I did exactly that! The attempted Hoover is unreal. And, so is the smear campaign. I will remain committed to no-contact. I’m so much happier without his immature BS!
I can't lie I dropped a few tears out of anger, when he abruptly told me during Thanksgiving out of the blue, that he didn't feel the same way anymore. I cry when I get mad. I was mad, because he waited til a holiday, and he knew I loved holidays, to pull his little stunt. I had told him many times, if you want to be with someone else, tell me. We're grown! We also promised to be honest with each other, and to communicate our feelings. His brutal discard helped me while I was healing. I learned how to control my emotions. I moved, changed my number, and blocked him and his family on everything. I went No Contact, and never looked back! That was eight years ago. Peace is priceless! ❤
Silence is always the answer to anyone’s mistreatment let them sit with that bad behavior !!! Move forward in life ! Use silent strength and stay happy!
I just don't understand how narcs are NOT prepared for the walk away because they do so much dirt. I feel like my ex covert narc husband actually PUSHED me away, so I appeased him and left. After I was gone, he began calling relatives and friends of friends, anyone. He was asking them my whereabouts. But, what he didn't know was that I was close to no one and quietly left everyone, including family. Dealing with a narcissist spouse really make you do drastic things to survive and out of fear.
Did exactly as you said, blocked and acted as if he didn't exist, he called and text my family, he talked about me and still I kept no contact, never going back.
Whew the way my ex narc was looking after I left for two months was crazy 😂 he looked like a cave man! No hair cut! Lost weight😂 all the things he did to me was coming back full circle. And I used to always tell him what goes up must come down. Not to laugh but it is the truth. Silence is golden. Can’t keep loving someone who doesn’t love you back. & action’s speak so much louder than words. After 5 years of narc abuse my get back was leaving bc he felt the affects to the fullest. While I was getting my life back on track he was miserable, he knew he lost one of the best things that had come into his pathetic life. ❤
You just told me story expect I did the discard , he thought I was coming back this time. Nope I left 3 yrs ago & never looked back. I was too the best he ever had and will have. And he knew it, I am completely done. Yes , his pathetic miserable life.
Im an empath, i took power back. I sat back , watched listened , then cut him the fck off. Silence truly is golden. Leon, thank you for such great advice , 😊
he probably waiting for my call or text now that his bday is coming up but he won’t ever hear from me everrrr again. he’s been silent for over a week and it’s been a blessing omg I literally prayed for him to leave me alone 😂
I left my narc I made him look good . I built his self esteem. Now he’s stuck on stupid , once his mask slipped I dipped bye loser . It’s been a month and I’m on silent for good 💯
He discarded me last week. We work in the same building but i do not see him all the time, its rare, before he left me he texted me and said our friendship is over i dont know you and dont talk to me at work... i saw him the other day and i avoided him completely. -the reason for his discard was because i blocked him i was trying to move on in silence. He caught wind of me blocking him and left me a voicemail and said do not call or text me. I havent texted him since he left me a week ago. I feel like i am FEENING over him Leon, i used to always always beg him to stay.... i used to beg beg beg and this is the first time i havent begged him. I hope i am doing this right.
Good for you💪🏾 I started going to the gym and it helped me to stay no contact. When you exercise you think about nothing. It really releases "feel good" endorphins.
Don’t you dare beg for anyone !!! The feening is coming off the trauma bond !! Go to gym and walk on treadmill 30min-1hr to release endorphins and hijack your brain back!! You can “feel good” In other ways besides this toxic relationship . Once you are healed you will never want to go back!
What did you do? Told her no? I dont know what to do with mine, he is going to Thailand for 5 months. I cannot have anything to do with him, my heart hurts beeing close to him or to have contact with him! 😳😲
@ainahaga you have to avoid any contact with him at all costs. Understand you were bonded with this invidual, so separating will hurt. You can't get around that. What I can tell you is that it gets easier with time. Just focus on God and keep people who love and care about you around. Block him on everything and no farewells. Let him go away with never seeing or hearing from you.
@@JJfrostt yeah I know! Its for my healing!☺️ He doesnt wanna see me anyway he has met someone else Im sure of it. I discarded him deeply! I was mean to him cause he hurted me deeply! I also hit him. I got angry beeing with him😳 he is NOT a good person!
