When I started cross-dressing I was shocked at how so many straight men enjoyed being with me. It took some time on my part to understand that they were attracted to all the things that I was and not what they might get from me (sexually). I found that some of them really enjoyed the idea of what I was. I guess I enjoy interacting with cross-dressers also. We have the ability to live in "both worlds." Something I have lived by was this phrase: cross-dressing is living art, I paint myself as i see fit. I want to create something pretty. If I am not making you smile I am not doing my job.
@@_Chxnel This concept goes way beyond "I just putting on make-up/painting my face." We are like a blank canvas like you buy at Hobby Lobby. When I pick the wig, make-up, clothing and even the LOCATION I go to, this is an adventure in creating something on the blank canvas. If it did not work out to your satisfaction, try again. When I was going to night clubs (many years ago) fellow CDs would ask me; "Are you afraid to go out of the house?" I said not once...this is an adventure! Art was my favorite class in high school!
@@_Chxnel I cut my teeth in the night clubs and also got on stage! I also did several years of holding contest at anime conventions. I offered the chance for males to dress like frilly maids and perform on stage - I was over ran with contestants! Lately I have focused more on traveling around my city (dressed as a Victorian Lady) and just enjoying the scenery.
I always wondered what that felt like to be a CD and discover that you have a large following. Something that you do in private and have no plans to come out with too many people on and "bam!" you have way more men that desire you than you ever thought. I have seen CD's who are not trying very hard to "pass" but walk proudly around the super market and I found that to be attractive by the sheer will to do what they want. I always compliment them if it is in the natural flow of interaction. I do not want to make them feel weird by saying "hey, I am supportive!" Lol! I see so many CD's on social media and the have a large following. The more open they are and creative with the presentation the better.
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. I'm straight, and I'm attracted to femininity. Many trans women and crossdressers try much harder to project femininity than many genetic women do. There is also the "naughtiness" factor, I suppose, but if I were single and met a crossdresser who looked and sounded like you, I'd be interested in dating her. Paola, you are incredibly beautiful!
You do hit the " bulls eye" for me and yes you are absolutely right; is ( in my case) the " female image" and as delicate and smooth and girlie as possible , that I'm attracted to, thanks for your input, very important and to educate society as well.🌷
100x this! I feel like we need to shout this from the rooftops for them. Hopefully this reassures any admirers who are struggling with their sexuality.
Hi Paola. I think you hit the mark here and anyone willing to listen should learn about themselves with this video. Thanks for making it. I really like the dress your wearing, the color is sensational and as always you look great. Jewel
The core of universal human attraction of opposites is our sacred self-love of our sacred selves, and and our universal love for, and devotion to, the sacred feminine within all of us. CD’s are sacred messengers of the sacred feminine. What an outstanding job you have done here, with these examples that you have provided. Thank you!!
I've struggled with this issue within myself for decades.. I've always considered myself gay or Bisexual at the very least and never come out of the "closet". I've been attracted to trans girls for decades and have had a several different trans relationships as well as always been able to get really attractive cis women. now, when i try to meet trans girls i get called a "chaser" because of my attraction to them and it makes me feel like some old pervert, which im not. ive been dating trans girls for longer than most of the girls have been alive, very frustrating to say the least. thank you for your kind words on this topic Paola, love you!
I’ve been crossdress for over 40 years and until I watched this video I thought that I was bi or gay. The way that you explained this topic was eye opening for me and I want to say thank you! Btw I absolutely love your hair styled like you have it in this video!
I am attracted solely to crossdressers and enjoy the fact that they have to same atomically correct parts as my self. I enjoy their feminine persona very much but once again I am also attracted to the fact the we share the same private parts. Not sure if this makes a person gay or not. I definitely am not attracted to men one bit but crossdressers very much so…..gay or not gay, I am puzzled.
For me is simple really. I am a guy, and while I've only been with women, I realized years ago I can be attracted to transgender and crossdresser women, their femininity is beautiful to me. If it happen that a person like that comes into my life, she'll be welcome, they are women to me and I don't need to ask myself about labels.
I watch your videos because I am transgender. I have been since the age of four. You've always had correct answers for the questions that I was searching for I've gained a lot of knowledge watching your videos!. I try to learn everything I can about being a female especially now because of the earlier video made a comment about seeing a psychologist you had the courage to say that on UA-cam! Which gave me the courage to see a psychologist I I have started my gender reassignment process! If you go back to that video that you mentioned seeing a psychologist. You're saying that give me the courage to see a psychologist. I am grateful you had the courage to say that. It helped give me the courage to see a psychologist. In the video that you mentioned about seeing psychologist I went back and left you a comment a very special comment on how you help me. reassignment best part about that military is going to pay for all the procedures have been blessed not to have to pay anything.If you go back and review the comment I made it will all make sense.. in that comment I left my email and my name Robert which is now Robi in case you wanted to reply I thank you again you have helped give me the courage to do something I should have done a long time ago and if you go back and review the comments you will that is the age 4 I knew I was in the wrong body and I've been a transgender. I am now 60 and I now get to the remainder of my life being a woman!!! I left you my email address and my name Robert if you want to reply to the comments I made. You help me in my journey thank you very much
This was extremely eye opening for me, personally. Thank you for making this video! You made me understand how someone can have such a strong appreciation for something, it makes you want to imitate it (ie..dressing) This really answered the "Why do I like this" question in my head!
