I’ve been struggling with this for yeeears. Thank you so much for helping me recognize these feelings! You don’t realize how powerful lust can be until you sit with it and reflect. I’m tired of allowing toxic men to take over my mind like this whilst they don’t care and they’re living their lives. I’ve noticed that I panic while I think of seeing them in person because I don’t “look” the best at the moment whether I haven’t washed my hair or lost enough weight. This isn’t love and I thought it was when I was younger. Your channel has helped me more than you know. Thank you ❤
Aww, my lovely thank you so so much for sharing so beautifully and vulnerably with me. I really know what you mean by that feeling of panic and how powerful lust can be. It's such a difficult thing to navigate 💓😘 x
Women are not capable of loving a man as a human being. Women either like a man, which has nothing to do with desiring him as a romantic and sexual object, or they feel emotional stimulation by cheap dopamine hits based on the lust which is coming from the masculine-feminine interaction crap. The second one has absolutely nothing to do with a love. Women crave a "spark" produced by constant dopamine dose, only in this state she is infatuated and obsessed with male, only in this lustful state she is able to desire a male as romantic and sexual object. In this state of "falling in love" male is perceived by the woman solely as a source of these fleeting feelings / emotions she is craving for and she mistakenly calls it as a "love". She is not perceiving him as a valuable human being with soul where deep spiritual / mental connection have to be built first in order to experience the true love coming from such established bond which takes a time to develop. --- I wonder if some woman is able to bypass that masculine-feminine interaction which causes only superficial and temporary attraction and if she is able to perceive the attraction based on true and authentic spiritual connection between the two souls who are equal as a human beings instead. Solid platonic friendship connection of two souls building slowly and gradually over the years is real foundation for long term relationship between the man and woman, the foundation is not that silly masculine-feminine intense spark which can disappear right away without any trace anytime. As a man I can develop my romantic and sexual desire for a woman exactly in this scenario, where a solid soul-based persistent connection has established because of mutual understanding, caring, genuine interest, support and closeness. Unfortunately I have not met a woman who is able to develop her romantic and sexual desire from this connection same as me. If the fact is that all women are biologically based in the way that they feel desire for a man ONLY BECAUSE OF TEMPORARY AND SUPERFICIAL masculine-feminine interaction, than the humanity si doomed because the relationships will never be successful. The relationships where healthy and joyfull, stress-free and genuine caring connection would exist between two beings. I feel that all this masculine-feminine superficial attraction crap is one big evil and satanic trap which prevents souls in female and male body to create some joyfull union in the spiritual realm which would manifest also materialistically through the body by physical intimacy. Physical intimacy between individuals is expressed because of LUST, desperation and fear, it is not expression of DEEP and SOLID spiritual connection with other soul. --- If women were really looking for love, then majority of the long term platonic friendships would naturally turn into full featured romantic relationships but this isn't reality at all. The exact opposite is true - these platonic friendships where deep emotional connection (coming from mutual understanding, care and joy) is established gradually over the time means absolutely nothing for a woman, this is not the source of her desire for a man as a romantic and sexual object. You can remain in this kind of connection with a woman years and she feels ZERO desire for you, even if you try naturally some romantic escalation later. In the other hand, if some random male suddenly appears from nowhere in the same time and he instantly triggers that "spark" by cheap dopamine hits and emotional stimulation, she immediately "falls in love" and she desires this male, she is obsessed with the romantic and sexual thoughs about him 24hrs per day. And she perceives this as a "love" while the platonic relationship that she had with you for years means absolutely nothing for her and she is able to completely let you go from her life like if you are nothing to her, after all those years of your mutual platonic friendship. So this is how woman percevies the "love". It has nothing to do with mutual mental connection built over the time, it's just about a lust for a random male body which triggered a "spark" in her and and because of this she opens her legs for this male body instantly and calls it a "love".