Honestly I'm genuinely annoyed by my ex, I used to love him so much but the constant betrayal was too much...now he keeps creating fake accounts to stalk me and I wish he could just leave me alone and focus on his new supply
Orrr they'll get with someone else and pretend to be happy and not worried about you at all. Whether they are happy with the next or not is no longer our business though. As long as they are no longer in our lives causing damage. Let them move on in peace. And you do the same. I'm 13 months zero contact and my life has elevated to levels I couldn't have imagined a year ago when I was being treated badly, crying all the time, and getting physically sick. I never responded to the sub posts made on social media or any attempts to damage my reputation to people. Alot of those same people he talked about me to, knew it didn't sound right. And said he sounds super bitter. His emotions didn't matter to me though. I was too busy growing businesses and moving on. Still am. My character spoke louder than any lie he tells on me. I wished him the life he deserves a year ago, and never looked back. No beef. No hate and No desire to be in his world.
Thank you Leon. He’s flipping the script saying things like “ you never loved me” “ why don’t you talk to me” lol I am so damn tired of giving him chance after chance and now he can’t handle that I’ve been ignoring his “ no caller ID” calls. It’s been a month and I’m going to continue putting his a$$ on block. I am done and over it.
When he gave the silent treatment and discarded me, i blocked him eveywhere and deleted all My social media and changed my number! Almost 3 years no contact now.
A year ago I got tired of the roll coaster ride "situationship". I felt a shift (neg vibe) from him and I felt like had PTSD. He told me " it's all in MY HEAD! I stopped all communication. Three months later (March my deceased husband's birthday) he reaches out..I was shocked surprised bc he's so stubborn! He called the communication a "welfare check"..like omg!! Actually listening to your video, people really tell on themselves all the time. I told him I want closure! He accused me of "I must of had a bad break up and was rebounding"! Yet, he said he was "entertaining others", but wanted us to be "friends" wth!😮 In October (anniversary death of my husband) messages again under the guise, "he was checking on me"! I am done stick a fork in Karen!! I had to wean myself from him. I created a Red Flag Bag. I cut strips if red construction paper (the teacher in me) and wrote every negative- direspect, love bombing, discard, controlling, etc. over 60 "red flagged" behaviors. Put all the strips in a baggie, dug a hole and burned the bag!
“Pop!” 😂 I think I’ve watched every one of your videos, Leon. Incredibly helpful, and I think at this point you are much more self-aware then many non-narcissistic men!
It is hard but after they do a number on you and discard you in a vulnerable position after you're worn out, sometimes all you have to hang on to is your dignity. EFF them!
Ghost 👻 Them Stop 🛑 Listening 👂🏽 To Them Block Them, Let It Go What He Said!!!!!!!! Mental Abuse Is The Worse Abuse. Take care of self. Don’t Go Back 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
Narcissists are like vampires they totally drain you.learn from this man he knows exactly what he is saving i have said this before i don't know why he is now helping us women but he is telling it like exactly it is make no mistake on that
Yeah you feel it only when it’s done to you. Karma never misses an address. :) Serious mommy and daddy issues. Most narcissists never abandon their toxic parents that is why they never heal and turn into toxic narcissists.
Leon is out here saving lives, mending families/souls and embracing the change agent he was always destined to be. I thank God for you , my dear brother ❤
My silence speaks volumes. There is no smear campaign, hoover, future faking or Jedi mind tricks that will make me care or break no contact with my narcissistic ex again. I made that mistake before, and l had to flee to stop his attempts to suck me back in. Now l know who he truly is, once bitten, twice shy.
I got Hoover after eight years by half the people who discarded me like I was trash. While I was with them and in their lives, I was so kind and giving but such a sickening people pleaser. I just did whatever anyone asked because I felt like I was being a good person. That makes me gag typing it. I can’t believe I just literally was so completely codependent. At some point though the abuse just became too much, not just emotionally but physically I had had enough. Here they all come, Calling “we miss you“ I don’t believe it for a second. I think they would stab me in the back literally if given a chance.Never go back. Ever.