I loved this video. You’re absolutely correct. Men who are attracted to us are straight!!!! I want to also applaud you for telling everyone that as transgender women, we are 100% women. We’re just women that happen to be transgender. Thank you so very much. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
If you were "just women that happen to be transgender" then you'd be a man (as I read and understand that logic). There are many women that are transgender. But a guy that is transgender is in fact a woman with an awkwardly male body. I think we're on the same page, just gets very confusing. Any time you use the word transgender, you cross the blurry line between male and female. And by saying "woman that is transgender", you imply a crossing of the line to become male. But if you say "transgender women" that means you've already crossed the line and are now a woman. Bottom line, gender is between the ears, sex is between the legs. When the two don't match, you're transgender.
@@COSMACELF1802 You and I are not on the same page. I’ve always been a woman. You appear to be one that feels awkward because you can’t resolve your attraction to me and you vail your obvious transphobia with ignorant remarks. There aren’t any blurry lines other than your misguided attempt to delegitimize the science. I didn’t cross any line, I was aways a woman.
@@May.Angela.Mojica Sorry to trigger you. You are right, we aren't on the same page. I was trying to say something nice. Please forgive my offence to you, It was not intended. Peace out.
I love girls who are 100% girls. Don't care what they're wearing. I'm a straight guy. No confusion. No help required. Lot's of guys love femininity even if it comes with male appendages. Nothing new about that. Not sure why anybody should imagine they're ashamed about that. It's an individual and private matter. Human sexual attraction is as varied as it's always been.
Thank you Paola for posting this video. It was very helpful and reassuring. Your experience, knowledge and wisdom on this topic is so impressive. Btw, as always, you look beautiful.
Great video. I have seen your previous video discussing the same topic. Honestly your older video was helpful because I wasn’t sure how to feel about how I felt (if that makes sense). Today’s video just helps me to remember these key points. Yes I am attracted to cross dressers , yourself included. But like you mentioned it’s the softer aspects that I find attractive. The clothing, the demeanour, etc. A big reason for following your channel is for you personally. You are so pretty. Your understanding and loving wife is a blessing to be sure. If I ever find another relationship I will be honest about what I like to do. If that’s a deal breaker so be it. I learn a lot. Please keep up the good work. Btw, I noticed your eyes today. Such a beautiful shade of green. I’ve commented on that before I’m sure. Anyway, stay safe. Thank you for all your videos.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 Yes absolutely. Your newer subscribers will likely feel the disconnect or question their “orientation”. Your perspective will be helpful to many people. It’s my absolute pleasure to share these thoughts with you and others. As for you personally, stay lovely 🥰
Hi I’m in a conundrum and need help defying if I am bi or straight. I’m not sure if this is as unique I think but here goes: I know I am attracted to femininity in both men and women, however I am extremely submissive to the idea of femininity, and receive from men and women. Does my kink combined with men make me bisexual? I think it does, but I’d love confirmation. Thanks for reading
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality now as it took me a long time to find out just where i fitted in an who i really was . I'm trans / cross dresser 24/7 now live an work as a sectary in a office for a small company and I'm attracted to males. I think many trans women and crossdressers feel they have to try harder to project femininity a lot more than many genetic women do.
Isnt there a difference between trans and crossdresser? I thought crossdresser was a guy that liked womens clothes and trans was a person born male but has the feeling of actually being a woman
Thanks Paola for another educational video :) Owning your own sexuality is important as i feel it can free you from social conditioning that is laid down in our society i.e. family, religion, culture etc. I find that attractiveness works on so many levels: looks, personality, behaviour etc xx
Hi Paola! You look so beautiful 😍🥰 l am a straight man, mature, open minded, I have always love and feel attracted to women this includes trans women, I don't feel attracted at all to any masculine figure, if it looks like a woman, acts like a woman, to me is a Woman and that's what I love, trans women are beautiful too I wish I had trans women friends, thank you for your videos, I send you hugs and kisses I love you Paola I don't care what you are 🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️
Thank You Paola ! So grateful for your videos. You are correct.....I am one who is attracted to the image. Once had a long chat with a CD while I was at an away from home bar. She had come to order a drink and turned out to be an hour long education about CD clothing and body shapers. She was part of a group from a much larger city come to a smaller city for fun. Would have dated if she hadn't been a smoker ! Major turn-off !
