Shannen Doherty Recalls Learning of Husband's Alleged Affair Before Surgery
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- Опубліковано 5 гру 2023
- Shannen Doherty opens up about when she learned of ex-husband Kurt Iswarienko's alleged affair on her 'Let's Be Clear' podcast. ET has reached out to Iswarienko for comment. The 'Beverly Hills, 90210' alum, who was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015, says she felt 'betrayed' by her now ex, shortly before undergoing brain surgery earlier this year. Speaking with ET's Rachel Smith on Wednesday, Shannen says recording the podcast has been 'cathartic,' as she navigates her cancer journey. The first episode of 'Let's Be Clear With Shannen Doherty' is streaming now on all major podcast platforms.
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How could he do that? He cheated on her before the surgery! Shes dealing with a major crisis and he cheats on her!thats heartbreaking!💔
That’s a man for you.
@@Honeymoon1988No. That’s ONE man for you. Misandry isn’t a good look. Bitter much?
@@yourbossismyslave3409 Shut up.
Men. Ugh. Bless her 🙏
It might be, (might) more complicated than that, in these types of situations. Not to justify the actions but to seek explanation of such experiences it might require an analysis of how individuals handle trauma/traumatic events/diagnosis. The man might feel afraid, may experience insecurity within himself. It is a common experience for women suffering from illness, thus there might be more of an explanation then blame or failure as cruelty/insensitivity. Might??
My husband cheated for 1 full year before I found out. I found out on my FAMILY VACATION. My family was trying to enjoy our Family Vacation and his mistress was literally tracking us in real time from 2700 miles away! She knew where we were and what we were doing! I have all the sympathy in the world for all the other men and women out there who have gone through infidelity discovery. Poor Shannon. Such a strong woman!
Shannon slept with Melissa Gilbert's husband. Now she knows how it feels.
What a complete psycho. That is very scary. Stalkers are terrifying
It happened to me too right before and again after many breast cancer surgeries and reconstruction…The only reason my ex proposed to me was because when I had the 12 hour Surgery Double Mastectomy plus taking my stomach muscle to reconstruct to living breasts with attaching from arteries to make the blood flow…Just before the end of our relationship I found out he was buying and looking at juvenile pornography and saving all the pictures on his user on the computer…Plus he had pictures of young twelve year old girls being forced to do unnatural things to the elderly women…My ex is attached to juveniles, elderly women and men…I cried for so long and all this to say I share her pain and I am always praying for her health and wellbeing ❤❤🙏🙏
@@catherinesvbialosh7260omg😢
@magnostadt341 are you the mistress, or the cheating husband?
How cruel. Shannon is honestly an inspiration for any woman. Imagine going through cancer and the insecurities, body image issues, grief, fear that comes with it and then having to deal with the excruciating pain, grief and self esteem hit that being cheated on gives you. I'm so sorry Shannon.
I went through a betrayal that devastated me and my body was in good health. I can’t imagine going through what I experienced and also dealing with cancer. I respect and admire Shannon so much for how she has carried through this ordeal.
This World 🌎 is one Tough cookie!
Please don’t give up Shannon-Fight to the End.. ❤❤🙏🙏
Unbelievably hard time for her. What a weak worthless man he is. Prayers for her and a great recovery and future. ❤
I know, that is a lot of pain to deal with. Us women, we love and support Shannen.
Shannen has always been a tough girl, but nobody should have to be this tough. So heartbreaking.
Well put, I was thinking the same thing.
The guy knows her cancer diagnosis and it’s clearly not good. And her life is already full of medical visits, treatments and rallying for the next round of whatever … and her husband goes and cheats. You said it. I hope now at least she can concentrate on herself and not spend a moment thinking about his selfish ass.
He is the one who should be embarrassed not you. Shamed really. But sounds like he wasn’t up to the vows. Guess you’re the strong one.
Wow that’s very well said
@@nancymccool1703wow u tell em!!! Millions of women get the shock of a lifetime loving someone they thought was theirs completely all to find out there’s someone else the whole time:( me included it’s extremely hard to go through but you can go through it I just wish she didn’t have the disease on top of everything else:( it’s not fair
Its amazing she is doing a podcast at this time of her life. What a powerful person she is!
