Narcissist will always run from themselves. Then they blame you as to why that can’t love.

Narcissist will run from themselves and what they aren’t capable of…but will blame YOU!!
My desire, knowing about, wanting or needing love…stopped at age 11. From that point forward, I was only able to “like” a woman and even “liking” was filled with dysfunction.
You can’t fix stunted growth but you can help him/her with it. There must be a time when you have to be extremely observant and inquisitive…because they will not tell you about their feeling of love, or lack thereof -it’s too embarrassing and also too hurtful for you to know.
However, it cannot be ignored. Sooner or later, their traits will kick into high gear, and this is where you will experience; ghosting, gaslighting, shunning, avoidance, known addictions, being sneaky, arguing, lying, etc.
Knowing this and then ignoring the inevitable will ultimately cause you to become sick.
They are running from themselves and you are running, trying to heal them. You can’t! They have to want it for themselves first, and then you and the family.
During this phase, their mind has reverted to that child that’s just trying to survive and not be hurt but will hurt you!
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