I'm struggling with Morton's neuroma on my right foot, But I'm just going to keep wearing pretty clothes and makeup and perfume with big ol wide toe box shoes. I'm just gonna smile so bright that peoples eyes will just stay on my face.
@@adesign3755I am so encouraged with all the precious women on this site who love the Lord and have found His Word relevant to living a joyful life! I’m not saying I’m perfect…neither is life, but I feel His presence and He has given me great peace! I’m so very thankful ❤️
I am 71 years old and I love my life. I volunteer two days a week. One day at the VA Hospital and one day on a Hospice unit. I'm a nature photographer and just discovering still life photography. I have physical limitation but don't let that stop me. Life is too short and I think you are the perfect ambassador to keep us aware of how sweet and precious life is. You are a blessing to all of us!
I’m a retired nurse from the VA of 35 years. I’ve lost two husbands my high school sweetheart at 20 and my soulmate at 59. A year later, our Puggle Lizzie passed away. I think I’ve had enough grief, and been on that journey too many times. Lost my father to leukemia two years ago. So at 65, I got two tattoos, I’m living the life I choose, I’ve stopped people pleasing, And I pray every day to God, and thank him for the life that he has given me!
The yr I was turning 50 my dister & I both found out we had cancer, hers was terminal & I was given stongest treatment for mine. Our dad passed away before we fou d out we had cancer but then my mom was showing signs of dementia so we both agreed we wouldnt let her know of our illness..there were so many times I wanted to tell my mom as I needed her..she passed away not knowing about us. Then my brother passed away afew months ago. I never fully recovered from my cancer as it left me with old health issues became worse & as a gift I then had new issues that 9 yrs on & Im no better...I gave up on evrn trying a yr ago & am now paying the price...if only I had accepted the medical & mental health care etc I was offered...Now I font think I can ever get close to how I was before getting ill, but even 5% would be nice right now... Wishing you the best.❤
Dear Debbie, like you I've lost my parents,sister and husband. Lost many wonderful pets which I adore. My little dog is on heart medication. Every morning I wake up and I am greeted by my senior cats ,14 and 19 and my little dog. I am so happy to have my fur babies. I am thankful for each day and wonderful friends . A loving male companion who cares for me. Like you I am pleasing myself and its wonderful. Keep smiling Debbie.
We don't need to wait until we're 70 to live that way 😊 Some of my husband's family was very toxic.. and l wrote them off in my 30s, and I've never looked back. Life is too short to let anyone ruin it in anyway 💗
One thing I’ve enjoyed as an older woman is having the luxury to sit and savor a morning sunrise, or a steamy cup of coffee without being rushed. I loved all of the seasons of my life … the student, working mother … but now I have time to just sit back, reflect on my blessings with gratitude, and enjoy this season. God is good to allow me this.
My grandmother lived to 105 by being happy, smiling everyday, and simply living her life without worries. She used to say, "Doctors will look at your age and think that there must be something wrong and will test and test until they 'find' something that may, or may not exist."
Personally, I feel we were brainwashed to think we need to do all that doctoring. I doctor when I feel the need. I eat healthy, I exercise and I know my body. If I feel something isn’t right, I seek the help of a doctor. I’m much happier not obsessing over Medicine. I’m 73, no meds, some supplement, grounded in Faith and so much happier. Love your channel...
My mom is like this, she went through breast cancer at 76. The whole 9 yards. She said she wasn’t once afraid, but saw fear in everyone’s face that was there. She did what she had to do and went on with life. She stopped the mammogram at 85 and is now 91. She said “ I love the Lord and that’s all the matters - I don’t care about giving all of it thought anymore” - I hope to live as long as her.
@@ChristyAndre62 So happy you shared this I had my DMX close to 2 and a half years ago at age 70. It is so comforting to hear people have so many years left after a breast cancer diagnosis.🥰
I agree it’s about making an informed choice. Some people are not accepting of those of us who decline all screening tests. I promote screening tests. It’s about choice please be understanding of those that decline. I support those who choose to screen.
It was a good week that ended with sheer mental exhaustion. I am 71 years of age, and decided January 3 this would be the year I would buy a house. I signed the paperwork February 27 and became a homeowner. I have been single for 19 years and yet at this age, I feel more powerful, resilient, healed, and blessed than I ever have in my entire life. All the folks who say do this or don't do that at a certain age may have good intentions, however, to live life is to feel pain and joy no matter what age a person may be. I look forward to Saturday evening with Little Poet. I wish you the best. You are a young woman of 69 doing well. You inspire women to continue to progress in their lives of any age. ❤
What has really enriched my health and my life, now that I am retired, is reading the Bible every single day. Listening to God‘s word, knowing His truth, and having faith and hope based on His love for me, has made my life much more enriched, and hopeful. Also, preparing to take care of my baby grandson to be, is something that I’m looking forward to as well. God is good!
I could use lots of prayers for my Granddaughter. She's 30 and had a metal knee put in on the 29th. She is in so much pain. Please ladies prayers for this baby girl.Thank you all!❤ Her name is Haley Renee.
I wanted to take ballroom lesson when my fiancée & I were planning our wedding but he felt uncomfortable so I signed out a record that played instructions on the basic steps ..it even had cut outs of feet & told you where to place them on the floor..lol 34 yrs later, we never did take dancing lessons & only danced a handful of times in the first 10 yrs...we havn't danced since then, yet we sit in seperate rms to watch tv etc...who said marriage wasn't romantic?
77 here 30 minutes a day for me piliates chair yoga dancing silver sneakers videos (Anthem Blue Cross California)... a recent car accident with injuries and time off to reset my life (I'm a legal professional with degenerative disc disease and arthritis in my knees sitting in front of computer for years). Building up my core and strengthening over-all body. Feeling fabulous ❤
As usual Susan you remind us to be grateful for every day and enjoy life at each step. You are beautiful inside and out and priceless in blessing us each Saturday. Have a wonderful week! Love from Missouri.
I’ll be 70 this year and have always wanted to learn to paint with watercolor. So I signed up to take two lessons every other week. So far…not to bad and it’s fun.
Well done you. The only thing I was ever really good at school was drawing and painting. But was always told that's not for the likes if us. I am nearly 60 and I started watercolor about 5 years ago. Within a couple of years I was selling my paintings. I couldn't believe it. I always thought that you would have to be perfect for someone to pay money for something you had made. But I realized people like what the like. I love painting. I hope you will find the joy for it that I have.
I have had a good reasons for not trusting doctors, too many have failed me miserably, including 6 who never diagnosed my low thyroid and by the time I found one who did, I was nearly dead. I had been telling them for 6 years that something was wrong and no one listened. But let me tell you a story that some would call sychronicity. Thirty years ago, I was going to get a divorce. Before that, when I was 44, I had a perfect year, everything flowed and I was following the Moody Blues music, just having discovered it all over and was going to their concerts with my girlfriends all the time. So, this one Tuesday afternoon (get it?) I had found out I needed $1700 for a lawyer and I didn't have it. I would have put it on my Discover card, but i hadn't gotten a new one for two years and didn't have a current one. So, driving home from the lawyer, it was that Tuesday and that song came on the radio. I was crying because I didn't know what to do about the money, but I was also singing along to my fave group. I got home just as the song ended, and went to the mailbox. What do you think was in that mailbox? A Discover card. Now, it ended up I didn't have to use it, but just knowing that I was being looked after that day by God and my guardian angels was a lesson. I know you understand.
I'm happy to say I know that feeling of being helped by unseen hands when you can't take any more. AND I share your love of the moody Blues, especially Tues Afternoon. Thanks for sharing! Joy
Great story! God is our protector and He will always be there for you. It finally registered with me about 2 years ago and I’m trying to make up for the years I wasn’t paying attention. I really wasted a lot of time worrying about things that He had already had planned for. I’ve been doing things for my family that they really appreciate and I feel so better about things now. I’m 72 and I think back on the Saturday night kisses and the cute clothes I wore and the fun nights dancing but they are now great memories:) I’m very thankful now for the smallest necessities 😊🙏♥️
I think Desi’s singing causes a ripple of smiles and laughter too across the entire country. Happy Birthday, Buster. I’m sure Desi is your best buddy… for sure he has the best singing voice and that’s saying lots when he’s hanging out with Beagle hounds… love your boy, Susan. Already looking forward to next week’s video.
❤Last year, I lost a dear friend. She didn't take care of a lump in her lung, for 3 years. That lump turned into bone cancer. She was gone in 10 months. The cancer spread to her arm and brain. It is a reminder to all of us, take care of our vessels. Much love to you, beautiful lady. Thank you.
I retired and moved to Nashville and let me tell you girl, it's the best decision I've ever made in my life ! I feel like I have reinvented myself. I've met so many new people and have made several good friends in my neighborhood. I feel happier now than I did as a kid, because I have time to go out and explore my new city, it is alive and growing with adventure. The precious little time I have left, I aim to enjoy it. I'm excited about waking up every day ! I never expected to retire, but after getting stuck in a rut at work, I handed in my resignation and out the door I went. As soon as we realize our Saturday nights are fleeting, we wake up and change our old ways, for new ways and make our golden years shine with joy ! It's later than we think, Live as much as you can, while you can. Love & Hugs Meme
How wonderful for you! I’m thinking of picking up to move to Tenn as well! Glad your experience has been a positive one. I get overwhelmed and a little scared just thinking about all I will have to do. I know I can do it….ONE step at a time. Congrats on your success!
Thank you for sharing this.. I've been waffling back and forth on retiring, l turn 62 this month and don't have any retirement, as l only worked part time status raising my 5 children.. do you mind sharing how old you are? I'm kind of in a rut with my job as well and while l love what l do, I'm tired of an absent boss that doesn't back her business or employees.
I spent last Friday in the hospital. Went to the hospital Thursday night at 11:30 pm, with chest pains. I am almost 77 years old. After ct scan and ultrasound of the heart, etc. Diagnosis indigestion. On the plus side, I know my heart is ok. Now I have lumbar scoliosis and bulging discs in my lower back, but not a lot of pain. Old age isn't for sissies.
No it isn’t for sissies. Or whiners! I have had a problem since early adulthood that makes me exhausted after a normal tasks. All my muscles ache. No doctor has diagnosed anything or seemed concerned. When I hear someone my age complain about having to slow down due to various aches and easier exhaustion, I am speechless. They seem to feel this change is terribly unfair. It would not do a bit of good for me to say, “ Welcome to my world”, but I sure do want to.😊
Yes I have that too and I’m 70 I have a bulging disc in my hip and then going to physical therapy. I hope yours gets better. I try to keep walking but everything hurts love from South Dakota.❤
COVID isolated us, and for me it resulted in putting off so many checkups. We have to take care of ourselves! It is empowering to make the list and cross those check-ups off as they're completed, hopefully with positive results. The best exercise routine is the one you love and do. Some days I like breaking it down into smaller bursts of movement. I love TLC foundation too, and the tap tap tapping stimulates circulation. Do find something new and fun to fill the gaps, change can be exciting. ❤️🌻🙏
That sounds like gallstones to me. I was told for years it was indigestion. Ended up in A and E with what I thought was heart attack to be told gallstones.
I feel the same. My daughter was my best friend. Now, she has moved on and away from me. I am lonely for her and pray she will find her way back to me soon.
I’m 70 and continue to wear 2 1/2 inch heels. I’ve been told I’m “ too old for them “ but my response is “ I can still wear them because I’ve not stopped wearing them. Stay strong❤️❤️❤️
Oh my goodness be careful. It just takes one misstep and your ankle will be broken. Bones don’t heal quickly at 70. I’ve sprained both ankles badly the past 5 years and they still haven’t completely healed. Heels for vanity are not worth the risk.
@@minoozolalaas long as not forcing you to wear them be happy for her. You could just as easily trip over something in bare feet and hit your head on something and bye bye 😊
I've been watching you for years - since I discovered my husband of decades was having multiple affairs. Since I packed up and sold what was left of our retirement (after he had given it all away to women or blackmailers) and at 64 moved across country with my dog to start a new life....at 64. Broke. Alone. But I did it. You helped. I'm 67 now. Living in a teeny apartment , which I adore (no more heavy cleaning!) by a lovely river. In a small city with ballet and symphonies. I'm starting my own dream business. I have built a Bank account so I'm not scared anymore. I have a wide circle of dear friends so I'm not alone. My grown-up grandchildren love to travel anywhere in the world with me ....I have a good life. You helped. You encouraged. I feel more "girly" than I have for a long time. This episode was your BEST!! Life at our age doesn't stop,.it becomes OUR OWN. Maybe for the first time. Don't waste a moment of it. You are right, it's a job - but I've taken other jobs, motherhood, wife, teaching; very seriously, I can take take this one just as seriously too.