I hope she spills some ‘90210’ tea!
Im happy she is doing thus podcast to get the pain out. Bc bottling it up will kill you
To finally tell your truth is cleansing and healing...
It's dumb
What a strong lady! Man, she had a heavy betrayal.
That confirms that men are incapable of love. It’s their nature to be predatory and animalistic and it has been scientifically confirmed. What happens is that some can control it better than others. Women don’t need men, men need women, what women need are resources to live happy and stress free. Not low caliber men that are going to strip their youth and happiness and continue with the next, they are parasitic and energetic vampires.
What she said about her father being a great man and that Not all men were terrible like her ex-husband was very touching
OMG, I feel so sorry for Shannen, his betrayal cheating on her when she is dealing with all the cancer. What a horrible thing to do, Shame on you!
I have a friend that had cancer and while she was going through treatment found out her husband was having an affair. She survived the cancer and ended up divorced. I have since found out this is not uncommon. A lot of men will leave their wives when the wife is faced with a serious illness. Most women will stay with their husbands when the husband is faced with a serious illness.
And why is that?
@carlf.9035 Why is what? That men are disgusting, vile and selfish people!!! It's rare to find a good decent man 😒 🙄😠
@carlf.9035 it's their mom's fault for coddling their sons instead of teaching them to be nurturers and caretakers. So they are selfishly looking for someone to take care of them instead of seeking to take care of the ones who love them.
Ouch, seems selfish cold
thing he did that knowing she was ill. I been thru many relationships u give all you can but men nevet
@@carlf.9035 I imagine their reasons for wanting to get married, have a serious relationship, is to have someone there for them, to care for them. When it's the other way around and your dealing with illness, long term sickness you find out if they actually care enough.
This is shockingly common. Thia woman is a true warrior!
It is too common and always devastating.
Aries usually are
She's an absolutely a survivor and a warrior princess at Life and love Kurt I'm very shocked and disappointed in you by betraying Shannen you are so cruel and evil mean dude
I hate cheaters and mistresses....🤮🤢
Women that knowingly sleep with a married man is lower than dirt. 🤢
Complete a******** they are such horrible people and if done to them they know how bad that crushes
Is there a word for cheaters who are men? Mistresses and..?
Mistresses & Pigs
@@lauraundecidedjackasses who think with the wrong head
How does a person live with himself with something like this for two years? The word narcissist gets thrown around too often, but you really have to be without a conscience or remorse to do something like this.
I know it sucks and those people get everything they want …. It’s super unjust.
Typical guy. I don’t put anything past anyone. Nor do I truly trust someone.
I agree...I hope she can get support from family and friends. Most guys look at relationships and marriage as a transaction and they don't care if you get sick, etc. They only care that they aren't getting what they want any more.
@@coolbreeze5683 rational women do the same
@@annabeauty7084 Ah not quite.
I've learned the hard way that unfortunately there are very few people in this world that you can really truly trust.
Very true! We’re living in a selfish and self absorbed world full of its people
My gosh, she’s really battling in all ways.
My heart goes out to her , she went through a lot ! What sh her the best healing
She's incredible - I can't believe that it was a FRIEND of hers that he cheated on her with....sorry but you showed your true colors. I'm glad they are on amicable terms and he's supporting her now but nope. She's a better person than me. I don't think I could do it. He'd never hear from me again and neither would the friend.
Who is the friend? Is she known?
Yeah who is it?
What horrible people she has around her.
@@proserpine8857the friend was her husband’s agent
It was his publicist allegedly
A wonder woman.
She faces her illness with such a stength.
I admire her.
This is the cruelest thing a person can do to someone they say they love, Why do this when this is when she needed you the most.. I hope karma comes knocked and knocks hard.. to slap this woman when she is down is just the lowest he could have been, what a shame.. My heart breaks for her....xoxo
My heart goes out to her. Having to go through all this AND deal with a cheating husband. I really hope that she gets through this and can find someone who will always be by her side.