I left and I NEVER Looked Back he married a young lady my Eldest Daughter's Age and I was just glad she took him off my hands.. #GoodRiddensHesYourProblemNOW
He was one sided and want it his way. I finally told him the truth about everything. He then said I'm tired with all of this. That was the last text I got from him. That was the last text I seen period. I went silent and never said another word. Lesson learned
Thanks, Leon! You have truly given me the anthem to rehearse over and over in my speech and thinking. "Let them go!" I heard that. May God give you peace and blessings.
I told him I didn't want a divorce but would sign the papers because I wanted him to be happy. He got the divorce through in three weeks! It was after that, I realized he was a narc. Any feelings I had completely disappeared. Been no contact since the divorce was final! I'm L O N G G O N E! and over a thousand miles away! Sounds like I played him when I didn't even know what I was doing!
So true. My ex would call me and start an argument. I'd fly off the handle and he'd become quiet/calm then tell me that he'd call me back. I could've felt his satisfaction of pissing me off.
Yep, mine did that the day before New Year's Eve and tried to make me pay for it on NYE by not calling me. From that moment on I cut off my emotions and have decided to play the game. I'm an Aquarius and can be as aloof as they come 😂
Absolutely true Leon and outstanding video again! My experience with my soon to be covert narcissist ex husband. Thank you so much for keeping survivors informed.
Leon, I relate the most to your videos. Everything you say describes my soon to be ex husband. He left me... then, begged for me back.. then kept confusing me. He wanted therapy, wanted to take me on dates, and all he would do is bring me high just to drop me on my face. I got tired of the emotional abuse. Last time resulted in a protection order. He will NEVER talk to me again. He walked in court like he can't be touched..... after him getting it dismissed by his attorney/judge's illegal practices (he is law enforcement and knew how to get out of it). I re-filed & got justice!!! Thank God I'm gone and finalizing the divorce asap!
Truthfully you can help so many people I Was Praying to THE HEAVENLY FATHER yesterday since I been hearing and watching your videos you truly not holding nothing back about those demons we need you in The KINGDOM OF LIGHT 💡 YOU POWERFUL SPIRITUALITY
My ex narc left me and it hurt like hell. I never ever dreamed it could happen. He had a whole lot going on behind my back. Anyway, I told how I felt, and walked away. Silence is all he gets from me, it's been years and I healed from the betrayal.
My silence and no more chasing is 1/2 from healing and 1/2 from just being done and now he is not screaming at me to get out anymore and now is when it would be so easy. Strange how that happens - but I’m just waiting to be able because I’m so tired and so physically run down at this point I just want peace and I cannot have peace with him.
Im naturally built that way. I want nothing to do with them. Its a shame as i view them as a waste of a human life. So much potential. Smdh. Oh well, it is what it is.
Your msg is 💯 accurate. That’s exactly the way narcissists think and behave. Hope all who are dealing with narcissists… watch your video to learn how to deal with a narcissist. Thank you 🙏🏼
Yeah...and here I am..totally feeling empathy for you and thinking "wow" if only my (seperated) husband was so honest...WTH is wrong with me? That someone being honest (or so i presume) makes my stupid heart connect with them? Lord have mercy. Thank you. For the wake up call.
Amazing it's just what has happened. I'm doing exactly that. In process of moving, not sure where, he wants to know. Though he left. So I'm healing slowly and praying. My focus is on what I need to do not him. Thank you Thank for affirming and validating!!
Wow Leon again a great video! It has been now 7 months that i keep no contact but i am still thinking about my ex narc every day. I did couple of healing courses, meditation, yoga etc ...I am still ruminating a lot...BUT as i am listening your videos I am so much lighter I really feel like I could finally let him go out of my mind...thank you❤thank you ❤
Wow I haven't seen you in a long time. Pray ALL is well. Have a Blessed day 🙏🏾♥️ I subscribed my other channel. Now I'm subscribing on this one. God bless you and your family..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️
I'll add this. This goes for family and anyone else. The old "Well, they've always been good to me." I'm out. I do not associate with anyone who chooses to have a relationship with anyone who has treated anyone like crap, abused or harmed them deliberately. I don't care who they are. My daughter went back to the scumbag who severely and permanently injured me and she took my grandson away from me. Five years later, I'm dying from cancer. She found out. Surprise! She uses my grandson to text me on my birthday. The boy didn't know when my birthday was. She has ignored my very existence for five years. She needs her head examined if she thinks I ever want to see her face again. She has no shame in using her son. What a scumbag. She's just like her scumbag boyfriend. They deserve each other. Thank you, Leon. I love your content. 😍 I'm off of social media. I live in PEACE!!