Gynandromorphophilia possibly trust me if you meet a XX with game [which is freaking unicorn rare] you will fall for them. Amelia was the unicorn i met. she was intellectually intimidating and made me light up with excitement every time we met. she could also legpress 1000lbs
Paola, ive always loved and respected your videos, and I find this one particularly interesting. I find your presentation very attractive. You look feminine, sound feminine, and move in a feminine manner. I do crossdress myself but not anywhere near the degree you do. I am a straight male and I find feminity very attractive. Whether I find it in a woman, a crossdresser or myself, its always about the allure of feminine charms. Thanks for your bravery, insights, and beauty.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 hey Paola ❤️❤️❤️I love your content ❤️ so thank you for being here I've noticed with in the last five years that I love CD and tgs and I'm very attractive to them! I'm a straight male! What I see is women that's what I see! I don't like labels! I love the way they dress up I especially love when they Wear pantyhose all the time with gorgeous pointy closed toe pump's or with sneakers and they dress to the 9's and care on how they look and they do there make up and hair which I have seen regular women don't delete that anymore! There don't dress up they wear unattractive outfits ! They dress like guys now! There's no femininity no elegants! Just nothing! But that's just me! It just my opinion on what I see over here in LA CA! When I was growing up in the 70's&80's women would always dress up and wear pantyhose always! Man I miss it! Now it's just completely Dead 😭; so to me tgs5 CD's always care on how they look and there super open minded hand's down and to me I think there1000 times sexier and gorgeous just like u! So thank you for being here I really appreciate you ☺️ much love from pasadena ca 👠👠
@@drewrosecrans9728 in this situation, how about if u r not attracted to masculine guys, but u just want to try transgending yet u r addicted to backdoor fun, how would it be described?
Yes, even I think that men who are attracted to crossdresser girls, love their feminine appearance. If crossdresser girls (and also transgender girls) have a very feminine appearance they are highly valued by men. A gay man is attracted by the male exterior appearance of the partner. It would be interesting to understand by who are attracted the crossdresser girls. I have the impression that they are more attracted to women. The same attraction that drives them to be similar to them outwardly. In the case of transgender girls, however, it seems to me that there is a majority of women who prefer to relate to men, but there are also others who prefer women.
Nice video. I really appreciate you talking about this which really helps people like me to understand. I didn't get what you said that we're not really gay, but it sort of helps at least me to understand a little bit.
Thank you for your informative videos. A video like this inform us and educate us and help us (those who have grew up in a macho society) clear those wrong interpretations about our sexuality. Once again thank you Paola.
Thank you so much for clarification. Cos recently I've been having a lot of big fantasies about Trans women. This video has answered my question without having to ask it. Thanks again take care Much love and keep Slaying ❤️💋❤️
I always felt that I am straight even with my original curiosity toward crossdressers to now showing admiration. I have never had any problems whatsoever with anyone crossdressing, since that didn’t hurt my feelings nor wasn’t offended.
I like to crossdress but I am NOT attracted to men. Just got my first outfit...not just a piece. I love women, which is how I got here watching you. I thought you were going to comment as a women...and was even more pleased to see you as a beautiful crossdresser. I appreciate your candor and clarity. God Bless you for your supportive clarification.
I do have a lot question I am straight but the idea of male turning in female for one day (cds) fascinates me. But I am? Idk I am still interested in guys though
This was great! I waited for this type of video for a long time. I'm one of those masculine men that are attracted to crossdressers and transgender women. I'm very open with my friends and family regarding my attractions. There's also the Bi spectrum, some say that's what I am, I'm not concerned with labels. I some occasions I'll find ultra feminine men attractive. Thank you Paola.🥰
By definition straight would be someone attracted to the opposite sex. It doesn't have to do with gender. So if you're attracted to femboys you aren't straight. It seems homophobic to me when people try telling themselves they're straight even though they like stuff like that. People just need to stop worrying about straight or whatever. "Omg I might be gay" People worry over it because of society.
@@bobbydigital8319 I like your comment but I disagree that it's society that says it wrong. I believe it is our conscience that tells us it's wrong and society is telling us not to listen to those thoughts or feelings, it's telling us it's right if what do makes you happy. That is fine if that is the way you desire to live and no one has the right to judge you on those choices that you feel are best for you no matter how much they are for it or against it. There are consequences for every decision we make, whether it turns out to be a good or bad consequence is an unknown to the individual till they have walked that path. I will say this that there is always forgiveness if the choices we make where not right for us.
Paola I'm a heterosexual male. Always have been. This attraction I feel towards you is as real as it gets. I'm being attracted to a female figure of the highest level.an absolute creature reeking physical womanly beauty. I'm so not ashamed of this. And stand by as well as nurture my feelings. God Bless You
I play D&D (Dungeons and Dragons) and I have a couple of groups I run (Dungeon Master) whom are TG's and CD's, so as straight military man, I have been trying to do some research in how to best be understanding towards my fellow LBGTQ+ players. So alot of your vids do offer some insight and are helpful.
Thank you for straightening that out. But i still love you cause of your great personality. Sometimes its about the person Not the outside shell. A good personality.the humble soul.
What about the crossdresser who enjoys male attention only when dressed? Is it sexual or just enjoying that they attract men give satisfaction that they’re passing? What does that attention do for you? Love your green dress. Thanks for your videos.
Really good video! We are attracted to the female image, and there is a certain amount of class, and the way a person presents themselves, which is also important factors.
i think it falls in between straight and bi. if guys who like trans women and crossdressers are staraight then every straight guy would like them. not all straight guys are down to clown though.
