myself out of this reserved box of shame that it seems people want us in to speaking from my heart and know what is right for me. Call it opinion; call it fact - our perception is our reality. I am worthy and if I have a stake in it, I will speak without worrying about what others think. That doesn't mean being hurtful or hateful towards others for their beliefs...it means damn you if you think I won't stand up for my right to voice my truths. No argument, no your right and I'm wrong cut and dry conversations. Sharing points of view and doing what is best for the common good or group at large is a lost art. It's to the detriment of everyone we attempt to be open to hearing each other's voice. Only then can we live in harmony.
Same here
In that case you won't even comment. You want to be seen... But you don't dare to
Once I was volunteering at a car wash event to raise money for sick children. Some people yelled out as they drove by "what a stupid thing to do on a sunny Saturday". That's when it hit me that no matter what we do, there are people who are going to criticize us. They don't understand, they are jealous, miserable, whatever. We need to ignore them and stay true to ourselves.
Put out a sign that says what your doing. Those who did brfore may not :) and they might even pull in with $
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Don't "regret". Learning things as a senior citizen, makes me more grateful for my life on a daily basis. When I go out the door, I try to carry with me a quote from my mom ..."There is no wisdom, greater than kindness". Thanks Mom!
Wise woman! God bless
Kindness without wisdom can be a disaster waiting to happen. Most downtown churches have experienced a person showing up asking for money so they can eat. When the offer to take that person to a store or restaurant and buy them some food is declined you know they were not interested in using the money to buy food.
@@rockzalt The desire to help someone should not be based on our expectations, and giving a person $10 or $20 is hardly a disaster. Peace!
@@markg.4246 The desire to encourage the use of drugs or alcohol for the homeless is done by people who don't really care.
It takes courage to be kind ! 😊
The three realizations:
1. Showing up and being seen - Beeing Vulnerable when you don't know the outcome.
2. I want to be a creator and show up and be seen. Get into the arena without caring what people say.
3. New philosophy about criticism: " If you are not in the arena, your criticism doesn't count"
Yes!
Love it ❤
Like my Grandmother told me
IT IS NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS WHAT OTHER PEOPLE SAY OR THINK ABOUT YOU!
Live your own life
Absolutely!
Being open to being vulnerable means your strong
You are not creative subject to others views, we are living to an audiences of One - being and doing our best
People who purport to believe in philosophies and theories must 1st be living them as their witness example - otherwise all your looking at is hypocrisy. Through the witnessing alone, then we can choose to follow… or not!
Sharing is vital if we are to individually and collectively make life meaningful and full of purpose. Brene is an authentic open hearted example which I try heard to follow to the best of my abilities, sharing her faith in our ability to overcome challenges
Be gentle, kind, good and patient with ourselves as we experience the nurturing power of these words as the reveal their power into a world that needs them
In my senior years I have discovered that the critic, unless it is constructive and meant to help you improve, doesn't matter. No matter what you do you will have critics. Sometimes because they are a person that just enjoys being critical. My grandson, the most amazing human I have ever known, gets a lot of criticism from his mother. I told him that he is almost a grown man, 3 weeks away, and that he should start living his own life in the way he knows is right for him. He has something so many people lack.....common sense. He is the kindest most empathetic person ever. If he never gets rich, it's OK because I know he will always be trying to help others. How can you criticize that?
I am old as well. When I was a child the definition of “success” was not fame and wealth, beauty and perpetual youth. My grandparents aspiration for me was that I would grow up to be a good person. A good person, that’s it.
You sound like me 75yr old female. Nothing can rattle me. I have had so many threats, insults and critisms in the comments of face book, but it made me chuckle that these little people cannot debate with you and just turn to school yard tactics. I always left feeling stupid, at which point they would give up and leave the link. Tails between their legs. 😇😂
Hi Sherrell, that’s such a lovely thing to write and you’re absolutely correct in every way. Sending you best wishes from the UK.
You are the best thing in that young man’s life.
He needs unconditional love and acceptance.
It was my grandmother, that gave me that in my life.
Now it’s my daughter, and sometimes, even from myself.
God bless your precious grandson ❤
This morning I was ready to walk away from a Non Profit I just started. After listening to this today I am more committed than ever.