I love her so much I’ve been a fan since the 90’s. Always bold, strong, and unbelievably brave -especially with all she’s going through. So glad she’s doing the podcast. I pray they find a cure. Cancer sucks!
Love her and her talents, she continues to be amazing, I'm her life-long fan❤
Health is #1. May these last days of 2023 be kind & may the New Year be much kinder🦋🙏🌿
Amen to that 🙏❤
Wow that awful what a jerk to cheat on her right before cancer brain surgery and stage 4 too!!!! Ug that soon to be ex husband of her’s he is a narcissist to do that to your wife when she fighting cancer stage 4 and having neurosurgery. She is a strong woman but that is a hard thing to go through alone and to deal with cheating and divorce on top of her health crisis omg I hope this guy get his karma for the crap he did to her. I hope she recovers from cancer.
It takes two. The woman who Shannon's husband cheated with knew Shannon was sick but still had an affair with her husband. Wicked!
True but only Shannen's husband made a commitment to Shannen. Shannen is right to focus on him.
The other woman made no commitment. Shannon and her husband made a commitment to each other. He is the one that broke that. The other woman is not blameless, but he is the one that chose to cheat. I can't imagine what woman would want to be with him after knowing all of this.
Unreal for him to do that to her and then tell her were gonna get through this as a family??!!?? Jerk
This was heart wrenching! She deserves better!
I married a man after three years of dating. Three months after our wedding, I found out that he was in a five year relationship with a woman even before he and I got together. I asked him why he would do such a thing, he said that I was the one who provided financial security. That we were a power couple while the other girl was a dead end. I filed for divorce four days later. I called the girl and apologized. I told her I had no idea she even existed. I haven’t dated since.
The other woman will get her Karma as well as him!
I am crying for this woman. I love her endurance, strength, and will to fight. You inspire me beyond anything imaginable. God bless you Shannen.
She shines through it all❤❤❤❤
I can relate to the betrayal while having life saving surgery last year i discovered later on that the ex husband was looking online for another woman. I came out of hospital traumatised, trying to cope with his mood swings he moved out nine weeks later, 7 months later he txted me while with the girlfriend that he was divorcing me. In less than a year i nearly died, my husband left, had an affair i then had to leave our home as he was the main wage earner. I moved in with my dad and i have been this year putting my life back together and healing from the trauma. I have more surgery coming in the new year i am grateful for family, friends and work colleagues( i volunteer at a charity shop) and a councillor who have helped me this past year. I know i didn't cause the breakup thats all on the ex.
I am sorry you had to deal with someone so disloyal, while experiencing health issues. but you have grow in this past year and he hasnt, he is still a jerk. you are fulfilling your life's purpose of eternal growth.
I wish her peace and health. I hope she finds happiness and love.
I think he was there waiting for her to die so he can benefit financially and he didn't have the guts to leave her while she was battling cancer. He was expecting her to die quickly and maybe she wasn't fun to be around with her sickness maybe he needed a better life, a nice healthy woman he can have a future with, without hurting Shanen but she stayed for too long I guess for him to hide his double life. Im not saying he's right or wrong, I'm just trying to analyse the situation. But it must be heartbreaking for her, especially that she expressed how worried she was for him in case she dies, she thought he will be devastated beyond repair. The guy had already a backup plan! She was dead wrong about him.
How does she go through all that and manage to still look so good?
My best friend died of breast cancer and he found someone within 3 months they were together years and 1 million dollars in life insurance some men are just scum 😢
God what a shame he got the life insurance!
Sounds like a selfish, self centered, scheming, manipulate guy. And for the other woman to go along with his plan is pure evil. Unfortunately alot of these people
go unpunished and lead happy lives
it’s very common for happily married men to remarry fast after losing their wife.
@@paulan7218Yes, it doesn’t make them “scum.”