So intelligent . Love you for this. Yes is the answer I am a straight man but your so right on everything you say . Also I'd like to point out . This is the new you not the old you as I've known you for years pointing out . Never to reveal your name like some body else did. Privacy is everything . And i respect you the way you are . My god if i looked like you i be very happy indeed xx
Hola Paola, I have had women who are attracted to me when I crossdress, who wouldn't give me a second look in guy mode. Are they gay or, into femme guys. It really is sometimes a confusing topic. Peace and Love, Sheila.
As a crossdresser I have had many conversations with men who are attracted to me for what I am. It seems like what's attractive to them is in fact that we are male, but look like women, but still have no interest in me as a man. I don't think of these people as gay, but it's not 100% straight either. It's more like a fetish thing, it seems like. And as you say there is a clear difference between crossdressing men and trans women. The problem is that a lot of these men you're referring to has a tendency to not separate between the two. It's might be problematic for crossdressers because we're not presenting as women full time (barely even part time), which I feel is often the assumption. But even more problematic for trans women, in whose community these men are referred to as chasers. People who go after trans women for the fact that they were born men. For a lot of trans women that is a major insecurity, and something they're trying to hide, so fetishizing it can be interpreted as very rude or offensive.
You are right, but everything can be a fetish thing. Blondes, girls with glasses, skinny girls, curvy girls, and therefore also girls with male genitals.
I found that I love both GG's and TG women adorable and have dated both. My first time with a TG was in Thailand on my first tour there during the Vietnam War and upon returning to the U.S. I dated other Tgirls and enjoyed the dates and also was dating GG's as well and I figured that it was the feminine look and appeal which was interesting to me. I had no interest in guys as guys and still think that way.
You are absolutely correct I am not gay but I love crossdressers the are so real and they always dress so girly they are a lot of fun to be with I have many crossdressing friends and I love each one of and would protect each one of them if the need should ever arise
I feel attracted to crossdressers because at my youth, i was arrested and bullied by the girls at my school. So even though i like the women form, i am not keen to them. I do not trust women. It makes me feel keen to men who present themselves as women, even though i have never been with one. And this trauma also has caused my crossdress tendencies. Because i feel that if i cannot have someone beautiful at my side, then i have to become the beauty, the women.
Thanks Paola for taking time to devote a video to us guys. For what its worth i think you are probably the most beautiful dresser I've ever seen and you always have been from years gone bye.
After reading through some of the comments here I've also seen a lot of men point out that they're attracted to femininity. Well, there are still cis women around who likes to embrace femininity. So I want to ask you if you had the choice between two versions of your ideal woman, where the key difference is that the other one was born a man, which one would you choose?
When I started cross-dressing I was shocked at how so many straight men enjoyed being with me. It took some time on my part to understand that they were attracted to all the things that I was and not what they might get from me (sexually). I found that some of them really enjoyed the idea of what I was. I guess I enjoy interacting with cross-dressers also. We have the ability to live in "both worlds." Something I have lived by was this phrase: cross-dressing is living art, I paint myself as i see fit. I want to create something pretty. If I am not making you smile I am not doing my job.
I love this living art quote
@@_Chxnel This concept goes way beyond "I just putting on make-up/painting my face." We are like a blank canvas like you buy at Hobby Lobby. When I pick the wig, make-up, clothing and even the LOCATION I go to, this is an adventure in creating something on the blank canvas. If it did not work out to your satisfaction, try again. When I was going to night clubs (many years ago) fellow CDs would ask me; "Are you afraid to go out of the house?" I said not once...this is an adventure! Art was my favorite class in high school!
@@VictorianMaid99 lol we lived the same lives.. different ears.. I’m in my clubbing bar hopping stage now
@@_Chxnel I cut my teeth in the night clubs and also got on stage! I also did several years of holding contest at anime conventions. I offered the chance for males to dress like frilly maids and perform on stage - I was over ran with contestants! Lately I have focused more on traveling around my city (dressed as a Victorian Lady) and just enjoying the scenery.
I always wondered what that felt like to be a CD and discover that you have a large following. Something that you do in private and have no plans to come out with too many people on and "bam!" you have way more men that desire you than you ever thought. I have seen CD's who are not trying very hard to "pass" but walk proudly around the super market and I found that to be attractive by the sheer will to do what they want. I always compliment them if it is in the natural flow of interaction. I do not want to make them feel weird by saying "hey, I am supportive!" Lol! I see so many CD's on social media and the have a large following. The more open they are and creative with the presentation the better.
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality. I'm straight, and I'm attracted to femininity. Many trans women and crossdressers try much harder to project femininity than many genetic women do.
There is also the "naughtiness" factor, I suppose, but if I were single and met a crossdresser who looked and sounded like you, I'd be interested in dating her.
Paola, you are incredibly beautiful!
I think also being honest actually projects the femininity
You do hit the " bulls eye" for me and yes you are absolutely right; is ( in my case) the " female image" and as delicate and smooth and girlie as possible , that I'm attracted to, thanks for your input, very important and to educate society as well.🌷
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I like feminine bodies. I don't care what they identify themselves as.
What a great video!
I've already dealt with this topic a lot.
Unfortunately, I never came to a result for myself.
Thank you for your words !
