2 years ago I decided to become the happiest woman in my town. It has made all the difference. As you have said having goals, something to do and pursuing new interests is a great way to recharge your life. In my area, things are opening up again and there are all kinds of free events like reenactments, fundraisers, organization picnics, kids sports games etc etc. The big challenge is that I think many of us have become very lazy because there was nothing to do except be home for so long. It's spring and summer the perfect time just start again
@@LittlePoet well you know Susa n, I decided that no one wants to be around a cranky, angry old woman ( or man). So I do things and go places so I have something to talk about, I do my hair and makeup and try to pick out decent outfits. Refocusing on the positive has changed my life.
Your comment,”I wasn’t born a beautiful woman”; is something most of us would say. But your spirit and your passion shine through as your beautiful face conveys your caring and gratitude for life and for inspiring others. I believe at 70, my biggest “enemy” is my inner 40 year old self. We battle in the mirror daily, since she is how I still feel in my heart. Now I have resolved to be the very best version of the 70 year old me. I will take care of my skin, eat relatively healthy, exercise and be very grateful for my health, my family and people like you. Love to Desi & thank you for sharing what many of us are feeling.
Well my day was interesting. I was watching my favorite TV show when suddenly my Internet signal went out. I promptly got on the phone and called the company who walked me through several troubleshooting methods that didn't work. Then I looked out in my driveway and noticed my cable laying in the driveway. I went outside to inspect. informed the lady on the phone and she scheduled a repair appointment for tomorrow. I then noticed that the pole coming out of my electrical box was dangling in the wind and that is what snapped the cable line. after I hung up from her I called the electric company who promptly told me that poll was my responsibility. I'm a 64 Year old widow who wanted to curl up in the closet and cry. I decided that would accomplish nothing, so I found some clamps in my garage and some 3" nails. I reattached that swaying pole back onto the side of my house. Busted my knuckle wide open in the process, The pain was awful and there was blood everywhere, but I accomplished what I was told I needed to hire an electrician to do! And how was your day? Sincerely, Still smiling 😁
Susan I sing every day, I even do my scales, I phoned the Pharmacy the other day and she asked my name and DOB and when I told her she said sorry what year did you say, I told her again and she said are you this person or someone ringing for her, I said no it’s me, I said is there a problem she said no you just sounded so much younger than the birth date, so Susan you are right xxxxx
Wow, this video resonated so much with me particularly about being the anchor. It's hard for me, at times, to accept that my anchors are gone. I sometimes find it depressing because I feel a sense of being lost and wanting the old times back with my parents, aunts & uncles who have passed. Growing up in an Italian family, we were all so close. Now, with the anchors gone, my cousins and siblings have their own nuclear families and I just long for the old times. But, I am now the anchor for my daughter and my grandsons. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful but just miss what was.
I know how you feel. I miss my Parents and Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles too. Being an Adult Orphan isn’t fun. Focus on what you do have. That helped me. Also, I believe by My Faith in God I will see them All again. There is People who Need You. God Bless You xxx
I also feel like you do, I miss so much what once was !! I have to learn to enjoy every minute of the day while I am still here.Wishing you much happiness too.
Susan, you have such a sweet, expressive face, heartwarming smile and share so many wonderful, inspirational tips with us! You are beautiful inside and out! I feel better after watching every video! Thank you so much!
I'm happy to reach 65 this year.i feel blessed. Theres people who die of so many things in younger years. Appreciate all the time you have. Thank you for all your helpful advice
I have raised my three children telling them enjoy every age in your life! If you're five and join being five if you're 15 enjoy being 15 30 enjoying being 30 so on and so forth. Sometimes it's hard to do. Because experiences in our life changes the enjoyment. However to be grateful! To be grateful for what we're blessed with it's the key, not to dwell on what we don't have, what we have lost, what we should have done, what we were unable to do, how poor we are, how unattractive we are, Etc. I've realized by renting your comments that I'm not the only one that's lost, went out unjustly, b e e n hated, Etc.. there are some most unfortunate than we are. Be grateful for what you have. And to be able to do that is in the Lord! God is the answer! Dwelling on your looks at 77 is ridiculous. Beauty Is Not skin deep! The most important thing is what's on the inside. Love, Joy, pace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, maintenance, temperance, Galatians Chapter 5 Verse 22. To be less of the world and more in God is true contentment! Youth, health, Beauty, more of this more of that a bigger appointment, a house, a nicer car, to have fun, to go on vacation, that's all material things. And they're not here to last! But the virtues at the beginning of my statement a r e true happiness. We should strive to keep them! Read your Bible everyday, pray everyday and ask God to help us be a better person than the day before! That is the key, that only God can provide! Yes I hope to take my own advice. LOL to decorate my house. I'm only planning to decorate my closet. I'm hoping to make a peaceful calm Pleasant place in my closet to meet God, through prayer and his word. To visit with him, to build a relationship, and worship. This is the key! The most important thing that anybody could ever do and their entire lifetime! Join me and creating the place to meet God everyday! God bless you.
You could not know how much you’ve helped me through your outlook. I got divorced 1 1/2 year ago. I’m just now getting back on my feet, I have been dodging cancer successfully for 13 years and my “marriage” was an ugly nightmare, my kids are absorbed in their own problems. I’m 62 and lucky to be alive-it has been an adjustment just to keep going. I’m not given to depression, and I love my job, it has been my salvation. Your videos have lifted me up on bad days. I thank you for helping me, for helping me find survival tools, slowly leading me to better days
Oh Laurie! Congratulations!!! You made it through such a terrible ordeal and you are thriving!!! You touch my heart and you made my day!!! Love to you! xxoo Susan
Sometimes it takes someone to say “Snap out of it!“. That’s the message I heard today. I’ve been living in grief of losing my father, and the fear of getting older and the realization I’m next in line. That’s a lot of wasted time. Thank you Susan for the kick in the rear. I must live life to the fullest! Hope you and Desi feel 100% better soon!
Yes!! You are not alone sister! I'm sure we are one on many widows who feel the same. So I say yes to "snap out of it!"! 🥰 we are strong, beautiful and caring women with a lot to give this world! 🙌❤️
I enjoy each video. I love Eleanor… she was a brave woman. Last June after a short trip to an area in north Arkansas that I love I decided to stop waiting for “ one day” and move. Within 6 weeks I was moved. I spent several weeks purging, giving away, selling, donating and had an estate sale. I pared down to basics keeping minimum belongings. I’ve spent the months since August 2021 reflecting inward and sorting through my life. At 69 this is the first time I’ve lived alone since right after high school. It’s Freeing to have less housecleaning chores, laundry, no alarms or appointments. The spiritual growth I’ve gained is phenomenal. I’m much healthier than most my age. With my second divorce in 2013 my husband took most of the furniture. I’ve learned I can live without many pieces that were just for decoration. It’s less to maintain. Keep videos coming. You’re a beautiful person.
I was truly scared....Desi was so sick!!! we both were...the only thing we shared was fried chicken on Saturday night! Uh-oh!!! I will never give him scraps again!!!
@@LittlePoet How awful that you both had food poisoning. That makes you too miserable to move. So, you were sick, sick and I'll bet you stayed up around the clock making sure your baby was okay. I had no idea that it was that bad. My heart goes out to you and I'll be praying that you're both 100% as fast as possible.
So happy you both are doing well after being ill from eating fried chicken. Did you buy the fried chicken? If so...I would let them know. Again, happy to see you both recovered. Another thought provoking video..not about fried chicken😋 .but about taking charge of our lives, letting go of our grief and setting some goals for the future no matter your age.
@@kateg7298 oh it was made 1000 times worse to see Desi sick...he never has been sick. But he hever even had one accident in the house...amazing little dog- Gangsta!!!
@@LittlePoet He's a loved bug for sure. He's the best boy! I'd be having a long conversation with whoever sold you the fried chicken about paying his vet bills. I have 3 dogs and I'd be heated over it..
Hi Susan & Desi, I'm a Michigander too. I keep the Lord in my life everyday. I know he will always have my back. He has ALWAYS gotten me through the tough times, and believe me, there have been many. I'm so glad you and Desi are feeling better. My prayers and God's blessing to both of you.
Omg I think you’re reading my mind. The tragic unexpected passing of our son, losing our children’s childhood home, quitting my job, lost my friends, I’ve boxed myself in…..how do I go on and life a joyful life…..well guess I’ll begin by watching your channel and pray I can glean answers within them.
OMG. I feel the same as you. I am anxious all the time, since I was in my upper 50s. Now I am 62. I worry about money all the time and feel as though I am going to loose my home. I have had 3 foot surgeries in the past 16 months. I am on disability through work due to chronic pain, but coverage is going to expire soon. They terminated me. I have a very hard time standing on my foot. It is painful when I do. The surgeon said I have had alot done and my foot will never be the same. Social security disability has been filed by my work disability insurance and the government is giving me a hard time authorizing it because I am a Registered Nurse. How can I work when I cannot stand and on alot of meds for heart arrhythmia, etc.? It would not be safe for me to work with patients or even drive. I worry that someone might break into my home daily and also have an old vehicle. Most of the time I fear going outside. I was never like this and was a social butterfly. Not anymore. Reading the Bible helps, but I question it with all the horrible stuff going on. Thank you for your honesty. We are all going through so much. Us women need to stick together and lift each other spirits up.. Can you tell me the name of the book you read on Eleanor Roosevelt?
Sweet pea get on line and look at Molina healthcare Inc nurse position for medical claims review. You work 100% from home on the computer. It's awesome.
@@leopardappygirl Thank you. Ankle and knee issues. I met a lady who had her home broken into 3 times by her neighbor. I decided I will not worry about what if. The older generations in years past made it without transportation, utilities Etc. We will be ok. That’s menopause messing with us. If we had known we would have these issues we would have ulcers by now. Life and let the good times roll was my Uncle John’s quote. He lived to be 103 years hold and had 3 girlfriends at 102. We have Some living yo do.
Really needed to hear what you had to say today.... Especially the part about grief and loosing so many in our lives hit home more than you know... Guess I have been stuck on that for quite a while... You gave me quite a new way to look at that issue and for that, I thank you oh so much!!!Take care you and Mr Desi!!!
Susan, for some reason you look exceptionally beautiful today! I kept trying to figure if it was the makeup, jewelry, outfit but then I realized , yes it was that, but more so it was your entire persona and obviously your joy for life! You brighten up my week, always and I love you for that! I am 71 and become sad at times because I have so many things I want to do in life and times goes by too quickly! Even so, I am happy !