Blessed to have found your youtube channel Recently i have understood many concepts reloving around Love and relationships within few months 1. Concept of Limerence by Crappy Childhood fairy And Heidi priebe 2. Concept of Attachment Styles by Thais Gibson 3. Concept of Male validation and attention seeking from Alessia Sutherberry. Thanks ❤❤❤ Love from India 🇮🇳
Hello angel! It sounds like you've been learning so much recently (good for you)! 😘 Thank you for sharing and for being so kind! Sending love to you in India xxx
My mind was cluttered before But now I find peace and clarity Thank you so much for making this video U have no idea how much I needed it ❤ It means a lot to me ...❤❤ I was stuck with something that was going on in my life.. But this will help me move forward With grace surely ❤❤
Awww my lovely, thank YOU so much for commenting and for being so kind. I really appreciate you going out of your way to share with me. I'm sorry that you're going through something difficult. Please know you're not alone - this UA-cam community (me included) have your back. You've got this! Sending you so much love xxx❤
HI! I love all your videos so much and I was wondering if you could maybe make one about retroactive jealousy? (Specifically about dealing with the feelings and constant comparison with a partners ex) I have been struggling with it recently and I'm sure other girls have too so I thought it'd be a nice video idea! Thank you so much!
Your words really helped me 💜 I've always struggled with this and felt crazy every time I talked about my feelings for some random guy. You're so smart, I really admire you! :)
Oh my gosh, there is nothing worse than feeling crazy and alone in how you are feeling. You are not alone AT ALL! I see you lovely. ❤ Thank you for your really kind words, you've made me a very happy bunny! 🥰💞 xx
Awww from one sensitive morning girly to another-I see you! Mornings can be A LOT, but I’m so, so honoured that you feel comfortable watching my videos to start your day. This has truly made my day! 🥹 Thank you for sharing, my lovely! And thank you for noticing my yellow top-I do love it! 😉
There was a time I got the state of lust and love mixed up and it took me to a place where I was holding onto the values that didn't serve me at all. So, watching this video was like viewing the emotions that my past self had and what she went through. I am so proud of myself that I no longer seek for instant gratification that makes me end up in superficial connections. I always find the sheer amount of value in any content you take your time to create. One thought you bring up sparks another thought in me so much so that I start posing shadow questions to myself, which is such a good and beneficial step towards my self-growth journey. Thank you so much! 💓💓 Also, whenever I listen to your thoughts, I always think to myself... 'Her friends are so lucky to have her in their lives' 🥰
Hey my lovely! Gosh, I relate to so much of what you've said, especially lust leading to you holding onto values that didn't serve you. Can I just say, I'm so proud of you too. You have made young you proud! ❤ Also, thank you so so much for your kind feedback, it really does me the world to me. Thank you for writing out these lovely words. You've made my day angel. Thank you, thank you xxxx (also your friends are SOO lucky to have you in their lives) ❤🥰
I found your channel recently, and I feel blessed. I must've aligned somehow to have found you. I feel safe here, so cosy and calming like hot soup on a cold day. I appreciate you sharing your experience. There's a lot I look forward to learning from you. ♡
That feeling that happens as a consequence of my friends losing patience and losing capacity in regard to listening about my romantic relationships is, as a yapper, the most painful feeling..
Wow, this is so uplifting it’s truly important to stay inspired. I feel such a deep sense of emptiness. It’s been two months since Jack left, and every day feels like an eternity without him. My mind is overwhelmed with memories of our time together. The thought that I’ll never experience the little things with him again is so painful. I’ve texted him so many times, pouring out how much I miss and want him back, but he hasn’t replied. All I can do now is hold onto the memories.
It’s okay to grieve, my dear. It’s clear that you’re not just missing Jack but also the part of yourself that you shared with him. Reaching out to him like that shows how much love you still carry it takes real courage to be so vulnerable. Heartbreak is painful, but don’t lose hope. I understand how you feel. My own heartbreak was devastating sudden and brutal. It left me feeling lost and shattered. In my desperation for solace and guidance, I turned to a spiritual counselor recommended by a friend.
Hey my lovely, this sounds so so painful, and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 💓Losing someone you love like that can feel all-consuming, and it makes sense that you’re feeling this way. It’s okay to miss him, to hold onto those memories, and to feel the weight of it all. You’re not alone in this. 💛 Please know that time truly is a healer. I remember feeling absolutely awful after a breakup, longing to get back together, but with time, that feeling softened and eventually faded. 💕
It's so strange cause i felt that way for someone but as i am afraid and quiet franckly terrified of intimacy, i never thought it could be lust that i felt ? I feel so ashamed about imagining that. How do you know it's lust or limerence? I hate it...