@@sl4983 I drove. Just me and my dog in my used car, with a whatever I good pack in my trunk. I broke down in Iowa. I got asked out for my date by a Cowboy in Idaho. I survived
I had a stroke at age 50 but since then so many of my friends and relatives have passed. I'm still here for my family, and i can now walk unassisted after 8 years, I have learned a lot, including to be mindful to count my blessings...
I'm happy for you, you must have been serious about regaining mobility. Maybe if you think of living each day the way your loved ones would have enjoyed it. I know grief takes time, but I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
I turned 75 this year and found you! Been singing with a jazz band for the last 8 years, but started to "feel my age." My energy waning; my voice not so strong as before. So I made the hard choice to leave the professional arena and start sharing my music with assisted living homes and Hospice. "Have Guitar Will Travel." I never felt such joy from the applause of the crowd as I feel sitting with an 85 yr old widow trying to harmonize with me on a vintage Frank Sinatra ballad. You inspire me, too, Susan. Your purpose in life has much more to reveal. Thank you for sharing your revelations with all of us. ❤
It’s true! We all have so much abundance compared to many in the world! Be thankful EVERY DAY! It’s been three years since Bruce died and FINALLY I feel like the flower is opening and the sun is going out! I feel happy almost EVERY DAY! It’s astounding! I’ve turned the corner! I’m grateful for every day! I’ll be 70 in September.
Warm greetings to all the Widows. Three years and two months for me ( currently age 63.5😊)…… the sun is only now beginning to consistently shine . Don’t let anyone tell you how long deep grief “should” last…. It will take as long as it takes. But in the meantime, try to take gentle care of yourself and make thoughtful decisions as we would have when our husbands were with us. Force yourself to socialize in whatever way is comfortable for you. Much love from Canada to all of you! ❤ 🇨🇦
I just turned 70 🎉. It sounds weird saying that. Time has flown by. And to be honest, it’s not for wimps ! I agree with you to stay on top of all those tests !
Susan I so understand I am moving as I listen to u ... 👂... leaving a 22 year marriage..it's crazy😮 but I will be so much better with my daughter and Grandkids they love and respect me ..moving forward for peace ❤🎉😊 so thankful for you and Desi lol..❤😊
I turned 70 in October. It has been a ride, my new best friend is 82 and walks 3 miles almost everyday, weather permitting and looks SO YOUNG and vibrant, walk walk walk❤
Hi Susan, I'm turning 60 this yr. I wish I could say I had a rough wk, but it's actually been a rough yr. I let myself become afraid to leave the house for almost the entire yr, & literally stopped doing everything & gave up on myself even though I have 3 grown kids & have been married for 34 yrs..(the last 15 as roommates) & last wk, I felt so awful that I just stayed in bed, all wk. I had lost all motivation, but when I watched your video tonight, your words started to resonate with me so, tomorrow I plan to finally put on some music in the house again & start dancing like I did yrs ago. I'll probably only be able to dance to 2 songs, but It's a start..., & once I can get to 20 min or so I too will start making appts for all the tests I've also avoided. So thank you for the encouaging words you give as they really mean alot, you always sound so sincere & that you care about your viewers & I think I really needed to feel like someone cares...so again thank you. Wishing you & Desi a great week... ❤
go to a psychiatrist and get on meds, you will feel 100 times better and then once your better and, on your way, you can probably wean off the meds. Don't get them from your regular doctor they don't know enough about how these meds work you have to have constant contact with your doctor while on them in case something happens.
Aloha Susan #1. being grateful for everything every day. #2. Choosing joy every morning #3. Focusing on optimizing health, not weight. #4.Eating for life & exercising #5. Hope for what's yet to be.
My life has become nothing but medical appts. Stage 4 Cancer. I’m in year 13. I’ve learned from watching other patients that I won’t spend whatever time I have left doing tests, trials, appts etc. I’ve watched 2 women this year die, and much of their last months were sitting in Doctors rooms. I refuse to do that.
I totally understand your mindset. My career was in the medical field. Stage 3 cancer here. When my brain returned, I read the latest medical study (2021) which stated my odds of hitting 5 yr survival dropped from 13% to 8%… my oncologist is a straight-shooter.” I asked her if what I’d read was accurate. She confirmed it was. I just started year 3, headed for that coveted first 5 year mark… Some ladies in that study had to make that 8%, out of thousands. Why can’t it be me or you? God knows (or whatever you choose to call the higher power) what the future may bring?! Adding you, Sister, to my prayer 🙏🏻 list. ❤
I start each day reading the Bible. I keep God with me and have an ongoing dialogue with God, that really doesn't ever stop. I realized years ago, everything is not about me, that released a great deal of unnecessary emotional weight off my shoulders. Oft times, I realized my personal reactions to difficult situations of others...was becoming about me. My mantra for the past several years, "It is what it is." For me, that became a peaceful revelation for me. God's blessings to everyone this week. May it be a week of God's love and peace.
The best thing I've done is started having a relationship with the one & only true God the God of Abraham, Issac & Jacob. I am happier than I have ever been & I read the KJV Bible God is my everything my friend, doctor whatever I need He is what the doctor ordered. I am 68 & boy do I regret not having God in my life much earlier in my life! I totally made terrible mistakes & choices in my life & I know for a fact my life would have been much better in every way if I had had God in my life much earlier. I know that I am very blessed to be able to enjoy God being in my life! Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah! Hope you & Desi have a beautiful week!
First off I want to thank everyone who prayed for my son, he had his 3rd Open Heart Surgery on February 20th, at the University of Florida at Shands Heart and Vascular hospital. He was in ICU for 9 days, surgery was complex but by the grace of God he pulled through. I am so happy that this past year has been the best year for you. I am 73, I keep up with my health checkups now because of my heart, High Blood Pressure and if that’s not enough I have diabetes. I took my health for granted not anymore. So,proud of you Susan dancing is one of my favorites way of exercising. I used to have “thick” hair my beautician said the same thing as we age our hair thins, dry and brittle. I use Moroccan oil, and a shampoo that has Keratin and my hair shines and it’s so soft. Have a blessed week❤
I will be 73 and last year was hit by a utility truck. I had great plans but it ended up in physical therapy, pills and so weak. But this year I believe God will give me a blessing of health. God bless you, Desi and everyone on this channel. ❤️✝️🙏🙌
Thank you, Desi! Your birthday song is divine! I love listening to you! I just finished 9 months of orthodontist work on my teeth. (Thank You, Lord, I still have my own!). I had such ugly crooked teeth when I was young. I have worn braces twice as an adult. And now Invisalign to get my teeth back into alignment and so my jaw doesn’t hurt. I decided at 69 years old, I wanted my teeth to be straight and not look like I did as an embarrassed young person. I worked out a payment plan and I finished the process this week. I am so glad I did it!!
I’m sorry about you missing your Grandfather. Sometimes anniversaries just hit us harder for some reason. You were only 9 years old when he passed but he certainly left a wonderful impression on you that has lasted all these years. “Don’t cry because he’s gone. Rather smile because he was here and was important in your life.” The older I get, the more I think of days gone by and those I’ve lost over the years. I want to believe we will all be reunited someday in heaven.❤️❤️
Desi makes me smile when he sings with you. 😊❤ Susan, you don’t look like you are 69 you look much younger. Hope you have a great week. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤
This past summer I had an physical therapist come and teach me how to make my balance stronger...ankles..standing on one foot without wobble...strengthen my back muscles and arms...squats (all the way to the floor ...squat on an incline (little scary at first) and pickup something...then squat on the decline...walk moving arms up and down over head and then a ball up and down and to the side (that builds up endurance and it's not easy)...doing stairs (up to 400 and I'm working toward 1000) that is a long range goal) I was healthy...but I absolutely didn't want my age to define...so I did something about 75 yrs old ...lived...traveled..married...widow...child and many other accomplishments...that and anything else I do ...is what defines me I hope all of us realize our worth and how strong our will is
You sound amazing! If only I had let myself live...after I gave up working to have my kids, all I was known as was a stay at home mom who didn't & still doesn't know how to drive...I didnt want my kids to become afraid like me so as each of them turned 16, driving lessons thru school was expected..they all have their own full lives now...its just me who still lives in the past. Wishing you many more yrs of a full life!
@@Cats3. if you are alive...and you are.. it's never too late Take driving lessons...and then you can put yourself out in the world...live. .you'll surprise yourself Also a mom is the ultimate experience....you had to parent...love them...be there to pick up their pieces...make sure they had driving lessons...taught them to get out in the world and be strong You have experienced life...now you are telling yourself there is more and you go for it....if you survived motherhood..you can do anything If I can do it so can you.. You are not defined by your age...children....you are worth to be happy and own person Take that first step 🚶♀️ 🤎
I’m 76 years old , I don’t think I will stop until I can’t anymore. I’m still working, have to because I can’t make it on SSS. My husband decided he didn’t want to be with me anymore. Was 72 and I am living alone for the first time in my life. We lived together for 23 years. We have been married for 27 years,still married. I am a Security Officer on weekends. I think I’m pretty happy . I’m not really sure . Life is full of surprises.
I understand what you’re saying. A year ago in Feb I fell and broke my knee cap in 3 places. Then I developed an umbilical hernia. I’m all prepped and ready to go to surgery. The anesthesiologist came in and said she was cancelling the surgery. My EKG was abnormal. Was sent to cardiologist and discovered a heart issue. But also my blood pressure was way too high. So. Add some more medications. 🙄 now waiting for cardiac clearance for the umbilical hernia. If the anesthesiologist hadn’t cancelled the surgery I would’ve never found out about these other issues. It was a blessing in disguise. It’s hard work this getting older stuff…I’m 65. My love to sweet Desi and prayers for you both. 💕
Susan, You touched my heart. This week I had an abnormal mammogram. I am 56 years old. I have to go in for more investigation. I have been through this three times. I put it off through Covid (mammogram). Then my dad had Dementia for two years and passed in September. I finally decided to stop putting myself on the back burner. Please pray for me. My daughter just had our first born on Grandson he is beautiful. I have been a subscriber for a long time. I know you love Cheri Blume and Ricky Nelson like I do :) Thank you for speaking out for ladies to go take care of themselves. You are beautiful inside and out! Thank you Susan! Hugs xoxo Becki
I'm 49..physically disabled and have adapted to a beautiful life. My fiance has cancer, hospice met with us last week but we are laughing and grateful for what we have had x
Dear Susan, dance like no one’s watching, and then dance again. You bring hope and sunshine into our days as we share together. You’re much loved for exactly who you are, God’s one-of-a-kind creation. 💖
Brilliant photography Susan….so calming. Yes turning 70 is no fun….72 in July, but we must try, try, try all the time. If not we’ll go down hill for sure. Try with the weight, try with the clothes, try with makeup and try to just keep moving. It’s not easy for some, but what’s the alternative….we’ll stagnate and nobody wants that. I have rheumatoid and osteoarthritis and things can be difficult, but on the days I can then I do. God bless to you and Desi….he’s getting better and better with his singing…..everybody adores him. 🌸
I hear you about car troubles. But mine is a transmission on a 2007 Mustang... I'm looking at 3 to 5 thousand!!!!!!!!!! I love my car and its gorgeous. Also its cheaper than buying a new car at 73! But the bright side is I am getting a tax refund that will cover probably 80%. Now thats a blessing! I know I go against everything I'm supposed to do... but my mother and my spouse both died of cancer at age 59. They did all the right things, went to the doctor regularly, but they are gone. At 59 I stopped going to the doctor except for one complete metabolic panel a year , I will be 74 this year and I am still here. My doctor says I don't know what you're doing,, but everything looks great, so keep doing it. I worked in the medical profession for 44 years before retiring.I say if I feel this good.., don't look for trouble!!! Also about missing being a girl... its not just women. I remember when my Dad, who passed at 95, seeing himself in a picture when he was 89 saying ... who the hell is that old guy? haha Inside we still feel like the girls and guys of our youth. But now the outside no longer matches who we still are inside. Such is life!