Enjoyed your affirming words today. I'm quickly approaching 59, but most days I feel much older as I struggle with chronic pain. As of late I have been trying to do the things I admire in other people, such as drawing and painting, that I had never learned before. I'm reading childhood classics that I never read as a child. Another goal is to try and get on a bike and so some short nature hikes with sketch book in hand- being gentle with myself has not decreased my pain level, so what do I have to lose?! I have told my children, "there is a season for everything," and I just realized, this is MY season!
Congratulations! I bought a bike last year thinking a little ride at the time and every day increasing. I can't even get on the thing. My legs won't raise high enough to travel. I spent more money to get a lower bike smaller tires so I can get on. I gave up for a while. With this encouragement. But now I thought I'm not going to let myself be defeated. If there's a will there's a way! LOL so I purchased these little floor bikes. Thinking if I exercise on that I went build up my muscles to ride my real bike. So there I am. LOL I want to read childhood Classics that I've never read. A wonderful thought. I just rather listen to him then read them. LOL I could listen to him while I ride. Of course I like the wind in my face nature around me and the birds singing. Maybe I can do all of it you never know. God bless you and good luck. Enjoy your books enjoy your ride.
Poor Desi- wonder what made him so sick? Glad you’re both ok now. I know about a dozen family members who have gotten sick recently (including my husband- he has a bad cold). Loved your 7 things those of us over 60 need to do. I find myself in a deep funk these days- I blame it on low energy but yes, it’s actually not feeling as happy as I should. Great video. Thank you ❣️Stay well!
You are a beautiful woman. But the inside is most important. So many woman look beautiful on the outside , but inside they don’t look so good. I’ll be 60 tomorrow and I’m a Great Grandma. I’ve taken care of my Husband and his older children for 16 years. But I’ll be leaving soon to be on my own and I’m putting me first. I’m so excited. And you are a wonderful inspiration to me
Dear “sister” Susan, I thought it was so amazing that I found you! Here I am in my 70’s stretched, challenged and still looking for purpose on purpose! But the funniest thing has happened…I have received such renewed vigor from all these other beautiful “sisters” who are wearing the exact same shoes I’m wearing! It really has given me a purposeful perspective of life being done relationally, wisely and joyfully…no matter what❣️ Thank you sisters💕
I sing all the time in the car and on my outside recumbent bike (with ear pod) around my park! The ducks and people look at me funny 😂I’m 70 and I don’t care ! 😂
I am happy to here you and Desi are better! I totally related to everything you had to say. I so love your channel, and your making a difference more than you know. ❤️
I love birds and have a cute lamp! In 2020 I had two strokes back to back and it has taken me months get back to my old self in as much as it will ever be again! i love listening to your advice and what to do with my second part of my life! Thank you for caring! My name is Elaine I am 73 and live in Georgia.
Susan your imitation of the old lady voice, you gave me a good laugh 😂😂😂😂😂 I will make sure I sing my Beatle songs everyday… I needed that laugh my sister who is suffering with Alzheimer’s for 10 years can not swallow her food this week, so I am afraid she is losing her battle. My poor beautiful sister, so unfair she is only 65 years old… and I certainly will always remember I am the anchor for my daughter and granddaughter ❤️ so beautifully said
Look on youtube, there is a lady peduatrician who helped he husband with Alzheimers by having him ingest MCT oil. It may help. I work everyday to do what I can to try and avoid this dreaded disease. I love aDr. MINDY PELZ, lots of great free information.
@@patriciaatkinson4500 I’m afraid it is too late for my sister, she has battled this for 10 years, she can’t eat anymore, this is what happens in the last stage of this disease… she is in the care of hospice now. She can’t eat, walk, talk, move, she just stars into space…she can’t swallow any water or food.. we’re at this point just glad that hospice is there with her… when her time is very near , we will bring her home so she can be surrounded by her family, right now she is in the nursing home. It’s been a long battle, but thank you for your comment 🙏
Wow ! finally ! someone on these channels are telling the truth about how much money the industry is making off of women’s insecurities about their faces. And if I hear another person say “age naturally “or “except the imperfections of life “and then Suggest to-us what to buy on their channels. “Vanity vanity vanity it’s all vanity”. Keep up the good work girl you’re a beautiful soul. Hugs Connie Murphy🤓
Just celebrated 61 years of friendship with two childhood friends yesterday. We ate at Cheesecake Factory in Chattanooga Tennessee. After lunch, we went outside for pictures while singing "STOP In The Name Of Love." We are 69 years old this year, thankful to be alive and embracing every wrinkle and sag we have. Thank you Susan for this video. Happy you and Dezi better.
Thank you , Susan, for thes tips. I am 76 and most days I find myself with no energy and just waiting for something good to show up! I will pray and try to incorporate your tips!
I KNEW you'd buy that lamp! LOL. Great advice. I had a rough patch this week, my husband left and I looked forward to hearing from you- still standing.. LInda
I love skin care. I love to adorn myself. You have beautiful sparkly necklaces on. My favorite thing when I was a little girl was wearing many bangled bracelets, lots of necklaces, lots of belts, and long boho hippie skirts with leggings underneath. I was 5. The colors and sparkles were the most beautiful thing to me.
This was a very impactful video Susan! So many wise words ….sometimes I need to hear things from others, (in this case you) for it to really hit home. You are so correct, the energy I think I need is really a silent call asking for purpose and happiness. I never had really thought of it that way. The biggest lightbulb moment for me was what you said about having goals! I’m 62 and I have no real goals or a sense of purpose, I’m just drifting along waiting for…what??? You gave me a good kick in the pants today to really think about what I want and to start creating goals. You make me realize that I still have a lot of life left in me. I am forever grateful for you Susan, even though we have never met, I consider you a friend. I hope you and Desi have a wonderful week.
Hello Tamara! Oh I feel like we are sisters....I could relate to everything you wrote! I said I needed more energy for 5 years until I realized...energy for what? Running my dust buster? I had to change my life or I would be ffoing myself forvever and watching life pass me by! Love to you!!!! Susan
I had a hysterectomy at age 46. I took hormones for about 3 years. I stopped taking them and became mindful of my diet….my female physician shared about foods with preservatives that trigger hormones and flashes. It meant giving up chips and colas. Over time I added colas with very limited use. Many foods have become “ treats or travel foods”. When I travel and eat those foods I don’t feel guilty. I don’t bring those foods into my house. Exercise is important. As a former voice student I sing everyday. Singing is also good lung therapy.
Susan, I am only spending time with people that are positive, upbeat and want to experience new things, going on adventures. I wake up everyday proud of my life time career, surviving the traumatic times in my life. I have stopped seeing some once close friends, that were making me feel terrible about my self, you know, the fake friends that are always criticizing you and your decisions. They have all left my happy life and I feel free from negativity, believe me it was time for them to go! At our age we should be all coming into a new chapter., do new things things and get out in the world and make a Difference👍❤️👏 Remember we can’t buy more Time, go wake up tomorrow and cut the negativity from your circle, and be the Best you can be Now!
Oh Candy I think that is so important to perhaps say goodbye to toxic people that can hurt us so and keep us from having the good life we deserve. Some folks seem to just love drama! You are so wise...we can't buy more time. It's the most precious thing we will ever own.
I am 64, so happy with myself. Now I am comfortable with growing older. Decided to let my beautiful grey hair grow in. Now in my 5 month transition so far, will take me 2 years. So many silver foxes out there, that are so beautiful. Life is a blessing!
I stopped coloring my hair at 46, at the encouragement of my husband and kids. I have no regrets. I get so many compliments on it. I am 52 now and I love that I don’t have to worry about fitting in a hair appointment or having my silver strands popping out at the root line every 2-3 weeks. Oddly I was a medium brown color naturally and as my hair grew out I was a salt and pepper color, now I look more blonde. I love watching my natural hair color patterns over the years. My Father went from very dark brown/ almost black hair to White. I’m hoping that happens to me. Hang in there, it will be so worth it!
My gray hair is actually more white. My stylist put color in my hair to somewhat match the white color and I haven’t looked back since. Such an easy transition.
When you said "Who would buy a bird lamp?" I thought, "What's wrong with that. I would!" And then you bought it!! Love it! Congratulations to your winners. PS, "You are a beautiful woman."
Congrats to the winners🎉. I recently moved into an apartment in a senior community. And I too felt like after no longer working after 25 years in the medical field, that I had no purpose. Well I’ve started up a once a month craft class and the residents are very excited. I feel much better and feel I’m helping people once again. Blessings to you and Desi❣️
Hello, I'm usually at church on a Sunday morning, but my air-conditioning in my car isn't working so I'm watching your videos over again. You are truly a inspiration. I'm 68 and I was taking care of a lady that was 96 years old. And she passed away last week. She wasn't family but I thought of her as one. So I really needed your pep talk this morning. To get out there and continue to live and not just set home on my tushy. lol. Keep up the honest and heartfelt messages because everyone needs that. Linda in Virginia.
I am so glad you did this video. a lot of what I have been thinking is what you talked about. I need a purpose for my life. I have family but they don't care about me. They are to rapped up in their lives. I sleep all day and they can't sleep at night. Since it is getting spring I may be can get out more. I am going to try and do better for myself. I have been thinking of joining a dance group. thanks for saying all those up lifting things. Love you channel and you don't look you age. I am 62 and have had breast cancer 3 times and in 2020 I had stage 3 colon cancer. At this time I am cancer free. I think God has spared me for a reason and I hope I can accomplish what he has in store for me. Thanks again for the up lifting words!! Have a good week.
I’m sure people need to hear your story. You can encourage so many people. Try volunteering. Enjoy your life. When Covid is over or better. I have plans to enjoy locally and spread out from there, solo.
Wow, from your story i could tell you are a fighter and a positive thinker. I am 58, i know how it feels when it seems you are alone. But i just want you to know i would always be available if you want a listening ear and someone who can talk with you. After all the rough ride you have had, you deserve to be happy and nothing less. Hope to get a reply from you soon.
God bless your heart. I hope that you've read my comments on the prayer closet. I highly encourage you that you do that. You know it's God that's fair you. Find a place to dedicate 15 20 30 minutes to him everyday. It works it really does! God is the answer. God bless you.