That doesn’t make him scum ffs. 🤦🏼♀️ many men struggle after losing their partner and are more inclined to get into relationships. It doesn’t mean he didn’t love her. Stop with the judgement
Such a shame she has had such an incredibly difficult time, but what an amazing woman. So resilient and strong. I am sure she has here moments but you can see her inner beauty that radiates from her soul. I hope she can get remission and live a peaceful life filled with love. 🙏❤️🌺
The adultery is bad enough but when you discover it’s a friend who your husband repeatedly told you he couldn’t stand it’s a double betrayal as you struggle to deal with what did they say about you when you were confiding things to your friend, hurtful beyond anything you can imagine, a stranger would be less cruel. I found out about the cheating when the news was all about Shania Twain and her adulterous husband with her best friend and you think if it can happen to that beautiful talented singer what chance do us ordinary women have.
Personally, I laughed at my husband when I found out he was cheating 😂. She was fugly, I think I hurt his feelings 😂. We worked it out, but damn, you're supposed to upgrade not downgrade.
@dianep6791 I'm laughing that you took him back. Have some self respect lady 😅
Cheaters will cheat, a woman could be as beautiful and amazing as a goddess but at the end of the day if she married a cheater, he will cheat. I think it's more the thrill of forbidden fruit and "getting away" with it, than who their spouse is.
We are losing our civilized society. Morals and standards of how we treat others is disappearing.
The millions of people that love her hopefully will carry her through.
Wow!
They were together for 14 years, and married for 11, yet her douche bag husband, decided to have a 2 year affair? Why wait to finally get married after dating for 3 years, only to cheat??
Because these fools don't really know what they want out of life 😔
THATS DEVASTATING TO KNOW WHEN YOUR GOING THROUGH THE HARDEST TIME OF YOUR LIFE THIS SLIME BALL COULD PULL A 🤬 STUNT LIKE THAT 🙄
So sad… it really makes you think about marriage and if someone is with you because THEY REALLY LOVE YOU IN AND OUT, or if you’re the best of what’s available :-( Oncology doctors have to discuss this fact of being left/divorced to married women when they get diagnosed with cancer.
Source:
Fred Hutchinson Cancer Research Center
Summary:
A woman is six times more likely to be separated or divorced soon after a diagnosis of cancer or multiple sclerosis than if a man in the relationship is the patient, according to a study that examined the role gender played in so-called "partner abandonment." The study also found that the longer the marriage the more likely it would remain intact.
Mhm
Well said, Shannon! I wish her better health and love!!
There are amazing men just like the fathers we love so much. Don't ever give up 🙏
It's terrible she went through this. Hopefully she can lean on family and friends. She doesn't need any men to complicate her life at this stage and give her stress that will make her health even worse.
Yeah right! 🙄🤦 Men like her father don't exist anymore!!!
God I love this Woman. No matter what shit is thrown at her she just picks herself up and bloody deals with it. Shannen keep on fighting you wonderful Lady ❤️
I feel so terrible for her. Suddenly my problems mean nothing to me anymore😢
@cecep7477 Awww what a very sweet thing to say.❤
@@clairsmiley8053 no one deserves to have and suffer cancer unless your a pedo i wouldn’t wish it on anyone.
The energy we give out comes back to us, no one is exempt.
A secure attachment personality style wouldn’t feel comfortable having an affair.
A fearful avoidant attachment personality style and also a dismissive avoidant attachment personality style would feel comfortable.
A pre occupied anxious attachment personality style would entertain an affair only because they have a fear of abandonment but they would feel very uncomfortable having an affair even if they know their partner was stepping out of the relationship. This is because pre occupied anxious people act out of fear (they enter the affair going against their core values so it creates even more anxiety) so those usually fall apart very quickly.
Here’s the thing, since a secure attachment personality style has an empathic heart with healthy boundaries they’re NOT going to be attracted to someone already in a relationship.
The only personality types you will attract if you’re having an affair are either fearful avoidant attachment personality styles or dismissive avoidant attachment personality styles only.
There’s your karma you attract that energy you put out and attract either a narcissist to participate in the affair with you or you attract an empath without healthy boundaries also known as pre occupied anxious. Either way the affair will be more work on your part to keep it alive and you will either be a parent to an infant or you will be the infant throwing tantrums.
Either way it’s not a desirable relationship to enter into. Trust me people are coming clean with their experiences in affairs and it’s never as easy going and fulfilling as it seems.