After years of not wanting children, my daughter decided to try for a baby. When I had a baby my mom and dad had already passed so I did it alone. I am looking forward to being there for my beautiful daughter and my grandchild.
I didn't have help from my parents either. I made a decision I would be there for my children. I now have 6 grandchildren with another on the way. It's my ministry. I have embraced it wholeheartedly ❤
I am 71 and have always been the family photographer and after my remaining parent my mom passed in 2017 attempts age 97 I with the encouragement of my older brother started doing nature photography and taking pictures of the beautiful landscape and landmarks all around me. I have enjoyed it so much !! My vehicle 🚙 is now sitting in my parking spot in need of repair so I can get out and get back to my photography !! I enjoy your channel so much ❤. Thank you for keeping me company as I have no children or grandchildren and have been feeling a little lonely. God Bless You ❤❤❤
I'll be 69 in May. I've noticed that I was slowing down, having trouble with stairs, and nervous when walking my dog, I was afraid I couldn't control him. I splurged on a treadmill, something I've been wanting for years. I do it 30 minutes a day, and I can't believe how much it's helped! My mobility is much better, I'm physically stronger and more confident. I live in Chicago and I broke my leg a few years ago on an icy sidewalk. With the treadmill I can walk all year round without fear of slipping on ice and breaking my leg again. Plus, regular exercise helps with depression. I'm so much happier now, and all it takes is 30 minutes a day.
I’m 79 and a yearly mammogram saved my life. There was a change in one year and thankfully a lumpectomy and radiation was sufficient. My brother died of colon cancer and I had surgery four years ago on a malignancy on my colon and 1/3 of my colon was removed. I go to Silver Sneakers three mornings per week for one hour. I go to get cardio exercise, maintain stability and strength. I like your hair blonde and the style is flattering.
@kathybriscoe1474, It is so wonderful that you had your mammogram in time!. I am 78 and was told by my doctor a few years ago that I didn't need to have mammograms if I didn't want to. Do you mind me asking if there is a history of breast cancer in your family? I have never had a negative exam, and there was no family history, but now I am wondering if I should still have a yearly exam.
I’m 70 and was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer last year. Fortunately, it was caught early. I had two lumpectomies and radiation. Now on a hormone blocker for 5-10 years with only a 2% chance of recurrence. Grateful for my annual mastectomies and great medical care in my area (DC metro).
I love Saturday nights because of your sweet, heartfelt videos! My days of "stealing Saturday night kisses" are pretty much behind me, but your vids allow me to drift off in *joy*. I feel a sense of friendship & community here. THANK YOU, Susan & Desi!!! You're both rock stars now, getting noticed in the voting line and Desi's vocal spotlights! 🤩 ⭐ 🎤🐶
I will be 76 on the 6 of March and I miss wearing heels but that really is not important after the week that I have gone through with my best friend. On Tuesday she got a call to come out of state that her younger sister was taking to the hospital in bad shape. Bye the time my friend got there her sister was on life support. On Thursday she passed away. On Friday as they were planing her funeral they got a call that her nephew was taken to shock trauma after a fall. He is now on life support. I was complaining because of gallstones problems and stoped and realized here was a young lady who had died and here is a young man on life support. I can say I might not feel great but I am blessed. .
Susan I had to stop the video to tell you that I live in a small rural town in NC and I had the opposite happen when I went to vote. I was the only one voting and I went to the ladies room first when suddenly the main door flew open and this big gruff woman yelled “can’t you read the sign ! No public restrooms!” She would not close the door and kept yelling until I just washed my hands and left-leaving my phone and having to drive 39 miles back…. humiliating. It has never been warm and friendly here but I just left without voting! Be thankful for all the love and friendliness-helps you live longer!
So sorry you had to go through that and also that you did not get to vote. More and more folks have been talking about how cruel and judgmental we have become as a society. Our nation needs God.
I definitely agree! It’s been my faith that’s kept me living here. I will spend sometime with the Lord, get dressed up, and put a big smile on and vote on the 5th. I’ve always thought that light can overcome darkness!
When I was in my 30s and 40s, I collected photos of women in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. It's as if I was preparing myself somehow. I'm almost 67 now and still admire women who are older than I am and seem to have the life together. These are my role models.
How wonderful to have met such new acquantaces in your new town. To be close to your son's resturant and your family, what a dream. You made it happen by saving money for your little house and planning a move. I am so happy you had the courage to make the move. You and your gangsta Dezi deserve the very best. I so enjoy your youtube videos of your new little home and your neighborhood, even though I do not know where you live. Many blessings to you, your children and grandchildren.
You are so pretty and you don't look like the typical 69 year old!!! I appreciate how you lay truth out in the open about missing what we had when we were younger. Honesty. Thank You for sharing this and your honesty. I really enjoy your editing. The music is always right on. Continued blessings!
7 years ago at the age of 66 & the second day after my son’s wedding I fell & broke my elbow, up to this day I was very active woman working & traveling I stopped working & it took 6 month for the elbow to heal but my arm never returned the same I had constant pain & very swollen elbow, the orthopedic said to my husband that the pain is all in my head to grab his attention I kept going from one orthopedic to another then visited at least 4 neurologists in my state & no one could figure what is wrong with me then I went to a neurologist in another state & after 3 hours test he said I needed muscle biopsy & DNA test the conclusion I was diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy my friends thought I was a very unlucky woman actually it was a blessing in disguise what if I had decided to go for botox like all my friends do !!!! It would paralyze my face . I retired adopted a cutie small doggie & I love it , my son’s gift to me when I turned 70 a gorgeous baby girl my first & only granddaughter . I thank God everyday for his blessings.
Yes be very proud of yourself. How terribly insulting to be told your pain is not real! I can remember relaying my symptoms & FEMALE doctor saying But you look just fine!!! It was a two year journey to be finally diagnosed with TMJ. It wasn’t terminal but the pain relief was life-saving.
Exercise is so important! I teach yoga and Pilates and do UA-cam dance videos, too! I just started back up with ballet classes. It’s important to keep moving! I’ll be 70 in a few months.
Dying laughing at the "I liked my hair better that way too!" LOL. the things people say. SO good that you can laugh at those silly/insensitive comments.
I absolutely love your attitude, Susan! At 74, I also, no longer have time to wallow. This day won’t come again. I have one chance to make it a good one. ❤️❤️❤️
I have a collection of very high heels my favorites are strappy champagne colored satin with rhinestones - I also have them in navy. I have never worn them outside of my house. I also have very heavy beaded gowns, same...but I love them and I will always buy them. Like you buying vases...I buy very high heels I can’t walk in and gowns that have never seen a ball. Just my house and it keeps me happy 🤗
Hi Susan. I’ve found that staying away from the medical system has made me healthier. Acupuncture, meditation, vitamins, herbal supplements, exercise, yoga, Pilates and many other more holistic practices have strengthened my immune system and cleared out toxins from medications. I’m not condoning boycotting doctor visits, but the medical and pharmaceutical industry is very big business and I am very discerning with my health. I just love your videos and wanted to share another perspective. You look just lovely and healthy. I just bought Miracle Balm as well and I’m pretty impressed! 😊
I agree with you. Everytime I've had a mammogram, I'm asked to come back immediately or in 6 mos. because there's something suspicious, or else they claim I need a breast biopsy! Even scaring me to death with their "Birads 4 !!!" mammo classification. I've never had cancer or any breast cancer symptoms, and I'm 72. I've had many unnecessary biopsies (and titanium markers put in to mark the biopsy spot). Like Susan, sometimes I skip a couple or several years with the mammograms, because I know I'll never be told my mammo is fine, even though they really ARE! But the good news for me is that the American College of Radiology Association states there is no evidence that having mammograms after age 74 lengthens lives. It's even posted in the mammogram waiting room. So, I'm almost there, age-wise! (Of course, if I ever get a symptom, I'll go for a mammo, even after age 74.)
@@commonsense6967 I had a mammogram, and it was benign and the procedure to have the inserted titanium nearly killed me. I am in no rush to go back in no rush to have yet another biopsy. Having gone through a year of hell not just that but I had a PET scan and various CT scans with contrast you name it, I have had it. Susan, I love you and I love Desi and God gave you the perfect dog because he knew he was a singing dog. much love and hugs. Ana.
@@onerose3614contrast dyes are heavy metals..damage your body. MRI contrast dye Gadolinium ruined my health and many others. MRI Gadolinium Toxicity Support Group Online.
I am of the same mind . I am 69 and have stayed out of the medical system as much as possible. My mother just turned 88 so I am blessed but have lost many friends that didn't live long enough to collect their hard earned social security. They followed doctor's orders. Eating healthy, supplements and exercise are the keys to good health. And Susan's approach to life itself is part of that...finding the joy, loving friends and a good dog are what feeds our soul.
Years ago, you made a comment on your channel that the way mature women applied makeup made them look harsher and older. This was a time when influencers were singing the praises of full coverage foundation and often applied a shade darker and warmer than their natural coloring. You were so right about heavy makeup aging us. Luckily, times have changed, and good skincare under a very light touch of serum foundation can give us a touch of youth. Thank you Susan, for setting me on this trail all those years ago. I watch a chanel, French for a Day, and she uses a light hand for all her products.
You are such a treasure. Thank you for sharing; you make my Saturday so much happier. The thing (s) I have started doing better, now, is taking care of me, guilt free. A recovering people pleaser.
Loved this video Susan. As a 5 year breast cancer survivor, I am overjoyed I get to go for a mammogram and hear the words, all good. Your suggestions were fantastic. I put an effort into looking my best every day, makes me feel better about myself. Desi singing at the end is adorable 🥰
Got to go take care of my 83 year old sister out of town this week , Asher husband was being hospitalized with a stroke . Gave me a lot to think about concerning what really matters in life . Hold those you love close this week , laugh and cry together , you’re creating cherished memories that last forever .❤️🎶🎶🎶
Hi Susan, I just wanted to share and I know that not everyone can do this for various reasons, but when I turned 60 I stopped coloring my hair. It took 3 years to grow out but the the thickness doubled and all of these new baby hairs started growing in. It is so beautiful now that I have never regretted the journey. The gray really seems to compliment my skin. Hugs! I enjoy your channel! ❤❤❤
I swore I’d never go gray. I have very thick and loose curly hair. I lost most of my hair when I got pneumonia. I used a concoction of essential oils and my hair came back with a vengeance ( that’s the words my hairdresser used!) It’s such a pretty , natural white platinum in the front and I wear it in long layers. I never thought I’d say these words. Wash, conditioner, put on a small amount of leave in conditioner and a product for curls. Don’t touch until fully air dried and then pick out the curls, I flat ironed and dyed my hair for about 17 years-now I just enjoy my natural God given hair. Never used hair spray. A masque once a week is important.😊🤗
I am 66, married with 2 grown children and 3 bonus children, 14 grandchildren and another on the way. After surviving cancer twice, i read the Purpose Driven Life. I retired as a paralegal at age 61, got a hip replacement, and found my true purpose... to inspire and encourage young women to find balance with their work, home, and spiritual life. I am leading a growth group at my church with 3 young women. I love it!
Bonjour Susan, I so look forward every week to watching you and listening to you and see your cute little Desi. I just turned 75 years old two weeks ago, 3/4 of a century… that’s quite something that this body has supported me all these years and for that I’m very grateful. I totally relate to feeling like I am not the same as I was years ago. Like your neighbor said wearing the high heels and the low-cut dresses are not for us anymore. Men my age, don’t look at me, they want women younger, and that saddens me not to be desired so much anymore. I had sort of a rough week also. I understand about car situations. I have to work, it is what it is, and when I came home the other day, I looked at my front tire and saw that it was really bald and the metal was showing on it, so the next morning I had to go out and buy another tire. You’re absolutely right about what you said about The small cost you had to pay but it saved your life. With all the rain that we’ve had here in Georgia I could’ve slipped off the road as well and I’m grateful that I was able to get that taken care of and be done with it. I find it difficult that as we age, we should be blessed with more, but in fact, we get charged more for everything. My car and health insurance were raised, my rent was raised and so is my Internet. It’s hard to understand this world anymore, I’m not being negative but it is a fact. I wish you a wonderful upcoming week and I very much look forward to hearing from you next week. With much appreciation, MarieClaude
Sorry about your rough week; shared mine too… often I spend more time reading everyone’s comments than I do watching Susan’s video! It’s Sunday morning tho so a bit more time! Next week, tomorrow, it will be better! 😁 If I type it enough, can it because truth?! 👍See you next Saturday night, as we gather ‘round Susan’s fireplace! 🎶
I have my 32 year old daughter having her ovary removed this Tuesday and I've been doing all I can to keep her distracted. Its aome form of cancer but the doctor is going to do the biopsy in the OR and tell us then. Ive been telling her she can still have children with one ovary and praying ferociously that she will not lose both ovaries for any reason. For anyone reading this, please send healing thoughts or prayers to Katie. Thank you.