Thank you for another great video. So much truth. My plan is to age gracefully. I’m 60, no interest in spending money on any kind of enhancements. I retired early, last year, live alone and the one thing I’m focused on is losing weight for my health. Not an easy goal, but I’m not giving up. I’m still adjusting to being retired, which is not as easy as I thought it would be. It’s amazing how easy it is to fall into a funk if you’re not careful. God is good and has put some really great people in my path since I retired. I’m excited to see what new things surface. God bless.
I'm so glad you brought up Eleanor Roosevelt. I've lived with a quote of hers since my teens: Whether you think you can, or think you can't, YOU'RE RIGHT. Such powerful words. So glad you and Desi are feeling better! I just love that little guy so very much. Everytime I see his adorable face, I smile. Thanks for another wonderful video. ❤❤❤🤗🤗
Just saw a picture of Barbra Streisand for her 80th birthday and I could not recognise her! What a big mistake! I am 72, do the best with what I have got and what I am. All these procedures that women are doing in the search of eternal youth will never make them happier because there is no end to this. Thank you Susan for being yourself and yes you are a pretty woman!
You are such a beautiful person thank you. I have fibromyalgia and is not easy but every time I see your channel it just relaxes me you are an inspiration for all thank you again and many blessings.
Oh Susan, I was blessed to have hobbies, and good firemds and family when I retired. I belong to a Red Hat group and those of us who are left do have fun. Yes, we do lose a member once in a while as our youngest members are i n their 60s and the oldest in their 80s. However, that said, I need to take more walks as my hobbies are sedentary. as time goes by, yes, my parents are gone, no kids either. but, twice when I lost classmates, these two fellows called me thie angel. I had no idea! So we don't know how we affect others.
Hello Linda ! Thank you so much for leaving me such a lovely comment...it means the world to me. I hope you enjoy this lovely last week in April...I am hoping for a great summer for all of us! Have a great new week!!! xxo Susan and Desi
@@LittlePoet thank you. I hope your week is terrific. My Red Hatters are celebrating my birthday this coming Sat. The hostess said something is being delivered. .. lol my birthday was earlier this month, 69 is feeling okay lol
You hit the nail on the head when you talked about having more energy! I think that a lot when i get up, but i am really thinking i what a more fulfilling life like i used to have when i had a partner and family! being divorced for 7yrs after a 34yr. marriage and 62 is traumatizing, but i take it day by day. I so enjoy your videos!
Hi Susan. I’m 63 very Blessed to have survived abdominal cancer and two heart attacks. Then was told I had Pancreatic Cysts, one of them pre-cancerous, I stopped making Long-Term Goals. I am twice divorced, have 3 Grown - Up beautiful Kids. All married and 5 Grandchildren between them. I stopped looking inwards and started looking Outwards. Spending time with my Grandkids and Family and Good Friends. I have Travelled the World. But My Goal next year is to do more Travelling in my own Country and Down South. I’m from Scotland. Uk. My Travel Insurance is too High now. But Smaller Goals I can do. Bye the Way, I’m in Remission now. My Cysts have Stopped Growing! Yippee! My Kids Need me and My Grandkids Need me and my Lovely Bonnie, my Golden Doodle Needs me. God is So Good. He has been with me All the Way. You are an Inspiration Susan. Keep it Up. Lots of Love and Hugs. Cathy🏴 xxx
I love you and I never miss your videos. You will love Italy, Italian people are so welcoming in my experience. All my Yorkies have Italian names. My current Yorkie is named "Lorenzo Bartolini." I want to own a little house in Italy and spend half the year in there. You should plan a girls trip, but I travel alone and that is a blast too. I always make friends.
I just love, love the way that black and white halter top looks on you. I read once “stop taking the pen away from God, he hasn’t finished writing your story”.
I've had dark hours now for months- my weight. I've gone up in top and bottom. I am getting medical attention and have thought about a support group. But what gets me through is my Mom. I look like her so much now as I'm getting wiser. So Mom thankyou for the self talk reminders.
Suzanne don't allow yourself to be in darkness. Open the drapes and curtains. Pull up the window blinds and let the light into your home. I understand that the dark is inside of you when life is disappointing but turn your face to the light. "This too will end " Every day is a new beginning. Look into your mirror and see the amazing woman!!! You are a special person! Be happy ❤ Be blessed ❤
I totally understand. After my mom passed and work was non exsistant and covid...we have all been in a darkness. I am now on weight watchers and its so great to feel I am getting my life and most importantly my health back! Here to support you!! You can do anything! Hugs
Mostly importantly!!! Do not ever beat yourself up. Accept where you are right this moment. You will know when the time is right to start a new mission journey mindset lifestyle if that is what you desire. Embrace the wonders in you right now. Then...exhale. Give yourself grace for the time and the place.
I love that I can do 6 of the 7 things on this list. (can't do exercise) This year has been a year of acceptance, and of grieving the things I *could* do, but now I can't. An illness has me picking out a wheelchair at 59. But for all the things I can't physically do, I can still dream, and plan adventures. Even if the adventures are at home. I can still exercise my vocal chords (I love that!!). Dang it, I may just buy myself a karaoke machine, and drive my family crazy. 😂 I can still be the touchstone for my children, and be an encourager to my friends. I loved this video, Susan. As always, I think you and Desi are the best company. 💕
Join me and making a secret place to meet God. A special place everyday to visit with the Lord to read your Bible and to worship Him. To be thankful he said and with praise when you enter into his presence. That's the key and the answer for all things needed. He is all in all! I'm trying to decide what color to paint the inside of my closet. I think perhaps a pale blue it would remind me of the sky. And a fresh and calm feeling. I thought maybe I put a scented candle and of course a comfortable sitting. Maybe soft beautiful music as I read my Bible and pray. There you could sing to God! What a wonderful thought. God bless you.
I'm with you, I vocalize too even though I'm not actively singing right now. I don't want to lose the "colors" of my voice! (and I want to be ready for whatever) Bonus, I have been line dancing with you tube! Girl, it works! It changes my attitude and I get all spunky! I'm so glad you and Desi are in the pink! Your makeup looks amazing today! Especially with the open shoulder dress. That's definitely "Jazz night" worthy! Hugs to you and Desi! !!! 🎸love the guitar👍
oH GINGER YOU ARE SO SWEET!!! I even left my caps on for you! That is a lovely summer night dress...the kind of dress you hope you have on when you feel you met somebody you would fall in love with! That is my Vincent VanGogh dress!!! How are you doing!!!???
Oh my gosh! Yes to the dress and for falling in love! I just watched Anna Karenina again, different actors (You Tube) but still same love story but oh so sad! Loved it but oh so long....3hrs23mins Whew! Have a terrific week. I'm still trying to lose weight! never ending struggle! hugs to you and Dez!
I love this video, I can relate to the doctor, my old doctor just didn’t listen and just acted like every problem was caused by my age, I also found a new woman doctor that is amazing and even though she is not on my insurance plan I rather pay a higher copay and keep her as my doctor. I hope that you and Dezi have an amazing week💜💜
I can very relate to these doctors! They don't listen to you I believe all they got on their mind at their payday! It's sad to say I wrote a list of all my symptoms. Even the not in my back. All he told me that was nothing wrong with me but depression! Now the knot on my back or should I say the depression on my back it's getting larger. I do need to find a doctor that will listen and care! You know a real doctor! I'm searching in the area where I live I don't think they have one. God bless you dear. I'm glad that you found help
Thank you for your wisdom ;hit a chord with Drs who just assume we are bored old women. Dance and sing when house is empty except for my doggoes.we sing together .bless you and Desi.
Amen! I'm tired of having ads for both and this gadget and that product. I like what I use and am sticking them. Reaching out to others has helped my depression. Its a struggle but it does make a difference. Ignore the unkind. You are stunning and so stylish. Keep it up! Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!
Decision / choice / most of our emotional state is up to us. My lesson was not depending on everyone else to be my anchor. BTW our church was closed for almost 2 years due to the pandemic and when I returned I was shocked that I could no longer sing! I had lost my 'singing' voice. I was saddened until I realized that those chords needed to be exercised so I began singing at home - playing my piano - and finally after about 6 months I find that I can sing again (not the best sounding yet), but my voice has returned!! Thank you for being an anchor for us - and an inspiration.
Susan, love your videos!! I feel exactly the way you do, no energy!!! I pray almost everyday for energy, motivation, strength, and some mornings I do feel better than others. I’m going to take one step at a time and start walking around the park. Thank you for your advice.
Wonderful video!!!! I am 70 and am going thru those same issues. I want to be more happy and enjoy life. I am trying to make changes in my life. Thank you!
I am still alive, so I ordered a new Bible and am working on an art project… my work looks OK, but it’s at about a 4th grade level~~ I need more motivation to find out exactly what my talents are~ as my grieving and loneliness/abandonment has taken the wind out of my sails.
Susan, thank you so much. I am realizing the things I have hidden from myself. Grief, yes! I love your idea of making a list of things we want, I am going to do tomorrow. (It is 11PM now, so I think I will get a good nights sleep first). You have given me more than you realize tonight. I want more out of my life. I am 78, and only problem is my arthritis in my knees and back. HOWEVER, there are many things I still want to do and becoming more vocal is one of them! I will begin by walking (I can do it) out in my back yard and singing. Yes, my sons will think I am nuts, but, hey they need something to think about, right? I don't have an old ladies voice, but it sure can be better! I am a widow, and my three sons (all grown and single) share a big old house in Ohio. I lost two of my best friends this year and that is really grief. I miss my husband but he died at 48, so I think the deep grief of him is pretty much gone. Memories are there but, I am ready to make new ones. Thank you dear friend, you have given me so much tonight. You give out so much more than I think you realize. We still can rock this world! xoxo Sandie
I decided to fly (expensive) to spend Mother’s Day with my 3 Mom daughters. Changed my week after getting over spending the money and flying in an ever changing Co*vd world. Got a bounce in my step. Thanks for reminding me to get our of my personal bubble. Have a wonderful week!!!
I must say, you sure look lovely for someone who has been sick. Glad you & Desi are feeling better. I love the guitar painting! This was a great video with lots of wonderful advice. I especially loved the one about getting more energy. I am going to implement that one for sure. I think it will work! Much Love to you & Desi. 💖💗💘
I got through very difficult times by taking care of myself, doing things that make me feel good, being with good friends and not being with bad people, loving my precious fur baby.
Susan, you don't need any of the junk that whoever is saying you need. You look great! Women who get botox and the rest of that junk all look the same and look awful! We don't want that for us. Stay the way you are.