Shannon is beautiful she’s strong and she has a wonderful support system family friends fans she has more people loving her so she doesn’t need that creepy guy.
When Chris Watts and Nicole Kessingers affair was exposed, nobody though that was sexy they thought it was creepy weird and psycho especially after he murdered his family. Let the cheaters be creepy by themselves with the mentally handicapped people that are okay with being in affairs.
Well said❤
Typical. Going gets rough guys take off. Far too few men remain faithful all through out
What a positive attitude after going through so much heartache. She is such an inspiration. God bless you and sending prayers.
omg I'm recovering from a benign brain tumor and have experienced similar things in my dating life... they make me feel "unloved" as she said. I thought I was the only one who can't find a good guy during this hard time I'm faced with this illness. I loved watching Shannen Doherty in "Charmed", "Heathers" and "Beverly Hills 90210", etc I was diagnosed in 2015 too.
Seeking a romantic relationship with a man will only make your life worse while you're recovering. I hope you have family and friends that you can lean on for support.
@@coolbreeze5683 tbh I had a feeling that I'm better off single and I prefer to not risk it as well, I was just very hormonal from these meds they had put me on, that's why I was seeking. Yes I have a good family and they support and care for me.
You are lovable and deserving thereof… I pray he finds you! ❤
@@WTFIsThis4YT aw thanks :)
@@atlantidaunderground It’s true. Just saying it. ❤️🙌🏾
No fun going through sn illness by yourself! I sm facing an illness by myself
Really don't have any friends and family close. They day they sre there for me, it really hasn't happened. Going through doctor appointments by myself...sucks.
Facing financial things by myself. Its scary!
Awe 🥺 many have no idea how deeply overwhelming it is to be alone
Poor Shannen Doherty and all she went through with her illnesses. Now to top it off her cruel, heartless, MF ex-husband put her through. She didn't deserve that humiliation. Well give it time he will definitely get his karma.
My dad did the same thing to my mother. He was actively trying to replace her as she was dying and she knew it was happening. Obviously I can’t stand my father. I don’t think all men are like this at all, but there certainly are quite a few dirt bags out there.
God Bless Shannon!
This just shows that you never really know someone even if you’ve been married for however long. You can’t trust blindly.🧿
Seeing the tears in Shannen's eyes as she was lying on the table about to have the surgery... She had just learned of her husband's infidelity then! Seeing those tears and knowing where they're coming from, just heartbreaking. God bless Shannen Doherty. I knew her many years ago, when I was 16 and she was 19, just prior to her getting cast on 90210. I remember the person she was then, so full of energy and life, and it's upsetting to see her express sadness. Prayers for her complete recovery, turnaround, and even a comeback! With God, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!
Good luck Shannon - you are strong and happiness is waiting for you at the end of the tunnel !!!. Don' t forget ... you are not alone ... most of us have been cheated on despite the fact that many of us will never know it ! . You are so beautiful ... he does not deserve you.
I thought it was horrible to be left at 37 weeks pregnant for another woman. This is way worse!
Wow I really admire her, she is very strong
I remember when she was a young troubled actress. But now I see real growth because of her illness. I just wish her all the best now and want her to know that she is such a fighter.
Yes! She really wasn't a nice person back in the day. Sorry but she wasn't. However I do see some growth and a softer side coming out now since she got ill.
We were diagnosed in the same week, same cancer, same treatments and surgeries. And I was so in awe of how loving and supportive her guy was since mine had me feeling so very alone in my cancer. Then this and I’m so angry for her because she loved him so very much.
Praying for Shannon
So sad that she was treated the way her husband treated her. She really needed someone to stand by her as she was going through her cancer treatments. She is a strong woman.
Being alone sucks, being with a pig is even worse. I wish her the best and happiness. Be kind to yourself.
I know about this, except liver surgery. I am so sorry that you are going through that. In my prayers for healing and smooth recovery. 💙
Marriage just isn't worth it. Live your own life, free.