Hi Susan and Desi! So what has helped my skin is water and walking. I've changed my diet too! I walk about a mile and half 5 times a week or more and sometimes 2 miles. I've reduced my calories gradually, so my body could get used to the deficit easier. Which I have adjusted to just fine. My skin and hair are better for it and my waistline has come down 3-4". My dress size used to be a 1X I'm now a XL to a Large. Most of my tops are a med/large and I have big boobies LOL! Changing my diet and exercising has helped my appearance so much. I'm 65 and a woman thought I was in my 50's, lol I'll take it!!! Make up can only help so much but taking better care of our insides first, will help improve the outside too! Hugs and have a blessed week!
Susan, I am 80 and my word means a lot to many people. You look like you are in your 40s. You are awsome. I don't know anyone your age as young looking as you are. You are blessed.
Hi Susan. As always, I look forward to each Saturday night to see your video for the week. You gave a lot of good tips and positive ways to live our lives to make the best life for our later years. I really enjoy seeing you and cute, sweet Desi. Love to you both ❤️
That’s how I feel about you, dear Susan! When I have anxiety, I will watch a video of yours. I revisit favorite ❤️ ones and I calm down and perk up. I am grateful for you and your videos! Much thanks and gratitude. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear about your friend and the end of her marriage after 39 years-that’s so sad. Give her a big hug from me❤ Desi always makes my day when I get to see him on camera-he’s so adorable!! I had a dachshund, Briley, who passed away February 10th and my husband and I are grieving so hard for her-she definitely made paw prints on our hearts and our home is just not the same, so thank you for showing Desi❤! You are gorgeous Susan. How does anyone feel it’s okay to say rude things is beyond me. I was taught if you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all! Anyways-let’s not give them any power or time! I love your zest for life. You are a wonderful inspiration to all of us more mature women😘. I am turning 65 in June and my retirement will be April of 2026-boy I cannot wait either. I might stay PRN at my job (as needed) just to keep my foot in the door just in case, lol. Thanks again for another video-you rock! Have a wonderful week Susan and Desi❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
I just love your channel ❤️… at 63… I don’t feel this big age. It’s just me & my pets…. I have no family. My friends are my family 🥰 . I’m grateful for each day… making a little garden… buy myself some flowers… 🌷🌷🌷grow some… but I appreciate everything. I’d like to move to a small town, make friends, have a community that truly watched out for each other… Things are crazy in this country now. I just want the old days when people were respectful and sane….. I just want Mayberry 🤣🤣🤣 But I do appreciate life and having a roof over my head. Much love from Tampa Florida 🌴
I’m 54 and finally got my colonoscopy and I’m so relieved. Now I’m good for ten years. I got my overdue mammogram and physical. All the appointments made for a busy winter! I changed jobs and cut out all the stress and finally was able to make time to do all the screenings I needed.
When you talked about multiple dr appts. and tests it reminded me of an older gentleman in my church who was having medical issues. He said, “I just had my mail forwarded to my Dr.’s office because I’m there all the time anyway!” I loved his wit and wisdom which was with him to his last day!❤ I loved tonight’s video, lots to think about for sure!
When I turned 64 I signed up for local adult education art classes. I go every Friday morning and I love it. It cost me so much 'cause they are in Spanish but I understand and everyone is roughly my age, lovely group of friendly helpful pepole. It really boosted my confidence and gets me out of the house. I nearly lost my husband a few years ago. He was one of the survivors from intensive care during that terrible time when so many lost their lives. He was in a comma for over a month and we thought he was going to die. I prayed so hard during that time and God listened and sent him home to us. I don't complain anymore I am grateful and live life to the best every day that I can. Love your channel you have no idea how much you have helped me.❤
Oh thank you so much for being here! You sound so lovely...I am so glad your husband pulled through. That was such a terrible time...love to you and yours, Susan & Desi
I heard this poem today. It's a beautiful poem, and I just wanted to pass it along. We all need this at some point in our life..Maybe not today, but one day. I don't know the title, and there's more to it, but this is the part that I heard being recited. Hope you like it. I asked for strength and GOD gave me difficulties to make me strong. I asked for wisdom and GOD gave me problems to solve. I asked for courage and GOD gave me dangers to overcome. I asked for love and GOD gave me troubled people to help. My Prayers were answered. I
You look beautiful and far younger than your age! You have a very fun and youthful spirit, but also the wisdom and calm that comes with your chronological age. I think you deserve to ignore those age lists, and do whatever you darn well please! 💗
Oh wow. I just made appointments for every health thing in my life. Keep crossing them off my list. Whew. I need to go thrifting! But anyway, I am enjoying getting older and wiser and being a fun grandma. So important to me. I laugh my head off every time you and Desi sing!😅
I have a full room of exercise equipment because every time I saw something that I thought would benefit me I bought - within reason and what do I do and love the best.......walking Doesn't cost a thing and gives me happiness, health, fresh air, a tighter body (as tight as you can get at 67) great skin and a great sleep. Also joined a walking group in my area that is there if I feel like some company. I have also started strength training hoping I can get my arms looking better. Yep Exercise is the ticket and walking is the best!!!!
I have been doing reformer Pilates since July. My core has gotten stronger, my hips and shoulders don’t ache anymore. I go 4 times a week and love it. Most of the women there are in their 50’s 60’s and 70’s. With a couple younger and older.
We are finally moving next week. Leaving this terrible place, moving to what seems like a new life. The apartment is beautiful, pretty color paints just waiting for our additions making it ours. Its small only 695 sf. But a good kitchen and sunny. Im inspired by your designs. Im determined to make it our little boho palace. Love and blessings 💞
Dear Susan, your message and its delivery is absolutely on point. It transcends all ages. As woman we go through significant changes all throughout our lives: changes from puberty to child bearing to menopause, changes from being a teenager, to adulthood, motherhood, to the empty nest. We are warriors. You are correct, health is everything, not just as we age, but all throughout our precious lives. Thank you!
Great video,you just may be saving someone’s life by encouraging them to have tests done. I love all your beauty hints and have tried some. You look like your in your 50’s not 60’s. One thing l’ve done l think that has enriched my life is to just slow down. When my husband was alive and we had five kids l was always running here and there. Not getting much sleep, Now l sleep in if l want, l stay up when l want and eat when l want.l feel so much calmer and happier.
I absolutely love your channel. I feel like I'm chatting with an old friend. I am 63 years old, and I love walking while listening to good music. I lost half my hair 6 years ago. Now, I wear cute wigs and headbands. Life goes on. I got a mammogram last month. For the 1st time in 23 years, I got a call saying they want to do additional screening on my left breast. I'm a little nervous even though I heard this is common. Prayers, please. Strength in numbers!!!!
I'm struggling with Morton's neuroma on my right foot, But I'm just going to keep wearing pretty clothes and makeup and perfume with big ol wide toe box shoes. I'm just gonna smile so bright that peoples eyes will just stay on my face.
Oh you make me cry! You are my hero tonight!
Oh your comment touched my heart! You are one in a million!
You go girl, we'll be following your lead!!!
This is amazing keep doing this things that keep your life full.
Your comment is a real gift to me tonight. I am so sorry for your suffering. So blessed by your transcendent way of living.
I started spending more time with God, the Bible, prayer... just talking to God through the day and THANKING Him for everything.
Me too, Bet❤
Me too…and the Lord keeps us young at heart…♥️…
Me too and opportunities keep falling in my lap to serve Him.
This is so beautiful ❤ I have found that taking to God and doing bible study helps me feel more peace and happier. Grateful for everything.
@@adesign3755I am so encouraged with all the precious women on this site who love the Lord and have found His Word relevant to living a joyful life! I’m not saying I’m perfect…neither is life, but I feel His presence and He has given me great peace! I’m so very thankful ❤️
I am 71 years old and I love my life. I volunteer two days a week. One day at the VA Hospital and one day on a Hospice unit. I'm a nature photographer and just discovering still life photography. I have physical limitation but don't let that stop me. Life is too short and I think you are the perfect ambassador to keep us aware of how sweet and precious life is. You are a blessing to all of us!
What a beautiful comment....I agree.
I'm happy for you that's wonderful. I also have a love for photography as well. It's a beautiful hobby. Enjoy!!!
Thank you for volunteering. To volunteer at a hospice does take a lot! Be well!
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I work with wonderful people and we take care of each other. It's very special.
I’m a retired nurse from the VA of 35 years. I’ve lost two husbands my high school sweetheart at 20 and my soulmate at 59. A year later, our Puggle Lizzie passed away. I think I’ve had enough grief, and been on that journey too many times. Lost my father to leukemia two years ago. So at 65, I got two tattoos, I’m living the life I choose, I’ve stopped people pleasing, And I pray every day to God, and thank him for the life that he has given me!
You are a true warrior! I’m sorry for your losses 💔
The yr I was turning 50 my dister & I both found out we had cancer, hers was terminal & I was given stongest treatment for mine. Our dad passed away before we fou d out we had cancer but then my mom was showing signs of dementia so we both agreed we wouldnt let her know of our illness..there were so many times I wanted to tell my mom as I needed her..she passed away not knowing about us. Then my brother passed away afew months ago. I never fully recovered from my cancer as it left me with old health issues became worse & as a gift I then had new issues that 9 yrs on & Im no better...I gave up on evrn trying a yr ago & am now paying the price...if only I had accepted the medical & mental health care etc I was offered...Now I font think I can ever get close to how I was before getting ill, but even 5% would be nice right now...
Wishing you the best.❤
You did the right thing not telling your mom❤
Amen you and I could exchange war story,it sounds like;!! Life!!!! 😢star strong soul sister 💘💘💌💌💘💌💘💘
Dear Debbie, like you I've lost my parents,sister and husband. Lost many wonderful pets which I adore. My little dog is on heart medication.
Every morning I wake up and I am greeted by my senior cats ,14 and 19 and my little dog. I am so happy to have my fur babies.
I am thankful for each day and wonderful friends . A loving male companion who cares for me.
Like you I am pleasing myself and its wonderful.
Keep smiling Debbie.
I'm 70 now and the best part of being this age is I don't have to have anyone in my life who isn't kind, loving, or respectful to me. ❤
Amen 💖😊
Aww that's wonderful
That’s the secret to a calm happy life. It’s called boundaries 😊
We don't need to wait until we're 70 to live that way 😊 Some of my husband's family was very toxic.. and l wrote them off in my 30s, and I've never looked back. Life is too short to let anyone ruin it in anyway 💗
One thing I’ve enjoyed as an older woman is having the luxury to sit and savor a morning sunrise, or a steamy cup of coffee without being rushed. I loved all of the seasons of my life … the student, working mother … but now I have time to just sit back, reflect on my blessings with gratitude, and enjoy this season. God is good to allow me this.
You have understood the assignment and gotten a top grade! Enjoy--well done.
Agree - one of the things I am most thankful for at this age of 71 is not having to rush in whatever I am doing!!
Peace and tranquility on my schedule reminds me often of how truly lucky I am at 69 to be able to enjoy them as God allows.
My grandmother lived to 105 by being happy, smiling everyday, and simply living her life without worries. She used to say, "Doctors will look at your age and think that there must be something wrong and will test and test until they 'find' something that may, or may not exist."
Wise grandmother
Personally, I feel we were brainwashed to think we need to do all that doctoring. I doctor when I feel the need. I eat healthy, I exercise and I know my body. If I feel something isn’t right, I seek the help of a doctor. I’m much happier not obsessing over Medicine.
I’m 73, no meds, some supplement, grounded in Faith and so much happier. Love your channel...
Amen
Double Amen!!!
My mom is like this, she went through breast cancer at 76. The whole 9 yards. She said she wasn’t once afraid, but saw fear in everyone’s face that was there. She did what she had to do and went on with life. She stopped the mammogram at 85 and is now 91. She said “ I love the Lord and that’s all the matters - I don’t care about giving all of it thought anymore” - I hope to live as long as her.