I was your 1st like today!! I so admire what you are doing. When the pandemic started, I started something called Wisdom on Call, LLC. I started with Zoom get togethers , conference calls and on line events. But I was just getting over what I think was Covid. My energy was zapped. All it takes to do an online community ( even with help) was more than my body could handle. I felt like such a failure. I was unemployed after teaching and being a professional liturgical singer for 20 years. Learning to conduct choirs and sing all 4 parts with Gods grace beneath my wings. Slowly I found my way. And now I have found you and the approach you have taken is wonderful. So authentic. And truly words of wisdom on every level. A pinch of empathy and enough sass to kick us into high gear. AND I LOVE YOUR RECORDING !!! I found a plaque that said: "Its not about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself." I want to add that creating ourselves is a continuum. We do it over and over to evolve into our best selves. And we link arms along the way with wonderful friends like you! Hoping you and Desi are better, give yourself time, space and the grace to heal ...however long it takes. 😘⚘🐾
@@LittlePoet thanks, just passing the things that have found along the way. We all have gifts, and it is truly in the giving that we receive. We can be our greatest creation! Since I was a child in Parochial school, I heard the "What you are is God's gift to you and what you become is your gift to God. So, it follows that if God is Love, then we are meant to give and receive love as our part in this life. Works 4 Me!💗
You are so beautiful inside and out. I am 66 and have seen some major changes in my face and body in the last year. Its really bringing me down. I no longer want to leave the house because I don't like how I look. I used to be able to keep my weight down but now I gained weight and cant get it off. I just lost my brother who co owned our house together and I took care of for 5 plus yrs and it through me for a loop. I now have to clean out our childhood home myself which is exhausting, sell the house and move. I just got over being very sick with flu like symptoms for almost two weeks and now its made me depressed. I also retired almost a year ago. I thought at this age I could relax and enjoy my life but I find my life is so full of stressful things. I am praying I can get through this and see the light at the end of the tunnel. I find your videos comforting so thank you for that LittlePoet.
I lost the love of life to suicide after he returned from Desert Storm. That was the words I felt to my soul.keep you and Desi in my prayers.glad to know you are doing good.hugs to you both. I learned today in less than 2 months I will no longer have a place to live be homeless again. Wrinkles at 65 is less important to me. You are my inspiration Susan.
@@LittlePoet shook to my core. The place I have been since March of 2019 is being sold and investors said June 15th. I am on social security retirement and cant work because I am not vaccinated due to health problems. Now cant afford rental rates or deposit so If I can come up with 6months car insurance I can go back to living in car. No insurance No car? No family and no friends after divorce. I laid it a the foot on the throne but I am totally terrified. At last look on housing help it was a 3yr waiting list. Right now just shell shocked.
@@pollymorriss3001 I will be praying for you....this thought just came to me...maybe you could rent a room in someone's home...maybe a lady who is alone and about your age who would love to have some company.
Don't know what town /city you live in but you have great shops...or towns close by. Nothing much here. Can you share? You have help me dig out of a deep place...I'm so grateful. I'm sooo grateful for you...and the share...we're not alone! Bless you.
I wish I could push the like button a million times! Your advice is priceless Susan 💖 exactly how I feel but couldn't put into words. Now, each day, I'm choosing Happiness! Take care of yourself and sweet Desi xo
Dear Susan thank you for spending time on UA-cam with me This week’s message was sorely needed for me… I feel like you hit the nail on the head when you explained that we are going through Grief… the loss of so many things I sincerely appreciate all that you shared this evening… I’m going to start planning things just as you suggested You are a beautiful woman and I appreciate your kindness and presence in my life Thank you Joanne
We can’t get to 70 without some tragedies can we Susan. Life doesn’t allow it. Life wants, it seems to tread you down so it has to come from you, yourself, to fight back and carry on. It’s not easy and a constant effort, but what else can you do if you want to survive and thrive. Good, helpful advice today Susan. Your looking so beautiful in the video and such an inspiration. I knew you’d get the bird lamp to go with the bird quilt 👍🤣 So missed Desi this week. Pleased your both getting over your illness. Such a worry when your soulmate and pet are taken poorly. God bless you both.🌸
Our 51 year old daughter passed away this month, the worst month of our lives. I feel like I will never get over it, she took my heart with her, she was my best friend and confidant. Our world is turned upside down and the grieving is something I've never felt before, we've lost our parents and many friends but this loss is unnatural, parents go first. Thank you Susan for talking about grieving and how you have overcome it, I pray the Lord will help us...in time.
I am so sorry, please accept my condolences. 🌺. That is something no parent should ever face. Perhaps a grief support group in your area will be some comfort. God Bless you.
Oh dear, I am in tears...I am so sorry for your loss....yes, The Good Lord will show you the way to peace and purpose soon...my love to you and yours, Susan
Oh Roseanne....I was just talking about our outer shell...Liz Taylor, Maryny Monroe...Julia Roberts....that's what I meant! :) and if I had " work " done I would just look a tad silly!!! Happy weekend my sweet friend!!! xo Susan & Gangsta Dez
Hello Carolyn Sanner ! Thank you so much for leaving me such a lovely comment...it means the world to me. I hope you enjoy this lovely last week in April...I am hoping for a great summer for all of us! Have a great new week!!! xxo Susan and Desi
Another insightful and lovely video. I’m a little younger than you at 51 but gosh I feel old when I look at my reflection and how I feel inside. I know it’s because I am currently on IV chemo for stage 4 breast cancer (BRCA2) it’s my 3rd diagnosis since the 1st in 2012. There is definitely a ‘me’ before cancer and a very different ‘me’ now. I morn the loss of the old me, the fit healthy body, the inner joy. But I am trying really hard to enjoy every day. You’re so right about grieving too. I miss my grandparents so much (they raised me) especially with what I am currently going through, but your words, “we carry them with us” is so true, and I needed to hear that, to be reminded of that. I also needed to hear what you said about goals. I have been too scared to really think about any goals past this year. I’ve been worrying over whether my treatment will be sufficiently successful enough for me to really resume a relatively active life. Your words have really given me encouragement and I know once I set my mind on something, and I have a focus or goal I will feel so much happier and determined to follow through. I always watch your videos and feel uplifted, happier and learn something. I think you are a beautiful woman, you’re beauty shines out of you and I am thankful that you continue to share with us. You help me more than you know, and I know I am not alone in this. Bless you and I hope Desi makes a quick recovery too. Until next time. 💕🐶
So glad you and Desi are getting better. Getting older is an adjustment for sure. I let my gray hair grow in and I’m surprised at how many compliments I get. I’ve lost all my anchors except my mother. I just recently had a conversation with my cousin about how we have become the anchors of the younger ones in the family although I didn’t use the term anchor, but that’s a great word for it. I’m going to try to make myself do 15 minutes of exercise as you suggested because that sounds like a reasonable starting point. And, yes, I’m gonna sing, too! LOL, I just hope my neighbors don’t complain. Thanks again for your words of wisdom. ❤️🤗
I always figured that I would be a late bloomer because, I was a stay at home Mom and did not pursue my own career....but when the shit hit the fan I did have to start my life over, get a job, went to grad school and now I'm looking for that new career to finally feel like I am a part of something I can be proud of. You are right about grieving, I miss so many things, my house, my parents, my dog, but starting new things and having my bucket list if things that I still want to do is what keeps me motivated!! Thank you for always being spot on with knowing just how we all are feeling and articulating it so well. I look forward to Saturday night to watch your video before bed. Thank you Susan and your darling doggie, Desi. I am glad you are both feeling better.
You are so beautiful. You make aging classy,. I am a woman of a certain age, and I find that we are being represented in a better light these days. Thank you for the videos!
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2 years ago I decided to become the happiest woman in my town. It has made all the difference. As you have said having goals, something to do and pursuing new interests is a great way to recharge your life. In my area, things are opening up again and there are all kinds of free events like reenactments, fundraisers, organization picnics, kids sports games etc etc. The big challenge is that I think many of us have become very lazy because there was nothing to do except be home for so long. It's spring and summer the perfect time just start again
What an awesome goal, Ima! You've inspired me. Thank you!
OH Ima!!! I love your attitude!!!!
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@@LittlePoet well you know Susa n, I decided that no one wants to be around a cranky, angry old woman ( or man). So I do things and go places so I have something to talk about, I do my hair and makeup and try to pick out decent outfits. Refocusing on the positive has changed my life.
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Walking just 20 minutes and reading helps me during my down times.
Your comment,”I wasn’t born a beautiful woman”; is something most of us would say. But your spirit and your passion shine through as your beautiful face conveys your caring and gratitude for life and for inspiring others. I believe at 70, my biggest “enemy” is my inner 40 year old self. We battle in the mirror daily, since she is how I still feel in my heart. Now I have resolved to be the very best version of the 70 year old me. I will take care of my skin, eat relatively healthy, exercise and be very grateful for my health, my family and people like you. Love to Desi & thank you for sharing what many of us are feeling.
Bonnie, I really identify with...." I do battle in the mirror with my forty year old daily". Oh my gosh, I couldn't have written truer words!
@@gingershaffer2547 I agree!!! My mirror and I are not on speaking terms right now!!!
You kindness makes me cry, Bobbie...
@@LittlePoet you are such a "hoot"! 🤣
@Bobbie Williams, I could “ditto” on your eloquent words of being 70!!!
Well my day was interesting. I was watching my favorite TV show when suddenly my Internet signal went out. I promptly got on the phone and called the company who walked me through several troubleshooting methods that didn't work. Then I looked out in my driveway and noticed my cable laying in the driveway. I went outside to inspect. informed the lady on the phone and she scheduled a repair appointment for tomorrow. I then noticed that the pole coming out of my electrical box was dangling in the wind and that is what snapped the cable line. after I hung up from her I called the electric company who promptly told me that poll was my responsibility. I'm a 64 Year old widow who wanted to curl up in the closet and cry. I decided that would accomplish nothing, so I found some clamps in my garage and some 3" nails. I reattached that swaying pole back onto the side of my house. Busted my knuckle wide open in the process, The pain was awful and there was blood everywhere, but I accomplished what I was told I needed to hire an electrician to do! And how was your day?
Sincerely,
Still smiling 😁
Susan I sing every day, I even do my scales, I phoned the Pharmacy the other day and she asked my name and DOB and when I told her she said sorry what year did you say, I told her again and she said are you this person or someone ringing for her, I said no it’s me, I said is there a problem she said no you just sounded so much younger than the birth date, so Susan you are right xxxxx
YES YES YES!!! I loved reading this!!! I get the " can I talk to your Mom" STILL!!!!