100x this! I feel like we need to shout this from the rooftops for them. Hopefully this reassures any admirers who are struggling with their sexuality.
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Agree, Jessica.
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Hi Paola. I think you hit the mark here and anyone willing to listen should learn about themselves with this video. Thanks for making it. I really like the dress your wearing, the color is sensational and as always you look great. Jewel
Thank you for your videos, men hit on me alot, women are totally into my lifestyle.
But, im content being celibate.🎉
Thank you for helping to clarify this topic. I've been confused for a while and this video helps me so much....
The core of universal human attraction of opposites is our sacred self-love of our sacred selves, and and our universal love for, and devotion to, the sacred feminine within all of us. CD’s are sacred messengers of the sacred feminine.
What an outstanding job you have done here, with these examples that you have provided. Thank you!!
I've struggled with this issue within myself for decades.. I've always considered myself gay or Bisexual at the very least and never come out of the "closet". I've been attracted to trans girls for decades and have had a several different trans relationships as well as always been able to get really attractive cis women. now, when i try to meet trans girls i get called a "chaser" because of my attraction to them and it makes me feel like some old pervert, which im not. ive been dating trans girls for longer than most of the girls have been alive, very frustrating to say the least. thank you for your kind words on this topic Paola, love you!
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I’ve been crossdress for over 40 years and until I watched this video I thought that I was bi or gay. The way that you explained this topic was eye opening for me and I want to say thank you! Btw I absolutely love your hair styled like you have it in this video!
I am 1 of those men & I do agree with you!!! I
Your questions are so great and to the point.
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Thank you for the great video. You made it so easy to understand. God bless you and your family Paola.
I am attracted solely to crossdressers and enjoy the fact that they have to same atomically correct parts as my self. I enjoy their feminine persona very much but once again I am also attracted to the fact the we share the same private parts. Not sure if this makes a person gay or not. I definitely am not attracted to men one bit but crossdressers very much so…..gay or not gay, I am puzzled.
For me is simple really.
I am a guy, and while I've only been with women, I realized years ago I can be attracted to transgender and crossdresser women, their femininity is beautiful to me. If it happen that a person like that comes into my life, she'll be welcome, they are women to me and I don't need to ask myself about labels.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 It really is like you say, and you are a splendid example of that.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 Paola you are so right! How you present yourself or maybe how you VALUE yourself makes all the difference!
Thanks for saying that. More people need to hear it! Oh yeah you look great!
I watch your videos because I am transgender. I have been since the age of four. You've always had correct answers for the questions that I was searching for I've gained a lot of knowledge watching your videos!. I try to learn everything I can about being a female especially now because of the earlier video made a comment about seeing a psychologist you had the courage to say that on UA-cam! Which gave me the courage to see a psychologist I I have started my gender reassignment process! If you go back to that video that you mentioned seeing a psychologist. You're saying that give me the courage to see a psychologist. I am grateful you had the courage to say that. It helped give me the courage to see a psychologist. In the video that you mentioned about seeing psychologist I went back and left you a comment a very special comment on how you help me. reassignment best part about that military is going to pay for all the procedures have been blessed not to have to pay anything.If you go back and review the comment I made it will all make sense.. in that comment I left my email and my name Robert which is now Robi in case you wanted to reply I thank you again you have helped give me the courage to do something I should have done a long time ago and if you go back and review the comments you will that is the age 4 I knew I was in the wrong body and I've been a transgender. I am now 60 and I now get to the remainder of my life being a woman!!! I left you my email address and my name Robert if you want to reply to the comments I made. You help me in my journey thank you very much
This was extremely eye opening for me, personally. Thank you for making this video! You made me understand how someone can have such a strong appreciation for something, it makes you want to imitate it (ie..dressing) This really answered the "Why do I like this" question in my head!
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I loved this video. You’re absolutely correct. Men who are attracted to us are straight!!!! I want to also applaud you for telling everyone that as transgender women, we are 100% women. We’re just women that happen to be transgender. Thank you so very much. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
If you were "just women that happen to be transgender" then you'd be a man (as I read and understand that logic). There are many women that are transgender. But a guy that is transgender is in fact a woman with an awkwardly male body. I think we're on the same page, just gets very confusing. Any time you use the word transgender, you cross the blurry line between male and female. And by saying "woman that is transgender", you imply a crossing of the line to become male. But if you say "transgender women" that means you've already crossed the line and are now a woman. Bottom line, gender is between the ears, sex is between the legs. When the two don't match, you're transgender.
@@COSMACELF1802 You and I are not on the same page. I’ve always been a woman. You appear to be one that feels awkward because you can’t resolve your attraction to me and you vail your obvious transphobia with ignorant remarks. There aren’t any blurry lines other than your misguided attempt to delegitimize the science. I didn’t cross any line, I was aways a woman.
@@May.Angela.Mojica Sorry to trigger you. You are right, we aren't on the same page. I was trying to say something nice. Please forgive my offence to you, It was not intended. Peace out.
She is right
You're a beautiful lady. Thank you for explaining this to me so well.
I love girls who are 100% girls. Don't care what they're wearing. I'm a straight guy. No confusion. No help required.