@@ChristyAndre62 So happy you shared this I had my DMX close to 2 and a half years ago at age 70. It is so comforting to hear people have so many years left after a breast cancer diagnosis.🥰
I agree it’s about making an informed choice. Some people are not accepting of those of us who decline all screening tests. I promote screening tests. It’s about choice please be understanding of those that decline. I support those who choose to screen.
It was a good week that ended with sheer mental exhaustion. I am 71 years of age, and decided January 3 this would be the year I would buy a house. I signed the paperwork February 27 and became a homeowner. I have been single for 19 years and yet at this age, I feel more powerful, resilient, healed, and blessed than I ever have in my entire life. All the folks who say do this or don't do that at a certain age may have good intentions, however, to live life is to feel pain and joy no matter what age a person may be.
I look forward to Saturday evening with Little Poet. I wish you the best. You are a young woman of 69 doing well. You inspire women to continue to progress in their lives of any age. ❤
Congratulations on your new Home! 🏡💕
Congratulations! Wishing you a fantastic new chapter in your life. Prayers and Blessings
Wishing you all the best in your new home...congratulations ❤
That's fantastic. Congratulations 🎊
What a great beginning to the New Year! Congratulations and have fun making a lovely home for yourself 🎉
That singing Desi-dog gets me laughing every time!😂❤
Isn’t he adorable?🐶
YES!
Me too!!! ❤❤❤
I had dog like Desi too she was from the pound best little dog I had her for 13 years even though she was really my hubby's dog. lol
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What has really enriched my health and my life, now that I am retired, is reading the Bible every single day. Listening to God‘s word, knowing His truth, and having faith and hope based on His love for me, has made my life much more enriched, and hopeful. Also, preparing to take care of my baby grandson to be, is something that I’m looking forward to as well. God is good!
I could use lots of prayers for my Granddaughter. She's 30 and had a metal knee put in on the 29th. She is in so much pain. Please ladies prayers for this baby girl.Thank you all!❤
Her name is Haley Renee.
I pray for Haley Renee 🙏 for a complete healing and freedom from pain. Thank you God , Amen 🙏
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Something that has transformed my life is dancing. I started taking ballroom dance lessons three years ago and it has brought so much joy to my life.
I wanted to take ballroom lesson when my fiancée & I were planning our wedding but he felt uncomfortable so I signed out a record that played instructions on the basic steps ..it even had cut outs of feet & told you where to place them on the floor..lol 34 yrs later, we never did take dancing lessons & only danced a handful of times in the first 10 yrs...we havn't danced since then, yet we sit in seperate rms to watch tv etc...who said marriage wasn't romantic?
That’s funny I started walking and exercising more, and I’m 78. It makes me feel great. 👍 😊
77 here 30 minutes a day for me piliates chair yoga dancing silver sneakers videos (Anthem Blue Cross California)... a recent car accident with injuries and time off to reset my life (I'm a legal professional with degenerative disc disease and arthritis in my knees sitting in front of computer for years). Building up my core and strengthening over-all body. Feeling fabulous ❤
I began strength training six weeks ago for my osteoporosis. I show up and do the work. I don’t love. I am walking better and standing taller.
As usual Susan you remind us to be grateful for every day and enjoy life at each step. You are beautiful inside and out and priceless in blessing us each Saturday. Have a wonderful week! Love from Missouri.
@@eliwilliamson7849😂😂😂 yep I bet you don’t love but if it works great ❤
I’ll be 70 this year and have always wanted to learn to paint with watercolor. So I signed up to take two lessons every other week. So far…not to bad and it’s fun.
Bravo🎉
Well done you. The only thing I was ever really good at school was drawing and painting. But was always told that's not for the likes if us. I am nearly 60 and I started watercolor about 5 years ago. Within a couple of years I was selling my paintings. I couldn't believe it. I always thought that you would have to be perfect for someone to pay money for something you had made. But I realized people like what the like. I love painting. I hope you will find the joy for it that I have.
I have had a good reasons for not trusting doctors, too many have failed me miserably, including 6 who never diagnosed my low thyroid and by the time I found one who did, I was nearly dead. I had been telling them for 6 years that something was wrong and no one listened. But let me tell you a story that some would call sychronicity. Thirty years ago, I was going to get a divorce. Before that, when I was 44, I had a perfect year, everything flowed and I was following the Moody Blues music, just having discovered it all over and was going to their concerts with my girlfriends all the time. So, this one Tuesday afternoon (get it?) I had found out I needed $1700 for a lawyer and I didn't have it. I would have put it on my Discover card, but i hadn't gotten a new one for two years and didn't have a current one. So, driving home from the lawyer, it was that Tuesday and that song came on the radio. I was crying because I didn't know what to do about the money, but I was also singing along to my fave group. I got home just as the song ended, and went to the mailbox. What do you think was in that mailbox? A Discover card. Now, it ended up I didn't have to use it, but just knowing that I was being looked after that day by God and my guardian angels was a lesson. I know you understand.
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Isn’t that an amazing feeling, knowing that God sometimes makes our journey easier, out of his great love for us. He gives us hope.
I’d call that Divine Intervention.
I'm happy to say I know that feeling of being helped by unseen hands when you can't take any more. AND I share your love of the moody Blues, especially Tues Afternoon. Thanks for sharing! Joy
Great story! God is our protector and He will always be there for you. It finally registered with me about 2 years ago and I’m trying to make up for the years I wasn’t paying attention. I really wasted a lot of time worrying about things that He had already had planned for. I’ve been doing things for my family that they really appreciate and I feel so better about things now. I’m 72 and I think back on the Saturday night kisses and the cute clothes I wore and the fun nights dancing but they are now great memories:) I’m very thankful now for the smallest necessities 😊🙏♥️
I think Desi’s singing causes a ripple of smiles and laughter too across the entire country. Happy Birthday, Buster. I’m sure Desi is your best buddy… for sure he has the best singing voice and that’s saying lots when he’s hanging out with Beagle hounds… love your boy, Susan. Already looking forward to next week’s video.
❤Last year, I lost a dear friend. She didn't take care of a lump in her lung, for 3 years. That lump turned into bone cancer. She was gone in 10 months. The cancer spread to her arm and brain.
It is a reminder to all of us, take care of our vessels.
Much love to you, beautiful lady.
Thank you.
I'm sorry
I to lost a good friend in a similar manner. Breast lump
Did nothing
Spread like your friend.
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and I too lost friend that ignored her symptoms and thought it would go away.but no, it didn’t, it took her life at 65.
Im so sorry you lost your friend...
Sending you best wishes & prayers❤
@@Cats3. thank you so much for your sweet remark back to me. It does my heart well and I do appreciate it.
@@nevermind7253 she was stubborn, sarcastic, but I will miss her, till the day I die.
I retired and moved to Nashville and let me tell you girl, it's the best decision I've ever made in my life ! I feel like I have reinvented myself. I've met so many new people and have made several good friends in my neighborhood. I feel happier now than I did as a kid, because I have time to go out and explore my new city, it is alive and growing with adventure.
The precious little time I have left, I aim to enjoy it. I'm excited about waking up every day ! I never expected to retire, but after getting stuck in a rut at work, I handed in my resignation and out the door I went. As soon as we realize our Saturday nights are fleeting, we wake up and change our old ways, for new ways and make our golden years shine with joy ! It's later than we think, Live as much as you can, while you can. Love & Hugs Meme
How wonderful for you! I’m thinking of picking up to move to Tenn as well! Glad your experience has been a positive one. I get overwhelmed and a little scared just thinking about all I will have to do. I know I can do it….ONE step at a time. Congrats on your success!
Thank you for sharing this.. I've been waffling back and forth on retiring, l turn 62 this month and don't have any retirement, as l only worked part time status raising my 5 children.. do you mind sharing how old you are? I'm kind of in a rut with my job as well and while l love what l do, I'm tired of an absent boss that doesn't back her business or employees.
I spent last Friday in the hospital. Went to the hospital Thursday night at 11:30 pm, with chest pains. I am almost 77 years old. After ct scan and ultrasound of the heart, etc. Diagnosis indigestion. On the plus side, I know my heart is ok. Now I have lumbar scoliosis and bulging discs in my lower back, but not a lot of pain. Old age isn't for sissies.
No it isn’t for sissies. Or whiners! I have had a problem since early adulthood that makes me exhausted after a normal tasks. All my muscles ache. No doctor has diagnosed anything or seemed concerned. When I hear someone my age complain about having to slow down due to various aches and easier exhaustion, I am speechless. They seem to feel this change is terribly unfair. It would not do a bit of good for me to say, “ Welcome to my world”, but I sure do want to.😊
Yes I have that too and I’m 70 I have a bulging disc in my hip and then going to physical therapy. I hope yours gets better. I try to keep walking but everything hurts love from South Dakota.❤
COVID isolated us, and for me it resulted in putting off so many checkups. We have to take care of ourselves! It is empowering to make the list and cross those check-ups off as they're completed, hopefully with positive results. The best exercise routine is the one you love and do. Some days I like breaking it down into smaller bursts of movement. I love TLC foundation too, and the tap tap tapping stimulates circulation. Do find something new and fun to fill the gaps, change can be exciting. ❤️🌻🙏
That sounds like gallstones to me. I was told for years it was indigestion. Ended up in A and E with what I thought was heart attack to be told gallstones.
@@kathleenfrieden5948we can’t blame Covid for everything
I don't miss being a girl but I do miss my children being little and now I miss my grandchildren being little. Childhood is so sweet.
I feel the same. My daughter was my best friend. Now, she has moved on and away from me. I am lonely for her and pray she will find her way back to me soon.
@@treshamassey804 I hope so, too!
I feel the same way about my grandkids, I love them so much, but I miss the little kids they used to be.
My only daughter died on Thurs I will miss her she was 42 .and my whole reason to exist .
@@claireredfern5880 what can I say? I'm so so sorry for your loss! I can't imagine! She was blessed to have a loving Mom like you!
I’m 70 and continue to wear
2 1/2 inch heels. I’ve been told I’m “ too old for them “ but my response is “ I can still wear them because I’ve not stopped wearing them.
Stay strong❤️❤️❤️
Oh my goodness be careful. It just takes one misstep and your ankle will be broken. Bones don’t heal quickly at 70. I’ve sprained both ankles badly the past 5 years and they still haven’t completely healed. Heels for vanity are not worth the risk.
I envy you...arthritis doesn't let me wear the beautiful 3" heels which I wore for 50 - 55 years and boy do I miss them..
@@minoozolalaas long as not forcing you to wear them be happy for her. You could just as easily trip over something in bare feet and hit your head on something and bye bye 😊
@@minoozolalaI think they are a must ❤
As long as you can..... DO!!;;
I've been watching you for years - since I discovered my husband of decades was having multiple affairs. Since I packed up and sold what was left of our retirement (after he had given it all away to women or blackmailers) and at 64 moved across country with my dog to start a new life....at 64. Broke. Alone. But I did it. You helped. I'm 67 now. Living in a teeny apartment , which I adore (no more heavy cleaning!) by a lovely river. In a small city with ballet and symphonies. I'm starting my own dream business. I have built a Bank account so I'm not scared anymore. I have a wide circle of dear friends so I'm not alone. My grown-up grandchildren love to travel anywhere in the world with me ....I have a good life. You helped. You encouraged. I feel more "girly" than I have for a long time. This episode was your BEST!! Life at our age doesn't stop,.it becomes OUR OWN. Maybe for the first time. Don't waste a moment of it. You are right, it's a job - but I've taken other jobs, motherhood, wife, teaching; very seriously, I can take take this one just as seriously too.
May I ask how you got across the country?
I subscribed, I hope you will post more about your story, I'm curious!
@@sl4983 I drove. Just me and my dog in my used car, with a whatever I good pack in my trunk. I broke down in Iowa. I got asked out for my date by a Cowboy in Idaho. I survived
Love that life at our age becomes our own
I had a stroke at age 50 but since then so many of my friends and relatives have passed. I'm still here for my family, and i can now walk unassisted after 8 years, I have learned a lot, including to be mindful to count my blessings...
I'm happy for you, you must have been serious about regaining mobility. Maybe if you think of living each day the way your loved ones would have enjoyed it. I know grief takes time, but I'm sure they would want you to be happy.