Wow, this video resonated so much with me particularly about being the anchor. It's hard for me, at times, to accept that my anchors are gone. I sometimes find it depressing because I feel a sense of being lost and wanting the old times back with my parents, aunts & uncles who have passed. Growing up in an Italian family, we were all so close. Now, with the anchors gone, my cousins and siblings have their own nuclear families and I just long for the old times. But, I am now the anchor for my daughter and my grandsons. Don't get me wrong, I am grateful but just miss what was.
Bless your heart! Even though mine was northern Italian and a bit more standoffish, I miss my family too.
Ditto! xx
I know how you feel. I miss my Parents and Grandparents, Aunts and Uncles too.
Being an Adult Orphan isn’t fun.
Focus on what you do have.
That helped me. Also, I believe by My Faith in God I will see them All again.
There is People who Need You. God Bless You xxx
I also feel like you do, I miss so much what once was !! I have to learn to enjoy every minute of the day while I am still here.Wishing you much happiness too.
Me too. Everyone I know is so busy with there own lives!!!
Susan, you have such a sweet, expressive face, heartwarming smile and share so many wonderful, inspirational tips with us! You are beautiful inside and out! I feel better after watching every video! Thank you so much!
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you
I absolutely agree with you
I'm happy to reach 65 this year.i feel blessed. Theres people who die of so many things in younger years. Appreciate all the time you have. Thank you for all your helpful advice
AMEN PREACH, IM 66 I LIVED MY YOUNG LIFE NOW I EMBRACE MY OLD LIFE ,,ITS LIFE ,LETS LIVE EVERYDAY OF IT♥️
I have raised my three children telling them enjoy every age in your life! If you're five and join being five if you're 15 enjoy being 15 30 enjoying being 30 so on and so forth. Sometimes it's hard to do. Because experiences in our life changes the enjoyment. However to be grateful! To be grateful for what we're blessed with it's the key, not to dwell on what we don't have, what we have lost, what we should have done, what we were unable to do, how poor we are, how unattractive we are, Etc. I've realized by renting your comments that I'm not the only one that's lost, went out unjustly, b e e n hated, Etc.. there are some most unfortunate than we are. Be grateful for what you have. And to be able to do that is in the Lord! God is the answer! Dwelling on your looks at 77 is ridiculous. Beauty Is Not skin deep! The most important thing is what's on the inside. Love, Joy, pace, long suffering, gentleness, goodness, faith, maintenance, temperance, Galatians Chapter 5 Verse 22. To be less of the world and more in God is true contentment! Youth, health, Beauty, more of this more of that a bigger appointment, a house, a nicer car, to have fun, to go on vacation, that's all material things. And they're not here to last! But the virtues at the beginning of my statement a r e true happiness. We should strive to keep them! Read your Bible everyday, pray everyday and ask God to help us be a better person than the day before! That is the key, that only God can provide! Yes I hope to take my own advice. LOL to decorate my house. I'm only planning to decorate my closet. I'm hoping to make a peaceful calm Pleasant place in my closet to meet God, through prayer and his word. To visit with him, to build a relationship, and worship. This is the key! The most important thing that anybody could ever do and their entire lifetime! Join me and creating the place to meet God everyday! God bless you.
Correction. Faith, (meekness)
You could not know how much you’ve helped me through your outlook. I got divorced 1 1/2 year ago. I’m just now getting back on my feet, I have been dodging cancer successfully for 13 years and my “marriage” was an ugly nightmare, my kids are absorbed in their own problems. I’m 62 and lucky to be alive-it has been an adjustment just to keep going. I’m not given to depression, and I love my job, it has been my salvation. Your videos have lifted me up on bad days. I thank you for helping me, for helping me find survival tools, slowly leading me to better days
Oh Laurie! Congratulations!!! You made it through such a terrible ordeal and you are thriving!!! You touch my heart and you made my day!!! Love to you! xxoo Susan
Sometimes it takes someone to say “Snap out of it!“. That’s the message I heard today. I’ve been living in grief of losing my father, and the fear of getting older and the realization I’m next in line. That’s a lot of wasted time. Thank you Susan for the kick in the rear. I must live life to the fullest!
Hope you and Desi feel 100% better soon!
I hear that, Donna. I think you will be okay.
Yes!! You are not alone sister! I'm sure we are one on many widows who feel the same. So I say yes to "snap out of it!"! 🥰 we are strong, beautiful and caring women with a lot to give this world! 🙌❤️
Donna, I’ve been feeling just like that. Worrying about it. Hopefully it will pas.
I enjoy each video. I love Eleanor… she was a brave woman.
Last June after a short trip to an area in north Arkansas that I love I decided to stop waiting for “ one day” and move. Within 6 weeks I was moved. I spent several weeks purging, giving away, selling, donating and had an estate sale. I pared down to basics keeping minimum belongings. I’ve spent the months since August 2021 reflecting inward and sorting through my life. At 69 this is the first time I’ve lived alone since right after high school. It’s Freeing to have less housecleaning chores, laundry, no alarms or appointments.
The spiritual growth I’ve gained is phenomenal.
I’m much healthier than most my age. With my second divorce in 2013 my husband took most of the furniture. I’ve learned I can live without many pieces that were just for decoration. It’s less to maintain. Keep videos coming. You’re a beautiful person.
The more i listen to you the more my life feels worth living
@SUSANBUCHANNON THIS says it all...
Agree! 🌸
It’s so hard when our fur babies get sick because they can’t tell us what’s wrong. I will keep sweet Desi in my prayers and you too, Susan. ❤️
I was truly scared....Desi was so sick!!! we both were...the only thing we shared was fried chicken on Saturday night! Uh-oh!!! I will never give him scraps again!!!
@@LittlePoet How awful that you both had food poisoning. That makes you too miserable to move. So, you were sick, sick and I'll bet you stayed up around the clock making sure your baby was okay. I had no idea that it was that bad. My heart goes out to you and I'll be praying that you're both 100% as fast as possible.
So happy you both are doing well after being ill from eating fried chicken. Did you buy the fried chicken? If so...I would let them know. Again, happy to see you both recovered.
Another thought provoking video..not about fried chicken😋 .but about taking charge of our lives, letting go of our grief and setting some goals for the future no matter your age.
@@kateg7298 oh it was made 1000 times worse to see Desi sick...he never has been sick. But he hever even had one accident in the house...amazing little dog- Gangsta!!!
@@LittlePoet He's a loved bug for sure. He's the best boy! I'd be having a long conversation with whoever sold you the fried chicken about paying his vet bills. I have 3 dogs and I'd be heated over it..
Hi Susan & Desi, I'm a Michigander too. I keep the Lord in my life everyday. I know he will always have my back. He has ALWAYS gotten me through the tough times, and believe me, there have been many. I'm so glad you and Desi are feeling better. My prayers and God's blessing to both of you.
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you.
Omg I think you’re reading my mind. The tragic unexpected passing of our son, losing our children’s childhood home, quitting my job, lost my friends, I’ve boxed myself in…..how do I go on and life a joyful life…..well guess I’ll begin by watching your channel and pray I can glean answers within them.
OMG. I feel the same as you. I am anxious all the time, since I was in my upper 50s. Now I am 62. I worry about money all the time and feel as though I am going to loose my home. I have had 3 foot surgeries in the past 16 months. I am on disability through work due to chronic pain, but coverage is going to expire soon. They terminated me. I have a very hard time standing on my foot. It is painful when I do. The surgeon said I have had alot done and my foot will never be the same. Social security disability has been filed by my work disability insurance and the government is giving me a hard time authorizing it because I am a Registered Nurse. How can I work when I cannot stand and on alot of meds for heart arrhythmia, etc.? It would not be safe for me to work with patients or even drive. I worry that someone might break into my home daily and also have an old vehicle. Most of the time I fear going outside. I was never like this and was a social butterfly. Not anymore. Reading the Bible helps, but I question it with all the horrible stuff going on. Thank you for your honesty. We are all going through so much. Us women need to stick together and lift each other spirits up.. Can you tell me the name of the book you read on Eleanor Roosevelt?
Sweet pea get on line and look at Molina healthcare Inc nurse position for medical claims review. You work 100% from home on the computer. It's awesome.
@@leopardappygirl thank you
@@leopardappygirl Thank you. Ankle and knee issues. I met a lady who had her home broken into 3 times by her neighbor. I decided I will not worry about what if. The older generations in years past made it without transportation, utilities Etc. We will be ok. That’s menopause messing with us. If we had known we would have these issues we would have ulcers by now. Life and let the good times roll was my Uncle John’s quote. He lived to be 103 years hold and had 3 girlfriends at 102. We have Some living yo do.
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I am a 77 yr old male that enjoys listening to you each week and laughing with you. Keep up the good work, you bring joy to alot of people
Really needed to hear what you had to say today.... Especially the part about grief and loosing so many in our lives hit home more than you know... Guess I have been stuck on that for quite a while... You gave me quite a new way to look at that issue and for that, I thank you oh so much!!!Take care you and Mr Desi!!!
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you
Susan, for some reason you look exceptionally beautiful today! I kept trying to figure if it was the makeup, jewelry, outfit but then I realized , yes it was that, but more so it was your entire persona and obviously your joy for life! You brighten up my week, always and I love you for that! I am 71 and become sad at times because I have so many things I want to do in life and times goes by too quickly! Even so, I am happy !
You are one of my favourite utubers. I stop everything when I see your post . I stop ,mute the TV, just to watch your videos
Glad you and Desi are feeling better. Congrats to the winners❤️
Enjoyed your affirming words today. I'm quickly approaching 59, but most days I feel much older as I struggle with chronic pain. As of late I have been trying to do the things I admire in other people, such as drawing and painting, that I had never learned before. I'm reading childhood classics that I never read as a child. Another goal is to try and get on a bike and so some short nature hikes with sketch book in hand- being gentle with myself has not decreased my pain level, so what do I have to lose?! I have told my children, "there is a season for everything," and I just realized, this is MY season!