Leeeeooooo....Im a watch this VID A TRILLION TIMES.,, Coz this where im @ in my relationship now....THE BEST THING TO DO!!(leo voice) IS Silence/irrelevant...Thats jus wat im do'n its been a year an sum months now an I'll neva take her back on to better thangs now...Bigger thangs
I did exactly that! The attempted Hoover is unreal. And, so is the smear campaign. I will remain committed to no-contact. I’m so much happier without his immature BS!
Yep, you are right about ALL of that!!! Great decision!!!!!
@@leonrwalkerjr As a matter of fact, you look a lot like him-a manly-looking man! That’s a good thing! Have a great day!💕
I'm coining a phrase for when the ending is NOT traumatic, but inspiring:"I'm DANCING out the door"!
@@christielawrence4640 Absolutely! That’s exactly where I am at. The glory goes to God!💕🙏🏼
@@pj2.085 comments of the HAPPY are inspiring and strengthening to many who get stuck,... THANK YOU!!
The best thing you can do for yourself when someone wants to leave you is to. LET THEM!
My silence be for real... my life isn't a game... i done all the chasing i was gonna do... im woke now... when im off you .. im off you... 🥰
It has to be that way!!
On gawd
I can't lie I dropped a few tears out of anger, when he abruptly told me during Thanksgiving out of the blue, that he didn't feel the same way anymore. I cry when I get mad. I was mad, because he waited til a holiday, and he knew I loved holidays, to pull his little stunt. I had told him many times, if you want to be with someone else, tell me. We're grown! We also promised to be honest with each other, and to communicate our feelings. His brutal discard helped me while I was healing. I learned how to control my emotions. I moved, changed my number, and blocked him and his family on everything. I went No Contact, and never looked back! That was eight years ago. Peace is priceless! ❤
@@janiemartin1408 hard and painful but you did the right thing!!
Silence is always the answer to anyone’s mistreatment let them sit with that bad behavior !!! Move forward in life ! Use silent strength and stay happy!
They move right on to someone ... your silence doesn't matter ..
Yep... It don't matter til the other supply leaves them alone as well. Then they will try to come back to you. Sick cycle... Smh
They be prepping the next one way before you go no contact!! Strategic
They won’t be happy or get better ❤
I just don't understand how narcs are NOT prepared for the walk away because they do so much dirt. I feel like my ex covert narc husband actually PUSHED me away, so I appeased him and left. After I was gone, he began calling relatives and friends of friends, anyone. He was asking them my whereabouts. But, what he didn't know was that I was close to no one and quietly left everyone, including family. Dealing with a narcissist spouse really make you do drastic things to survive and out of fear.
Narcs are arrogant and NEVER EVER think we'll leave them.
This is the one right here! I'm ready to leave behind everyone as well to where no one knows my life!
Did exactly as you said, blocked and acted as if he didn't exist, he called and text my family, he talked about me and still I kept no contact, never going back.
Married less then 30days ago and discarded already 😂these humans are a different kind of special! No contact, divorce and never look back 🐎
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Go get it annulled. It gets far worse after marriage. Run!!
ANNULL That mistake.
oh my goodness
Are u serious?
Whew the way my ex narc was looking after I left for two months was crazy 😂 he looked like a cave man! No hair cut! Lost weight😂 all the things he did to me was coming back full circle. And I used to always tell him what goes up must come down. Not to laugh but it is the truth. Silence is golden. Can’t keep loving someone who doesn’t love you back. & action’s speak so much louder than words.
After 5 years of narc abuse my get back was leaving bc he felt the affects to the fullest. While I was getting my life back on track he was miserable, he knew he lost one of the best things that had come into his pathetic life. ❤
Pathetic life is exactly what their life is!
You just told me story expect I did the discard , he thought I was coming back this time. Nope I left 3 yrs ago & never looked back. I was too the best he ever had and will have. And he knew it, I am completely done. Yes , his pathetic miserable life.