Keep being “you;” it encourages the rest of us 😊👍
I turned 75 this year and found you! Been singing with a jazz band for the last 8 years, but started to "feel my age." My energy waning; my voice not so strong as before. So I made the hard choice to leave the professional arena and start sharing my music with assisted living homes and Hospice. "Have Guitar Will Travel." I never felt such joy from the applause of the crowd as I feel sitting with an 85 yr old widow trying to harmonize with me on a vintage Frank Sinatra ballad. You inspire me, too, Susan. Your purpose in life has much more to reveal. Thank you for sharing your revelations with all of us. ❤
Talk about sharing one’s gifts…how kind of you to tweak your life to offer others joy! 🎶 Bless you ❤
It’s true!
We all have so much abundance compared to many in the world!
Be thankful EVERY DAY!
It’s been three years since Bruce died and FINALLY I feel like the flower is opening and the sun is going out!
I feel happy almost EVERY DAY! It’s astounding!
I’ve turned the corner!
I’m grateful for every day!
I’ll be 70 in September.
I'm so glad for you! Losing your husband is one of the hardest things to go through. Enjoy every day!
Warm greetings to all the Widows. Three years and two months for me ( currently age 63.5😊)…… the sun is only now beginning to consistently shine . Don’t let anyone tell you how long deep grief “should” last…. It will take as long as it takes.
But in the meantime, try to take gentle care of yourself and make thoughtful decisions as we would have when our husbands were with us. Force yourself to socialize in whatever way is comfortable for you. Much love from Canada to all of you! ❤ 🇨🇦
I just turned 70 🎉. It sounds weird saying that. Time has flown by. And to be honest, it’s not for wimps ! I agree with you to stay on top of all those tests !
I turned 70 too last October - so true---not for wimps!
Happy belated birthday 🥳! It’s quite the ride isn’t it?!
Susan I so understand I am moving as I listen to u ... 👂... leaving a 22 year marriage..it's crazy😮 but I will be so much better with my daughter and Grandkids they love and respect me ..moving forward for peace ❤🎉😊 so thankful for you and Desi lol..❤😊
We really aren't sure how 70 is supposed to feel. I am still friends with childhood friends and family. They are the same internally.
I turned 70 in October. It has been a ride, my new best friend is 82 and walks 3 miles almost everyday, weather permitting and looks SO YOUNG and vibrant, walk walk walk❤
Hi Susan,
I'm turning 60 this yr. I wish I could say I had a rough wk, but it's actually been a rough yr. I let myself become afraid to leave the house for almost the entire yr,
& literally stopped doing everything & gave up on myself even though I have 3 grown kids & have been married for 34 yrs..(the last 15 as roommates) & last wk, I felt so awful that I just stayed in bed, all wk. I had lost all motivation, but when I watched your video tonight, your words started to resonate with me so, tomorrow I plan to finally put on some music in the house again & start dancing like I did yrs ago. I'll probably only be able to dance to 2 songs, but It's a start..., & once I can get to 20 min or so I too will start making appts for all the tests I've also avoided. So thank you for the encouaging words you give as they really mean alot, you always sound so sincere & that you care about your viewers & I think I really needed to feel like someone cares...so again thank you.
Wishing you & Desi a great week...
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God bless you and your new intentions...you're going to feel so much better...
Thank you so much as I feel Ive lost god too...❤
go to a psychiatrist and get on meds, you will feel 100 times better and then once your better and, on your way, you can probably wean off the meds. Don't get them from your regular doctor they don't know enough about how these meds work you have to have constant contact with your doctor while on them in case something happens.
Thank you for your suggestion ❤
Best wishes for re- engaging with life.
Aloha Susan #1. being grateful for everything every day. #2. Choosing joy every morning #3. Focusing on optimizing health, not weight. #4.Eating for life & exercising #5. Hope for what's yet to
be.
My life has become nothing but medical appts. Stage 4 Cancer. I’m in year 13. I’ve learned from watching other patients that I won’t spend whatever time I have left doing tests, trials, appts etc. I’ve watched 2 women this year die, and much of their last months were sitting in Doctors rooms. I refuse to do that.
sending you love and prayers...God didnt bring you this far to turn back now!!! SO glad you are here,,,xo Susan
I totally understand your mindset. My career was in the medical field. Stage 3 cancer here. When my brain returned, I read the latest medical study (2021) which stated my odds of hitting 5 yr survival dropped from 13% to 8%… my oncologist is a straight-shooter.” I asked her if what I’d read was accurate. She confirmed it was. I just started year 3, headed for that coveted first 5 year mark… Some ladies in that study had to make that 8%, out of thousands. Why can’t it be me or you? God knows (or whatever you choose to call the higher power) what the future may bring?! Adding you, Sister, to my prayer 🙏🏻 list. ❤
Don’t give up! Give it to God. He loves you and is there for you.
I start each day reading the Bible. I keep God with me and have an ongoing dialogue with God, that really doesn't ever stop. I realized years ago, everything is not about me, that released a great deal of unnecessary emotional weight off my shoulders. Oft times, I realized my personal reactions to difficult situations of others...was becoming about me. My mantra for the past several years, "It is what it is." For me, that became a peaceful revelation for me. God's blessings to everyone this week. May it be a week of God's love and peace.
I try to start my day off with a Bible devotion...some days my time gets derailed, but the day goes so muchh better if I put Him first.
@@grandmaof9857 We all stumble, we just get back in step. : )
The best thing I've done is started having a relationship with the one & only true God the God of Abraham, Issac & Jacob. I am happier than I have ever been & I read the KJV Bible God is my everything my friend, doctor whatever I need He is what the doctor ordered. I am 68 & boy do I regret not having God in my life much earlier in my life! I totally made terrible mistakes & choices in my life & I know for a fact my life would have been much better in every way if I had had God in my life much earlier. I know that I am very blessed to be able to enjoy God being in my life! Hallelujah, hallelujah, hallelujah! Hope you & Desi have a beautiful week!
This is wonderful!!!
Amen...He holds us in the palm of His hand ♥
First off I want to thank everyone who prayed for my son, he had his 3rd Open Heart Surgery on February 20th, at the University of Florida at Shands Heart and Vascular hospital. He was in ICU for 9 days, surgery was complex but by the grace of God he pulled through. I am so happy that this past year has been the best year for you. I am 73, I keep up with my health checkups now because of my heart, High Blood Pressure and if that’s not enough I have diabetes. I took my health for granted not anymore. So,proud of you Susan dancing is one of my favorites way of exercising. I used to have “thick” hair my beautician said the same thing as we age our hair thins, dry and brittle. I use Moroccan oil, and a shampoo that has Keratin and my hair shines and it’s so soft. Have a blessed week❤
Praise God for a successful surgery for your son.
God bless you and your son.❤
@@karendegraaf1146 thank you
@@dianewandland1833 thank you
So blessed to hear your son is doing well in answer to prayer🥰
We will be the best us. I'm happy to be 78...so many aren't here with us. We need to enjoy for those that have gone before us.
Absolutely!!!
I will be 73 and last year was hit by a utility truck. I had great plans but it ended up in physical therapy, pills and so weak. But this year I believe God will give me a blessing of health. God bless you, Desi and everyone on this channel. ❤️✝️🙏🙌
Thank you, Desi! Your birthday song is divine! I love listening to you! I just finished 9 months of orthodontist work on my teeth. (Thank You, Lord, I still have my own!). I had such ugly crooked teeth when I was young. I have worn braces twice as an adult. And now Invisalign to get my teeth back into alignment and so my jaw doesn’t hurt. I decided at 69 years old, I wanted my teeth to be straight and not look like I did as an embarrassed young person. I worked out a payment plan and I finished the process this week. I am so glad I did it!!
I got braces in my late 50s
Absolutely 👍 my bottom teeth are becoming a little crooked but I’ll do it in a heartbeat
I’m sorry about you missing your Grandfather. Sometimes anniversaries just hit us harder for some reason. You were only 9 years old when he passed but he certainly left a wonderful impression on you that has lasted all these years. “Don’t cry because he’s gone. Rather smile because he was here and was important in your life.” The older I get, the more I think of days gone by and those I’ve lost over the years. I want to believe we will all be reunited someday in heaven.❤️❤️
So very true!!!
Desi makes me smile when he sings with you. 😊❤ Susan, you don’t look like you are 69 you look much younger. Hope you have a great week. Thank you for sharing. ❤❤❤
Yes Susan~you look much younger👍😊
This past summer I had an physical therapist come and teach me how to make my balance stronger...ankles..standing on one foot without wobble...strengthen my back muscles and arms...squats (all the way to the floor ...squat on an incline (little scary at first) and pickup something...then squat on the decline...walk moving arms up and down over head and then a ball up and down and to the side (that builds up endurance and it's not easy)...doing stairs (up to 400 and I'm working toward 1000) that is a long range goal)
I was healthy...but I absolutely didn't want my age to define...so I did something about
75 yrs old ...lived...traveled..married...widow...child and many other accomplishments...that and anything else I do ...is what defines me
I hope all of us realize our worth and how strong our will is
You sound amazing! If only I had let myself live...after I gave up working to have my kids, all I was known as was a stay at home mom who didn't & still doesn't know how to drive...I didnt want my kids to become afraid like me so as each of them turned 16, driving lessons thru school was expected..they all have their own full lives now...its just me who still lives in the past. Wishing you many more yrs of a full life!
@@Cats3. if you are alive...and you are.. it's never too late
Take driving lessons...and then you can put yourself out in the world...live. .you'll surprise yourself
Also a mom is the ultimate experience....you had to parent...love them...be there to pick up their pieces...make sure they had driving lessons...taught them to get out in the world and be strong
You have experienced life...now you are telling yourself there is more and you go for it....if you survived motherhood..you can do anything
If I can do it so can you..
You are not defined by your age...children....you are worth to be happy and own person
Take that first step 🚶♀️
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Amen. You go girl.....Motherhood ie no sissy job....you are capable of whatever you decide to do.
That sweet Desi singing makes my day. I chuckle every time. My dogs (beside me) are alert when they hear him. Have a great week. 😊
I’m 76 years old , I don’t think I will stop until I can’t anymore. I’m still working, have to because I can’t make it on SSS. My husband decided he didn’t want to be with me anymore. Was 72 and I am living alone for the first time in my life. We lived together for 23 years. We have been married for 27 years,still married. I am a Security Officer on weekends. I think I’m pretty happy . I’m not really sure . Life is full of surprises.
I can’t make it on SS alone either… Will be 69 in less than 2 wks. Life can be a wild ride! Cya next Saturday night! 😊
I understand what you’re saying. A year ago in Feb I fell and broke my knee cap in 3 places. Then I developed an umbilical hernia. I’m all prepped and ready to go to surgery. The anesthesiologist came in and said she was cancelling the surgery. My EKG was abnormal. Was sent to cardiologist and discovered a heart issue. But also my blood pressure was way too high. So. Add some more medications. 🙄 now waiting for cardiac clearance for the umbilical hernia. If the anesthesiologist hadn’t cancelled the surgery I would’ve never found out about these other issues. It was a blessing in disguise. It’s hard work this getting older stuff…I’m 65.
My love to sweet Desi and prayers for you both. 💕
Susan, You touched my heart. This week I had an abnormal mammogram. I am 56 years old. I have to go in for more investigation. I have been through this three times. I put it off through Covid (mammogram). Then my dad had Dementia for two years and passed in September. I finally decided to stop putting myself on the back burner. Please pray for me. My daughter just had our first born on Grandson he is beautiful. I have been a subscriber for a long time. I know you love Cheri Blume and Ricky Nelson like I do :) Thank you for speaking out for ladies to go take care of themselves. You are beautiful inside and out! Thank you Susan! Hugs xoxo Becki
Becky, I will add you to my nightly prayer list🙏🏻 Chin up!
@@rrhines3151 Thank you 💕
Take care of yourself. That precious grandson will be such a blessing.🙏🙏
I will pray for you - but, I bet you will be fine. I’ve been through it many times myself. The boobs are certainly a mystery.
Don't wear bras, cut dairy out, don't get mammograms, very bad, take lots of Vitimin C raw fruit and veg, good luck
I'm 49..physically disabled and have adapted to a beautiful life. My fiance has cancer, hospice met with us last week but we are laughing and grateful for what we have had x
oh you made me cry...God Bless you and your beautiful heart
I’m speechless…❤🕊️🙏🏻
Dear Susan, dance like no one’s watching, and then dance again. You bring hope and sunshine into our days as we share together. You’re much loved for exactly who you are, God’s one-of-a-kind creation. 💖
Brilliant photography Susan….so calming.