Congratulations! I bought a bike last year thinking a little ride at the time and every day increasing. I can't even get on the thing. My legs won't raise high enough to travel. I spent more money to get a lower bike smaller tires so I can get on. I gave up for a while. With this encouragement. But now I thought I'm not going to let myself be defeated. If there's a will there's a way! LOL so I purchased these little floor bikes. Thinking if I exercise on that I went build up my muscles to ride my real bike. So there I am. LOL I want to read childhood Classics that I've never read. A wonderful thought. I just rather listen to him then read them. LOL I could listen to him while I ride. Of course I like the wind in my face nature around me and the birds singing. Maybe I can do all of it you never know. God bless you and good luck. Enjoy your books enjoy your ride.
Poor Desi- wonder what made him so sick? Glad you’re both ok now. I know about a dozen family members who have gotten sick recently (including my husband- he has a bad cold). Loved your 7 things those of us over 60 need to do. I find myself in a deep funk these days- I blame it on low energy but yes, it’s actually not feeling as happy as I should. Great video. Thank you ❣️Stay well!
You are a beautiful woman.
But the inside is most important.
So many woman look beautiful on the outside , but inside they don’t look so good.
I’ll be 60 tomorrow and I’m a Great Grandma.
I’ve taken care of my Husband and his older children for 16 years.
But I’ll be leaving soon to be on my own and I’m putting me first.
I’m so excited.
And you are a wonderful inspiration to me
You are beautiful inside and out.
That’s what I was trying to say
Dear “sister” Susan, I thought it was so amazing that I found you! Here I am in my 70’s stretched, challenged and still looking for purpose on purpose! But the funniest thing has happened…I have received such renewed vigor from all these other beautiful “sisters” who are wearing the exact same shoes I’m wearing! It really has given me a purposeful perspective of life being done relationally, wisely and joyfully…no matter what❣️ Thank you sisters💕
But I hasten to add, dear Sister Susan…I AM INDEED BLESSED TO KNOW YOU❣️❣️❣️
I sing all the time in the car and on my outside recumbent bike (with ear pod) around my park! The ducks and people look at me funny 😂I’m 70 and I don’t care ! 😂
I am happy to here you and Desi are better! I totally related to everything you had to say. I so love your channel, and your making a difference more than you know. ❤️
You're the best!
@@LittlePoet Have a lovely Sunday!❤️
I love birds and have a cute lamp! In 2020 I had two strokes back to back and it has taken me months get back to my old self in as much as it will ever be again! i love listening to your advice and what to do with my second part of my life! Thank you for caring! My name is Elaine I am 73 and live in Georgia.
Susan your imitation of the old lady voice, you gave me a good laugh 😂😂😂😂😂
I will make sure I sing my Beatle songs everyday…
I needed that laugh my sister who is suffering with Alzheimer’s for 10 years can not swallow her food this week, so I am afraid she is losing her battle. My poor beautiful sister, so unfair she is only 65 years old…
and I certainly will always remember I am the anchor for my daughter and granddaughter ❤️ so beautifully said
Look on youtube, there is a lady peduatrician who helped he husband with Alzheimers by having him ingest MCT oil. It may help. I work everyday to do what I can to try and avoid this dreaded disease. I love aDr. MINDY PELZ, lots of great free information.
@@patriciaatkinson4500 I’m afraid it is too late for my sister, she has battled this for 10 years, she can’t eat anymore, this is what happens in the last stage of this disease… she is in the care of hospice now. She can’t eat, walk, talk, move, she just stars into space…she can’t swallow any water or food.. we’re at this point just glad that hospice is there with her… when her time is very near , we will bring her home so she can be surrounded by her family, right now she is in the nursing home. It’s been a long battle, but thank you for your comment 🙏
Wow ! finally ! someone on these channels are telling the truth about how much money the industry is making off of women’s insecurities about their faces. And if I hear another person say “age naturally “or “except the imperfections of life “and then Suggest to-us what to buy on their channels. “Vanity vanity vanity it’s all vanity”. Keep up the good work girl you’re a beautiful soul. Hugs Connie Murphy🤓
Just celebrated 61 years of friendship with two childhood friends yesterday. We ate at Cheesecake Factory in Chattanooga Tennessee. After lunch, we went outside for pictures while singing "STOP In The Name Of Love." We are 69 years old this year, thankful to be alive and embracing every wrinkle and sag we have. Thank you Susan for this video. Happy you and Dezi better.
Thank you , Susan, for thes tips. I am 76 and most days I find myself with no energy and just waiting for something good to show up! I will pray and try to incorporate your tips!
I KNEW you'd buy that lamp! LOL. Great advice. I had a rough patch this week, my husband left and I looked forward to hearing from you- still standing.. LInda
I love skin care. I love to adorn myself. You have beautiful sparkly necklaces on. My favorite thing when I was a little girl was wearing many bangled bracelets, lots of necklaces, lots of belts, and long boho hippie skirts with leggings underneath. I was 5. The colors and sparkles were the most beautiful thing to me.
This was a very impactful video Susan! So many wise words ….sometimes I need to hear things from others, (in this case you) for it to really hit home. You are so correct, the energy I think I need is really a silent call asking for purpose and happiness. I never had really thought of it that way. The biggest lightbulb moment for me was what you said about having goals! I’m 62 and I have no real goals or a sense of purpose, I’m just drifting along waiting for…what??? You gave me a good kick in the pants today to really think about what I want and to start creating goals. You make me realize that I still have a lot of life left in me. I am forever grateful for you Susan, even though we have never met, I consider you a friend. I hope you and Desi have a wonderful week.
Hello Tamara! Oh I feel like we are sisters....I could relate to everything you wrote! I said I needed more energy for 5 years until I realized...energy for what? Running my dust buster? I had to change my life or I would be ffoing myself forvever and watching life pass me by! Love to you!!!! Susan
I had a hysterectomy at age 46. I took hormones for about 3 years. I stopped taking them and became mindful of my diet….my female physician shared about foods with preservatives that trigger hormones and flashes. It meant giving up chips and colas. Over time I added colas with very limited use. Many foods have become “ treats or travel foods”. When I travel and eat those foods I don’t feel guilty. I don’t bring those foods into my house.
Exercise is important. As a former voice student I sing everyday. Singing is also good lung therapy.
Susan, I am only spending time with people that are positive, upbeat and want to experience new things, going on adventures. I wake up everyday proud of my life time career, surviving the traumatic times in my life. I have stopped seeing some once close friends, that were making me feel terrible about my self, you know, the fake friends that are always criticizing you and your decisions. They have all left my happy life and I feel free from negativity, believe me it was time for them to go! At our age we should be all coming into a new chapter., do new things things and get out in the world and make a Difference👍❤️👏 Remember we can’t buy more Time, go wake up tomorrow and cut the negativity from your circle, and be the Best you can be Now!
Oh Candy I think that is so important to perhaps say goodbye to toxic people that can hurt us so and keep us from having the good life we deserve. Some folks seem to just love drama! You are so wise...we can't buy more time. It's the most precious thing we will ever own.
Good For You Candy!
You Go Girl! ❤️❤️❤️
I hope you got that beautiful gold jacket you modeled at the begin....it is such a gorgeous vintage style!
I am 64, so happy with myself. Now I am comfortable with growing older. Decided to let my beautiful grey hair grow in. Now in my 5 month transition so far, will take me 2 years. So many silver foxes out there, that are so beautiful. Life is a blessing!
Keep going! It’s so worth it!
I transitioned to all natural/grey 5 years ago and I love it! I’m more salt & pepper with grey streaks near my face.
Go for it! I’m happy I did 😉
I stopped coloring my hair at 46, at the encouragement of my husband and kids. I have no regrets. I get so many compliments on it. I am 52 now and I love that I don’t have to worry about fitting in a hair appointment or having my silver strands popping out at the root line every 2-3 weeks. Oddly I was a medium brown color naturally and as my hair grew out I was a salt and pepper color, now I look more blonde. I love watching my natural hair color patterns over the years. My Father went from very dark brown/ almost black hair to White. I’m hoping that happens to me. Hang in there, it will be so worth it!
My gray hair is actually more white. My stylist put color in my hair to somewhat match the white color and I haven’t looked back since. Such an easy transition.
When you said "Who would buy a bird lamp?" I thought, "What's wrong with that. I would!" And then you bought it!! Love it! Congratulations to your winners. PS, "You are a beautiful woman."
Congrats to the winners🎉. I recently moved into an apartment in a senior community. And I too felt like after no longer working after 25 years in the medical field, that I had no purpose. Well I’ve started up a once a month craft class and the residents are very excited. I feel much better and feel I’m helping people once again. Blessings to you and Desi❣️
Good for you, starting a craft class. May you be blessed as you are blessing others!
Hello, I'm usually at church on a Sunday morning, but my air-conditioning in my car isn't working so I'm watching your videos over again. You are truly a inspiration. I'm 68 and I was taking care of a lady that was 96 years old. And she passed away last week. She wasn't family but I thought of her as one. So I really needed your pep talk this morning. To get out there and continue to live and not just set home on my tushy. lol. Keep up the honest and heartfelt messages because everyone needs that. Linda in Virginia.
I am so glad you did this video. a lot of what I have been thinking is what you talked about. I need a purpose for my life. I have family but they don't care about me. They are to rapped up in their lives. I sleep all day and they can't sleep at night. Since it is getting spring I may be can get out more. I am going to try and do better for myself. I have been thinking of joining a dance group. thanks for saying all those up lifting things.
Love you channel and you don't look you age.
I am 62 and have had breast cancer 3 times and in 2020 I had stage 3 colon cancer. At this time I am cancer free. I think God has spared me for a reason and I hope I can accomplish what he has in store for me. Thanks again for the up lifting words!! Have a good week.
I’m sure people need to hear your story. You can encourage so many people. Try volunteering. Enjoy your life. When Covid is over or better. I have plans to enjoy locally and spread out from there, solo.
Wow, from your story i could tell you are a fighter and a positive thinker.
I am 58, i know how it feels when it seems you are alone.
But i just want you to know i would always be available if you want a listening ear and someone who can talk with you.
After all the rough ride you have had, you deserve to be happy and nothing less.
Hope to get a reply from you soon.
God bless your heart. I hope that you've read my comments on the prayer closet. I highly encourage you that you do that. You know it's God that's fair you. Find a place to dedicate 15 20 30 minutes to him everyday. It works it really does! God is the answer. God bless you.
Correction spared you.
Thank you for another great video. So much truth. My plan is to age gracefully. I’m 60, no interest in spending money on any kind of enhancements. I retired early, last year, live alone and the one thing I’m focused on is losing weight for my health. Not an easy goal, but I’m not giving up.