She has a great mindset
Nothing gets her down
How heartbreaking 😢her husband cheats then her marriage ends then she has surgery 😢omg she is such a strong person..an inspiration..I hope 🤞 she finds the love 💕 of her life. ❤
I'm so sorry I went through something similar I love someone also with my whole heart I only want to say take care of yourself and remember you're worth it don't forget. ❤
Sorry you had to deal with that... chemo and radiation are tough without that bs. You are a strong women❤
Love Shannen, praying for her! She's precious! A strong woman!
The little girl from The Little House on the Prairie turned into a fierce woman. Go Shannen. May she continue to be strong through her battle and keep her head held high. 💪 👏 👏 👏
May God’s love comfort and reinforce her self value, reaffirming that she is a beautiful woman who deserves to be loved/cared about/for by family friends and acquaintances.
My viewers and I discuss so many betrayals like this...very sorry she is going through these trials. Praying for Shannon...
Shannon I’m so sorry you had so much to deal with. You are one of the strongest person I’ve ever known. God bless you always.
SENDING PRAYERS FOR YOU ❤💜💙🙏🙏🙏
I know how you feel! Mine did it for 18 yrs with multiple women.
Sending so much love and hugs for way! You are amazing! ❤
Where can we find the podcast?
I admire Shannen for being a strong woman.....she has been through so much and then this affair happens...take it as a blessing, a sign of God and move on with your life. You don't need that kind of garbage in your life....stay strong!!!!
She’s so admirable on her super honest revelations ❤️❤️❤️ and 🙏🙏🙏 for your Shannon Doherty ❤️😇😎
Praying for her 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Yes, Shannon, there really are decent men still walking this earth. My father was like yours - very faithful to my mother even through his years of alcoholism. It took me too many failed relationships, but I finally found one. Keep your heart protected, but open. ❤️
2 years. Wow
Praying this brave angel has wings of steel, to remain steadfastly healthy today and always.
She is bearing all this with such dignity. She has grown up, good on her for being real
Shannon you are so strong and a beautiful soul, that's why your such a great actress. I loved you on 90210. I pray that God is with you and gives you peace.
There are good men and there are bad boys. If you are lucky to have a good one then yay for you for sure. Those not, you can cry, it's ok to cry. We all may find Mr. Good Guy somewhere, sometime in lawour lifetime. I believe there is someone for everyone. I'm so sorry that Brenda 90210 has been ill. I wish her well. We admire her a lot
I think Shannon should run for President😮 she has ethics, she has strength, she has willpower and a beautiful heart! And judging from all these comments, we all look up to her!!! You’re a hero Shannon ❤
Very well said. ❤
This is really unfortunate, but I have heard such stories before. My heart goes out to Shannen. ❤She is fighting for her life and needs her husband to be her ROCK. However, her husband is a human who has been in a TOUGH situation and has given into temptation. There is no justification for adultery. However, being a caregiver for a LONG time is very draining and many people sadly cave into unhealthy behaviours like drinking, drugs and affairs to cope. May GOD heal Shannen and strengthen her 🙏🏽
Even i would divorce my husband i would take care of him,poststroke,elderly,what happened til death do us part,unbelievable she has to put up with that shithead,where r the morals any more?
You are an incredible woman. God bless you. We will pray for you.
Wow that end line❤ maybe there are wonderful men out there❤ I too experienced a shock of a lifetime after 2 plus years of loving someone so deeply and selflessly, all to find out he was having a double life that I had no idea about, but somehow when I see Shannon speak so strongly and be able to been acknowledge the good times after all of that betrayal just shows how strong of a woman she is! She’s a wonderful role model ❤
Seek integrity in others and yourself.
I'm watching BH90210 on Pluto and was shocked at the episode where Brenda found a lump in her breast. Is this life imitating art?
What courage and determination this woman has. Her ex husband was a real dirt bag to do that to her. LOVE HONOUR AND RESPECT, IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH and the bastard failed in all of these. He is one weak man. Actually, he is a coward.
Prayers to you
Watching this makes me very thankful for 38 years of marriage where neither one cheated. All the best Shannen
Im schock with how men can do that,when you need then most,i also been desapointed so much ,problaly because She could not have sex with him at This time.
Such a beautiful & incredible woman, God bless you richly Shannen!❣❣❣