Im an empath, i took power back. I sat back , watched listened , then cut him the fck off. Silence truly is golden.
Leon, thank you for such great advice , 😊
he probably waiting for my call or text now that his bday is coming up but he won’t ever hear from me everrrr again. he’s been silent for over a week and it’s been a blessing omg I literally prayed for him to leave me alone 😂
I left my narc I made him look good . I built his self esteem. Now he’s stuck on stupid , once his mask slipped I dipped bye loser . It’s been a month and I’m on silent for good 💯
I know that's right 😂 🙏🏾♥️ I needed that laugh. Have a Blessed night 🙏🏾♥️
Same here what a relief 😂
Yep they accuse you of doing what they are doing 😂😂😂 I’ve become so silent and passive 😊
I did see that hurt child in the narcissist and that’s how I know I won’t be hoovered. I’m the only one that ever saw through to the mask.
He discarded me last week. We work in the same building but i do not see him all the time, its rare, before he left me he texted me and said our friendship is over i dont know you and dont talk to me at work... i saw him the other day and i avoided him completely. -the reason for his discard was because i blocked him i was trying to move on in silence. He caught wind of me blocking him and left me a voicemail and said do not call or text me. I havent texted him since he left me a week ago. I feel like i am FEENING over him Leon, i used to always always beg him to stay.... i used to beg beg beg and this is the first time i havent begged him. I hope i am doing this right.
Stay No Contact and show his ass he aint shyt it worls like a charm 😂
Act like he doesn't exist whenever you see him show no emotion. Just focus on yourself and keep your head up!❤
Good for you💪🏾 I started going to the gym and it helped me to stay no contact. When you exercise you think about nothing. It really releases "feel good" endorphins.
Don’t you dare beg for anyone !!! The feening is coming off the trauma bond !! Go to gym and walk on treadmill 30min-1hr to release endorphins and hijack your brain back!! You can “feel good” In other ways besides this toxic relationship . Once you are healed you will never want to go back!
All of You I love you your comments seriously motivated me I really Appreciate it
When he left/ discarded me, I didn't chase, and he was in a much better place when he left me, than when I first met him😏🚩🏃♀️
I went no contact 3 weeks ago, and it's the best! Now she's begging to come back. She even dumped the new supply in front of me. 😂😂😂
Haha!!! Karma! Im not contacting mine either. He wanted to be friends with me😂 yeah right. He only wants my intense energy. Nope
@@ainahaga energy vampires. Good for you. You're in my prayers. 🙏🏿
What did you do? Told her no? I dont know what to do with mine, he is going to Thailand for 5 months. I cannot have anything to do with him, my heart hurts beeing close to him or to have contact with him! 😳😲
@ainahaga you have to avoid any contact with him at all costs. Understand you were bonded with this invidual, so separating will hurt. You can't get around that. What I can tell you is that it gets easier with time. Just focus on God and keep people who love and care about you around. Block him on everything and no farewells. Let him go away with never seeing or hearing from you.
@@JJfrostt yeah I know! Its for my healing!☺️ He doesnt wanna see me anyway he has met someone else Im sure of it. I discarded him deeply! I was mean to him cause he hurted me deeply! I also hit him. I got angry beeing with him😳 he is NOT a good person!
Honestly I'm genuinely annoyed by my ex, I used to love him so much but the constant betrayal was too much...now he keeps creating fake accounts to stalk me and I wish he could just leave me alone and focus on his new supply
Make ur page private
@@empressb444 I already have but there are so many fake accounts on my followers. He has multiple accounts
This video is a gem seriously it’s the real tea on them in under 4 minutes
I loved when I walked away and he started speaking french to me.
"WE" 😂😂😂 Ain't no we at the end...too much too late.
Silence is gold!!
So true....Silent mode is the best mode when dealing with a narcissist!!!
Yeah, but they get right back strong because they always have more supply.
Been silent for over a month now… my peace is so much better!
Orrr they'll get with someone else and pretend to be happy and not worried about you at all.
Whether they are happy with the next or not is no longer our business though. As long as they are no longer in our lives causing damage. Let them move on in peace. And you do the same.