Yes turning 70 is no fun….72 in July, but we must try, try, try all the time. If not we’ll go down hill for sure. Try with the weight, try with the clothes, try with makeup and try to just keep moving. It’s not easy for some, but what’s the alternative….we’ll stagnate and nobody wants that. I have rheumatoid and osteoarthritis and things can be difficult, but on the days I can then I do. God bless to you and Desi….he’s getting better and better with his singing…..everybody adores him. 🌸
I hear you about car troubles. But mine is a transmission on a 2007 Mustang... I'm looking at 3 to 5 thousand!!!!!!!!!! I love my car and its gorgeous. Also its cheaper than buying a new car at 73! But the bright side is I am getting a tax refund that will cover probably 80%. Now thats a blessing! I know I go against everything I'm supposed to do... but my mother and my spouse both died of cancer at age 59. They did all the right things, went to the doctor regularly, but they are gone. At 59 I stopped going to the doctor except for one complete metabolic panel a year , I will be 74 this year and I am still here. My doctor says I don't know what you're doing,, but everything looks great, so keep doing it. I worked in the medical profession for 44 years before retiring.I say if I feel this good.., don't look for trouble!!! Also about missing being a girl... its not just women. I remember when my Dad, who passed at 95, seeing himself in a picture when he was 89 saying ... who the hell is that old guy? haha Inside we still feel like the girls and guys of our youth. But now the outside no longer matches who we still are inside. Such is life!
One thing I am learning and practicing is embracing my life, my world and my self exactly where I am...❤
that is beautiful!
I love this ❤
After years of not wanting children, my daughter decided to try for a baby. When I had a baby my mom and dad had already passed so I did it alone. I am looking forward to being there for my beautiful daughter and my grandchild.
I didn't have help from my parents either. I made a decision I would be there for my children. I now have 6 grandchildren with another on the way. It's my ministry. I have embraced it wholeheartedly ❤
I am 71 and have always been the family photographer and after my remaining parent my mom passed in 2017 attempts age 97 I with the encouragement of my older brother started doing nature photography and taking pictures of the beautiful landscape and landmarks all around me. I have enjoyed it so much !! My vehicle 🚙 is now sitting in my parking spot in need of repair so I can get out and get back to my photography !! I enjoy your channel so much ❤. Thank you for keeping me company as I have no children or grandchildren and have been feeling a little lonely. God Bless You ❤❤❤
I'll be 69 in May. I've noticed that I was slowing down, having trouble with stairs, and nervous when walking my dog, I was afraid I couldn't control him. I splurged on a treadmill, something I've been wanting for years. I do it 30 minutes a day, and I can't believe how much it's helped! My mobility is much better, I'm physically stronger and more confident. I live in Chicago and I broke my leg a few years ago on an icy sidewalk. With the treadmill I can walk all year round without fear of slipping on ice and breaking my leg again. Plus, regular exercise helps with depression. I'm so much happier now, and all it takes is 30 minutes a day.
I’m 79 and a yearly mammogram saved my life. There was a change in one year and thankfully a lumpectomy and radiation was sufficient. My brother died of colon cancer and I had surgery four years ago on a malignancy on my colon and 1/3 of my colon was removed. I go to Silver Sneakers three mornings per week for one hour. I go to get cardio exercise, maintain stability and strength. I like your hair blonde and the style is flattering.
@kathybriscoe1474, It is so wonderful that you had your mammogram in time!. I am 78 and was told by my doctor a few years ago that I didn't need to have mammograms if I didn't want to. Do you mind me asking if there is a history of breast cancer in your family? I have never had a negative exam, and there was no family history, but now I am wondering if I should still have a yearly exam.
..the world is soon to find out all about the lies we've been told our entire lives...GOD BLESS EVERYONE ❤️
Hi there, 79 yrs young, love from the uk.
Encouraging words and lifestyle! So happy to read your story!❤
I’m 70 and was diagnosed with aggressive breast cancer last year. Fortunately, it was caught early. I had two lumpectomies and radiation. Now on a hormone blocker for 5-10 years with only a 2% chance of recurrence. Grateful for my annual mastectomies and great medical care in my area (DC metro).
I love Saturday nights because of your sweet, heartfelt videos! My days of "stealing Saturday night kisses" are pretty much behind me, but your vids allow me to drift off in *joy*. I feel a sense of friendship & community here. THANK YOU, Susan & Desi!!! You're both rock stars now, getting noticed in the voting line and Desi's vocal spotlights! 🤩 ⭐ 🎤🐶
I will be 76 on the 6 of March and I miss wearing heels but that really is not important after the week that I have gone through with my best friend. On Tuesday she got a call to come out of state that her younger sister was taking to the hospital in bad shape. Bye the time my friend got there her sister was on life support. On Thursday she passed away. On Friday as they were planing her funeral they got a call that her nephew was taken to shock trauma after a fall. He is now on life support. I was complaining because of gallstones problems and stoped and realized here was a young lady who had died and here is a young man on life support. I can say I might not feel great but I am blessed. .
Oh my… that certainly puts “life” in perspective, doesn’t it… Blessings to all impacted by such tragic news…❤️🩹🙏🏻
PS: Happy Early Birthday 🎂 By next Saturday, your special day will have come already! May all your wishes come true this year! 🥳💜🎉
Happy birthday🎉
Little Poet and Desi, you put such a smile on my face despite all the hard things in life. Thank you!! ❤❤
Your hair?... BEAUTIFUL. Love the waves, color, style, cut and framing. You're lovely, Susan, inside and out~❣️
Susan I had to stop the video to tell you that I live in a small rural town in NC and I had the opposite happen when I went to vote. I was the only one voting and I went to the ladies room first when suddenly the main door flew open and this big gruff woman yelled “can’t you read the sign ! No public restrooms!” She would not close the door and kept yelling until I just washed my hands and left-leaving my phone and having to drive 39 miles back…. humiliating. It has never been warm and friendly here but I just left without voting! Be thankful for all the love and friendliness-helps you live longer!
So sorry you had to go through that and also that you did not get to vote. More and more folks have been talking about how cruel and judgmental we have become as a society. Our nation needs God.
I definitely agree! It’s been my faith that’s kept me living here. I will spend sometime with the Lord, get dressed up, and put a big smile on and vote on the 5th. I’ve always thought that light can overcome darkness!
I’m so sorry you had that experience… Why we can’t choose to be kind to each other is beyond me… 🕊️
.you go girl....so proud of you for pressing on and not letting rude behavior stop you❤.
I laughed later. It’s like a Seinfeld show here everyday! NO BATHROOM FOR YOU!
When I was in my 30s and 40s, I collected photos of women in their 60s, 70s, and 80s. It's as if I was preparing myself somehow. I'm almost 67 now and still admire women who are older than I am and seem to have the life together. These are my role models.
How interesting and very affirming!! Yes. Older women can be our mentors. . .
How wonderful to have met such new acquantaces in your new town. To be close to your son's resturant and your family, what a dream. You made it happen by saving money for your little house and planning a move. I am so happy you had the courage to make the move. You and your gangsta Dezi deserve the very best. I so enjoy your youtube videos of your new little home and your neighborhood, even though I do not know where you live. Many blessings to you, your children and grandchildren.
I just have to say that you have the best viewers! Reading all these comments is so motivating!!! Thank you all!
Oh yes! Happy Sunday! The people here are the very best! And you are fantastic!!!
I couldn't agree more😅
You as well dear😂🎉
You look fabulous ❤
I can't afford the products
I love anything black n white
Susan I agree about missing my girl days but I love who I am now. Self care is a full time job. Thank you for your videos❣️
You are so pretty and you don't look like the typical 69 year old!!! I appreciate how you lay truth out in the open about missing what we had when we were younger. Honesty. Thank You for sharing this and your honesty. I really enjoy your editing. The music is always right on. Continued blessings!
7 years ago at the age of 66 & the second day after my son’s wedding I fell & broke my elbow, up to this day I was very active woman working & traveling I stopped working & it took 6 month for the elbow to heal but my arm never returned the same I had constant pain & very swollen elbow, the orthopedic said to my husband that the pain is all in my head to grab his attention I kept going from one orthopedic to another then visited at least 4 neurologists in my state & no one could figure what is wrong with me then I went to a neurologist in another state & after 3 hours test he said I needed muscle biopsy & DNA test the conclusion I was diagnosed with Muscular Dystrophy my friends thought I was a very unlucky woman actually it was a blessing in disguise what if I had decided to go for botox like all my friends do !!!! It would paralyze my face . I retired adopted a cutie small doggie & I love it , my son’s gift to me when I turned 70 a gorgeous baby girl my first & only granddaughter . I thank God everyday for his blessings.
Another personal story of being one’s health advocate! Congratulations 🎈 on the newest addition to your family! 💝🌸
@@rrhines3151 Thank you
Yes be very proud of yourself. How terribly insulting to be told your pain is not real! I can remember relaying my symptoms & FEMALE doctor saying But you look just fine!!!
It was a two year journey to be finally diagnosed with TMJ. It wasn’t terminal but the pain relief was life-saving.
@@marysterbin7016 I am glad you were finally diagnosed God bless you 🙏 It took me a whole year in pain until I was diagnosed
😊thank you !!
Exercise is so important!
I teach yoga and Pilates and do UA-cam dance videos, too!
I just started back up with ballet classes. It’s important to keep moving!
I’ll be 70 in a few months.
Dying laughing at the "I liked my hair better that way too!" LOL. the things people say. SO good that you can laugh at those silly/insensitive comments.
I absolutely love your attitude, Susan! At 74, I also, no longer have time to wallow. This day won’t come again. I have one chance to make it a good one. ❤️❤️❤️
I have a collection of very high heels my favorites are strappy champagne colored satin with rhinestones - I also have them in navy. I have never worn them outside of my house. I also have very heavy beaded gowns, same...but I love them and I will always buy them. Like you buying vases...I buy very high heels I can’t walk in and gowns that have never seen a ball. Just my house and it keeps me happy 🤗
Hi Susan. I’ve found that staying away from the medical system has made me healthier. Acupuncture, meditation, vitamins, herbal supplements, exercise, yoga, Pilates and many other more holistic practices have strengthened my immune system and cleared out toxins from medications. I’m not condoning boycotting doctor visits, but the medical and pharmaceutical industry is very big business and I am very discerning with my health. I just love your videos and wanted to share another perspective. You look just lovely and healthy. I just bought Miracle Balm as well and I’m pretty impressed! 😊
I agree with you. Everytime I've had a mammogram, I'm asked to come back immediately or in 6 mos. because there's something suspicious, or else they claim I need a breast biopsy! Even scaring me to death with their "Birads 4 !!!" mammo classification. I've never had cancer or any breast cancer symptoms, and I'm 72. I've had many unnecessary biopsies (and titanium markers put in to mark the biopsy spot). Like Susan, sometimes I skip a couple or several years with the mammograms, because I know I'll never be told my mammo is fine, even though they really ARE! But the good news for me is that the American College of Radiology Association states there is no evidence that having mammograms after age 74 lengthens lives. It's even posted in the mammogram waiting room. So, I'm almost there, age-wise! (Of course, if I ever get a symptom, I'll go for a mammo, even after age 74.)
@@commonsense6967 I had a mammogram, and it was benign and the procedure to have the inserted titanium nearly killed me. I am in no rush to go back in no rush to have yet another biopsy. Having gone through a year of hell not just that but I had a PET scan and various CT scans with contrast you name it, I have had it. Susan, I love you and I love Desi and God gave you the perfect dog because he knew he was a singing dog. much love and hugs. Ana.
@@onerose3614contrast dyes are heavy metals..damage your body. MRI contrast dye Gadolinium ruined my health and many others.
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I am of the same mind . I am 69 and have stayed out of the medical system as much as possible. My mother just turned 88 so I am blessed but have lost many friends that didn't live long enough to collect their hard earned social security. They followed doctor's orders. Eating healthy, supplements and exercise are the keys to good health. And Susan's approach to life itself is part of that...finding the joy, loving friends and a good dog are what feeds our soul.