Hey lovely! I would personally say love is deep and lasting; lust is intense but fades. Love feels safe and connected, beyond just sexual attraction. ❤
What if we just lust after each other and keep it casual tho😞 it’s not like we’re dating so I don’t need to approve of him as a person- guys I genuinely cannot make a decision. We decided to keep our fwb open but to communicate if we’re sleeping with other people for safety reasons (he wanted to date and even said he loved me, but I refused). And I find out he flaked on me to fuck another girl and lied to me abt it? That crossed a boundary and I cut him off but I’ve been feeling his energy so much recently, he apologized and said he would change for me? Like I haven’t heard that one before. And I tried to find another fwb to forget about him but literally noONE COMPARES AND I HATE IT. Do I just go back for the dick and stay guarded🥲
Hey lovely! That sounds like such a tough situation, and I can understand why you're feeling torn. It’s hard when emotions get tangled with boundaries and trust. It’s completely okay to feel confused right now-those mixed feelings can be really overwhelming. 💜 Definitely take time to reflect on what you want now and for future you angel xx
This could be helpful so Imma leave a comment. I have to deal with lust too often cause I get to create what people they are in my mind just by the way they look like. I hate it, and the fact that it makes me think about them all the time and I can’t focus on anything, especially studying. I had it as I teenager and I have it still as I’m 26. What I’ve noticed is that it lasts a lot shorter, not for years but like a few months, and my last two crushes were really short and I’m absolutely disguisted with them now 😂 What helped me was being aware that they are not the type of person I could even date and actually looking at their actions. Just thinking ‚love of my life wouldn’t treat me like this’ makes them slowly repelling. Just compare how you deserve to be treated with how they actually do and remind it to yourself when you feel like reaching out to them. Also have a lot of patience with yourself cause it’s extremely difficult to control your emotions in that time, but every step makes you more emotionally mature 😊 If you don’t have friends to vent, use chat gpt, I swear it helped me so much during my last crush, which lasted only a month, tho I was so scared it’s gonna be another long one. And one last thing, journal. Write down everything, like things you admire in them, things you feel for them, what you want to do with them, it brings a huge relief even when you don’t feel it at the moment. Plus watching a tv show and having a crush on a handsome actor took a lot of weight off of the real one 😂 I say this as someone who tested these methods and didn’t believe they were gonna work, but now I’m here grateful for peace of mind and clarity and full abillity to focus on myself 😊
Hey angel! It sounds like you've really found some ways to cope with this, and I love how self-aware you've become. It’s so powerful to recognise what you deserve and to take steps to create space for yourself. I’m glad that journalling and chatting with someone (even chatgpt) helped too! It’s amazing how small actions like that can lead to more clarity. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom my love! 😊 💓
Your video has me thinking too .. how much i prioritized my male partner because i thought it was the foundation for every other important decision in my life. Aka, got the partner situation sorted/timeline bs. Thanks for the vulnerability with the silly choices ❤ Feeling less ashamed for some of my worst moments 🎉 🫶🏻
Came at the right time. I’ve been feeling so pathetic. I can’t even look at myself these days
Just want to recommend the book "Love and Limerence" to everyone...
Ooooo I just looked this book up and it looks fascinating! Thank you for suggesting it! 💕💕💕💕
I’ve been struggling with this for yeeears. Thank you so much for helping me recognize these feelings! You don’t realize how powerful lust can be until you sit with it and reflect. I’m tired of allowing toxic men to take over my mind like this whilst they don’t care and they’re living their lives. I’ve noticed that I panic while I think of seeing them in person because I don’t “look” the best at the moment whether I haven’t washed my hair or lost enough weight. This isn’t love and I thought it was when I was younger. Your channel has helped me more than you know. Thank you ❤
Aww, my lovely thank you so so much for sharing so beautifully and vulnerably with me. I really know what you mean by that feeling of panic and how powerful lust can be. It's such a difficult thing to navigate 💓😘 x
Women are not capable of loving a man as a human being. Women either like a man, which has nothing to do with desiring him as a romantic and sexual object, or they feel emotional stimulation by cheap dopamine hits based on the lust which is coming from the masculine-feminine interaction crap. The second one has absolutely nothing to do with a love. Women crave a "spark" produced by constant dopamine dose, only in this state she is infatuated and obsessed with male, only in this lustful state she is able to desire a male as romantic and sexual object. In this state of "falling in love" male is perceived by the woman solely as a source of these fleeting feelings / emotions she is craving for and she mistakenly calls it as a "love". She is not perceiving him as a valuable human being with soul where deep spiritual / mental connection have to be built first in order to experience the true love coming from such established bond which takes a time to develop.