I'm 13 months zero contact and my life has elevated to levels I couldn't have imagined a year ago when I was being treated badly, crying all the time, and getting physically sick. I never responded to the sub posts made on social media or any attempts to damage my reputation to people. Alot of those same people he talked about me to, knew it didn't sound right. And said he sounds super bitter. His emotions didn't matter to me though. I was too busy growing businesses and moving on. Still am. My character spoke louder than any lie he tells on me. I wished him the life he deserves a year ago, and never looked back. No beef. No hate and No desire to be in his world.
Right. Know for a fact the new person will soon deal with the same thing. Good riddance
Exactly. They thrive on hurting people and it's sad. But hey🤷🏿♀️ they wanted him so bad, they got him.
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yep! 15 months NC and I could careless. I’m glad I never got a hoover and was able to move in peace with no drama
I'm proud of you!!! KEEP GOING 👑
You’re right Leon. Gave him what he wanted. He’s with someone else. He don’t care. He’s with who he wants.
A narcissist will finally leave you alone when you stop communicating with them.
It depends on the narcissist. They don’t all operate the same. Sometimes they’ll up the ante and their behavior becomes worse.
Thank you Leon. He’s flipping the script saying things like “ you never loved me” “ why don’t you talk to me”
lol I am so damn tired of giving him chance after chance and now he can’t handle that I’ve been ignoring his “ no caller ID” calls. It’s been a month and I’m going to continue putting his a$$ on block. I am done and over it.
When he gave the silent treatment and discarded me, i blocked him eveywhere and deleted all
My social media and changed my number! Almost 3 years no contact now.
SILENCE When you had Enough!!! Enough is enough peace of mind is the greatest gift thankful grateful!!!!!
I have a family full it’s getting smaller and smaller as I get older and older! It’s not easy but I’m happy it gets easier to let them go!
Wow
Their demonic souls that wonder the earth
Baby this is the story of my life. My ex hates I have been on this silent mode enjoying my life.
A year ago I got tired of the roll coaster ride "situationship". I felt a shift (neg vibe) from him and I felt like had PTSD.
He told me " it's all in MY HEAD! I stopped all communication. Three months later (March my deceased husband's birthday) he reaches out..I was shocked surprised bc he's so stubborn! He called the communication a "welfare check"..like omg!!
Actually listening to your video, people really tell on themselves all the time. I told him I want closure! He accused me of "I must of had a bad break up and was rebounding"! Yet, he said he was "entertaining others", but wanted us to be "friends" wth!😮 In October (anniversary death of my husband) messages again under the guise, "he was checking on me"!
I am done stick a fork in Karen!!
I had to wean myself from him. I created a Red Flag Bag. I cut strips if red construction paper (the teacher in me) and wrote every negative- direspect, love bombing, discard, controlling, etc. over 60 "red flagged" behaviors. Put all the strips in a baggie, dug a hole and burned the bag!
You Go girl!!! This give me motivation to walk away for good! I hope you are loving your BEST life now!!
“Pop!” 😂
I think I’ve watched every one of your videos, Leon. Incredibly helpful, and I think at this point you are much more self-aware then many non-narcissistic men!
It is hard but after they do a number on you and discard you in a vulnerable position after you're worn out, sometimes all you have to hang on to is your dignity. EFF them!
Ghost 👻 Them
Stop 🛑 Listening 👂🏽 To Them Block Them, Let It Go What He Said!!!!!!!!
Mental Abuse Is The Worse Abuse. Take care of self. Don’t Go Back 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽
Narcissists are like vampires they totally drain you.learn from this man he knows exactly what he is saving i have said this before i don't know why he is now helping us women but he is telling it like exactly it is make no mistake on that
Yeah you feel it only when it’s done to you. Karma never misses an address. :)
Serious mommy and daddy issues. Most narcissists never abandon their toxic parents that is why they never heal and turn into toxic narcissists.
Facts
I’m truly upset Leon ..I really loved him with my full heart …I never expected anything except love ….just love …but I was badly discarded
This just happened to me 😭😭
Leon is out here saving lives, mending families/souls and embracing the change agent he was always destined to be. I thank God for you , my dear brother ❤
Thank you, Angie. I’m trying for sure. It was hard at first but it’s easier to do this now. I appreciate your words.