Lot's of guys love femininity even if it comes with male appendages. Nothing new about that. Not sure why anybody should imagine they're ashamed about that. It's an individual and private matter.
Human sexual attraction is as varied as it's always been.
Thank you for this. I really needed to hear it. You have made a difference in my life.
Thank you Paola for posting this video. It was very helpful and reassuring. Your experience, knowledge and wisdom on this topic is so impressive. Btw, as always, you look beautiful.
Thank you for helping me show more of myself and not care about what people will think
Thank you for making this I really needed this
Great video. I have seen your previous video discussing the same topic. Honestly your older video was helpful because I wasn’t sure how to feel about how I felt (if that makes sense). Today’s video just helps me to remember these key points. Yes I am attracted to cross dressers , yourself included. But like you mentioned it’s the softer aspects that I find attractive. The clothing, the demeanour, etc. A big reason for following your channel is for you personally. You are so pretty. Your understanding and loving wife is a blessing to be sure. If I ever find another relationship I will be honest about what I like to do. If that’s a deal breaker so be it. I learn a lot. Please keep up the good work. Btw, I noticed your eyes today. Such a beautiful shade of green. I’ve commented on that before I’m sure. Anyway, stay safe. Thank you for all your videos.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 Yes absolutely. Your newer subscribers will likely feel the disconnect or question their “orientation”. Your perspective will be helpful to many people. It’s my absolute pleasure to share these thoughts with you and others. As for you personally, stay lovely 🥰
Hi I’m in a conundrum and need help defying if I am bi or straight. I’m not sure if this is as unique I think but here goes:
I know I am attracted to femininity in both men and women, however I am extremely submissive to the idea of femininity, and receive from men and women. Does my kink combined with men make me bisexual? I think it does, but I’d love confirmation. Thanks for reading
I'm very comfortable with my sexuality now as it took me a long time to find out just where i fitted in an who i really was . I'm trans / cross dresser 24/7 now live an work as a sectary in a office for a small company and I'm attracted to males. I think many trans women and crossdressers feel they have to try harder to project femininity a lot more than many genetic women do.
Isnt there a difference between trans and crossdresser? I thought crossdresser was a guy that liked womens clothes and trans was a person born male but has the feeling of actually being a woman
It’s always has been you that I love , from the very beginning, however you are an impossible being to love 🥀
Dr. Paola Phd.....well explained.. Totally blown away with your insight on this segment....
This is why we love your channel Paola ❤ You know how to make people understand ther feelings. Thankyou ❤💋
Thanks Paola for another educational video :) Owning your own sexuality is important as i feel it can free you from social conditioning that is laid down in our society i.e. family, religion, culture etc. I find that attractiveness works on so many levels: looks, personality, behaviour etc xx
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Hi Paola! You look so beautiful 😍🥰 l am a straight man, mature, open minded, I have always love and feel attracted to women this includes trans women, I don't feel attracted at all to any masculine figure, if it looks like a woman, acts like a woman, to me is a Woman and that's what I love, trans women are beautiful too I wish I had trans women friends, thank you for your videos, I send you hugs and kisses I love you Paola I don't care what you are 🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️
Thank You Paola ! So grateful for your videos. You are correct.....I am one who is attracted to the image.
Once had a long chat with a CD while I was at an away from home bar. She had come to order a drink and turned out to be an hour long education about CD clothing and body shapers. She was part of a group from a much larger city come to a smaller city for fun.
Would have dated if she hadn't been a smoker ! Major turn-off !
What about men who are ONLY attracted to trans women and crossdressers but not cis women? What would they be considered?
Gynandromorphophilia possibly
trust me if you meet a XX with game [which is freaking unicorn rare] you will fall for them.
Amelia was the unicorn i met. she was intellectually intimidating and made me light up with excitement every time we met.
she could also legpress 1000lbs
I have never been with a CD/TG...but I would LOVE to do that. Seriously.
Miss Paola is THE most definitive example of BEAUTY 😍
@@girltimewithpaola9251 you bet😊
Paola, ive always loved and respected your videos, and I find this one particularly interesting. I find your presentation very attractive. You look feminine, sound feminine, and move in a feminine manner. I do crossdress myself but not anywhere near the degree you do. I am a straight male and I find feminity very attractive. Whether I find it in a woman, a crossdresser or myself, its always about the allure of feminine charms. Thanks for your bravery, insights, and beauty.
@@girltimewithpaola9251 hey Paola ❤️❤️❤️I love your content ❤️ so thank you for being here I've noticed with in the last five years that I love CD and tgs and I'm very attractive to them! I'm a straight male! What I see is women that's what I see! I don't like labels! I love the way they dress up I especially love when they Wear pantyhose all the time with gorgeous pointy closed toe pump's or with sneakers and they dress to the 9's and care on how they look and they do there make up and hair which I have seen regular women don't delete that anymore! There don't dress up they wear unattractive outfits ! They dress like guys now! There's no femininity no elegants! Just nothing! But that's just me! It just my opinion on what I see over here in LA CA! When I was growing up in the 70's&80's women would always dress up and wear pantyhose always! Man I miss it! Now it's just completely Dead 😭; so to me tgs5 CD's always care on how they look and there super open minded hand's down and to me I think there1000 times sexier and gorgeous just like u! So thank you for being here I really appreciate you ☺️ much love from pasadena ca 👠👠
@@drewrosecrans9728 in this situation,
how about if u r not attracted to masculine guys, but u just want to try transgending yet u r addicted to backdoor fun, how would it be described?