*nonprofit
“You are imperfect and wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging!”
Dear Brene, getting into the arena was never about being seen; you missed the point. Being in the arena is about fighting for whatever it is. That is right and good and true. It’s not about attention. It’s not about being brave. It’s about pursuing truth and goodness. If you do that, then it doesn’t matter what other people think of you. It doesn’t matter whether you’re seen or not seen. The arena isn’t the goal. The possibility of advancing something bigger than yourself is the goal.
@fluffymajestic4589
Hear hear. Well said. I kept wondering why she was focusing on the concept “Be Seen.” If anyone else could read/ listen carefully about the Roosevelt quote her interpretation is her interpretation. Roosevelt’s statement is about not allowing a critic’s judgement to affect one’s significance/ goal/ journey is imperative. That it’s not about the end result or achieving greatness, it’s about doing the hard work and knowing one self and their worth regardless of what others may say. Now if that person happens to “be seen” her words, it’s besides the point. If they don’t find or garner acclaim it’s not relative. Thank you for your salient point which I personally think was more direct and clear then her Ted talk. In my opinion, “Being seen” is another wild goose chase.
Being seen is not about attention. It's about feeling connected. It's about human connection and that is something that will achieve bigger outcomes than one's personal goals.
I disagree. Being in the arena is all about being seen. True, there may be fighting involved, but it may be simply engaging, unapologetically, as a gay person, old person, fat person, someone with limitations or disabilities, or anyone who struggles with a new challenge. Brene is looking at this as a vulnerability researcher, and she sees how the quote can be applied to every challenge in life. The arena is where we show up for life. We don't hide ourselves away or make ourselves small for fear of being judged. Being seen isn't about attention, but it is all about being brave.
My interpretation of being 'seen' is about having an impact; it is not about getting attention.
@@TR4zest So interesting. I've always used it to mean, being understood for who we really are, like in the Avatar movie when they say, "I see you." When I'm seen, my true nature is being recognized. No filters. No masks. Just me as I am, without apology, regret. or judgement, both the weak and the strong of me.
"It's not the critic who counts
It's not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles
Or where the doer of deeds could have done it better
The credit belongs to the person who is actually in the Arena
Whose face is marred with blood and sweat and dust
Who at the best, in the end, knows the triumph of high achievement
And who at worst, if he fails, he fails daring greatly"
Thanks for this.... emailing it to myself!!! LOL
Very interesting noticed
❤
Well said
Edit: Sorry, I just got to this point in the video. Blushing.
"Being open to vulnerability means you are strong."
This story resonated with me.
I was headhunted for a job and sometime after I was in that position a chap I knew, in conversation said to me "you know you weren't the first to be asked", I looked back, not expecting this from him and retorted, "I know I wasn't the first but I was the best because I did the job". The underlying question to him was, I know why you knocked it it back.
That finished the conversation!
There is a Friend that sticks closer than a brother. He will give you even more wisdom and protect your back.
So true
"It's not about winning or losing, is about showing up and been seen."
Receive a huge hug from me and my wife. I needed this today. Thank you for not yielding. Giving in is easy. Standing real is a challenge to us all. Thank you for giving me a little bit of your courage. I need it.
🥰
Wow, I am impressed! Brene Brown just took the negative energy from a bunch of internet anonymous hateful comments and reframed them into positive energy and inspiration. That's inspiring and instructional in and of itself!
Its called coping mechanism 😅
@@parthsavyasachi9348 As if we have a choice? Really…what’s the alternative? No thanks.
@@zizendorf i meant brene brown is coping.
Off course we have options: we can judge the statements based on their merits and not based on who says it. Not all statements or comments that are negative are useless.
I’m disabled due to a handful of autoimmune diseases that are progressive and incurable. I was also brought up in a home where nothing was good enough. This hits hard but it’s true. Authenticity is paramount. Drop the mask, it will only help those around you.
I didn't know until I was 52 and near death, what diseases need. Cancer had nearly destroyed my liver when I was blessed with knowledge about the vegan diet and tried it. Six weeks later I realized this is it. People like me who lived through it know it, some doctors and experts know it, but the industries that make trillions in marketing the cause and treating diseases don't want us to know and they invest to provide reasons for us to doubt it.