I’m still adjusting to being retired, which is not as easy as I thought it would be. It’s amazing how easy it is to fall into a funk if you’re not careful. God is good and has put some really great people in my path since I retired. I’m excited to see what new things surface. God bless.
I'm so glad you brought up Eleanor Roosevelt. I've lived with a quote of hers since my teens: Whether you think you can, or think you can't, YOU'RE RIGHT. Such powerful words. So glad you and Desi are feeling better! I just love that little guy so very much. Everytime I see his adorable face, I smile. Thanks for another wonderful video. ❤❤❤🤗🤗
Just saw a picture of Barbra Streisand for her 80th birthday and I could not recognise her! What a big mistake! I am 72, do the best with what I have got and what I am. All these procedures that women are doing in the search of eternal youth will never make them happier because there is no end to this. Thank you Susan for being yourself and yes you are a pretty woman!
You are such a beautiful person thank you. I have fibromyalgia and is not easy but every time I see your channel it just relaxes me you are an inspiration for all thank you again and many blessings.
My love to you Nancy! You inspire us all here!!!
Oh Susan, I was blessed to have hobbies, and good firemds and family when I retired. I belong to a Red Hat group and those of us who are left do have fun. Yes, we do lose a member once in a while as our youngest members are i n their 60s and the oldest in their 80s. However, that said, I need to take more walks as my hobbies are sedentary. as time goes by, yes, my parents are gone, no kids either. but, twice when I lost classmates, these two fellows called me thie angel. I had no idea! So we don't know how we affect others.
Hello Linda ! Thank you so much for leaving me such a lovely comment...it means the world to me. I hope you enjoy this lovely last week in April...I am hoping for a great summer for all of us! Have a great new week!!! xxo Susan and Desi
@@LittlePoet thank you. I hope your week is terrific. My Red Hatters are celebrating my birthday this coming Sat. The hostess said something is being delivered. .. lol my birthday was earlier this month, 69 is feeling okay lol
You hit the nail on the head when you talked about having more energy! I think that a lot when i get up, but i am really thinking i what a more fulfilling life like i used to have when i had a partner and family! being divorced for 7yrs after a 34yr. marriage and 62 is traumatizing, but i take it day by day. I so enjoy your videos!
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you.
Hi Susan. I’m 63 very Blessed to have survived abdominal cancer and two heart attacks.
Then was told I had Pancreatic Cysts, one of them pre-cancerous, I stopped making Long-Term Goals.
I am twice divorced, have 3 Grown - Up beautiful Kids. All married and 5 Grandchildren between them.
I stopped looking inwards and started looking Outwards.
Spending time with my Grandkids and Family and Good Friends.
I have Travelled the World.
But My Goal next year is to do more Travelling in my own Country and Down South.
I’m from Scotland. Uk.
My Travel Insurance is too High now.
But Smaller Goals I can do.
Bye the Way, I’m in Remission now.
My Cysts have Stopped Growing! Yippee!
My Kids Need me and My Grandkids Need me and my Lovely Bonnie, my Golden Doodle Needs me.
God is So Good. He has been with me All the Way.
You are an Inspiration Susan.
Keep it Up. Lots of Love and Hugs. Cathy🏴 xxx
I love you and I never miss your videos. You will love Italy, Italian people are so welcoming in my experience. All my Yorkies have Italian names. My current Yorkie is named "Lorenzo Bartolini." I want to own a little house in Italy and spend half the year in there. You should plan a girls trip, but I travel alone and that is a blast too. I always make friends.
I'm glad you bought the guitar wall hanging. It looks great!
Oh my gosh Susan I would love to go to Ireland 🇮🇪 and I'm mad for bird lamps lol I'm glad yoU both are on the mend!! Xx 🐾
I just love, love the way that black and white halter top looks on you. I read once “stop taking the pen away from God, he hasn’t finished writing your story”.
You are so right! Botox can't inject confidence and kindness into a heart!
Love the way you think!! Your such a beautiful person!! Just love your videos!! Write that book beautiful!!! Xoxo
I've had dark hours now for months- my weight. I've gone up in top and bottom. I am getting medical attention and have thought about a support group. But what gets me through is my Mom. I look like her so much now as I'm getting wiser. So Mom thankyou for the self talk reminders.
Suzanne don't allow yourself to be in darkness. Open the drapes and curtains. Pull up the window blinds and let the light into your home. I understand that the dark is inside of you when life is disappointing but turn your face to the light. "This too will end "
Every day is a new beginning. Look into your mirror and see the amazing woman!!! You are a special person!
Be happy ❤ Be blessed ❤
I totally understand. After my mom passed and work was non exsistant and covid...we have all been in a darkness. I am now on weight watchers and its so great to feel I am getting my life and most importantly my health back! Here to support you!! You can do anything! Hugs
Mostly importantly!!! Do not ever beat yourself up. Accept where you are right this moment. You will know when the time is right to start a new mission journey mindset lifestyle if that is what you desire. Embrace the wonders in you right now. Then...exhale. Give yourself grace for the time and the place.
Thank God for moms always there to help. I hope you feel better today
Thanks for your kind comments
I learned something today … “ I am anchor “ ⚓️
I love that I can do 6 of the 7 things on this list. (can't do exercise) This year has been a year of acceptance, and of grieving the things I *could* do, but now I can't. An illness has me picking out a wheelchair at 59. But for all the things I can't physically do, I can still dream, and plan adventures. Even if the adventures are at home. I can still exercise my vocal chords (I love that!!). Dang it, I may just buy myself a karaoke machine, and drive my family crazy. 😂 I can still be the touchstone for my children, and be an encourager to my friends. I loved this video, Susan. As always, I think you and Desi are the best company. 💕
Amy, I like your attitude.
Join me and making a secret place to meet God. A special place everyday to visit with the Lord to read your Bible and to worship Him. To be thankful he said and with praise when you enter into his presence. That's the key and the answer for all things needed. He is all in all! I'm trying to decide what color to paint the inside of my closet. I think perhaps a pale blue it would remind me of the sky. And a fresh and calm feeling. I thought maybe I put a scented candle and of course a comfortable sitting. Maybe soft beautiful music as I read my Bible and pray. There you could sing to God! What a wonderful thought. God bless you.
The heck you weren’t. You are gorgeous.
I agree with all you said. Men don’t worry about how they are aging. Why should we.
I'm with you, I vocalize too even though I'm not actively singing right now. I don't want to lose the "colors" of my voice! (and I want to be ready for whatever) Bonus, I have been line dancing with you tube! Girl, it works! It changes my attitude and I get all spunky! I'm so glad you and Desi are in the pink! Your makeup looks amazing today! Especially with the open shoulder dress. That's definitely "Jazz night" worthy! Hugs to you and Desi! !!! 🎸love the guitar👍
oH GINGER YOU ARE SO SWEET!!! I even left my caps on for you! That is a lovely summer night dress...the kind of dress you hope you have on when you feel you met somebody you would fall in love with! That is my Vincent VanGogh dress!!! How are you doing!!!???
Oh my gosh! Yes to the dress and for falling in love! I just watched Anna Karenina again, different actors (You Tube) but still same love story but oh so sad! Loved it but oh so long....3hrs23mins Whew! Have a terrific week. I'm still trying to lose weight! never ending struggle! hugs to you and Dez!
So happy you got the guitar picture..I love it!!
I love this video, I can relate to the doctor, my old doctor just didn’t listen and just acted like every problem was caused by my age, I also found a new woman doctor that is amazing and even though she is not on my insurance plan I rather pay a higher copay and keep her as my doctor. I hope that you and Dezi have an amazing week💜💜
I can very relate to these doctors! They don't listen to you I believe all they got on their mind at their payday! It's sad to say I wrote a list of all my symptoms. Even the not in my back. All he told me that was nothing wrong with me but depression! Now the knot on my back or should I say the depression on my back it's getting larger. I do need to find a doctor that will listen and care! You know a real doctor! I'm searching in the area where I live I don't think they have one. God bless you dear. I'm glad that you found help
Thank you for your wisdom ;hit a chord with Drs who just assume we are bored old women.
Dance and sing when house is empty except for my doggoes.we sing together .bless you and Desi.
Amen! I'm tired of having ads for both and this gadget and that product. I like what I use and am sticking them.
Reaching out to others has helped my depression. Its a struggle but it does make a difference. Ignore the unkind.
You are stunning and so stylish. Keep it up!
Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you.
The bird lamp is adorable and Desi is the sweetest 💕
Thank you so much for inspiring all of us. You always seem to hit the nail on the head with things that I am going through. Have a great week.
how’re you doing and how’s the weather there? Have a blessed day and God bless you.
Decision / choice / most of our emotional state is up to us. My lesson was not depending on everyone else to be my anchor. BTW our church was closed for almost 2 years due to the pandemic and when I returned I was shocked that I could no longer sing! I had lost my 'singing' voice. I was saddened until I realized that those chords needed to be exercised so I began singing at home - playing my piano - and finally after about 6 months I find that I can sing again (not the best sounding yet), but my voice has returned!! Thank you for being an anchor for us - and an inspiration.
Susan, love your videos!! I feel exactly the way you do, no energy!!! I pray almost everyday for energy, motivation, strength, and some mornings I do feel better than others. I’m going to take one step at a time and start walking around the park. Thank you for your advice.
I'd buy that bird lamp! Put in my log cabin guest room! Lol
Wonderful video!!!! I am 70 and am going thru those same issues. I want to be more happy and enjoy life. I am trying to make changes in my life. Thank you!
I am still alive, so I ordered a new Bible and am working on an art project… my work looks OK, but it’s at about a 4th grade level~~ I need more motivation to find out exactly what my talents are~ as my grieving and loneliness/abandonment has taken the wind out of my sails.
Such wisdom offered in this video. Thank you, Susan.
Glad you're both feeling better 💜 where did you find that dress in the start of video? Your videos make my day, you are a beautiful person 🙂
Susan, thank you so much. I am realizing the things I have hidden from myself. Grief, yes! I love your idea of making a list of things we want, I am going to do tomorrow. (It is 11PM now, so I think I will get a good nights sleep first). You have given me more than you realize tonight. I want more out of my life. I am 78, and only problem is my arthritis in my knees and back. HOWEVER, there are many things I still want to do and becoming more vocal is one of them! I will begin by walking (I can do it) out in my back yard and singing. Yes, my sons will think I am nuts, but, hey they need something to think about, right? I don't have an old ladies voice, but it sure can be better! I am a widow, and my three sons (all grown and single) share a big old house in Ohio. I lost two of my best friends this year and that is really grief. I miss my husband but he died at 48, so I think the deep grief of him is pretty much gone. Memories are there but, I am ready to make new ones. Thank you dear friend, you have given me so much tonight.