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I wonder if some woman is able to bypass that masculine-feminine interaction which causes only superficial and temporary attraction and if she is able to perceive the attraction based on true and authentic spiritual connection between the two souls who are equal as a human beings instead. Solid platonic friendship connection of two souls building slowly and gradually over the years is real foundation for long term relationship between the man and woman, the foundation is not that silly masculine-feminine intense spark which can disappear right away without any trace anytime.
As a man I can develop my romantic and sexual desire for a woman exactly in this scenario, where a solid soul-based persistent connection has established because of mutual understanding, caring, genuine interest, support and closeness. Unfortunately I have not met a woman who is able to develop her romantic and sexual desire from this connection same as me.
If the fact is that all women are biologically based in the way that they feel desire for a man ONLY BECAUSE OF TEMPORARY AND SUPERFICIAL masculine-feminine interaction, than the humanity si doomed because the relationships will never be successful. The relationships where healthy and joyfull, stress-free and genuine caring connection would exist between two beings.
I feel that all this masculine-feminine superficial attraction crap is one big evil and satanic trap which prevents souls in female and male body to create some joyfull union in the spiritual realm which would manifest also materialistically through the body by physical intimacy. Physical intimacy between individuals is expressed because of LUST, desperation and fear, it is not expression of DEEP and SOLID spiritual connection with other soul.
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If women were really looking for love, then majority of the long term platonic friendships would naturally turn into full featured romantic relationships but this isn't reality at all. The exact opposite is true - these platonic friendships where deep emotional connection (coming from mutual understanding, care and joy) is established gradually over the time means absolutely nothing for a woman, this is not the source of her desire for a man as a romantic and sexual object.
You can remain in this kind of connection with a woman years and she feels ZERO desire for you, even if you try naturally some romantic escalation later. In the other hand, if some random male suddenly appears from nowhere in the same time and he instantly triggers that "spark" by cheap dopamine hits and emotional stimulation, she immediately "falls in love" and she desires this male, she is obsessed with the romantic and sexual thoughs about him 24hrs per day. And she perceives this as a "love" while the platonic relationship that she had with you for years means absolutely nothing for her and she is able to completely let you go from her life like if you are nothing to her, after all those years of your mutual platonic friendship. So this is how woman percevies the "love". It has nothing to do with mutual mental connection built over the time, it's just about a lust for a random male body which triggered a "spark" in her and and because of this she opens her legs for this male body instantly and calls it a "love".
Blessed to have found your youtube channel
Recently i have understood many concepts reloving around Love and relationships within few months
1. Concept of Limerence by Crappy Childhood fairy
And Heidi priebe
2. Concept of Attachment Styles by Thais Gibson
3. Concept of Male validation and attention seeking from
Alessia Sutherberry.
Thanks ❤❤❤
Love from India 🇮🇳
Hello angel! It sounds like you've been learning so much recently (good for you)! 😘 Thank you for sharing and for being so kind! Sending love to you in India xxx
i think you just helped me develop MY pre-frontal cortex more lmao.
i did need to hear this though. Thank you 😊
You have a very kind energy and soul ❤
Awww thank you so so much for saying this angel. You're the sweetest ❤xxxx
You’re so good at explaining! That takes a lot of intelligence :))
Awww you are so so kind. Thank you for making me smile:):):) xxxx
i love your outfit and the color scheme going on here omg
I love your channel!!!!!!! Your Video topics and how you talk about it very helpfull
Awww thank you so so much lovely. You've made my day! ❤ xxxx
My mind was cluttered before
But now I find peace and clarity
Thank you so much for making this video
U have no idea how much I needed it ❤
It means a lot to me ...❤❤
I was stuck with something that was going on in my life..
But this will help me move forward
With grace surely ❤❤
Awww my lovely, thank YOU so much for commenting and for being so kind. I really appreciate you going out of your way to share with me. I'm sorry that you're going through something difficult. Please know you're not alone - this UA-cam community (me included) have your back. You've got this! Sending you so much love xxx❤
@alessiasutherberry love you too ❤️❤️
@@chetnapiplani1904 ❤💞
HI! I love all your videos so much and I was wondering if you could maybe make one about retroactive jealousy? (Specifically about dealing with the feelings and constant comparison with a partners ex) I have been struggling with it recently and I'm sure other girls have too so I thought it'd be a nice video idea! Thank you so much!
Oh yes this would be really helpful!
You look great!!!