Watch Dr Gabor Mate , he’s very good to .
This is so true its very sad 😢xx
Plus when you know you know and it is so frustrating 😤 xxx
Hi, Folks.
I have just listened to this speech again and I would like to add a few more of my thoughts on it, not just for your personal life - AND mine - but also about 'getting into the arena'.
1. You are only 'vulnerable' if you care what others may think of you, say about you or try to do to you. I am not saying that you should not care what ANYBODY thinks of you or says about you or does to you. BUTTTTT, IF you are going to allow some people to affect your life, be VERY careful about which people you choose to allow to have any effect on your life.
Again, "The ones who matter won't mind and the ones who mind don't matter."
2. The so-called 'vulnerability' is a social construct which was unheard of before about the 1960s when all this 'new age' stuff started being pushed at us. Please don't misunderstand me. If you want to improve yourself, by all means, GO for it, by whatever means you choose. I personally have been a practising Spiritualist since about 1970. What I am NOT is 'vulnerable' because I just plain don't care what all but a VERY select few other people might think of me or say about me.
3. While ever you remain TRUE to YOUR principles - not anybody else's principles or what you 'think' your principles should be to satisfy somebody else's ideas but YOUR principles - and still keep an open mind that is willing to learn both from your own mistakes and triumphs and from other people's mistakes and triumphs and from their words-to-actions relevance, as well as taking responsibility for your own thoughts, words and deeds, what others may think of you or say about you DOES NOT MATTER.
4. Personal responsibility is HYOOOOGE. If you wish to be seen as authentic, you HAVE to take responsibility for ALL of your thoughts, words and deeds, not only for other people's perceptions of you but also for your own perceptions of you. If you want to get a message across to other people, you need to be SEEN to be walking a walk that matches your talk.
5. You - AND I - need to practise critical thinking and analysis, both of the world around you AND of yourself. You need to be CONSTANTLY aware of any bias or inconsistencies that you might see, both in your own thoughts, words and deeds and in the thoughts, words and deeds of others and RESPOND accordingly.
6. You - AND I - need to learn to RESPOND thoughtfully rather than 'react' to what we see and hear around us. We also need to CHOOSE CAREFULLY just what we respond to and what is left to 'let go through to the catcher/keeper'. Some things just don't deserve a response.
Just my 0.02.
You all have a wonderful day. Best wishes. Deas Plant.
Brilliant! Wish schools taught this to our kids.
Schools are adopting more comprehensive SEL curriculum. However, parents and families need to be the primary teachers of these concepts.
Perhaps the families should no longer focus on trying to run interference and protecting their kids from everything "bad".
*You are the architect of your destiny. Embrace the challenges, for they are the stepping stones to greatness. Believe in your potential, push through the doubts, and rise above the noise. Success is not a destination, but a journey fueled by determination and resilience. Keep pushing forward, your victory awaits.*
An audience at a lecture is SUPPOSED to be speechless. That’s normal, especially if it’s boring 😊
Thank you. Wise. Compassionate. Transforming individuals and the world. I am so very grateful
She writes with such beautiful vulnerability that let's you know you can be vulnerable also.... Strong back soft front!
My mother used to say, "Don't set yourself up for disappointment." She was a disappointed woman. But she passed it down to me. Glad I saw this.
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My father introduced me to "The Man in the Arena" at a young age. I've never forgot its meaning and have no issue with, being the man in the arena...
Hurt people hurt people. Never fails.
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Most HONEST WORDS I’ve ever heard!!! Thank you! 💜🙏😘
WOW, WOW loved this Brene just so hitting the nail on the head....must have been for me today as just stumbled on this
Best TR quote, in my opinion, "Dare Mighty Things"
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Thank you so much for sharing this! I couldn’t believe how mean people could be! I went through something like that when I went to project runway and it was awful. Funny fact is that when you look at the people who personally attacks you, they have no credit on a personal or professional career whatsoever. This really resonates with me. Thank you!!!
Absolutely spot on!!! Thanks.
YES!!!! Absolutely, Brené Brown! 💖
"You are worthy"… Some thing about that statement teared me up.
Everything you do or say, has an effect. Mam', you are a genius.