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I was looking for an appropriate word to define your voice...it's captivating ❤
Agree 💯
Absolutely amazing video sweetheart. Beautiful as always my love 💓💘
Absolutely gorgeous if you don't mind me saying. Love your videos.. Nice seeing you on UA-cam.
oh yes she is very hot
Yes, even I think that men who are attracted to crossdresser girls, love their feminine appearance. If crossdresser girls (and also transgender girls) have a very feminine appearance they are highly valued by men. A gay man is attracted by the male exterior appearance of the partner.
It would be interesting to understand by who are attracted the crossdresser girls. I have the impression that they are more attracted to women. The same attraction that drives them to be similar to them outwardly. In the case of transgender girls, however, it seems to me that there is a majority of women who prefer to relate to men, but there are also others who prefer women.
Nice video. I really appreciate you talking about this which really helps people like me to understand. I didn't get what you said that we're not really gay, but it sort of helps at least me to understand a little bit.
Thank you for your informative videos. A video like this inform us and educate us and help us (those who have grew up in a macho society) clear those wrong interpretations about our sexuality. Once again thank you Paola.
Thank you so much for clarification. Cos recently I've been having a lot of big fantasies about Trans women. This video has answered my question without having to ask it.
Thanks again take care Much love and keep Slaying ❤️💋❤️
Strangely enough, when I’m dressed up properly i get as many hits from males as i do females
I always felt that I am straight even with my original curiosity toward crossdressers to now showing admiration. I have never had any problems whatsoever with anyone crossdressing, since that didn’t hurt my feelings nor wasn’t offended.
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It took me a long time to realize that what attracts me above all is femininity! You are right!
You are very beautiful I would love to have a wife like you ❤
There’s a term for that called Finsexual. That’s what I am :)
Do you live in Florida
I like to crossdress but I am NOT attracted to men. Just got my first outfit...not just a piece. I love women, which is how I got here watching you. I thought you were going to comment as a women...and was even more pleased to see you as a beautiful crossdresser. I appreciate your candor and clarity. God Bless you for your supportive clarification.
Another great video. What wig are you wearing and where did you get it. It makes you even more beautiful.
I am totally straight but I just love women’s clothes there styles colors fabrics sheers and meshes silk and lace ❤️
Sure🤗
I do have a lot question I am straight but the idea of male turning in female for one day (cds) fascinates me. But I am? Idk I am still interested in guys though
I'm a CD myself, but even before I started crossdressing, I was attracted to trans girls.
I used to like transgender people and crossdressers. Now I'm a crossdresser myself and I'm dating men.
This was great! I waited for this type of video for a long time. I'm one of those masculine men that are attracted to crossdressers and transgender women. I'm very open with my friends and family regarding my attractions. There's also the Bi spectrum, some say that's what I am, I'm not concerned with labels. I some occasions I'll find ultra feminine men attractive. Thank you Paola.🥰
@@girltimewithpaola9251 thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
By definition straight would be someone attracted to the opposite sex. It doesn't have to do with gender. So if you're attracted to femboys you aren't straight. It seems homophobic to me when people try telling themselves they're straight even though they like stuff like that. People just need to stop worrying about straight or whatever. "Omg I might be gay" People worry over it because of society.
@@bobbydigital8319 yep, if you like women and femboys you are bi.
@@bobbydigital8319 I like your comment but I disagree that it's society that says it wrong. I believe it is our conscience that tells us it's wrong and society is telling us not to listen to those thoughts or feelings, it's telling us it's right if what do makes you happy. That is fine if that is the way you desire to live and no one has the right to judge you on those choices that you feel are best for you no matter how much they are for it or against it. There are consequences for every decision we make, whether it turns out to be a good or bad consequence is an unknown to the individual till they have walked that path. I will say this that there is always forgiveness if the choices we make where not right for us.
@@chilipepper0791 Oh great a conservative Christian that watches these videos and thinks homosexuality is a sin.. :eyeroll:
You Are Absolutely Gorgeous and Stunning!!!
The female image is what attracts me
Paola I'm a heterosexual male. Always have been. This attraction I feel towards you is as real as it gets. I'm being attracted to a female figure of the highest level.an absolute creature reeking physical womanly beauty. I'm so not ashamed of this. And stand by as well as nurture my feelings. God Bless You
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Love ur look, it's very feminine. I see u are very smooth, is that natural or do you shave / depilate in some way?
I play D&D (Dungeons and Dragons) and I have a couple of groups I run (Dungeon Master) whom are TG's and CD's, so as straight military man, I have been trying to do some research in how to best be understanding towards my fellow LBGTQ+ players. So alot of your vids do offer some insight and are helpful.
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I always knew this............Glad to see it re-enforced. My rule of thumb, if I'd kiss you I'll date you.