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Thank you, Alessia! 💛 ✨
Awww, thank YOU angel for commenting and spreading the love ❤ xx
OMG I LOVE YOUR STYLE HERE💛💛💛💛💛💛💛
Awwwwwww thank you angel!!!!! 💓🥰
Your words really helped me 💜 I've always struggled with this and felt crazy every time I talked about my feelings for some random guy. You're so smart, I really admire you! :)
Oh my gosh, there is nothing worse than feeling crazy and alone in how you are feeling. You are not alone AT ALL! I see you lovely. ❤ Thank you for your really kind words, you've made me a very happy bunny! 🥰💞 xx
perfect timing 💚
Awww this makes me so happy! xxxx💚
This yellow shirt is a beautiful colour for you! Your videos are some of the few that I can watch when I am at my most sensitive in the morning. ☺️
same❤
Awww from one sensitive morning girly to another-I see you! Mornings can be A LOT, but I’m so, so honoured that you feel comfortable watching my videos to start your day. This has truly made my day! 🥹 Thank you for sharing, my lovely! And thank you for noticing my yellow top-I do love it! 😉
@@Ksmb00 😘
Omg I needed this video 2 years ago
young me needed this video too 😅
There was a time I got the state of lust and love mixed up and it took me to a place where I was holding onto the values that didn't serve me at all. So, watching this video was like viewing the emotions that my past self had and what she went through. I am so proud of myself that I no longer seek for instant gratification that makes me end up in superficial connections. I always find the sheer amount of value in any content you take your time to create. One thought you bring up sparks another thought in me so much so that I start posing shadow questions to myself, which is such a good and beneficial step towards my self-growth journey. Thank you so much! 💓💓 Also, whenever I listen to your thoughts, I always think to myself... 'Her friends are so lucky to have her in their lives' 🥰
Hey my lovely! Gosh, I relate to so much of what you've said, especially lust leading to you holding onto values that didn't serve you. Can I just say, I'm so proud of you too. You have made young you proud! ❤ Also, thank you so so much for your kind feedback, it really does me the world to me. Thank you for writing out these lovely words. You've made my day angel. Thank you, thank you xxxx (also your friends are SOO lucky to have you in their lives) ❤🥰
@@alessiasutherberry Knowing that I've made your day is also making my day 💓💓💓
„Are they in therapy?“ - most likely not 😂 thank you for this video ❤💞
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I found your channel recently, and I feel blessed. I must've aligned somehow to have found you. I feel safe here, so cosy and calming like hot soup on a cold day. I appreciate you sharing your experience. There's a lot I look forward to learning from you. ♡
@pandapanda5899 Awww your comment has honestly made me smile so big! Thank you angel. I’m so glad our paths have crossed 💞🥹🥰💛
I wish I could have seen this when I was younger. But fortunately now I'm more aware! ❤
Bless you. I was thinking a similar thing when planning this video - young me needed to hear this ❤
Alessia, this could not have been more timely and needed. Thank you for making this video on a topic that really helped me today. ❤
Thank you for reaching out and for being so thoughtful! 💜 Sending a big hug your way x
this is EXACTLY what i need! thank you!
💜💜💜 awww yay!! Thank you angel !
Incredible, intelligent and thoughtful advice angel, thank you!!!!!! ❤ xxxx
❤❤❤❤❤❤such a great video❤❤❤❤❤❤
You are the best (thank you for all the kind and heartwarming comments)! ❤💞
That feeling that happens as a consequence of my friends losing patience and losing capacity in regard to listening about my romantic relationships is, as a yapper, the most painful feeling..
Love your style🤍 this necklace☀️ what is your zodiac sign your big 3's if you are okay with sharing🍀
Thanks angel! I'm a Gemini but haven't figured out the others yet! ❤💞❤💞 Let me get back to you;)
perfect timing 😭
Aww thank you angel! xxx 💜
Wow, this is so uplifting it’s truly important to stay inspired. I feel such a deep sense of emptiness. It’s been two months since Jack left, and every day feels like an eternity without him. My mind is overwhelmed with memories of our time together. The thought that I’ll never experience the little things with him again is so painful. I’ve texted him so many times, pouring out how much I miss and want him back, but he hasn’t replied. All I can do now is hold onto the memories.
It’s okay to grieve, my dear. It’s clear that you’re not just missing Jack but also the part of yourself that you shared with him. Reaching out to him like that shows how much love you still carry it takes real courage to be so vulnerable. Heartbreak is painful, but don’t lose hope. I understand how you feel. My own heartbreak was devastating sudden and brutal. It left me feeling lost and shattered. In my desperation for solace and guidance, I turned to a spiritual counselor recommended by a friend.