Little baby quote really touched me and one I wished I heard when my two beautiful children arrived in this world
Thank you Brene, I needed to hear this, right this morning!
We have that quote over our kitchen table. It is one of the most powerful things I have ever read and we try to live our lives by it. ❤
Thank you for speaking some truths that are global, not just American. Very encouraging! Don't ever stop
I ABSOLUTELY love, love, love Brene!!!!! Not just because she is from Texas, but because she is real, transparent, raw, honest, and A PHENOMINAL STORYTELLER!!!!!
Thank you
What she learned was that you can read quotes by famous people who know what they know from a lifetime of struggling with problems that we can avoid by listening to them.
yea I don't get why she's so popular. It's all babble.
@@tacosmargs58 @daniel-zm6nh but how do you know that she doesn't have any struggles? You do know that this video is a compilation right? that someone else made? Do you have any access to her research? have you read it? Nope. Clearly your egos are trying extra hard to reject ideas.
@@tacosmargs58 @daniel-zm6nh but how do you know that she doesn't have any struggles? You do know that this video is a compilation right? that someone else made? Do you have any access to her research? have you read it? Nope. The only babble is the ones coming from your egos
@@januarysun8329 Ive seen many of her videos and read a couple books. I'm not a fan.
@januarysun8329 Oops, I meant that WE can avoid some of our struggles by learning from people who have already lived through the problems we face now.
I'm so very grateful that I met up with failure starting around age five. It's never left my side.
Incredible, thankyou.
You know, once i was in a bookshop wandering and wondering “Am i being stupid, for being in love with someone who doesn’t want me?”.
Then her book “The courage of being vulnerable” popped up. 💙
Lol is this a pick up line?
First, the question isn’t about your stupidity. The proper question is that are you being foolish for being in love with someone who doesn’t want you. If someone doesn’t want you, then they obviously don’t know your value and furthermore, you may want to consider how valuable you are in the first place. When you open yourself up to the opportunity of love, you tend to give more attention to the one that you would like to have that connection with. However, you cannot forget your worth in the process, so no, you’re not stupid or foolish you have forgotten your worth and ended up putting the other person higher than you. Come back to focusing on who you are and forget the people who don’t see or appreciate you.
@@LibraNYC4ever Thank you so much.
Yes you are right. Yes then eventually appreciating myself more and more is what I end up doing. "Finding yourself again after losing yourself to love" was the title of a very interesting video on youtube.
I lose myself when in love.
Let's see. And then I find myself again.
I'm growing and growing through these painful processes.
It's a way of spiritual growth.
And Brene Brown has been one of the means god guided me through.
Thank you for your words of wisdom!
I will definitelly remember them. 💙
Excellent. Vulnerability turns out to be the equivalent to courage.
Thx Dr Brown! You’re book “The gifts of imperfection “ helped me so much. I greatly appreciate your work!
Brene is just the best!🎉
I can totally relate to this speech and the thoughts that come across.
I'm retired and volunteer including fundraising, which I find hard and uncomfortable. Yet, I learned more about people, in particular myself, than I did in earlier life. Such a shame one can't go back and start life with the knowledge gained to become a better person.
I think it’s helpful to remember the arena may not be a big one. Trying to be a better person, and create a better world, often takes place in one small arena after another
Loved this! and I really needed to hear this today.
this is wonderful, thank you !
I'm BLOWN away by you.............wow........just wow. I can't believe I haven't heard of you before..........so grateful I found this!!!
I’m a fan. Mindfulness, which seems to be what you’re taking about, and the real magic of joy, grace, and gratitude, are real. And also I need to get back in the arena to kick some ass.
This is just about as good as it gets.
I think that every human being is born to create in their own unique way. Every human being is born to blossom, with their own colors and in their own time. But most people bind up that part of themselves, place it on a pyre, and offer up the ashes to the gods of fear and (perceived) social acceptance. And in the end, all that we could have been has been sacrificed to an illusion.
Ouchhh
I've heard some of this talk before but it really was just what I needed to hear in this moment. Thank you.
Thanks for the reminder of the courage it takes to be authentic and graciously forgive those who are projecting their fear onto you.
Love this!