Years ago, you made a comment on your channel that the way mature women applied makeup made them look harsher and older. This was a time when influencers were singing the praises of full coverage foundation and often applied a shade darker and warmer than their natural coloring. You were so right about heavy makeup aging us. Luckily, times have changed, and good skincare under a very light touch of serum foundation can give us a touch of youth. Thank you Susan, for setting me on this trail all those years ago. I watch a chanel, French for a Day, and she uses a light hand for all her products.
Oh thank you so much for being here tonight!!! Much love to you! Susan & Desi
You are such a treasure. Thank you for sharing; you make my Saturday so much happier. The thing (s) I have started doing better, now, is taking care of me, guilt free. A recovering people pleaser.
Loved this video Susan. As a 5 year breast cancer survivor, I am overjoyed I get to go for a mammogram and hear the words, all good. Your suggestions were fantastic. I put an effort into looking my best every day, makes me feel better about myself. Desi singing at the end is adorable 🥰
Oh so good to hear we help each other take care of ourselves!!!
Got to go take care of my 83 year old sister out of town this week , Asher husband was being hospitalized with a stroke . Gave me a lot to think about concerning what really matters in life . Hold those you love close this week , laugh and cry together , you’re creating cherished memories that last forever .❤️🎶🎶🎶
Blessings to you during this challenging time… 🙏🏻🕊️🤗
Hi Susan, I just wanted to share and I know that not everyone can do this for various reasons, but when I turned 60 I stopped coloring my hair. It took 3 years to grow out but the the thickness doubled and all of these new baby hairs started growing in. It is so beautiful now that I have never regretted the journey. The gray really seems to compliment my skin. Hugs! I enjoy your channel! ❤❤❤
I swore I’d never go gray. I have very thick and loose curly hair. I lost most of my hair when I got pneumonia. I used a concoction of essential oils and my hair came back with a vengeance ( that’s the words my hairdresser used!) It’s such a pretty , natural white platinum in the front and I wear it in long layers. I never thought I’d say these words. Wash, conditioner, put on a small amount of leave in conditioner and a product for curls. Don’t touch until fully air dried and then pick out the curls,
I flat ironed and dyed my hair for about 17 years-now I just enjoy my natural God given hair. Never used hair spray. A masque once a week is important.😊🤗
My week sucked too. But I’m still standing. Thank you Jesus.😁
I am 66, married with 2 grown children and 3 bonus children, 14 grandchildren and another on the way. After surviving cancer twice, i read the Purpose Driven Life. I retired as a paralegal at age 61, got a hip replacement, and found my true purpose... to inspire and encourage young women to find balance with their work, home, and spiritual life. I am leading a growth group at my church with 3 young women. I love it!
Heading to audible to find this book!
Bonjour Susan, I so look forward every week to watching you and listening to you and see your cute little Desi.
I just turned 75 years old two weeks ago, 3/4 of a century… that’s quite something that this body has supported me all these years and for that I’m very grateful.
I totally relate to feeling like I am not the same as I was years ago. Like your neighbor said wearing the high heels and the low-cut dresses are not for us anymore. Men my age, don’t look at me, they want women younger, and that saddens me not to be desired so much anymore.
I had sort of a rough week also. I understand about car situations. I have to work, it is what it is, and when I came home the other day, I looked at my front tire and saw that it was really bald and the metal was showing on it, so the next morning I had to go out and buy another tire. You’re absolutely right about what you said about
The small cost you had to pay but it saved your life. With all the rain that we’ve had here in Georgia I could’ve slipped off the road as well and I’m grateful that I was able to get that taken care of and be done with it.
I find it difficult that as we age, we should be blessed with more, but in fact, we get charged more for everything. My car and health insurance were raised, my rent was raised and so is my Internet. It’s hard to understand this world anymore, I’m not being negative but it is a fact.
I wish you a wonderful upcoming week and I very much look forward to hearing from you next week.
With much appreciation, MarieClaude
Sorry about your rough week; shared mine too… often I spend more time reading everyone’s comments than I do watching Susan’s video! It’s Sunday morning tho so a bit more time! Next week, tomorrow, it will be better! 😁 If I type it enough, can it because truth?! 👍See you next Saturday night, as we gather ‘round Susan’s fireplace! 🎶
I have my 32 year old daughter having her ovary removed this Tuesday and I've been doing all I can to keep her distracted. Its aome form of cancer but the doctor is going to do the biopsy in the OR and tell us then. Ive been telling her she can still have children with one ovary and praying ferociously that she will not lose both ovaries for any reason. For anyone reading this, please send healing thoughts or prayers to Katie. Thank you.
Prayers and healing thoughts for Katie. ❤🙏❤️
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 And, please watch Dr William Li for foods the starve cancer and his other vlogs on UA-cam. Prayers, Love, Healing 💙
Prayers for Katie 🙏
Prayers for Katie & you too 🙏❤
Prayers for Katie.
Hi Susan and Desi! So what has helped my skin is water and walking. I've changed my diet too! I walk about a mile and half 5 times a week or more and sometimes 2 miles. I've reduced my calories gradually, so my body could get used to the deficit easier. Which I have adjusted to just fine. My skin and hair are better for it and my waistline has come down 3-4". My dress size used to be a 1X I'm now a XL to a Large. Most of my tops are a med/large and I have big boobies LOL! Changing my diet and exercising has helped my appearance so much. I'm 65 and a woman thought I was in my 50's, lol I'll take it!!! Make up can only help so much but taking better care of our insides first, will help improve the outside too! Hugs and have a blessed week!
Susan, I am 80 and my word means a lot to many people. You look like you are in your 40s. You are awsome. I don't know anyone your age as young looking as you are. You are blessed.
Hi Susan. As always, I look forward to each Saturday night to see your video for the week. You gave a lot of good tips and positive ways to live our lives to make the best life for our later years. I really enjoy seeing you and cute, sweet Desi. Love to you both ❤️
That’s how I feel about you, dear Susan! When I have anxiety, I will watch a video of yours. I revisit favorite ❤️ ones and I calm down and perk up. I am grateful for you and your videos! Much thanks and gratitude. ❤
Oh Lucy! You touch my heart! what a beautiful woman you are!!!
@@LittlePoet You are most welcome and so deserving!! ❤️🙏
I’m so sorry to hear about your friend and the end of her marriage after 39 years-that’s so sad. Give her a big hug from me❤ Desi always makes my day when I get to see him on camera-he’s so adorable!! I had a dachshund, Briley, who passed away February 10th and my husband and I are grieving so hard for her-she definitely made paw prints on our hearts and our home is just not the same, so thank you for showing Desi❤! You are gorgeous Susan. How does anyone feel it’s okay to say rude things is beyond me. I was taught if you don’t have anything nice to say, then don’t say anything at all! Anyways-let’s not give them any power or time! I love your zest for life. You are a wonderful inspiration to all of us more mature women😘. I am turning 65 in June and my retirement will be April of 2026-boy I cannot wait either. I might stay PRN at my job (as needed) just to keep my foot in the door just in case, lol. Thanks again for another video-you rock! Have a wonderful week Susan and Desi❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼
I just love your channel ❤️… at 63… I don’t feel this big age. It’s just me & my pets…. I have no family. My friends are my family 🥰 . I’m grateful for each day… making a little garden… buy myself some flowers… 🌷🌷🌷grow some… but I appreciate everything. I’d like to move to a small town, make friends, have a community that truly watched out for each other…
Things are crazy in this country now. I just want the old days when people were respectful and sane….. I just want Mayberry 🤣🤣🤣
But I do appreciate life and having a roof over my head. Much love from Tampa Florida 🌴
My thoughts exactly.💗
I’m 54 and finally got my colonoscopy and I’m so relieved. Now I’m good for ten years. I got my overdue mammogram and physical. All the appointments made for a busy winter! I changed jobs and cut out all the stress and finally was able to make time to do all the screenings I needed.
When you talked about multiple dr appts. and tests it reminded me of an older gentleman in my church who was having medical issues. He said, “I just had my mail forwarded to my Dr.’s office because I’m there all the time anyway!” I loved his wit and wisdom which was with him to his last day!❤ I loved tonight’s video, lots to think about for sure!
The Bobbi Brown blush does have a funky smell but I find it dissipates quickly! It really gives a lovely glow!
When I turned 64 I signed up for local adult education art classes. I go every Friday morning and I love it. It cost me so much 'cause they are in Spanish but I understand and everyone is roughly my age, lovely group of friendly helpful pepole. It really boosted my confidence and gets me out of the house. I nearly lost my husband a few years ago. He was one of the survivors from intensive care during that terrible time when so many lost their lives. He was in a comma for over a month and we thought he was going to die. I prayed so hard during that time and God listened and sent him home to us. I don't complain anymore I am grateful and live life to the best every day that I can. Love your channel you have no idea how much you have helped me.❤
Oh thank you so much for being here! You sound so lovely...I am so glad your husband pulled through. That was such a terrible time...love to you and yours, Susan & Desi
I heard this poem today. It's a beautiful poem, and I just wanted to pass it along. We all need this at some point in our life..Maybe not today, but one day. I don't know the title, and there's more to it, but this is the part that I heard being recited. Hope you like it.
I asked for strength and GOD gave me difficulties to make me strong.
I asked for wisdom and GOD gave me problems to solve.
I asked for courage and GOD gave me dangers to overcome.
I asked for love and GOD gave me troubled people to help.
My Prayers were answered.
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This is beautiful!!!
You look beautiful and far younger than your age! You have a very fun and youthful spirit, but also the wisdom and calm that comes with your chronological age. I think you deserve to ignore those age lists, and do whatever you darn well please! 💗
Oh wow. I just made appointments for every health thing in my life. Keep crossing them off my list. Whew. I need to go thrifting!
But anyway, I am enjoying getting older and wiser and being a fun grandma. So important to me.
I laugh my head off every time you and Desi sing!😅
I have a full room of exercise equipment because every time I saw something that I thought would benefit me I bought - within reason and what do I do and love the best.......walking Doesn't cost a thing and gives me happiness, health, fresh air, a tighter body (as tight as you can get at 67) great skin and a great sleep. Also joined a walking group in my area that is there if I feel like some company. I have also started strength training hoping I can get my arms looking better. Yep Exercise is the ticket and walking is the best!!!!
I have been doing reformer Pilates since July. My core has gotten stronger, my hips and shoulders don’t ache anymore. I go 4 times a week and love it. Most of the women there are in their 50’s 60’s and 70’s. With a couple younger and older.
You are so beautiful and smart. love your videos. love desi.
My neigbor is 67 she hits the bars met s guy 16 yrs younger and she smooches with him in public she thinks she is 25. I guess maybe more power to her
ah!!! That is cute...for me, Desi is my guy!!! Happy new week to you!!! xxoo Susan & Dez
She's the level above cougar, I think it's panther.
We are finally moving next week.
Leaving this terrible place, moving to what seems like a new life.
The apartment is beautiful, pretty color paints just waiting for our additions making it ours. Its small only 695 sf. But a good kitchen and sunny. Im inspired by your designs.
Im determined to make it our little boho palace.
Love and blessings 💞
Blessings on your new home! Sounds like a lovely place! 🎉
Dear Susan, your message and its delivery is absolutely on point. It transcends all ages. As woman we go through significant changes all throughout our lives: changes from puberty to child bearing to menopause, changes from being a teenager, to adulthood, motherhood, to the empty nest. We are warriors. You are correct, health is everything, not just as we age, but all throughout our precious lives. Thank you!
Thank you my Sunday girl xxxx
Hello my sweet friend!!!
I need to watch this video several times because you have so many great tips & advise. I am 61 & i did not realize hairspray was so bad for your hair.
Great video,you just may be saving someone’s life by encouraging them to have tests done. I love all your beauty hints and have tried some. You look like your in your 50’s not 60’s. One thing l’ve done l think that has enriched my life is to just slow down. When my husband was alive and we had five kids l was always running here and there. Not getting much sleep, Now l sleep in if l want, l stay up when l want and eat when l want.l feel so much calmer and happier.
I absolutely love your channel. I feel like I'm chatting with an old friend. I am 63 years old, and I love walking while listening to good music. I lost half my hair 6 years ago. Now, I wear cute wigs and headbands. Life goes on. I got a mammogram last month. For the 1st time in 23 years, I got a call saying they want to do additional screening on my left breast. I'm a little nervous even though I heard this is common. Prayers, please. Strength in numbers!!!!
Prayers coming right up! Big hug from NorthEast USA 🙏🏻🤗
@rrhines3151
I received it. Thank you!!!!