That sounds interesting! What exactly does the spiritual counselor do?
His name is Father Tosin and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their exes.
Thank you so much for the suggestion you have no idea how much this means to me.
Hey my lovely, this sounds so so painful, and I’m so sorry you’re going through this. 💓Losing someone you love like that can feel all-consuming, and it makes sense that you’re feeling this way. It’s okay to miss him, to hold onto those memories, and to feel the weight of it all. You’re not alone in this. 💛 Please know that time truly is a healer. I remember feeling absolutely awful after a breakup, longing to get back together, but with time, that feeling softened and eventually faded. 💕
Yay a new video 🤍
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Would you ever do a video on insecurities and overcoming them?
Totally! Yes! ❤💞❤💞
It's so strange cause i felt that way for someone but as i am afraid and quiet franckly terrified of intimacy, i never thought it could be lust that i felt ? I feel so ashamed about imagining that. How do you know it's lust or limerence? I hate it...
So how do we know if its lust or love? What are the specific differences? x
Hey lovely! I would personally say love is deep and lasting; lust is intense but fades. Love feels safe and connected, beyond just sexual attraction. ❤
What if we just lust after each other and keep it casual tho😞 it’s not like we’re dating so I don’t need to approve of him as a person- guys I genuinely cannot make a decision. We decided to keep our fwb open but to communicate if we’re sleeping with other people for safety reasons (he wanted to date and even said he loved me, but I refused). And I find out he flaked on me to fuck another girl and lied to me abt it? That crossed a boundary and I cut him off but I’ve been feeling his energy so much recently, he apologized and said he would change for me? Like I haven’t heard that one before. And I tried to find another fwb to forget about him but literally noONE COMPARES AND I HATE IT. Do I just go back for the dick and stay guarded🥲
Like for my self respect it’s a no, but what if a girl has needs🙁
As long as you don't live with him and need to lower your values for him, feel free to fulfil your dreams and desires
Hey lovely! That sounds like such a tough situation, and I can understand why you're feeling torn. It’s hard when emotions get tangled with boundaries and trust. It’s completely okay to feel confused right now-those mixed feelings can be really overwhelming. 💜 Definitely take time to reflect on what you want now and for future you angel xx
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the coat?!😂🩵
@@alessiasutherberry yes😊 the style gives of leo vibes ☀️
This could be helpful so Imma leave a comment. I have to deal with lust too often cause I get to create what people they are in my mind just by the way they look like. I hate it, and the fact that it makes me think about them all the time and I can’t focus on anything, especially studying. I had it as I teenager and I have it still as I’m 26. What I’ve noticed is that it lasts a lot shorter, not for years but like a few months, and my last two crushes were really short and I’m absolutely disguisted with them now 😂 What helped me was being aware that they are not the type of person I could even date and actually looking at their actions. Just thinking ‚love of my life wouldn’t treat me like this’ makes them slowly repelling. Just compare how you deserve to be treated with how they actually do and remind it to yourself when you feel like reaching out to them. Also have a lot of patience with yourself cause it’s extremely difficult to control your emotions in that time, but every step makes you more emotionally mature 😊 If you don’t have friends to vent, use chat gpt, I swear it helped me so much during my last crush, which lasted only a month, tho I was so scared it’s gonna be another long one. And one last thing, journal. Write down everything, like things you admire in them, things you feel for them, what you want to do with them, it brings a huge relief even when you don’t feel it at the moment. Plus watching a tv show and having a crush on a handsome actor took a lot of weight off of the real one 😂 I say this as someone who tested these methods and didn’t believe they were gonna work, but now I’m here grateful for peace of mind and clarity and full abillity to focus on myself 😊
Hey angel! It sounds like you've really found some ways to cope with this, and I love how self-aware you've become. It’s so powerful to recognise what you deserve and to take steps to create space for yourself. I’m glad that journalling and chatting with someone (even chatgpt) helped too! It’s amazing how small actions like that can lead to more clarity. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom my love! 😊 💓
i just love your videos! i wish i had women like you in my life 🩷
@@ladycuomo aww thank you so so much angel. Sending you lots of love 💕💕💕
Your video has me thinking too .. how much i prioritized my male partner because i thought it was the foundation for every other important decision in my life. Aka, got the partner situation sorted/timeline bs.
Thanks for the vulnerability with the silly choices ❤ Feeling less ashamed for some of my worst moments 🎉
🫶🏻