As someone who has achieved what one person said below about being unseen and going back to nature (it took me 14 years and a lot of work), I agree with this lady and what Jim Carrey has said: BE SEEN. If you want more in life than just paying the bills, RAM THE ICEBERG and make a real difference in this world!!! Remember Teknatura.
as someone who has accepted help and waited years for the system to follow through on helping ending my homelessness over 10 times i think perspectives need to broaden to allow for what qualifies as being in the arena
I practice gratitude. I am enough. Love you. Thank you for shining so bright!
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You are Awesomeness! Never forget it...😎💕🕊
Wauw. Now thàt was exactly what I needed to hear and with every word you spoke, I was just nodding, admitting that your talk is so true, real, fair, honest, modest. I really will listen to this story many more times in the next few weeks. I really have the feeling I gotta think real hard from different angles. I really gotta realize and accept your truth. Because I haven’t really thought about my life like the way you have, but it opens my eyes and touches my soul. Thanks a lot!!!
Dear Dr. Brown. Thank you for being in the arena.
Thank you 💖
Brilliant - answer to a question I’ve been struggling with - Tank you.
There's no job for us. We just exist with no specific job. We love and we can realize how perfect we are when we embrace pain as part of our existence, of us. If you feel that someone needs to say sorry it's because you are hurting and only your forgiveness will release that pain, because you will understand then that nobody did anything wrong, that we are that perfect baby all the time, that we are loved and we love all the time, even if that hurts. We are perfect and only if you love yourself/existence as your are, you will be able to see that.
To be enough for love means you deserve love and love is not a certain amount, love is all. Success is who you are.
I am inspired by your insight on vulnerability. I have spent most of 65 years trying to escape it. Thank you for posting, I am called to listen to this video again..
One of THE best speeches that I have ever heard. Powerful messages ❤
Your reasoning is so On point each time I watch your video I learn something new.
Agreed - good words
Thank You. I needed it this morning!
Ty, Brene
Brene and her work has had such a profound impact on my life and on how I show up for myself and for others. Mad appreciation. Thank you
Great video. Definitely food for thought. It's always refreshing to hear someone who's genuine and down to earth. Thank you for this great man
@Brene Brown: Hats off to you!!
Mindblowing speech
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Brilliant👏
This really made me think. ❤
Thanks❣️
Very inspirational speech definition ❤❤❤
That quote by TR is framed and hanging in my office. I look at it when things aren't going well.
Thank you! Bless you!!! This is so real ..... Og Mandino said 'do all things with love.' That includes love for self. Keep living in light!❤
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Amazing video with smplified discription, thank you
Telling my true story makes me numb , keep moving laughing making a joke seeing true laughter makes me feel alive .
Looking up ⬆️ sharing this make me smile. Thank you 🙏 🇺🇸🦅🌹
I discovered you late in my life...at 68 yr old woman. However I feel truly blessed by listening to everything I can find on your talk's. Learning to love and accept myself has been a journey of discovery. Have been a working carer for 17 yrs. Changing lanes next July to get cert IV in community services after believing for too long that I didn't have the courage to or the smarts and getting over broken pelvis currently. I don't care I believe that I have the ability to empower other women in fragile circumstances to find their own voice. When I went into councelling for various issues.
The first question my counsellor asked me to ask myself was is this good for me.
That's when the shift started for me. The second question was is this my responsibility. I've learnt so much after four years of councelling.
Thank you. I cuss and have faith and I needed this today. Godbless!
I admire your confidence...
Thank you LA for publishing this Inspirational video. I love it and I've learned today.
Thank you so much....
Awesome!
From an alcoholic who is now sober...numbing my feelings is why I drank...
Wow! What an amazing human being! She really gets what it means to be authentic unapologetically. Needed this today. Thank you 🌸 🙏
Good point about how we raise our kids.
When people insult you, it's not about you, it's about them.
It's either about their personal struggles or their jealousy.
Yes and No
Your words are amazing thank you
I missed seeing your face on this clip Brene, you shine
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Thank you😍
Amen!
Brene is my Hero❤
I really needed to hear this. Thank you so much.
Hello Linda
How are you doing today?
You are fantastic!
My main takeaway: if you aren't also in the arena getting your ass kicked, then your opinion doesn't matter to me. Yes!!!
Well done that was good wisdom