My silence speaks volumes. There is no smear campaign, hoover, future faking or Jedi mind tricks that will make me care or break no contact with my narcissistic ex again. I made that mistake before, and l had to flee to stop his attempts to suck me back in. Now l know who he truly is, once bitten, twice shy.
Let them Go Lord ❤❤❤
Leon I always gave it right back, he hattttttttteeeeeeedddddd it!!! It made him sooooooo sickkkkkk!!!!!
Facts
3 years silent and 3 years no contact
I got Hoover after eight years by half the people who discarded me like I was trash. While I was with them and in their lives, I was so kind and giving but such a sickening people pleaser. I just did whatever anyone asked because I felt like I was being a good person. That makes me gag typing it. I can’t believe I just literally was so completely codependent. At some point though the abuse just became too much, not just emotionally but physically I had had enough. Here they all come, Calling “we miss you“ I don’t believe it for a second. I think they would stab me in the back literally if given a chance.Never go back. Ever.
That’s not no contact that’s just done
Emotionally unstable men are the worst I can’t stand all those fake bravado macho men bs 😂😂😂
Tell us all the lies and gaslighting etc
I left and I NEVER Looked Back he married a young lady my Eldest Daughter's Age and I was just glad she took him off my hands.. #GoodRiddensHesYourProblemNOW
This man giving the game if you dont like it bounce.
Baby those Hoovers hit and he was pissed 😤 you blocked n deleted boo when I discarded !! I have zero tolerance for disrespect !!
Hoovers for five years straight they never go away!
Not always, had to leave to keep my sanity, was very determined.
This is EXACTLY what just happened with me. Wow. Thank you for sharing this
He was one sided and want it his way. I finally told him the truth about everything. He then said I'm tired with all of this. That was the last text I got from him. That was the last text I seen period. I went silent and never said another word. Lesson learned
Thanks, Leon! You have truly given me the anthem to rehearse over and over in my speech and thinking. "Let them go!" I heard that. May God give you peace and blessings.
I told him I didn't want a divorce but would sign the papers because I wanted him to be happy. He got the divorce through in three weeks! It was after that, I realized he was a narc. Any feelings I had completely disappeared. Been no contact since the divorce was final! I'm L O N G G O N E! and over a thousand miles away! Sounds like I played him when I didn't even know what I was doing!
So true. My ex would call me and start an argument. I'd fly off the handle and he'd become quiet/calm then tell me that he'd call me back. I could've felt his satisfaction of pissing me off.
Yep, mine did that the day before New Year's Eve and tried to make me pay for it on NYE by not calling me. From that moment on I cut off my emotions and have decided to play the game. I'm an Aquarius and can be as aloof as they come 😂
Yup leave them and pay them dust !!!
Absolutely true Leon and outstanding video again!
My experience with my soon to be covert narcissist ex husband.
Thank you so much for keeping survivors informed.
Excellent leon
Leon, I relate the most to your videos. Everything you say describes my soon to be ex husband. He left me... then, begged for me back.. then kept confusing me. He wanted therapy, wanted to take me on dates, and all he would do is bring me high just to drop me on my face. I got tired of the emotional abuse. Last time resulted in a protection order. He will NEVER talk to me again. He walked in court like he can't be touched..... after him getting it dismissed by his attorney/judge's illegal practices (he is law enforcement and knew how to get out of it). I re-filed & got justice!!! Thank God I'm gone and finalizing the divorce asap!
Wooooooow!!!!! Thank God for refiling!!!!! I know you feel like a brand new woman!!!
Once you manage to get out delete, block do what you need to do to find your peace.
You did the best you could with them now its your time.
That’s exactly what is happening now and I’m still staying silent ❤❤❤
Your video have healed me! Thank you Leon!
Truthfully you can help so many people I Was Praying to THE HEAVENLY FATHER yesterday since I been hearing and watching your videos you truly not holding nothing back about those demons we need you in The KINGDOM OF LIGHT 💡 YOU POWERFUL SPIRITUALITY
God Bless you Leon and thank you.
You're correct my husband said all of rhat now he doesn't want to sign for a divorce
Thank u so much I'm in no contact mode right now silence is key to my success. Thank u again for sharing the TRUTH
My ex narc left me and it hurt like hell. I never ever dreamed it could happen. He had a whole lot going on behind my back. Anyway, I told how I felt, and walked away. Silence is all he gets from me, it's been years and I healed from the betrayal.