You give out so much more than I think you realize. We still can rock this world! xoxo Sandie
I decided to fly (expensive) to spend Mother’s Day with my 3 Mom daughters. Changed my week after getting over spending the money and flying in an ever changing Co*vd world. Got a bounce in my step. Thanks for reminding me to get our of my personal bubble. Have a wonderful week!!!
I must say, you sure look lovely for someone who has been sick. Glad you & Desi are feeling better. I love the guitar painting! This was a great video with lots of wonderful advice. I especially loved the one about getting more energy. I am going to implement that one for sure. I think it will work! Much Love to you & Desi. 💖💗💘
You are radiant from within...and Desi just makes my heart SO FULL!
I got through very difficult times by taking care of myself, doing things that make me feel good, being with good friends and not being with bad people, loving my precious fur baby.
Hello Sherryp
Nice comments, I truly could sense the honesty in your words.
So tell me What are your Hobbies?
Hope i get a reply from you soon.
Susan, you don't need any of the junk that whoever is saying you need. You look great! Women who get botox and the rest of that junk all look the same and look awful! We don't want that for us. Stay the way you are.
I was your 1st like today!! I so admire what you are doing. When the pandemic started, I started something called Wisdom on Call, LLC. I started with Zoom get togethers , conference calls and on line events. But I was just getting over what I think was Covid. My energy was zapped. All it takes to do an online community ( even with help) was more than my body could handle. I felt like such a failure. I was unemployed after teaching and being a professional liturgical singer for 20 years. Learning to conduct choirs and sing all 4 parts with Gods grace beneath my wings. Slowly I found my way. And now I have found you and the approach you have taken is wonderful. So authentic. And truly words of wisdom on every level. A pinch of empathy and enough sass to kick us into high gear. AND I LOVE YOUR RECORDING !!! I found a plaque that said: "Its not about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself."
I want to add that creating ourselves is a continuum. We do it over and over to evolve into our best selves. And we link arms along the way with wonderful friends like you! Hoping you and Desi are better, give yourself time, space and the grace to heal ...however long it takes. 😘⚘🐾
Its not about finding yourself, it's about creating yourself." I Love that Patricia!!!! Oh my gosh, you are so wonderful and so talented!!!
@@LittlePoet thanks, just passing the things that have found along the way. We all have gifts, and it is truly in the giving that we receive. We can be our greatest creation! Since I was a child in Parochial school, I heard the "What you are is God's gift to you and what you become is your gift to God. So, it follows that if God is Love, then we are meant to give and receive love as our part in this life. Works 4 Me!💗
You are so beautiful inside and out. I am 66 and have seen some major changes in my face and body in the last year. Its really bringing me down. I no longer want to leave the house because I don't like how I look. I used to be able to keep my weight down but now I gained weight and cant get it off. I just lost my brother who co owned our house together and I took care of for 5 plus yrs and it through me for a loop. I now have to clean out our childhood home myself which is exhausting, sell the house and move. I just got over being very sick with flu like symptoms for almost two weeks and now its made me depressed. I also retired almost a year ago. I thought at this age I could relax and enjoy my life but I find my life is so full of stressful things. I am praying I can get through this and see the light at the end of the tunnel. I find your videos comforting so thank you for that LittlePoet.
I lost the love of life to suicide after he returned from Desert Storm. That was the words I felt to my soul.keep you and Desi in my prayers.glad to know you are doing good.hugs to you both. I learned today in less than 2 months I will no longer have a place to live be homeless again. Wrinkles at 65 is less important to me. You are my inspiration Susan.
May God Bless you and intervene in your life so that you will not be homeless, In Jesus' Name !!!
Oh Polly...on no....what in the world is going on! Are you Ok?
I'm so sorry and pray that you somehow your path will change and you will be ok.
@@LittlePoet shook to my core. The place I have been since March of 2019 is being sold and investors said June 15th. I am on social security retirement and cant work because I am not vaccinated due to health problems. Now cant afford rental rates or deposit so If I can come up with 6months car insurance I can go back to living in car. No insurance No car? No family and no friends after divorce. I laid it a the foot on the throne but I am totally terrified.
At last look on housing help it was a 3yr waiting list. Right now just shell shocked.
@@pollymorriss3001 I will be praying for you....this thought just came to me...maybe you could rent a room in someone's home...maybe a lady who is alone and about your age who would love to have some company.
Don't know what town /city you live in but you have great shops...or towns close by. Nothing much here. Can you share? You have help me dig out of a deep place...I'm so grateful. I'm sooo grateful for you...and the share...we're not alone! Bless you.
I wish I could push the like button a million times! Your advice is priceless Susan 💖 exactly how I feel but couldn't put into words. Now, each day, I'm choosing Happiness! Take care of yourself and sweet Desi xo
All the above. You spoke to me big time tdy. Thank you sharing and spreading light ❤ hugs to you & Desi.
Dear Susan thank you for spending time on UA-cam with me
This week’s message was sorely needed for me… I feel like you hit the nail on the head when you explained that we are going through Grief… the loss of so many things
I sincerely appreciate all that you shared this evening… I’m going to start planning things just as you suggested
You are a beautiful woman and I appreciate your kindness and presence in my life
Thank you
Joanne
We can’t get to 70 without some tragedies can we Susan. Life doesn’t allow it. Life wants, it seems to tread you down so it has to come from you, yourself, to fight back and carry on. It’s not easy and a constant effort, but what else can you do if you want to survive and thrive. Good, helpful advice today Susan. Your looking so beautiful in the video and such an inspiration. I knew you’d get the bird lamp to go with the bird quilt 👍🤣
So missed Desi this week. Pleased your both getting over your illness. Such a worry when your soulmate and pet are taken poorly. God bless you both.🌸
Our 51 year old daughter passed away this month, the worst month of our lives. I feel like I will never get over it, she took my heart with her, she was my best friend and confidant. Our world is turned upside down and the grieving is something I've never felt before, we've lost our parents and many friends but this loss is unnatural, parents go first. Thank you Susan for talking about grieving and how you have overcome it, I pray the Lord will help us...in time.
I am so sorry, please accept my condolences. 🌺. That is something no parent should ever face. Perhaps a grief support group in your area will be some comfort. God Bless you.
Oh dear, I am in tears...I am so sorry for your loss....yes, The Good Lord will show you the way to peace and purpose soon...my love to you and yours, Susan
I am so sorry. My heart hurts for you both. I pray you both feel the Lords love for you every second of every day.
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Never stop talking to her. I'm sure she can hear your heart now and always.
I love the bird lamp! 😊❤️
The rose hip oil is working. My red Iris vines on my checks is 75% gone. Thank you.🤗
Count your blessings.....that works for me. Thank you for your videos. I hope you and Desi are feeling better.
WHAT? You are beautiful! And I believe you always were! You’re Stunning!
Oh Roseanne....I was just talking about our outer shell...Liz Taylor, Maryny Monroe...Julia Roberts....that's what I meant! :) and if I had " work " done I would just look a tad silly!!! Happy weekend my sweet friend!!! xo Susan & Gangsta Dez
Absolutely love that halter top on you! And the bright lipstick! For rough times, it has helped me to read the Bible's Old Testament book of Psalms.📖
Hello Carolyn Sanner ! Thank you so much for leaving me such a lovely comment...it means the world to me. I hope you enjoy this lovely last week in April...I am hoping for a great summer for all of us! Have a great new week!!! xxo Susan and Desi
Another insightful and lovely video. I’m a little younger than you at 51 but gosh I feel old when I look at my reflection and how I feel inside. I know it’s because I am currently on IV chemo for stage 4 breast cancer (BRCA2) it’s my 3rd diagnosis since the 1st in 2012. There is definitely a ‘me’ before cancer and a very different ‘me’ now. I morn the loss of the old me, the fit healthy body, the inner joy. But I am trying really hard to enjoy every day. You’re so right about grieving too. I miss my grandparents so much (they raised me) especially with what I am currently going through, but your words, “we carry them with us” is so true, and I needed to hear that, to be reminded of that.
I also needed to hear what you said about goals. I have been too scared to really think about any goals past this year. I’ve been worrying over whether my treatment will be sufficiently successful enough for me to really resume a relatively active life. Your words have really given me encouragement and I know once I set my mind on something, and I have a focus or goal I will feel so much happier and determined to follow through.
I always watch your videos and feel uplifted, happier and learn something. I think you are a beautiful woman, you’re beauty shines out of you and I am thankful that you continue to share with us. You help me more than you know, and I know I am not alone in this.
Bless you and I hope Desi makes a quick recovery too. Until next time. 💕🐶
So glad you and Desi are getting better. Getting older is an adjustment for sure. I let my gray hair grow in and I’m surprised at how many compliments I get. I’ve lost all my anchors except my mother. I just recently had a conversation with my cousin about how we have become the anchors of the younger ones in the family although I didn’t use the term anchor, but that’s a great word for it. I’m going to try to make myself do 15 minutes of exercise as you suggested because that sounds like a reasonable starting point. And, yes, I’m gonna sing, too! LOL, I just hope my neighbors don’t complain. Thanks again for your words of wisdom. ❤️🤗
Love that you included glimpses of elderflower in this vid. It’s my fave… warm greetings from the lowlands of western Europe (NL) 🌠
I'm 66....I let my hair go gray....it is beautiful if I do say so myself....you are beautiful!
Congratulations to the winners.
I always figured that I would be a late bloomer because, I was a stay at home Mom and did not pursue my own career....but when the shit hit the fan I did have to start my life over, get a job, went to grad school and now I'm looking for that new career to finally feel like I am a part of something I can be proud of. You are right about grieving, I miss so many things, my house, my parents, my dog, but starting new things and having my bucket list if things that I still want to do is what keeps me motivated!! Thank you for always being spot on with knowing just how we all are feeling and articulating it so well. I look forward to Saturday night to watch your video before bed. Thank you Susan and your darling doggie, Desi. I am glad you are both feeling better.
You are so beautiful. You make aging classy,. I am a woman of a certain age, and I find that we are being represented in a better light these days. Thank you for the videos!