Thank you for straightening that out. But i still love you cause of your great personality. Sometimes its about the person
Not the outside shell. A good personality.the humble soul.
Thank you. This helped me so much!
I'm a straight guy and I find you are very pretty!!! I also love the sound of your voice and I love your gestures.
Well said! Incidentally, you are looking better ( hotter ) and better!
What about the crossdresser who enjoys male attention only when dressed? Is it sexual or just enjoying that they attract men give satisfaction that they’re passing? What does that attention do for you? Love your green dress. Thanks for your videos.
Paola, you’re the greatest !!! Whatever you do.
You are so clear in this subject ! I have been ask out on dates when female form !!! You have got a good grasp !!!
Really good video! We are attracted to the female image, and there is a certain amount of class, and the way a person presents themselves, which is also important factors.
i think it falls in between straight and bi. if guys who like trans women and crossdressers are staraight then every straight guy would like them. not all straight guys are down to clown though.
Your voice is so pretty...i could listen to you talk all night
Your beauty is so powerful!
I am definitely attracted to the female pretty form. Women, transwomen, crossdressers and femboys.
You explained clearly what I know about myself 🌹
that really depends on how fare you want to go with a trans or CD if your gay or bi or not ...
really helping video.thanks for your words:i'm a straight man and i find you very attractive,this makes me a little uncomfortable with my sexuality.
please can you answer me in why of all the videos i have here my viewers are very slow in coming
Personally I am a lot more like you than I have ever let on . BTW , you present beautifully Paola ♥️
So intelligent . Love you for this. Yes is the answer I am a straight man but your so right on everything you say . Also I'd like to point out . This is the new you not the old you as I've known you for years pointing out . Never to reveal your name like some body else did. Privacy is everything . And i respect you the way you are . My god if i looked like you i be very happy indeed xx
Thank you for this!
Hola Paola, I have had women who are attracted to me when I crossdress, who wouldn't give me a second look in guy mode. Are they gay or, into femme guys. It really is sometimes a confusing topic. Peace and Love, Sheila.
same, in guy mode I look like any other guy however when I cross-dress I
get this wonderful attention
As a crossdresser I have had many conversations with men who are attracted to me for what I am. It seems like what's attractive to them is in fact that we are male, but look like women, but still have no interest in me as a man. I don't think of these people as gay, but it's not 100% straight either. It's more like a fetish thing, it seems like. And as you say there is a clear difference between crossdressing men and trans women. The problem is that a lot of these men you're referring to has a tendency to not separate between the two. It's might be problematic for crossdressers because we're not presenting as women full time (barely even part time), which I feel is often the assumption. But even more problematic for trans women, in whose community these men are referred to as chasers. People who go after trans women for the fact that they were born men. For a lot of trans women that is a major insecurity, and something they're trying to hide, so fetishizing it can be interpreted as very rude or offensive.
You are right, but everything can be a fetish thing. Blondes, girls with glasses, skinny girls, curvy girls, and therefore also girls with male genitals.
Yes thankyou you are 100percent correct ....many thanks
I found that I love both GG's and TG women adorable and have dated both. My first time with a TG was in Thailand on my first tour there during the Vietnam War and upon returning to the U.S. I dated other Tgirls and enjoyed the dates and also was dating GG's as well and I figured that it was the feminine look and appeal which was interesting to me. I had no interest in guys as guys and still think that way.
You give me hope! ❤️
You are just so gorgeous I think the vast majority of men would be attracted to you.
Paola love your videos. What do you do as far as your skin care routine?
If you don't mind me asking, how much do you spend on your wigs? I don't wanna get to cheap but wanna save money
Well said!! I am a crossdresser and straight men are always attracted to my feminine side
You are absolutely correct I am not gay but I love crossdressers the are so real and they always dress so girly they are a lot of fun to be with I have many crossdressing friends and I love each one of and would protect each one of them if the need should ever arise
I'm straight and I'm very attracted to you. Your female image
I feel attracted to crossdressers because at my youth, i was arrested and bullied by the girls at my school. So even though i like the women form, i am not keen to them. I do not trust women. It makes me feel keen to men who present themselves as women, even though i have never been with one.
And this trauma also has caused my crossdress tendencies. Because i feel that if i cannot have someone beautiful at my side, then i have to become the beauty, the women.
I am straight buttt, I would love to be just like you and have always wanted to be since childhood.
FOR STRAIGHT MEN WHO LOVE CDs/ TGs
Thanks Paola for taking time to devote a video to us guys.
For what its worth i think you are probably the most beautiful dresser I've ever seen and you always have been from years gone bye.
Very well said Paola! 😍❤️
After reading through some of the comments here I've also seen a lot of men point out that they're attracted to femininity. Well, there are still cis women around who likes to embrace femininity. So I want to ask you if you had the choice between two versions of your ideal woman, where the key difference is that the other one was born a man, which one would you choose?
Tbh, the one that treated me better. If they were both nice, I might pick the born girl
Straight. Just started dressing more feminine. That said, you have very beautiful eyes. Ty for being brave and beautiful.
You’re simply beautiful.