My silence and no more chasing is 1/2 from healing and 1/2 from just being done and now he is not screaming at me to get out anymore and now is when it would be so easy. Strange how that happens - but I’m just waiting to be able because I’m so tired and so physically run down at this point I just want peace and I cannot have peace with him.
Im naturally built that way.
I want nothing to do with them.
Its a shame as i view them as a waste of a human life. So much potential. Smdh.
Oh well, it is what it is.
Excellent video..I'm breaking the like button
Your msg is 💯 accurate. That’s exactly the way narcissists think and behave.
Hope all who are dealing with narcissists… watch your video to learn how to deal with a narcissist.
Thank you 🙏🏼
Good content Leon!!
thanks you very much brother ❤
Yeah...and here I am..totally feeling empathy for you and thinking "wow" if only my (seperated) husband was so honest...WTH is wrong with me? That someone being honest (or so i presume) makes my stupid heart connect with them? Lord have mercy. Thank you. For the wake up call.
HOORAY!! IM SO GLAD I GOT OF THIS GUY😄👑🙏🏾📖
Yup been through it all… 💯💯💯
Amazing it's just what has happened. I'm doing exactly that.
In process of moving, not sure where, he wants to know. Though he left. So I'm healing slowly and praying. My focus is on what I need to do not him. Thank you
Thank for affirming and validating!!
Facts!!!
Thank You!!!
Funny, they LOVE to give it though-in spades! I listen to this whenever I get the urge to reach out to them. It’s a waste of energy and life!
I appreciate you for sharing your story on unfiltered. I pray you continue your healing journey! Gods can conquer and heal all. God bless ❤
Wow Leon again a great video! It has been now 7 months that i keep no contact but i am still thinking about my ex narc every day. I did couple of healing courses, meditation, yoga etc ...I am still ruminating a lot...BUT as i am listening your videos I am so much lighter I really feel like I could finally let him go out of my mind...thank you❤thank you ❤
Thats really good to hear that you are more free now and moving on. It can be hard, yes but you did it!!!
Thanx for this
I've listened to this several times
This absolutely solidifies, I was right with ea action i took & ea action (the ST, NC, GS), all FELT good...so much Peace now❤
Wow I haven't seen you in a long time. Pray ALL is well. Have a Blessed day 🙏🏾♥️ I subscribed my other channel. Now I'm subscribing on this one. God bless you and your family..🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾♥️♥️
In the words of the "Street Poet" ✌️ Two fangers Swangin....deuces!
I really appreciate your channel and honesty, it gives me so much understanding and clarity.
Yeah never chase hahaha
You are sooo right…
"EXCELLENT👌🏽!!"
Thanks again for sharing ❤
Needed this!
Golden
Wow, man. So you are healed narc, or what? Never thought it is possible
I'll add this. This goes for family and anyone else. The old "Well, they've always been good to me." I'm out. I do not associate with anyone who chooses to have a relationship with anyone who has treated anyone like crap, abused or harmed them deliberately. I don't care who they are. My daughter went back to the scumbag who severely and permanently injured me and she took my grandson away from me. Five years later, I'm dying from cancer. She found out. Surprise! She uses my grandson to text me on my birthday. The boy didn't know when my birthday was. She has ignored my very existence for five years. She needs her head examined if she thinks I ever want to see her face again. She has no shame in using her son. What a scumbag. She's just like her scumbag boyfriend. They deserve each other. Thank you, Leon. I love your content. 😍 I'm off of social media. I live in PEACE!!
Thank you for your honesty 🙏🏾
@@lt3074 you’re welcome
Leeeeooooo....Im a watch this VID A TRILLION TIMES.,, Coz this where im @ in my relationship now....THE BEST THING TO DO!!(leo voice) IS Silence/irrelevant...Thats jus wat im do'n its been a year an sum months now an I'll neva take her back on to better thangs now...Bigger thangs
Ugh this guy I deal with his behavior is sickening
, I believe you and he wont get better unless he truly wants to.
@leonrwalkerjr thank you keep up the great work Leon.